If a guy said this he would get mean comments. True men due like docile women with a good sense of humor , but this lady wants a cake and won't share. Conversations work best when we both talk and listen to each other. Don't be controling be spontaneous men like it to.
I was exactly where this young lady is a few years back! I read Steve's books and learned that sometimes you really need to be quiet and let a man talk, even if you don't agree with what he's saying. In those quiet moments once you open your mind up, you see things from their point of view. She's open to advice, so I think she's realizing she has to make changes and that's a good thing.
Mariah B In my experience and observations of the opposite sex that don't want to listen to what a man has to say, I believe is one of the highest forms of emasculation. Also, I have heard many of the opposite sex say we don't have brains and that they are our brains, and Steve perpetuates this ideology by consistently stating that we are stupid.
+Montanee jo Im a man and I like her. I think she has a bubbly personality. When you go out with a talkative person like that, there are no awkward silences. The men she has been dating just can't handle it.
As a man I like her. She has personality. She sounds fun. Great smile. Never a bore. I hate women who have nothing to say. The only improvement would be if she wasn’t speaking so loud.
look at her face when Steve tell her "I'm gonna bring you back on the show to get you a man" then she was like"really?". she was scared, nervous, afraid, excited and happy at the same time. that's how lonely people are.
chiza onyenekwu from what I hear it basically because he was making power moves behind the scenes with another company, so they decided to take him off air, but from my understanding the show will continue, just not on the station it normally airs on. However time will tell.
Stop LOOKING for A man. Start WAITING for THE man. A first date isn't about declaring what you ultimately want in the end. It's about learning about who the person is in front of you.
that's why they just disappear from her life, cause she talks way to much and it's so annoying because she says the same sentence but in a different way for like over 5 times😂😂
I had only watched 15 seconds of the video and immediately I thought to myself: "She's probably coming on a bit too strong on her dates with men..." Steve hit the nail on the head...as did a lot of people in the comments section. I think she is being a bit too aggressive on her dates. She would do well to lighten up a bit, maybe ease up on the talking, maybe speak a little slower and calmer, and not come across as aggressive. Just turning it down a NOTCH would probably help her love life a LOT!
Girls know what they don’t want, but they don’t know what they want. And women gotta stop saying men are “scared” as an excuse. Men are not “scared”! He just didn’t like you. It’s not complicated.
I met a girl like her in October, I went away and came around in November and went away again, the girl was aggressive, she wants things done her way like yesterday. Steve is right
It is not about desiring a mute but it is about BALANCE. If you ALWAYS talking it is IMPOSSIBLE to LISTEN. If you do not listen, you will NEVER get to know your date. Your DATE Will also NEVER get to know you. Some people talk too little and others talk too much. KNOWING when to SPEAK and when to LISTEN is the KEY...#GIVEmeJESUS #HISremnant
I'm a bit late here but Steve is timeless so here goes anyway: In terms of a job interview, no boss from any job worth having would ever hire her. She may think she's ready and qualified for the job, but as a potential employer listening intently for certain cues and flags, she simply comes off as desperate for a job. No good boss will ever ever hire "desperate." She even describes herself as "driven" and "I know what I want," which she says is a result of being in a bad relationship in the past for four years. Assuming that's true, all this here is just whiplash from that and every guy she meets gets treated the way she wished she would have treated that old ex. 100% understandable, but also 100% unacceptable and unfair.
+Chivo Man "That" being, a woman who knows what she wants and what she doesn't, cute, funny or at least very not boring, and independent ? Because "that" is what I saw and I'm sorry for guys if they miss that kind of women. Hopefully, despite what you said, I don't think all men love the indecisive silent doll type, thank God ! So I hope she'll find one of those men, or that she will turn lesbian as you suggest and find someone that sees and loves her for what she is and can be...
It is GOOD that she knows what she wants, but one does not have to be obnoxious about what one wants. It is the way in which she is expressing what she wants that is the problem...She needs to tone it down a notch or 2...Be assertive but don't be aggressive...#GIVEmeJESUS #HISremnant
TMS - C Wow... Since you said that, I now see she doesn't have the qualities I thought she had ! Thanks for opening my eyes (: !... (Seriously though... You realize the beauty of subjectivity is that everyone will see things from their own perspective, right ? Obviously a few people agreed with my point of view, but it's your right not to (: !)
TMS - C Very simple... I expressed my point of view in my original comment. You commented to say she's none of what I see in her, so again, subjectivity is key, your agreeing or disagreeing with me doesn't change a thing, and in the end, you're not expected to be everybody's taste by being who you are, but you'll probably be to someone's liking, so compromising who you are is unnecessary, like I said earlier (:
She rolled her eyes when she said we have a great time. Makes me believe she's the problem. Maybe her expectations are way too high so she's not really having a good time and they sense that and decide to no longer waste their time.
I see why they are walking away. She's coming on too intense, she's talking too much, she's cutting them off, she's insinuating that she wants it her way(because she wasted time in last relationships) and it probably feels like an interview on a date with her.
This reminds me of Christopher Titus' love is evil stand up. Sometimes when you've been burned before you become overly sensitive. Any little thing sets her off, she needs to analyze the guy like a specimen but not let it show. She is pushy
Right I hate how we have to please everyone. It’s very respectful to be considerate of other people but they also need to appreciate who you are and treat you with respect.
It would be exhausting for me to have a friend like that.. Even if she seems like a great girl. I can imagine men thinking on a date with her "I could never live with this." I have stopped talking to guys who were all over the place and talking all the time because I knew I wouldn't feel good being around that all the time.
You don't walk away , you take a seat and as an adult and you talk to the lady which she is probably anxious and responds this way because she feels she has to fill the gap ...by talking constantly . You calm her down and you explain to her you are not going anywhere and she will adjust to the situation ! She needs time for that ...You never know what she went through before you met her , how life treated her , family e.t.c e.t.c . Nobody was born knowing everything , nobody is perfect and nobody should be rejected just like that . Diamonds are rough when you mine them , but with a little effort and care they become precious .
I'm a woman, and she would get on my nerves because you can't get a word in. Those men get talked over, and they know she's more interested in a relationship than them as a man.
She won’t STFU because she is uncomfortable with silence. This is indicative of a larger issue. She needs to learn at a minimum to enjoy being alone before she can enjoy being with others. And by alone I don’t mean with her phone or other electronic devices, I mean truly alone with just her thoughts. I’d bet there is chaos in her head.
Steve ewey time I look your shows I just ctack up so loud you just made my day she is quite a talker but she is just full if a guy just get a chance to get into her.
She didn't even stop to take a breath! That's why her dates run away...
SimplyKie 😃😃😃😃
SimplyKie that is the problem .. talk too much
If a guy said this he would get mean comments. True men due like docile women with a good sense of humor , but this lady wants a cake and won't share. Conversations work best when we both talk and listen to each other. Don't be controling be spontaneous men like it to.
Looks like a trap
She is gorgeous. I would definitely date her 🎉
she not only talk too much she is not a good listener or communicator.
She’s super conscious about audiences responses. As we can see that made her anxious. She seems like a genuine person to me.
Not sure what you watched. She is a very good listener. Probably too good of one.
Actly no..she just wants attention..like an attention diva..thats all..
yea, but most girls are like that these days... driven, empowered, men hater at the same time want a life partner lol
She keeps talking over steve
LoLLLLL!
"Is there anywhere in the date that u stop talking???"
Cracked up laughing when he asked that lol
Godschild_Channy Obviously she doesn’t stop talking - I’d walk too 🤣
So she says no. Then proceeds for the next 15 seconds "no" "no" "no". Jesus girl take a breath.
Micro Penis Who wants to be with someone like that? I’d leave the date first chance I had 🤣
@@eric_toomuch I hear that
Steve “this is my show & I can’t get a word” 😂
I was exactly where this young lady is a few years back! I read Steve's books and learned that sometimes you really need to be quiet and let a man talk, even if you don't agree with what he's saying. In those quiet moments once you open your mind up, you see things from their point of view. She's open to advice, so I think she's realizing she has to make changes and that's a good thing.
+Mariah B which of the books did you read sister mariah B..i would love to get it for my wife..
+maurice bend
Hi Maurice I read act like a lady think like a man
Mariah B In my experience and observations of the opposite sex that don't want to listen to what a man has to say, I believe is one of the highest forms of emasculation. Also, I have heard many of the opposite sex say we don't have brains and that they are our brains, and Steve perpetuates this ideology by consistently stating that we are stupid.
Cornelius A. Martin Are you insane😂😂😂
@@stuartbrown9740 Mr. Brown, Would you mind explaining your question?
looks like the kinda girl who just wanna argue over anything and won't shut up lol
And she is very, very loud. I only wonder why the men come back.
+Yohannes Feyissa
Hm, I cannot find anyone cute who is loud and enervating.
Ohhh.
Maybe she's sleeping with them too early
Red flag flying sooooo high
I'm a woman but I'm scared of her. Her being so pushy and too much talk are scary. Maybe she's unconsciously unaware of it.
+Montanee jo Im a man and I like her. I think she has a bubbly personality. When you go out with a talkative person like that, there are no awkward silences. The men she has been dating just can't handle it.
+James Peter true. I love men that love talkative women
+temeika mckee you both can date then
Lord Jay I can understand that
im a man i like her
Her reaction when Steve said he’s gonna get her a man is priceless… I’m glad he can help her
I don't think he can 😂
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"A any point during the date do you stop talking?"
"No. No I don't. Never. Nope. No. Uh-uh. NOPE, UH-UH."🙅🏻
Is Sis on a stimulant😂😂
Not a stimulant 😂😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
i thought she might have ADHD..
probably just nerves mixed with excitement
She must be on something - it’s called desperation!
Steve is like "thank you so much darling" inner Steve: "you ain't coming back to my show again" lmaoooo
As a man I like her. She has personality. She sounds fun. Great smile. Never a bore. I hate women who have nothing to say. The only improvement would be if she wasn’t speaking so loud.
She was probably nervous, voices tend to raise under pressure. Hope she finds a nice guy that is strong.
She is a great personality, only has to het her match
She's a package deal...hehe....you can't take some of her and want to change the rest of her.
I agree, as a quiet female, I actually get along with the opposite of me, so a guy that talks a lot !
She desperate
Looks like Steve is saying she’s to aggressive, talk to much and that could possibly be her problem. 🤔
Possibly????? No guy wants that
Yes, a woman should be a little bit softer..
She comes off as masculine and not feminine. Men do not care for that.
Probaly
@@simpleutil A woman should simply be herself.
look at her face when Steve tell her "I'm gonna bring you back on the show to get you a man" then she was like"really?". she was scared, nervous, afraid, excited and happy at the same time. that's how lonely people are.
I’d absolutely love to see the second part of this, love this lady
I love her too!!! She's the absolute cutest!! And I can relate on such a deep level!! Hahah
my hubby chimed in half way through saying "guys call back to see if you've learned" 2minutea after Steve did! its friggen true lmfao
Tell him to have a talk show as well. We need one since apparently Steve is gonna be taken off the air... 🤔🤔
Suzy S why is he taken off d air ?
chiza onyenekwu from what I hear it basically because he was making power moves behind the scenes with another company, so they decided to take him off air, but from my understanding the show will continue, just not on the station it normally airs on. However time will tell.
You could see it on his face when he thought "That's the problem." Wow. Nothing wrong with being passionate but you gotta let others talk sometimes.
she reminds me of my bff. great girl. smart. friendly. but she does the same thing this girl is doing. trips over herself talking.
Excited ☺️
BFF? What decade is this?
@@crohunter100 🤣
kinda crazy right.
Steve makes me laugh so hard, this man is hilarious 🤣🤣😂
She is pushy that's the problem
marilyn She’s “independent” 😂you can’t win with these woman.
5yrs ago
Maybe that's why the guys leave her. Chatterbox!
Stop LOOKING for A man.
Start WAITING for THE man.
A first date isn't about declaring what you ultimately want in the end. It's about learning about who the person is in front of you.
I imagine her brain recursively goes like:
> receiving input
>input type: criticism
> analyzing criticism...
>Criticism analyzed: key findings: possible internal problem
>getting possible solutions...
>ERROR 20: unable to find library 'taking-responsibility' in internal memory.
>aborting program...
This is so funny! Lol, I may be in there somewhere!! That's really good!
Hilarious😂😂😂
Underrated comment🤣🤣🤣😂
Hahahaha this comment went right over millions of heads
I think this girl is serious and knows what she wants and just straight forward about it and the guys just can't deal with her boldness.
Probably better than wasting four years again.
Regardless, you can't chase a man the way you would your career.
man this girl is persistent
persistent MoonLight fan all around :))))
Steve “anywhere in the date do you stop talking “
“If you don’t like it, WALK”
“They’re Walking”😁
Every man is born a warrior, as his woman, you have to stand by him. If you stand to face him, he feels you are against him!
that's why they just disappear from her life, cause she talks way to much and it's so annoying because she says the same sentence but in a different way for like over 5 times😂😂
Hitting the nail on the head.so annoying indeed 😂😂😂
I had only watched 15 seconds of the video and immediately I thought to myself: "She's probably coming on a bit too strong on her dates with men..." Steve hit the nail on the head...as did a lot of people in the comments section. I think she is being a bit too aggressive on her dates. She would do well to lighten up a bit, maybe ease up on the talking, maybe speak a little slower and calmer, and not come across as aggressive. Just turning it down a NOTCH would probably help her love life a LOT!
She talks too much
O boy she never Shut Up😀😀😀
Benjamin Etim the power of stfu women need to understand that.
I don’t think she realizes how strong she comes across...
Right. Not gentle,feminine or intriguing.
Watching this for 100th time and still smiling. Who's this beautiful lady? Expression queen
Am i the only person that think she’s adorable ? I don’t think she talks too much she just knows what she wants and that usually scare men.
Louder for the people in the back 🙌🏿
She just have an annoying personality to me.
Girls know what they don’t want, but they don’t know what they want. And women gotta stop saying men are “scared” as an excuse. Men are not “scared”! He just didn’t like you. It’s not complicated.
This girl should be on a talk show! The way she talks so real is adorable
Its not adorable to most men. Too aggressive.
OMG!!! I'm exhausted just listening to her, no wonder the men just run away!
I met a girl like her in October, I went away and came around in November and went away again, the girl was aggressive, she wants things done her way like yesterday. Steve is right
HAHAHAHAHAHA. Did you go back in Dec 2020 and will you be going back Jan 2021
@@wyntamaxwell2766 Probably
She talks soo so much😭😭 “they walking” Steve kills me😂
Whew! I'm exhausted just watching this woman! I'm a Mental Health Professional and listening to people is my job...
I hope she's found a good man and is happily married
Does this woman ever stop talking? LOL
im guessing you want a mute instead of an equal partner...
It is not about desiring a mute but it is about BALANCE. If you ALWAYS talking it is IMPOSSIBLE to LISTEN. If you do not listen, you will NEVER get to know your date. Your DATE Will also NEVER get to know you. Some people talk too little and others talk too much. KNOWING when to SPEAK and when to LISTEN is the KEY...#GIVEmeJESUS #HISremnant
Mr. GiveMeJESUS Eddings Ok I'll give you that one. 😊
Question, HOW can something that is weaker BE equal to that which it is inferior TO ?? Mentally & spiritually speaking...
And she wonders why they disappear 😂
I'm a bit late here but Steve is timeless so here goes anyway:
In terms of a job interview, no boss from any job worth having would ever hire her. She may think she's ready and qualified for the job, but as a potential employer listening intently for certain cues and flags, she simply comes off as desperate for a job. No good boss will ever ever hire "desperate."
She even describes herself as "driven" and "I know what I want," which she says is a result of being in a bad relationship in the past for four years. Assuming that's true, all this here is just whiplash from that and every guy she meets gets treated the way she wished she would have treated that old ex. 100% understandable, but also 100% unacceptable and unfair.
Me: Reads the title.
Also Me: Lady, I'm right here.
Poor Steve... it's too bad he couldn't say:" it's your demeanor lady "...🤣
"Its been rough seriously"😂 she's something
Please Steve like... don't put another guy through that hell lol
This man did the funniest faces on your program !!! Lol
I love how she rolls her eyes😂😂
As soon as she said “I read all your books”
I knew she was cray
she even scares me, and im just on the phone watching
She looks like type of girl who sits in class with her bag of takis and starts munching away 😂
Steves face at the end is priceless😃😃😃
I think if the guys that Steve Harvey wants to get on the show to meet her… If they saw this show, no one would come. She’s nuts😅
She's adorable and strong-minded and super-refreshing ! Don't change a thing girlie (': !!
+Chivo Man "That" being, a woman who knows what she wants and what she doesn't, cute, funny or at least very not boring, and independent ? Because "that" is what I saw and I'm sorry for guys if they miss that kind of women.
Hopefully, despite what you said, I don't think all men love the indecisive silent doll type, thank God !
So I hope she'll find one of those men, or that she will turn lesbian as you suggest and find someone that sees and loves her for what she is and can be...
It is GOOD that she knows what she wants, but one does not have to be obnoxious about what one wants. It is the way in which she is expressing what she wants that is the problem...She needs to tone it down a notch or 2...Be assertive but don't be aggressive...#GIVEmeJESUS #HISremnant
Chivo Man You cant just "go lesbian" and i bet alot of men want to date her.
TMS - C
Wow... Since you said that, I now see she doesn't have the qualities I thought she had ! Thanks for opening my eyes (: !...
(Seriously though... You realize the beauty of subjectivity is that everyone will see things from their own perspective, right ? Obviously a few people agreed with my point of view, but it's your right not to (: !)
TMS - C
Very simple... I expressed my point of view in my original comment. You commented to say she's none of what I see in her, so again, subjectivity is key, your agreeing or disagreeing with me doesn't change a thing, and in the end, you're not expected to be everybody's taste by being who you are, but you'll probably be to someone's liking, so compromising who you are is unnecessary, like I said earlier (:
This is THE woman of my dreams I'm soooooo in love 🥰 I love her energy SHE is so alive and beautiful, God bless her 💖
Why is she talking like she's in an argument?
She is a very good good lady.... Wish me and her all the best of luck in life and love ❤️💯
She rolled her eyes when she said we have a great time. Makes me believe she's the problem. Maybe her expectations are way too high so she's not really having a good time and they sense that and decide to no longer waste their time.
See why they say...."Balance in ALL things in life is good".....my goodness....
The likelihood of her revising this behaviour is infinitesimal.
Thsts why her dates goes bad bc she won't ✋ yacking. Lmao 😂😂😂😂😂
I see why they are walking away. She's coming on too intense, she's talking too much, she's cutting them off, she's insinuating that she wants it her way(because she wasted time in last relationships) and it probably feels like an interview on a date with her.
That's the problem right there! She can't stop talking. Runs all the men off with her endless talks.
This reminds me of Christopher Titus' love is evil stand up. Sometimes when you've been burned before you become overly sensitive. Any little thing sets her off, she needs to analyze the guy like a specimen but not let it show. She is pushy
shes just not their first option. and when they run out of options they come back to her
🤣🤣🤣 By Far This Is ONE Of My Favorites
i like her personality !!
Why is everyone obsessed with getting a man
Debbie let’s be real life is better when we have a good one by our side
Debbie I don't understand either
Right I hate how we have to please everyone. It’s very respectful to be considerate of other people but they also need to appreciate who you are and treat you with respect.
Young and stupid. Masking biology.
I understand wanting a romantic partner but if you start feeling like you need one, then yeah, you have a problem you should address.
There’s a reason why guys don’t want a second date with her….
She needs to practice to be good listener, not only the date but on the phone too texts etc, she will be allright if she stick with that.
I love you Steve Harvey talk show ♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️
4:08-4:10. Took the words right out of my mouth.
Did anyone get the line where she said anything she wants, she goes for it? Let the guys hunt you and let them talk, not you.
This girl will argue w somebody for DAYS! lol where is the follow up episode?? I want to see it😂
3:52 is when Steve realize why they don’t call back
This girl's trying to bond with pickups with which she has nothing in common, and her first-date "requirements" for a man keep running them off!
She can't even give Mr. Harvey a chance to take
Yeah Steve gonna get you a date ……but he’s gonna warn him first 🤣
Its my show I can't get a word in! Lol
She ran Steve away. She's good at that.
Why don't tell her the truth Steve, Those guys don't find her attractive and only get back to her when they don't find some other girls
Im generally a quite and reserved person but I really like her personality and think I would genuinely date someone like her.
😎SWEETIE...OPPOSITE DO ATTRACT...SAME PERSONALITY CAN BE BORING 💃🎵🏃
Men dont care about your degrees ladies.
Just as i said that Steve says. Do you ever stop talking... OMG..he was so polite to her..
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It would be exhausting for me to have a friend like that.. Even if she seems like a great girl.
I can imagine men thinking on a date with her "I could never live with this."
I have stopped talking to guys who were all over the place and talking all the time because I knew I wouldn't feel good being around that all the time.
Lol
Steve was gonna invite her back, then he just gave up and moved on 😂
Steve Harvey is the Dr. Of love
You don't walk away , you take a seat and as an adult and you talk to the lady which she is probably anxious and responds this way because she feels she has to fill the gap ...by talking constantly . You calm her down and you explain to her you are not going anywhere and she will adjust to the situation ! She needs time for that ...You never know what she went through before you met her , how life treated her , family e.t.c e.t.c . Nobody was born knowing everything , nobody is perfect and nobody should be rejected just like that . Diamonds are rough when you mine them , but with a little effort and care they become precious .
That happened to me once! 😄 I'm laughing at myself.
I don't think she is pushy or aggressive. She just meeting losers. She will find the right man one day.
She's bad at communicating. Part of communication is shutting up and listening to what the other person has to say.
Was their a follow up on her date?. I would love to see that😄
I love her 😍 she's funny
Exactly why the men run for the hills after the first date!! Wow!
I'm a woman, and she would get on my nerves because you can't get a word in. Those men get talked over, and they know she's more interested in a relationship than them as a man.
She’s so beautiful I would date her if she’s still single til this day😍😍
Steve: In any date do you ever stop talking?
Girl: No
Here is your answer, why the guys didnt show up after the first date😂😂😂
She is verry friendly. You can see it in her face
She won’t STFU because she is uncomfortable with silence. This is indicative of a larger issue. She needs to learn at a minimum to enjoy being alone before she can enjoy being with others. And by alone I don’t mean with her phone or other electronic devices, I mean truly alone with just her thoughts. I’d bet there is chaos in her head.
Why go on a date pretending to be some one she's not. She has to be herself and find someone who can accept her as is...herself
Steve ewey time I look your shows I just ctack up so loud you just made my day she is quite a talker but she is just full if a guy just get a chance to get into her.
I like Steve but he's giving away all our secrets 🤣