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  • @StephIsColdG
    @StephIsColdG  5 років тому +61

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    • @erickhurtado8162
      @erickhurtado8162 5 років тому +1

      Geoffrey Lane book yourself a consultation on his website bro.

    • @Redpillliving
      @Redpillliving 5 років тому

      the two dislikes are from man, the other gina

    • @bobgram9529
      @bobgram9529 5 років тому

      3:24 Yo! I swear you caught me off guard

    • @LuisRodriguez-mz1gz
      @LuisRodriguez-mz1gz 5 років тому

      Hey Steph what's the name of the background music that's on your vid

    • @jameslauren3100
      @jameslauren3100 4 роки тому

      I think of you as Stephisreal* speak on

  • @kushlilordnme3364
    @kushlilordnme3364 5 років тому +883

    When the sad music comes on I can feel the red pill digesting.

    • @thabo.loftyW
      @thabo.loftyW 4 роки тому +33

      😂😂😂, bro! I wonder whats the name

    • @cjking240
      @cjking240 4 роки тому +18

      Thabo Teyane Canis Major-dreams money cant buy.

    • @anthonytaylor2855
      @anthonytaylor2855 4 роки тому +56

      That music ain't sad my bro that music Cold

    • @Crosah
      @Crosah 4 роки тому +17

      Istg that instrumental is spiritual😂🔥

    • @Trender463
      @Trender463 4 роки тому +4

      Mitchell Bohanon I be looking for the instrument everywhere can’t find it

  • @CertifiedTyrone
    @CertifiedTyrone 5 років тому +617

    Guys need to understand you don’t need to be a certain age to be wise. That all comes from experience and for some people it happens earlier in life

    • @arielcastillo592
      @arielcastillo592 5 років тому +29

      Yeah, we know. Steph is only 22 with this knowledge. All of us wish we had this knowledge at that age.

    • @has892
      @has892 5 років тому +12

      I was in the 8th grade when I learned female nature. I’m 20 now

    • @Neo-wv1om
      @Neo-wv1om 5 років тому +25

      People are going to try to play you with that age shit and discredit your wisdom and make you feel invalid in your wisdom but thats just deception its happen to me many times thats why i dont tell my age or downplay my age

    • @theworldisimmense
      @theworldisimmense 5 років тому +13

      Ariel Castillo but I’m pretty sure he got all this “knowledge” from watching red pill/mgtow videos on UA-cam, and those videos started since 2013-2014 and steph was 16-17 so he learned from those videos. I personally have a ton of knowledge about female nature now at 26 and I only had one girlfriend

    • @gxp958
      @gxp958 5 років тому

      Theworld isimmense Steph look old, is he really that young?

  • @papabatsy
    @papabatsy 5 років тому +440

    Their is always a crazy story from men when they killed the beta inside them.

    • @lilalex7849
      @lilalex7849 5 років тому +25

      Kyle Connell All of us 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @MrRock0002
      @MrRock0002 3 роки тому +8

      I wanna hear all those legendary stories

    • @joeburreaux7806
      @joeburreaux7806 3 роки тому +16

      Every man has that one female who marked us and woke us up that made us take the red pill

    • @warsawjadore2740
      @warsawjadore2740 3 роки тому +3

      @@joeburreaux7806 agree, some of us had more girls that used us as emo tampon. It depends

    • @WaynesWorld12
      @WaynesWorld12 3 роки тому +1

      I've been beta hurt and played. Man soon as I got on my shit put myself first got my body up got tatted grew my hair back these ex's and hoes came back. I'm like bye bitch I'm the NIGGA now!

  • @30__
    @30__ 5 років тому +345

    Red flags if she's into zodiac signs

    • @leew5647
      @leew5647 5 років тому +6

      Why is that?

    • @mendealingwithreality4656
      @mendealingwithreality4656 5 років тому +4

      Elaborate... I know female nature, I have a hypothesis she’s getting piper by niggas but she scared of me because I read, but if I may engage in pressure so it has her on the fence about me.. I told her straight up I was gone fall back and that’s it

    • @30__
      @30__ 5 років тому +52

      @@leew5647 She will based you off your Zodiac sign, which could mean a lot of things like treating you beta or Alpha.

    • @LoneStoneMaalik
      @LoneStoneMaalik 5 років тому +50

      PistolR AM
      I swear to god this the truth. I was talking to a chick & we was gettin along real good. As SOON as she found out I was a Gemini, her whole perspective changed. She had a bad relationship with ONE gemini, & suddenly all Gemini’s ain’t shit/two faced/whatever other bullshit stereotypes my sign gets. Tried tellin her she was generalizing like a mf, but she was also a “feminist”, so I wasn’t surprised. 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @gradeABigC
      @gradeABigC 5 років тому +13

      @@LoneStoneMaalik that's just a ploy to get you to "prove her wrong" which would shift any and all leverage to her side questioning your character

  • @tonys9796
    @tonys9796 5 років тому +497

    For those indiviuals saying.
    "It was a long time ago, it was highschool". *Concepts* 👈 NEVER change. People get older, get new jobs, maybe even develope a sense of responsibility. But the essence of human nature doesnt change. So lets give respect to this brother for understanding that *concept* at a young age instead of when he's 40 or 50. Since the concept never changes you cannot use his age as a means to discredit him.

    • @DJYC21215
      @DJYC21215 5 років тому +49

      Too much logic. Old heads think you need to make mistakes for 6 decades like them before you can know anything.

    • @TH3T3RRANC3
      @TH3T3RRANC3 5 років тому +25

      @@DJYC21215 real shit, just because some old heads never learned till it was too late, they think you can't learn early

    • @luiginocharles9990
      @luiginocharles9990 5 років тому +8

      Not the comment we deserve but surely the comment that we need.

    • @tonys9796
      @tonys9796 5 років тому

      @@DJYC21215 💯✊

    • @rbiznezz2
      @rbiznezz2 5 років тому +2

      No lies told...

  • @myronreed8542
    @myronreed8542 5 років тому +201

    Don’t listen to these lames Steph. Keep yelling. It hypes me up in the gym.

    • @gxp958
      @gxp958 5 років тому +3

      Yes Him and ET are great to listen to in the gym!

    • @angelcanales9480
      @angelcanales9480 4 роки тому +1

      Monarch Matt who’s ET ?

    • @SirGandalfGoyard
      @SirGandalfGoyard 3 роки тому +2

      @@angelcanales9480 Eric Thomas if you still wanted to know

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @lionelscott8685
    @lionelscott8685 5 років тому +225

    I’m 41/ you spitting facts my brother

    • @atlas3732
      @atlas3732 5 років тому +4

      The truth, the whole & nothing but the truth so help you god?

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @sickathanyouraverage4404
    @sickathanyouraverage4404 5 років тому +195

    Never listen to a woman ranting about a man.....lol.....just act uninterested and she will shut up

  • @staturemelanin6551
    @staturemelanin6551 5 років тому +172

    When that song comes in you know it's about to get real

    • @ovo-crew1578
      @ovo-crew1578 5 років тому +20

      Deadass

    • @thegreat9481
      @thegreat9481 5 років тому +4

      Stature melanin TV
      I love it

    • @MalikDiene
      @MalikDiene 5 років тому +5

      Facts.

    • @TommyTsquare
      @TommyTsquare 5 років тому +8

      whats the name of it

    • @Trender463
      @Trender463 4 роки тому +1

      Tommy Nelson I’m looking for the name of the background music also

  • @lonniejolly5882
    @lonniejolly5882 5 років тому +241

    Its hurts being used. Giving free attention.But you will in the end. Cause the wall is undefeated. Trust me. I was called nice and friend zoned. But not no more.

    • @everettfanor1989
      @everettfanor1989 5 років тому +39

      Im done being the nice guy. That shit died two months ago. Im currently fighting the beta and blue pill in me . Focusing on my purpose and stay in masculine frame. I use to try and be a comedian and make her laugh but that shit is what turned them off.

    • @rishinag1036
      @rishinag1036 3 роки тому

      @@everettfanor1989 true

    • @orcpeon4520
      @orcpeon4520 3 роки тому

      a girl say that now I'm just scoffing and laughing

    • @allhailzamasu69
      @allhailzamasu69 2 роки тому +6

      @@everettfanor1989 bruh that me son. I went hard for this girl I like right now. Only to finally realize she using me. She still talking and seeing other guys while selling me a dream. It only hurt cause I like this chick fr. Put in so much effort. I started waking up when I'm not getting the same energy. Smh

    • @allhailzamasu69
      @allhailzamasu69 2 роки тому +5

      @@everettfanor1989 also want to add ignoring the red flags, I always gotta make the first contact just to get her to respond. Making any corny joke just to get her to laugh and see how funny I am. Smh this nice guy mess really don't work

  • @Los_Wolves
    @Los_Wolves 5 років тому +189

    The biggest lie a woman can tell you to keep you giving her your time and validation is. "I cant wait to spend the rest of my life with you".

    • @millennialpodcast1438
      @millennialpodcast1438 4 роки тому +12

      Yea men..

    • @matthewhelton3378
      @matthewhelton3378 4 роки тому +10

      Porfick Junior how do all women use the same manipulative lines

    • @damefame8921
      @damefame8921 Рік тому

      Nah deadass

    • @jawbreaker8363
      @jawbreaker8363 Рік тому

      How tf was that so accurate

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video.

  • @brandonhayes8621
    @brandonhayes8621 5 років тому +168

    Damn I went thru this with this chick complaining about her situation crying to me and the whole time I’m thinking I’m up next ... NEVER got the buns 🤦🏾‍♂️ wish I would’ve put this info together back at the time

    • @MaddenBomb
      @MaddenBomb 5 років тому +14

      Brandon Hayes 😂😂 damn

    • @quis398
      @quis398 5 років тому +16

      Same except I got some and she never really spoke to me again🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️. Dick was too big she said.

    • @Stoneface_
      @Stoneface_ 4 роки тому +7

      Quis 😂 😂

    • @blacksheep9278
      @blacksheep9278 4 роки тому +1

      Quis flex

    • @BallersLife3
      @BallersLife3 4 роки тому +4

      Quis shit at least you got to fuck that’s a W for me even tho I wanted the relationship

  • @FleeceThavon48
    @FleeceThavon48 5 років тому +110

    Man this takes me back to how absolutely DUMB I looked in high school doing all that nice guy shit, being the emotional tampon, and giving away all that damn free attention. I wish I had discovered all this in high school, shit would’ve went so different. In hindsight I’m only in college now but damn man, it just makes me mad af how Blue pill and Beta I was.

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video.

  • @ejomerta4960
    @ejomerta4960 4 роки тому +28

    They always come crawling back when they choose the bad boys,become pregnant and worn out without help from the dad😂sorry girl but naw,I thought I was a lame back in high school

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @El-Jefe97
    @El-Jefe97 3 роки тому +22

    I went through this shit recently, where the girl that I work with broke up with her “alleged” abusive bf, and she starts talking/flirting with me all the time while working. But never went on a date or hangout as friends. She was just using me for attention/ validation so she could boost her self esteem and then go for the guys that she wants (the predators in the club that will use her and never call back), I say she deserves this.

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video.

  • @islandparadise3750
    @islandparadise3750 5 років тому +33

    The videos hit different when the music come in🤧

  • @marmillz250
    @marmillz250 5 років тому +58

    What I’m going thru right now gotta cut her off

    • @iamwhatiam187
      @iamwhatiam187 5 років тому +17

      Me too, I’m having this girl right now that I really like (I’m not ashamed like most men to say). She cannot process the how much I like her, I just cut her off yesterday evening... It’s tough for cats out here lol

    • @s.boundless3163
      @s.boundless3163 5 років тому +9

      Definitely. Do it expeditiously. If not you'll continue wasting time and now that you have this information, you can no longer blame it on ignorance or on the woman. I ended up wasting 8+ months lmao don't do that man. Huge waste of time and mental strain.

    • @everettfanor1989
      @everettfanor1989 5 років тому +5

      @@s.boundless3163 I wasted a lot of money on these bitches in hopes I just touch or smell the pussy. Never did. Learned my lesson. Have to kill the Beta

    • @yoshisktn_7569
      @yoshisktn_7569 5 років тому

      Same here cut her off 3 days ago but the fucked up part is.. she the girl next door and i did everything a good man would do but she never appreciate it any of it now im feeling stupid but i put everything in place with her and went no contact and I would never ever initiate contact with someone who doesn’t appreciate it me for who i’m

  • @teejay2112
    @teejay2112 5 років тому +40

    2019..the year of my red pill awakening...

  • @OfficialIAMRAGE
    @OfficialIAMRAGE 5 років тому +80

    Steph You not the only one 🤦🏻‍♂️in middle school I was used as a emotional tampon 🥺Shit was lowkey depressing 💯bounced back tho....Thanks for the video bro

    • @ejomerta4960
      @ejomerta4960 4 роки тому +3

      Ify...I’m in the 8th grade going to the 9th grade and I got broken up with two times because I’m a nice guy,shits gonna be different now

    • @joeburreaux7806
      @joeburreaux7806 3 роки тому

      @@ejomerta4960 You privileged and lucky to learn this at a young age bro take advantage good luck my brother 🙏🏼💯

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @eb3433
    @eb3433 5 років тому +20

    When the music drops. That's when you know it's real.

  • @lijohnson7718
    @lijohnson7718 4 роки тому +13

    When the instrumental started playing I busted out laughing 😂

  • @Moraakami
    @Moraakami 5 років тому +88

    My boi. I’ma prolly end up having to hit you up for a consolation. Not necessarily for advice but to make my story available for you to share on you’re platform since you have the podium. That way we can continue to help other men recognize the signs if they don’t have the life experience. We gotta help one another🤞🏾. I support the work & business of a fellow king.

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @itsrelativ3967
    @itsrelativ3967 5 років тому +52

    Women still do this same thing even after high school. But now I call them out on it in 5 minutes.

    • @millennialpodcast1438
      @millennialpodcast1438 4 роки тому +4

      How

    • @DewpewGaming
      @DewpewGaming 4 роки тому +2

      MillennialPodcast act uninterested

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @dadonjayy8003
    @dadonjayy8003 5 років тому +45

    I had the same situation in high school

  • @MrVallin12
    @MrVallin12 5 років тому +28

    No matter how good you treat her, the sacrifices that you’ll make for, she’ll turn on you and switch up like you never existed, taking the Redpill everyday they’ll distract you from giving your full time and energy to your purpose and and priorities.

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video.

  • @deondrec4941
    @deondrec4941 5 років тому +68

    Yeesssiiir watchin this before i got class . Right on time🐐🐐. Im foolin wit this female & im really tryna value non sexual attention and escalate my sexual confidence. Doing good so far

    • @gxp958
      @gxp958 5 років тому +9

      Awesome. We gotta stay in that gym too. That makes confidence skyrocket!

    • @exoticcexoticc5716
      @exoticcexoticc5716 5 років тому +1

      Yess

    • @det3135
      @det3135 5 років тому +1

      I wish this channel and advice was around when I was in school

  • @kcla3131
    @kcla3131 5 років тому +27

    A conflicting truth nice guys have to come to grip with. It's hurtful becuz of the heavy conditioning we have to retrain yourself out of. It's so contrasting ... .

  • @ArGyProductions
    @ArGyProductions 5 років тому +41

    Stephon you on fire lately

  • @FreedomLocs
    @FreedomLocs 5 років тому +55

    I learnt this the hard way and relate with your past experience. I'm 35 now. Still have these female validophiles coming and when I use this phrase "when are we f$cking?" they disappear from my DMs. Good one G. Thanks!

    • @ThePsychicFish
      @ThePsychicFish 5 років тому +14

      Hoho that's pretty savage. But saying that is not necessary. Best believe they already know. Slow and gradual is the name of the game. Being too direct and completely honest too soon is largely a turn off you know...

    • @Void_of_Light
      @Void_of_Light 5 років тому +20

      ThePsychicFish , I’ll disagree with you on this one. If a woman wants to give you that trim best believe she will do it on the first day/night. I’ve experienced that in the past as a matter of fact one of them even paid for the room

    • @tonys9796
      @tonys9796 5 років тому +1

      To women every has their market value. So if your Thor, Superman, Prince. Then women will respond differently to Jerome, Ray-Ray, Tyrone. So if you have high value in their eyes being direct will work more than not. If you a decent guy and need to play your cards right. Then its in your best interest to not lay it on them so thick. But it depends on your GAME. Me i value my time so chicks know real. And they reciprocate well for me.

    • @DuckDuckGo99
      @DuckDuckGo99 2 роки тому

      Damn bro, that's so straightforward 🤣i like that

  • @quavariussmith7377
    @quavariussmith7377 5 років тому +15

    Damn Steph u done had ppl being real cold to you and it made u cold 😂😂😂 spot on G

  • @YoungScato
    @YoungScato 5 років тому +21

    Steph and AMS changed my life I left my ex that cheated on me after watching your imprint video Steph

  • @KillAZYN
    @KillAZYN 5 років тому +37

    Gotta be a sour patch kid, first they’re sour then they’re sweet

    • @ianm8218
      @ianm8218 5 років тому +8

      azynporter sour,sweet,gone

  • @sheneedsyrruup
    @sheneedsyrruup 5 років тому +16

    I got used for attention the last 2 years of high school, but I wasn't giving it up so easily, soon I digested the redpill and just cut that bih off.

  • @proudhabesha8871
    @proudhabesha8871 5 років тому +13

    High school game be like "when I look at the stars I see you"

  • @crimsonhawk4912
    @crimsonhawk4912 4 роки тому +4

    Red pill rage.... Damn... That hit the soul.

  • @samirlijon-ali5574
    @samirlijon-ali5574 5 років тому +18

    Needed to be reminded that my time is valuable. Thanks Steph.

  • @enice6518
    @enice6518 5 років тому +16

    Knowledge has no age limit my Gee
    Keep doing you broskii

  • @Zillennial-g9k
    @Zillennial-g9k 5 років тому +14

    Damn you 22?! KEEP GIVING WISDOM BRO I’m 24 and I decided to go red pill from watching the Red Pill videos from you all

  • @Kreymore
    @Kreymore 5 років тому +18

    Real message along with my favorite two beats in the background!

    • @donatello9482
      @donatello9482 5 років тому +3

      Yo bro what’s the name of the jazz song that starts at 12:32?

  • @travisrankin7165
    @travisrankin7165 5 років тому +29

    What up Steph checking in from Arkansas

  • @ItsTrainingDai_
    @ItsTrainingDai_ 5 років тому +16

    The rage does pass after it's just cool awareness. Thank you for opening up my eyes Steph more than just about female nature but literal Truth.

    • @lilalex7849
      @lilalex7849 5 років тому

      King Degen I’m still raging day 2 and I’m only 18🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @jamesfloyd652
    @jamesfloyd652 3 роки тому +5

    My story is the same I got used and lied to by this girl who was doing other dudes and I was so depressed I almost took my own life over some women who didn't care about me I can't trust women ever again because of her

  • @vxvkeaux6122
    @vxvkeaux6122 5 років тому +11

    Developing an alpha mindset is a process. Shit ain’t easy it def takes time.

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      That ain’t alpha. That’s asshole and will end you up lonelier than you ever felt.
      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @redpillboss1806
    @redpillboss1806 5 років тому +11

    Be The Boss! Think like a Boss, Move like a Boss at all cost!

  • @malikrashaun
    @malikrashaun 5 років тому +7

    You are 22 and you are hella advanced bro. You gonna be a monster in the game and in life in general because I see that you have the entrepreneurial spirit

  • @chistability5405
    @chistability5405 5 років тому +15

    This man is speaking facts!

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @dalejones4169
    @dalejones4169 4 роки тому +7

    She even told me that we didn’t have any chemistry but I was like her best friend so she didn’t want to lose me, told me that we’ll be friends forever

  • @gotwarmcoffee448
    @gotwarmcoffee448 5 років тому +11

    It’s fuckin awesome seeing a fellow young dude with this philosophy dropping one truth bomb after another. Keep it up bro

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @brenegadde1278
    @brenegadde1278 5 років тому +9

    I'm the words of ams as we get older our value increases and their value decrease,stephon if you were a nice guy years ago,you are still that nice guy at heart your just resenting your true nature to get that fulfillment out of relationship you will have to do that again

  • @norm1815
    @norm1815 4 роки тому +4

    Dude your shit is REAL and RAW...Thanks for sharing. It will help a lot of young men. I am 53 and I would have loved to have seen shit like this in High School, as I ,like yourself, had my heart ripped out and stomped on as well in 11th grade. Came damn near killing myself over her too.

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @allhailzamasu69
    @allhailzamasu69 2 роки тому +3

    I'm here right now today because I have my heart crush. I need help. I treating this girl better than any other girl. Went so hard for her only to get a one sided feeling thing? It broke my heart yet it also creating a black heart. Being the nice guy is be complete BS. I put in so much effort. My heart is broken yet it becoming cold and hard.... thank you bruh I need this video

    • @rw2452
      @rw2452 2 роки тому +3

      Dude, I fucking know the pain. It really hurts. You try to tell a friend and they just say something like "sorry man" and change the subject like it's nothing. The trick is, is to ask her out early before you build a false sense of chemistry in your eyes.

  • @bigdawg402242
    @bigdawg402242 4 роки тому +2

    Ain't nothing like being mad at yourself for not seeing the truth

  • @badass1g
    @badass1g 5 років тому +28

    The yelling, the beta voice, the facial expressions and humor. That’s why this is my new fav red pill channel! You hilarious man.... also the motivational videos 🔥

  • @Fightookaishii
    @Fightookaishii 5 років тому +5

    When the beat drops at 13:19 and he shouts, that really hit me bro. Perfect timing.

  • @damonadams3853
    @damonadams3853 4 роки тому +3

    22yrs of age or 202YRS TRUTH IS TRUTH & FACTS IS FACTS REAL TALK!!![999]

  • @ssdcatracho77
    @ssdcatracho77 5 років тому +8

    Damn that hit deep G. I feel ya. I know I'm not alone in what you said because I was that guy too. Keep spittin' facts young G. Much props.

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @bossmir4934
    @bossmir4934 5 років тому +3

    Bro this shit deep as a mf ... I experienced red pill rage and didn’t know wtf it was 😔

  • @Don_Amo
    @Don_Amo 5 років тому +15

    Yo Steph you killing it G, spit truth and I fully resonate with you as a 21yo man. Keep it cold bruh 👊🏽

  • @supernatural7236
    @supernatural7236 5 років тому +7

    My ninja ....Ur honesty is wat makes u so real an thats why u helping so many ur S.o.x ( Speaking off Xperience)

  • @brenegadde1278
    @brenegadde1278 5 років тому +2

    I'm the words of ams as we get older our value increases and their value decrease

  • @juliusruthi7291
    @juliusruthi7291 5 років тому +4

    True Steph,I have a girl who was using me for attention and Validation from January.She was disrespectful to me,lowered my Confidence which made me think she is so special and well off than me which infact it is not true.But since May I said to myself this shit must change,I will start finding my purpose and building my Confidence.And one day we heard a conversation with her and she became angry with me but I told i love her.but she said I don't want to be loved anymore. I was like f****k then it's over and left...but after one week I didn't believe what was happening the girl was chasing me for the attention again and again.But Thanks to you Steph because I could have given out all my powers again.Now I know how and when and not to give her the attention that she want.

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @DemiAqua111
    @DemiAqua111 5 років тому +4

    Taking the red pill from past experience is like a zenkai boost , you will only get stronger but it doesn't mean you can't get hurt

  • @itznitefox2845
    @itznitefox2845 3 роки тому +5

    I started applying the redpill mindset to my relationship and it made my girl start respecting me more, listening to me, kissing on me more etc.

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @mastahogweh5657
    @mastahogweh5657 5 років тому +3

    You opened my eyes man, Being raised in a culture and nation full of blue pills, but red pill was really needed...This is why I listen to my black brothers... They know the nature and shit. I learned how to have a backbone and rewire my brain. Looking forward to this transformation and self development.

  • @percyastronautstatus.8780
    @percyastronautstatus.8780 5 років тому +12

    Don't stop yelling!!! I love your passion. Lol.

  • @thegreat9481
    @thegreat9481 5 років тому +6

    Keep doing your thing Steph. Appreciate you. 💯
    Im 22 myself and developing into a beast. Its a blessing to learn early goddamn.
    Honestly tho, consider a video about showing more of your personality to women and opening up instead of wearing a mask 24/7. It’s important to build a connection for the long haul (since most dudes want relationships). I had a shawty for about 4-5 years and I was on point minus the communication issues, she took hella bs from me she didn’t forgive me for what i did then one day she was fed up. So what Im saying is you can fuck up too tryna be alpha all the time. It gotta be a nice balance. My issue was a lack of displaying those “soft” skills and in this space a lot of guys pretty much think you gotta be a robot and not yourself.

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @jamespayne-davis5819
    @jamespayne-davis5819 5 років тому +3

    Wise head on young shoulders. Keep up the good work Stephon.

  • @Honeybadger007-hklrkch
    @Honeybadger007-hklrkch 5 років тому +5

    Papillon "poppy-yon" grat movie one of my favorite of all time!

  • @Makewicz
    @Makewicz 5 років тому +6

    8:32 this happened to me week ago. I go "I aint got no time listening to your bs about exes and assholes" then i added "If we dont work sexually anyhow, im done here ." She goes" its such a shame, i only wanted to be friends with you ." Then i ended with "glad you made it clear so no ones wasting anyones time here then 👍". Got a passive aggressive thumb as a response haha. Dont have to deal with such bullshit anymore aswell as i got laid the very next day ahaha. Been liking these videos lately brotha 👌

    • @rw2452
      @rw2452 2 роки тому

      Got laid by her?

    • @user-blue_sky1186
      @user-blue_sky1186 Рік тому

      Me too using me as a emotional tampon she mad when i say this infront of her.

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @ContrarianExpatriate
    @ContrarianExpatriate 5 років тому +9

    Great that your stepfather was upfront and truthful with you. You are now in a position to help men who were not so fortunate.
    One thing to caution you about however. Girls from traditional countries do tend to like nicer guys so long as they are not pushover-simps.

    • @arielcastillo592
      @arielcastillo592 5 років тому +1

      Na. They're all the same

    • @deaniedean248
      @deaniedean248 5 років тому +7

      no you are wrong... i am from Somalia a VERY traditional Muslim country, if a girl finds ANY beta soft behaviour, prepare to go through hell... strong men thrive everywhere regardless..

  • @БорисТодоров-ц4ы
    @БорисТодоров-ц4ы 4 роки тому +3

    Same shit happened to me. At first we were friends only, then na feeling came, the chatting, the calling all that. 100 times told how her bf makes her misrible and she don't like him no more.. Told I am the man for her and such. And in wile she chose the guy who makes her misrible.. and told me she don't wanna speak to me and want mi to disappear from her life. And blocked me.
    Damn nearly broke me but I'm gonna stay atrong!
    Sorry for my grammar eng is not my language.

  • @denzelwatkins5614
    @denzelwatkins5614 5 років тому +6

    I used to be beta.Real betta.Still kickin it.Man yo just roused my spirit.Glad other men were in the matrix and grew up to be aware

  • @alistairdollente3029
    @alistairdollente3029 4 роки тому +1

    Man I don't care if a guy is 65... It's all about experience!!! ....I'm 31 & I'm getting schooled here based on a lot of these silimar experiences... Much love from Britain g! Keep it all coming!

  • @Wihp_Soldier
    @Wihp_Soldier 5 років тому +3

    Good shit 👍 everything you have said in this video is hitting right on point. I wish I had this information when I was 22 years old UA-cam wasn't out when I was 22

  • @jmbrown811
    @jmbrown811 5 років тому +4

    I was doing good with this one girl I was talking to for months at first I was acting like I didn't give a fuck and ahit went smooth. Soon as I let my guard down and started to fall for her, things changed and she eventually left. I already knew about these videos, I made the mistake of confusing female nature for a personality trait. I'm still not all the way over it but I know what I gotta do now moving forward.

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @TSmith-pf3fd
    @TSmith-pf3fd Рік тому +1

    Thank you for making these Videos

  • @jossell911
    @jossell911 3 роки тому +2

    I’ve been used too. I felt this vid!!

  • @kuzz9339
    @kuzz9339 4 роки тому +1

    when that music hit at the end
    i felt that

  • @brandonnick6326
    @brandonnick6326 2 роки тому +2

    Stepiscold might be 22 years old but he has a lot of wisdom, bro you saved my life with female nature thank u so much 💯💪🏽

  • @Kreymore
    @Kreymore 5 років тому +2

    What you said at 13:00 is the realest talk ever spoke. All the children coming up being raised among women that's telling them how to be only serves women with little to no ROI for the men. I came up the same way, thinking that if I adhere to women and be as obedient as I could (lapdog) then I'll eventually get what I want. It was only until I started learning game and being manipulative myself when women began falling into my hands. Once you take the Red Pill, you cant go back!

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @xavierweathington9776
    @xavierweathington9776 3 роки тому +1

    Every video my eyes and mind continues to open up🤯

  • @heizorak
    @heizorak 10 місяців тому +1

    2pac was young also, look what he accomplished. im 40 and learned so much from your vids and i notice my mindset shifting for the better. Keep up the good works

  • @aurelionsol6640
    @aurelionsol6640 4 роки тому +2

    Ima like and comment on every video cause it’s life changing 💯

  • @Flossin-Mine
    @Flossin-Mine 5 років тому +5

    DIG UNTIL SHE BUST!!!

  • @kalealennis3515
    @kalealennis3515 5 років тому +5

    I keep worrying what women think off me. Trying to lose weight for women because my smv is low but that's not alpha

    • @DemiGod-ob3rm
      @DemiGod-ob3rm 5 років тому +4

      Kaleal Ennis move to another location after not before u self improve.. a king ain't got no honor in his own country..

  • @Lethal_Optimus
    @Lethal_Optimus 4 роки тому +1

    Following my purpose during Quarantine by watching hella of your videos 🔥🔥🔥

  • @lendtothelord1429
    @lendtothelord1429 5 років тому +3

    🌎🌐🗺⚔
    "Let God Use You Stephon"
    🔥TRUTH🔥PREACH🔥REALITY🔥WISDOM🔥KNOWLEDGE🔥
    UNDERSTANDING🔥

  • @sami_keyd
    @sami_keyd 3 роки тому +1

    Big broski, appreciate the female nature playlist. Watched this over the past 2months and sheesh, u woke a brother up on the female games.
    Respect for the quality knowledge.
    Pls go read this in the future and remember 2020 quarantine was a blessing.

  • @luciangabriel8714
    @luciangabriel8714 4 роки тому +2

    This video , straight facts , you saved my life, thank you Steph

  • @SurrealMK
    @SurrealMK 5 років тому +2

    5:35 felt that “And I asked myself why?”

  • @KingpinNiko
    @KingpinNiko 4 роки тому +1

    I like how much more sincere, person to person this feels

  • @LindaIG6KArt
    @LindaIG6KArt 2 роки тому +1

    This makes alot of sense. I always wondered why people acted like yoyos sometimes . I've known dudes that try to use women as enotional tampons too . And for the life of me I could not undertand why . Now I am enlightened. Thank you for posting this .

    • @SS-in1ts
      @SS-in1ts Рік тому

      This guy has serious issues. Women will never trust a man who expects sex and a relationship because he was letting her “use” him. He lets these women use him because he’s trying to win them over while they’re weak and they can smell the manipulation and expectations that’s why he stays friend zoned because he’s not a friend. He’s using them too. He needs serious help thinking that being abusive is the answer. He’s still miserable, bitter, weak and single. Hmmm, wonder why….
      Don’t forget, this is human nature. Both men and women do all this shit. Educate and learn to do better and find better or stay stuck and downgraded like this guy in the video. Being an asshole will not bring you the woman you deserve, I bet a million dollars on that.

  • @bryanmoore6968
    @bryanmoore6968 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks for this bruh you save my ass. Keep up the good work

  • @jonesman88
    @jonesman88 5 років тому +4

    Keep the video's coming, facts G

  • @jthegrind
    @jthegrind 5 років тому +2

    Most of us have been there at one point brotha. Good vid 👍🏽

  • @geo9994
    @geo9994 4 роки тому +1

    These 30 seconds from 08:30 - 9:00 is the realest thing ever cracked me right up 🤣🤣🤣

  • @generaltez8961
    @generaltez8961 5 років тому +32

    I might just have to join your Patron off the back of this video

    • @reesejohnson2788
      @reesejohnson2788 5 років тому +2

      General Tez “off da screntgh!”

    • @enewman9899
      @enewman9899 5 років тому +2

      Do it bro, great content on there fr!!!

  • @SeanDiego
    @SeanDiego 6 місяців тому

    😂I’m absolutely dead at 8:30 but I feel you fam frfr. Real moment G

  • @fresh2354
    @fresh2354 4 роки тому +1

    You definitely changed my life sir, thank you!