How To Talk To Your Crush in Front of Her Friends
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- Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
- Do you ever struggle with talking to your crush when you see them with a group of people? It can be scary to talk to them, especially if you don't know if their friends will accept you, so what can you do? In this video I'll share my tips and strategy for approaching the group, winning them over and talking to your crush.
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QUESTION: Have you ever tried talking to your crush in front of their friends? If you haven't, what's holding you back from doing it?
The Josh Speaks I have but, it always fails because, their practically killing each other.
I don't have a real crush at the moment , but.. if I had.. I would NOT talk in front of her friends.
- There are too many people who listen
- You can tell more if you're alone
- She'd maybe give a different answer ( a better one ) because her friends would maybe laugh at her for liking someone who is not that cool for her friends
- And you're not that nervous
Sir Gold yeah true I agree sometimes it gets awkward when you talk in front of your christians friends
I asked out 2 girls in my life time in front of their friends, and they both said no. But I'm pretty proud I did it lol.
I have not. I am scared that by going i,to their group, I will be interrupting them, which is a bad thing. I don't want to be that guy who breaks up a conversation.
*WALKS TO HER AND HER GROUP*
"Hey guys, I need your opinion on something."
*GETS ROASTED BY THE GROUP*
fuck
Ur dead
I just cant
"Need my cock rated, can you guys help me out?"
@@steven_003 lmao🤣🤣🤣
So my crush threw a chair at me and said "Get away from me!" Am I in?
+Eamonn K hmm did the chair leave any bruises?
Not a ninja ouch
Eamonn K yes sir
Eamonn K You practically swimming in it my guy.
Eamonn K bro that’s girl code for crushing on you
It is easy to talk 2 my crush 1 on 1 but friends ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE
Emilio Bell i feel ya im in the same situation
Looks like I'm not the only one like that 😳
your not alone
Yeah Emilio I feel ya too
Same broda
This literally couldn't have come at a better time...thank you 😌
+Bailey Glyde haha perfect 😁
Bailey Glyde stfu
@diabolical b.n.p stfu
@@xnortheast1106 stfu
@diabolical b.n.p nah I just want the whole reply section to be filled up with stfu's it would be funny
my crush gonna crush me up
lol
+Aloyzas haha dont let them do thatt
The Josh Speaks lol I won't 💥
Brayan Galvanrodriguez She Has A Bf 😞
so if she refuses a phone number, I can still give her a gift?
What held me back was thinking that her friends would think I'm weird to just walk up to them
That’s exactly my problem man
Thanks for this I literally sat on my crushes table in lunch at school today and it went so smooth I’m literally cool with most of them now
nah. i think u fckt up
Update?
mind giving us an update?
Thanks Josh this was a 100% perfect video for me right now haha
+Goldenhockey_33 awesome! Try this technique out and let me know how it goes!
The problem is,
The friends of my crush really hate me
My crush's friends find me quite attractive but I still don't know that she likes me or not Damn these girls are complicated
Same well only one of them
Im friends with one of my crushes friends.
Phil Damian try to catch her alone
It’s ggs then my guy
Yay....
Now I get to talk to my dog.
Dogs are better :)
fear held me back
Hey I finally talked to my crush today and I wanna keep talking to her but I don't know how to get a conversation started
+Jeffrey Variety hey i made this video on getting a conversation going: ua-cam.com/video/G72ZpDXGuyE/v-deo.html
To be honest dude, just ask her things
@@jochyrocks8790 yeah, but if you know them for a while you maybe just don't know what to say to them
Try not to repeat conversations,if you did she’ll notice you are nervous,if she likes you she’ll be happy,if she doesn’t,you know...
Finally AFTER A YEAR,THIS IS WHAT IVE BEEN WAITING FOR
I did this, it worked perfectly, all was well, but I did it too late in the year to become good friends with all of them.
Summer holidays came around and I haven’t spoken to her. However 2 of her friends are now mutually friends with me now, which is a start.
K so I just told her yesterday that I liked her and she likes me but we are both too nervous to talk to each other. All we give are awkward glances at each other. What should I do?
We are both too nervous to talk to eachother
Clorox Bleach bathe because you are just bleach
Clorox do you watch Adam Lz I swear I've seen u before
Clorox Bleach just belive that she just a friend believe me it really helps
Same asf
My crush is always pretty cool to me, but it changed this week and I feel like she hates me :(.
+argon60 hmm what do you think changed from last week?
What happened? Maybe I can help, or find out how to fix it. (Coming from my opinion and experience)
Mr. Anonymous yeah
Hey when she likes you and is around friends doesn't want to show it so she may not seem more "social" or even cold to u when u are alone she may open up more
I was talking to her in front of her friends and they started giggling and were like so why ya talking to her, and I said out of instinct," I have no one else to talk to." Then my crush looked hurt
Me: oh I didn't mean it like that!
Her: ; (
Mind:FFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!
Mission failed we wil get them next time
If I we you I would not know what to do bruh.And i would be thinking ITS OVER😢😭😢🤤
This is late but why is this so funny😂 hopefully u got it figured out by now mate😁
Xeno JD idiot
OOOF
What if my crush already knows that I like her and there is a weird silence between us??
Sry for not having an answer, because I'm in the same situation (´;︵;`)
Sammmeeee except the whole school knows 😂 I’m just gonna wing it tomorrow
and your videos help me get confidence to speak to her thank you
Jalen Degramnont thats awsome
Omg I'm doomed :/ my friend (that's a girl) texts me all the time she sends me hearts and stuff, a few days ago she told me she was lesbian 😭
Deluxinic Rip
Are you a boy or a girl?
No offense against gays or lesbians , but I just don't understand them
Sir Gold boy
+Deluxinic sorry to hear that, theres nothing wrong with her being a lesbian though if shes attracted to girls and not guys.
What held me back is if I'm going to embarrass myself in front of them or not
+Rayden Lizardo i know how scary that can be, i think whats important to remember is at the end of the day, you're courageous for going after what you want. No matter what people say, they could only wish that they could approach their crush like that.
Impossible in India 😂
Just when I needed it xp
haha same
Awesome I hope it's helpful!
This is me in front of my crush in my dreams 😆 and this is them: 😳
Irl: 🥴 😒
I feel shy and tingling inside makes me feel weird what I want to walk over there
My crush is really open though so she literally talks to anyone she sees 😂. So I try to stay around her so I can talk to her. Also yesterday I was without a partner the teacher called me cool (I'm pretty cool though on the down low) and my crush called me really cool! It may not sound like a lot but it was a lot to me for my crush to call me not just cool......REALLY COOL!
I want to talk to he so bad, before she's taken😫 but I know I can do it 👍🏽
I get so much anxiety from her being in a group of "friends" FML
i want to talk to my crush Im not afraid of being rejected i just dont want to be made fun of by everyone in my school if i get rejected
Hey, i got some advice, but do u got her number tho?
Don't wait for the right time do it now
I think this video is so cool!! I hope this helps a lot of young men! I'm gonna have to check out your other videos.
+mgalvancota thanks! I hope you enjoy the channel!
i know this nice girl but she is older and im to scared to talk or text to her
jordy bro talking to girls alone even older is easy man just walk up give a compliment and then introduce yourself but with friends... I can help ya there
jordy my crush is abit older just be you and you only
0:37-0:46 *OH U GOT ME XD*
It makes it especially weird for me because I am really good friends with her best friend
Same
You're intelligent bro
Thank you
@@TheJoshSpeaks you are welcome 😊
What if my crush is with *1* friend?
Just tell them a joke and try to focus more on your crush
Threesome
Pablo Severino lol
Hey my crush and one of her friends know that I like her. What do I do
RaspyGundam Unicorn Review’s flirt with her and see how she reacts,and their friends have too accept you too so be nice lmao
I WILL go speak to my crush, THANK YOU for telling me this information!
Don't know about you guys, but it's easier for my to talk to my crush in front of her or my friends.
SpyWilliam123 how please give me some ideas !
@@abdelrahmanzalat4155 maybe favorite you tuber
This use to be my problem. I could never approach her but I eventually made friends with her best friend and most of her friends know me. Now I can talk to her along with her best friend.
+Diego Woods thats awesome, thats exactly the kind of stuff im talking about!
i get nervous to talk to my crush and she also gets nervous when we are around our friends but when we are alone we chat a lot and i will ask her to introduce me to her friends
I have trouble with this topic a lot thanks for the tips
same
+XX legitman5 XX no problem, i hope they are helpful
Best advice... just ask one of her friends you think might hate you if she like to roleplay... now she is jealous and you can make ur move... score.
My crush she always stay with her friends that the thing makes me scare
Do a vid about asking out on Valentine's Day
ugh i need to do this by Friday to talk to her ...
Hakitos did you do it. Im tryin to do it but i never get a chance to meet her. The only time i seer he is at lunch with her 3 friends. I am so frightened
@@valerylouis9555 same, but both break + lunch. im too scared to talk to her :c
This is the Joshhhh speakkksss. Watchhingg the Joshh Speaksss
I think my crush likes me she always looks at me and mocks my body language she also stuck her tounge out at me today and did a sexy look
same thing for me
Any update bro?
@@dzlcrd9519 *2 years later*
YOU MAY NOW KISS THE BRIDE
And u failed me... that was code for suck my fucking tongue out of my mouth... .... turn the difficulty down for those early achievements grass hopper.
I wanted to talk to my crush for months I never have time because 1st I am scared 2nd my friend is next to me so it is like impossible to say hi to him.
Edit: my friend would be like ugh what are you doing?
Hahahaha
I just approached him OH NO my friend MY FRIENDS THEY'RE COMING TO KILL ME NOOOOOOOOOOO-
Bro I always want to talk to my crush when I see her but then a voice in my head always tells me not to and I get so nervous so hopefully this helps.
yeah and they all laughed at me then i realized im better off alone
so my crush saw me again and told me to let her go. Is that a sign of improvement???
In one of.my uni class I'm the only guy in group of 4 girls assignment. Problem is I have a crush on three of those girls but everytime I try to talk to 1 one on one the other girls sees and gets jealous and interrupts the convo lol.
this is very helpful but. the reason i cant talk to her infront of her friends is because im too nervous. i dont even care that shes with her friends i just every time i want to ask her out i start feeling the butterflys in my stomach and my brain be like: HEY WHAT U DOING. GET OUT THERE!!!!
I said "This is why we would never get along" then she said okay and moved then never came back
Cool! My friend said my crush easily gets offended and hates swearing. So I have something in common with my crush. It’s just hard to do it since my crush just made this new guy friend.
I get it the guy friend cusses I bet . Me being Christian
Her a Christian me not dating 18 her too her not wanting to be friends
Nah I'm lyin
I'm only with my crush in the exam room surrounded by random students. One of them is her friend. I know everyone in the class and so they do. Will this video will help me in that situation.
Remember its the exam room always with an invigilator.
I gotta admit these are great vids bt wthout u having the courage to walk up to your crush and say anything at all , there's no magic behind it , jst do it or forever hold ur peace, after all it's all up to u and ur mind to act befr it's too late and u regret it
but what happens when you accidentally said no when he ask you out because you were too nervous, and 2 years later you still like them and you really want to ask them out but they're in a huge group...
That's a good question Natalie, I'll definitely make a video about it!
When you said no to a man that's the end of it.
I wouldn't want to abruptly change the flow of conversation because I don't think they would like that; some guy walking into a girly conversation with them talking about girly things:
Me: 'sup *blah blah blah blah*
Them: What the f*** are you f***ing doing here!
It's awkward!
Yessirr she never alone
Dude this helped a lot
My crush does this to me at recess when I’m hanging out with my friends
I have a question Josh how do I text my crush if she never texts me first
KingAlexGaming so true
humor is key
KingAlexGaming if you know that she has a birthday coming up, be like "happy birthday" or just be normal
KingAlexGaming Personally, i would/will ask a question, a conversation starter, like pancakes or waffles, or "hey, i was just wandering, whats your favourite color" or just ask something about her, and DONT SPAM
you say "hi"
just stumbled across this channel and I love it! thanks dude
I'm kinda shy so I never had the opportunity to talk to my crush
If they're doing something interesting, go up to your crush all interested like and have them explain/show what's going on. boom free conversation
QUESTION: Are very attractive girls and popular/hot girls shy as well when it comes to liking a guy? Or are they always confident due to them looking good?
Brandon Knable hot girls are also shy it comes from the inside not the outside
JOSELITO Garcia really? I would of thought they weren't because they are always approached
Brandon Knable thats why nobody aprouched them because everyone think that they have a boyfriend so just go for it
what if their friends giggle a little when they see me try to walk up to them
I have failed because there is too much tension between me and my friends to talk to the girls.
That beginning tho, "Hey Playa's"
Everyone in the comment Section listen carefully!!!!!!!!
Study, Or you have to be like this guy on youtube with literally no job prospects......... Best thing to get from this video by far.
We're in the same entrepreneurship class with my crush and I actually have to answer all the questions the lecturer asks me and I also have to ask questions 😮
All of her friends know I like her... I think she knows too........Yay!!!!!
i like this boy and i always see him in the hall way but he's always around his friends (which are a bunch of other popular, mean girls) and im the kind of shy when im around them. Me and my crush are kind of friends- we talk sometimes but only when im alone with him, like when we walk on the way home since his house is on the way to my house. But most of the time i can't even do that cause he's with his mean popular friends. Im afraid if i try to talk to him around them they might bully me and embarrass me in front of him😢😓😟😖
Hey what happened then I need updates
they will think im feeling close because im not even close to her friends
I find this quite easy even with my friends and her friends
Man you are built different
@@aaditghodke bruh maybe
@@aaditghodke I just practice my confidence
@@aaditghodke you can do it too
So guys, I'm not sure if my crush likes me. She occasionally glances at me in lessons and a few times she has tried to sit next to me, i also saw her watching me doing parkour and smiling, she once got a bit close to me as well, can you tell me what you think. Also I need help talking to girls, if u have a link or any advice please help me.
Thanks for reading and if u can like so u can get more help I would be in awe, cheers.
No I am always shy
underrated channel
What do you do if you and your crush and her friends are on the complete opposite sides of the social hierarchy? Aka me the nerd and her the girl everyone likes with tons of popular friends?
Hey I'll make sure to answer this question this week!
In middle school i was mostly ignored. No friends, so, kind of a loner. I start working on myself. Every morning, I look at the mirror, and fool myself that Im amazing.
I faked it till I made it, and you can too.
I got a bellyache just thinking about talking to him and his friends
Yeah but the thing is that in my school if a girl asks a boy or the other way around in a group if they can talk to a certain person for a moment everyone determines that u like them it’s just a thing that happens in my school u can’t talk to the oppssite gender privately unless ur in a relationship
I don't think my adult sons care less when there with me as long as he is a great guy ...
That crush might not take you serious if she was cracking jokes with her friends at the time, then you’ll turn into their roasting doll, that’s what i fear tbh
One on one is way better
I'm watching this crush Playlist right now, and I'm wondering if this works with guys too
Ok so I have a situation: my crush and I don’t talk, because we don’t really know each other and I’m really shy. He’s in my gym class and psychology class, but he’s usually with friends in gym and in psych I have friends around me so I’m trying to find the right time to talk to him alone. There’s also another layer to this: I’m gay, but I don’t know if he is also gay. Does anyone have tips about what I can possibly do? I really want to talk to him but I’m pretty shy.
same but im a boy and my crush is a girl. i always try to talk but im way too nervous, and i dont have what it takes to talk to their group, and we rarely talk. they talk to everyone else but not me because we dont really have anywhere to talk, she seems to talk to boys in more private areas, for example, tables with 2 chairs each, if she's next to a boy she talks to them all lesson nearly etc. she does the same with my best friend but we dont talk. you arent alone, im also eager to talk to her :/
@@whitespace_hours you got this man!!! I wrote that comment a long time ago in November of 2019 haha... a lot has changed since then. I’ll give you an update if you’re interested: I crushed on him for a couple of more months and then finally found the courage to just get up and talk to him. When I did that I could instantly tell he wasn’t interested at all and I don’t think he was even gay either which really sucked and I was pretty sad for awhile, but I survived! In August of 2020, I came to college and found the best guy ever and we’re still going strong now! We just celebrated our 7 months together this week ☺️ If I could find someone, you definitely will! There is hope and I promise you that you’re not alone and there is hope out there!!! You got this buddy :)
@@sunnypisces20 thanks, and that's one heck of a story you got there. pretty interesting if you ask me, and again, thanks for the motivation. i just dont think my crush is somewhat interested. but ive got the greatest possible advice my friends could have ever even given me. if you're interested to know more, just reply letting me know.
@@whitespace_hours bro do you have a update.and btw I really have a crush on one girl but she is always with friends and I’m really shy and nervious to approach her and her friends because I just don’t know what to say I don’t know how to start a conversation with her without being awkward
@@Jio_W yeah, actually. So I lost feelings for her and now, due to new school systems, we are completely separated and in different classes now, but I am now searching for someone else. Good luck with your crush! My tip is, act calm and take deep breaths when you feel your heart rate rising. If anyone asks, just say you're going through something and would rather not talk about it. Always works for me.
Every time I see my crush I say hi.
But I'm afraid that it might get annoying and she will start to dislike me :(
Thank you 🙏🏼 life saver
I don't ever want to talk to my crush around her friends because i think her friends would be too busy staring in my face when I'm talking to her >:(
I hate it when people I'm not talking to stare in my face >:(
Hi Josh thank you so much for giving me so much advice you are awesome person
I basicly got friend zoned when I asked out a girl
Most of em call me a “pick me” for just talking to girls in a casual way…🤷♂️
i juat don't want people to say "he likes her" or something and say to people that I like her and people might know and laugh at me or something
What if the group doesn't notice you?
Jonathan Kropp make em notice you
Thank youuuuu!!!❤️🤞🏽💪🏾🙏🏾
well what held me back is that i never had tried to in the past 3 months when school started to do so, im really nervous as always and she looks at me ALOT in a ''attractive'' way and it just makes me more nervous and makes me wonder if shes just doing it for a joke, and i cant i just cant even approach her she's too good for me T_T
Hello josh
I have this crazy story
I'm go one year now this language course,
I'm 25 years old, my female teacher who is 38 old and single liked me and one day she complimented my intelligence because she was surprised when she found out that I speak 6 languages,
Another day she complimented my lean athletic body, she also complimented my discipline and I'm not nice guy nor a bad boy but someone in between them,
She also complimented, she treated my favouritely than students, when we're in middle of the course year she started looking me deeply into my eye and forgetting other students, some times when I look her she blinks very rapidly and I understand little bit about body language,
One day last month we were taking test when she was glancing me I catch her looking me and I make deep eye contact and she started changing her wardrobe and she began talking about sex and relationships and next two weeks I was afraid she may accuse me of rape so I become distant and she started playing with hair while looking at me and I ignored her and a new student came that week who's 19 years old and she started shower him attention and flirtation, touching his arms and shoulders, I thought is she making me jealous ?or she lost my interest ? He doesn't care about her and she doesn't know him a well but she is around him every day and all students noticed her
That she likes him or she's just using him to get my attention
What I wanna to know is she doing this to get my attention or she likes him
Also I heard he has girlfriend and he's very immature compared to me because he's teenager, I even thought she hates me and want to show me how much she hates me by flirting and
Embarrassment because she knows I like her