This conversation got deep very quick. You guys are addressing some serious issues that have really impacted our generation negatively. I hope everyone watching this is awakened to the importance of community and being intentional about doing away with isolation. It is imperative to our wellbeing and the wellbeing of those around to value and be intentional about connecting with people.
I proposed a new thing to my best friend coz we stay in two different provinces now and a week can easily pass by without talking… we chose a day in each week where we make a video call and catch up with each other and how our week was and what we wanna talk about generally. It keeps us closer still and informed about each other and has improved our communication as well. ❤
5:15 "You better lose yourself in the music, the moment, you own it, you better never let it go!"🔥 To think I once used that song as the beginning of an oral because I didn't prepare, ndaphuma no A 😂
I don’t like phone calls because 2 years ago I received a call from an unsaved number and it was to let me know that my dad had died,a week before that call I was very jumpy when I receives phone calls because I thought it was that call (he was in the hospital) so la call yafika ngoku sendcingba hay marn uright ngoku. It’s just ienzayethi encinci when the phone rings but once ndingene kwi call and it’s not bad news kubamnandi,it’s not knowing what the phone call is about that makes me a little anxious otherwise I don’t think it’s talking over the phone ingxaki😅
Came here after watching a sermon about faith. This felt like a more practical continuation. “God does not move up until you move”.. Thank you for that 🙏🏽
When Talitha said “sayi Englishyer” I remembered a video yomntu owayebuzwa what’s different about staying in SA and where she is. She was in Europe. Her answer was that in Southa people greet unlike there where everyone just lives in their own world. Xa ubulisa umntu omdlula endleleni pha uba ngulowo uweird. So maybe we’re buying too much into European norms singazazi nozazi. Sikopa into ewrongo. Ne Technology ke yenza eyayo
This episode really made me reflect and think back to my childhood days. Things have changed since then and I've changed as well. Technology really does isolate us from each other and we lose many bonds because of it.
This is part of the reason why I love going back to elalini a few times a year without fail. There's something about the simplicity of life there that centers us and brings us back to the most important things - family etc. Thanks for this much needed and candid conversation
I get you mna Thalits! I hate phone calls! and nam i am very very inquisitive about humans and particularly the human brain and how it operates. So i've studied myself in order to understand ukuba "Yintoni le ugngayfuni kangaka iphonini!?", and i found the answer! Nina niyasifownela and we talk about whatever was on your chest, then kuthi cwaka! phinde kwa wena ubuza mna, "Yinton, what's wrong? why uthule nje?", hayboooo!! kanti nguban ofownele bani!? 🤣🤣, andinazindaba mna! that's i didn't call you! ngoku kwamna mandicinge "heeee ugqibele nini uthetha no Anele? heeee akasenqabe??" , ndingu news 24 moss ngoku ngenkani!. And this doesn't happen xa si text.a, we go straight to the point sigqithise umyalezo easy kanjani! Sizawncokola ngee Braai man guyzini, si huganeni kubemnandi! Okay love y'all byyyeee..... ❤😁
Nithenge ilekese bethuna. Also the reference is , but he keeps on forgetting what he wrote down…YOU BETTER LOOSE YOURSELF TO THE MUSIC THE MOMENT YOU OWN YOU BETTER NEVER LET IT GO 😂😂
Absolutely favourite people ❤ The communication topic really hits home. I honestly feel like covid also changed alot and we have not dealt with the trauma of that time.
let me do my 17 min workout before it becomes hard again. Thank you guys for reminding us to continue to look after ourselves. Technology and the working from home have their perks but ei sometimes ❤
I prefer text mna shame. Calls give me anxiety. "Anxiety yintloko "😂😂😂😂. As a result, my phone is always on vibrate. I don't normally get calls, but when I do, yhoo my heart beat fast shame. Plus ndiyayonqena ismall talk efownini ndibe ndizihlekisa into engekhoyo abe umntu ene energy. The only call I feel free kuyo is with my sister. Noba ndingaba kweyiphi imood sana, either I call her or she calls me.
Depends on the relationship i have with the person. I can take long, frequent calls from people I feel safe around. If not i prefer a text.im likely very anxious because i dont know what vibes you bring in thay moment. It allows me to take your full message in, absorb it and structure my response
Man ke i click like before watching 😂and watch ads zonke. Xa niku spotify ill repeat them xa ndifuna uhleks emsebenzini ndinxibe earphones. Enkosi booDlamini mahn🎉❤
Happy Belated to Ta Mzubhela. My siblings and I decided to do a weekend long celebration for our parents (Mom-11/8 & Dad-11/12). This episode just enforced the reason I’m a fan. Akhonto iforced or pretentious and the conversations are always authentic. This is the type of content we need!! You guys are the reason I drive to work on Fridays lol On the bright side, I get to sleep in for 30min instead of running to the train 😅
Ahhh thank you so much, we hope your celebration weekend was awesome and happy belated to the family! 🫶🏾 Transparency wins the game always. Thank you for the love
Im also like Zuko i a call person but due to knowing that others dnt like it and not wanting to find myself imposing on people i have limited the amount of people i call or even communicate, n in most cases i dnt start conversation... And Talitha's explanation is correct things have changed we have now become people that prefer to be alone.
Loved this episode & it got me thinking deep about why I don’t really like phone calls and when it started bc ke i wrongo nyan lento of staying weeks or days without calling or being called by your loved ones and i don’t like how we have normalised that as humans…💀
I relate to Ta Mzubhela so much on that issue of texting. 😂😂. Literally feel the exact same way when someone opens my texts and then they just take forever to respond.
That is so true, what Talitha said. That we have isolated ourselves and I am guilty of that. Andifun even to go out at the same time as my neighbor because zaku'fun theta and andifun mna lonto🤣
You guys have no idea of impact eninayo hey,I'm sitting here working,whillistening to Nina and suddenly I remember ba I haven't told friends of mine what's been going on n why I've been quiet.So,I just sent them a group text, and got them on board with what's been happening and it was appreciated ❤❤i love y'all ke sana
Ngi early today 🫂I really love your Shows and I would really love to watching you live one day and I’m from tiktok 😅usisi wayenyanisile It’s not easy to break free from tiktok
Ndim ke ichomi enga funi icalls, also suuuuuuck at texting then wonder why did my phone not ring all day? When the year began - I made a promise to be honest, present, and intentional in my friendship- badikwe Ndim!
Sometimes i would look at my phone ring only to send a text later and say i missed your call. if you call again im not answering again. But sometimes i do feel the need to hear the voice, see the face, get that hug or that laugh. But i think for me it has to do with how much i did not have my space growing up, now i protect it with everything in me.
sine Anxiety guys. Texting and voice notes are easier. Phone calls can be a lot outside of work. Worse video calls. I'm on Zoom calls every day and now videos call. Hayi schedule that too.
Thank you for this … yes and that is very true … and that is exactly trying to get to unravel… some anxiety - isuka phi / yenzwa yintoni so that hopefully we can get to how to manage what causes the the anxiety as opposed to managing the anxiety which is what we do 😢
I do get that energy thing, most times I'll get it just from my siblings/friends mentioning a friends name that I've never met. I always do say I dont like the new friend etc in their lives and its always odd cause ke we never met but we always find out why they're not good for them.
I would dfntly say I am a texter…I don’t know with calls it’s very easy to lose my train of thought and I end up not saying everything I wanted to say, where as with a text I can go back and edit before pressing the send button,and when I am sure I have said all I wanted to say, without any interruption from person B, so i guess with a text I am more in control… making calls just gives me anxiety… andiyazi😢
Oooh very interesting - thank you for enlightening us …🫶🏾 so essentially you get to think and say what you want to say better ! That’s a cool thing to understand
I'm both a texter and caller but mostly to my close friends and this is because im away from them but I find it difficult to call people I'm not close too but I don't mind answering calls... and I don't understand the anxiety about phone calls and I find it weird for unexpected video call from people I'm close with
Talitha was right when she said running is your life and uTa Mzubhela said 3 minutes into the conversation he speaks about running. Now abazalwane bafela your running 🤣icall to worship, yonke into is running... Kidding, beautiful analogy. I think this is exactly what Paul meant in Phillipians 4... Ukruquka - I think we can round it off to annoying.
Listen Thalitha is me I am Thalitha with her reasons yonke nje. A day would go by without replying. My sister gets frustrated always😅 ndibusy and I forget mna shame
Yhoo on text issues I’m the same phof mna I don’t like phone I can ignore your call on purpose and then just text but then again kwi text I stop communicating midway sihleka ndivele ndiyeke cause ndidikiwe not by the person but the fact that I have to be on my phone
Phone calls are intrusive, I'm pretty outgoing and sociable but I still dread phone calls. Call if it's urgent or ugqithisa umyalezo otherwise just text.
Thanks!
This conversation got deep very quick. You guys are addressing some serious issues that have really impacted our generation negatively.
I hope everyone watching this is awakened to the importance of community and being intentional about doing away with isolation. It is imperative to our wellbeing and the wellbeing of those around to value and be intentional about connecting with people.
My favorite siblings on the interwebs! ❤
Hey V 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 thank you for joining us
@@siblingthrivalry I love your nails sis T, and your hair 😍 very gorgeous!
I just want the recording of the message from church 😂🙈
I proposed a new thing to my best friend coz we stay in two different provinces now and a week can easily pass by without talking… we chose a day in each week where we make a video call and catch up with each other and how our week was and what we wanna talk about generally. It keeps us closer still and informed about each other and has improved our communication as well. ❤
5:15 "You better lose yourself in the music, the moment, you own it, you better never let it go!"🔥
To think I once used that song as the beginning of an oral because I didn't prepare, ndaphuma no A 😂
I don’t like phone calls because 2 years ago I received a call from an unsaved number and it was to let me know that my dad had died,a week before that call I was very jumpy when I receives phone calls because I thought it was that call (he was in the hospital) so la call yafika ngoku sendcingba hay marn uright ngoku. It’s just ienzayethi encinci when the phone rings but once ndingene kwi call and it’s not bad news kubamnandi,it’s not knowing what the phone call is about that makes me a little anxious otherwise I don’t think it’s talking over the phone ingxaki😅
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Came here after watching a sermon about faith. This felt like a more practical continuation. “God does not move up until you move”.. Thank you for that 🙏🏽
When Talitha said “sayi Englishyer” I remembered a video yomntu owayebuzwa what’s different about staying in SA and where she is. She was in Europe. Her answer was that in Southa people greet unlike there where everyone just lives in their own world. Xa ubulisa umntu omdlula endleleni pha uba ngulowo uweird. So maybe we’re buying too much into European norms singazazi nozazi. Sikopa into ewrongo. Ne Technology ke yenza eyayo
Joh congrats and thanks for being on spotify aswell, let’s not even sleep on the lighting and closer shots, captured really well.
Thank you kindly! We appreciate your feedback
Yho guys this conversation was so insightful. Sicinga uba si cool nyani and really we’re not. We need human interaction and to live more!
Preach! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Akasemhle Thalitha haybo sana😊❤
23:40 |Saaameee Z Texting bores the hell out of me. Also, I feel like calls are so intentional like ndifuna ukuva ba uright nyannyan!
Love that!
I always look forward to getting home unwind and watching you guys after a hectic week❤.
I hate calls now because ibangathi ndizova into embi
This episode really made me reflect and think back to my childhood days. Things have changed since then and I've changed as well. Technology really does isolate us from each other and we lose many bonds because of it.
Absolutely… something to think about
I’m here for Zuko’s accents and Thalitha’s laughter
Deep chat, thank you for this🥺🙏🏽 love the new studio🔥🔥upgraaaade!!💃🏽
Owned we march, this is great to hear thank you for the feedback, all love 🫶🏾
Min'emnandi kuwe bhuti. Love, light and more blessings for this new year🎉❤
Thanks
This is part of the reason why I love going back to elalini a few times a year without fail. There's something about the simplicity of life there that centers us and brings us back to the most important things - family etc. Thanks for this much needed and candid conversation
I get you mna Thalits! I hate phone calls! and nam i am very very inquisitive about humans and particularly the human brain and how it operates. So i've studied myself in order to understand ukuba "Yintoni le ugngayfuni kangaka iphonini!?", and i found the answer! Nina niyasifownela and we talk about whatever was on your chest, then kuthi cwaka! phinde kwa wena ubuza mna, "Yinton, what's wrong? why uthule nje?", hayboooo!! kanti nguban ofownele bani!? 🤣🤣, andinazindaba mna! that's i didn't call you! ngoku kwamna mandicinge "heeee ugqibele nini uthetha no Anele? heeee akasenqabe??" , ndingu news 24 moss ngoku ngenkani!. And this doesn't happen xa si text.a, we go straight to the point sigqithise umyalezo easy kanjani!
Sizawncokola ngee Braai man guyzini, si huganeni kubemnandi! Okay love y'all byyyeee..... ❤😁
Literally was thinking that I want this to be on Spotify only for this to be the next episode! Se'happy ke sana!🎉
The way I look forward to you guys on Fridays!
Literally my favourite podcast on the net
Nithenge ilekese bethuna. Also the reference is , but he keeps on forgetting what he wrote down…YOU BETTER LOOSE YOURSELF TO THE MUSIC THE MOMENT YOU OWN YOU BETTER NEVER LET IT GO 😂😂
You're a real one😂
To the lady, I’m bringing your nails as inspiration. I will have lime nail colored nails on my hands! ♥️
Oooohh … awesome! Love to hear it
🥂🙌🏽 To more subbies, I always look forward to Fridays 😎
Love to hear it! To more subbies! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 we appreciate you
Absolutely favourite people ❤ The communication topic really hits home. I honestly feel like covid also changed alot and we have not dealt with the trauma of that time.
So educational❤
now I can't miss an episode I'm hooked🥰
Puupupupuuuuu!!!🎉🎉🎉 I'm so happy you guys are on Spotify, I can now listen to you guys in peace at my desk at work and when traveling..
47:37 SCORPIO SZN!!!! 🎉🎉
Happy Birthday Aubuti!
let me do my 17 min workout before it becomes hard again. Thank you guys for reminding us to continue to look after ourselves. Technology and the working from home have their perks but ei sometimes ❤
Ndiyavuya ukuba yingxenye yale progress yenu.❤
Please also work towards getting it on Apple Podcast for those who do not use Spotify.
I prefer text mna shame. Calls give me anxiety. "Anxiety yintloko "😂😂😂😂. As a result, my phone is always on vibrate. I don't normally get calls, but when I do, yhoo my heart beat fast shame. Plus ndiyayonqena ismall talk efownini ndibe ndizihlekisa into engekhoyo abe umntu ene energy. The only call I feel free kuyo is with my sister. Noba ndingaba kweyiphi imood sana, either I call her or she calls me.
Depends on the relationship i have with the person. I can take long, frequent calls from people I feel safe around. If not i prefer a text.im likely very anxious because i dont know what vibes you bring in thay moment. It allows me to take your full message in, absorb it and structure my response
You guys are the cutest thing on the internet!! Love your show
Akasemhle uTaliFashion 😂😍❤️❤️
Hahahaha eligama 😂😂😂🫶🏾
This episode just made me really realize that we really have created bubbles of our own😪😪😪
Another great episode my loves! Talitha sitting pretty in that dress, I see you 😍❤
Ahhh, thank you so much, appreciated 🫶🏾
Very important lanto to learn the difference between solitude and isolation.
Oooh love this!!!!
Ndikruqukile- I have had enough,ndanele
Man ke i click like before watching 😂and watch ads zonke. Xa niku spotify ill repeat them xa ndifuna uhleks emsebenzini ndinxibe earphones. Enkosi booDlamini mahn🎉❤
Happy Belated to Ta Mzubhela. My siblings and I decided to do a weekend long celebration for our parents (Mom-11/8 & Dad-11/12).
This episode just enforced the reason I’m a fan. Akhonto iforced or pretentious and the conversations are always authentic. This is the type of content we need!! You guys are the reason I drive to work on Fridays lol On the bright side, I get to sleep in for 30min instead of running to the train 😅
Ahhh thank you so much, we hope your celebration weekend was awesome and happy belated to the family! 🫶🏾
Transparency wins the game always. Thank you for the love
Im also like Zuko i a call person but due to knowing that others dnt like it and not wanting to find myself imposing on people i have limited the amount of people i call or even communicate, n in most cases i dnt start conversation...
And Talitha's explanation is correct things have changed we have now become people that prefer to be alone.
OOh!! what a conversation ❤❤
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Loved this episode & it got me thinking deep about why I don’t really like phone calls and when it started bc ke i wrongo nyan lento of staying weeks or days without calling or being called by your loved ones and i don’t like how we have normalised that as humans…💀
Talitha’s nail colour is so beautiful 😍
Siyambongela 🫶🏾
Been waiting 🧡 ndivuke ndinicinga
Aaahhh man! Thank you for the love Sine 🫶🏾
Sana I shared this episode with almost everyone I talk to. So insightful! Loved it. Niyandichaza maan yaqo! ❤
Semndi uba sithi! Thank you for the love 💐
I relate to Ta Mzubhela so much on that issue of texting. 😂😂. Literally feel the exact same way when someone opens my texts and then they just take forever to respond.
Also time moves so much slower when the ticks are blue ! 😅😅😅
Nice content 🎉
Happy birthday TaMzu!!!🎉
You better preach Zuko!!!!❤❤❤❤
That is so true, what Talitha said. That we have isolated ourselves and I am guilty of that. Andifun even to go out at the same time as my neighbor because zaku'fun theta and andifun mna lonto🤣
Itricky!!! Maaan
You guys have no idea of impact eninayo hey,I'm sitting here working,whillistening to Nina and suddenly I remember ba I haven't told friends of mine what's been going on n why I've been quiet.So,I just sent them a group text, and got them on board with what's been happening and it was appreciated ❤❤i love y'all ke sana
This is beautiful Swazi! Thank you for joining us and also deciding to see something and take action- you are a true rockstar! 🫶🏾
@siblingthrivalry ♥️
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Ndiyafika kulomzi but senindikruqule lv u gyz❤❤❤❤
Sangena sangena ayoyoyo siyi 12 400 💃💃
Ayoyooo 🔥🔥🔥
Happy birthday Ta-Mzubhela🎉
I loooove phone calls kakbiiiii that I can be on 1 call for over an hour 🥰
And that hour goes by like it was 5 minutes!
Ngi early today 🫂I really love your Shows and I would really love to watching you live one day and I’m from tiktok 😅usisi wayenyanisile It’s not easy to break free from tiktok
Ola Dyan, thanks for the positive feedback ! We are glad you managed to break free hehehe. Welcome welcome
Ndim ke ichomi enga funi icalls, also suuuuuuck at texting then wonder why did my phone not ring all day? When the year began - I made a promise to be honest, present, and intentional in my friendship- badikwe Ndim!
Happiest Birthday Tamzubhela tats🎉🎉🎉
“God doesn’t move until you do” Enkosini ❤
Sometimes i would look at my phone ring only to send a text later and say i missed your call. if you call again im not answering again. But sometimes i do feel the need to hear the voice, see the face, get that hug or that laugh. But i think for me it has to do with how much i did not have my space growing up, now i protect it with everything in me.
Happy blessed birthday brother we country, Ta Mzu. we love you
Iphiko limnandi kodwa ❤😂
My Friday has been rocking me. So happy to be here. 🎉
Hey darling , we hope we can make it even a little bit better 💐
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sine Anxiety guys. Texting and voice notes are easier. Phone calls can be a lot outside of work. Worse video calls. I'm on Zoom calls every day and now videos call. Hayi schedule that too.
Thank you for this … yes and that is very true … and that is exactly trying to get to unravel… some anxiety - isuka phi / yenzwa yintoni so that hopefully we can get to how to manage what causes the the anxiety as opposed to managing the anxiety which is what we do 😢
I feel like the more things change, the more overwhelmed we get, hence the misalignment 😩 I would say this also stems from the covid era
😭😭😭Not the Eminem reference
Hahaha …. That’s it!!!!
Haibo guys the quality of the studio??!! The quality of the cameras?? Ngathi ngihleli nani in studio! Congratulations guys !!🤩
Right!!! 🥹 Upgrades mabhabha🤌🏽🔥
Yoh this communication topic is so loaded !
Fully!!! There’s is so so much to be explored within it
Ohh I love you guys ❤😊
Uyayazi ke uba yidraw 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾❤️
Happy Birthday Ta Mzubhela🧡
I do get that energy thing, most times I'll get it just from my siblings/friends mentioning a friends name that I've never met. I always do say I dont like the new friend etc in their lives and its always odd cause ke we never met but we always find out why they're not good for them.
Happy befday Ntangam🎉🥳
I would dfntly say I am a texter…I don’t know with calls it’s very easy to lose my train of thought and I end up not saying everything I wanted to say, where as with a text I can go back and edit before pressing the send button,and when I am sure I have said all I wanted to say, without any interruption from person B, so i guess with a text I am more in control… making calls just gives me anxiety… andiyazi😢
Oooh very interesting - thank you for enlightening us …🫶🏾 so essentially you get to think and say what you want to say better ! That’s a cool thing to understand
@17:03 That 'uzawuthi pop-pop' came out so unexpectedly bruh 😂😂😂
Inzima kengoku leyoba sixhwarhela u12 ba abethe kuzoma yonke into Fridays eyam lunch ndiyithatha ngo 12 kuba kalk ndifuna ubukela haibooo caba ndiyanithanda sana 😂😂❤️❤️❤️
Cool shirt Zuko ey
Happy birthday Ta🥳🥳
as im watching this we are on 12,5K😍
Let’s goooo 🚀 🫶🏾
I'm both a texter and caller but mostly to my close friends and this is because im away from them but I find it difficult to call people I'm not close too but I don't mind answering calls... and I don't understand the anxiety about phone calls and I find it weird for unexpected video call from people I'm close with
Happy belated birthday Ta🥳
Much appreciated 🫶🏾
10:21 Fed up😅
Kruqukile- Fed up
Ukukruquka is being fed up.
9:15 deep within😂
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Talitha was right when she said running is your life and uTa Mzubhela said 3 minutes into the conversation he speaks about running. Now abazalwane bafela your running 🤣icall to worship, yonke into is running... Kidding, beautiful analogy. I think this is exactly what Paul meant in Phillipians 4... Ukruquka - I think we can round it off to annoying.
I use ukruquka when im fed up not mad or angry but had enough…
That suyivula comes from a very deep place 😂🤣🤣
"Am fed up sana"😂
Uyayiiiivha!
Listen Thalitha is me I am Thalitha with her reasons yonke nje. A day would go by without replying. My sister gets frustrated always😅 ndibusy and I forget mna shame
Yhoo on text issues I’m the same phof mna I don’t like phone I can ignore your call on purpose and then just text but then again kwi text I stop communicating midway sihleka ndivele ndiyeke cause ndidikiwe not by the person but the fact that I have to be on my phone
Mzubhela sowukula age yothatha I nap hayi uyaguga mpandlana😂 😂😂
😂😂😂
Phone calls are intrusive, I'm pretty outgoing and sociable but I still dread phone calls. Call if it's urgent or ugqithisa umyalezo otherwise just text.
Eziii 40 minutes are not enough, increase to an hour please
😂😂my sister has the same issue with texting. Athi ndiphendulile engqondweni ndathi “ok” I mean what??😢😂😂
Iyenzeka lento and ke the good thing is that we can discuss 🫶🏾
Anisebahle