5 Ways To AVOID Boring Text Conversations | Say This To Your Crush

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  • @hutao9892
    @hutao9892 5 років тому +10741

    The fact im searching this up is straight up SAD

    • @robwestb02
      @robwestb02 5 років тому +464

      Jack :3 nah I’d say it’s respectable it shows you care

    • @dishwasher-vk1hd
      @dishwasher-vk1hd 5 років тому +154

      Jack :3 when he sends mixed signals and is a dry texter :( anddd he's cute :(((

    • @moonwarrior1227
      @moonwarrior1227 4 роки тому +17

      Ikr same

    • @rvsh8184
      @rvsh8184 4 роки тому +15

      Sad bois fvr

    • @staceysinclair342
      @staceysinclair342 4 роки тому +24

      Woah jeez u didn’t have to attack me lmao

  • @dylancruea7542
    @dylancruea7542 5 років тому +3065

    Starting a conversation is like a thesis statement

  • @pizzaboi8196
    @pizzaboi8196 5 років тому +7333

    Since when did texting get so difficult😩

  • @aeliusdawn
    @aeliusdawn 4 роки тому +3057

    "Meet them in person"
    CRIES IN QUARANTINE

  • @xtc1006
    @xtc1006 4 роки тому +917

    The fact that we are all so awkward that we have to search a tutorial on how to socialize.

  • @anita-tt6zk
    @anita-tt6zk 5 років тому +2536

    *gets crush’s number, never says hi just goes:*
    me: “i almost just got ran over”
    him: “ok”
    ...

    • @alexsawh8840
      @alexsawh8840 5 років тому +111

      Sad
      He's not interesting in you
      As far as i can tell

    • @yoitsblade2180
      @yoitsblade2180 5 років тому +15

      @@alexsawh8840 lol

    • @alexsawh8840
      @alexsawh8840 5 років тому +5

      @@yoitsblade2180 😂

    • @xero8865
      @xero8865 5 років тому +12

      @@alexsawh8840 you and that girl that commented should date based on your pfp lmao

    • @alexsawh8840
      @alexsawh8840 5 років тому +14

      @@xero8865 lmfao bruh far away relationship doesn't work out
      I'm a very loyal guy and I'm afraid she won't be
      But i hv my gf 😇I'm 14 she's 12😁

  • @GloryBoyybill
    @GloryBoyybill 5 років тому +481

    He’s so underrated 😭 he’s spitting so much game rn

  • @chasecieslar3785
    @chasecieslar3785 4 роки тому +8720

    I’m taking relationship advice from a guy with dozens of action figures in his room

  • @mnyu
    @mnyu 4 роки тому +583

    1. Don't send the same greetings every day. It is recommended you skip "hello" and jump into number two so that way your conversation has purpose.
    2. Switch between asking questions and telling stories. Open ended questions give more freedom. However, though he didn't say this, make sure they actually lead somewhere and aren't totally random or you could seem weird.
    3. Make sure to tease and flirt with them. If they seem defensive about any teasing, cease immediately. Also don't use the same one word compliments, attach them to situations you had with them to know you mean it.
    4. Don't stay in texting limbo forever. Meet them in person. (though COVID-19 makes that real easy right now. I'd say have a call date.)
    5. Don't be overbearing, give them time to respond. People are busy and if you're placing all your energy into another person constantly it usually indicates you need to work on yourself.

    • @jordan-uk1qb
      @jordan-uk1qb 4 роки тому +3

      • 111 • same 😤 i always think im being weird i need stuff to talk abt

    • @dua6521
      @dua6521 4 роки тому +1

      Yeah, he works a hairdresser when I'm always at home, and I get upset when he doesn't answer

    • @fuckoffihatepeople7309
      @fuckoffihatepeople7309 3 роки тому

      Thanks!

    • @yes-kg5xk
      @yes-kg5xk 3 роки тому +3

      is it ok to randomly ask if he plays roblox 💀

    • @RajdeepDas.
      @RajdeepDas. Рік тому

      @@jordan-uk1qb yeah man 🥺

  • @i8chickennuggets
    @i8chickennuggets 4 роки тому +817

    me : hey
    her : heyyy
    me : wassup
    her : nm wbu
    me : I was doing some origami
    her : ok gtg bye

  • @irrelevant283
    @irrelevant283 5 років тому +5397

    Me: what's your fav movie?
    Her: *_k_*

  • @panicwolf474
    @panicwolf474 5 років тому +971

    This guy is really wise. Idk why he's not giving important conferences in places like TedX

  • @speedissped1483
    @speedissped1483 5 років тому +1640

    Jealous to people who actually have their number...

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  5 років тому +133

      you can get it too, all you gotta do is work on building a connection with her

    • @KickAssBill
      @KickAssBill 5 років тому +22

      KacperM just go for it bro. Like I got a girls number a while ago and now she’s my girlfriend and it’s because I just went for it the second I got an opportunity. It sounds hard but it’ll benefit you i the long run. 👌🏻

    • @TylerWilson2004
      @TylerWilson2004 5 років тому +6

      What I did is write her a note that said everything if felt. I ran away right after. My number was on it though. If your shy to actually ask her you can do that if you want.

    • @gcampos77
      @gcampos77 5 років тому +16

      its really easy tho. If you met her already, the day you meet her start talking to her on instagram or snapchat (its better to ask her directly than asking a friend of hers). Dont lose time. If you wait too long after meeting her to start texting her, she will lose interest. Dont overtext and overuse emojis. Also dont be insecure over text... just send that shit man. You may want to ask her some questions to find both interests but dont turn that shit into a fucking creepy questioning. Talk about the day you met, something funny that happened in class but just dont be insecure. Most girls prefer GUYS WHO MAKE THEM LAUGH. You can be the most handsome man but if you're boring and social awkward that doesnt go well. Social awkwardness cant be an excuse my friend... talk to people. Acknowlage that you should speak to cute girls the same way you talk to your girl friends, dont treat them differently. I hope I helped.

    • @ajourneytosuccess_
      @ajourneytosuccess_ 5 років тому +5

      KacperM slide in them dms

  • @heywoodjablowme2351
    @heywoodjablowme2351 4 роки тому +269

    My convos are dry on text, but I'm a lot more interesting on calls and it's annoying

    • @triplethreatnba5514
      @triplethreatnba5514 4 роки тому +16

      i’m opposite. any help on what to do or say on call

    • @yerrman9797
      @yerrman9797 3 роки тому

      Lmao same

    • @lavalu1137
      @lavalu1137 3 роки тому +6

      I suck at both bc of quarantine and my crush chooses now to express interest in me🥲

    • @djflapjack4744
      @djflapjack4744 3 роки тому +1

      you are my crush in a nutshell

  • @mrgbomb3001
    @mrgbomb3001 4 роки тому +71

    Im such a dry texter. And im quiet in person most of the time but with some people i can make a great conversation

  • @gibby2951
    @gibby2951 5 років тому +559

    Texting just keeps getting more complicated

  • @fabianvilla5390
    @fabianvilla5390 5 років тому +2976

    MY CRUSH IS DRY ASFFFF

    • @blxdetv2999
      @blxdetv2999 5 років тому +430

      Fabian Law same thats why I watched this video its like fuck I carry the whole convo and then she will answer with a two letter answer and then its just super dry

    • @Hobo323
      @Hobo323 5 років тому +31

      @@blxdetv2999 same

    • @yazanalshahaf1290
      @yazanalshahaf1290 5 років тому +117

      My crush has a Bf☹️😭

    • @redemption9671
      @redemption9671 5 років тому +27

      Twitch_ Yazan mine too I feel you dude.

    • @memechannel1458
      @memechannel1458 5 років тому +16

      Twitch_ Yazan fucking same

  • @mietoe7582
    @mietoe7582 5 років тому +1132

    U dont want to end up interviewing them lol

    • @yo8989
      @yo8989 5 років тому +30

      HAHAHA NEVER DONE THAT HAHA

    • @yo8989
      @yo8989 5 років тому +46

      I mean in 50 shades of Grey it worked.

    • @666.xoxo33
      @666.xoxo33 5 років тому +15

      Mie Toe yea when I ask my crush questions randomly he’s just like “ why are you asking me this¿” but he’s okay with it

    • @yo8989
      @yo8989 5 років тому +3

      @@666.xoxo33 maybe you should tell him you want to know him better with a 😉 emoji~~

    • @merz97
      @merz97 4 роки тому +1

      I died LMAO

  • @wyattknowz3813
    @wyattknowz3813 4 роки тому +55

    Me : "hey kangaroo girl"
    Random Australian girl : "fuck you say to me little shit"

  • @the7thhokage404
    @the7thhokage404 4 роки тому +525

    Me and my crush were talking about animals and she said she liked dogs. So I called her dog girl. She blocked🤨

  • @amer1canalex2
    @amer1canalex2 4 роки тому +867

    Mission failed:I got blocked and her cousin threatened to beat me up next week

    • @allanmwangi2022
      @allanmwangi2022 4 роки тому +14

      Alexis Duarte That's sad😢

    • @weebone5530
      @weebone5530 4 роки тому +31

      Damn wish i was their i beat his ass id dead helo you bro lol

    • @nogoodgod4915
      @nogoodgod4915 4 роки тому +25

      Wth did u do hahahahah

    • @amankwahappiah6217
      @amankwahappiah6217 4 роки тому +8

      Heheeeheeee it's just hilarious. May be you really screwed up

    • @hobokelamikael9682
      @hobokelamikael9682 4 роки тому

      @@amankwahappiah6217 ohhh poor you,,,

  • @That196
    @That196 5 років тому +1401

    So basically say “hey kangaroo girl”

  • @moonwarrior1227
    @moonwarrior1227 4 роки тому +877

    When your crush asks who your crush is...

    • @jarrahtomlin9153
      @jarrahtomlin9153 4 роки тому +18

      Moon Warrior1 that’s happened to me

    • @ethanmorrow4241
      @ethanmorrow4241 4 роки тому +39

      If that happens, oh s***

    • @citygaming8995
      @citygaming8995 4 роки тому +135

      that happened to me so i ended up saying it was her then she replied with ‘awww’.... rip me 😔

    • @moonwarrior1227
      @moonwarrior1227 4 роки тому +5

      City Gaming Same mate xD GL

    • @citygaming8995
      @citygaming8995 4 роки тому +30

      Moon Warrior1 Dont worry king, we’re gonna find the right one soon🤧 👑

  • @Anna-qx9rt
    @Anna-qx9rt 4 роки тому +286

    I literally had to come watch this bc I can’t start a damn conversation 😭

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 2 місяці тому +2

    *It’s so easy to fall into a pattern of dull texts, but the strategies you shared really help in keeping the conversation interesting.*

  • @howIing
    @howIing 5 років тому +1163

    Watches video
    Texts her: hi
    Her:hi
    Me: *types** **delete** **types** **delete**
    Me:i like pizza wbu?

  • @gagefaul3629
    @gagefaul3629 5 років тому +290

    Her: Hey
    Me: Hi
    Her: Hi

    • @ultrasans8507
      @ultrasans8507 5 років тому +4

      u don't messed up

    • @ultrasans8507
      @ultrasans8507 5 років тому +5

      when i say hiiiii twice i expect a whole rows of hiiii

    • @gagefaul3629
      @gagefaul3629 5 років тому

      Gacha wolf cool but did I ask😂😂
      Jk

    • @Loneassassin13
      @Loneassassin13 4 роки тому +9

      I hate when girls do that crap!

    • @obsessedme1041
      @obsessedme1041 3 роки тому

      @@Loneassassin13 but my friend does that to me, he started with a "hi" I said "hi then it'll become an endless loop of "hi"'s

  • @zane8182
    @zane8182 5 років тому +742

    I'm actually talking with my crush while watching this vid :v

  • @east8891
    @east8891 4 роки тому +72

    For some reason, talking to my crush in person makes me more comfortable.

  • @siddhantagarwal7956
    @siddhantagarwal7956 4 роки тому +54

    Interviewer : what are your skills
    Me : I'm a dry texter
    Both of us : Hol up

  • @antonijegaric1910
    @antonijegaric1910 5 років тому +16

    This guy be having all the toys in his room and looking so nerdy, and that doesnt make him stop knowing all those texting things. There are no excuses!!!

  • @florese4804
    @florese4804 5 років тому +42

    I don’t like reading the comments and knowing others are watching this with me.

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  5 років тому +3

      It's ok JellyBean, we're here to help each other out!

  • @youngaamez3550
    @youngaamez3550 5 років тому +194

    I've recently started using these kind of texts and they've worked! Sure some people are dry even though you send actual good texts and won't engage in the conversation, but it'll work on the right people. Great video btw 👍

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  5 років тому +16

      Very good point, not every attempt is going to work with every type of person. It's important to read a person to see how they respond to things

    • @ahmadopicshah8412
      @ahmadopicshah8412 5 років тому

      Yt , vin + liner

    • @Al_MustafaHaider
      @Al_MustafaHaider 5 років тому

      Fr!

    • @Zaptrap101
      @Zaptrap101 5 років тому

      So what did you send, those in the video?

  • @angelsubs282
    @angelsubs282 4 роки тому +288

    Me: Hi
    Him: Hi
    Me: I’m bored
    Him: Thats sad
    .....

  • @vivicanegumbo2045
    @vivicanegumbo2045 4 роки тому +78

    1. Ask open ended questions (so they give their opinion)
    2. Tell a crazy story
    3. Tease and flirt (try inside jokes avoid offensive remarks)
    (Compliment but it should be specific and don't repeat the same comments)
    4. Try to get into the idea of hanging out
    5. Don't be overbearing, give them time to respond

  • @αια-λ3κ
    @αια-λ3κ 5 років тому +208

    My crush told me that her ex dumped him on Valentines day then 3 months later she wants to be with him again and i'm like wtf PLEASE BE WITH ME
    Edit: um I dont remember having a crush on someone im so confused who tf is.

    • @Zaptrap101
      @Zaptrap101 5 років тому +1

      So sad

    • @stanexe
      @stanexe 5 років тому +9

      αιѕнα i read that as “humped him” HHAHH

    • @Kawhinot0
      @Kawhinot0 5 років тому +3

      αιѕнα you ain’t nobody’s plan b either they choose you or they loose you

    • @kitsuneking6969
      @kitsuneking6969 4 роки тому +4

      I asked my crush out on the anniversary of her finding out her ex cheated on her. She said no

    • @jj-pm7wm
      @jj-pm7wm 4 роки тому +1

      @@kitsuneking6969 why would you do that

  • @loveeraelin
    @loveeraelin 5 років тому +37

    a guy just called me dry and i’m confused on why bc he’s the one who is confusing as hell 😂

  • @rainyytapestry
    @rainyytapestry 4 роки тому +242

    Me with my boyfriend: *Hey how are you doing?*
    Him: *im fine hbu?*
    Me: *im fine*
    After a few seconds
    *Silence*
    My brain: **i hate everything-*

  • @ccaelem
    @ccaelem 4 роки тому +97

    I’ve been talking to this guy and I really want to get to know him more, with the coronavirus I can’t meet up with him or do anything with him that we can talk about so I’m worried that things won’t work out, which would be terrible because there are so few gay guys that I feel attracted too.

    • @MrQawesome
      @MrQawesome 4 роки тому +9

      Banana bread same boat except it’s a girl

    • @yessi2067
      @yessi2067 4 роки тому +1

      Lmao it's sad huh

    • @cadenshighlights51
      @cadenshighlights51 4 роки тому

      Banana bread inv them to your house and then do boom boom

    • @osielt1935
      @osielt1935 4 роки тому

      yo same 😂😂

    • @babysenpai3883
      @babysenpai3883 4 роки тому +1

      Same here ☹️

  • @showmeyourtittiesbitchjohn2102
    @showmeyourtittiesbitchjohn2102 5 років тому +63

    This helped so much she blocked me😂😂

  • @getlostinmyeyes3713
    @getlostinmyeyes3713 5 років тому +208

    My crush flirts with me alot
    She calls me baby,sends me '😚😘😙'
    Im very happy
    But she does it with all her friends too
    WAIT SO IM JUST A FRIEND!?!?!?
    😟😢

    • @Charlie-ql1dg
      @Charlie-ql1dg 5 років тому +33

      she’s just waiting for someone to try to escalate it try to one up that and get more flirty

    • @spicymama4894
      @spicymama4894 5 років тому

      Only have crushes on aesthetic people

    • @getlostinmyeyes3713
      @getlostinmyeyes3713 5 років тому +1

      @@zy2790 I actually might do that

    • @brianbaeza6862
      @brianbaeza6862 4 роки тому

      Hmm you can make it so she only calls you that

    • @camfabrizio8923
      @camfabrizio8923 4 роки тому +1

      Yup your just a friend

  • @eliteditss9574
    @eliteditss9574 5 років тому +105

    You telling me I should open a text with my crush with “do you believe in ghost?”

  • @crooxifire8714
    @crooxifire8714 4 роки тому +48

    i honestly see myself pathetic for watching this video...
    It's super hard for an introvert to start a conversation..

    • @cainkun338
      @cainkun338 4 роки тому +4

      Relateeeeeee:(

    • @dua6521
      @dua6521 4 роки тому +3

      I'm an extrovert and I'm watching this not able to open a damn conversation.
      Love is hard

    • @Matinagambit
      @Matinagambit 2 роки тому

      FR tho my crush is my school mate. We always text in an normal conversation but the thing is iv'e never met her since a yr ago. Always wanted to meet her in person but at the same time not. As an introvert myself it found me hard to decide whether to see her or not lol cuz i cant think a word to say. So should i go and see her in person ?
      Or maybe not this time. PLS HELP ME!!

  • @GeniesMag
    @GeniesMag 3 роки тому +23

    Josh, your self-confidence is sky-high. For all your hard work, I thank you. Keep up the good work.

  • @kodycastellanos
    @kodycastellanos 5 років тому +78

    Just noticed the creepy villager on the shelf😂

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  5 років тому +4

      haha that's a Mister Rogers plush but it DOES look like Villager

  • @Michaelmousemaccy
    @Michaelmousemaccy 4 роки тому +16

    This helped so much I used this guide to talk to my crush and we’ve been married for 6 months thank you

    • @steve-eg1ge
      @steve-eg1ge 3 роки тому +2

      so spongebob is married?

  • @ratatouillestan1815
    @ratatouillestan1815 4 роки тому +21

    my crush and i just started talking, and this helped a lot. thank you! 😁

  • @justinobial100
    @justinobial100 4 роки тому +2

    bruh i needed this no cap, ive been message this girl the i’ve liked for so long and we’ve kinda stopped

  • @locatingleigh7632
    @locatingleigh7632 4 роки тому +11

    No lie, this might be the most resourceful video I’ve seen on the internet. 😫 Thank You! 👏🏾

  • @djkaleb1533
    @djkaleb1533 5 років тому +142

    excuse me josh how can you talk to your rush on a date

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  5 років тому +10

      I would try out my 20 ice breakers which you can find here: www.thejoshspeaks.com/ice-breakers

    • @WittiwyTheBatman
      @WittiwyTheBatman 5 років тому +2

      Okay Robux man

  • @emilyphillips6181
    @emilyphillips6181 5 років тому +48

    Ok I realize this is late but I like this guy and we have A LOT in common, but he always starts the conversation, like you said, in the same way by saying good morning everyday but that just leaves me scrambling to have something to talk about. I find that it is usually just me that tells a story, or makes a comment or asks a question and he gives me shorter responses. I’m not sure what to do because he seems interested enough to talk to me everyday but he doesn’t say much

    • @스아이-u5h
      @스아이-u5h 4 роки тому +3

      That's what happens in my case. 😐😐☹️

    • @jimpickles282
      @jimpickles282 3 роки тому

      If you slept with him that might have something to do with it

    • @jimpickles282
      @jimpickles282 3 роки тому +1

      Are you even with the same guy😄? I'd like an update

    • @yoongisugaagustd7418
      @yoongisugaagustd7418 2 роки тому +1

      Omg i'm literally having the same issue like you now. How's it going on your side? Can you give us an update lol

    • @juniblessing3875
      @juniblessing3875 2 роки тому

      Sameee, what did you do about it?

  • @JothamBilly
    @JothamBilly 4 роки тому +18

    Bro im trying to spice up the conversation with quirky messages, nifty things, interesting questions.Stuff like that but half her responses are *LOL*

  • @addisonwalker2614
    @addisonwalker2614 4 роки тому +15

    Me: watching all these videos knowing I’m still to awkward to start a conversation 😂

  • @justarandomcheesydorito4652
    @justarandomcheesydorito4652 4 роки тому +9

    I cant talk to people because Im so scared of being judged so I'll just be really mellow and not talkative at all around people, but I really wanna say what I think, but Im too scared so it just comes out being really awkward... this actually helped me thank you

    • @Fakeprophets
      @Fakeprophets Рік тому

      If your single, send me a text in this profile. I won’t judge you I promise.

    • @justarandomcheesydorito4652
      @justarandomcheesydorito4652 Рік тому

      @@Fakeprophets You’re*. Dude, this was 2 years ago. I forgot I even said any of that and I’m gonna delete it too. I’m not interested in you either.

  • @scottmillar8737
    @scottmillar8737 4 роки тому +111

    girl fav animal was a whale so i called her whale girl (hasnt spoke to me since) :(

  • @retromarcky
    @retromarcky 5 років тому +71

    What should I say after they reply to message after saying “oh my god”

    • @un7ovable
      @un7ovable 5 років тому +47

      god my oh

    • @demarcustv5661
      @demarcustv5661 5 років тому +3

      @@un7ovable how about "lol"

    • @un7ovable
      @un7ovable 5 років тому +4

      Demarcus tv loud out laugh

    • @senortocino2416
      @senortocino2416 4 роки тому +6

      Retro Marcky “what did u see my dick pics”

  • @idubby7
    @idubby7 4 роки тому +55

    Me: "what's the craziest thing that happened to you today?"
    Him: "idk"
    Me: "oh come on you have to have done something everyone has a little flare in their everyday lives"
    Him:"ok"
    bruhhhhhhhh I am not the problem RIGHT?!??

    • @addysonwade5906
      @addysonwade5906 4 роки тому +20

      That's tough, but I'd say drop him

    • @de_light641
      @de_light641 4 роки тому +7

      Nah boys who do that have huge egos

    • @Starry_Dupree
      @Starry_Dupree 4 роки тому +7

      Let him go. Don't even waste your time.

    • @Extrisified
      @Extrisified 4 роки тому

      he doesnt like u thats what it means

    • @peterramapulana6652
      @peterramapulana6652 4 роки тому +3

      No you're not the problem.... The guy just has 0 interest in speaking to you

  • @bm_m4in215
    @bm_m4in215 Рік тому +1

    Honestly I've seen a bunch of videis like this (as sad as it may sound), but this has to be one of the most helpful from what I've watched. Thank you, josh!

  • @buti_thabo6555
    @buti_thabo6555 3 місяці тому

    Took relationship advises from you in 2015, I don't know how many girls I've been with ever since... but in 2017 I finally settled and I thank u for that... if I haven't subscribed to ur Channel I don't think I'd be the guy I am today

  • @simona7699
    @simona7699 4 роки тому +42

    Me: Hi
    Him: Heyy
    Me: Um.. do u like bread?

  • @jooosh503
    @jooosh503 5 років тому +16

    Haha, I tease myself on conversations, I guess that’s good?
    Quick question, her birthday is coming up, would it be an good idea to get her some gifts?
    How do I bring up topics about her favorite snack as a gift?

  • @aarronortiz4178
    @aarronortiz4178 5 років тому +5

    Need more videos like these I love how you show what to actually text!

  • @FroggieMaggie420
    @FroggieMaggie420 4 роки тому +2

    I'm needing this because of the corona viruse, now I can't see him at school or hang out. He is so dry, and I'm super shy. It's been so hard to talk with him, thank you for telling me not to interview them because that's kinda what I've been doing bruhhh😩

  • @beastmechanic4047
    @beastmechanic4047 3 роки тому +2

    Bro started off with “ Hey playa “ I knew this was gone be good

  • @mahnoor9971
    @mahnoor9971 5 років тому +67

    Lmao, I don’t have a crush. Although, I texted him (my best friend) ‘I witnessed a murder’ because I saw someone run over a bird the other day. After that, we got a whole conversation on the best ways to kill someone and dispose their body.

  • @ethanfergus1434
    @ethanfergus1434 5 років тому +5

    This guy is extremely helpful and out ideas into my mind that are so hard for me to come up with, you earned a sub

  • @lucasgonzales210
    @lucasgonzales210 5 років тому +79

    My crush knows I like them and they find me okay but things have been awkward and I don’t know what to do.

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  5 років тому +19

      Hey, if things have been awkward it might be a sign that you need to either work towards getting closer to your crush or focus on someone else. What do you want to do deep down inside?

    • @blocnytro402
      @blocnytro402 5 років тому +8

      Well my crush is 1 year older than me and they are moving to another campus of my school
      My friend asked them what are the chances of them liking me and she said that i’m nice but she doesn’t like me because we won’t see each other much next year

    • @alishaaa6192
      @alishaaa6192 5 років тому +1

      MasterHackerZ welp🥴

  • @tb8644
    @tb8644 2 роки тому +1

    I thought this was the stupidest thing until it worked! I always talk to this girl and she doesn’t really respond until hours later, but as soon as I asked her this question she responded immediately and we talked for like 30 minutes and when she started to stop I just asked a different question and talked to her about a bunch of other things for an hour!! Thanks man 👍

  • @noureddali8785
    @noureddali8785 4 роки тому +1

    He is speaking super CLEAR!!!!!!! ILY btw

  • @fhdhejeh63
    @fhdhejeh63 3 роки тому +11

    I never really understood the texting game. I never been able to find the balance between not texting too much and texting enough. I've failed many times and still am.

    • @rayejohn79rj11
      @rayejohn79rj11 2 роки тому

      Me too..if I like a girl I text or call her you would think that would be enough

  • @swayzecrapdog5004
    @swayzecrapdog5004 4 роки тому +6

    You’re getting so much more Pham and I love your videos so much I’ve been watching you since day one love you

  • @Mario-xk7kh
    @Mario-xk7kh 4 роки тому +59

    The fact I searched this means I'm trash

    • @cainkun338
      @cainkun338 4 роки тому +1

      samedt

    • @eachandeverything4022
      @eachandeverything4022 3 роки тому

      Don't say that! You're not trash! You're wonderful!! 💖💖💢💢

    • @caydonleecloete8313
      @caydonleecloete8313 3 роки тому

      lucky you,trash gets picked up every second. some hot irresistible piece of trash you are then :]

    • @rizox4048
      @rizox4048 8 днів тому

      no it means we want to fix the problem

  • @caylee5502
    @caylee5502 4 роки тому

    Dude preach. This dude who liked me did the wrong parts of almost all of these and it annoyed me to no end.

  • @jacobvoils7889
    @jacobvoils7889 4 роки тому +1

    I feel sad knowing I just looked this up and watched it! Also sad realizing I'm in those stages... of being disliked..

  • @killnaomi
    @killnaomi 4 роки тому +5

    ok josh thank you for the texting advice for my crush and i, by the way those dolls in your room are super cool! :D hope to get some more advanced relationship advice in the future!!

  • @michaelscott5145
    @michaelscott5145 4 роки тому +3

    This is all I needed, THANK YOU SOOOOOOO MUCHHHHH!!!

  • @FBIAgent-wc3iu
    @FBIAgent-wc3iu 4 роки тому +9

    I called my ex kangaroo girl once and now I’m single. Thanks for the advice!

  • @meepcityhouses9576
    @meepcityhouses9576 3 роки тому

    Makes so much sense but very frustrating when your going down the dip.. And then realize..

  • @jeo-meso-whasian9565
    @jeo-meso-whasian9565 3 роки тому

    bro i love this guy i confessed to my crush 2 days ago and used your tips and it worked thanks bro!

  • @j_marq2
    @j_marq2 5 років тому +19

    Hey all people I don’t get it I am told that my crush likes me back but I just can’t believe it. I try to text her then she always just responds with something that I can’t respond back to. I really want to and enjoy talking to her, but it’s impossible. And somehow I am always the one talking to her or texting her and stating the conversation. Idk if she is shy but doesn’t show it or just doesn’t want to talk to me. 😢
    Thanks for reading this I appreciate it
    You actually don’t know how much it means to me 🙃

  • @gbgoscar7837
    @gbgoscar7837 5 років тому +32

    Came here so the person who likes me won’t find someone else cus Im a boring texter

  • @zarinsotelo
    @zarinsotelo 4 роки тому +43

    Did this man really just start the video by saying "hey there playa" done.

  • @Jerry-yy3ye
    @Jerry-yy3ye 4 роки тому +18

    Me: hey ms.kangaroo girl.
    Her: hi mr.rejection.
    (Gets blocked)
    💔💔💔

  • @spyderskier9429
    @spyderskier9429 3 роки тому +11

    When you realize you've been texting this person for years and you missed your chance and you going down hill. You realize that there was a period in time when they were really interested in talking to you and you missed it. Now you getting one word answers and you want to revive your chance. You've spent so much time texting and not enough time hanging out, but your staying home cause of COVID...Ngl I don't think I have a chance anymore.

    • @oaxacanboi9318
      @oaxacanboi9318 3 роки тому +1

      That happened to me. I moved on tho

    • @spyderskier9429
      @spyderskier9429 3 роки тому +1

      @@oaxacanboi9318 I think once I’m not quarantining anymore. I’ll ask them to go do stuff and eventually I think I will ask them 🙂

    • @_Gandalf_The_White
      @_Gandalf_The_White Рік тому

      @@spyderskier9429 How did it go?

  • @savior1604
    @savior1604 4 роки тому +6

    I started laughing when he stated talking bout flirting

  • @tey1027
    @tey1027 4 роки тому +10

    I always start the conversation so I think it's obvious to him that I like him but he never says anything about it 😅. Maybe he thinks I'm clingy??? I start conversations with him with a meme, who wouldn't like thattt

  • @Amaijackie
    @Amaijackie 4 роки тому +70

    The guy I’m talking to is so dry all he says is “okay, yeah & lmao” 🙃🙃

    • @amiyaanthony2319
      @amiyaanthony2319 4 роки тому +16

      Sameeeee I could say something to start a conversation about and he’ll just “lol, oh ok , yea,no, or put an emoji” shit is so boring

    • @zyl5521
      @zyl5521 4 роки тому +1

      that might be me

    • @marianna380
      @marianna380 4 роки тому

      omg me tooo he initiates convos everyday/every other day but is sooo boring. Today he literally said "hey we can talk today for sure because i'm free" and i said cool ok and he asked what i have been doing and i said all the things i have been doing, then i asked what he has been doing and he said "literally nothing" and I said "oh comeon have you watched anything new?" and he said "no" like... tf did you wanna talk to me for then? i tryy to keep a conversation but he's giving me nothing. None of my girlfriends are like this are guys usually this bland over text? because this is the first time i have encountered such dry convos so frequently

    • @ochs9266
      @ochs9266 4 роки тому

      mach ran As a guy myself I can confirm that we are very bland over text.

    • @michellekahlez2105
      @michellekahlez2105 4 роки тому

      SAME BRUHHH SAME 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @fola6521
    @fola6521 Рік тому +1

    Bro I’m feeling ur video so direct explanatory and very helpful the best on this topic so far 👍

  • @Spongebobisalreadytaken
    @Spongebobisalreadytaken 3 роки тому

    This video is 1 year old and is actually so helpful

  • @rogerpunk8132
    @rogerpunk8132 4 роки тому +14

    Me: HI ❤️❤️❤️
    Her 3 hours later: Ok
    Me 0.01 seconds later: A 3 page reply

  • @itzorbital4090
    @itzorbital4090 5 років тому +57

    So it was my crushes birthday the other day and I told her happy birthday. She said tyy and stopped texting. Should have i kept it going. (I’m really shy)

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  5 років тому +20

      Hey, that's gonna happen sometimes, especially when the conversation starts with something like birthdays and holidays. It's hard to follow up other than asking what they plan on doing that day but chances are you've caught them in a busy time when lots of people are also texting them.

    • @itzorbital4090
      @itzorbital4090 5 років тому +7

      The Josh Speaks I did It. Well I think I did I started texting her and we had a short convo but I ended the convo saying i gtg cause I don’t know what else to talk about I panicked and ended the conversation

    • @spicymama4894
      @spicymama4894 5 років тому

      @Le Monke wtf

  • @aryandhande
    @aryandhande 4 роки тому +18

    Seems like you are more single than we men who are watching this video😂

  • @eggstatic9307
    @eggstatic9307 4 роки тому +2

    The fact that my crush lives states away removes so much to do with her in person.

  • @deidragray9265
    @deidragray9265 4 роки тому

    Good advice. I text him about ghosts and he actually just called me instead of texting back. We had an hour long conversation. It was pretty cool......and I learned some new things about him. Thanks for the advice

  • @sodaa8771
    @sodaa8771 5 років тому +7

    5:37 I went this way...
    She even told me I used to be her crush...

  • @dimaisatree
    @dimaisatree 3 роки тому +2

    It’s much easier to text someone after you guys already hung out or talked in person than it is texting someone that you’ve never spoken to irl cause there’s no connection between you too so it feels like texting a random stranger

  • @Benni259
    @Benni259 5 років тому +11

    I can chat to her now. Now the problem is I can’t talk to her in person 😫😩

  • @tfresh2838
    @tfresh2838 4 роки тому +1

    I just keep writing paragraphs about why i like them and how amazing they make me feel but i always delete it when im done typing it as i dont want to stop seeing her smile and laugh when im around her

  • @drupadbaiju5166
    @drupadbaiju5166 4 роки тому

    Right After i got rejected by my crush, I get this on my notification...great

  • @ayushc5704
    @ayushc5704 4 роки тому +10

    What about i am stuck in lockdown and can’t ask her out?😂 like literally that is happening rn😂😂