I am married to a Congolese for 26 years now. Have 2boys 24 and 23 years. I have been to DRC many times. His sister visited me also many times. Some stayed with me before they moved t France. My in-laws are kind and loving. I love the food. But they now have our type of food because of business that are established in DRC that are from SA. Super market and wholesalers. So last time when I visited,I cooked dumbling and means for them. They loved it.😜
We love south African ladies are the most beautiful in africa but sometimes they need to know once you are in love with a kongo guys try try hard to commit into our tradition and customs once you succeed it you will be a perfect woman.
I love this 😊 i don't know but S.A woman who are dating "Foreigners" we need a group were its just us we can talk and laugh , because the community judge us on a daily basis. I love your content sis as a Congolese wife i feel like i know you ladies personally😂😁
As a Congolese born and raised in Eswatini but living in South Africa, I personally prefer women from Southern Africa specifically Swazi, Botswana, Lesotho and of course South African women are gorgeous, independent and my mom loves them and encourages me to date y'all even my grandparents who are in Botswana.
@@SerameAndBeyond I've met a lot of them, like there seems to be a trend amongst them so I've observed a lot. My mom is Congolese, but they never considered her to be one because her mentality is different since she moved to Southern Africa since the late 80s
Hello lovely, came across your video. Thanks for sharing. I've dated a Nigerian and Ghanaian and both broke my heart so much so that I said I would never date any African man again lol. I've heard good things about congo men and wondered if the African experience would have been a happy one had it been a Congolese man. Who knows, but as for West African men the adoration I had for the West African men is no more
I think the language you meant sounds like Sotho is Lozi spoken in Zambia, Namibia and Zimbabwe I believe. If you are interested in learning more about them I reccomend watching Magriza made me cook on youtube.
@@SerameAndBeyond what is her socials? Would love to followe her. My congolese brother should hurry up and out a ring on this beautidul women. She sounf really nice.
Most people in DR Congo are also scared of South Africa because it's dangerous 🤷♀️, not safe ... it's better to visit a country before making conclusions... The stigma came from differents facts: 1 of them South Africans can move in with boyfriends and freely live with him without being married which is not allowed in our culture,... we're different on some points
The language you are talking about is Khololo - Bakhololo is what Nigerians are. They say they came from Central Africa a place called Kwararafa or Kororofa. The Biafrans especially the Igbo are the same as Lozvi Mbo Kenyan Mbo and Southern African Mambo or Nephu or Napo or Molapo or Mlambo people. They were part of KZN Zulus like Zambian Makholo from Ntabazwe (Harrismith) and were driven out by the Hlongwane (Hlubi) who know call themselves Batswana, who drove them from Ntabazwe to Central Africa. There is a Central African Republic story similar to the Nigerian story about Muslim slavers on horses and their bantu helpers (probably Swahili) who chased them all the way to Nigeria. Most Nigerians say I look Jukun because I am a Zwane who are actually Mambo (Mkhize) and Ngwe/Ibgwe (rulers of Igbo/eMbu) and also called Msane or Msani or Swane or Swani which is the same as Esan and Jukun. Jukun in South Africa is called Zungeni or Mazibuko or Sibanyoni or Zebulon and Thembu or Phuthi/Maphuthing or Phuthini. I always disappoint Nigerian people because they are 100% sure I am Nigerian but no, I am Swati-Pedi (Tswana) and Zulu from the Royal Family who are also Swati-Pedi from uSuthu river in Mpumalanga-Swaziland and we are called Mbadzeni or Indlu kaMpande iSithuli sikaNdaba.
I'm Congolese living in SA I believe south African ladies are nice but only problem is they lean too much in everything that is perceived as immorality in the rest of Africa. The things that are immoral in africa are the things they love the most like wearing to expose ur body. Drinking too much alcohol, clubbing, having tooany male friends having opinions being vocal when u in a group full of men etc. And they can spend days and years trying to convince their foreign men that there nothing wrong with all that. Decorating their bodies with tattoos, language like I don't care I don't give a damn I don't live for ppl etc basically they don't care about what the society think of them their care about what making them happy unfortunately life is not like that they are certain bad behaviors that need to be hidden so it far away from elders or stop it when u have a man who loves u. But a South Africanady will fight to to convince u that there is nothing wrong with her smoking weed, drinking too much and clubbing too much. Unfortunately those are the things blacken are already suffering with in America and SA girls want African men to suffer with those issues again. Here in africa
Don't make me laugh as if in Congo we don't have women who cohabit, smoke and drink. I know several Congolese girls who sleep around. This is not a South African thing, it's an African problem, the problem with Congolese people is that we tend to be judgemental and hypocritic, there's many Congolese women who have kids with different men. The part of South African women having opinions is not a bad thing, it's a matter of preference some people like me like strong independent women. The tattoo part is also a choice find a girl who fits your criteria instead of generalising.
I don't know any female who smoke in my neighborhood unless she was a prostitute. So please I know Congo very well any women who engage in those this she is a prostitute and again not all Congolese women are good. Iam not married to them either. But the women drinking in SA its a hobby in Congo its very special case and majority who smoke n drink in Congo must be ba tchell prostitutes not normal girls
A Congolese woman will not be 40 or 45 and still wanna go clubbing I ce in SA I was 24 but I didn't know how alcohol tastes like. Congo compare to SA the morality gape is huge. We don't hv so many women who can't stay home on weekends jst wanna go get drunk we don't hv so many of those kinds and if ever there is they must be in prostitution
@@atrouvasolutshilombo3360 so my granny drinks she's a prostitute, my aunt drinks she's also a prostitute. Congolese girls also have a lot of nonsense, they are just good at hiding their bad behaviour.
And also growing up from Limpopo we where seeing women from Joburg as loose and stealing people husbands because men will leave their wives at home and stay in Joburg with another family.
Talk for you dear. If u had a bad one that is your experience. I am a congolese women and i know a lot of Congolese men that are just gems. There are bad and good everywhere
@@africaine4889 hun I apologize if I spoke for the Nation, just like how you said you know gems I do to however I also know the opposite of that which are most of the one I know. I never and could never date alll of them but based on my experience with the community I came to the conclusion that Congolese men that I know!!
@@thethemakhele8450 good cause I was like all guys cheat even in south africa all over the world in america too and also you made us sound like bad people but we are one of the most hospitable and nice people out there all over the world
I am married to a Congolese for 26 years now. Have 2boys 24 and 23 years. I have been to DRC many times. His sister visited me also many times. Some stayed with me before they moved t France. My in-laws are kind and loving. I love the food. But they now have our type of food because of business that are established in DRC that are from SA. Super market and wholesalers. So last time when I visited,I cooked dumbling and means for them. They loved it.😜
That's beautiful...they seem like a great family. May God continue to bless your family. Thank you for watching Evodia
Am from Kenya 🇰🇪and am dating a Congolese man and so far so good. I thank God for him. He is a man and a half. ❤. Thank you DRC people.
Wow
Congolese are bantus too. So there are more things we share in common then differences
I love that ❤ can't wait to visit DRC 🙏🏾 God willing
We love south African ladies are the most beautiful in africa but sometimes they need to know once you are in love with a kongo guys try try hard to commit into our tradition and customs once you succeed it you will be a perfect woman.
As a Congolese who is living in Goma (an eastern town in the DR Congo) I like this episode 😍😍
I love this 😊 i don't know but S.A woman who are dating "Foreigners" we need a group were its just us we can talk and laugh , because the community judge us on a daily basis. I love your content sis as a Congolese wife i feel like i know you ladies personally😂😁
Awwww thanks for your kind words Lomile 🇨🇩 you're too kind 😊
I agree... Please make it happen🤗
Limile maine please 🙏🏽
As a Congolese born and raised in Eswatini but living in South Africa, I personally prefer women from Southern Africa specifically Swazi, Botswana, Lesotho and of course South African women are gorgeous, independent and my mom loves them and encourages me to date y'all even my grandparents who are in Botswana.
Thanks for the compliments 😊
Well you are not raised in congo so you don't know about congolese women
@@SerameAndBeyond I've met a lot of them, like there seems to be a trend amongst them so I've observed a lot. My mom is Congolese, but they never considered her to be one because her mentality is different since she moved to Southern Africa since the late 80s
@@shalbec3232 He is not Congolese.
@@razackchrist5096 no he is of Congolese origin stop delegitimizing his congolite because your of your own paranoia nonsense!
Hello lovely, came across your video. Thanks for sharing. I've dated a Nigerian and Ghanaian and both broke my heart so much so that I said I would never date any African man again lol. I've heard good things about congo men and wondered if the African experience would have been a happy one had it been a Congolese man. Who knows, but as for West African men the adoration I had for the West African men is no more
I think the language you meant sounds like Sotho is Lozi spoken in Zambia, Namibia and Zimbabwe I believe. If you are interested in learning more about them I reccomend watching Magriza made me cook on youtube.
Yesss Lozi language...thank you I will definitely check it out 🤝🏾💃🏿
I am enjoying this series so much!
Awwww thank you Maanda ❤️
Well done guys
Congolese music and dance😩🔥🔥🔥🔥
Love it 🔥
About food I work with south Africans also when they open their lunch boxes it smell bad to me. But as time goes I got used to it
Enjoying the series soooo much 😘😘💃🏾
Thank you so much Taki ❤️❤️❤️
@@SerameAndBeyond what is her socials? Would love to followe her.
My congolese brother should hurry up and out a ring on this beautidul women. She sounf really nice.
@@africaine4889 he should hurry hahaha. You can follow her on Instagram: @summer_s28
😂 The Hummer story was also doing the rounds here in Durban😅
Absolutely amazing!!
Thank you so much Slindile ❤️
South African Ladies KARIBU KWETU AKUNA MATATA 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Love this!!😍😍
Thank you Paula... 💕
Did you just throw me in there hahahahahahaha Can't wait
Oh yes boo ❤ can't wait to have you 😘
I’m also enjoying this series. Beautiful sis. 🥰🤗
Thank you so much sis...❤❤❤
I love to marry a south Africa woman one day 💞💞💕😭
Lovely 😍😍😍
Thank you queen ❤
Most people in DR Congo are also scared of South Africa because it's dangerous 🤷♀️, not safe ... it's better to visit a country before making conclusions...
The stigma came from differents facts: 1 of them South Africans can move in with boyfriends and freely live with him without being married which is not allowed in our culture,... we're different on some points
Thank you for watching and sharing your views
I love you Serame. ❤️
Awwww so sweet... Love you too Kj ♥️
Xhosa are Liars, killed me 😂😂😂
🤭🤣🤣🤭
Problem of most but not all they don't have money and when renewing papers it need money.big disadvantages family asking for money.
The first response in Naija if you're with a Congolese man is
Really? Whooooaaaaa... 😂😂👀
Where did you get that?
The language you are talking about is Khololo - Bakhololo is what Nigerians are. They say they came from Central Africa a place called Kwararafa or Kororofa. The Biafrans especially the Igbo are the same as Lozvi Mbo Kenyan Mbo and Southern African Mambo or Nephu or Napo or Molapo or Mlambo people. They were part of KZN Zulus like Zambian Makholo from Ntabazwe (Harrismith) and were driven out by the Hlongwane (Hlubi) who know call themselves Batswana, who drove them from Ntabazwe to Central Africa.
There is a Central African Republic story similar to the Nigerian story about Muslim slavers on horses and their bantu helpers (probably Swahili) who chased them all the way to Nigeria. Most Nigerians say I look Jukun because I am a Zwane who are actually Mambo (Mkhize) and Ngwe/Ibgwe (rulers of Igbo/eMbu) and also called Msane or Msani or Swane or Swani which is the same as Esan and Jukun. Jukun in South Africa is called Zungeni or Mazibuko or Sibanyoni or Zebulon and Thembu or Phuthi/Maphuthing or Phuthini.
I always disappoint Nigerian people because they are 100% sure I am Nigerian but no, I am Swati-Pedi (Tswana) and Zulu from the Royal Family who are also Swati-Pedi from uSuthu river in Mpumalanga-Swaziland and we are called Mbadzeni or Indlu kaMpande iSithuli sikaNdaba.
Interesting info, thanks for sharing brother.
Bakhololo sounds like Vhakololo in venda, which we refer to the royal people of Venda.
Congolese we are nice 👍 and we don’t care about wr u come from 🇨🇩🇨🇩🇨🇩
🤝🏾🤝🏾🤝🏾
Lekwerekwere is not a derogatory term.
I'm Congolese living in SA I believe south African ladies are nice but only problem is they lean too much in everything that is perceived as immorality in the rest of Africa. The things that are immoral in africa are the things they love the most like wearing to expose ur body. Drinking too much alcohol, clubbing, having tooany male friends having opinions being vocal when u in a group full of men etc. And they can spend days and years trying to convince their foreign men that there nothing wrong with all that. Decorating their bodies with tattoos, language like I don't care I don't give a damn I don't live for ppl etc basically they don't care about what the society think of them their care about what making them happy unfortunately life is not like that they are certain bad behaviors that need to be hidden so it far away from elders or stop it when u have a man who loves u. But a South Africanady will fight to to convince u that there is nothing wrong with her smoking weed, drinking too much and clubbing too much. Unfortunately those are the things blacken are already suffering with in America and SA girls want African men to suffer with those issues again. Here in africa
Don't make me laugh as if in Congo we don't have women who cohabit, smoke and drink. I know several Congolese girls who sleep around. This is not a South African thing, it's an African problem, the problem with Congolese people is that we tend to be judgemental and hypocritic, there's many Congolese women who have kids with different men. The part of South African women having opinions is not a bad thing, it's a matter of preference some people like me like strong independent women. The tattoo part is also a choice find a girl who fits your criteria instead of generalising.
Prostitutes yes
I don't know any female who smoke in my neighborhood unless she was a prostitute. So please I know Congo very well any women who engage in those this she is a prostitute and again not all Congolese women are good. Iam not married to them either. But the women drinking in SA its a hobby in Congo its very special case and majority who smoke n drink in Congo must be ba tchell prostitutes not normal girls
A Congolese woman will not be 40 or 45 and still wanna go clubbing I ce in SA I was 24 but I didn't know how alcohol tastes like. Congo compare to SA the morality gape is huge. We don't hv so many women who can't stay home on weekends jst wanna go get drunk we don't hv so many of those kinds and if ever there is they must be in prostitution
@@atrouvasolutshilombo3360 so my granny drinks she's a prostitute, my aunt drinks she's also a prostitute. Congolese girls also have a lot of nonsense, they are just good at hiding their bad behaviour.
yekani amaxhosa! nisiyeke plz 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 you were not supposed to here that part 🤭😂
And also growing up from Limpopo we where seeing women from Joburg as loose and stealing people husbands because men will leave their wives at home and stay in Joburg with another family.
Yeah that's true yoh
Congolese men are not for the weak yho but I am glad she found a good family and husband because my people can show you flames
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Really?
Talk for you dear. If u had a bad one that is your experience. I am a congolese women and i know a lot of Congolese men that are just gems. There are bad and good everywhere
@@africaine4889 hun I apologize if I spoke for the Nation, just like how you said you know gems I do to however I also know the opposite of that which are most of the one I know. I never and could never date alll of them but based on my experience with the community I came to the conclusion that Congolese men that I know!!
@@thethemakhele8450 good cause I was like all guys cheat even in south africa all over the world in america too and also you made us sound like bad people but we are one of the most hospitable and nice people out there all over the world
What are u then?