We DID Break Up. Here's What You Missed. || Husband Q&A || Autumn Beckman

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  • @debm8470
    @debm8470 Рік тому +80

    Well, despite your claims that this isnt a rom com, I find your story to be VERY romantic. You married your best friend, you reconnected after a special vacation together, you referred to each other as 'your person', you've referred to Paul as your 'husband' a gazillion times, you support each other. And you BOTH look extremely content and happy. That my friends, is indeed romantic and quite special.

  • @corikay
    @corikay Рік тому +26

    All I can say is that Autumn suddenly has a different smile on her face….all the time! I’ve been with my husband 40 years, and you are right…mountains and valleys…but it’s also wonderful to know that you are “each other’s person”!!!!! Congratulations again!!!💖🥰💖

  • @maribethrathburn1543
    @maribethrathburn1543 Рік тому +25

    The best marriages come from the best friendships. Good for both of you :)

  • @KimberlyFairchild58
    @KimberlyFairchild58 Рік тому +12

    Thank you for sharing your story! Love, commitment and companionship take on many different faces over the years. I’ve been married 25 years. We may not be as adventurous, skinny or clever now, but we are so grateful to have each other as age and illness begin to creep up! It’s a blessing to have that person you can rely on and still have fun with !

  • @JasonLuxLover
    @JasonLuxLover Рік тому +5

    Autumn is the salt of the Earth. You can tell from her videos that she is an amazing person, and the relationship they have together is a special one.💚💚💚
    I respect your boundaries and you need to have boundaries. You don’t need everyone knowing all your business but thank you for sharing what you have shared. You’re one of the special ones girl don’t ever change! ❤

  • @theslumkitty
    @theslumkitty Рік тому

    Hey guys! Oregon is my home, born, raised and retired here. I live in Salem, right smack in the middle of the Willamette valley. Come on over, you already know how great it is here. Best wishes!

  • @dawnlovescouture2644
    @dawnlovescouture2644 Рік тому +5

    When you said you were thinking about it, I knew it was inevitable that it would be soon! Yota kept a good secret I’m not revealing the day. I didn’t think she had it in her! You and Paul are always there for each other. That’s the best way to show love. ❤️. Speaking of chocolate and peanut butter, I’ll be sending something your husband’s way very soon!

  • @Debbiesdilemmas
    @Debbiesdilemmas Рік тому +4

    Love is always amazing when it’s new but as years pass and we get older it’s the friendship, the loyalty and compatibility among many others that make life beautiful. It’s having someone that’s always there for you and the companionship. I think Paul is amazing and you are both very special and lucky to have eachother.❤️🙏

  • @DaylesAddiction
    @DaylesAddiction Рік тому +8

    What a fabulous video! You two are so generous to share, I think you will help inspire others to think differently about how they view marriage.

  • @MichelleChou-tl6ip
    @MichelleChou-tl6ip 2 місяці тому

    Both of you come across as very nice folks, and look happy & compatible

  • @janehex
    @janehex Рік тому +4

    So sweet and honest and REAL, I loved this. Marriage is very rarely a fairy tale, if ever. It's a road you walk through life together, as a team, like Dayle said. 💕

  • @YotaStyle
    @YotaStyle Рік тому +5

    Love Paul's new title "The Husband"!!! You definitely have a knack at finding wonderful places to stay and eat! Maybe you could have a second career as a Travel planner!!!! Thank you for answering our questions, contentment is a wonderful feeling along with commitment. So thrilled for you both!

  • @MAGA_Girl
    @MAGA_Girl Рік тому +1

    ❤if you don't your best friend you married the wrong soul ❤️ Im so glad you married your best friend ❤️ i met my husband in 99' and we just celebrated our 23rd year together- 12 years married - You are glowing ❤

  • @JillMaurer
    @JillMaurer Рік тому +4

    Now you don't have to pay him to do videos! You told me before you got married and also told me the day. I looked into flying in and surprising you, but I had company during the holidays. Maybe you told me because you wanted to discuss rings. I was very excited for you both! xoxo

  • @jenniferarmell
    @jenniferarmell Рік тому +2

    It was very nice of you to answer such personal questions even though you didn’t have to. I know I couldn’t be so personal in such a public way. Thank you for your great content, Autumn!

  • @mbf7543
    @mbf7543 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing! That trip to Oregon sounds like it was life changing in many ways. The way Autumn said “I have to be here” when she was in Oregon gives me goose bumps. That’s amazing. The way you’re listening to your intuition is inspiring.

  • @umaberry
    @umaberry Рік тому +1

    My husband leaves so many lights too😂😂😂😂😂. If that's your biggest complaint that's bliss! Congratulations ❤

  • @makeupnmedicine
    @makeupnmedicine Рік тому +2

    Contentment is a great feeling. Congrats you two, on the next phase of life ❤

  • @mikemichelle1671
    @mikemichelle1671 Рік тому +1

    Congratulations on your wedding! I actually was eating at Johnny Carrabbas today and saw you, Paul and your family. I definitely didn’t want to interrupt y’all, and your celebration lunch. I love your videos!

    • @AutumnBeckman
      @AutumnBeckman  Рік тому +1

      Not sure who you saw but we've never been to Carrabbas and I've been at work all day.

    • @mikemichelle1671
      @mikemichelle1671 Рік тому +1

      @@AutumnBeckman Yikes! Well y’all have twins in H Town:)

  • @melodie973
    @melodie973 Рік тому +2

    Sooooo thrilled for you and Paul!!! That was fabulous...hopefully the beginning to many more husband/wife Q&A and just videos together. Wishing you both many many years of love and happiness💚❤💖

  • @alitasparks4104
    @alitasparks4104 Рік тому +3

    I love your story! I was lucky enough to marry my best friend of many years as well and it’s been an amazing journey 😊wish you all the best!

  • @Intuition_malnutrition
    @Intuition_malnutrition Рік тому

    What I notice is how much you just enjoy listening to each other and how respectful you both are to each other. I can tell you laugh a lot.
    I hope you come to Vermont someday... I don't know about wine etc but it's beautiful and always things to do, very artsy, plus of course you stay with us!
    I lost my husband a few years ago, and time is a swindler but I know you'll make the most out of yours!
    Congratulations again! x

  • @AckGirl
    @AckGirl Рік тому +4

    Watching your videos, I could tell things clicked in Oregon! Since then, you two have seemed extra happy and during vlogmas, it was obvious that you two were extra happy and extra together :)💕 Congratulations!!

  • @luvlyleo2836
    @luvlyleo2836 Рік тому +3

    Congratulations again! I believe you guys relationship progress so organically.❤️

  • @sv7544
    @sv7544 Рік тому +1

    Wishing you both years of luxurious health and joy!😊

  • @lisamcgrogan7722
    @lisamcgrogan7722 Рік тому +1

    You two are so cute together,here’s wishing you health,wealth and happiness!!

  • @jaimehanlon2425
    @jaimehanlon2425 Рік тому +1

    Congrats to you both!! What’s the glamping place you stayed at Maine you loved? I’m highly interested in it 😊

  • @jessier.cardona6062
    @jessier.cardona6062 Рік тому +2

    Congratulations to both of you! I knew that day would come. Blessings, health and joy!🍾💕🎊🎉🎈🎈🎈

  • @BeverlyInBloom
    @BeverlyInBloom Рік тому

    I remember Houston, Lighting and Power. I'm so happy for the both of you. ♥

  • @beth5177
    @beth5177 Рік тому

    Autumn, I feel that you are being a bit nicer to Paul now that your his wife, and I love that. Not that you were mean but often I sensed a bit of impatience with Paul from you. I am glad for the growth. Very, very happy for you.

  • @dianejenks9167
    @dianejenks9167 Рік тому +1

    I'm so happy for the both of you, loved your wedding video and was so happy your fur babies were there, so sweet! And your mom, so special!

  • @janmauro282
    @janmauro282 Рік тому

    Hi Autumn!! The two of you together is just wonderful!! From someone who has been married for 39 years, enjoy every minute together, time goes by so fast!! Love to both of you!💕☺️🇨🇦. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @littleblackbabycat
    @littleblackbabycat Рік тому

    Yes... it should be easy. Same with my partner, we met and it's easy. 💜 compatibility, balancing one another, fun and companionship.

  • @suat20151
    @suat20151 Рік тому +4

    Congrats again to you both!I love the responses about how you guys feel after being married - content, cozy and like a team. I'm in the Houston area, so enjoyed some blast from the past references this video to HL&P and Souper Salads! I'll miss seeing your Houston content when you guys move to Oregon, but I love the PNW, so know I'll enjoy your new content too!

    • @tmougo
      @tmougo Рік тому +1

      Native Houstonian as well. I did enjoy those references!

  • @michelesalter9564
    @michelesalter9564 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing your wedding day and for always being willing to answer questions. I think it was perfect and wish more people would stay away from the extravagant production. My son and daughter-in-law had a large wedding, a year after they were married I asked what would you do different. Their response was to have had a private small ceremony. I love and appreciate yours and Paul’s story, very much like my husband and mine.

  • @rosecouwlier6035
    @rosecouwlier6035 Рік тому

    Congrats. It’s great having someone that you know will always have your back

  • @ReneeAltiero
    @ReneeAltiero Рік тому

    Congratulations, I am so happy for you both! 🙌🙌🙌 hope you move to Portland, Oregon and join the PNW community! I live in Camas, WA just over the Columbia River, welcome! You will LOVE IT! 😊

  • @geeky12ful
    @geeky12ful Рік тому +1

    You two are great married; Congratulations!!

  • @sams3015
    @sams3015 Рік тому

    I’ve been on UA-cam less recently, so had no idea you got married. Congratulations 🎉

  • @lindseydean93
    @lindseydean93 Рік тому

    Congratulations Paul and Autumn. I'm happy for you both.

  • @rebeccagarey8778
    @rebeccagarey8778 Рік тому

    I agree with the Cozy Feeling ❤ THAT IS TRUE. Its the mutual SUPPORT ❤

  • @trinkabutler9482
    @trinkabutler9482 Рік тому

    When you are happy that's what matters all the best and can't wait to see the journey your about to take .....

  • @susanm9824
    @susanm9824 Рік тому +1

    That was fun! Congratulations to you both, again. You made the best decision ever!!❤❤

  • @beacuz
    @beacuz Рік тому +1

    Wow such a great story. Autumn you really know how to make things special. 😊

  • @judeallan268
    @judeallan268 Рік тому

    Wishing you love and laughter for the rest of your lives 💕

  • @CO-rf2cx
    @CO-rf2cx Рік тому

    You definitely belong together and have a beautiful story to share! So very happy for both of you!

  • @rentedthriftedreal
    @rentedthriftedreal Рік тому

    Love what Paul said about rom coms. Life just doesn't work that way!

  • @okoriesgirl6391
    @okoriesgirl6391 Рік тому

    Lol, I guess I missed the whole breakup. I've just always felt you both were a great couple choosing to spend there lives together. Still very happy for you both. I can't wait to see what Oregon brings to you as a married couple. I love Paul saying life isn't a Romcom. Truer words have never been spoken. I feel love comes in all shapes sizes and forms. So happy the Maid of honor and Best Man went along for lunch afterwards. It's only right. Hugs to all five of you.

  • @nancygraham8940
    @nancygraham8940 Рік тому +1

    So happy for the two of you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @thegoodnightgracie
    @thegoodnightgracie Рік тому +1

    Wishing you both all of the happiness in the world. You both seem so content. Hope your new adventure is grand ❤

  • @lastofthe70schildren70
    @lastofthe70schildren70 Рік тому

    Congratulations on your marriage Autumn & Paul🎉 🥳 👏🏾🥂 Wishing you many more happy years filled with love and great friendship🙏🏾#WeLove❤

  • @pvaccari
    @pvaccari Рік тому +1

    Congratulations again to you both! This was a great video. I loved hearing about how you met and grew so close. Thank you so much for sharing your story and how everything came together.

  • @19andiaz
    @19andiaz Рік тому

    I agree 100% about your reasoning to getting married. I think a lot of people consider marriage as the big wedding one plans and the extravagance of it. Living together or being together for so long sometimes is enough and like Paul said, people expect marriages and relationships to be butterflies and rainbows when that’s not real life. My boyfriend and I are in the same boat. We plan on getting married only if we have to as well 😄 wishing you both the best💜

  • @gc7031
    @gc7031 Рік тому

    So happy for you and Paul! Congratulations!

  • @stephanievacek7469
    @stephanievacek7469 Рік тому +1

    You two are so cute! Best wishes for a lifetime of love, happiness and fun! 💞

  • @jenniferl.jonesmaom7347
    @jenniferl.jonesmaom7347 Рік тому

    Congratulations, Autumn and Paul.

  • @weareallwonderwomen5327
    @weareallwonderwomen5327 Рік тому +1

    🎉congratulations! Happy for you guys. Love your story

  • @shosh19631
    @shosh19631 Рік тому

    Congratulations to you and Paul! I have watched you for a while now and I’m so happy for you! ❤

  • @NellBelle
    @NellBelle Рік тому

    I am so glad you two are happy. Take care of each other and good luck.

  • @QueenNanaEva
    @QueenNanaEva Рік тому

    I’m sorry I didn’t see the questions area. I don’t have any questions just wanted to say, I’m EXTREMELY HAPPY FOR YOU BOTH!

  • @shamrockgirl6595
    @shamrockgirl6595 Рік тому

    Love ❤️ hearing "my husband"

  • @kaylheecarroll3186
    @kaylheecarroll3186 Рік тому

    Thanks for the q and a video, congrats again and wish you both many years of 😊!

  • @saracatts3346
    @saracatts3346 Рік тому

    You two are so cute xx I’ve been watching you since you only called Paul “the boyfriend “ I don’t think you even had 5k in subscribers and wow you have stayed the sweet girl I started watching xx thank you for the fun and creative videos xx

  • @sonyaeatman1270
    @sonyaeatman1270 Рік тому

    Blessings to you and your husband! Thank you for sharing! I pray for the same for myself!

  • @nnm3935
    @nnm3935 Рік тому

    🥰I LOVE your story❤️ So happy for you both! Thanks for sharing ✨

  • @joannebrown7558
    @joannebrown7558 Рік тому +1

    You are the cutest couple💑

  • @lesliecraven3087
    @lesliecraven3087 Рік тому

    Great ending. I’ve always loved your sense of humor

  • @katherinefarrell8068
    @katherinefarrell8068 Рік тому

    Congratulations once again. You obviously have a deep connection which is very beautiful. I’m so very happy for you both. xx

  • @lyndasmith593
    @lyndasmith593 Рік тому

    Love you guys, couldn't be happier., What a great family you guys and the dogs and of course Vincent

  • @texirie
    @texirie 8 місяців тому

    You popped up on my feed a week or so ago…and I’m looking at Paul-who’ve I’ve met-and you also looked familiar-turns out you and I are friends with one of the nicest people I know-Richard T-who I know through Orange Show and ArtCar(which is this weekend).
    I thought I was just nuts-nope it’s just Houston!

    • @AutumnBeckman
      @AutumnBeckman  8 місяців тому

      Wow! Small world! Any chance you know Rock Romano (Dr. Rockit)?

    • @texirie
      @texirie 8 місяців тому

      Rocky Romano-I know of him from ArtCar/URBAN Animals. 3.5 million people and every one is connected.

  • @fashionismypassiongirl660
    @fashionismypassiongirl660 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤I’m so happy for you, guys! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😁Enjoy your married life now! 🎉

  • @puppytoes6241
    @puppytoes6241 Рік тому

    Thanks for answering my question on how you met.

  • @nmernst
    @nmernst Рік тому

    ❤️. Happy for the both of you 🎉. Best wishes.

  • @Vz9z9
    @Vz9z9 Рік тому

    Awww soulmates! Congrats again!❤️❤️

  • @marypliska4070
    @marypliska4070 Рік тому

    Great seeing the two of you so happy❣️

  • @jannb8100
    @jannb8100 Рік тому

    I love You and Paul Together❤

  • @mnicolechic
    @mnicolechic Рік тому

    Wishing you all the best. Love Paul's shirt.

  • @Mary_c_03
    @Mary_c_03 Рік тому

    Loved it, and the ending 😂 I was about to grab my pen and paper. Maybe do a post wedding registry, like at target with different price ranges.

  • @michellealdrich
    @michellealdrich Рік тому

    I love everything about this 🥰 TFS 💫

  • @tmougo
    @tmougo Рік тому +1

    Congratulations! You two are so cute! You have a marriage based on storge love (love based on friendship). I teach marriage and family and I’m going to use you guys as an example!

  • @blessingsonthecoast
    @blessingsonthecoast Рік тому

    Can't wait! And, congratulations!! 🎉💕

  • @atlantalee83
    @atlantalee83 Рік тому

    Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @mollystoneashe
    @mollystoneashe Рік тому

    Congratulations, Autumn and Paul! I was so happy to hear your news. I am a longtime subscriber although it may not look like it. I got married in the summer and got a new last name, and therefore, new email and UA-cam account. Count yourself lucky that you can avoid that hassle! Congrats again and thank you for sharing about your wedding.

  • @sharoncole8249
    @sharoncole8249 Рік тому

    Congratulations to you both wishing you both good health love and happiness 💖😊💖

  • @jenniferkennedy9503
    @jenniferkennedy9503 Рік тому

    So many congratulations again!!

  • @azbabe
    @azbabe Рік тому

    Congratulations! Much love ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @heatherholliehaller
    @heatherholliehaller Рік тому

    So happy for you guys

  • @MsVmcl
    @MsVmcl Рік тому

    Such a lovely story🥂💕

  • @mtkaren
    @mtkaren Рік тому

    I’m so very happy for you both. 🥰

  • @cmua9798
    @cmua9798 Рік тому

    why are you moving to Oregon

  • @abeamzn1898
    @abeamzn1898 Рік тому

    Wishing you all the best!

  • @LolaJay_
    @LolaJay_ Рік тому

    YAY!! 🤵🏻‍♂️👰‍♂

  • @amywikman9224
    @amywikman9224 Рік тому

    Congratulations!

  • @balewick3
    @balewick3 Рік тому

    Darn it! I jumped up to grab a pen. Lol. You got me with the address. I guess I’ll just have to say it again. Congratulations!!🎈🍾🎊🎉

  • @RPBSpeaks
    @RPBSpeaks Рік тому

    Congratulations 🎉❤

  • @rhondafrazier8205
    @rhondafrazier8205 Рік тому

    All the best to you both! I think you are such a wonderful couple! ❤️🍷

  • @angelaadams3320
    @angelaadams3320 Рік тому

    Congratulations

  • @samsungtv7924
    @samsungtv7924 Рік тому

    Omg you guys are sooo cute!

  • @Bulldogandtea
    @Bulldogandtea Рік тому

    You two are lovely together xx

  • @ml6820
    @ml6820 Рік тому

    I love y’all so much. Congrats again!!! 🎉