So I am missing part of the story. I am saying that genuinely, as clearly I misunderstood. The other person said, “Well relationships are hard.“ And that’s where they were shaming her? Or what else did I miss (I watched the whole thing)
Why she makes such a good host! So happy for her and Drew’s shows’ successes. They are such genuine people who have been through so much, they deserve them :)
I love the “they’re going thru something, I’m gonna let that go!” I need to say that more often when things happen. Thanks, Kelly, for your great example on kindness!
I sometimes catch myself saying fu.. my life is hard or fu.. up but than I'll remember someone else is having a harder time than me and it brings me back to reality that is not that bad
@Velereonics Both things can be true, they're not necessarily mutually exclusive. One can both be going through something that deserves my compassion AND yet still an asshole 😉
@@Smsl-nh9slI feel like there's clearly a lot more that was said because based off that alone I wouldn't take it that badly either. It could have been the tone the context missing or more words that were said if not I agree with you it doesn't seem like that bad of a thing to say.
@@User12345fan I bet you are one of those people which just pick fights in the comments section to make yourself feel better. This post didn’t need a self righteous reply, unnecessary.
Except she didn't? Maybe you are taking a person just trying to continue the conversation about an awkward time for you (that they probably don't want to talk about) and making your own assumptions. "Relationships are hard" can easily include "break ups are hard" etc.
I just got a divorce after 33 years . Wish I would of done it 25 years ago. Stayed because of the kids . No one knows completely what you've been through . It's important to know you are important too, and if you knew a divorce was necessary then it is . People grow apart or have whatever issues that become a deal breaker . Kelly you and your kids are going to be ok! Team work ❤
If "no one knowz" what someone goes through then it would be helpful to warn people about what happens in marriage. Divorce isn't the goal when you get married so people should share to the future spouses what they need to avoid instead of being discrete.
@@IWantToMature85omgggggggg... that's what happened to me..they kept secrets from me and I was a innocent person, not knowing what I was getting into, they even lol in my face and said we thought he was going to change, really? you lied to my face and put the Bible in my face and play GAMES with me by putting my life in Dangerous Situations....it hurts me because I'm did not need to be abused and used by the church facade and clan of liers who KEPT secrets from me and imagine how much pain and suffering I endured from lies...from the beginning 4/1987 to 4/2011....and he played victim all over the State....the dark traid attitude kept under wraps...
It's also not the most noble or important quality that a person can display. In a moral society, shaming people who break their holy vows and abandon their families should be considered more righteous and essential than mere kindness.
@@calixohiggins9843 I think you should question your own morals. Did Jesus shame people? Or did he love sinners and help lead them down a better path?I’m assuming you’re Christian because you said holy vows.
You beautiful lady, don’t you DARE let someone shame you. You must have to have the thickest skin to endure and have created what you have created. All of your fans have your tenacity and determinedness to thank for all the songs that helped us get through our hardest moments. I can’t tell you how many times I have put on my AirPods and stormed out for a walk to let tears course down my face listening to your human empowering words. You saw me through an abusive marriage and an acrimonious divorce, but also through new motherhood and moments where I didn’t know what I wanted to do or be. I hope you know that makes you my super hero. Kelly, you are EVERYTHING. PERIOD. You have done it and continue to do IT.
I feel her. I often have to stop myself, not because I’m judgemental but I want to help instead of listening and just caring. And giving advice without being asked looks judgemental. When in reality it is rooted in my childhood trauma.
Wow. You just gave me an epiphany because so often someone vents to me about their troubles and my first instinct is to offer suggestions to help and some people have seen it as judgemental when in reality I don't know what to say to comfort so my reaction is just, 'how do we fix or improve this situation?' because that's the only way I can think of to help them in the moment.
Yes. Totally can relate. My first instinct is how can I solve the problem I’m hearing and to suggest solutions. I’ve learned that sometimes friends just need you to listen & to give them a shoulder to lean on. If they want ideas they will ask.
exactly..DNT do dirty to anyone... NEVER tell other people's lives behind their back, lol, no one knows what happened it's too much to tell, years of experience makes you stronger than yesterday, because you keep secrets to stay away FROM TOXIC drama and you get people talking smack when they DNT have a clueeeeeeeee...lol
I live in the south I was just asked the other day by a bank teller how I could worship statues. They didn’t keep their bigotry and stupidity very discreet.
I got so many “are you sure?” and “Did you try counseling?” when people found out about my divorce. I’m like 🤨 uuhhhh yeah I wouldn’t be leaving if it weren’t necessary. I hate how no one leads with “I can’t imagine how hard this is on you.” “I’m sorry you’re going through this”.
Then you shouldn’t marry them in the first place. It’s a lifelong commitment between two people. I’ve been married for 30 years and it has never been awful or a question. If you love someone then that love never ends. It just gets better with life and life experiences together. It’s not that complicated. I really think if a marriage doesn’t work out then it wasn’t love to begin with.
@@pamelasmith6221That's YOUR experience. Who are YOU to say that someone's relationship or marriage wasn't ever love?That's incredibly self righteous n rude!! Looks like u are one of those ppl who assume they know what's happening behind closed doors. My ex husband n I had a wonderful marriage n truly loved each other. Long story short..he got very sick n had to have brain surgery. He healed from his illness n his surgery but whatever they did to his brain changed him. He was never the same..he became someone I didn't know.. complete personality change. I tried to stay..tried counseling..tried it all but he didnt think anything was wrong n couldn't see that the brain surgery had altered his personality. In addition to that ppl change..a friend of mine worked on her marriage for years after he husband became an ab*sive addict. Sometimes things happen n no matter how hard u try they cannot be fixed. Again..u don't know someone's life behind closed doors n the struggle n pain they are enduring to try to fix things n make it work BECAUSE they love someone. Its great that your experience was a good one but, reality check...life isn't a fairy-tale...things just happen n there are things that can't be fixed by love alone. I still have love for my ex..I'm not in love with him anymore but I still care about him n maintain a good co -parenting relationship with him bc our kids love him.
Sometimes people change or people grow apart (or sometimes people become violent or cheat), we never know what other people experience so we should be happy for whoever makes it work and for whenever says enough js enough. Everyone’s journey js different
@@calixohiggins9843her father abandoned her, her family shamelessly exploited their connection to her and then you body shame her, I would love to know what's going on in your life behind your keyboard. Don't comment on someone else's life inflated you've walked a mile on their shoes
You look so great you’re beautiful beautiful person and don’t ever forget that you’re amazing little young lady and you’ve come for nothing and now your big time something and you not change you still love People and I loved having you❤ in your music
I remember going to a church and the most holiest girl there posting on FB about how she would never ever get a divorce. This is knowing very well I was going through one. A few years later she did too. Such hypocrites! Besides that so many people and family members will smile in your face and insult you at the same time. 🐍
@@ilovela0068wow, that’s why I hate religion so much! Too many use this to guilt, shame and manipulate people. There is nothing wrong with believing in God though (I do too), but my religion is only between me and God; I don’t need no church or institution to apply rules to it.
Yes! I couldn't stand the church environment. The people were not honest...saying one thing, doing completely different..all while looking down their noses at people. Been church free for 9 years now and have learned far more about our Creator than what I ever did in church.
Thank you Kelly for always being balls to the wall honest. You're integrity is one of the many beautiful things about you. And, dayum, me love me some Kelly singing.
Kelly I love all of your music and your show . But love the way you put your kids first . Thank u for all your songs and your show. Please please safe in all u do . Love you ❤️💕
Your incredible , things happen who are they to shame anyone you're already heartbroken 💔 such a beautiful soul ,and brilliant singer God bless 🙌 her lots of love healing , prayers from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤ 💙 💖 💜
Yep, been there. It's like when you getting a divorce people round you or people who don't know you will judge what your doing, tell you this "well relationship's are hard, you need to stop acting like it's all bout you". I was told many times "maybe if you were a better wife, he wouldn't want a divorce" I married a narcissistic physo, it was never gonna get good. He was gas lighting me, he was verbally abusing me.... If it read abusive he was doing it, he even went so far to try to get me to commit suicide he was a cop at the time, so he had a gun. Yeah, it awful. I'm just happy I made it through that. Now I have to live with the ptsd, anxiety & all the other crap that went with the abuse
I pray for peace and healing for you in your mind, heart and soul. So glad you are out of that and things I pray will get better each day. I'm sending vibrations of love and hugs. I pray many, many blessings come your way ❤️ 🙏 ✨️. I pray in Jesus name. Amen 💕 💞 ♥️ 💜
If I can suggest anything, somatic therapy really helped me with the abuse I’ve had from my narc mom. Please reach out for help, you don’t have to live the rest of your life this way. 🫶🏼
I am pretty sure that if this person is going through a divorce now they weren't shaming but projecting. Either trying to convince themselves to stay in it or being scared/mad because their partner were showing signs of giving up on them
Without hearing the rest of what this guest said to her, my first reaction was that they were trying to reassure her to not be upset with herself, because “relationships can be difficult . Now if this person followed up with telling her that she shouldn’t give up on her marriage, or that she should go for counseling, that would be another issue.
❤ Kelly - How is Kelly gonna find the right guy for her if she's stuck with the miserable wrong guy? No shame in knowing it's time to move on/divorce - it's smart! And no one has a clue what's going on behind their friends, family or neighbors closed doors.....
@@calixohiggins9843 what if the father of the child stopped beliving in jesus and raped and lied and cheated after 10 years of marriage and then goes to hell wouldn't that make him the wrong guy?
Not me still having goosebumps everytime I listen to this, she kill it! She makes me feel like i've gone through it myself... Well,I don't even go through it in real life at all 🥲
I grew up in a house of SILENCE with my Parents... years later, when my marriage failed, I ended the marriage...I couldn't/wouldn't make our Daughter's go through the same.
@@donna8some friends aren’t afraid of being blunt and brutally honest. They remind us that life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows and that we need to remember the world is full agony. They give us a harsh reality check when we need to realize it and for some people that’s their personality trait. That being said I don’t condone shaming. You can express wrongfulness without being derogatory or rude.
Kelly my girl u know what happen in your life not us but I ask god to guide u and give you double the blessing u deserves my daughter is going thru a divorce and I can’t say I no how she feels but I can be there for her and we here for u to u r amazing person
Bless her heart I’m gonna keep you in my prayers💯🙏🙏🙏🙏 remember God is good follow his lead in you’ll be OK❤ you’re beautiful you’re amazing and you’re incredible. Wonderful.
She should have reached out to the person after finding out and been like “Oh, I’m so sorry to hear about your divorce. I know it’s so hard. Let me know if you need any couples therapy recommendations or need a name of a good lawyer.”
That person doesn’t deserve her sympathy when they didn’t show any for her. Kelly was already respectful to them by being respectful in the interview and that’s as far it needs to go.
Karma's a you know what... And, YOU, Kelly, are class and good humanness personified! I love you, you make daytime tv worth watching! Haters hate the ones who float, because they never will... Love you, you are the example of what a good human looks like! ❤️
Recall donny osmond he's so special we still love him somuch. Oh u can't say he's coming the crowds willbe tonight love that Mr donny osmond ok thank you.. sweet lady..
Kelly, never doubt yourself, the journey is yours and yours alone! The decisions we make belong to us, no one can tell us we are wrong if they haven’t walked in our shoes. Do what’s in your heart to do and don’t look back, only look up, he’s got you and that’s all that counts!
Lol I don’t know why I thought it was Reese Witherspoon initially lol I thought they pulled the interview that’s why it wasn’t there but if it’s Kevin then that’s so cruel of him
I went through the same situation. My ex just left me and my 2 boys and disappeared. I couldn't find him. We were married in community of property. And because he didn't have a proper job all his accounts start being deducted from my salary. So I have to divorce fast to stop that. He never gave one cent to our 2 kids. But still I felt guilty, like I failed and I couldn't tell anyone except my sister who supported me. Even my children and my parents didn't know for 3 years. In one day a man, a relative told me: you shouldn't feel bad, or ashamed, or guilty you should be proud of yourself for surviving and taking care of your family. It was an amazing waikup call for me. And I realized that is the truth. And doesn't matter how many books and advisors are, you are never really prepared for these kind of things.
Yes, that happened to me as well. Later THEY, as well got a divorce. They did everything to keep a cheating spouse. I helped that person through for 3 years basically daily to get over it. Sorry that happened to you too Kelly. It’s hurtful.
I don’t get from this clip how Kelly was “shamed”?? All the person said to her was relationships are hard. If anything, that sounds like they were trying to be empathetic… Am I missing something here??
The exact same thing happened to me. I couldn't believe it. Divorce is the last thing I wanted, but there are one or two things that if a partner refuses to even address or work on, then you must leave and let go for your and you children's safety and well being. Period. Heartbreaking.
❤ I Love you Kelly sweetheart you are Heavenly Father child don't listen to that person just keep doing what you are doing let your light shine & keep singing.
Yes, I think it depends on how it was said (in context). If someone said that relationships are hard, it could have also been said as a way of showing empathy, like you feel for the person that’s going through it.
I know that she is so loved by many, but I’ve been preoccupied the last few years and am just beginning to know more of Kelly. NOW THIS, is tragically breaking my heart that anyone would hurt HER! Definitely, Kelly Clarkson should never be hurt by anyone.
I don’t get from this clip how Kelly was “shamed”?? All the person said to her was relationships are hard. If anything, that sounds like they were trying to be empathetic… Am I missing something here??
You are gold! GOLD! You should be treated like such!! Your hardships and journey navigating this divorce SHOULD inspire women… I’ve listened to #lighthouse on repeat…
Noone needs to judge another, for anything, just coming out of divorce myself, made it to the other side...took a while, but it does get there eventually 😖😁
Maybe she didn’t meant the way Kelly took her comment. Every relationships may be different with its ups and down. But we all could at least understand and related the pain it cause us when a relationship or/and marriage ends.
Exactly. From what Kelly said it seems like the guest was trying to be nice. "Relationships are hard." Relationships generally ARE hard. Hopefully there was more too it.
I don’t get from this clip how Kelly was “shamed”?? All the person said to her was relationships are hard. If anything, that sounds like they were trying to be empathetic… Am I missing something here??
He who laughs last laughs best. Didn't take long eh?? Time is the master Kelly. You look fabulous and you are just soaring. Watch you every day. Love you baby girl. You are just gifted!!! You also show how empathetic heart- all the time. I always laugh when you say on your show:" We never had money growing up."
Awe she had to hold the tears back, literally. Its easy to judge, because understanding takes compassion. Through judging you seperate, with understanding you grow.
He should be ashamed getting alimony. Relationships are hard and children add to the mix. Felt so bad for you. You're a love❤. Hope he's positive towards you when he has the children. ❤❤
@@1369StilesI’m thinking the same thing. There had to be more context to that comment. Just saying “relationships are hard” alone isn’t shaming. I’m wondering if maybe the person was like, “well suck it up… relationships are hard and you’re just taking the easy way out…” or something like that. She should elaborate a little more.
I had some family who did the same. Also, they are from the south. But she couldn't understand why he would divorce me. She says this over and over. I tell her I left him over and over. I tried to figure out why she had an issue. There are so many things women couldn't do and who would do it for me now! What?! I've always done the heavy stuff, too, and I could take my own car to the shop without getting taken. 🙃
Thank you Kelly , I understand the emotions you felt at that moment . Of course . I was the one that insisted on " trying again " only to cost me more emotionally and financially . " Mama tried to tell me " !
@@zoesmybaby She said it's a southern thing. No offense to the lovely southern ladies out there, but if that's true, may want to rethink that line of thought. There are far too many other things to be upset about, sadly.
And she says it was on her talk show, so, something that was going to be televised. And she says the person is now going through a divorce (so not at the time). Sounds more to me like someone wanting to say the right thing on a TV show their current partner, who they are currently trying to work things out with, might hear in a week or two. If they were like "yeah, girl, divorce his ass" they might have gotten their divorce even quicker. At the time, they were trying to make their marriage work. Co-signing divorce might not have been a good look. Survival inciting kicked in. it wasn't about Kelly at all.
People that are going through stuff often project on to other people. Like “well my relationship is really hard but I’m sticking out so you don’t have the right to give up” type of nonsense
Okay why is everybody mentioning them those two above in the comments 😢😮 why would they do that 😭 tbh considering have been on her show and people saying what a wonderful 👍😊 person she is or was tbh
❤ You are so strong and we are so in your corner Kelly. ❤ when they are old enough to understand I hope your kiddos wrap their hearts around you for what you did for them. I am a big believer in karma!! 😊
You never judge someone else’s journey your not in their shoes.
Remember everyone has a backstory.... Be kind
Well they are now soo 😂
God, conservatives are the absolute worst with their disgusting self righteous judgements. They are not moral people.
What pissed me off about this person Kelly is talking about, is that this hypocrite is also going through a divorce. Gee! I wonder why…….🤔
So I am missing part of the story. I am saying that genuinely, as clearly I misunderstood. The other person said, “Well relationships are hard.“ And that’s where they were shaming her? Or what else did I miss (I watched the whole thing)
My grandfather always told his girls if they would gossip..."Never judge because you never know what's yet to come."
The problem is these days, the gossip is also coming from the men, their platforms and their podcasts, too.
Men are the biggest gossips on the planet
So true! Coming from my own experience.
So true!!
Sounds like a very wise man 🙂
If anyone has earned the right to hold their head high it's Kelly.... she inspires me everyday! 😘😘😘😘😘
Kelly is one of the nicest and most down to earth people in the industry and so darn talented it’s insane. She’s amazing! Love her!
Why she makes such a good host! So happy for her and Drew’s shows’ successes. They are such genuine people who have been through so much, they deserve them :)
That is why her show is so successful!
Unbelievably Naive though.
Diiiitoo!
@@deborahlyn935 How so?
I love the “they’re going thru something, I’m gonna let that go!” I need to say that more often when things happen. Thanks, Kelly, for your great example on kindness!
thats my moms take and Im 34 still saying 'no mom theyre just an asshole"
@@Velereonics haha!
I sometimes catch myself saying fu.. my life is hard or fu.. up but than I'll remember someone else is having a harder time than me and it brings me back to reality that is not that bad
@Velereonics Both things can be true, they're not necessarily mutually exclusive. One can both be going through something that deserves my compassion AND yet still an asshole 😉
IT WAS KEVIN COSTNER!! You’re welcome.
I was trying to remember who it could be 😂
Thank you! Lol
Really? Lol he had the audacity to shame her when he got divorced once in 1994 tsk tsk “relationship is hard” yeah ok
Why does she talk so bitterly about it? Relationships ARE hard. Weigh every word and you're automatically hurt.
@@Smsl-nh9slI feel like there's clearly a lot more that was said because based off that alone I wouldn't take it that badly either. It could have been the tone the context missing or more words that were said if not I agree with you it doesn't seem like that bad of a thing to say.
Half the people that shame others wish they had the guts to get out of a bad marriage
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
100% truth
Literally
100% truth. The only people mad about divorce are people who should be divorced from and people who wish they were brave enough to do it themselves.
How do you know that?
Kelly just oozes kindness. Rare for Hollywood.
I remember when she was Star struck when she met Normani, a singer who looked up to Kelly Clarkson as an inspiration. 🤣🤣🤣
Yea, she's so kind that she abandoned her kids and husband to wear clown makeup and sing horrible songs.
It's not kind to say someone is hilariously getting a divorce...
More like she oozes vegetable oil 🍟🥞🥧
not rare for Texas though
I love how she gave them the benefit of the doubt to the other person.
And why shouldn’t she?
@@User12345fan I bet you are one of those people which just pick fights in the comments section to make yourself feel better. This post didn’t need a self righteous reply, unnecessary.
Except she didn't? Maybe you are taking a person just trying to continue the conversation about an awkward time for you (that they probably don't want to talk about) and making your own assumptions. "Relationships are hard" can easily include "break ups are hard" etc.
I just got a divorce after 33 years . Wish I would of done it 25 years ago. Stayed because of the kids . No one knows completely what you've been through . It's important to know you are important too, and if you knew a divorce was necessary then it is . People grow apart or have whatever issues that become a deal breaker . Kelly you and your kids are going to be ok! Team work ❤
You are very strong. Thank you for sharing that.
I divorced after 32 years myself...The ONLY shining light in this is our son, he is worth going through what I did...
If "no one knowz" what someone goes through then it would be helpful to warn people about what happens in marriage. Divorce isn't the goal when you get married so people should share to the future spouses what they need to avoid instead of being discrete.
@@IWantToMature85omgggggggg... that's what happened to me..they kept secrets from me and I was a innocent person, not knowing what I was getting into, they even lol in my face and said we thought he was going to change, really? you lied to my face and put the Bible in my face and play GAMES with me by putting my life in Dangerous Situations....it hurts me because I'm did not need to be abused and used by the church facade and clan of liers who KEPT secrets from me and imagine how much pain and suffering I endured from lies...from the beginning 4/1987 to 4/2011....and he played victim all over the State....the dark traid attitude kept under wraps...
Not strong or brave. You were probably just bored and had an overinflated sense of your self worth.
It's not hard to simply be kind.
But it is very difficult for many people
It's also not the most noble or important quality that a person can display. In a moral society, shaming people who break their holy vows and abandon their families should be considered more righteous and essential than mere kindness.
@@calixohiggins9843 I think you should question your own morals. Did Jesus shame people? Or did he love sinners and help lead them down a better path?I’m assuming you’re Christian because you said holy vows.
@@blakecharles4501 Jesus called out sin when He saw it, then challenged sinners to choose to be better and follow Him. Some might call this shaming.
@@calixohiggins9843 I never read Jesus calling someone fat. Which you are doing here.
You beautiful lady, don’t you DARE let someone shame you. You must have to have the thickest skin to endure and have created what you have created. All of your fans have your tenacity and determinedness to thank for all the songs that helped us get through our hardest moments. I can’t tell you how many times I have put on my AirPods and stormed out for a walk to let tears course down my face listening to your human empowering words. You saw me through an abusive marriage and an acrimonious divorce, but also through new motherhood and moments where I didn’t know what I wanted to do or be. I hope you know that makes you my super hero. Kelly, you are EVERYTHING. PERIOD. You have done it and continue to do IT.
Her skin isn't the only thing on her that's thick.
oooo good one do u feel good about saying that
@@calixohiggins9843
Kelly is the most humble down to earth beautiful inside and out person I’ve ever seen!!! I hate everything she’s been and going through!!!
I feel her. I often have to stop myself, not because I’m judgemental but I want to help instead of listening and just caring. And giving advice without being asked looks judgemental. When in reality it is rooted in my childhood trauma.
Wow. You just gave me an epiphany because so often someone vents to me about their troubles and my first instinct is to offer suggestions to help and some people have seen it as judgemental when in reality I don't know what to say to comfort so my reaction is just, 'how do we fix or improve this situation?' because that's the only way I can think of to help them in the moment.
@@artluver94c Wow. same here. it's rooted in me to try and "make things better" instead of just listening.
Yes. Totally can relate. My first instinct is how can I solve the problem I’m hearing and to suggest solutions. I’ve learned that sometimes friends just need you to listen & to give them a shoulder to lean on. If they want ideas they will ask.
Best life lesson I’ve heard in ages. Thanks for sharing❤
I was told don't look down on anyone...you could be looking up tomorrow 🙏💗
Oooh that’s so deep. I felt a chill go up and down my spine reading that
"A friend of a friend is my friend. Be discreet."A quote from the south.
exactly..DNT do dirty to anyone... NEVER tell other people's lives behind their back, lol, no one knows what happened it's too much to tell, years of experience makes you stronger than yesterday, because you keep secrets to stay away FROM TOXIC drama and you get people talking smack when they DNT have a clueeeeeeeee...lol
I live in the south I was just asked the other day by a bank teller how I could worship statues. They didn’t keep their bigotry and stupidity very discreet.
@@MearnieToon😂 It's about gossiping.
I so love and admire her honesty and self-deprecating humor. Everyone is fighting something.
I am so sorry you had this experience. I'm also happy you are much happier these days. You rock!
I got so many “are you sure?” and “Did you try counseling?” when people found out about my divorce. I’m like 🤨 uuhhhh yeah I wouldn’t be leaving if it weren’t necessary. I hate how no one leads with “I can’t imagine how hard this is on you.” “I’m sorry you’re going through this”.
She seems so authentically nice :)
You mean she sounds like an airhead that is incapable of articulating a cohesive thought.
Divorce is not the problem. Denial and remaining in a dead marriage is.
Divorce is a blessing. Imagine being stuck forever with someone you don’t like or hate.
Then you shouldn’t marry them in the first place. It’s a lifelong commitment between two people. I’ve been married for 30 years and it has never been awful or a question. If you love someone then that love never ends. It just gets better with life and life experiences together. It’s not that complicated. I really think if a marriage doesn’t work out then it wasn’t love to begin with.
@@pamelasmith6221That's YOUR experience. Who are YOU to say that someone's relationship or marriage wasn't ever love?That's incredibly self righteous n rude!! Looks like u are one of those ppl who assume they know what's happening behind closed doors. My ex husband n I had a wonderful marriage n truly loved each other. Long story short..he got very sick n had to have brain surgery. He healed from his illness n his surgery but whatever they did to his brain changed him. He was never the same..he became someone I didn't know.. complete personality change. I tried to stay..tried counseling..tried it all but he didnt think anything was wrong n couldn't see that the brain surgery had altered his personality. In addition to that ppl change..a friend of mine worked on her marriage for years after he husband became an ab*sive addict. Sometimes things happen n no matter how hard u try they cannot be fixed. Again..u don't know someone's life behind closed doors n the struggle n pain they are enduring to try to fix things n make it work BECAUSE they love someone. Its great that your experience was a good one but, reality check...life isn't a fairy-tale...things just happen n there are things that can't be fixed by love alone. I still have love for my ex..I'm not in love with him anymore but I still care about him n maintain a good co -parenting relationship with him bc our kids love him.
Sometimes people change or people grow apart (or sometimes people become violent or cheat), we never know what other people experience so we should be happy for whoever makes it work and for whenever says enough js enough. Everyone’s journey js different
She is such a strong, beautiful, honest woman...I would love to hang out with her...much love and respect 🙏 💞
Very strong of her to abandon her family and balloon into a macy's parade float
@@calixohiggins9843her father abandoned her, her family shamelessly exploited their connection to her and then you body shame her, I would love to know what's going on in your life behind your keyboard. Don't comment on someone else's life inflated you've walked a mile on their shoes
You look so great you’re beautiful beautiful person and don’t ever forget that you’re amazing little young lady and you’ve come for nothing and now your big time something and you not change you still love People and I loved having you❤ in your music
I remember going to a church and the most holiest girl there posting on FB about how she would never ever get a divorce. This is knowing very well I was going through one. A few years later she did too. Such hypocrites! Besides that so many people and family members will smile in your face and insult you at the same time. 🐍
I was kicked out of my church for getting pregnant before marriage. I was 18. Meanwhile the pastors daughter had 3 kids outside of marriage.
@@ilovela0068wow, that’s why I hate religion so much! Too many use this to guilt, shame and manipulate people. There is nothing wrong with believing in God though (I do too), but my religion is only between me and God; I don’t need no church or institution to apply rules to it.
Yes! I couldn't stand the church environment. The people were not honest...saying one thing, doing completely different..all while looking down their noses at people. Been church free for 9 years now and have learned far more about our Creator than what I ever did in church.
@@ilovela0068Did he kick her out too?
God be with you. Please keep fighting for right. You have helped so many be strong thank you.
Thank you Kelly for always being balls to the wall honest. You're integrity is one of the many beautiful things about you. And, dayum, me love me some Kelly singing.
How can not love her. She’s amazing
Doesn’t apply she doesn’t have those…
Don't ever feel ashamed of what you do it's the people who wants a shame you should be the one that are shaming their self❤
Kelly I love all of your music and your show . But love the way you put your kids first . Thank u for all your songs and your show. Please please safe in all u do . Love you ❤️💕
She didn't write any of those songs. They were written by teams of composers and she just sings them the way she's told.
Your incredible , things happen who are they to shame anyone you're already heartbroken 💔 such a beautiful soul ,and brilliant singer God bless 🙌 her lots of love healing , prayers from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤ 💙 💖 💜
Aww a fellow Aussie 🐨 🇦🇺 ❤️ Aussie Aussie Aussie!!! Oi Oi Oi ❤️
Aussie meet up
Yep, been there. It's like when you getting a divorce people round you or people who don't know you will judge what your doing, tell you this "well relationship's are hard, you need to stop acting like it's all bout you". I was told many times "maybe if you were a better wife, he wouldn't want a divorce" I married a narcissistic physo, it was never gonna get good. He was gas lighting me, he was verbally abusing me.... If it read abusive he was doing it, he even went so far to try to get me to commit suicide he was a cop at the time, so he had a gun. Yeah, it awful. I'm just happy I made it through that. Now I have to live with the ptsd, anxiety & all the other crap that went with the abuse
God bless you, stay strong ❤️
I'm glad you got out, praying for you to get better
I pray for peace and healing for you in your mind, heart and soul. So glad you are out of that and things I pray will get better each day. I'm sending vibrations of love and hugs. I pray many, many blessings come your way ❤️ 🙏 ✨️. I pray in Jesus name. Amen 💕 💞 ♥️ 💜
If I can suggest anything, somatic therapy really helped me with the abuse I’ve had from my narc mom. Please reach out for help, you don’t have to live the rest of your life this way. 🫶🏼
Same here (married a narcissist and hoped it’d get better). But made it out and reminding myself to stay that way.
You so beautiful,talented, strong and I don’t think I have enough words to describe how amazing you are. ❤️
I am pretty sure that if this person is going through a divorce now they weren't shaming but projecting. Either trying to convince themselves to stay in it or being scared/mad because their partner were showing signs of giving up on them
Without hearing the rest of what this guest said to her, my first reaction was that they were trying to reassure her to not be upset with herself, because “relationships can be difficult . Now if this person followed up with telling her that she shouldn’t give up on her marriage, or that she should go for counseling, that would be another issue.
❤ Kelly - How is Kelly gonna find the right guy for her if she's stuck with the miserable wrong guy? No shame in knowing it's time to move on/divorce - it's smart! And no one has a clue what's going on behind their friends, family or neighbors closed doors.....
I do
Uhmmm you just assumed you know though
How would you know? She wanted the divorce so she got it along with having to pay alimony, was it fair?
The "right" guy is the father of your children. She's going to hell for abandoning her family.
@@calixohiggins9843 what if the father of the child stopped beliving in jesus and raped and lied and cheated after 10 years of marriage and then goes to hell wouldn't that make him the wrong guy?
Not me still having goosebumps everytime I listen to this, she kill it! She makes me feel like i've gone through it myself... Well,I don't even go through it in real life at all 🥲
I grew up in a house of SILENCE with my Parents... years later, when my marriage failed, I ended the marriage...I couldn't/wouldn't make our Daughter's go through the same.
You're so brave and strong!
Kelly Clarkston your awesome and you are the best in my eyes 💕
I feel you, I was shamed by my best friend.
Oh thats no friend x
@@donna8some friends aren’t afraid of being blunt and brutally honest. They remind us that life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows and that we need to remember the world is full agony. They give us a harsh reality check when we need to realize it and for some people that’s their personality trait.
That being said I don’t condone shaming. You can express wrongfulness without being derogatory or rude.
She’s probably angry with you because she wants your life as is. Jealous.
@@diamondborealis454so you agree, shaming from a best friend is wrong. You could've just said that
Same here I had a few "christian" "friends" shame me. I no longer talk to those people and I'm happily divorced.
I absolutely LOVE this girl!!!!!!!!
Relatable!! You don’t understand until you go through it yourself 🥺💔.
Amen.
Kelly my girl u know what happen in your life not us but I ask god to guide u and give you double the blessing u deserves my daughter is going thru a divorce and I can’t say I no how she feels but I can be there for her and we here for u to u r amazing person
Bless her heart I’m gonna keep you in my prayers💯🙏🙏🙏🙏 remember God is good follow his lead in you’ll be OK❤ you’re beautiful you’re amazing and you’re incredible. Wonderful.
Kelly you are such a beautiful soul ❤ bright blessings
She should have reached out to the person after finding out and been like “Oh, I’m so sorry to hear about your divorce. I know it’s so hard. Let me know if you need any couples therapy recommendations or need a name of a good lawyer.”
That person doesn’t deserve her sympathy when they didn’t show any for her. Kelly was already respectful to them by being respectful in the interview and that’s as far it needs to go.
I'm hear for this kind of wholesome petty 😂
Nope. Leave them where they are.
She's not catty, just move on. Their karma already hit.
@@jenreiiLol! Me too!
Don't cry Kelly ur beautiful and don't let nobody ever make u feel bad never u rock love ur voice
Kelly is such an amazing person! Love her!
Karma's a you know what...
And, YOU, Kelly, are class and good humanness personified!
I love you, you make daytime tv worth watching!
Haters hate the ones who float, because they never will...
Love you, you are the example of what a good human looks like! ❤️
This lady is so sweet.
stream this ladys music
So is everything she eats
Love you, girl! ❤ You just keep on keepin' on, friend . . .
I know your pain Kelly, you had a broken heart, my heart was broken too like that, divorce is hell and I’m sorry you had your heart broken,
Recall donny osmond he's so special we still love him somuch. Oh u can't say he's coming the crowds willbe tonight love that Mr donny osmond ok thank you.. sweet lady..
Karma sucks your beautiful ❤️❤️
@@phx2pdx582 whole being all of it Soul and Spirit the body is a vessel always 💙💙
@@phx2pdx582 Or more logically "her beautiful what?"
@@phx2pdx582😂😂😂 I see what you guys are doing here 😂😂😂
Kelly, never doubt yourself, the journey is yours and yours alone! The decisions we make belong to us, no one can tell us we are wrong if they haven’t walked in our shoes. Do what’s in your heart to do and don’t look back, only look up, he’s got you and that’s all that counts!
Not sure why everyone thinks it’s Reese Witherspoon, especially since she’s never been on Kelly’s show.
Plus has been through a divorce herself already years ago
Streets saying it's Kevin Costner
Lol I don’t know why I thought it was Reese Witherspoon initially lol I thought they pulled the interview that’s why it wasn’t there but if it’s Kevin then that’s so cruel of him
@@serenequeenl0v3 she only said they cut that part of the interview so I think it’s someone who has for sure been on the show
Shes getting divorced?
I'm hugging you Kelly. I'm proud of you on how you deal with things like this ❤
You are a good person, don't let others brake your joy
I went through the same situation. My ex just left me and my 2 boys and disappeared. I couldn't find him. We were married in community of property. And because he didn't have a proper job all his accounts start being deducted from my salary. So I have to divorce fast to stop that. He never gave one cent to our 2 kids. But still I felt guilty, like I failed and I couldn't tell anyone except my sister who supported me. Even my children and my parents didn't know for 3 years. In one day a man, a relative told me: you shouldn't feel bad, or ashamed, or guilty you should be proud of yourself for surviving and taking care of your family. It was an amazing waikup call for me. And I realized that is the truth.
And doesn't matter how many books and advisors are, you are never really prepared for these kind of things.
How is that "the same situation" Please stop with the huge projection fest!
Kelly. I. lov. u. u. are. Great
Yes, that happened to me as well. Later THEY, as well got a divorce. They did everything to keep a cheating spouse. I helped that person through for 3 years basically daily to get over it. Sorry that happened to you too Kelly. It’s hurtful.
I don’t get from this clip how Kelly was “shamed”?? All the person said to her was relationships are hard. If anything, that sounds like they were trying to be empathetic…
Am I missing something here??
You'r gorgeous Ms Kelly Clarkson ❤️❤️❤️
The exact same thing happened to me. I couldn't believe it. Divorce is the last thing I wanted, but there are one or two things that if a partner refuses to even address or work on, then you must leave and let go for your and you children's safety and well being. Period. Heartbreaking.
She is so gracious and sympathetic, even on the receiving end of hate 💕
Sometimes people don’t know what to say so they say the first dumb thought that comes to their heads.
Yes, they're called women.
Kevin Costner? He was a guest on her show the week after her divorce went public, and he also went through a divorce.
He’s going through his second divorce, no less
@@robinharding9919 oh wow
Probably since he's getting divorced now too. 💁🏼♀️
Oh wow!!
Not a big surprise there 😶
❤ I Love you Kelly sweetheart you are Heavenly Father child don't listen to that person just keep doing what you are doing let your light shine & keep singing.
Commenting that a relationship is hard doesn't sound to me, shaming or critical or judgmental. 🤷♀️
Yeah, I don’t get it either. 🤷🏻♀️ Maybe it was in the tone? 🧐
Perhaps they were sounding patronising in their delivery? Maybe their heart was in the right place but their tone wasn’t?
Yes, I think it depends on how it was said (in context). If someone said that relationships are hard, it could have also been said as a way of showing empathy, like you feel for the person that’s going through it.
I know that she is so loved by many, but I’ve been preoccupied the last few years and am just beginning to know more of Kelly. NOW THIS, is tragically breaking my heart that anyone would hurt HER! Definitely, Kelly Clarkson should never be hurt by anyone.
I don’t get from this clip how Kelly was “shamed”?? All the person said to her was relationships are hard. If anything, that sounds like they were trying to be empathetic…
Am I missing something here??
What if that person was going through hard in their marriage and wasn’t judging her… she’s too sensitive and thinks everything about he.
You are gold! GOLD! You should be treated like such!! Your hardships and journey navigating this divorce SHOULD inspire women… I’ve listened to #lighthouse on repeat…
I need to know who this bully was to our kind hearted a Kelly !!😢
Kevin Costner
She seems she is about to burst in tears😢😢
Got to love Kelly. She is truly gracious and kind.
Words are so powerful and hurtful 😢
Noone needs to judge another, for anything, just coming out of divorce myself, made it to the other side...took a while, but it does get there eventually 😖😁
Ooh poor Kelly!!! That is so hard you sweet sweet badass momma!
Maybe she didn’t meant the way Kelly took her comment. Every relationships may be different with its ups and down. But we all could at least understand and related the pain it cause us when a relationship or/and marriage ends.
Exactly. From what Kelly said it seems like the guest was trying to be nice. "Relationships are hard." Relationships generally ARE hard.
Hopefully there was more too it.
Love forever for KC ❤
Don't let anyone who hasn't walked in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces
Love that ❤️
I don’t get from this clip how Kelly was “shamed”?? All the person said to her was relationships are hard. If anything, that sounds like they were trying to be empathetic…
Am I missing something here??
@@calisongbird she simplified the conversation. I take it that was just the beginning of their lecture...
He who laughs last laughs best.
Didn't take long eh?? Time is the master Kelly.
You look fabulous and you are just soaring. Watch you every day.
Love you baby girl. You are just gifted!!! You also show how empathetic heart- all the time.
I always laugh when you say on your show:" We never had money growing up."
Love her, but someone did her dirty with that makeup.
Awe she had to hold the tears back, literally. Its easy to judge, because understanding takes compassion. Through judging you seperate, with understanding you grow.
They kinda shamed me…” hilarious enough they are getting divorced now”….oh you’re that person….
If it's her then she has a lot of nerve considering she divorced Ryan Philippe and now her 2nd marriage is over.
So great how strong you were through the process and came out the other side. Great lady
He should be ashamed getting alimony.
Relationships are hard and children add to the mix. Felt so bad for you.
You're a love❤.
Hope he's positive towards you when he has the children. ❤❤
He who will not be named...has no shame
Don’t let them break your heart ❤you know what you are going through
Saying relationships are hard is shaming? I wouldn't see it that way. Relationships ARE hard.
im sure there was more context to the conversation, and most likely the tone of the comment might have been condescending.
@@1369StilesI’m thinking the same thing. There had to be more context to that comment. Just saying “relationships are hard” alone isn’t shaming. I’m wondering if maybe the person was like, “well suck it up… relationships are hard and you’re just taking the easy way out…” or something like that. She should elaborate a little more.
I love you Kelly Clarkson 💞😢
I had some family who did the same. Also, they are from the south. But she couldn't understand why he would divorce me. She says this over and over. I tell her I left him over and over. I tried to figure out why she had an issue. There are so many things women couldn't do and who would do it for me now! What?! I've always done the heavy stuff, too, and I could take my own car to the shop without getting taken. 🙃
Thank you Kelly , I understand the emotions you felt at that moment . Of course . I was the one that insisted on " trying again " only to cost me more emotionally and financially . " Mama tried to tell me " !
Why is that bad to commiserate with someone? Relationships are very hard sometimes. That is just a fact.
Exactly!!!! I don't get why it's so bad to say that relationships are hard. They sure are!
@@zoesmybaby She said it's a southern thing. No offense to the lovely southern ladies out there, but if that's true, may want to rethink that line of thought. There are far too many other things to be upset about, sadly.
So sorry for what you are going through. 😞
Who was it Kelley? Name names!! Lol 😂
Def Reese Witherspoon.
But reese has been divorced herself already. She already knows whats its like , i doubt she would shame anyone
It’s Kevin Costner
@@abelrego6815she's never been on Kelly's show
Kyle Richards?
When we feel shame or whatever negative emotion we feel, someone will come up from wherever and mirror it back to us.
Kelly I'm so sorry that you had such a hard life of your divorce that won't happen to our relationship
Shut up
Nah, no excuse! Bless her heart. Huge hugs!
How do you know that was the person’s intent? Did you ask or were you just feeling attacked?
And she says it was on her talk show, so, something that was going to be televised. And she says the person is now going through a divorce (so not at the time). Sounds more to me like someone wanting to say the right thing on a TV show their current partner, who they are currently trying to work things out with, might hear in a week or two. If they were like "yeah, girl, divorce his ass" they might have gotten their divorce even quicker. At the time, they were trying to make their marriage work. Co-signing divorce might not have been a good look. Survival inciting kicked in. it wasn't about Kelly at all.
People that are going through stuff often project on to other people. Like “well my relationship is really hard but I’m sticking out so you don’t have the right to give up” type of nonsense
Came to the comments to see if y’all figured out who she was talking about
‘Cause who is it??? WE JUST WANT TO TALK….!!!!!
Right?? And the results are disappointing. Nobody has a clear answer. It cannot be that difficult. I need to know😭
same here..if this was tik tok it would have been the highlighted comment lol
I'm pretty sure someone is doing the work as we speak 😂
@@ndiaz0028 It's Kevin Cosner y'all.
Love the Kelly Clarkson show!❤
I was hoping to find out who this person was she was interviewing......
Same I wanna know
@@Ipleadthefifth Seems like it's Kevin Costner.
Maybe Reese Witherspoon?
Okay why is everybody mentioning them those two above in the comments 😢😮 why would they do that 😭 tbh considering have been on her show and people saying what a wonderful 👍😊 person she is or was tbh
@@AM-wz8qrReese? Who has been divorced from (alleged cheater) Ryan Phillippe for over a decade?
❤ You are so strong and we are so in your corner Kelly. ❤ when they are old enough to understand I hope your kiddos wrap their hearts around you for what you did for them. I am a big believer in karma!! 😊
❤️ IKR? She's SO brave and stunning!! ❤️ And Karma is gonna destroy that guy for saying "a relationship is hard".. Lmao! Please be sensible hun.