Where Does Your Personality Come From?

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  • @victormunhozmedia4182
    @victormunhozmedia4182 5 місяців тому +29

    Man those lectures are priceless

  • @JasmineDaisy111
    @JasmineDaisy111 5 місяців тому +52

    The “In filth it will be found” statement hits a home run.

    • @ehaurader2640
      @ehaurader2640 5 місяців тому

      Woah It just hit me too bro it does hit a home run straight up

    • @paulzeigler1075
      @paulzeigler1075 5 місяців тому +1

      Did you catch the Latin variant of it?

    • @hanswoast7
      @hanswoast7 5 місяців тому

      @@paulzeigler1075 "In sterquilinis invenitur"

    • @paulzeigler1075
      @paulzeigler1075 5 місяців тому

      @@hanswoast7 thanks!

  • @zindazed
    @zindazed 5 місяців тому +23

    Wisdom in motion. it's like he speaks to the thoughts directly that you don't need to think about what he is saying but rather have him as part of your thoughts while listening

    • @quintessence3991
      @quintessence3991 5 місяців тому

      You can tell you listen to a lot of old Jordy. He appears to be driving you insane.

    • @Brett-yq7pj
      @Brett-yq7pj 5 місяців тому

      That damn Peter jordanson

  • @gypsyfiresign1064
    @gypsyfiresign1064 5 місяців тому +71

    I can listen to J. Peterson all day!

    • @siddharthjodh
      @siddharthjodh 5 місяців тому +2

      I have done it several times.

    • @raginald7mars408
      @raginald7mars408 5 місяців тому +1

      Mind Opiate Addiction
      makes Peterson RICHHH$$$$$

    • @ContentRemoved___
      @ContentRemoved___ 5 місяців тому

      Or Kermit. Either one. All day long.

    • @quintessence3991
      @quintessence3991 5 місяців тому

      That's because he knows how to manipulate you.

    • @terrormilk384
      @terrormilk384 5 місяців тому

      I actually did that when I first found him, hours on hours just listening to him showed me a lot

  • @clodismccuien8082
    @clodismccuien8082 5 місяців тому +44

    I have been watching Dr Peterson's videos for about 3 or 4 years now... I have found myself with the ability to articulate my thoughts to a more diverse audience... I have even expanded my vernacular. Being from the south of the USA ,I stand out, like a sore thumb😅

  • @christopherwoodjr235
    @christopherwoodjr235 5 місяців тому +3

    These lectures are so inspiring. I am so thankful that we can so easily hear what Jordan has to say.

  • @lifestylemedicinals8692
    @lifestylemedicinals8692 5 місяців тому +5

    I was literally just discussing this with my wife today. I like Dr. Joe Dispenza’s play on words: Your personality is your “personal reality”. Our whole reality shifts when one core belief, thought process, behavior, word, etc.. changes. When forgiveness and understanding have their way. Identity takes root. That fundamental algorithm of being changes drastically.
    Right on time with this one 🙏

  • @themotomotion
    @themotomotion 5 місяців тому +31

    Thank you so much for posting your lectures, you help so many people so much, I wish you well.

  • @naderebrahim6756
    @naderebrahim6756 5 місяців тому +6

    Damn " You always learn when you are wrong" Painful yet Joyful

  • @nejwapolosi8062
    @nejwapolosi8062 5 місяців тому +10

    Hi I love listening to you, your like a talking book, I wish my kids will grow to be like you ❤

  • @dougisaacs
    @dougisaacs 5 місяців тому +1

    I'm a long time fan, and this is some of his best 10 minutes ever.

  • @LoganS91
    @LoganS91 5 місяців тому +7

    Every freakin sentence, true. It’s incredible the wisdom he brings.
    When the disciples said to Jesus, “Where else will we go? You have the words of life.”
    I find a parallel with Christ.
    And before someone comes in saying, “just listen to Christ and not Peterson.”
    I believe God created Peterson to bring us words for life TODAY. And this does not invalidate Christs teachings, it testifies to the words of Christ because they agree!
    God is that big and that good. And I believe each of us are called to find that truth within ourself and have the courage to speak it, that is the way of Christ. To bring the truth into the open so that it snuffs out the darkness.
    And now you say, “Jesus IS the truth.” And I reply, if that fact is the ONLY truth you know, you’re only a basic infantrymen at max, but more likely still a trainee. There is no shame in it, but there is more honor in becoming a finely tuned and disciplined sniper. But beware, there IS shame in only being a trainee while claiming the status of sniper. The sniper will look at you with disgust before crushing you underfoot in front of your battalion.

  • @jaikrishnan286
    @jaikrishnan286 5 місяців тому +2

    Ariticulating the cognition with persieverence and formulating the Rightounsness from the wisdom of geace. Gratitude to you Jo.

  • @gldn2092
    @gldn2092 5 місяців тому +3

    Thank you Dr. Peterson

  • @mcdouche2
    @mcdouche2 5 місяців тому +16

    Telling off-color and offensive jokes at parties of mixed company is my specialty.

  • @NicholeComer
    @NicholeComer 5 місяців тому +4

    So very good. Thank you.

  • @Semedov870
    @Semedov870 5 місяців тому +5

    You are genius

  • @piehound
    @piehound 5 місяців тому +4

    Of course psychologists must explain personality. Because that is their bread and butter. Alan Watts on the other hand was a philosopher and expert on Eastern cultures. He said personality derives from the old Greek word PERSONA. Which is a fictional construct used in drama . . . or comedy. You be the judge. How sincere . . . or how serious is the issue or question of personality ????? Dr. Peterson nails it when he says in the West we are expected to become completely independent individuals . . . come hell or high water. That last remark is gratuitously added by me.

    • @antoniorossi1441
      @antoniorossi1441 5 місяців тому

      Persona significa 'maschera' dal teatro...

  • @RichardKusiima
    @RichardKusiima 5 місяців тому +2

    Identity, personality and behavior are not the same thing!
    Many assume they are or use ine while referring to another and this is where confusion starts!

  • @ByAlonsoBarinotto
    @ByAlonsoBarinotto 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for your knowledge Dr. Pererson

  • @androsabillo
    @androsabillo 5 місяців тому +3

    1:17 I wasn't aware Matt Walsh attended his lectures before

  • @freesk8
    @freesk8 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for posting this! :)

  • @normavoyton3208
    @normavoyton3208 5 місяців тому +6

    I would love to have been in that room. 🙏❤️

    • @Kevin-sr8yx
      @Kevin-sr8yx 5 місяців тому

      Paying thousands for what you can now get for free?

    • @jmarie7252
      @jmarie7252 5 місяців тому

      He’s formulating courses that will be offered for a reasonable price…think about how emotionally healthy the world could be if everyone could benefit from his knowledge and wisdom…love how he breaks down story lines in movies and the Bible…❣️❣️

  • @estelaguidote3658
    @estelaguidote3658 5 місяців тому

    Personality can be unpredictable depending on the situation you’re in. Case to case basis I shall say. It’s a projection of realism within a person’s mind, the inner soul of being, one can never tell. It’s how you respond to situations, circumstances and other matters that happens in your life. When human intervention sets in that is beyond your control, then you can’t do anything about it. You’re in a trap and you just have to live with it. Stephen Covey said “Paradigms are powerful because they create the lens through which we see the world…If you want small changes in your life, work on your attitude. But if you want big and primary changes, work on your paradigm.” In my opinion, that’s where your personality will either change or remain stagnant.

  • @GenaJohns-kl2ib
    @GenaJohns-kl2ib 5 місяців тому +1

    Can not get what you want all time but can get it

  • @GenaJohns-kl2ib
    @GenaJohns-kl2ib 5 місяців тому +1

    You always learn

  • @BigQuadsOnCampus
    @BigQuadsOnCampus 5 місяців тому

    @8:10 thanks to exploration of podcasts and online lectures I have only just recently realized that I have constructed my life in such a way that despite my flaws and failings, I live extremely comfortably and in great health. I don’t think about how lucky I am as often as I should. God is good.

  • @mariannell
    @mariannell 5 місяців тому

    I see a red door and it has been painted black... We love Jung and Peterson.

  • @makscampbell
    @makscampbell 5 місяців тому +1

    Modern day philosopher

  • @cannonball9478
    @cannonball9478 5 місяців тому

    The suits are wayyyy cooler JP 😀 the lecture is equal in brilliance to the pod casts

  • @UniversalSovereignCitizen
    @UniversalSovereignCitizen 5 місяців тому +2

    An introverts backpack is usually lighter.

    • @MrReubenTishkoff
      @MrReubenTishkoff 5 місяців тому +1

      I'm an introvert and mine was the heaviest. Because it was full with all the books. 📚🤓

    • @thomasnodoubt8672
      @thomasnodoubt8672 5 місяців тому +1

      Wanting to know The TRUTH, and holding on to that goal was the goal in my life.
      I never knew how difficult that was going to be. And not just the figuring out which ‘truth’ was a lie and which ‘truth’ was real has become a lifelong project and one that will cause one to become an introvert, assuming we introverts are not just created ‘extra-special’ 😅 lol, right? It seems to be a thankless task for the vast majority of the masses care not about their fellow man nor his plight in life just trying to survive in todays’ world(s)… selah!

  • @jordanfalkowski6924
    @jordanfalkowski6924 5 місяців тому

    :doS learning a particular way Cause anxiety? I had like a strange epiphany raking leaves. As i was going to try unclogging a drsinage creek where i had dumped trashcans full of leaves. I was going to use the cheap bags from the kitchen and seen the heavy duty kind for a maintence project. There was a bunch so i smashed to compress them and later when i was asleep i was dreaming about some stuff in the realms of marality and thought maybe its usable material to build upwards.

  • @mrp8811
    @mrp8811 5 місяців тому

    would love a conversation with him.

  • @StrongerBeliever
    @StrongerBeliever 5 місяців тому

    Peterson asks what is more part of you: your arm or your mother/child?
    Peterson starts with the point that perhaps your personality is outside of you...
    These things (your arm or your child) that you value are not outside of you, but inside.
    These are all values.
    Internal values.
    How you define yourself is by what you value.
    When what you value changes, your identity/personality changes.
    It's not as convoluted and complex as he made it out to be, respectfully.
    Values = identity = (true) you
    It's not about outside/inside.
    Our interactions with the outside world simply expose our nature (values), and expose us to different values we may pursue.
    Identity is simple.

  • @shankarbalakrishnan2360
    @shankarbalakrishnan2360 5 місяців тому

    From others ignorance comes my personality❤❤🎉🎉

  • @haikalyadzid1761
    @haikalyadzid1761 5 місяців тому

    Can someone help me to understand better, in his proposition where does the personality actually comes from?

  • @Leflaneur-412
    @Leflaneur-412 5 місяців тому

    Is there a possibility no matter how you shift your personality, in terms of big 5 model lets say, either being introverted or extroverted, agreeable or disagreeable, people would still not like you?
    Even if you do resolves your 'incorrect construe of the world', new problem would still arise, and you would, in a most desperate sense, never find a way out?

  • @danispringer
    @danispringer 5 місяців тому

    Hi. I have a question.
    I’m an intelligent young man.
    But I’m terribly afraid of success, and happiness.
    Perhaps because I don’t believe I deserve it, perhaps because I don’t believe it to be possible, perhaps because I truly hardly know what happiness even is. I’m not fully sure.
    I was bullied as a kid and never understood by my family, and therefore have extremely low self esteem.
    The reason I can say that, and nonetheless still start with “I’m an intelligent man”, is because, somehow, in some specific things I _do_ have confidence. Maybe because those things weren’t touched and therefore shattered in school and at home. I’m not fully sure.
    As of now, most tasks make me feel extremely overwhelmed. You would think I’m lazy. But I’m _so_ not.
    Therefore, looking for a good, high paying job, is extremely overwhelming. And keeping one, is incredibly overwhelming too. In fact, I got fired, because I wasn’t showing up, because I was too overwhelmed.
    My question is: how can I overcome this, so that I can be confident in myself, enough to pursue - and keep - a “real”, high-paying job?
    Thank you.

    • @mariannell
      @mariannell 5 місяців тому

      You are obviously young... Start with a non-high-paying job. Maybe the pressure of society overwhelms you, to make a career, to become someone... Ambitious people would feel lucky in your position. Perhaps you are not ready. Take small steps. Just talking from experience, although I fucked up, but things went and go bad for me, like for Job.

    • @mariannell
      @mariannell 5 місяців тому

      Good that you discovered Dr Peterson. He is wise.

    • @fatherburning358
      @fatherburning358 Місяць тому

      Self awareness leads you to self knowledge and self understanding. Who you are. Authentic self. You will know your limitations, your boundaries. Then you can apply your ambitions. Your success will satisfy your authentic self as opposed to satisfying your culture, or society. Failure is always an opportunity to learn. Small steps and incremental gains of skill and understanding = positive outcomes.

    • @danispringer
      @danispringer Місяць тому

      @@fatherburning358 Still working on it, from therapist to therapist, G-d willing, I hope to get there sooner than I expect (especially because my expectation is "never"). Thank you.

    • @fatherburning358
      @fatherburning358 Місяць тому

      @@danispringer you're welcome. I wish you well. 🙏

  • @NahuelTomasViking
    @NahuelTomasViking 4 місяці тому

    Haven't seen this video in a while and I admit it hits me deep... Especially the part of Hero concept and some parts of identifying ourselves with other's problems.. But I like to keep on mind "whats on the past its burried already", some sort of comfort I guess..

  • @beezee7691
    @beezee7691 5 місяців тому

    from in 'being with'

  • @GenaJohns-kl2ib
    @GenaJohns-kl2ib 5 місяців тому

    Over independence with parents

  • @Brett-yq7pj
    @Brett-yq7pj 5 місяців тому

    Your experiences and environment which determines your choices which points to free will conditioned by exterior factors more so than biological, for me. people are a product of their lineage but it seems like the bigger impact is how you experience things and what's happening around you

  • @vascoguerreiro341
    @vascoguerreiro341 5 місяців тому

    Good video

  • @ericthiede9712
    @ericthiede9712 5 місяців тому +1

    The JBP "glow up" is very real from the UofT days.
    Time to get him back in the weight room.

  • @saltlightning7560
    @saltlightning7560 5 місяців тому +1

    I want a sketch of Kermit the frog do a jordan p lecture

  • @GregoryShtevensh
    @GregoryShtevensh 5 місяців тому

    Its not obvious, that you can make a framework, and structure around that is that!

  • @gorillapermacuture
    @gorillapermacuture 5 місяців тому +2

    So lovely to hear your speeches. ALOHA!

  • @mralien4710
    @mralien4710 5 місяців тому

    I am a product of my environment. Society has made me who I am. If you don’t like me you don’t like society.😂 said some guy. Birds of a feather flock together.

  • @lennard5393
    @lennard5393 5 місяців тому +71

    from listening to gangsta rap G im straight from the streetz

    • @MiloTimberlake
      @MiloTimberlake 5 місяців тому

      What do you mean?

    • @FireMuscle11
      @FireMuscle11 5 місяців тому

      😂

    • @talentxplosion
      @talentxplosion 5 місяців тому +3

      Dr peterson is gangsta.. that's whats up 😂😅

    • @kic0kass
      @kic0kass 5 місяців тому

      Songs... Ganger paradise or Jay z?

    • @lennard5393
      @lennard5393 5 місяців тому +1

      @@kic0kass Tommy Wright III meet yo maker

  • @honey-feeney9800
    @honey-feeney9800 5 місяців тому

    Dr. Petersen , Where do you teach, Which university ?

    • @Jack-r2v9b
      @Jack-r2v9b 5 місяців тому

      He is a psychologist and author

    • @mariannell
      @mariannell 5 місяців тому

      He doesn't teach anymore, he is an emeritus. Now you can learn from his UA-cam channels. He also goes on tour...

  • @The_Scouts_Code
    @The_Scouts_Code 5 місяців тому

    now what do
    you learn when you're correct you you're
    walking in the world you're operating
    the world you have a sense of what you
    want to have happen you're always
    looking at the world through this sense
    of what you want to have happen you're
    acting so that what you want to have
    happen will happen and when it happens
    well then you're happy because well
    first of all you get what you want and
    that's good maybe depending on what you
    want but it's also good because if you
    get what you want when you act then it
    turns out that your model of how to act
    is valid right the outcome that you get
    what you want indicates no error on the
    part of your model but it's very
    frequently the case that when you act to
    get what you want you don't get what you
    want and then that's unpleasant because
    you don't get what you want but it's
    even more unpleasant because it brings
    with it the hint of a suggestion that
    the manner in which you're construing
    the world is
    incorrect at some indeterminant level so
    for example if you tell a party tell a
    joke at a party you presume that people
    will attend and then when they hear the
    joke they will laugh and then if you
    tell the joke and it goes flat or even
    worse disgusts and offends people then
    you're going to be taken aback and
    that's partly because you didn't get
    what you want and that's not so good but
    it's but it's more because there's
    something wrong with the way you
    conceptualize the situation and then
    you're faced with a problem and the
    problem is the emergence of a domain of
    the unknown it's like well what kind of
    mistake did you make maybe you're not as
    funny as you think you are that that
    could be a big problem

  • @jonweston6294
    @jonweston6294 5 місяців тому +13

    It’d be really cool if someone of Dr Peterson’s influence and caliber had a spiritual awakening, literally realizing “I’m not the body nor the thoughts… I’m the spirit, the eternal awareness experiencing body and thoughts.” That’s what a lotta people are missing and need to find right now in their healing. The missing ingredient in the religious and psychological puzzle in the West.

    • @RiccardoL
      @RiccardoL 5 місяців тому +3

      What makes you sure he hasn't already understood that?

    • @StarcraftUser
      @StarcraftUser 5 місяців тому +3

      I got to listen to him speak in Colorado Springs a month ago about his book coming out in November titled “We who wrestle with God”.
      He seems much more spiritual now than ever. Can’t wait to read the new book

    • @cynthiastinson7059
      @cynthiastinson7059 5 місяців тому +3

      We all need Jesus, he is better than religion.

    • @jonweston6294
      @jonweston6294 5 місяців тому

      Sounds great!

    • @gregorywitcher5618
      @gregorywitcher5618 5 місяців тому

      Not so with his Right Hand man, Orthodox Icon Carver Jonathan Pageau. Dr. Peterson has been pointing to the cross. ✝️☦️✝️

  • @Varykino1917
    @Varykino1917 5 місяців тому +1

    So, where does the personality come from?

  • @mrhassell
    @mrhassell 5 місяців тому

    The mirror only reveals the packaging. The packaging only reveals what you are wearing.

  • @mitsealb3609
    @mitsealb3609 5 місяців тому

    How many professors talk like this? Profess? Think?

  • @jacobmckee8593
    @jacobmckee8593 5 місяців тому

    Who is the hacker?

  • @believe722
    @believe722 5 місяців тому

    In my opinion the man is genius.

  • @otaviosanches8502
    @otaviosanches8502 5 місяців тому

    Why is it that your classes are always just you talking? Why not use a more investigative way to teach your students, in a way that they can sey what they think and debate with your ideias? Wouldn't it be better for their development?

  • @schmuelschperling1459
    @schmuelschperling1459 5 місяців тому

    You will be flabbergasted when you realize that your personality comes from Uranus.

  • @MaryRaptis
    @MaryRaptis 5 місяців тому

    Hes farkin good man,an im a christain woman.research smart men,an add on righteous smart women.❤❤❤

  • @johanarango835
    @johanarango835 5 місяців тому

    I blame my family

    • @mariannell
      @mariannell 5 місяців тому

      Don't blame, brother. We are going to make it...

  • @thatomofolo452
    @thatomofolo452 5 місяців тому

    In Christ ❣️

  • @MichaelDuciaume-yq6dc
    @MichaelDuciaume-yq6dc 5 місяців тому

    The only identity is ego.

  • @Razear
    @Razear 5 місяців тому

    "You always learn when you're wrong." Unless you're one of those screeching college campus ideologues who transforms social justice activism into a personality trait, of course.

  • @metajester
    @metajester 5 місяців тому

    Let’s go

  • @ContentRemoved___
    @ContentRemoved___ 5 місяців тому

    Surprised he’s not crying… 😂

    • @mariannell
      @mariannell 5 місяців тому

      I love his sensitivity...

  • @GenaJohns-kl2ib
    @GenaJohns-kl2ib 5 місяців тому

    Must find out what did wrong in world 🌍

  • @RonaldAaronLopez
    @RonaldAaronLopez 5 місяців тому

    WHY AM I NOT BEING REMOVED FROM HAVING HUMAN RIGHTS VIOLATIONS AND WAR CRIMES INFLICTED ON MY EVERY MOMENT OF LIFE?!?! MY NAME IS RONALD AARON LOPEZ.

  • @benotafraid9875
    @benotafraid9875 5 місяців тому

    🥰

  • @GenaJohns-kl2ib
    @GenaJohns-kl2ib 5 місяців тому

    Dragon 🐉 myth live underground and bring something back value

  • @GenaJohns-kl2ib
    @GenaJohns-kl2ib 5 місяців тому

    My husband and children is more personality to me

  • @vincentmokoena4004
    @vincentmokoena4004 5 місяців тому

    Don't ever go around saying Give em hell. It makes you a hypocrite

  • @teddyarcher3957
    @teddyarcher3957 5 місяців тому

    peak Jordan right here, I really wish he had stayed out of going head first into politics ... and religion.

    • @freshbakedclips4659
      @freshbakedclips4659 5 місяців тому

      The reason he became better it's because he explored religion and distilled all the wisdom he learned.
      The way you frame religion seems negative

  • @Ekajificent
    @Ekajificent 5 місяців тому +5

    First here yaaay

  • @Brody.W
    @Brody.W 5 місяців тому +1

    Jesus Christ of Nazareth gave me His personality.

    • @inspir93volution
      @inspir93volution 2 місяці тому

      What a smug, virtue signaling , prideful and distasteful thing for you to say.

  • @tcuisix
    @tcuisix 5 місяців тому +1

    He fell off

  • @The_Scouts_Code
    @The_Scouts_Code 5 місяців тому

    now what do
    you learn when you're correct you you're
    walking in the world you're operating
    the world you have a sense of what you
    want to have happen you're always
    looking at the world through this sense
    of what you want to have happen you're
    acting so that what you want to have
    happen will happen and when it happens
    well then you're happy because well
    first of all you get what you want and
    that's good maybe depending on what you
    want but it's also good because if you
    get what you want when you act then it
    turns out that your model of how to act
    is valid right the outcome that you get
    what you want indicates no error on the
    part of your model but it's very
    frequently the case that when you act to
    get what you want you don't get what you
    want and then that's unpleasant because
    you don't get what you want but it's
    even more unpleasant because it brings
    with it the hint of a suggestion that
    the manner in which you're construing
    the world is
    incorrect at some indeterminant level so
    for example if you tell a party tell a
    joke at a party you presume that people
    will attend and then when they hear the
    joke they will laugh and then if you
    tell the joke and it goes flat or even
    worse disgusts and offends people then
    you're going to be taken aback and
    that's partly because you didn't get
    what you want and that's not so good but
    it's but it's more because there's
    something wrong with the way you
    conceptualize the situation and then
    you're faced with a problem and the
    problem is the emergence of a domain of
    the unknown it's like well what kind of
    mistake did you make maybe you're not as
    funny as you think you are that that
    could be a big problem