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Literally was at a bar met a chick she was so drunk she literally told me she used to get ran through In college. And she then said she wanted to be serious with someone… I laughed so hard 😂😂
I used to work at Walmart and would dig out this new girl’s guts, then one day she comes check out at my line with another dude, says hello to me, grabs her bags and leaves. Turns out the dude was her boyfriend, she had a boyfriend the entire time I was digging out her guts. And she even had the audacity to check out at my line like nothing, These females COLD G 🥶
When a woman cheats on you it is almost always premeditated. She had to have lost feelings for you weeks or months prior, talked about said lost feelings to her girlfriends or family (this is why should never look at her friends and family as your own because they are for her best interest), searched for a man she has proclaimed your superior in some arbitrary standard, entertained said man for weeks or months (while you are none the wiser), and then finally she does the deed. She'll do it several times in order to figure out if said man wants to take her seriously...oh by the way she'll continue to sleep with you in order to not arouse suspicion. Now she'll either get careless and get caught or she'll break up with you and get with him a week later, this how they move on much quicker than men.
Bro It ain't got to do with nothing about no loss feelings all these shi u saying she 4 Street she 4 Street stop making excuses you talking about it's cuz she lost feelings you're saying that as that is a good excuse if that is not a good excuse then why you even saying it SMH then you got these little kids under these comments agreeing with you
This is all true. The problem men has is, that they can never understand the womans decision in these cases is correct. She left because youre a shit match. The guy can never see this when the ego is hurt and the purpose is lost. Thats what makes women much stronger mentally.
You will never be the only one she’s talking to 💯 you gotta be whiling to walk from these chicks at anytime 💯 the best way to is to focus on your purpose and always put yourself first 💯 we will always get the last laugh when we stay on our purpose and become colder and successful 💯 and pay attention to her actions and not her words 💯
Bro, she literally said "let me talk to you afterwards". Fellas they can be that cold hearted because they already have it rationalised and justified in their minds, it's your fault she cheated and nothing can change her mind. Stay on your grind Kings, they can't love like we can, so Love your grind and your family.
Or better yet instantly drop all the feelings and give different reactions towards shit like this by letting her know without telling her that it didn't bother you but made you happy or laugh and just treat her like the sl*t she is
@@jibril2473 Facts, the best thing for him to do would’ve been to walk up to the car & say “I see what you doing btw, dont even think about calling me again” in a calm voice with straight voice & then walking away and never contacting her again. Or heck, say nothing AT ALL and just block her number so she dont even know he know. But tbh it probably wouldn’t have meant anything to her since this looks like he was an overly emotional beta male which is why she probably cheated.
I mean think about it alotta guys including myself used to be straight up beta males having feminine energy so when we see other dudes out here living like that it's usually a dude who has no dad not so many men in the family or has a beta father or stepfather who would have female mindsets and rarely that would also happen when they do have a dad in their lives because it could be their dad trying to teach their sons the game of life especially stuff like this while the momma tries to prevent him from doing that
When Steph said “talkin to him with the other mans diggin stick still inside her” I couldn’t help but to bust out snickering with a laugh… there’s no limit to this circus of absurdity 🎪
@@johnsysays Most Men are averrage and even below averrage looking the beard is make up to Men cause they know that without they wouldn't look good. You got to have a extremely beautiful face to not have a Beard.
The reason why men struggle so hard is because they prioritize their life around needing validation from women and struggling not to validate her. When you truly start to love and improve yourself, you dont struggle withholding from validating a woman because you genuinely dont possess the desire to, because you are transforming yourself. Only you can love yourself in the truest way. Thats it. Not another man not another woman only you. When you are fulfilling yourself you win. And self love is synonymous with self esteem, it only comes with genuinely doing the work. But when it begins to pay off, it pays off tremendously. You can enjoy women, but at your convenience rather than your self sacrifice without giving away your own energy. Thats when you win. When you cant be controlled or manipulated, because you put yourself first.
Right you can still enjoy beautiful woman as long as you’re not overly invested and you don’t let her make you emotional and cry like a little beta right?
Yes. But for the average man its gonna take hard work. Its the emotional attachment that gets men. Being too invested and not doing the self work. Its doing the self work and putting yourself first with the understanding of the pitfalls of being too invested, that keeps you from actually being too invested. The understanding is important. Alot of men are still simply trying to pretend to act with value rather than genuinely doing the work, which is why they end up giving their energy away and losing the attraction. Getting too emotionally attached and needy/desperate is always going to be a factor when you arent on your personal purpose and improving. Self love removes neediness from everyone/everything. But it doesnt come without doing the work. This is why men may manage to raise interest but then lose it, because the facade of faking high value only last so long. Eventually how they really are emerges and women catch on, leading them right back to square 1. The root cause of the problem is not doing the work of self development, both internally (adopting the positive mindset of believing in yourself to succeed) and externally (doing the actual physical work) mindset and action both must be in a constant synchronicity for success to happen. When you truly become valuable and value self, you wont need to pretend, it will be as natural as breathing. But you have to do the work and not be lazy. No way around it.
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf
It’s crazy to think steph is only 24…… he’s literally just 3 years older then me yet he’s like 20 years ahead of the game mentally and financial wise too, you’d think this man in his mid 30s or 40s , it’s mindblowing tbh
That’s what happens when you put some one over Jesus Christ. “Do not put your trust in princes, in mortal men, who cannot save. When their spirit departs, they return to the ground; on that very day their plans come to nothing. the Maker of heaven and earth, the sea, and everything in them-- the LORD, who remains faithful forever. ... Praise the LORD.”
The dude who killed his baby mom and girlfriend said these exact words . Stop playing with people emotions . Don’t condone the way he went about it , but you can only feel for him when females be doing shit like this
Nah, you cant control what others do but you can control yourself. As a man you not even supposed to be THAT emotionally invested in a chick. A lot of guys were raised without fathers or by beta males so they think that “falling in love” is good. You should NEVER fall in love with a woman, or invest too much of your emotions into her. There should always be an emotional wall that you keep up with women. And your mindset should always be “I dont care about this bih, its nice to have her here for now but I got better things to do like improving my finances & fitness”.
@@osmanbey8796 your right as a man you should always be worried about your finances and fitness .But i disagree you can’t have that bitter Macho man randy savage attitude . You just can’t go out like no sucka and wear your heart on a sleeve . All females not bad and I’m sure there were signs that this man tried to ignore but him going out as soon as i would’ve peeped that she on some weird shit i would’ve just dropped her way before it came to him pulling up and recording Elizabeth get off of her looking ass lol
And some weak minded men would take out their guns and gun these chicks down right there and then and that would result in their lives being ruined in the process. All because the chick deceived him .
No matter how much it hurts you gotta leave when u get that gut feeling. That’s what being cold is: The ability to put your feelings to the side for the greater good
Be cold is never being fully committed to a woman in the first place. The ability to have fun with women, enjoy their company & NOT catch any deep feelings for them, that’s cold af right there. Nothing scares a woman more than a man who can fuck her, have great experiences & laughter with her, and then immediately turn emotionless when she misbehaves. That kind of man she can’t manipulate.
Wisdom to the young men. The only way a man can be cheated on is if he “claims” a female as his own. Always give a female the freedom to do whatever she’s been doing before you met. When you put it down like that you’re also giving yourself the freedom to do the same…without saying it outright. Use other females to keep your mind off her.
Lol 🤣 u can't live life like that an build a family, when ur in the streets roll that way but u have to be intentional and not hungry for a realationahip ready girl ublook for the signs during not after.
1:23 There's no need to ask fam...If you catch her in the act then that's the only answer you need right there. Repeatedly yelling for her to answer the question is futile at that point. Just walk away!
Facts bro. It happened to me. She was in college we was together for 2-3 months. Both freshmen. I was a fool back then. I surprise visited her and I kid you not she was there, in her dorm, lights down and on her bed laid up with another dude. Right next to her bed was literally our pictures on the wall. I didn't even say nothing man, I just walked away. It hurt and I wanted to go off on her but in my head I considered that would just add more hurt and fix nothing. That was my awakening moment.
@@darnellwilliams8783 It don’t matter where u work at as long as your being productive, staying on your Grind and Working out. Only You can call yourself a King 👑
@@darnellwilliams8783 Yeah you can still talk to Females but it’s better if your chasing your purpose, getting money and working out. The females will always be here.
Exactly. Dont get why the jilted guy still feels the need to go on a rampage and shoot the chick who cheated on him .and he even goes further by shooting her lover and her mother and so on . And the fool ends up destroying his own life because he invested his entire heart and soul in that 304 and couldnt comprehend that she could cheat on him.
Facts bro now I see why chris brown said these ho'es ain't loyal a lot of us men and boys gotta understand are time will come but we gotta focus on our purpose🥶💪🏿💯
Just walk away. It happened to me. She was in college we was together for 2-3 months. Both freshmen. I was a fool back then. Nothing was even suspicious there were no red flags. We talked a lot, we called every night, she always texted me first. Then I surprise visited her and I kid you not she was there, in her dorm, lights down and on her bed laid up with another dude. Right next to her bed was literally our pictures on the wall. She had our first pic together framed on her desk. I didn't even say nothing man, I just walked away. It hurt and I wanted to go off on her but in my head I considered that would just add more hurt and fix nothing. That was my awakening moment.
Not every women is a Jezebel! Smh! The social grace showed me there’s a lot of hurt men and women. I’m getting rid of it. Outside of the social I don’t hear about this kind of stuff. So toxic!
A guy can be above average in all fields, but if she feels CHEMISTRY with another dude, its a wrap. Doesn’t come down to size, money, height, etc. those are just bonuses
It’s crazy this actually blew up IK the dude who recorded this, he was posting her days before this happened it also happened in Katy,TX(basically Houston)
It sounds like he was putting her above him before that moment. Maybe that's why she cheated. He even bought her food for her lunch break and look at what happened. He sounds like he did everything right. Never do everything right bro. I can bet that man who she's with in the back seat wouldn't do half the stuff that the boyfriend did for her.
Yep. If she doesn’t believe in The Lord Jesus Christ more than you do and read her bible every night before bed you literally have no shot of a relationship with her in my opinion. I’ve dated too many girls that fake believe in God or just didn’t believe at all.
Bro literally something very similar happened to me a few weeks ago. She traveled with her family and met a guy over there. She cheated and called me to let me know cuz supposedly she felt so guilty about it for doing it. To keep the story short I was the one who broke up with her and later on she told me she don’t love me no more and she said she didn’t regret it cuz she started to like the guy. Now she wants something with him. I’ve been watching and learning from Steph for a long time but after watching this video it really impacted me and made me realize I need to get colder and boss up. Honestly I needed this video from Steph he’s always spittin facts for us and getting us straight
Get in the gym, take up a trade in Electrical, Plumbing or HVAC, Cyber Security is good too... then get you a side hustle on the side... watch how the tide turns literally before your eyes. Stay strong and never ever fall for a woman again until you know the Most High sent her.
She’ll regret it eventually. She probly regrets now but women are too prideful. They will never admit it. Use this to be your best version. This is fuel to the flame.
A subscriber from South Africa here.. wanna say Steph bro I no longer watch TV, Sopies or even series. Your Redpill wisdom is what keeps me FREE mentally and emotionally sane. Not to forget EDUCATED. Redpill Is an important service for men.
I really want steph to talk about men who get cheated on after being with them for 7years - 20yrs. It’s always easy to walk away and swallow the pill, but steph has to help out who spent decades of our LIVES with a woman who cheated.
Same concept. Once you understand she can leave you at anytime it makes it easier. Doesn’t mean you won’t be hurt but have to value self. We fell for the Hollywood movie bs. My wake up moment was after I got of the military. Moved to a different state to be with her. I even told her that her coworker was shady. She said she didn’t like him. Guess who she cheated on me with LOL. She started a fight a tried to make me hit her so it would ease her guilt. I packed my truck and left South Carolina headed back to Michigan. I stopped at a pay phone and called her. I was crying and she told me man tf up and hung up on me. LOL that was 2003 and since then ever relationship afterwards was easier to deal with. When they want to go there is no fight. I just do me. A woman who loves you won’t cheat on you. If you take them back they will do it again.
yo Steph thank you for all of these videos man. i'm going through a tough breakup, after a 3 years relationship from 16 to 19. my girl cheated on me, we kept talking for three months, then i decided we can't do that anymore and after the first two weeks, she kissed a fuckboy and then told me she's sad that he's a fuckboy cause after that night she wanted more. some bitches ain't shit, real talk. thank you again Steph, you're the man! (i'm from Romania, just so you know that you reached this part of the world too)
One time a chick I met briefly through a friend added me on snap and would blow me when we met up. She invited me out to her bday party and whole time she had a BF that was there. Apparently he cheated too and she wanted revenge and they're still together. Pretty messy imo
Much respect and admiration. Another one that's hits to the core. We as Men should, would and going to do things 👆 and not down. Focus on getting better and maximising our own potential for our own greater good.
I see you bro. I was wondering when you was gonna trim it down. I understand tho most of us introverts don’t really keep up to style cuzz we on our own shit 💯💯
Same bout man it gets better with time. My girl left me a month ago and monkey branched but it’s all good I’m leveling up I just took it as a sign that she not supposed to continue on my journey. Pussy was amazing but that’s it girl was toxic as hell.
@@ProperXSmoke to be honest I don't even miss the trick. I just miss that sweet watery gut. That's just the scarcity mindset that most of us need to change. Anyways, moving on
As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another, thabk you for all the free information you have given Men about the truth of female nature. Praying 4 u my bro, grace and peace from polynesia New Zealand.
Why.......is this young man ARGUING with this chick.....while she's with ANOTHER dude???😳 I bet he paid the car note, the insurance, AND put gas in the tank........🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 What part of the game......is THIS???? Somebody, PLEASE teach these young cats some game.......🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s tough but on the real money growth and freedom is a lot better and easier than being with a chick where you have no idea is riding with you 💯 percent or not. Shit is very sad
And wat that ohhhh I know listening to this nigga and going off wat he said huh, make ur own mind instead of taking advice from someone who stereotype women because of a bad past
“If she nasty with u, she’s going to be nastier with him” this line really hit home. It goes to show womens’ hypergamous nature. And it won’t stop, that’s why there’s the emphasis of us men focusing on ourselves. At the end of the day we have our program that is designed for continuous improvement and growth, it’s up to them if they want to follow the program or leave it, either way the growth/improvement is not gonna stop for anyone
Literally was at a bar met a chick she was so drunk she literally told me she used to get ran through In college. And she then said she wanted to be serious with someone… I laughed so hard 😂😂
I would’ve laugh also
Brooklyn Made Marcel TV dont know know hows thata funny it probably never happend or you got them Pill Cosby Vibes
Its funny cause not drinking responsibly and behaving ignorant at parties or in life in general gets you ran through 😂
I would've laugh so hard i probably would made her pay for the drinks with her drunk 🅰️💲💲
@@maliqflowers5112 big W city boys up
I used to work at Walmart and would dig out this new girl’s guts, then one day she comes check out at my line with another dude, says hello to me, grabs her bags and leaves. Turns out the dude was her boyfriend, she had a boyfriend the entire time I was digging out her guts. And she even had the audacity to check out at my line like nothing, These females COLD G 🥶
Yup, this is what Alan Roger Currie talked about when he said women are duplicitous.
Damn.....
@King Sun you still work at Walmart huh boy Male
@@darnellwilliams8783 You still trolling for years? Smfh woman 🤦♂️😔
You either the player or you getting played
When a woman cheats on you it is almost always premeditated. She had to have lost feelings for you weeks or months prior, talked about said lost feelings to her girlfriends or family (this is why should never look at her friends and family as your own because they are for her best interest), searched for a man she has proclaimed your superior in some arbitrary standard, entertained said man for weeks or months (while you are none the wiser), and then finally she does the deed. She'll do it several times in order to figure out if said man wants to take her seriously...oh by the way she'll continue to sleep with you in order to not arouse suspicion. Now she'll either get careless and get caught or she'll break up with you and get with him a week later, this how they move on much quicker than men.
This is spot on!! Happen to me but much worse. Today you have to watch your woman carefully
🎯, this is why you have to lay down the foundation, leave no cracks and punish her if she breaks them.
Bro It ain't got to do with nothing about no loss feelings all these shi u saying she 4 Street she 4 Street stop making excuses you talking about it's cuz she lost feelings you're saying that as that is a good excuse if that is not a good excuse then why you even saying it SMH then you got these little kids under these comments agreeing with you
This is all true. The problem men has is, that they can never understand the womans decision in these cases is correct. She left because youre a shit match. The guy can never see this when the ego is hurt and the purpose is lost. Thats what makes women much stronger mentally.
Bro write a book
We gotta get colder
You say this shit every time bruh you funny af😂😂😂
Got 2
I’m glad someone mentioned it.
Ice
lol
You will never be the only one she’s talking to 💯 you gotta be whiling to walk from these chicks at anytime 💯 the best way to is to focus on your purpose and always put yourself first 💯 we will always get the last laugh when we stay on our purpose and become colder and successful 💯 and pay attention to her actions and not her words 💯
Real shit 💯
@@Donbanks45 💯💯
Nothing but facts 💪🏿💯
@@maliqflowers5112 💯💯
@Malone 💯💯
Bro, she literally said "let me talk to you afterwards". Fellas they can be that cold hearted because they already have it rationalised and justified in their minds, it's your fault she cheated and nothing can change her mind. Stay on your grind Kings, they can't love like we can, so Love your grind and your family.
If he had gotten any closer that smell would’ve been🤢. That peesleeve was all hot and sweaty
@@donatello9482 gross
That shit was rooough "let me talk to you afterwards"
They legit do not care. They become so indifferent it's scary. You really learn that you never know what kind of woman you came to know.
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She didn’t even try to get up or put her clothes back on she deadass wanted to finish what she was doing. Truly disgusting.
Jezebel spirit
Shit if I was the nigga, I would’ve kept going 🤷🏽♂️ need to get this 🥜 off then y’all can sort out y’all shit 💯
@@FlexSZN23 lmao, ill be like let me finish and you can handle yah handle g
@@FlexSZN23 lmaooooooooooooooo
she cannot get up shes naked haha
Quality is crispy af mane.
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Facts g💪🏿💯
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Dr boa we need your take on this as well
Facts
As stephiscold has said before, “ if she want another man’s digging stick there ain’t nothing you can do”!
run a train on her...problem solved
Facts my G these 304’s mind ain’t right
Or better yet instantly drop all the feelings and give different reactions towards shit like this by letting her know without telling her that it didn't bother you but made you happy or laugh and just treat her like the sl*t she is
Werd the dudes that will shoot the other dude didn’t hear that part smh
@@matchhunter7012 😂😂😂😂😂
“Get off him!” 😂😂😂😂 This is a whole other level bro.
He doin too much
She wanted to finish
Nicca begging n sh*t 🤣💀🤣
@@jibril2473 Facts, the best thing for him to do would’ve been to walk up to the car & say “I see what you doing btw, dont even think about calling me again” in a calm voice with straight voice & then walking away and never contacting her again. Or heck, say nothing AT ALL and just block her number so she dont even know he know. But tbh it probably wouldn’t have meant anything to her since this looks like he was an overly emotional beta male which is why she probably cheated.
I mean think about it alotta guys including myself used to be straight up beta males having feminine energy so when we see other dudes out here living like that it's usually a dude who has no dad not so many men in the family or has a beta father or stepfather who would have female mindsets and rarely that would also happen when they do have a dad in their lives because it could be their dad trying to teach their sons the game of life especially stuff like this while the momma tries to prevent him from doing that
When Steph said “talkin to him with the other mans diggin stick still inside her” I couldn’t help but to bust out snickering with a laugh… there’s no limit to this circus of absurdity 🎪
Facts you can tell she didn’t respect him one bit 💯
he caught us all off guard lmfao
Bro I died when he said that. I feel bad for the guy but hey, better to learn now, rather than later.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
imagine telling the other dude "pass her to your other homies, she free 🐱"that would ruin their fun and mood 😂
Steph just gon act like he ain’t trimmed the beard😂
lol
i swear that beard was too legendary to just act like it didn't exist 😂😂😂😂
Beard looking good
I knew something was off😂😕😂
@@johnsysays Most Men are averrage and even below averrage looking the beard is make up to Men cause they know that without they wouldn't look good.
You got to have a extremely beautiful face to not have a Beard.
dude did not deserve that pain. focus on urself kings
N this what makes niggas dogs but let them tell it we not loyal lmao 🤣
We can only hope he uses this as his wake up call to get level up and get more 🥶, instead of letting it get him crushed and depressed.
@@The_Void_Staring_Back Amen
@@The_Void_Staring_Back yessir 💯 if he doesn’t wake up he has to be the biggest simp ever my G
ALL FACTS! If she's nasty with you...She's even Nastier with him. ALL FACTS!
💯 these 304’s be for the streets can’t love em
“ I don’t love you can you just leave” pain but that is his red pill moment
A women can NOT love a man, a woman can at best RESPECT a man. When she has no RESPECT for you anymore she will be jumping on top of another mans D...
@@matchhunter7012 already know brother
Women out here creating a Thanos every 10 seconds!
@@matchhunter7012 you couldn’t have said it any better!
Of course she didn't let him know until she got caught in that moment.
Take care of yourselves Kings. Nothing is sacred anymore. If you want loyalty, get a dog.
Bro don't lose Hope.
@@wd4440 u actin like no women can ever be loyal bro relax
@@wrongdoings2934
LEARN HOW TO READ!!!!!!
I just told him to not lose Hope with Women.
Not all Women are not loyal.
Don't you get that?
🤦🏿♂️
@@wd4440 i ain’t mean to tag u that was meant for the other guy
Facts. With women you're gambling. With dogs that unconditional love is guaranteed.
The reason why men struggle so hard is because they prioritize their life around needing validation from women and struggling not to validate her. When you truly start to love and improve yourself, you dont struggle withholding from validating a woman because you genuinely dont possess the desire to, because you are transforming yourself. Only you can love yourself in the truest way. Thats it. Not another man not another woman only you. When you are fulfilling yourself you win. And self love is synonymous with self esteem, it only comes with genuinely doing the work. But when it begins to pay off, it pays off tremendously. You can enjoy women, but at your convenience rather than your self sacrifice without giving away your own energy. Thats when you win. When you cant be controlled or manipulated, because you put yourself first.
100%
Unlikely.
Right you can still enjoy beautiful woman as long as you’re not overly invested and you don’t let her make you emotional and cry like a little beta right?
Yes. But for the average man its gonna take hard work. Its the emotional attachment that gets men. Being too invested and not doing the self work. Its doing the self work and putting yourself first with the understanding of the pitfalls of being too invested, that keeps you from actually being too invested. The understanding is important. Alot of men are still simply trying to pretend to act with value rather than genuinely doing the work, which is why they end up giving their energy away and losing the attraction. Getting too emotionally attached and needy/desperate is always going to be a factor when you arent on your personal purpose and improving. Self love removes neediness from everyone/everything. But it doesnt come without doing the work. This is why men may manage to raise interest but then lose it, because the facade of faking high value only last so long. Eventually how they really are emerges and women catch on, leading them right back to square 1. The root cause of the problem is not doing the work of self development, both internally (adopting the positive mindset of believing in yourself to succeed) and externally (doing the actual physical work) mindset and action both must be in a constant synchronicity for success to happen. When you truly become valuable and value self, you wont need to pretend, it will be as natural as breathing. But you have to do the work and not be lazy. No way around it.
Well put..
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions
2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue
3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman
4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man
5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger
6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge
7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP
8. Stay away from single mothers
9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s
10. Never fully commit
11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut
12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you
13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment
14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust
15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf
Number 12 is always gonna be facts regardless if they tried to denying it
@Malone not it's not male biy every man should cherish his woman but you a male
@@darnellwilliams8783 Learn how to spell
Somebody skipped school
# 14 should be rule #1
It’s crazy to think steph is only 24…… he’s literally just 3 years older then me yet he’s like 20 years ahead of the game mentally and financial wise too, you’d think this man in his mid 30s or 40s , it’s mindblowing tbh
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Not really.. once u had enough 304s you know all there is to know 🤣💀🤣
Age doesn’t matter when you witness it at a very young age and you see right through the bullshit… but the way Steph explains it, Is damn near perfect
I wish I knew this stuff at 24. It pisses me off, all stupid shit I’ve done. I’m 34 now, and have been COLD ever since. 🥶
I’m only 23 & I thought this nigga would b around his 27 or 28 I guess I was wrong 🥴🤦🏽♂️
Don’t put yourself in a deficit by loving someone more than yourself
Fr tho
Exactly you can tell that the guy in the video cares more about the bitch more than she does for him.
I just pray he ain’t take her back
Thank you
That’s what happens when you put some one over Jesus Christ. “Do not put your trust in princes, in mortal men, who cannot save. When their spirit departs, they return to the ground; on that very day their plans come to nothing. the Maker of heaven and earth, the sea, and everything in them-- the LORD, who remains faithful forever. ... Praise the LORD.”
The dude who killed his baby mom and girlfriend said these exact words . Stop playing with people emotions . Don’t condone the way he went about it , but you can only feel for him when females be doing shit like this
💯 men should just leave chicks who act like this
Bro you should be able to tell those subtle signs . You know when someone really messing with you or not
Nah, you cant control what others do but you can control yourself. As a man you not even supposed to be THAT emotionally invested in a chick. A lot of guys were raised without fathers or by beta males so they think that “falling in love” is good. You should NEVER fall in love with a woman, or invest too much of your emotions into her. There should always be an emotional wall that you keep up with women. And your mindset should always be “I dont care about this bih, its nice to have her here for now but I got better things to do like improving my finances & fitness”.
@@osmanbey8796 your right as a man you should always be worried about your finances and fitness .But i disagree you can’t have that bitter Macho man randy savage attitude . You just can’t go out like no sucka and wear your heart on a sleeve . All females not bad and I’m sure there were signs that this man tried to ignore but him going out as soon as i would’ve peeped that she on some weird shit i would’ve just dropped her way before it came to him pulling up and recording Elizabeth get off of her looking ass lol
Always Be careful investing in a woman
This is his red pill moment he'll be stronger after this.
He might. Or he can turn into a woman hating loser that just drinks himself to death. That's why this message is so important
@Maurice Ray hopefully it doesn’t 🙏🏾
Hopefully
@@TheChocolateChamp can you blame him ?
@@eliefosso7215 nah I wouldn't blame him in either path he picks but he has kids so he should embrace the red pill and just do his best in life.
This channel isn't just a channel, it's a very strong, positive brotherhood💪👑
💯💯💯💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
🤞🏾🤞🏾💯💯💯💯
Yesssirr💯
‼️🤞
Yessir 💯🥶
That was just pure Cringe when he stays there and begs and pleads with her to get off that man’s D.🤣🤣🤣
Bruhhh I’m like just leave my guy 🤣🤣🤣🤣
They gon finish.
“I don’t fcking love you”
Mehn I felt that ☹️💔💔
Ouch
And some weak minded men would take out their guns and gun these chicks down right there and then and that would result in their lives being ruined in the process. All because the chick deceived him .
I just watched that part. Man that was fucked up smh. A damn shame bruh. I know that one hurt. But gotta keep pushing. Stay mentally strong out there.
Bruh I swear to God I ain’t trusting these 304 no more. Idc how nice she is🤦🏾♂️
@@joelANJ only trust Jesus Christ bro no one on this planet has ur back like him
You committed yo life to helping niggas level up & bruh I love you for that
Thats love ❗️
Facts and he’s far from selfish that’s why I love this nigga bro no bullshit!! I love you Steph🖤
🤣🤣🤣 he was literally saying get off him n she said no 🤣🤣🤣🤣
LMAOOOO SHE SAID ILL TALK TO YOU AFTER, bruh I’m done.
"Its an evil world we live in"
-future
😭😭😭😭😭 he’s def finna become a savage now
@@too_official6194 naw he gonna do the same thing
@@lwandilezama2353🤦🏽😂😂😂
No matter how much it hurts you gotta leave when u get that gut feeling.
That’s what being cold is:
The ability to put your feelings to the side for the greater good
Be cold is never being fully committed to a woman in the first place. The ability to have fun with women, enjoy their company & NOT catch any deep feelings for them, that’s cold af right there. Nothing scares a woman more than a man who can fuck her, have great experiences & laughter with her, and then immediately turn emotionless when she misbehaves. That kind of man she can’t manipulate.
@@osmanbey8796 that’s cold bro 🥶
@@osmanbey8796 king shit..
Nah, man...he's saying get off him ,as if he's about to forgive her afterwards. You best just leave man, things like that, can't be forgiven
Fr tho bruh 🤣 he needs to leave that trash
Yea Nal I would have said nun frfr
Wisdom to the young men. The only way a man can be cheated on is if he “claims” a female as his own. Always give a female the freedom to do whatever she’s been doing before you met. When you put it down like that you’re also giving yourself the freedom to do the same…without saying it outright. Use other females to keep your mind off her.
Thats Gold facts.
Lol 🤣 u can't live life like that an build a family, when ur in the streets roll that way but u have to be intentional and not hungry for a realationahip ready girl ublook for the signs during not after.
“She Bout to buhhhhh.” Steph is way to funny 😂😂😂😂😂
6:12 😂😂😂😂
@@kelllogzknowledge be having me dead asf 😭😭🏃🏿♂️
@@too_official6194 every time, and his face expression be having me in tears 😂
Yooooo I rewinded it back so many times 😂😂😂😂
Buhhhhh
"Its a cold world we live in"
1:23 There's no need to ask fam...If you catch her in the act then that's the only answer you need right there. Repeatedly yelling for her to answer the question is futile at that point. Just walk away!
Exactly
Straight up! Let her live with her decision..
Facts bro. It happened to me. She was in college we was together for 2-3 months. Both freshmen. I was a fool back then. I surprise visited her and I kid you not she was there, in her dorm, lights down and on her bed laid up with another dude. Right next to her bed was literally our pictures on the wall. I didn't even say nothing man, I just walked away. It hurt and I wanted to go off on her but in my head I considered that would just add more hurt and fix nothing. That was my awakening moment.
@@m1r__ dropped this 👑
Fellas never argue with females and keep it moving and trust me they always come back
Always
I don’t love you, please just leave…
“Still talking to him, while she got the digging stick inside her sweet watery guts” 🤦🏾♂️
Hahaha dang, nothing is sacred.
Even worst shes said "Let me talk to you afterwards"
That’s brutal af man
That dude might never recover from that and if he does he gon b cold
If she's nasty with you she's even nastier with him! Line of the year!!!!
Focus on yourself King , your time will
Come 💯
How can a guy working at Wendy's be a king if anything
@@darnellwilliams8783 It don’t matter where u work at as long as your being productive, staying on your Grind and Working out. Only You can call yourself a King 👑
@@darnellwilliams8783 Yeah you can still talk to Females but it’s better if your chasing your purpose, getting money and working out. The females will always be here.
I see why dudes trip off and go crazy but never throw away your freedom over a 304
Exactly. Dont get why the jilted guy still feels the need to go on a rampage and shoot the chick who cheated on him .and he even goes further by shooting her lover and her mother and so on . And the fool ends up destroying his own life because he invested his entire heart and soul in that 304 and couldnt comprehend that she could cheat on him.
If there was no police, this chick would of had a different cenario. 😂
Sometimes it's best to walk away and don't say a word to these types of chicks. They ain't worth it
@Malone yeah g including the eggplant bro.
Facts bro now I see why chris brown said these ho'es ain't loyal a lot of us men and boys gotta understand are time will come but we gotta focus on our purpose🥶💪🏿💯
@@maliqflowers5112 exactly g 💯. We all have a 4:00 so our purpose always comes first
Never think it won’t happen to you. That’s what RP’d me tf up and made me develop that abundance mindset🎯
"Never think it won't happen to you "...
I felt that
Ayeee abundance is key 🔑
Mannnn. Had a flashback no kizzy
Duuuude....how many times did he say "get off him!" LoL at about the 53rd time I had to laugh! LoL She was getting off alright!
"The power of the relationship lies with whoever cares less"
-Uncle Wayne
She’s never yours, it’s just your turn…
''Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved''' - Project Pat
Just walk away. It happened to me. She was in college we was together for 2-3 months. Both freshmen. I was a fool back then. Nothing was even suspicious there were no red flags. We talked a lot, we called every night, she always texted me first. Then I surprise visited her and I kid you not she was there, in her dorm, lights down and on her bed laid up with another dude. Right next to her bed was literally our pictures on the wall. She had our first pic together framed on her desk. I didn't even say nothing man, I just walked away. It hurt and I wanted to go off on her but in my head I considered that would just add more hurt and fix nothing. That was my awakening moment.
dawg that's awful. i would never wish this on anyone. idk how id react if this happen to me im new to this red pill shi.
Bless up brother focus on yourself
What did she do when she saw you? Did she try to reach out over the years?
@@PermanentHigh she called out my name and followed me down the hallway in tears, the typical "i can explain" stuff.
@@deeangelo5350 i wasn't even redpill at the time but it turned me cold.
I was chuckling pretty hard. Dude was talking to her like her dad telling her to get off him..hoo boy.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is why you stay on your grind fellas and focus on yourself king 👑, these jezebels do not care about us in the long run.
You can’t be a king if you don’t rule a kingdom
Not every women is a Jezebel! Smh! The social grace showed me there’s a lot of hurt men and women. I’m getting rid of it. Outside of the social I don’t hear about this kind of stuff. So toxic!
Damn. She was like damn this nigga bugging out let me finish mine first💀💀💀 average niggas always swear they not getting cheated on.
Its the ego that lies to them
Average in what way? Money? Height? D size?
@@12Gates. average mindset that It can’t happen even rich dudes get cheated on
@@mellzShelby exactly 🤙🤙
A guy can be above average in all fields, but if she feels CHEMISTRY with another dude, its a wrap. Doesn’t come down to size, money, height, etc. those are just bonuses
A win for the 304. A L for the simp who fell for the hope strategy.
It’s crazy this actually blew up IK the dude who recorded this, he was posting her days before this happened it also happened in Katy,TX(basically Houston)
Acc name?
It sounds like he was putting her above him before that moment. Maybe that's why she cheated. He even bought her food for her lunch break and look at what happened. He sounds like he did everything right. Never do everything right bro. I can bet that man who she's with in the back seat wouldn't do half the stuff that the boyfriend did for her.
Yea bro the hoes out here in Houston savage asf .
That’s why I never got married when I enlisted and I’ll never get married while I am enlisted
you implying it’s even an option once your enlistment is over?!!
Shit bro I’m in the army to and that ain’t even an option to me…Jody is always creepin lol 😂. Just got to dig until they Buhhhh and keep it moving 😂😂
Smart man. Idk why these other dudes in the military think their girlfriends or wives will stay loyal while he’s deployed 😂
Elizabeth get off him 😂🤣
The Bible ain’t lie yet
Yep. If she doesn’t believe in The Lord Jesus Christ more than you do and read her bible every night before bed you literally have no shot of a relationship with her in my opinion.
I’ve dated too many girls that fake believe in God or just didn’t believe at all.
Bro literally something very similar happened to me a few weeks ago. She traveled with her family and met a guy over there. She cheated and called me to let me know cuz supposedly she felt so guilty about it for doing it. To keep the story short I was the one who broke up with her and later on she told me she don’t love me no more and she said she didn’t regret it cuz she started to like the guy. Now she wants something with him. I’ve been watching and learning from Steph for a long time but after watching this video it really impacted me and made me realize I need to get colder and boss up. Honestly I needed this video from Steph he’s always spittin facts for us and getting us straight
Get in the gym, take up a trade in Electrical, Plumbing or HVAC, Cyber Security is good too... then get you a side hustle on the side... watch how the tide turns literally before your eyes. Stay strong and never ever fall for a woman again until you know the Most High sent her.
@@kevanbane thanks bro, I appreciate it
Learn this now bro, they ain’t loyal. That’s not in her nature to be.
She’ll regret it eventually. She probly regrets now but women are too prideful. They will never admit it. Use this to be your best version. This is fuel to the flame.
@@purplesky4157 thanks bro I appreciate it
Bro was relaxing in those guts like: 😎
Imagine dude said “Watch me bust while you keep pleading playa! 😎”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@RealJayNice 💀
😭😭😭😭
If he kept thrusting in front of him he probably wouldve came back with a machete
A subscriber from South Africa here.. wanna say Steph bro I no longer watch TV, Sopies or even series. Your Redpill wisdom is what keeps me FREE mentally and emotionally sane. Not to forget EDUCATED. Redpill Is an important service for men.
Awe mopedi battlao hurda ka mo Mzansi
@@jessienascar8778 I'm a Gambian living in France, I'm one of the first people to subscribe to steph.we been here long time
@@ousainoubobb3612 shout out to France 🇫🇷
@@mzzsoldier25yearsago65 tanks fam
@@ousainoubobb3612 mboka 🙏🏾
why does it have to be like this…. Why is the world like this bruh???
NICE SERMON BY PASTOR STEPH!!!!!
Amen!
YOOO MY G it’s you again 🤣🤣 I’m always laughing when I run into you My G
@@mzzsoldier25yearsago65 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
THANK YA!!
Bruh yo channel is the truth love your delivery keep up the great work bro 💪🏾
Honestly if you in a relationship during these times you are not a smart person
fr, be single n be a playa
I really want steph to talk about men who get cheated on after being with them for 7years - 20yrs. It’s always easy to walk away and swallow the pill, but steph has to help out who spent decades of our LIVES with a woman who cheated.
LEAVE.
BOUNCE.
BOOK THE FUHH UP.
If a woman doesn't love u anymore, what else can u do???🤔
Same concept. Once you understand she can leave you at anytime it makes it easier. Doesn’t mean you won’t be hurt but have to value self. We fell for the Hollywood movie bs. My wake up moment was after I got of the military. Moved to a different state to be with her. I even told her that her coworker was shady. She said she didn’t like him. Guess who she cheated on me with LOL. She started a fight a tried to make me hit her so it would ease her guilt. I packed my truck and left South Carolina headed back to Michigan. I stopped at a pay phone and called her. I was crying and she told me man tf up and hung up on me. LOL that was 2003 and since then ever relationship afterwards was easier to deal with. When they want to go there is no fight. I just do me. A woman who loves you won’t cheat on you. If you take them back they will do it again.
No amount of time and effort is gonna change the nature of garden tools, or the emotionally charged decision-making of a lot of women.
Same thing my guy
@@Coach8337 Damn bro that's a tough as red pill but good thing experience builds men.
6:14-6:23 absolutely killed me 😂
IM BOUT TO BUH
Same 🥴
Deadass 😭😭😭😭
Broke my heart watching this
Ik his pain luckily I went through it @ 16 n became a savage n never looked back 😂🥶
Felt that caught on early 🌨🌨
@@HeyCossa 1 hundo 💯💯💯💯
We all been their...but i never caught it in the moment tho 🤣💀🤣
@@Dreweybaby wym
@@too_official6194 we all been heart broken im saying but i never caught her in the action
STEPH. NEVER STOP. 🙏🏿👍
yo Steph thank you for all of these videos man. i'm going through a tough breakup, after a 3 years relationship from 16 to 19. my girl cheated on me, we kept talking for three months, then i decided we can't do that anymore and after the first two weeks, she kissed a fuckboy and then told me she's sad that he's a fuckboy cause after that night she wanted more. some bitches ain't shit, real talk. thank you again Steph, you're the man! (i'm from Romania, just so you know that you reached this part of the world too)
Hey bro been watching your videos for a few months. Thanks for putting people onto this stuff. You’re probably really saving dudes lives out here
One time a chick I met briefly through a friend added me on snap and would blow me when we met up. She invited me out to her bday party and whole time she had a BF that was there.
Apparently he cheated too and she wanted revenge and they're still together. Pretty messy imo
Much respect and admiration. Another one that's hits to the core. We as Men should, would and going to do things 👆 and not down. Focus on getting better and maximising our own potential for our own greater good.
I see you bro. I was wondering when you was gonna trim it down. I understand tho most of us introverts don’t really keep up to style cuzz we on our own shit 💯💯
When she said i dont fucking love you just leave. He felt that one deep in his soul.
Focus on yaself king
Female Nature @ its best! The part thats so COLD is when they get caught its absolutely no remorse! "ICE WATER VAIN SHIT"
A woman got me feeling like I ain't shit cause she left me. Like I really hate myself. It's time to change that shit.
Go ahead and get cold💪 plenty fish in the sea it's more women in this world than men
@@brandonjackson3641 💯 Right now, I'm -300 below zero with no chance of warming up to these hoes ever again.
Same bout man it gets better with time. My girl left me a month ago and monkey branched but it’s all good I’m leveling up I just took it as a sign that she not supposed to continue on my journey. Pussy was amazing but that’s it girl was toxic as hell.
@@ProperXSmoke You're right. All we can do now is take the L and get cold ❄️
@@ProperXSmoke to be honest I don't even miss the trick. I just miss that sweet watery gut. That's just the scarcity mindset that most of us need to change. Anyways, moving on
The beard was legendary but the new look is cold bro 💪
Boy looks like tiger woods
As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another, thabk you for all the free information you have given Men about the truth of female nature. Praying 4 u my bro, grace and peace from polynesia New Zealand.
Spoke It Like A True Champion 🤝💯
It's sad we naturally expect women to be are other half but they could never match up to the type of women we need
At this point, I consider a good relationship is one that lasts at least 5 years. On to the next if she acting up
Why.......is this young man ARGUING with this chick.....while she's with ANOTHER dude???😳
I bet he paid the car note, the insurance, AND put gas in the tank........🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What part of the game......is THIS???? Somebody, PLEASE teach these young cats some game.......🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Always remember you might have now. But she definitely knows who has next. Another great video🙌🏾
🥶🥶I’m sick couldn’t even watch the whole video stay up guys ✊🏾
I was waiting on this one😂😂😂😂
I DONT LOVE YOU CAN YOU JUST LEAVE? DAMN! THAT HURT MY SOUL!
Facts
Hurt my soul too
Aye bruh the way you combine comedy wit the knowledge is not overlooked! GOTTA STAY COLD
Ole Girl Bogus.!!!! But The Signs Were Always There. He Just Wasn't Payin Attention To Them.
That video Is enough to make you not want to trust another woman ever again. 🤦♂️
Thanks again for the encouragement. Being alone is tough
I’ll be alone (& even be sad about it) before I let a woman think she got the ups on me. Stay strong fellas better days ahead 💪🏾🕊
It’s tough but on the real money growth and freedom is a lot better and easier than being with a chick where you have no idea is riding with you 💯 percent or not. Shit is very sad
Ma boy steph really be preaching 😭I just be playing game listening
Steph goin deep today! Ngl this is faxx on faxx
Steph, strong love from “Uganda” 🇺🇬
Steph is hella funny 🤣💯speaking straight facts tho forsure !
Real talk steph about winning,sharpen the mind.the power has to be yours
I was waiting for steph to speak on dis‼️🤟🏽
If she is nasty with you, she is nastier with him.. Steph has to repeat that.. I felt that
We gotta get colder fellas 2022 is around the corner we to get our mindsets altogether 💯💯🗣️
And wat that ohhhh I know listening to this nigga and going off wat he said huh, make ur own mind instead of taking advice from someone who stereotype women because of a bad past
@@shirlonbailey6809 The hell u talking about
Steph got me on the right track appreciate it💯
Bro Steph I watch all your videos I appreciate what u doing you tought me so much that helped me improve myself G thank you‼️💯
Haha, I would be gone like an illusion you wouldn't catch me saying anything, I see what I see and I'm gone...
As my man steph say “She don’t like u gee “ 🎯
Thank you for the further guidance over the years big bro
“If she nasty with u, she’s going to be nastier with him” this line really hit home. It goes to show womens’ hypergamous nature. And it won’t stop, that’s why there’s the emphasis of us men focusing on ourselves. At the end of the day we have our program that is designed for continuous improvement and growth, it’s up to them if they want to follow the program or leave it, either way the growth/improvement is not gonna stop for anyone