WE GOT MARRIED!!! Our Unconventional Wedding Under $500 & In Under 2 Weeks || Autumn Beckman

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    WE GOT MARRIED!!! Our Unconventional Wedding Under $500 & In Under 2 Weeks || Autumn Beckman
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  • @AutumnBeckman
    @AutumnBeckman  2 роки тому +44

    We're overwhelmed with all you're comments! Thank you all so much for all the kind words and support and for sharing your own stories with us. We will be filming a Q&A this weekend so if you have questions please leave them on my Instagram Q&A post. If you don't follow me there, I'm @autumnbeckman

    • @Spikeswift
      @Spikeswift 2 роки тому

      You just need to do lasting power of attorney and no marriage required but congratulations on the wedding x

  • @annettestafford872
    @annettestafford872 2 роки тому +3

    Congratulations, my daughter got married after 16 years and four boys for the same reason. Her now husband's sister mentioned to him that his mother would be his next of kin and would make any decisions. After not wanting to get married he said that he would because he didn't want his mother involved.

  • @karenellis1031
    @karenellis1031 2 роки тому +69

    Congratulations 🥳. I think people forget that the wedding is just one day but marriage is for your lifetime. It’s not a competition for who can spend the most money in 24 hours. Your wedding was about the two of you which is how it should be.

  • @silviadiaz1248
    @silviadiaz1248 2 роки тому +50

    Some people say “marriage is just a paper” but it’s much more than that: i always say, it makes the individuals legally responsible for one another. So whoever you marry has a huge responsibility and you literally put your life in their hands.

  • @OSheaPunk
    @OSheaPunk 2 роки тому +2

    I laughed out loud when you cut to the dogs. So cute. Congratulations!!!

  • @mrskaa7584
    @mrskaa7584 2 роки тому +2

    Yep, being married makes a lot of stuff easier, like medical and financial. Smart move.

  • @karenyates6797
    @karenyates6797 2 роки тому +3

    Congrats to you and Paul, Autumn!!! For some reason, I'm not at all surprised you got married AND....you did it on a budget!!! You've seemed happier the last few months, especially with making plans to move to Portland, so why not take that step (right to your living room!) and tie the knot!
    Paul looked dapper and you looked radiant and gorgeous in that dress!
    Many more years together...make it so!

  • @darlab.702
    @darlab.702 2 роки тому +2

    Congratulations. I understand completely about health concerns. I'm 67 and my husband is 69. You don't think about this until something happens. In our case cancer. Thank God he survived but what a way to wake up to the fact that we got old.

  • @lindzexposure530
    @lindzexposure530 2 роки тому +1

    Hey, filing taxes together is a perk for sure too! Getting married is smart. It will allow for either of you to access life insurance money easier also. I think you guys were very wise. And plus! You have a hubby now 😍 lol. You and Paul were made for each other, this is perfect.

  • @YotaStyle
    @YotaStyle 2 роки тому +1

    OMGGGGGG THE BRIDAL PARTY!!!! THE BEST AND MINISTER MARY TOO!!!! I AM DYING AT THOSE PICS OF THE BRIDAL PARTY!!!!!

  • @debbieyeager3849
    @debbieyeager3849 2 роки тому +2

    Congratulations! Your wedding was "You & Paul". That is wonderful.

  • @queengalNY
    @queengalNY 2 роки тому +1

    Paul became from The Boyfriend to The Husband!
    I am so happy for you guys.
    Congratulations!!! 👰🤵

  • @OceanluvOC
    @OceanluvOC 2 роки тому +1

    I knew he was always the boyfriend when there was a time when you said he wasn’t anymore. You have been with him for such a long time so this was a good decision! 👍🏼
    Now you’ll have to get used to calling him your husband! 😊♥️👰‍♀️Congratulations 🎉 enjoy 🥂🍾

  • @harvest_dragon6115
    @harvest_dragon6115 2 роки тому

    Congrats! A 2nd marriage for both. Both had big weddings before. He is 10 years younger too! He asked on Thanksgiving and we married on December 21st, just recently celebrated our 10th anniversary! My dad always said "keep it simple" this time I could hear him saying it so I listened. We married on a hayfield that was on a mountain top he hayed. I was dressed in my best jeans and a pretty oversized white sweater and muck boots, him in his furry trapper hat and his farm overalls lol. There was a big bonfire to counter the weather that turned windy & rainy washing away the sunshine & snow cover of the day before, it didn't ruin anything... his mom made our 2 tier cake from a recipie that was my grandmother's. Had everyone back to our house that was all decked out in an ice blue Christmas theme, we had (9 adults, 5 kids) where his grandmother and my mom were waiting. My daughter was 8 months pregnant with our 1st grandchild who is almost 10 now and I always tease him that he was at our wedding lol. Local JP, his aunt was town clerk she paid for that area. Cost was under $150 and most was food so I did not have to cook. No stress and we are still very happily married now with 4 grandkids and their parents all under one roof! Best wishes to you both!

  • @TracyJoy
    @TracyJoy 2 роки тому +2

    My significant other is 20 years older than me. This year will be 10 years together and lived together for 6 years. Both went into the relationship not wanting kids or marriage. As we get older together… both still agree no kids but I do worry about medical issues coming up and I would not be able to be there in person to support or make decisions I know they would want. Our families are in good spirits with our relationship but you never know. Families attitude can change in an instant (I have seen it happen). He tries to assure me that won’t be the case. * My mind goes to… you don’t know what family thinks about us behind closed doors* Makes me nervous. Thank you for sharing! ❤❤❤

  • @jbbb7418
    @jbbb7418 2 роки тому +22

    The similarities between us as couples and our wedding is uncanny! We have been living together for 11 years, we got married December 23rd, 2022 because Christmas is us. Our souvenirs are always a Christmas ornaments from wherever we travel, Christmas movies were watched everyday during the insanity of 202-2021. We did go to New Hampshire to one of our favorite getaway places, we live in Massachusetts. We were married in front of the fireplace where we were staying. Our best friend married us, we had a 30 minute ceremony. There were seven of us including our officiant (best friend), my daughter, granddaughter, his son and wife, and we had dinner together in the dining room. We had five small four inch tall cakes in different flavors based on everyone’s favorite flavor. It was absolutely perfectly special. They sat us at a round table, and the conversations every night were so special. Everyone stayed over for at least two nights, we stayed for six. I wouldn’t change a thing. Congratulations Autumn and Paul, from your wedding twins 😂

  • @LolaJay_
    @LolaJay_ Рік тому +1

    CONGRATULATIONS!! 👰‍♂🤵🏻‍♂️

  • @KindnessMatters_
    @KindnessMatters_ 2 роки тому +26

    I am so HAPPY for both of you! This is the sweetest wedding, from your mom marrying you to Roxy and Baron serving as Maid of Honor and Best Man to romantically choosing the first of the year to maintain your longstanding anniversary! Goodness! Sweetness and cuteness overflowing! Autumn and Paul, you both have such great chemistry on air, I can only imagine how much more so in-person! You both look so happy! Literally, friends in love! Autumn, beautiful dresses, beautiful shoes, beautiful rings; stunning! Paul looks so handsome! Your mom is just lovely as the mother-of-the-bride, and officiant! I love Roxy and Baron's outfits; adorable! Now, I think we need an updated vlog, "Not my husband, wait, he is my husband!" --any topic 😊All the BEST to you and Paul, and the entire family, ALWAYS! 💖🍷🍷

  • @melindagoodin164
    @melindagoodin164 2 роки тому +2

    Congratulations!! You have the right idea! The legal process is very important!

  • @Mary_c_03
    @Mary_c_03 2 роки тому +21

    Autumn, (and Paul) I got teary eyed. I've been watching your videos for years now and feel like we're friends, I couldn't be more happy for you guys. We love Paul. And the bridal party, gorgeous maid of honor, and handsome groomsman. Congratulations to the happy couple. 🥂

  • @YotaStyle
    @YotaStyle 2 роки тому +12

    CONGRATULATIONS!!! I am so THRILLED AND HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS! It has always been obvious you "are each other's person"!!!

  • @ut1987
    @ut1987 2 роки тому +1

    Well congratulations !!! I am a bit confused though. I saw older videos of yours where you referred to Paul as "the boyfriend" and then later on said "btw he isn't the boyfriend any longer," or something to that effect. I see you both are clearly still living together and care about one another, so figured I guess they are good friends. I didn't want to pry and ask anything...then today WOW married! So what was that no longer the boyfriend comment about? So happy for you both but would love to know if you feel comfortable sharing.

  • @shamrockgirl6595
    @shamrockgirl6595 2 роки тому

    Got married 💑 New Years Eve & was blown away when Uncle Sam came calling. 😳 We never guessed how financially 💸 💰 detrimental that decision would be!!
    Good time 2 marry New Year’s Day!!

  • @bbhdd6181
    @bbhdd6181 2 роки тому +21

    Woah, this was the LAST thing I was expecting to see! I’m happy for you ❤ Your wedding (even down to the cakes) seems so quintessentially ‘you’ and I love that! It’s unique and a story to tell forever. Congratulations 🎉

  • @kathydobson2720
    @kathydobson2720 2 роки тому +13

    Oh, damn, Autumn! We're complete strangers, yet as one of your biggest (longtime) fans, I was a bit teary-eyed and grinning from ear to ear while watching this video. I'm so happy for both of you. Congratulations xoxo

  • @ndoucette9676
    @ndoucette9676 2 роки тому +1

    Congratulations!
    I didn’t even know you were not married. What a surprise

  • @jmh-hu5tg
    @jmh-hu5tg 2 роки тому

    I love how Baron already had a tuxedo in his wardrobe ❤

  • @g.pp.712
    @g.pp.712 2 роки тому +1

    Congratulations 🎉🍾 my younger brother and now his wife lived together for 20 years but one of his best friend suddenly died and his lived in girlfriend was not able to make any decisions that is when they realized like you they needed it to make it legal, they had a beautiful small intimate wedding and could not be happier.. once again Congratulations!!

  • @BloodLaboratorySafety
    @BloodLaboratorySafety Рік тому +1

    Congratulations 🎉🍾

  • @LifeAccordingtoMaria
    @LifeAccordingtoMaria 2 роки тому

    We had a super small wedding as well and we sped things up cause my Mother in law sold the townhouse that she and my fiancé were living in, so he had to move out anyway!
    Also wanted to say that yes with all the HIPA laws and healthcare disclosures, it is only getting tougher for non-spouse couples to have a say in each others care should one partner be incapacitated. There are definitely situations where a person is too ill to make medical decisions and since you are not a legal guardian or spouse, they turn to that person‘s immediate family. And therefore there could be a sister or brother or uncle or parent of theirs, making serious medical decisions on their behalf, because you have no legal say in the matter. You sure don’t want to be facing that. Congrats by the way!! The doggies were adorable. 🎉

  • @delle3955
    @delle3955 Рік тому +1

    Congratulations 🎉

  • @deedeeblanscet4433
    @deedeeblanscet4433 Рік тому +2

    Is it too personal to ask the age difference between you two? I’m just asking because I’m 57 and my husband is 74 and we just celebrated our 30 year wedding anniversary last Sunday and the dynamic between us is very similar to what you guys share. Congratulations, by the way!

  • @kathiegoldsmith1457
    @kathiegoldsmith1457 2 роки тому

    Congratulations! A while back, you mentioned that you and "the boyfriend" broke up. In short order, he started appearing on your channel with (gasp!) a name! For a hot second, I thought you were just great exes, but eventually caught on that you were clearly back together. Now this? What fun! Congratulations to you both.

  • @marysuze
    @marysuze 2 роки тому

    47 years ago, my husband and I got married within two weeks too and the cost was a total of $100. That’s including rings and me wearing a dress I already have and still have. We’re still happy with it!

    • @marysuze
      @marysuze 2 роки тому

      Our two dogs, a boy and a girl also attended. They sported red bows. I kept my name, which really wasn’t done at the time. We got married outside on a rainy May PNW day. Luckily, it did not rain during our actual “ceremony.” I really did want people to know we were each other’s person too. OUr “honeymoon” was moving to WV for one year, a temporary aberration from Oregon life.

  • @kara5617
    @kara5617 2 роки тому

    My story is similar. We decided to get married after changing jobs and had a gap in health insurance. We’d been together for 9yrs and decided we didn’t want a new anniversary date. We eloped in Maui on our 10th anniversary.
    And, we just moved to the PNW from the Midwest. Good luck with the move!

  • @phildog30
    @phildog30 2 роки тому +1

    Congrats!!! Me and the hubby got married in 3 weeks and cost us $300. Just the clothes. We got married at white rock lake in Dallas and my brother in law and sister in law had our reception at their house. I don’t regret it.

  • @8Agnew
    @8Agnew 2 роки тому

    Congratulations! My hubby and I planned a big wedding in August 1991 but the Gulf War came, and we married with a week’s planning on January 19, 1991. A simple but lovely ceremony with a few guests. We still wanted the big wedding, and had already put so much work into it including my dress. Fortunately, we were able to have the big wedding on August 3, 1991. Many, many more happy years to you both. It looked like an amazing and fun celebration. I loved those cupcakes. What an awesome idea. 🎉🎊🤛🏻

  • @judyvancleef6986
    @judyvancleef6986 2 роки тому

    Congratulations! I think you got married for one of the most important reasons. You want the person you love to be there if anything happens. Great video!

  • @sylviadunphy1914
    @sylviadunphy1914 2 роки тому

    Such Wondereful News!!! We did the same thing...almost!! We are both in our early 60's, been living together for 12 years. Marriage was never the most important thing to us. We are so happy together, we just didn't see the need all those years. But, one night in late July, he turned over to me in bed and said, 'Wanna get married' and I said 'ok'. Hahah. That was it. Plans were made and we were married about 5 weeks later. I do wish I saw your video first, I could have saved a LOT of money on my wedding. lol Congratulations to you both!

  • @leeleelv
    @leeleelv 2 роки тому

    Congrats to you and Paul ! My husband and I also did not want a big lavish wedding either . We got married at city hall , we only had family and 2 close friends who attended and afterward we all went for brunch to Juniors Restaurant . Which is so funny actually , I don’t know if you have ever followed or watched Sex and the City but in the first sex and the city movie , Carrie and Big do the same exact thing after getting married at city hall , I read that they really did film that wedding brunch scene in the real actual Juniors Restaurant . Just like you , I was never the type of girl who dreamed of having an expensive , over the top lavish wedding . The money my brother and his wife spent on their wedding (just shy of $100,000) is absolutely insane to me . They are currently looking to buy a house now and to me that $100,000 would have been a nice added chunk of a down payment towards their new home . My husband and I were very fortunate to have inherited my Grandmas house ,mortgage free ! We obviously are responsible for the upkeep such as the taxes ,utilities ,etc… However because we have no big mortgage payment to worry about ,we decided to spend a little more on my custom engagement ring and I was able to get the larger diamond I’ve always dreamed of . We also spent a little more on our actual wedding bands too . I have a larger diamond eternity wedding band and smaller diamond eternity wedding band too . Hubby also has a 2 row beautiful men’s diamond wedding band that he absolutely loves. So you are so right ,not everyone chooses to spend a fortune on the actual wedding . All of the things that come after the 4-6 hour expensive lavish wedding is what is truly important . Vowing to be there for each other in sickness and in health , through good times and bad times , that is worth more than any amount of money you could spend on a wedding ❤. You did an amazing job with planning everything ,but I can’t say I’m surprised Autumn , as long as I’ve known you and have watched your channel , you have always been pretty darn awesome at pulling things together ! Again congrats to you both , I truly wish you both a lifetime of health happiness ! 🤵👰‍♀️💒💍💍🎉🍾🎊🥂🥂👏👏

  • @Alex-nx8mp
    @Alex-nx8mp 2 роки тому +1

    So sorry about your family member who had a stroke 🙏🏼

  • @littleblackbabycat
    @littleblackbabycat 2 роки тому +1

    Now we need to hear the whole story of how you met etc🤗

  • @trinkabutler9482
    @trinkabutler9482 2 роки тому +1

    First and most importantly prayers for your family medical issues and then congratulations on your wedding wishing you many healthy happy years together

  • @soniapb7456
    @soniapb7456 2 роки тому +5

    Congratulations, Autumn and Paul!! This brought tears to my eyes!

  • @kathymercer9630
    @kathymercer9630 Місяць тому

    Awesome!
    I enjoyed this video. I think your actual wedding dress looked amazing on you. The belt just made it. Your mom was great and fun to watch too. There is a certain thrill in pulling off something so efficiently!
    I am sure this video will inspire others.

  • @paperologist
    @paperologist 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing your big news. My husband and I had a similar style small living room wedding in November 2020. Our friend the officiant was ordained online too. We pushed up the date to facilitate buying the home we had shared for 17 years … as renters. So, $5 to $10k plus or wedding at home. I did my own flowers via Trader Joe’s, put family photos on shelves behind us, my mother in law’s engagement ring + Amazon rings, and as we had been planning to be married (similar reasons after many years together) I had a dress from Torrid and several other white dresses in closet that were on sale as options but went for tea length dress as home ceremony. Blue kitten heels from thrift store. Our dog wore a black bow tie as he was always clad in a tux … black with white chest… this was COVID era so no going out. Only regret no family from Midwest or long distance friends or family but videotaped ceremony on iPhone. Nor did we do a zoom wedding, discussed but we needed to pull the trigger in a short time. We may have an anniversary party at some point but not sure it’s worth the money. We are committed and happier to spend the money we had been saving on our house. We are similar in ages to you and in Southern California having the opportunity to own a home is so much more gratifying then a big one day party and all the likely stress I’d endure coordinating a wedding. Congratulations! ❤🧁🥂🍾

  • @MarkE_1991
    @MarkE_1991 2 роки тому +8

    I smiled the whole way through this video. Massive congratulations to you and Paul, Autumn. So lovely to hear you got married and had a wedding on your own terms. 💐

  • @catchheronthefly4532
    @catchheronthefly4532 2 роки тому +7

    Congratulations Autumn and hubby! I wouldn’t change a thing about how you’ve lived your lives for the past 11 years, it’s a formula that works. The pups were adorable! We had a super cheap wedding, less than 500$ too, and we’ve been together 31 years, no regrets!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @risasutton2413
    @risasutton2413 2 роки тому +1

    Yea! Great! Marriage is committing to “your person”. As someone who was married 44 years I can tell you marrage is about committing, love and trust. So proud of you and happy for you. My person, husband recently died suddenly in my arms. I am heartbroken. I hope y’all have many many years together.

  • @hoopgal3216
    @hoopgal3216 2 роки тому +1

    Awww Congrats Autumn! I married my husband a month before he was set to go on a combat deployment for basically the same reasons as you & your husband. We never had a “real” wedding, just married on paper. You guys did it right, you had an official ceremony. Loved that you had your two weenies involved. We have dachshunds too :) Congrats, so happy for both of you 😊❤

  • @gabrielacarolina_
    @gabrielacarolina_ 2 роки тому

    The reasons you cited are why we got married. My husband doesn't get on with his mother and the thought that she would be the next of kin over me terrified him. Additionally were thoughts of inheritance and beneficiary. Whether we like it or not, the system is set up for married folks so you gotta play the game

  • @evefortier8850
    @evefortier8850 2 роки тому

    Congratulations Autumn & Paul! We did the exact same thing in November 2021 after being together for 19 years & sort of for the same reason. I don’t regret anything. The only cloud that darkened my day was my Narcissistic Mother’s disappointment of the way I chose to get married. Nonetheless the most important person, my son, was present & my husband’s best friend stood as our witnesses. Bottom line is my husband & I are happily married and nothing really changed. 😊 Congratulations again & thank you for sharing your wedding journey.

  • @danielintheantipodes6741
    @danielintheantipodes6741 2 роки тому +1

    OHhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS Autumn and Paul! I am giddy with excitement! How amazing and it is lovely that you did not spend so much money on the wedding. If I ever marry (unlikely!) my wedding will be very much like yours! Just the sort of ceremony I would like for myself! You could not have found a better Best Man and Bridesmaid. They looked stunning also! Thank you for the video! Have an amazing day, an amazing week, and amazing year and a TOTALLY AMAZING Rest of Your Life! Lots of love! (Will Yota ever recover from the shock though?!)

  • @shasha8173
    @shasha8173 2 роки тому

    Congratulations! I married a guy that I knew for 6 months. We spent less than $100. 00 and this spring it will be 31 years. Love doesn't cost a thing . Wishing you two a lifetime of JOY!!❤❤❤❤)

  • @Broompilot-qr9bt
    @Broompilot-qr9bt 2 роки тому +1

    CONGRATULATIONS!!! So happy for you..... You looked beautiful, great dress, the belt added some nice pizazz...Long love & long life to you both

  • @dee_ewell_pierce
    @dee_ewell_pierce Рік тому

    My husband of 39 years and I were married five months after our first date. We planned everything in less than 8 weeks, church ceremony with 125 guests. We did all the food ourselves, minus the cake. A ton of friends pitched in.

  • @CoachCraze
    @CoachCraze 2 роки тому

    Gracious. This low key, ELEGANT wedding is the stuff of dreams. Seriously. People over do weddings so much, and it's so refreshing to see a lovely couple do it "big" and beautiful without going into debt.
    CONGRATULATIONS to the gorgeous bride and handsome groom! Many blessings upon you both.

  • @linzieredden253
    @linzieredden253 Рік тому

    Congratulations! Your mom is so sweet to do that for you, she looks like a very classy lady. You and the hubs looked very sharp! ❤❤🎉🎉😊😊

  • @colleenfellows9081
    @colleenfellows9081 2 роки тому

    Autumn and Paul ,
    My daughter and I just saw the posting of your wedding and of course we were surprised as we have been watching you for a long time. I told Trisha I thought the reason you made this decision was exactly what you said.
    I have been concern that you both needed to be known as a couple so you would be able to make decisions for each other as needed. We are so happy for you and wish you nothing but happiness. CONGRATULATIONS !
    Colleen and Patricia

  • @sandrac.3220
    @sandrac.3220 2 роки тому

    I loved your very creative wedding! The thing I loved the most was your Best man and your Maid of honor!

  • @annarose4828
    @annarose4828 2 роки тому +1

    Autumn and Paul so happy for you both and the babies. You both look so happy and in love. You both looked beautiful and so did the children. Best wishes.

  • @dylanm1325
    @dylanm1325 2 роки тому

    Congratulations Autumn! You've gotten married, I'm going on my very first date on Friday!!

  • @sams3015
    @sams3015 2 роки тому

    I just your other video, congratulations. I laughed at the “they were virtual guests, so didn’t have the feed them”…might be an idea for many weddings especially if there is a cranky auntie or two

  • @me2ban
    @me2ban 2 роки тому

    Congratulations to you Autumn & Paul. I just want to say how funny you are. I burst out laughing when you said you didn't have to feed your sister and family. Receptions are very expensive!

  • @dawngensler820
    @dawngensler820 2 роки тому

    Congratulations 🎉 to you both. I have watched you for years and I love that you and “the boyfriend” Paul are now married 💕

  • @BagHound
    @BagHound 2 роки тому +4

    My husband and I are out celebrating our 21st anniversary. we both have grown families and started our lives together 21 years ago and have never been happier. We are having lunch and I just got message from UA-cam that one of my favorite channels has exciting news! Big Congratulations to you both!! I am so happy for you. I am a longtime subscriber but I seldom comment even though I watch all your videos. I am truly happy and excited for you and wish you a lifetime of love

  • @donnapadden8895
    @donnapadden8895 2 роки тому

    Congratulations! Many happy years ahead for both of you! We just celebrated 34 years married in November 2022.

  • @mbf7543
    @mbf7543 2 роки тому +2

    Well that was unexpected! Congratulations! Such smart reasoning. I had been wondering if you two were back together again. I remember you mentioning a year or two ago that Paul was no longer “the boyfriend”, I’m so happy that you two are a happy couple 💗

  • @Not_again
    @Not_again Рік тому

    This is just so romantic to me. I thought your previous coupledom was progressive and great, so I didn't expect this, but it's so awesome! Congrats! Nice dress too!

  • @angelapurt8129
    @angelapurt8129 2 роки тому

    Congrats what a surprise but completely agree in the reasoning!!! My husband and I could also not give 2 sh*ts about a big wedding. We were married in his parents backyard (who live on Lake Ontario so beautiful) with just his siblings and our parents. And a retired priest who my parents are friends with and agreed to come and marry us. We did throw a party a few months later in his parents backyard again which did cost us a bit but we made that all back easily in wedding gifts. No wedding debt and got the job done with little to no stress.

  • @kellysnyder5482
    @kellysnyder5482 2 роки тому

    Congrats!! Here’s to a long and happy marriage together !!

  • @henna696
    @henna696 Місяць тому

    Love to Paul and You! Have a wonderful life caring for each other XXX

  • @rebeccagarey8778
    @rebeccagarey8778 2 роки тому +1

    I especially love the wedding party❤❤

  • @rebeccagarey8778
    @rebeccagarey8778 2 роки тому +1

    Great choice on the sparkling belt and shoes❤❤

  • @lindseybandy2456
    @lindseybandy2456 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing these details! I have been married 3 times, all 3 have been super budget friendly. My dress for my first wedding was borrowed from a friend who had gotten married a couple of months before. The second and third wedding dresses were thrift store finds. I love hearing about other thrifty brides!

  • @ella_encantada
    @ella_encantada 2 роки тому

    The houseboy has been promoted! Congratulations ❤

  • @janehex
    @janehex 2 роки тому

    This was so fun! Really smart to get this taken care of, sometimes you just have to work with the system -- which obviously favors married people, and why it's so important that ALL consenting adults should be able to get married! Looks like you two had a lot of fun with it! A $500 or a $50,000 wedding both end up with the same basic result -- so I never understood the desire to spend what could go toward a house or an amazing trip on what is really just a fancy party.

  • @Gravy314
    @Gravy314 4 місяці тому

    I love every part of this - belated congratulations to you and Paul!

  • @rubytimbers397
    @rubytimbers397 2 роки тому +1

    Congratulations 🍷🎉
    Simple wedding are wonderful👍🏽🙏🏽

  • @katiemansfield973
    @katiemansfield973 2 роки тому

    You just proved that weddings do not have to be expensive. I’ve watched since your channel was brand new. This is a fun surprise. Congratulations!🍾

  • @lynetterose9549
    @lynetterose9549 2 роки тому +1

    Congratulations! So excited for you both. A friend of our recently passed and her long time boyfriend is having legal problems with their home, her 401k , etc. ( she had no will) I think you made a wise decision so you can be there for each other when it's truly of the utmost importance!

  • @NoraHelmer023
    @NoraHelmer023 2 роки тому +8

    Congratulations, Autumn! What a nice way to show that you can still have a meaningful ceremony without spending tens of thousands of dollars, which you can put towards your goals that really matter to you (like moving to Oregon). I will probably never get married, but if I were to, your ceremony/ honeymoon is exactly what I would want to do. Your bridal party was super-cute, too!

  • @terireid651
    @terireid651 2 роки тому

    Congratulations on your wedding. I love that we are not cookie cutter people. I loved what you did. God bless.

  • @Oceangirl1234
    @Oceangirl1234 2 роки тому

    I am so happy that you two are together. Sweet couple. And you two were doing this for all the right reasons and are perfect together. Congratulations

  • @KindnessMatters_
    @KindnessMatters_ 2 роки тому +1

    Autumn, I would love if you shared what you've learned about how to prepare for times when you cannot medically speak for yourself, and the paperwork. I think this is so important, and has been on mind lately as well. I am so sorry to hear about your loved one who suffered a stroke, and the challenges his wife is facing. In addition to the beauty of your relationship with Paul, I think it was a super smart decision for both of you to marry for all the reasons you described. Life is often unpredictable and fleeting, but thankfully, life is mostly beautiful. Cherish every moment!

  • @nancycausey9513
    @nancycausey9513 2 роки тому +1

    Congratulations!! Wow, I'm so happy for y'all! May your future be filled with happiness and adventure!
    I saw the title and thought clickbait, no Autumn wouldn't do that 😉 Oh I must click immediately 😂🎉🎉🎉 What a delightful surprise 🥂

  • @kimbruesewitz4840
    @kimbruesewitz4840 2 роки тому

    Congratulations, loved this wedding, my husband and I had something similar and that was 35yrs. ago. Here is to love and happiness.....

  • @nicole_a_11
    @nicole_a_11 2 роки тому

    I love the way you went about doing your fast and inexpensive wedding! Everything seemed so sweet and it seemed more about you as a couple than the hoopla of a big flashy event. I've been with my partner for 17 years and I think if he and I ever decided to get married (I agree with your reasons and we are both in our 40s) then I think we would do something very similar. Thank you for sharing your special day and all the great tips with us! Huge congrats to you and Paul!

  • @angelagordillo1806
    @angelagordillo1806 2 роки тому

    Congratulations! I must say I thought this was a joke but so happy to see that it wasn’t!! Cheers to you both!

  • @PASwiftUTube
    @PASwiftUTube 2 роки тому

    Congratulations. Your wedding was lovely. You were a beautiful bride. Well done Reverend Mom!

  • @angelaphillips4183
    @angelaphillips4183 2 роки тому

    I think more couples are doing these type of weddings. Great tips.

  • @Cherslife
    @Cherslife 2 роки тому

    Hands down the maid and honor and best man were the cutest... Congratulations.

  • @kellyhinkle6989
    @kellyhinkle6989 Рік тому

    Just now watched this! Congratulations a little late! Beautiful wedding and beautiful bride and groom! 😊

  • @lindab8853
    @lindab8853 2 роки тому

    What a surprise! Congratulations!!!
    You saved a lot of money, which you will be able to put towards your move to Oregon.

  • @dianemessina2964
    @dianemessina2964 2 роки тому +2

    The best part of this wedding was the pups in attendance in all of there regalia. You were clever pulling this off so quickly and you looked stunning.This was a good decision. I am so happy for you.

  • @jandlesmith
    @jandlesmith 2 роки тому

    Congrats to both of you. You look so pretty, love the dress. People spend lots of money for what, for show? It's about love and being together as one for life. Yes It is nice to have a big wedding. Just what is most important to the couple. My daughter went to Cuba and got married. No troubles or stress on picking a date, location, food ect. So much less stress. Wish you both all the best, love the pup outfits. Thanks for sharing your beautiful day.❤❤🍷🍷💐💐

  • @kaydee2071
    @kaydee2071 2 роки тому +1

    Congratulations, Paul and Autumn! As a devoted watcher, I am so excited for you. I wish you years of good health and happiness. Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @corinnenyer1584
    @corinnenyer1584 2 роки тому

    Awwww how cute are the two of you?! You looked absolutely beautiful. Congratulations!

  • @camiscloset2369
    @camiscloset2369 2 роки тому +1

    Congratulations! 💕 Yes, that issue happened to my Uncles through their relationship. They were together 2 weeks short of their 50th anniversary. They chose not to marry. My biological uncle died back in August. It’s too much to write but through the years it did cause issues medically. So again, congratulations and it was a very smart decision. 💐 No Cartier ring? 😊 Awe, your bridal party 🥰

  • @profkc100
    @profkc100 2 роки тому

    Nooooo way!!!! Didn’t watch yet. Watching now. So excited for you - usually a silent watcher ;)