Diaspora Marriage Complexities: Murume wangu akadanana necousin yangu.

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  • @everythingbelar6705
    @everythingbelar6705 Рік тому +1

    Kunechinonzi macrocodile tears the way tete Tilder na Dr cornered mainini avo is not fair that’s the same person who was dating the wife’s sister musadaro

  • @silindiwetshumasilindiwe7811
    @silindiwetshumasilindiwe7811 Рік тому +1

    Kuchemeyi wakaroora here.Aaaa varume kuzviitisa.lni handinzwi kurwadziwa nevarume vanemoyo isingaiti ava

  • @priscillandoro468
    @priscillandoro468 Рік тому +6

    Mai avo vakadana murume ky auye joni akavahurira zvokwadi amai zvishandirei musiyane nemurume uyo anofunga ky akangwara izvo asingazive ky vanhu avo vanokuda uchiri kushanda kana basa rapera zvadhakwa.

  • @Fayrwa06
    @Fayrwa06 Рік тому

    It’s nice to here different people Shari f their problems in a public forum.
    It’s good to talk and hopefully all can find peace. Their relationships and move forward

  • @ginmaposa4068
    @ginmaposa4068 Рік тому +4

    Bamnini vekuchema igotwe chete🤞 Maini shud b firstborn😆but Maini shud appreciate and change her character vakatodherera

  • @tanyamilewski5700
    @tanyamilewski5700 Рік тому +3

    That doctor/pharmacy couple the husband is not a doctor so he shdnt say the doctor is wrong. Adult medication can be given to babies with doctors approval. So you can’t read the manufacturers label and say the doctor is wrong. Infact the label will say something like “unless doctor instructs”. If concerned about side effects you go back to doctor/pharmacist not listen to husband.
    The reason why drug manufacturers put age on labels is because they do clinical trials. Ethically it’s not easy to do trials on babies. So they can’t say the medication is good for babies on their label if no studies were done on babies. Funny enough this fight proves why it’s hard to do trials on babies-the parents are overprotective and would never agree to their babies getting test drugs. But doctors can weigh the benefits of giving a baby versus the risks of not giving and prescribe such medication if benefits outweigh potential risks. And they don’t do that lightly, they use deep knowledge of how organs work Eg liver and how diseases work. So they can do an off label prescription because they have deep knowledge-they are a doctor. It’s not common for both pharmacist and doctor to make a mistake. What’s more likely is the husband is wrong. You shd follow the doctors orders not read your own labels. Sometimes doctors/pharmacists can also adjust dosage 5mg to 10mg using their professional justification of adjusting dosage.

  • @ipairimbi7162
    @ipairimbi7162 Рік тому +8

    Those were crocodile tears to me

  • @lorinechipato1070
    @lorinechipato1070 Рік тому +5

    Where is pastor Elijah
    I like the way he articulates issues???

    • @nancyncube2656
      @nancyncube2656 Рік тому

      Not pastor Elijah but pastor Nyama yenkawu

    • @lorinechipato1070
      @lorinechipato1070 Рік тому +2

      @@nancyncube2656 I mean Pastor Elijah Motowasha

    • @Ishmael4513
      @Ishmael4513 Рік тому +2

      @@lorinechipato1070 he decided to go than risk himself going to levels dzana Choga idzi😢

    • @lorinechipato1070
      @lorinechipato1070 Рік тому

      @@Ishmael4513 Havacha present these shows hr even domestic issues hr??

    • @brownsugar2142
      @brownsugar2142 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Ishmael4513 wareva! I really miss his fairness, direct, practical yet respectful approach to issues... please bring him back please!

  • @priscillandoro468
    @priscillandoro468 Рік тому +3

    Avo mainini vane murume anongonobatsirwa naKule ummm kule vanogona vachitoshandisa muzukuru wavo becarefull mainini. Murume haatyiwe mainini makadanana cey nhaimi.

  • @lindajaricha1409
    @lindajaricha1409 Рік тому +2

    Ummm muroora uyo amwene vakatadza havo but amwene remember ndaamai fut.hongu wakatadzirwa asi kakusada amwene munako mainin.ko dai vari mai vako varikunzwaro mainzwa sei hongu amwene vakakanganisa havo

  • @charlenemariga6753
    @charlenemariga6753 Рік тому +17

    These shows l feel sometimes do more harm than good. Shuwa does crying mean kuti ndiwe watadzirwa. Crying is just a copying mechanism smtimes.This guy could evn be preying on pples emotions by playing the victim. He shld hv just been asked to calm down and say his side not to cry

    • @Ishmael4513
      @Ishmael4513 Рік тому +6

      I now understand why Pastor Motowashe decided to leave this crew. Very biased and lack focus and intelligence. Kuvharwa nemisodzi. The guy is disrespectful to womanwood. 😢😢😢

    • @demnisxirox7144
      @demnisxirox7144 Рік тому +4

      Zvooda Motowashe izvi, these 2 r easily biased

    • @ChuckTheMack
      @ChuckTheMack Рік тому +2

      Beware the Tilderites and Chogaites, they are ready to defend their facilitators.

    • @mariatanya3533
      @mariatanya3533 Рік тому +4

      @@ChuckTheMack We dont always agree, iwewe you’re always opposing. In this case that man haana kuroora yet he expects all wifely duties to be done & on top of it he doesnt recognise kuti mukadzi wake anenge akanetawo from work. Yes Tete Tilder was wrong kutaura kuti zvinoshamisira kuti murume acheme & kubva vaisa blame pana mainini. Hapana chashamisira pakuchema kwababa avo it doesnt erase his wrongs.

    • @ChuckTheMack
      @ChuckTheMack Рік тому

      @@mariatanya3533 actually on this occasion Tilder and Choga were very sensitive in handling the issue, they were very impartial, though Choga anombotaika, anotanga kutaura zvekudzura vanhu wig. Kutuka vanhu hakusi iko kutsiura.

  • @vee5291
    @vee5291 Рік тому +2

    Weeee baba vemusodzi ava I give up i tsotsi chairo. Vachitadza kutaura point chaiyo munhu ngaadzidze kutaura kwete kuda kuhwanda nekuti ini handitaure ndikagumbuka ndinonyarara

  • @sandrataminyiwa4557
    @sandrataminyiwa4557 Рік тому +1

    Crocodile tears ipai mukadzi mari tsano

  • @faraibarnsymaestro1830
    @faraibarnsymaestro1830 Рік тому +1

    Vanhu varikuchema ma 3 weeks no action ko isu takutosvika gore rese 😊

  • @tasaz8895
    @tasaz8895 Рік тому +1

    The first guy hapana zvekusungwa apa. Few men can sustain 2 women at the same time. The latest girl tends to use and consume all fire..ane maGirl friends 1000%

  • @ginmaposa4068
    @ginmaposa4068 Рік тому +4

    Mai truck driver ndaona hangu vatobatwa nemweya wechihule🙄murume vakatomusvora to the last limit

    • @laizahmawoneni8013
      @laizahmawoneni8013 Рік тому

      you are wrong. Her husband might having sex elsewhere with men not women. He is repulsed with women saka isingamiri

  • @Thalyn433
    @Thalyn433 Рік тому +5

    Where is pastor Elijah???????????? Missing his comments

    • @ChuckTheMack
      @ChuckTheMack Рік тому +2

      Elijah is not coming back to this show, It’s no longer the same show, Elijah is level headed, hence why he only came at a time where he wouldn’t have been associated with Choga’s insatiable appetite to delve into the uncouth practice yekubvisa vanhu maWig and kubata mabhachi or making suggestions to seek sexual pleasure from gadgets.

    • @ndasukwaneropa
      @ndasukwaneropa Рік тому

      @@ChuckTheMack but you just told me off for speaking against gadgets uchiti I must not impose my values on people. Inga zvinoshamisa chokwadi

    • @ChuckTheMack
      @ChuckTheMack Рік тому +1

      @@ndasukwaneropa I think you haven’t been following the criticism I have been receiving from the Tilderites and Chogaites. They say I’m too negative, now I’m being positive

    • @frankmoyo7001
      @frankmoyo7001 Рік тому

      @@ChuckTheMack no its not about doc and tete Motowashe is busy kuchurch kwake something like that,secondly anga asiri iye engen pachirongwa ichi, aitoita zcekubhabhadzira vanhu muno zvino doc vanotokuudza chokwadi chekuti unosara uinacho pahana pako for some period of tym.

  • @demnisxirox7144
    @demnisxirox7144 Рік тому +2

    Tilder and Choga solve nyaya yechipfambi Iyo kwete zvekuyananisa vanhu nonsense

  • @nontandochibi6909
    @nontandochibi6909 Рік тому +2

    I have a feeling kuti mainini vekunzi mimba ndeyemwana wangu here..... Problem is not in what is being said but how it's said, paita pride on both sides nekuti muroora akati it's better kugara ndega coz she's contributing more was wrong so amai said bad words in reaction to that. Amai swallowed her pride and said sorry but muroora never said sorry for implying kuti kugara nemwana wavo is useless.

  • @ginmaposa4068
    @ginmaposa4068 Рік тому +8

    Is it safe doc for those toys 🤔Ini hangu I'm single but nooo to that

    • @ndasukwaneropa
      @ndasukwaneropa Рік тому +1

      True, so sad that he suggested such. Disgusting

    • @ChuckTheMack
      @ChuckTheMack Рік тому +1

      Riwo rechembere ramba waraira, I think Choga has got a point here, if our culture was more open to certain practices, the HIV issue would have been resolved years ago. Chidhandisai maCondoms, hamusi, vaccination, you treat it with suspicion, handei kumaporofita nen’anga, zimbabwe yese inosimuka yakananga kwa Tasvu kana Magaya, yet munhu anenge achirwara neHIV, which could have been prevented by a simple act of kuzvibatsira.

    • @tsitsitembo592
      @tsitsitembo592 Рік тому

      @@ndasukwaneropa saka that's more safe on this case

  • @librajames7609
    @librajames7609 Рік тому +2

    Bamunini no kudanana necousin yemukadzi.Sonai zip pliz vamwe macousis vanotokuitirai action

    • @frankmoyo7001
      @frankmoyo7001 Рік тому

      Well said coz its not easy kuti ndingosvikoti ngati danane kuna cousin ye mkadzi wangu but cousin ndivo vanotaura vega ne action.

  • @gracempofu526
    @gracempofu526 Рік тому +3

    Mainini vemurume anobatsirwa na sekuru always murume wenyu anogona kunge achiitwa hake mkadzi na sekuru vake bicoz kubatsira munhu kune limit

    • @nancyncube2656
      @nancyncube2656 Рік тому

      Kkkkkkkk. Nyoka yaparara shuwa

    • @sethumpofu9248
      @sethumpofu9248 Рік тому

      I think so too. Or sekuru vakatorera muzukuru girlfriend.

  • @queenvee7204
    @queenvee7204 Рік тому +2

    Zvekuchema tazvinzwa ko akanyengerei Hama yemukadzi ngatitaurei ipapo

  • @ndasukwaneropa
    @ndasukwaneropa Рік тому +8

    The toy/gadget suggestion by Dr Choga is shameful and frankly speaking shows he's not spiritually aware of the consequences of masturbation. Very sad. Please include Dr Nyamakawo, this suggestion is very alarming.

    • @ChuckTheMack
      @ChuckTheMack Рік тому +5

      Why do you want to impose your values on other people, pano panouya vanhu vanobva kwese kwese, Choga is a therapist haasi Makandiwa kana Magaya kana Sowe.

    • @queenvee7204
      @queenvee7204 Рік тому +1

      I agree with you cz hazonakirwe nebonde munhu iyeye

    • @ndasukwaneropa
      @ndasukwaneropa Рік тому

      @@ChuckTheMack I'm not imposing my values on anyone, I'm responding to Dr Choga as a therapist who is also a christian. Besides, are you saying Christians are not allowed to comment on this platform? Iwe uri kucommenter wani?

    • @ChuckTheMack
      @ChuckTheMack Рік тому +2

      @@ndasukwaneropa I think when you talk about therapy, it should be free of religious and cultural beliefs because it’s science, hence why it can be accessed by just about anybody regardless of their belief.

    • @portiashava3023
      @portiashava3023 Рік тому

      @@ChuckTheMack you are totally right. Counselling inoshanda nemavalues ayo asiri personal. Counsellor chero ari mufundisi haubvumidzwi kuisa pic raJeso kumadziro unless waenda kucounselling yekuchurch kwenyu.

  • @patieymakojanhi101
    @patieymakojanhi101 Рік тому +1

    These crocodile tears, go and marry you young man

  • @sikholiweconniempansi3154
    @sikholiweconniempansi3154 Рік тому

    Tete may you check on these guy's again, vave sei mumba mavo

  • @iypika2434
    @iypika2434 Рік тому

    Tete na Dr.Choga nystagmus yemari yevakadzi is nonstarter.
    Vakadxi havadi mari inoinda kumhuri yemurume,havadi!!
    Ndiri kuDiaspora ndozviziva.
    Hama dzimwenguva dzinenyaya,mukadzi uyo pane nyaya.

  • @nancyncube2656
    @nancyncube2656 Рік тому +4

    Avo baba vekuchema amunyari tsotsi remunhu ghevha guru ipai mkadzi mari yepamba. Musatinyepere nemisodzi yegharwe imi muchivhara mabasa enyu pakaipa. Mukadzi ndiye afona nokuti murikumushungurudza nekusabatika kwenyu. Ambotaura achitanga kuti murume unondikurira pakutaura ndazvioneta munemashoko ekupomera mukadzi muchimu createra tunyaya. Akasataurira pamberi pevana moti akuwamei kupi sezo muchiwomera nemari yenyu kuti mimboendesana kuma lodge munoudzirana ikoko kusina vana. Panenge akuwanira ipapo ngachitsve. Sei musinakufona murimi kana manga munedambudziko ? Imika mafaro anopera aya musanyengerwa nenyika batanai nemukadzi wenyu. Iye mukadzi wacho kutochemawo achiwhira bendzi tsitsi dzekuti rachema iro richi actor zwaro

    • @nyaraylshonhiwa5521
      @nyaraylshonhiwa5521 Рік тому

      Gonyet driver uyu imbavha. Kubhawa hakuna mubhedha wekurarira

    • @nicogouws8856
      @nicogouws8856 Рік тому

      murume uyu wekuchema imboko iyo chokwadi marwdziro anoita kushanda mujoni zvinotoda kubetserana coz munhu wese anenge akatoneta ende ihure futi pamusoro pazvo

  • @mariatanya3533
    @mariatanya3533 Рік тому +6

    Tete Tilder hapana chinoshamisira pakuchema kwemurume, men are human with emotions too. It wasnt very fair kubva maisa mainini pa corner just because murume achema. Crying does not mean he was right, in fact most men who cry like that are manipulators. Mainini vataurawo zvaanotadza wani. Your take was very disappointing tete na doc.
    Also mabva mati tsvee nyaya yekuti akadanana ne cousin yemukadzi just because he cried 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @brownsugar2142
      @brownsugar2142 3 місяці тому

      They really should call this show and Domestic Issues the "Wife-Bashing Shows" ndaba that's where men take their wives to be beaten to avoid getting in trouble with the law by doing the beating their own wives themselves - that's the standard the panel has set sadly, so the bias shouldn't be surprising bless.

  • @joeycharm77
    @joeycharm77 Рік тому

    30min so @choga .. ko mdhara makukurudzira kubonyora futi ..

  • @librajames7609
    @librajames7609 Рік тому +2

    Kkkkk amainn Skin tighrts ansf jeans no pakurara pliz.

  • @lingiwemhlanga1018
    @lingiwemhlanga1018 Рік тому +3

    First caller your husband is gay, cherechedza zvakanyanya mafambiro ake nemafriends ake uchazondiudza.

  • @tariromelodysahondo743
    @tariromelodysahondo743 Рік тому +2

    Chokwadi Tete na sekuru kunzwa tsitsi ne crocodile tears .
    I know exactly what that lady feels . Mboko dzevarume Ava vadingade kubuditsa Mari kunyepera kudzungaira nekutsvaga tuma mistakes pasina.
    There is nowhere I will respect a guy asinga chengete mhuri ,ndokubikira ,ndokuwachira
    Sis mhani .In a foreign land mabasa ndekubatsirana

  • @WildBird2004
    @WildBird2004 Рік тому +1

    Aaah shame Bamunini is dramatic though Mainini vachiita kakunetsa.

  • @highlyfavoured3349
    @highlyfavoured3349 Рік тому +2

    The suggestion to use toys/gadgets cancels out the good advice you have been giving. Now people will seek a seemingly easy solution which will sink them deeper into problems. Masturbation has serious spiritual consequences. Please I urge you to reconsider this advice. Zvabvepiko izvi

    • @mariatanya3533
      @mariatanya3533 Рік тому

      Not everyone is spiritual like you. Get real

    • @ChuckTheMack
      @ChuckTheMack Рік тому

      I quite like Choga’s advice actually, he needs to be more explorative in his approach like that, spicing things up like that, there is quite a lot to learn from this man. Such wisdom

  • @gilbertdzuda7447
    @gilbertdzuda7447 Рік тому

    Live from Lagos Nigeria

  • @heartmoyo
    @heartmoyo Рік тому

    Kkkkkkkkkk tete Oros moziva kushata kwaro here

  • @librajames7609
    @librajames7609 Рік тому +2

    Murume uyu akaita madhiri naambuya aasingadi kuti mukadzi azive nekuti ambuy vanogona kuzozaruka vozoataura

  • @silindiwetshumasilindiwe7811

    Murume wenyu kudanana nemu SouthAfrican yooooo this is bad.Awoneyi kunemu SouthAfrican uyu ummmm zvakaoma.

  • @priscillandoro468
    @priscillandoro468 Рік тому +1

    Bbmunini namainini avo vekuchema vane imba here neky kupedza nguva vachiita hasha dzisina basa bbmunini muchenjere kuzoyeuka bako joni yapera yapera iyi Bbmunini nari yemukadzi haiverengwi kani verengai henyu chete munogara muchirira nekuda kuita plus mari yemukadzi Mainini ziva maduty entu kana muchida imba yenyu ufunge kwete kuva nemutemo paimba yemujati pliz uye imba mukadzi kuenda kubasa hazvirevi ky hamuchaita basa mubedroom.

  • @gretamadake2702
    @gretamadake2702 Рік тому +1

    Bamnin vekuchema avo vane ma..comedy manje

  • @silindiwetshumasilindiwe7811
    @silindiwetshumasilindiwe7811 Рік тому +2

    Shame 🙄 kusungwa ne key 🔐 nemahure eish this is sad.Ko varume why why

  • @marevaseizimunya
    @marevaseizimunya Рік тому +4

    Doc Choga mokuridzira mastabiution. I thought your a Christian. I think murume uyu ane spiritual wife. Am 💯 persant sue kuti this lake of affection its a demonic attack. So kuudza Mainini ava kuti wa mastabiut futi nderimwe demon iroro. Because wanopedzisira wawa addicted wotoperawo ma feelings nevarume

    • @ndasukwaneropa
      @ndasukwaneropa Рік тому +1

      So so shocking. Masturbation is a sin and addictive. Ndarwadziwa

    • @ChuckTheMack
      @ChuckTheMack Рік тому +3

      Yet you are making assumptions that everyone who listens to this show is religious. Havasi vese vanouya pano vanonamata because haisi church ⛪️, it’s a show which is accessed by anyone with access to the internet, including those who believe in paganism.

    • @ndasukwaneropa
      @ndasukwaneropa Рік тому

      @@ChuckTheMack so you don't want religious people to be shocked by such a suggestion from their fellow religious Doc?

    • @ChuckTheMack
      @ChuckTheMack Рік тому +3

      @@ndasukwaneropa But he is a therapist, not a prophet, or a pastor. The pastors are Motowashe and Nyamakao, yes it may be shocking if they give such a suggestion, but they don’t teach religion to be a therapist, so Choga has to be neutral.

  • @anglechipfakacha
    @anglechipfakacha Рік тому

    Mainini Ava vekuti Mai Vano zvikerepi uye vari kuuya kupi ,haadi amwene uyu pa fair chaipo ,iye mainini Ari wrong hauudze muridzi wemwana Kuti hapana zvemurume it's better ndigare ndega ,wotarisira Kuti Mai vemunhu vakutii ,on top of that vokuti sorry wo ignore that sorry that's rude

  • @janebanda8365
    @janebanda8365 Рік тому +2

    Good mornings 😘

  • @kudzaimoyo5884
    @kudzaimoyo5884 Рік тому +2

    Zvesure tete nadoc maizviramba kuti mushonga iriko ndinotenda nekuzviona shuwa mwari ngavarambe vachikuwedzerai mashoko ekuvakiridza dzimba dzedu tinokutendai

    • @nyashajay85
      @nyashajay85 Рік тому

      Pamwe pacho unenge usaty wasangana nazvo mukurarama saka unotoramba kuty hazviko

  • @silindiwetshumasilindiwe7811
    @silindiwetshumasilindiwe7811 Рік тому +1

    Ihure iro benzi rakasungwa or else anorara nezvidhoma mxxxm

  • @tasaz8895
    @tasaz8895 Рік тому +1

    Baba vekuchema avo is still in love and the wife isn’t in love anymore. I sense a woman who earns more than hubby and believes she can dominate and call the shots.

    • @mariatanya3533
      @mariatanya3533 Рік тому +4

      If he is still in love why asina kuroora plus why did he stop giving her money? Crying doesnt mean anything

  • @grendamugadza4274
    @grendamugadza4274 Рік тому +1

    Zvamuomera murume uyu

  • @nancyncube2656
    @nancyncube2656 Рік тому

    Sekuru avo vanobatsira muzukuru anemhuri yake. Sekuru vakaromba vanoshandisa mkomana uyo.

  • @maggiegomo2867
    @maggiegomo2867 Рік тому

    Thnx Tete na doc

  • @grendamugadza4274
    @grendamugadza4274 Рік тому +2

    Uuuumm ukaona munhu wemurume achichema zvamuomera shuwa musadaro askana

  • @kudakwashekanyondo
    @kudakwashekanyondo Рік тому

    Ma Equal rights ndo akunyanya kukanganisa mamariages evanhu kunyanya kna mdzimai achienda kbsa yoo

  • @nancyncube2656
    @nancyncube2656 Рік тому +2

    Mainini va truck driver kana muri addicted kubonde chirambai mwana wevardzi nekuroeya Kwake. Sei musingaende kumasowe munobviswa jambwa vemasowe ndizvo zvavanokwanisa zvemaproblems echihure nezwekuroana. Zwekare mukaita boyfriend muchazobviswa mazino nechikomba mochizopfunga uyo musungwa wenyu kuti aive ryt. Bonde rine aids mainini..Dai mandiudza kuti muripi ndogara hangu nemurume wenyu akasungwa aslong tichizondzi a couple asi pasina bonde. No sex no aids muneraki mainini

    • @celianchitembo4924
      @celianchitembo4924 Рік тому

      Haaa mafungiro hwai akadai???chii chnonzi couple nhai Nancy??asi urikutsvaga mrume here??

    • @nancyncube2656
      @nancyncube2656 Рік тому +1

      @@celianchitembo4924 chokwadi ndirikumutsvaka asi ndoda akasungwa asingadi bonde nokuti neniwo andiride.Asi andina kusungwa nokuti ndakazwara ndakadaro.. no shungu

    • @annagora4305
      @annagora4305 Рік тому

      Saka marriage iripapi manje apa usadaro

    • @nancyncube2656
      @nancyncube2656 Рік тому

      @@annagora4305 imimi musingazvizibe munenge muchiti a couple. Asi ndinovhumirana naye ndo saka ndisina wangu permanently

    • @celianchitembo4924
      @celianchitembo4924 Рік тому

      Shame sorry hako,iwewe utoriwo nedambudziko riri permanent hauzodaro kune vanotsvaga kubatsirwa,Mwari haasi benzi asika munhu with a purpose, So l suggest you seek help first yekuzvibatsira iwe,kwete pointing kuvanwe zvejambwa,Marriage ine maprinciples akatarwa naMwari,saka iwe unofunga kuroorerwa zita chete,hazvibude dia to a functional man

  • @anywaychikwanda4315
    @anywaychikwanda4315 Рік тому

    My brother ava emotional am sorry bro your wife is arrogant and vane pride zvavo our they don’t acknowledge the sacrifices we made to their lives

  • @tmaktmak1464
    @tmaktmak1464 Рік тому

    Choga chimdara chema gadget 😅

  • @nancyncube2656
    @nancyncube2656 Рік тому +4

    No ini ndinopokana na Doc kana vachiti mrs truck driver ngavatenge zwinhu zwekuzwita bonde it's a No that's masterbution it is a sin. Kana vachirumwa ngavasiye murume uyo vanoita madiro e SEX