Let's define friends guys. Like do you chill with your ex on Saturday to watch rugby? Go clubbing together, have friendship dates? I can never be ok with this kind of friendship with an ex as a current partner. Ex ngumntu endimaziyo wethu.
Listening to the two of you talking about happiness I realised something. Next time a woman asks me, "what do you bring to the table". I will answer her, "happiness" and walk away from the red flag.
The algorithm led me here, and I’m not complaining 🫶🏽 loving the conversations. Ke moTswana but really enjoyed hearing how you moved so effortlessly between isiXhosa and English.
We're grateful for this platform for allowing us to get to know Talitha because we've loved the characters she has played on shows and now we're having the pleasure of knowing her. I mean how awesome is that?! 😍❤ Lovely episode as always siblings, thank you.
Some people find it easier to stay friends with their exes due to emotional closure, mutual respect, shared social circles, and strong personal boundaries. Emotional maturity also plays a role, so nam Zuko I concur with your argument. I don't think I have an ex endiqondba sixabene nomjita instead we are civil towards each other. By the way having now watched all your seasons and episodes, I must say you guys have evolved and the growth is so visible.
Ta Mzubhela is blushing hard! Big bro almost turned purple 😂😂😂😂😂😂 kuyo yonke lento yenzekayo ningazilibali nino sister omncinci ekapa who wouldn’t mind flying in for the wedding 😉
Absolutely love this episode nangona indivezile uba ndine double standards that I need to work on. I'm very close with an ex, he's actually my emergency contact before my friends even kodwa mna I don't think I would be ok with a partner being that close with their ex....Tsiiii umntu makahlale e single
So glad we are not the only ones abavelayo and seeing other perspectives … tricky yona indaba kodwa! Well either staying single or working on changing the double standard … 🫶🏾
Igama lamahlwempu nam liyandihlekisa 😂😂 I know ayikho into ehlekisayo, even the way asho ngayo ezithambisela umlomo wakhe and the serious face finished me even more😂😂 I know am not the only one.
Kutricky sana to be friends with your ex. The problem is access. Bacinga bane access kuwe and they tend to misuse it. And nawe you won't be able to enforce your boundaries ngendlela eyiyo because you once loved this person who is now your friend💀 sembi kengoku.
I think it’s a bit of a stretch to call your ex a friend, especially since that "friendship" while you were together was more on the sexual side. The real issue now is that lending money to your ex feels like an investment, almost as if you’re keeping them in your life permanently. If they ask for money once, they’ll likely ask again, which could complicate your future relationships. It may come across as an attachment issue between you and your ex.
Mna even to family ndingu Laqasha, kwa ex leyo musn't even think of me when it comes to loaning cash. Plus sixakekile guys yho ha.ah I can't be the last dragon ball ayicingayo when they think of loaning cash? Seriously.
Speaking about izidala, how do y'all feel about partners who reference their ex. How they made them feel happy or miserable they always talk about them. I feel like ndinelishwa lokufumana abantu aba referisha kwizidala zabo.
WARNING: Zuko, baseza kushaya ngesitina my ninja. There is a reason that person is an ex and they need to remain the past tense. You will have a crying episode yesitina.
hi guys so tiktok bought me here and i am staying because i love you guys and i love the conversations or topics because i do reflect on some 🤣🤣🤣but go on i am listenings 🤣🫶🏾
Tiktok brought me here. I'm staying
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 love to see it!
Nam mnatse and Im watching zonke ezi vidoes 😂
Same🤣🤣 angiyi ndawo !
nam ke sarna
Iskhenkelele!!! Bengiyisho eNatali ngoDecember. Ngibaqedile. This is one of my favorite episodes.
uMzubela, the crush of the year!!! 😂😂😂. He’s so shy, I love it!!!
Oh yhini last born yakwa Ndima … introvert ke Mzubhela qha soze utsho 🥹
Let's define friends guys. Like do you chill with your ex on Saturday to watch rugby? Go clubbing together, have friendship dates?
I can never be ok with this kind of friendship with an ex as a current partner.
Ex ngumntu endimaziyo wethu.
Shot straight up to the top of my favorites list, need to omnibus the channel 😂🤣🤣
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 glad to hear it!
Ta Mzubhela is effortlessly funny “okay sure mastandi”😭😭
😂😂😂🙏🏾
I love these longer episodes! Thank you fam❤
Appreciate the feedback T! 🫶🏾
😭😭😭yho, uTalitha is FUNNY!!😅😭😭 “nday’gqibela nini iPerson”😭
😂😂😂 k’dala ngoko
Effortlessly funny! Both of them actually, you'll never finish an episode ungahlekanga 😂😂😂
100% respect that Ta Mzubhela. “Ndinomntu ngoku.” It’s something that a lot of okes can’t do.
Have to do it .. more than anything else it’s to protect oneself and ultimately the relationship… seen the other side of it and it’s not pretty 🥺
Spedi by default but definitely Xhosa by choice 😂😂😂 in I'm coming back Xhosa in my next life
😂😂 love it for you! And us!
Listening to the two of you talking about happiness I realised something. Next time a woman asks me, "what do you bring to the table". I will answer her, "happiness" and walk away from the red flag.
what a beautiful response. please do let us know how that goes!
And thats something alot of people don't get to experience, genuine happiness ❤
The algorithm led me here, and I’m not complaining 🫶🏽 loving the conversations. Ke moTswana but really enjoyed hearing how you moved so effortlessly between isiXhosa and English.
Awwww! Comment of the day! Thank you, we often think about how it is that we can accommodate people - to hear that you are comfortable is great! 🫶🏾
“Banintsi abantu abandifunayo!” WASHAAA 🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂😂
Jooooookes! 🥹🥹🥹all said in jest
@3:00 Thank you for gracing us And for setting the tone bhuda, that killa outfit 🙌❤
I love you guys 😂 Can we please talk nge ziteketiso zesi Xhosa, jonga mna ndingu Nokwanda and isitekitiso sam nguSquash sifike nini apho ngk 😂😂
We're grateful for this platform for allowing us to get to know Talitha because we've loved the characters she has played on shows and now we're having the pleasure of knowing her. I mean how awesome is that?! 😍❤ Lovely episode as always siblings, thank you.
thank you for joining us... much appreciated. 🌻
I love watching you guys ❤ ❤
Thank you sana 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Congratulations on 3k guys 🥺🎉❤
Shout out to you for joining us and being a part of the 3k. Thank you thank you 🌻
Aiii Mzubhela my awuthi!!!!😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥 LOVE the fit my brother👌
Dankooo! 🫶🏾🙏🏾
Some people find it easier to stay friends with their exes due to emotional closure, mutual respect, shared social circles, and strong personal boundaries. Emotional maturity also plays a role, so nam Zuko I concur with your argument. I don't think I have an ex endiqondba sixabene nomjita instead we are civil towards each other. By the way having now watched all your seasons and episodes, I must say you guys have evolved and the growth is so visible.
Ooohhh 🥹 what a beautiful comment - watch out for our reply on one of the upcoming episodes! Shout out to you 🫶🏾
To Tshotsholoza! Boy did I laugh. Yhazi you guys do justice to our clan considering kuyathandwa ukugeza ngathi. MaZizini! Love you guys.🥰
Much appreciated - thank you for the love - we are sending it right back! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
If we've never been married, I'm not your ex.
Washaaaa👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
You guys cannot stop this now, watching this has now become my weekly ritual 😆
Also, just make these episodes an hour long. You clearly have a lot to say 😂
😂😂😂😂😂 we do! And we don’t realize it up until we start talking then it all comes out! We appreciate the feedback and will definitely look into it
Ta Mzubhela is blushing hard! Big bro almost turned purple 😂😂😂😂😂😂 kuyo yonke lento yenzekayo ningazilibali nino sister omncinci ekapa who wouldn’t mind flying in for the wedding 😉
Hahaha isn’t lechap umo wayo njena lil sis 🫶🏾 hayi ke sho case - your spot of being the mini bride is secured! 🥰
In Zulu we have a saying "where the water has flowed, it'll flow again". Exes are risky
Yeeeeyi!!! That sounds very English though 🙈 jokes ! 😂😂😂 and ke to be serious - these sayings don’t exist for nothing …
Absolutely love this episode nangona indivezile uba ndine double standards that I need to work on. I'm very close with an ex, he's actually my emergency contact before my friends even kodwa mna I don't think I would be ok with a partner being that close with their ex....Tsiiii umntu makahlale e single
So glad we are not the only ones abavelayo and seeing other perspectives … tricky yona indaba kodwa! Well either staying single or working on changing the double standard … 🫶🏾
31:25 UYITHATHAPHI LENTO OYENZAYO 😭😂😭😂😭😂
😂😂😂 basically !
yho andayhlekaaa "funeka undinike gf allowance nam ndinike kaloku"
😂😂😂 nika nika ngekhe!
❤❤❤❤ love you so much guys
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 sending love right back!
Igama lamahlwempu nam liyandihlekisa 😂😂 I know ayikho into ehlekisayo, even the way asho ngayo ezithambisela umlomo wakhe and the serious face finished me even more😂😂 I know am not the only one.
Yho hayi it's the word for me. I don't know why it makes me laugh every time I hear it😮
It is kind of an awkward word also you have to admit… like lifunny
Yhooo yebethuna uMzukwana 😭😭😭”amahlwempu wona”
kutheni ufuna umendza guilty sana uThalitha😂
Hahahah … not intended - it was just a question 😂
Love ur podcast guys, great chats 🎉❤
Thanks so much!!
Kutricky sana to be friends with your ex. The problem is access. Bacinga bane access kuwe and they tend to misuse it. And nawe you won't be able to enforce your boundaries ngendlela eyiyo because you once loved this person who is now your friend💀 sembi kengoku.
My favs sana❤
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TaMzubela blushing while saying "andikho bad"😊
Talitha inhlobo yenkomoshi engingaphuza ngayo....ngiyasho nje❤
Exactly mzubhabha... bakhe basebenzise medulla... "nam nike"😂😂😂😂
I think it’s a bit of a stretch to call your ex a friend, especially since that "friendship" while you were together was more on the sexual side. The real issue now is that lending money to your ex feels like an investment, almost as if you’re keeping them in your life permanently. If they ask for money once, they’ll likely ask again, which could complicate your future relationships. It may come across as an attachment issue between you and your ex.
Mna even to family ndingu Laqasha, kwa ex leyo musn't even think of me when it comes to loaning cash. Plus sixakekile guys yho ha.ah I can't be the last dragon ball ayicingayo when they think of loaning cash? Seriously.
Heheh … just pictured you with an eye patch 😂😂😂 exes are people too guys 😂😂😂 Bathathe qhash!
iYaki Bulk!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Isasetyenziswa?
Or save it for your siblings😌. What’s old to you is new and sentimental to others.
Iskhenkelele yhuu I didn't know😂
Guys ndandifunda eKhonqeni JSS, cela niyeke ishirt eyellow 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Iyhooo 🙈 sithi abarongo hehe, usixolele please 🤗
Renting love, mastandi 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂🥹🥹🥹
Collecting exs like Thanos, nah not necessary. ibeWorse abano 6months to a year, ayizo Ex ezo.
😂😂😂not Thanos ! 😭 yonke into inesphelo, agreed!
Hayi hayi hayi! Kutheni wathintitha xa kuthethwa ngobolekiswa kwemali kwi ex? LOL Oh you're such a dyan Mzubhela!🤣🤣🤣
Speaking about izidala, how do y'all feel about partners who reference their ex. How they made them feel happy or miserable they always talk about them. I feel like ndinelishwa lokufumana abantu aba referisha kwizidala zabo.
But now to what end? Baya referisha neh but then you get told uba ufana nabo or akufunekanga ufane nabo or how?
Rumor has it the database Yama ex formats after 5 years so you can't be my ex forever 🤭
😂😂😂 one of the comments said 6 months infact so it seems there has been an update lol
uTa Mzubhela akafuni noyibona girlfriend allowance😭😂😂.
Ingathi #triggered le chap 🥹😂
Another one😍
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I have a word Suthwangazela 😂
This should be interesting 🧐 hehehehe let’s see how this turns out
Zuko reminds me so much of Lebo Rampedi
Nailed It
Yhooo nixola lula😂
😂😂😂
Why are we catching smoke, thina esafunda kwizikolo ezineshirt eziYellow😂😂😂
Sithi abarongo 🙈🙈🙈🥹
ndyaqala usiva iskhenkelele oko ndazalwa but if I were to use it in a sentence i'd say " andonwaba ndisiskhenkelele mntkbw"
👌🏽 perfectly placed!
I wanna pick a bone with uZuko, iDyan is too shy to talk about his relationship experiences 😅
Eish sensitive topics but it’s definitely getting easier - hehehe healing is still in process maybe … it will get better though haha
WARNING: Zuko, baseza kushaya ngesitina my ninja. There is a reason that person is an ex and they need to remain the past tense.
You will have a crying episode yesitina.
Ndini one ukutiktok andisanitha😂❤
@Tali thank you ntanga❤😊
Nam ndize ngo tik tok apha😂😂
Shoutout to you! 🫶🏾
Mzuba the Skopara😂😂🚮 yhuu hayi niyadika bethuna
😂😂😂😂 not easy this life 😂😂😂
Guys iskhenkelele ndisiqala apha kuni usiva 😂😂
Namil Ndiva apha! 😂😂
So many people are saying this - hahahah maybe zazingekho izikhenkelele in your area growing up 😂😂😂
Inkamela😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Le notification izakundenza ndonqene ubuyela emsebenzini 😢
heheheh, completely not the intention even though singayi mindeli at all. Infact! take the rest of the afternoon off im sure you worked hard this week
@@siblingthrivalry mazivalwe🤭🤣🤣🤣💻💻💻💻
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I am love you 💕 guys
Thank you for the love! Yidraw 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Tsholoza...not Tshotsholoza 😂😂. Like amanzi before they boil, ayatsholoza
Yes… tshotsholoza speaking to the burning sensation when something hurts also yeah?
haw kanti ushadile??
Question, is gf allowance = ukubheja?
hi guys so tiktok bought me here and i am staying because i love you guys and i love the conversations or topics because i do reflect on some 🤣🤣🤣but go on i am listenings 🤣🫶🏾
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