Man Buys "Wite Out" to Cover Blood After Killing "Excess Lover" | Jessica O'Grady Case Analysis
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
- This video answers the question: Can I analyze case of Jessica O’Grady?
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I’ve been single for years after dating 2 psychopaths.Sometimes it’s better to be alone
I agree. No one will care about you more than you. 😊
It's better to be alone than in bad company Said George Washington
You’re obviously completely lacking in ability to use logic then (like most women) and choose to go for the biggest, most violent and troublesome assh0le possible instead of actually looking for a good man
Agree
Seriously there’s no shortage of selfish narcissistic opportunists out there.
“No amount of correction fluid was going to prevent him from being in a correctional facility.”
You’re too funny! 😂
Correction fluid and poster paint? He deserves extra prison time for thinking that would work. 🤦🏻♀ Congratulations on your show - I can’t wait to watch it! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Still MIND BLOWN he turned down manslaughter‼ What a moron. I can't believe that was even on the table despite all the evidence!😐🤦🏻♂️
That’s what made me click…like really he thought Wite Out would save him??
Agreed!!! 😩😩😩
Another 2 years of prison time for telling the police there is no need to look at the mattress.
Don’t forget the shoe polish. Smh. He thought shoe polish would cover blood stains and flipping over a fully saturated bloody mattress would work.
😐
“He was in more of a homicidal mood”. Your dark humor never fails to make me laugh.
I see a lot of myself at 19 in Jessica. As I had more life experiences, I matured and figured out my self worth. Jessica never got the chance to do that. I’m glad my horrendous taste in men at 19 didn’t lead to my untimely death but it certainly could have.
Same here. It's scary to look back on 😢
@@lisanelke9726it's called trauma bond, it happens in adults with dysfunctional, alcoholic, emotionally unavailable parents and problematic families/care givers. Neglect or abuse in childhood or being alienated from one of the parents plays a big part in having later on problems as adults in romantic, work, friends or family relationships.
I don't know how you find the time to do all the research necessary to post as many interesting videos as you do, and now you've got a TV show, too? That's impressive. Congratulations!
He is not alone. He runs an enterprise.
They just look up articles and repeat that information.
@@lizb4156 Your wrong miss, I watch a ton of true crime… His analysis, especially at the end are very original and thoughtful.
He saves a lot of time by eating those pre-packaged meals he shills 😂
@@aarondavis8943 There you go!
I’m struck by the cruelty of someone who doesn’t share romantic feelings but continues to see that individual. Most people aren’t so extreme as to murder someone who has outlived their usefulness, but they are not to be trusted
Been there as the dater of someone like that. It totally sux
About 9 months later, he wanted to see me again.
A friend of mine told me if I went out with him again, she would have me committed. She said that he changed me and not for the better.
She was serious. She knows my mental health is very poor at times...well it used to be.
Thanks to depression treatment I'm better.
What a great friend.
That tactic is in a hell of a lot of younger men’s playbooks, particularly ones who grew up online, sex addicts, PUA acolytes, etc. This country isn’t getting any better for women & girls; if anything, many males resent & want to destroy any real success and happiness women have. Massive amounts of pornography are now kids’ de facto sex ed and that’s just the tip of the damn iceberg for a crisis that’s getting worse (dealing with the normalization of misogyny esp. among boys/men with too much exposure to misogynistic online content, which is epidemic at this point).
This guy clearly has screws loose in his head. He thinks he can avoid doing 80 years to life in prison. He thinks he is going to talk his way out of it.
Tbh it seems like she was just dtf
A lot of long term married people that get along well and love each other don't have romantic feelings even. I don't have romantic feelings for my boyfriend, I like him as a friend.
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about what could be happening when Roku is conquered like this.
Dr. Grande You forgot to mention even after the verdict He still hid the body and refuses to tell about where he put the body even if it meant a lighter sentence. He's a cruel selfish person who murdered someone then buried them like pirate treasure! The way you're talking about the victim does seem a little harsh but not a justification for murder and a trip to the twilight zone.
Just googled it he's been in prison for the last 17 years. If he didn't break he was not put into GP.
We’re going to Roku!
@@Geshtar82 the 'victim' was not 'innocent' sex is not free from consequences.. but yeah, she did not deserve death for being shortsighted
@@justnoted2995 Are you saying people who have sex should be punished?
CONGRATULATIONS, Dr. Grande!
Now I actually have to turn on the TV to watch your shows! I can’t wait!
I'm a retired nurse of nearly 40 years, I'm still surprised by the depravity some humans stoop to, so glad this nutter will be behind locked doors. Would love to watch your up coming shows Dr Grande, just not sure how I would go about it living in the UK.
I remember that his father counseled him to not take a plea deal. He thought his son was not guilty. Good grief
wow, I was going to ask if this piece of work had parents (particularly a father). I was wondering why his parents did not force him to tell police where the body was. This family is a bunch of narcissists. So gross. Zero integrity and zero responsibility.
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree 😶
The good news is the father will always know where his son is located, if he has to ask him a question.
@@shitmandood 😄
I know how important it is to the families to get their loved one's remains back, but it's far, far more important that people like this never return to society. These deals should not be on offer in the first place. Preventing psychopaths from committing horrific murders comes first.
A room in the basement where her killer lived with his aunt should’ve given Jessica a red flag about this Chris guy 😡
Just what I was thinking
I don't think that's a red flag, I've known wonderful people who because of circumstances, ended up having to live somewhere like that--a friend of mine was suddenly laid off, unable to pay rent, and needed to move back in with a relative for a while until they found a job and eventually got another place. Sometimes, people just have bad luck, and sometimes, people live in places where it's more cost efficient to stay with someone else because the cost of living is so high.
So I ALWAYS take a nap in the trunk of my car when my bed is messy .... Where else are you supposed to go?!
I also enjoy a bit of gardening, myself, before secretly starting a new life after being mistakenly stabbed.😂
Congratulations on your new show.
My brother-in-law is a family therapist and I told him about your channel.
You do a great job.
Dr Grande is no longer UA-cam best kept channel . Now is time for the big leagues. Congratulations. Cheers !
Can you imagine? Being a young woman, giving your self to someone who doesn't even deserve a second look..then getting pregnant with his child while he's two timing you..then he literally throws your LIFE away like a piece of trash😔 i don't think anyone deserves this
Rest in peace, Jessica.💖
This case perfectly illustrates how stupid women are when it comes to choosing a partner, many women go out their way to select the biggest, most violent and repugnant POS possible to spend their lives with… decent men are routinely ignored and derided by women like her… she got exactly what she deserved in my opinion 😮
Didn't she know it?
What makes you think she was such a Peach?
@@clarencegboddicker8144well one thing is for sure, you aren’t worth a second look given your attitude.
America the beautiful.
As an avid viewer of your videos on UA-cam and have not missed a single show, I thank you for your hard work, and congratulation 🎉 on your new channel!
Congratulations on your show!
I hope that her body will be found and she be laid to rest and her family can have some measure of closure. RIP
He was cruel & stupid. Sad for poor Jessica she couldn't see thru him, her life ended so terribly. Congrats on your new show!! Great to have the link🥂✨️🎈🎉Thanks Dr G😊🤍🤍
I not only found this analysis to be informative, but also downright hilarious - your description of Chris 1's possible explanation of the blood all over his room was masterful comic relief, which is so refreshing in the midst of the murder, mayhem, mischief, and monkeyshines.
There's so awesome that you have your own show! You deserve it keep it up
15000 views in 4 hours, television show. You've arrived and JUST in time. Even with the horrible topics your videos are always sound, informative and enjoyable. Congratulations, glad to see that your hard work is paying off!!
Unbelievable that we live day by day next to people that are so mentally damaged. The attitude to relationships and instant sexual gratification diminishes relationships. God knows how one can tell who one is involved with. It seems so frequent that people will engage in the ultimate crime to take another life - terrifying
Look at Murdough, Watts & Todt. they seemed perfectly normal. Married, successful, seemingly sane. Surely their wife's didn't think they would be killed by them.
How can people tell with a practical stranger, whether they're safe to date?
Good evening Dr Grande, excellent analysis. Jessica reminds me of the 70s song "Looking for love in all the wrong places". Very sad what happened to her.
As always I learn something new from your videos.
Congratulations 🎊 on your new TV show. Break a leg!
I don’t understand why they have to kill the partner if they don’t want to be with them. Just leave, especially if there are red flags. There’s always red flags in every toxic relationship!
Jessica tried to trap him by saying she was pregnant, and maybe she was. 😢
He didn't have the integrity not to see her and she didn't have enough self respect to not drive over to see him for a booty call in the middle of the night.
@@mangafq8 Booty calls are totally called for at night with the father of your child and possible future husband.
It never justifies murder, but some rejected partners will simply not leave. We don't know fully what kind of a woman Jessica was, but some ex's become dangerous stalkers, some key your car and break its windows, some spread lies and slander about you, some make false allegations to the police, some expose your affair to their wife/other girlfriend, and some will refuse an abortion and demand child support. A man may feel he has no option.
This one didn't even need alcohol or drugs - just selfishness and impulsivity!
Congrats on the show, Dr. Grande! 🌵
A TV show ??! Next we need a record deal ! Grande on the beat !
✨If I remember correctly, I believe he tried to explain the blood by saying it was from her "menstrual period". Yeah, SOOO dumb it pains me to have to type that. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family ❤️
I slept in a bed covered in dried period blood from the previous person that had my room in a hostel and it looked just like that mattress. She was a friend of mine she must've not been prepared for it every month. I complained about the mattress and they said to swap it for my previous one.
@@lizb4156 Wtf? You slept on a mattress where the previous evening your friend had been murdered by her period? 🫶🩷💗💓💕😆
These videos are what are the real life-lesson stories
With all his appeals spent, I’m so disgusted that this creep won’t finally reveal the location of Jessica’s body for the sake of her family. For that, he deserves to stay locked away forever.
Reminds me a bit of the Roseann Quinn story from the 70s made famous in the book and movie 'Looking For Mr. Goodbar'. It would be interesting to hear your take on that case. And, congrats on the new show!
The original title was "Closing Time" it was kind of a low key book but well done. I actually read it more than once.
I remembered her being stabbed to death
I was JUST about to comment the same thing.
I’m super excited to see what kind of speculations could be happening in a show for Dr Grande!
Congratulations on your show! You’re amazing!
Dr. Grande, congrats on your new TV show. It’s amazing to watch your success grow and expand even further. I’m definitely checking it out. It shall subside my withdrawals from Bella Grande channel 😁. Although I feel reluctant to expect any more work from you as you already work so hard to provide us with great content every single day of the week. You are greatly appreciated. Please don’t forget to take care of yourself. ❤
P.s. I’ve never heard about this case. It’s always sad to see a young woman become a murder victim due to poor romantic life decisions. Glad this perp is locked up for life!
Dr Grande, you are such a wonderful human being and truly love watching your videos. Aside from the amount of knowledge, critical thinking, common sense, wisdom, insight, and relatability you possess, the way you format and script your episodes are set in a way to teach others very well. I am proud of you for accomplishing such a big audience on here and now a T.V. show?!? You do a wonderful job and truly are one of my favorite shows to watch on UA-cam. I was going to say in a prior video that you would do GREAT as a host to a specific kind of show and could reach a lot more people. I'm sure you'll continue to have a long, successful career in this. Thank you for being here and giving teachable moments in all of your shows. I am certain your opinions and lessons to each story has helped so many out here and helped alot of people to look out for certain things in others to protect themselves. You're so personable and cute. If ever you have a meet n greet or book signings etc, I'll be the first in line.
Congratulations!!! I have my masters in social work and you’re such an inspiration to me!!
Congratulations on your new TV show, Dr. Grande 👏 Your scenario based on Chris's claim of innocence was hysterical!! Unreal that he would even consider using Wite Out to cover up the blood!
CONGRATULATIONS DE GRANDE !!! You’re own show , you deserve it .
I'm from Omaha and I remember that one of the excuses Chris used was " Jessica was on her period".
Our favorite doctor/professor now encourages us to watch TV! Wow! 😂 Congratulations on your continued success, Dr. G! XOXO! 😘
It always baffles me how someone can decide to kill someone instead of leaving them and spending the rest of their life in jail..
Heartbreaking story. RIP Jessica.
4/16/23 Did Chris really think no body, no crime? They can tell by amount of blood 🩸 loss she is no longer alive! Justice for Jessica 🌹rip
Yeah that went out the window like 30yrs ago... 🙄
The nitwit was a failure living in a basement, not surprised his logic was so incredibly flawed
Congratulations Dr Grande on your new TV Show! 🎉
Dr. Grande, I love your videos and straight-faced wit. I'm impressed by your alliteration and puns. But today, your jump to Chris's grammatical error fixed by correctional fluid to avoid a correctional facility, took me to another level. I've said it before, but, spot-on genius!
Congrats on your new show 🎉🎉🎉 I've been telling everyone this was going to happen ❤❤❤
I know this isn't funny, but I couldn't help but burst out laughing when I saw the Wite Out specks all over the ceiling! And did he think the cops wouldn't see the big, bloody mess on the bottom of the mattress?! 😆
Congrats Todd! You deserve your own show! Love ya😃🌼😃
Congrats on your new show!! Well deserved!
Boy, this guy was a real Genius......
Congratulations on your new show! Can’t wait to see it!
Congrats on the show. Been following you since 2018 during my senior year of high school in intro to psychology
Congratulations on the TV show!! Watching your channel explode from the start is something else!
CONGRATS ON THE TV SHOW!! love your channel
success well deserved.. you have provided so much great content Dr. Grande.. ill never miss an episode
I am constantly amazed that so many women conflate sex and love. Just because a man enjoys having sex with you doesn't mean that he loves you, or wants a relationship with you, or wants to marry you.
Jessica seemed to have Borderline traits. She was so enthralled by relationships that nothing else seemed to ultimately matter, including her long term goals. I am so glad this slug didn't take the plea deal. Nobody this dangerous should be walking the streets. Thank you for another great analysis, and a huge congratulations on your TV show!
She probably had very low self esteem and she just wanted someone to love her and thought that by having s3x with the guy and giving him what he wanted, he would give her what she wanted.
@@banana9106 Yep. So unfortunate. People really can’t afford to have low self-esteem these days. It’s life-threatening.
No evidence of Borderline PD in her behavior as discussed here.
I think she just wanted to have sex. I've been with women like her they just want one thing and that's it.
Jessica made unwise choices, but didn't deserve to die😢...congrats to new show doc!🎉
Congratulations on your new show, Dr. Grande! I am so happy for you and supper excited to begin watching all the episodes! This is really lovely, I wish you all the best with the new show!💖💖💖
Congratulations on your new TV show! 🍾
Sometimes Dr Grande's remarks make me crack up, especially with his serious expression! Will definitely watch the show and congratulations!
Being alone is hard. It can make you lose your good judgement.
What an evil young man to care nothing about the girl’s life!!!
Love used to be kind, and patient.
Today, love is demonic.
I don't think any feeling of what could be called "real" love ever entered into it for either of them. I feel very sorry for her. Clearly she was deeply lonely, and wrongly believed that marriage, even a coerced one, was somehow a ticket to a better life, without first getting her life in order. It's very sad to see young women with everything to live for who think their life is nothing without marriage and a baby before their twenty-first birthday. They don't seem to be taught that it will happen when they are ready for it, and to work on improving themselves and enjoying life in the meantime. Maybe were they to take this approach, marriage would last their lifetime when it did happen. I've known lots of women who didn't marry until their thirties because they wouldn't settle for less, and who have stayed happily married. As for him, at a minimum he's a conceited, selfish and inept dirtbag who deserves every second of his sentence. Unbelievable that he refused the plea offer. Another commenter said that was his father's doing, which, if true, would clearly indicate the quality of the cloth from which the son is cut, and might make the son worthy of a little, but only a little, pity. His father's false pride ensured he would get the maximum sentences for his crimes.
There was love only on her part. No love on his part.
@@LKre-vi5oq She was trying to coerce him into marriage with the, "You got me pregnant!" line. That shrieks of love in your mind? Incidentally, this in no way excuses him. It does show how deluded and perhaps mentally ill she was, and he knowingly took advantage of her vulnerability. But absolutely nothing speaks of love on her part, unless she was in love with the idea of being a single mother on social assistance.
@@Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry girl, u are so on point!
Tractor trailers are always getting jammed down tiny dirt roads with no way of turning around nor backing back out. I like the old way of up to date paper maps.
Okay.. there is no such thing as free sex; it has built in consequences. Both Jessica and Chris did not understand the inherent consequences of having sex just for lust. Generally, hormones must be reigned in to make the best of them over time.
✨Good point, my friend 😉
Congratulations! Dark personalities should be taught in Highschool!
Just stop breeding the human race altogether, it's not worth it.
It seems to be taught somewhere. This case, the “hazing” case in Georgia (where I don’t believe anyone has been charged yet), and so many more. Sad.
@@nmartin5551 missing my point! There's a lot of evil people in the world and a lot of people that don't understand that.
A-GREE! But our new "woke world" probably wouldn't allow it🙄
@@kellykane7586 because it would expose them.
Congratulations on the new show!
Congrats on your Roku show! So happy for you! Now even more viewers will see your insightful analysis in action! Great job as always, Dr. Grande!
Congratulations on the TV Show!
Great time to have a Roku TV
Poor Jessica. R.I.P dear girl.
Oh cool, congrats on the new show! I'll definitely check it out!
You have your own TV show now! It is on 548 on the Roku channel, I will keep that in mind. I checked that link posted and there is someone speaking live....I am not sure what is going on there.
I lived in Omaha, Nebraska for about two years and remember this case from Forensic Files (because of the sword part and the part that he was prosecuted without a body being found). Her death date was also on May 10th, which is my high school graduation day (eight years prior).
It is rare today that anyone is killed with a sword.
That short on narcissism and being the victim is very helpful and really helps to understand the thought process for why narcissists react in those ways.
Very happy that all your hard work is paying off, Doctor.
"She wanted to have sex, but he was in more of a homicidal mood." 🤣🤣🤣Dr. Grande you're SO funny. And the correction fluid double entendre had me in stitches too. That scrawny little dude is a borderline incel, I have a daughter like Jessica, my daughter also has sex far too early in the game. With scary azz losers too. I keep her close. TY Dr. Grande.
Congratulations on your new show, Dr. G! That’s wonderful news.⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Congratulations on the new show Dr. Grande!! 🎉🎉🎉👏🏻👏🏻
Ironically the inventor of “liquid paper” or “wite-out” was Mike Nesmith of the Monkees mom who did very well from this invention.
Congratulations Dr Grande🎊 I can't wait to watch! I hope I can see it in Australia 🐨
Can't see it from Canada. Good luck. I'm guessing we need a VPN.
Dear Dr. Grande, CONGRATULATIONS on your TV show! Way to go 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
A new TV show? Good for you Dr. Grande!
Congratulations Dr. Grande, I will watch it, I've been a member of Roku for some time now.
Congrats on the new show! Anyway to watch it on demand? It looks like it’s airing in the early morning. Love your content but I’m not waking up at 3am for it 😅
I love your sense of humor.
Congratulations Dr Grande, I’m so happy for your success!
Let this be a lesson to you girls. Never sell yourself short for some loser basement troll. You deserve better!
Oh my gosh I'm so excited about your show!!!!
Formerly Gillis?
Congrats on your new roku show!
Congratulations! Can’t wait to watch your new show
Congrats on the show Dr Grande!
Congrats on your new show, Doc. I'll be watching.
Dr. Grande is becoming a legend and I'm here for it. Congratulations on your new television show 👏🏾. 😊
Congratulations on your new show Dr. Grande, that’s huge! I was going to bed early, but now I have to check out this cool new show I just heard about….
DR GRANDE!! Congratz on your tv show! You deserve it man, you are one entertaining guy who as always is not diagnosing anybody and is only speculating on a case *like* this
congratulations on your show Dr. Grande!!!!!!
I'm so happy and waiting on your show all the way from Kenya..💕👊
You got your own show, FINALLY!!!!! I'm soooooo proud of you!! You have come a long way and there's no stoping you now, skies the limit!
Those who even consider to badly hurt and even kill another person and even an animal are people with serious mental issues. Nobody will be in that frame of mind simply because they wish to break a relationship or else. A lot of sick people in this planet, evil actually. Beware who you trust and also who you choose to love.
Congratulations Dr G for the gig