3 Secrets to Flirting with a Girl WITHOUT Being AWKWARD

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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024

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  • @TheJoshSpeaks
    @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому +5

    Want to know my BEST dating tips for beginners? Check out this playlist: 👇
    ua-cam.com/video/X3jXLTGHgV8/v-deo.html
    QUESTION: Do you ever feel awkward around your crush where you find it impossible to flirt with them? Leave your comment below!

    • @lindenh7337
      @lindenh7337 6 років тому

      Thanks for all the good tips

  • @atlasdisease
    @atlasdisease 6 років тому +83

    I need a Joshbot where everytime I communicate with a person I like, the Joshbot tells me what to do!

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому +13

      Haha that means a lot to me

    • @asjad2002
      @asjad2002 6 років тому +6

      Why are we not funding this?!?!

    • @jasontritz7777
      @jasontritz7777 6 років тому +2

      Totally you can find all the advice you want but when in the moment you forget all of that stuff and just dont know what to do

    • @user-sc8mj5bb6k
      @user-sc8mj5bb6k 5 років тому +1

      *_Can we get a Josh voiceover for Alexa_*

    • @phra2545
      @phra2545 5 років тому

      Josh please invent this 😂 u can make millions off of it haha

  • @myaburrows7990
    @myaburrows7990 3 роки тому +4

    My boys, trust me don’t do the second one. I’m a teen and it’s true to not give us too much or too little attention but you don’t want to say that you guys would never work out. That just shuts the door completely.

    • @myaburrows7990
      @myaburrows7990 3 роки тому +4

      I meant I’m a girl not I’m a teen stupid auto correct

  • @ianc.felicianomendoza2769
    @ianc.felicianomendoza2769 6 років тому +18

    Thanks Josh! I needed this, let's say I'm not an expert when it comes to flirting😂

  • @petrosmixides2843
    @petrosmixides2843 4 роки тому +5

    If you pull it's a high risk of losing her and it will show if she's into you or not.

  • @gboy7warriors121
    @gboy7warriors121 4 роки тому +1

    The one thing about flirting is that I dont want the girl to think I'm fake. If your trying to flirt with a girl by teasing her, then you have to act the same way to your friends. Like act funny in general.

  • @dirtychewbrocca
    @dirtychewbrocca 6 років тому +6

    This is awesome since school just started up and I kinda forgot about my crush and how much I liked her

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому +1

      See that's bound to happen too, summer changes things.

  • @ineedsomesleep1761
    @ineedsomesleep1761 6 років тому +26

    Watched the video, wish I had 5 thumbs for 5 thumbs up!

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому +5

      haha thanks man, I'm glad you liked it

  • @vitte_stinson
    @vitte_stinson Рік тому +1

    You are a badass. The way you teach all this, it’s easier to understand and remember. Thanks Josh 🙌🏻

  • @RecioCulture
    @RecioCulture 6 років тому +19

    So storytime. My crush and I have had a friendship since 4th grade we're currently in 8th. But we've had a rough friendship last year and sort of this year. But today she started talking a lot more to me. Since I'm close friends with her friends I went to talk to them after my after school workout since they were cleaning the gyms concession stand and we were talking about how much I was lifting and I told them I was pressing 100 lbs and she said she's 111 lbs so at some point her best friend lifted/carried her and then she was like let him carry me and I did and I have to say I think I blushed but idk if this means anything or what should I do guys

    • @12yroldfitness22
      @12yroldfitness22 5 років тому

      I feel bad for you-
      You took time to write a long message and no one replies except me-my advice would to try not to like lift weights in front of her cause that gives an impression of being modest and just do what seems natural at the timee

    • @TheRealTaolf
      @TheRealTaolf 4 роки тому +4

      Only 100?

    • @vikramo6994
      @vikramo6994 3 роки тому

      How's 10th btw, im in it too

    • @Rx_Sqx
      @Rx_Sqx Рік тому

      @@TheRealTaolf 😂😂😂

  • @imfine5163
    @imfine5163 3 роки тому +1

    Is it just me or if someone tells me that they're better than me i get very upset with that person...

  • @diegosilerio4554
    @diegosilerio4554 6 років тому +2

    Funny thing about being nervous while flirting with your crush is that you obviously start to shake but your crush will never notice.

  • @Fatlorddude
    @Fatlorddude 6 років тому +4

    I have never flirted with anyone. What does it feel like when flirting with someone?

  • @gabez8
    @gabez8 6 років тому +10

    Josh this came just in time for me lol.

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому +2

      Perfect, I hope it helps!

    • @gabez8
      @gabez8 6 років тому +1

      can you chat on instagram right now Josh?

  • @ZVJMedia
    @ZVJMedia 6 років тому +5

    Thanks for the advice bro

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому

      No problem Jackson, I hope it's helpful

  • @leothebeast4378
    @leothebeast4378 3 роки тому +1

    Ok how do you flirt if she know that you like her?

  • @Supercoolguy769_
    @Supercoolguy769_ 3 роки тому +1

    I want this to be a morning show that’s how this feels

  • @littlerocky5174
    @littlerocky5174 6 років тому +3

    I tried to flirt with my crush when we were talking on the phone last week. She was really angry tho she knew I was trying to flirt with her and I called her cute and she didn't like it when I said that. When I asked her do you like California she reacted very angry at me probably because California means a lot to her I was trying to be nice to her and I wasn't trying to be mean neither. I didn't want her to react like that to me even tho I was being so kind to her by calling her cute.

  • @emanuelpimentel8079
    @emanuelpimentel8079 6 років тому +2

    Hey Josh if a girl says that if I'm flirting with her and I say yes some girls will say ew your creepy or just ew what should I do If they ever say that to me

  • @legacy-fk4dk
    @legacy-fk4dk 6 років тому +3

    this video will help me out with talking to nina and one day i made her smile

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому

      Awesome man, good luck with Nina!

    • @legacy-fk4dk
      @legacy-fk4dk 6 років тому

      Thanks

    • @legacy-fk4dk
      @legacy-fk4dk 6 років тому

      hey Josh remember this ua-cam.com/video/PNe4q_HGQ28/v-deo.html your first video

  • @legacy-fk4dk
    @legacy-fk4dk 6 років тому +3

    Sup Josh thanks for the tip bro you are the best

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому

      No problem Dejon, I'm glad you like it!

  • @Mrcjxd1
    @Mrcjxd1 6 років тому +4

    thx josh👍

  • @lonewolftube
    @lonewolftube 5 років тому +2

    Is it a sign of flirting if a girl I've been talking to, says that she is really glad that I found something I love doing?

  • @lonewolftube
    @lonewolftube 6 років тому +8

    Hey Josh, have you tried texting a girl at a party and telling them their cute and to not tell anyone before? If you did, was it successful?

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому +1

      I've done it before at a bar out with my friends. We were all hanging out and I texted her saying she was cute, she ended up blushing and writing back "stop it, you're making me blush" and we kept the texting going for a while before we both just left the group later to go talk one on one.

    • @lonewolftube
      @lonewolftube 6 років тому

      Great! I gotta try it on this girl I like the next time we are at the same party.Thank you

  • @PenguinGang25
    @PenguinGang25 Рік тому

    I think my problem is I love talking to people and I come of as to much of a friend and not a crush

  • @myaburrows7990
    @myaburrows7990 3 роки тому +2

    I’m a girl and I can tell you if someone did the first thing he said to me they better make it very clear they are kidding 😂 otherwise it’s an awful move. But that’s just my opinion

  • @MichaelJackson647
    @MichaelJackson647 5 років тому +1

    For the first one,in this video would it be ok to exaggerate a little bit?

  • @mehuldarak8927
    @mehuldarak8927 6 років тому +3

    Mistakenly I flirted with her. I didn't wanted to do that but it happened

  • @thebrickmaniac_
    @thebrickmaniac_ 6 років тому +3

    Hi Josh,
    I’ve been watching your videos recently looking for advice on my current scenario, but I felt the need to ask for your advice directly. I haven’t seen my crush for about 3 years or so. I’ve had a crush on her on and off for that time period and I want to ask her out but I can only contact her through Instagram dms. I don’t want to come off as thirsty, needy etc. We don’t have any mutual friends (that I know of or I have seen recently) so I feel stuck.
    Btw, I live in the same city as her but we both go to different schools high schools.
    Thanks

  • @themovieraider1028
    @themovieraider1028 6 років тому +6

    Hey Josh,my girlfriend is being homeschooled and she decided to break up with me over this.What should I do?

  • @ltoolzl1
    @ltoolzl1 6 років тому +1

    I've been watching your videos but I need your help personally plz with my tough challenge

  • @fernandohuizzar6521
    @fernandohuizzar6521 6 років тому +1

    Hey josh need a little help here I’m in high school and I have two classes with my crush we didn’t really talk too much before but lately we’ve been taking more, during class she calls me and waves at me then we both smile, and she asked me to walk her to her next class we randomly make eye contact, also today she said she likes my shirt DOES SHE LIKE ME BACK?? WHAT SHOULD I DO?

    • @vikramo6994
      @vikramo6994 3 роки тому

      Say why do u want it? Start taking of ur shirt, and shell be like noo, itl be pretty funny

  • @daberechiroy7425
    @daberechiroy7425 2 роки тому

    I can never feel awkward when talking to a girl it is just like my job 🤣🤣

  • @Laughs985
    @Laughs985 5 років тому +1

    Sometimes it gets awkward when I flirt with my crush so it gets a little hard

  • @youngaamez3550
    @youngaamez3550 6 років тому

    I do these to my crush and she does them back. We also talk otp quite often and she frequently sends heart and smiley face emojis and laughs at my jokes. She also has a nickname for me and i have one for her. She's pretty playful and says stuff like "i can do this better" or "i bet i can beat you at this" and she once said I was her favorite person while putting the "☺💕" emojis. I've been getting a feeling that she likes me back but not too sure. What do you think Josh?

    • @evanohara596
      @evanohara596 6 років тому

      If she constantly says that then you should try to ask her out, especially if she says you are her favorite person, good luck if you read this, I hope you can get with her.

    • @youngaamez3550
      @youngaamez3550 6 років тому

      Evan O'Hara thanks man, I will try to

    • @revupofficial
      @revupofficial 4 роки тому

      100% she likes you, how did it go?

  • @MedroMizzle
    @MedroMizzle 6 років тому +3

    Thanks Josh, I have a question, so whenever I want to flirt with my crush i feel like she will tell all of her friends and it will spread like the Black Death, what do you think I should do?

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому +4

      You are gonna have to own it, if people know you're interested in her, so What? You are! You have to be real about your feelings and carry them confidently, because if you can't be sure of how you feel then your crush isn't going to buy that you're a confident guy.

    • @MedroMizzle
      @MedroMizzle 6 років тому

      Ok thanks this is really helpful

  • @TranquiloJrOfficial
    @TranquiloJrOfficial 6 років тому +3

    Cool vid😎👍💯😂😎😏

  • @lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933
    @lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933 2 роки тому

    I would like to give my crush Dominique butterflies

  • @Joey-xm8zk
    @Joey-xm8zk 6 років тому +7

    Hi josh, how you doing?

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому +1

      I'm doing pretty good, how you doin'?

    • @Joey-xm8zk
      @Joey-xm8zk 6 років тому +1

      The Josh Speaks pretty good

  • @Masonwilliamlifts
    @Masonwilliamlifts 6 років тому +4

    Never had or never will have a girlfriend :(

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому

      Never say never, what do you feel is holding you back?

    • @thebrickmaniac_
      @thebrickmaniac_ 6 років тому +2

      VOiD Scar give it time and be positive, you will in time. Don’t worry about it as it’s not worth stressing over it

    • @Masonwilliamlifts
      @Masonwilliamlifts 6 років тому

      🙏 thank you

    • @Supercoolguy769_
      @Supercoolguy769_ 3 роки тому

      @@TheJoshSpeaks but you said never 2 years ago

  • @guccilife4teen376
    @guccilife4teen376 5 років тому

    But what if she has a boyfriend?

  • @jacobjoonpowerlifting
    @jacobjoonpowerlifting 6 років тому

    Okay Josh. So this girl is shy around people she don't know. I was a little bit desperate at the begging and she found out I had a crush on her. Now she doesn't wanna talk with me lol. Any things I can do?

  • @ethanolol3895
    @ethanolol3895 6 років тому

    I’m late but great vid

  • @MichaelPro07891
    @MichaelPro07891 6 років тому +2

    I never did firting before but I want but can you give me a few words to say about firting??😕😐

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому +1

      Sure, I think saying something like "you know, you have a really cute smile" is a great way to get their attention.

  • @andrewwende2297
    @andrewwende2297 5 років тому

    na

  • @Deaming1197
    @Deaming1197 3 роки тому

    I have a crush and I’m grade 8 what do I do :o

  • @Anthony-iv1wj
    @Anthony-iv1wj 6 років тому +5

    #notificationsquad

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому +1

      woo hoo! Notification squad in the house

  • @Will-pl4tp
    @Will-pl4tp 6 років тому +4

    42 views?!

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому +1

      It's going up, give it some time

    • @Will-pl4tp
      @Will-pl4tp 6 років тому

      The Josh Speaks I mean I'm happy to be this early.

    • @revupofficial
      @revupofficial 4 роки тому

      UA-cam is high

  • @lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933
    @lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933 2 роки тому

    I'd to flirt with my crush Dominique without being weird

  • @cadetwright6496
    @cadetwright6496 6 років тому

    Uh should i give it another chance with the girl that rejected me cause of liking a different boy?

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому

      Hmm that all depends on where you guys left things off. Did she imply that she doesn't want to date you or that she liked this other boy first?

    • @cadetwright6496
      @cadetwright6496 6 років тому

      Yeah she liked this other boy first.

  • @alexdoesthemost2723
    @alexdoesthemost2723 6 років тому +1

    Sup Josh

  • @elliea2331
    @elliea2331 6 років тому +2

    But I’m a girl :(

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  6 років тому +2

      That's ok Ellie, the advice would still work for girls too. A confident girl who knows what she wants is attractive to guys

    • @bellaw.5195
      @bellaw.5195 6 років тому

      Ellie A Same

    • @elliea2331
      @elliea2331 6 років тому

      The Josh Speaks I wish so!

  • @jd_acosta8313
    @jd_acosta8313 3 роки тому

    I’m the 690th like

  • @umarsharif8098
    @umarsharif8098 5 років тому

    First fall who the hell are you have you done every thing that you say or you just copy from google iam tired of hearing your lies buddy don't spoil every teena gers life