She Doesn’t Want You So Just Take The L

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[@MJGetRight]

Stephon Clinkscales 💪🏽💯

[@StephIsColdG]

MJ GetRight my G!

[@dinky19810]

Rejection is protection. Just take the L. She's letting you know that she ain't desirable to begin with. Stay on your purpose.

[@abryepenez124]

Most guys don't want to realize why women do rejects against beta male hopes! That's blue 💊 thinking.

[@markwhittaker6866]

@Mr. Happy
PREACH!

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

An immature response

[@swpdisciple]

True. Sometimes and L is not really an L. It’s a portal to another opportunity or at least new perspective.

[@Shedlyhikey]

W

[@TheRealSupremeBape]

swpdisciple facts it’s only a loss if you a sore loser the disappointment should motivate us to greatness

[@barackthecomposer6642]

What is “L” ?

[@AntonVitullo]

Barry Williams lose

[@sueme8170]

Facts

[@ty5odopeemusic]

Use the Red pill as a lifestyle . not as a strategy

[@MusaDays808]

@Peace Mindfulness Them UA-cam "Alphas" Trying To Be Hard & Shaming Other Guys & Shit 😂

[@constituent15]

Failure is a blessing, same with women, being hurt by women is the best thing that can happen

[@reeldeal2149]

ray turner they always watching from a distance lowkey

[@lestat9012]

constituent15 your right just so painful when it’s happening

[@tercial]

Facts Everytime I get rejected I get boost like Zenkai boost in DBZ everyone they recover from near death. So the next time the women sees me she regrets the decision.

[@Colorfullize]

How is it the best thing that can happen 😭

[@OneAndOnlyRoRo]

@@Colorfullize motivation boost

[@seanjones5389]

AN "L" IS NOT A LOSS ITS A "LESSON".

[@everettfanor1989]

Fuck yes. As men we learn from what these bitches be doing to us

[@lemmylemz7394]

True mon frère. One cannot losing what one hasn't already gained.

[@Online9ine]

Facts

[@thomasw7278]

Win some.... lose some, But live to fight another day. Stay focused gentlemen💪🏿

[@quavariussmith7377]

😂😂😂today’s Friday but o well all joke aside u right asf

[@micahboy5994]

Just got my heart broke tonight G. Best thing that happened to me.

[@slowas-hell7933]

Respect now ur a men.

[@assentfw]

I hope ur buff asf rn

[@ReginaldJamalPettway3]

Many Blessings to you on the rest of this year.

'How to not care?' It's very easy actually - don't invest in people (women) or even if you do, invest less than they invest in you.

[@sovereign_king7384]

💯

[@j.vosier6786]

Nikola Gačpar facts

[@lile1912]

About to friend zone this girl today.
2 days ago she cried on the phone saying she loves me and don’t leave me. I stayed cuz I didn’t wanna hear her crying. Came over to her house yesterday and while we were cuddling and watching a movie she has multiple guys snapping her and texting her. she also has tinder, bumble and other dating apps. I confronted her about it and she said she doesn’t “use” the app. Mind you if the roles were reversed she would give me shit.

[@twenzyyedits7343]

Lil E | friend zone that

[@twenzyyedits7343]

King Michael V | damn that shit hurt me

[@EduardoLima]

Lil E this chick wildin

[@rioguttaful]

They are women its time to hold them accountable

[@brucepower3429]

Lol why confront her every girl has those apps it's your own damn fault boy. When females cry they manipulate the hell out of yoh they know if they cry you will fall for it

[@FreedomLocs]

Once I hit rock bottom and went broke and the chick left I knew everything had to change. My purpose, my body, my money and my game! It hurt at the time but it was good medicine. That's how I found the red pill

[@tercial]

I went broke and ended it before she ended it with me, it was bound to happen so I sped it up.

[@thouxan211]

@@tercial you a real one for tht I noticed everytime I did this it made her want me more

[@tercial]

@@thouxan211 yeah bro its a live and learn process

[@yahwarrior2268]

Like vegeta said to trunks there is no hope strength is the only answer

[@trap_lord_johnnytrap_lord956]

Real G 💯

[@CalmestK]

Real G Vegeta a red pill legend

[@CalmestK]

smooth casanova every bitch gon have a couple bodies before actin right

[@jaybird5747]

@@CalmestK majority yea but since we on dbz...chi chi would be that unicorn although that bish crazy

[@CalmestK]

Jay Bird too bad she wit a simp ass, steph curry ass nigga😂

[@Curtchrisdagod]

This video is the TRUTH! Life is as simple as being happy, paying your bills, and doing whatever you want to do. I figured that out three years ago at age 38, I haven't looked back since.

[@araynova]

Now that's success god. 🖤

[@jonp6709]

Damn that sad it took ya ol heads dat long

[@jonp6709]

@@Curtchrisdagod watev ol nigga im 90s baby most of our moms are not shit and our moms put us on game early on how hoes are like talmbout ya dig.

[@rosscofox]

41 here. Young (no booze / lift / low-stress life) Wild and Free!

[@MathisR412]

Jon P How you gon shame a brotha for the fact that he got his mind right?? Some niggas go they whole LIVES not figuring this type shit out bout life. We gotta big each other up lil bro, knock off the condescending shit cause you right here watchin these vids right with us. So clearly you ain’t got it all figured out either

[@justin34777]

Its not a L if one chick doesn’t want you its more fish in the sea

[@gerinoferguson2656]

Facts 💯

[@abryepenez124]

I was told by an old head dude you gotta keep looking for women and play to win.

[@ii-beoffdaxzans-ii1259]

💪🏾💯

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

That’s why those men deserve to be single

[@TwesigyeIsaac]

​@@EmilyGloeggler7984same to y'all females

[@OfficialIAMRAGE]

We gotta Stop worrying About these females....Focus on y’all lives💯

[@henryholden6072]

Abundance Mindset
Being happy
Paying my bills
Doing what I want
Life is not easy, but it is simple fellas - COJ

[@youngnation23]

My nigga 💪🏿

[@jamalmadeira5694]

Focus on your goals bro

[@AbasiMatthew]

Let me tell you something, men fall in love with their INVESTMENTS, whether it's your time, money, you will fall in love if you INVEST! Women fall in love with EXPERIENCES, that's why the FIRST matters, first date, first sexual partner, so don't invest if she isn't even showing interest. INVEST IN YOURSELF! FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF!!

[@mrj_onsong]

After i saw my big brother go through a heartbreak after giving so much in his marriage, i knew there was some way to evade all that hurt. Then boom, i found all about the redpill stuff and introduced him. I can say, he learnt

[@Javannie]

Sometimes it takes a lost to truly win!!!

[@theopposite6221]

Steph is cold at changing lives bro!

[@menmakingwaves8621]

I love taking L's these days. It's an instant reassurance you're not learning/working hard enough. I always win at the end of the day.

[@telvious]

Learn from the heartbreak the best thing that happened to me was being utterly broken down by a woman when I was younger. I called it the great awakening!

[@zbasketballvlogs6169]

Clicked faster than a beta Male replying to a girl's Instagram story saying she lonely

[@reeldeal2149]

Zuri campbell 💀💀💀💀💀💀dropping heart emojis and shit like that

[@iamvnchi_]

Zuri campbell 😭😂😂

[@treerobinson2677]

😂😂😂

[@sebdunleavy1608]

Lmao or those bitches saying “pu” every fucking 3 hours

[@jeffersonrobert77]

This is one of the first lesson i learned taking a L it pissed me off when i did but i learned to let go if you win all the time I'll be much harder when you do fall

[@lancertheanswer6351]

When Lebron took 6 L's in the finals, he simply came back for more through self-improvement. The man thought of the L as in living and learning.

[@jmbrown811]

I swear the past few days all your videos been exactly what I needed. The shit hurts but I knew it's gon take me where I need to go.

[@kingrobinzzthekingpill]

Red pill for life steph

[@coolassclay]

Taking the L is a blessing because it’ll give you a chance to meet better quality women.

[@GeassUchiha]

I thought I was “red pilled” until my now EX did something I didn’t see coming. I knew/know the truth of women but I never saw her act in the manner that she did. That L really showed me, no matter what they say, Women do snake shit and you don’t seen that shit coming.

[@alphainteractions3408]

Discipline your disapointments gents.
Irish Redpill Coach

[@kalumbas2860]

Alpha Interactions do you mind expanding on what you mean by this? Watch a lot of your videos too, very informative 💯

[@alphainteractions3408]

@@kalumbas2860 if you run into difficult times ie. Money problems or girl trouble remember to stay focused and disciplined on yourself. Thank you for watching my videos appreciate your support

[@theblackdr.phillip9330]

@@alphainteractions3408 💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@carnage9480]

First you Learn then you remove the L

[@bsv805]

Its so hard to unplug, its so hard to let go. Damn truth....

[@georgerichie6995]

Dude your videos are always on point... Love em all, learnt a lot about women..

[@mrdeeds72]

Too many dudes be choking on Red Pill and either give up or stay in Red Pill Rage mode.

[@RockwildazFamily]

I paused at 1:25 ... he'll get her when he STOP chasing her. She feels it, she knows it, he's needy, he's clingy, that's all feminine nature and she is repelling it/him. ok, I'll continue listening now.

[@rosscofox]

One of my personal favs: "Being detached is a tremendous power. It literally causes success to fall in your lap".

[@drillingig2368]

rosscofox still celebrating winning the league a few years ago? 😂 Leicester City fan

[@caragous]

Yo...this was timely information. Probably a sign from above

[@reeldeal2149]

U gotta exchange them but wait till they hit u up. Never send the the first blow

[@smoothcasanova5082]

Steph, you was speaking nothing but facts! Especially at 10:20 when started talking about the "heartbreak." Man when that happened to me, the "wolf" came out 🐺. Yeah, you are absolutely right. I don't think a man can truly be red pill until he has experienced that type of "L." A true "heartbreak" will change a man forever.

[@swpdisciple]

I once lost a girl due to um, not performing and MAN, what a huge loss that was. It just suffocates the mind.
Honestly, I’ve probably met better women than her afterward but every now and again, I think about her. Too much fapping (and sometimes just plain bad luck) can really throw off once in a lifetime opportunities. Even with that, this too shall pass. Solid vid. It spoke to me.

[@Parrishjr]

Stephon over here being a Alpha, Motivator, and comedian at the same time 🤣🤣🤣 and this video is facts some of my friends act like this (crying over girls cuz they moving or w.e during the summer) in High School and they be like “you don’t understand” to me and I be like it’s never that serious wtf are you a boy or a man

[@theknightcrusadermgtow6607]

Rejection is a blessing in disguise its just to let you know that girl is a waste of time keep it moving.

[@josephmoore1886]

One of the most useful pieces of advice I’ve ever had in my life is to stop fucking thinking. The more time you spend thinking the more time shit has to go wrong and the more time you spend on shit that doesn’t even matter. JUST STOP FUCKING THINKING SO HARD ABOUT EVERYTHING. Take it how it is, and roll with it. MAKE SOMETHING. DO NOT WAIT FOR THINGS TO BE MADE

[@King_by_nature]

Why even go after a married woman???
Why not just get a single or a non-married woman?
Dudes need to focus on their priorities first anyway.

[@mcgyverb1664]

The best way to deal with women, is to let them come to you on their own terms, most guys are putting way too much efforts, and interest, women are never attracted to anything that’s easily available.

[@dewaynemcclelland3424]

Dude sounds like a preacher in church😂

[@Infamous7741]

This is without a doubt the best video you put out so far brother.

[@lilmatt9067]

I’m over all that I just got trust issues now extremely

[@jasmeetsingh5]

I'm not going to waste my time on someone who doesn't care about me, I'd rather move on and focus on my purpose.

[@lestat9012]

Thank you Steph for this great video at my request. Guys need to guard their hearts. This woman came into my life 3+ years ago, love bombed me, slept with me then started to ghost me after I’ve spent all this time, money and love on her. Helped her so many times been there when nobody was only to have her back with her old man treating me like I don’t even matter. She’s getting her guts dug out and I’m up middle of the night popping a Klonopin cause my mind can’t accept that she’d rather be with an abusive loser old man than me. That it was all for nothing. But as long as you can learn from it you have to move on as hard as it is. You have to take that red pill and be stronger than her because guys she doesn’t have the guts. To be honest. She will lie, keep telling you she’s interested, in love, sees a future but always watch her actions not her words. Guard your hearts, kill the beta or it kills you.

[@RockwildazFamily]

I've learned, that only a fool/SIMP/beta male takes a woman's word that she loves u and it's forever and all that. That's how she feel in THAT MOMENT, that can change in the next 5mins for ANY reason. Live with that reality and you'll always expect them to switch up and leave, that way you're good and your just move on to the next one. It's just female nature bruh!

[@link5518]

Dropping Real Jewels On This One.... Especially starting at 9:05 Appreciate it Steph.

[@IsraelYoungLion]

I’ll just take the L move on and become stronger. You can’t get stronger without being knocked down first, to walk you must first fall

[@Annarbormich]

You take it as rejection even tho there are thousands just like her. Once you grasp that it’s smooth sailing

[@eastlakeskid3386]

If she's not laying you, she's playing you - Dr BOA

[@tonys9796]

Taking an *L* 👈 means there's more room to *L* ...earn.

[@tyeoutcalt7702]

I hate you, because you speak such truth.

[@bKontious_blackhoney]

I feel it....Taking my L & My ball & goin home. Best Believe the GOOFIEZ WILL REGRET they doubted my trajectory 💯💯

[@terrencemilton5088]

If she don't want me....that's her decision....

[@kylejackson6186]

Glad I went through heartbreak at a young age . Life ain’t peaches n cream no more 💯 .

[@shockwave1492]

Basketball analogy.. Lol.. Priceless

[@ThegooShow]

Yo this is so TRUE I'm going through this S*** right now.

[@Imhim247]

Trust me. In my past, I took alot L's. However it take out to be a best for me. Them broads is in a bad spots while I'm in a better place. Focus on propose. Take your red pill every damn day. You'll know your worth.💯💯💯

[@scamlikely1442]

You can't spell willingness without a couple of L's

[@gummythedon]

Once you find your purpose and realize that’s the most important thing in the world, then you won’t care about anything else... Key 🔑 word PURPOSE.

[@fred11v96]

This shit hits hard yo!!! All I hear is facts

[@TheRomanTribune]

It's okay. No one wants me anyway.
Atleast I'm making money and have benefits

[@lemmylemz7394]

Dont let your ego driving you crazy. Forcing people to like you is not good and necessary.

[@BigDaddy-rg8gb]

Seems we tend to remember the good times. Forgetting the misery that was part of the experience.

[@Beazies]

8:55 perfect response to that kid’s question. keep this shit up stephon ⚔️ I stay listening

[@jajanodiff]

Man that went at the perfect time. You are a legend!

[@redpillboss1806]

You the man Steph, feeling this and you give it to us straight Up! Keep doing your thing bro! You've inspired me to start my own channel bro!

[@CalmestK]

I stopped giving a fuck if a female leaves or “curved” me. And they always seem to come back or soften up. The more you care, the less she does.

[@buzzyhead6415]

Where my jamaicans at ??

[@hitmantwestsidebloodsstl677]

I would not consider a rejection an L but a favor Keep On Moving on to the next check and don't let them waste your time

[@BKReeef]

Steph Im 42 and bro you spit true to life ism She is the natural Beta Treat her as such...

[@mberengwa1974]

1:42 ayooooo bro😂😂😂😂

[@rosscofox]

Excellent advice about writing "RP" notes. Been doing it for a while now...very helpful

[@marcusfrazier4923]

That Intro beat is fire fam 🔥🔥

[@alistairproductions]

Something about “really liking” someone has an un-sexualizing influence even if at the root of it the attraction is sexual , like you end up accidentally intellectualizing the sexual attracting

[@rishenmoodley8463]

Matthew Alistair This is an excellent point. When we start ‘liking’ them, we start deviating from our primal instincts.

[@alistairproductions]

Rishen Moodley all about those excellent points breh

[@Loch1210]

That’s some bullshit

[@fortuneeeeeeeeeee5220]

Facts, Keep speaking the truth brother until its ingrained in these dude's heads.

[@ztruth7792]

what gets her wet vs paying her bills. You said some real shit

[@BuddaGheeski]

I like that basketball analogy

[@hardcoregamerro81]

I love this video I found out yesterday that my fiancé of three years had intercourse with somebody else and I left I know it’s going to hurt but I have to pick myself up again

[@allhailzamasu69]

Sorry to hear that my brother

[@lilrad2560]

There are two types of pain in life. Pain that hurts and pain that alters.

[@Tazmanian_mma]

This my first video watchin from you and I found you cus of brotha MJgetright. Love how u keep it funky but have a personality behind it! New subscriber

[@ohiostate8636]

Damn this was me too but not anymore i have learned so much from this heartbreak lesson and damn i have become so much stronger because of you and other red pill brothas i got my life back THANK YOU!!

[@DatManDooley]

What if I told you it ain’t a L‼️ stop considering yourself as a loser cause a woman turned you down! This why niggas get mad. Losing a woman that was never down for you is not a loss. It’s a win! Move on fellas

[@wynterrr3939]

Perfect timing 💯

[@happyboyalex199615]

Im a person that gets told a lot that i dont care that im cold cuz i do as i please when i choose to i get up when i want compared to when im told to even at work it takes a lot to get to the point where you dont give a fuck im talking about you have to go through soooooo much shit to the point where your body is naturally like nah i dont care not faking it I genuinely dont care you don’t understand how hard it is to get to the point where you genuinely can tell anyone male or female “i dont care” its a process not a over night thing you have to be able to control every aspect of your life to be able to say those words and actually mean it i am at the point where any girl i talk to i can wrap around my finger emotionally from the basest to the ugliest to where if one girl says she doest want me I allow her to see how other girls get so nervous around me to even speak they mind cuz when you really dont give a fuck girls can feel it and think twice about the words that come out of they mouth if a girl can feel your presence when you walk in a room a girl will literally treble when speaking to you because she knows she has to step her game up to even make a impact she has to word her self properly when speaking to you because when you she realizes you genuinely dont give a fuck about any outcome she corrects her self and she will notice with just your facial expressions with out you saying anything and you will notice it in their facial expressions while they are talking you will literally see them break character while speaking to make sure not to say something that will tick you off they will check them self to the point where you can be disrespectful and they with take it as a compliment because when you dont give a fuck they pussy starts taking for them they start acting in a way where they them self ask them self “who is this guy and why does he make me nervous speaking around him “ and girl will know when your faking cuz they shit test gets better and better every day talking to you but you my friend have to always be one step ahead you have to have the courage to be like come at me girl gimme your worst and be able to hit a curve ball unexpectedly if you can get to that point and genuinely let your words flow out to the point where a girl checks her self before even saying hi to you well then my friend you won because at that point she isn’t worried about what you do or where your hands touch her she is worried about the people around her at that point she is worried that people will notice that she lost her power even tho she might be the most beautiful girl in the room she will hesitate when speaking to you she will know what to say and what not to say around you with out you having to open your mouth you see girls listen with they eyes if you can let a girl know what your gonna say with just your face instead of words you won you won they reminisce when your not around and thos shit test she gives you they turn in to thoughts in her head she starts wonder “why did i say that, im so stupid why would i tell him that” and when she sees you again she will personally bring it up and apologize to you for testing you

[@EduardoLima]

This is a good episode

[@EduardoLima]

This episode real as fuck actually

[@TalkingHottTV516]

💯💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾you the realest

[@y.f.gjrasi3744]

Mane you hit the shit out that wall 😂😂😂😂😂

[@bryanlong6283]

I LOVE THIS INFORMATION,,,,,, THANK YOU BRO!!!

[@deondrec4941]

U didnt do the infamous scream "JUST STOP GIVING A FUCKKK❗❗❗. until they finally get it

[@Alucard_ix]

Loool all was said in this video 100% truth!

[@saxitopau1528]

Massive TRUTH here.

[@itzzztoodah8203]

No cap steph I’ve been lackin I used to watch your vids to become an alpha cause this female had me a straight simp beta waisted my time. She ended up call it quits after we just went out of town and shit. I was mad but I knew it’s not only my fault but I can’t be no simp so took my L and 2 days later I see this vid and I’m not the only one and there’s tons of us who are Alphas but women got us in beta mode.

[@virgil5917]

Took an L last week but we cool we learn from it 🙏