You Might Be A Transbian If
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- Опубліковано 9 вер 2024
- Sometimes it can be hard to tell if you're a trans lesbian or just a cishet dude who's a lil quirky. Minerva lays out some signs that you might be the former.
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What if the dude is me
@@AnonIsland5 Then you *might* be a transbian. It's up to you to decide that for sure though.
flesruoy llik
@@daniellemurnett2534 Nailed it
My theory about the computer science thing is that the internet has become a major nexus for trans people, both closeted and open, to congregate and talk to each other. Plus, it allows you to become a media personality and foster a community a straight allies (wink wink nudge nudge say no more nudge nudge).
the fact that hit or miss was 3 years ago gives me an existential crisis
HOLY SHIT, IT WAS! WHERE DOD THE TIME GO?!
I thought it was like 3 or 4
OMG MY BRAIN BROKEEEEE
Shrek turns 20 this year
it...... it was?
"I'm just a reaaaally good ally, y'know?"
famous last words
Abby thorn be like
Me in elementary school: "I don't know what 'gay' means exactly, but you shouldn't make fun of the teacher for being gay! Don't be a jerk!"
Me in high school: "I'm straight, but like, people should be able to love who they want. Don't be a jerk."
Me in college:First year - "I'm straight, but I'll join the pride union. Just as an ally, you know."
Second year through graduation - "Okay, I'm bi. Shame my roommate is straight. We talk late into the night all the time, and the tickle fights are really fun..."
Me after graduation: *marries former roommate* *also realizes I've been quietly not-dealing with gender dysphoria my entire life and a WHOLE lot of things suddenly make a lot more sense* "...well, damn."
Or the "I'm not trans, I am a cis male."
This is true even if you’re a different type of trans person. I considered myself a staunch ally for months, and then realized that I’m nonbinary. Literally everyone in the transgender club at my college was like, “Yeah, you were so obviously nonbinary or something along those lines” and some had been half-jokingly calling me an egg for a while.
So not only do women face sexism, we face a backlash from males when we talk about it. And now in addition we've got creepy males who want to be "allies" because they want to wear our skin with their cat ears.
Minerva has transcended UA-cam drama - she’s so ahead of the game that she’s calling herself out
hgfhghgghgf honestly we stan
Didn't he say he was a simple crossdresser on his Tumblr?
if you check her pinned post it says that she's trans
@@SirBlackReeds It was before she found out she was trans
to quote family guy: if you can't laugh at yourself what can you laugh at?
ok literally what is up with the programming thing like a solid third of the people I did computer science with ended up coming out as trans
Okay my theory is that cis women were excluded from interacting with computers at a young age (video games, for example, being really marketed towards young boys and not young girls), so trans women tend to be the women who end up in the field, since they were allowed to develop that interest
Same reason you don't see LGBTQ+ people in regular life but see them in 1 out of 3 people online or in nerd spaces. The interests link to each other.
right??? I'm a nonbinary lesbian majoring in cs and my class is like 50/50 between cismen and lgbt+ people lol
@@ethan4896 I started getting into the compsci field. Then some of my classmates did stuff that I felt i couldn't be part of because of my body, like them having some vital group work meetings in a sauna, and other stuff that I at the time chalked up to "being my own fault" when a decade and a half later it's obvious to me it was low key bullying. Out of three girls in my comp sci uni edu of 40+ students, I think only one of us girls graduated from that year. I was the second one to drop out. Thing is most guys were fine, but all that requires evil to win is for good to just look the other way. I mean, sure, maybe everyone felt the same way and only a few were obvious about it, but my experience with many other friends in comp sci leads me to believe most were just oblivious that things happened, or didn't realize how a bit of sexist shit talk was far worse than they thought at the time.
I think a lot of lgbtq+ people spend a lot of time online (often in nerdy fandoms) because they feel more accepted there than irl (even if they're not out but don't quite fit in with cishet norms). And a lot of time on computers easily turns into majoring in computer science
she’s just talkin to herself and filmed it
*he's ..
@@krolmicha7142 Sure grandpa we're really happy for you can you take your meds now please
@@communistpropaganda3629honey real talk - you know deep down it’s the ones who think they’re something that they’re objectively not and feel the need to force everyone else around them to deny reality that need to take their meds.
It’s a man
@@communistpropaganda3629 I am probably younger then you and still more based.
this feels like when the plot twist is at the end of the movie and you rewatch it and you're like oooooohhhhhh
Me watching old PhilosophyTube videos and seeing the hints
@@ironicdivinemandatestan4262 just like mushrooms after rain, trans women decided to come out after 2020 was over)
@@secreqet4617 Like a shining new dawn.
"Wow, you guys are good. I'm the last person I would have expected, but I was looking for *me* all the time. It's the perfect crime!" - Patrick Star
misogyny + coomer = agp. congrats.
Watching this as a gay trans man has me saying "Yes but the opposite" to these
“Well yes, but actually no.”
SAME especially the “you can’t understand why people would be attracted to men” thing bc I can’t understand why people are attracted to women lmao
@@MurderedHer0es bc.... gorls..... so pretty,,,,,, sincerely, a trixic mess
I think one of us needs to make a trans guy version of this video.
@@MurderedHer0es oof.
1:31 All I can imagine is the Marge potato "I just think they're neat" meme, but with transgirls instead of the potato
...This is a very big mood
I just made a meme with that but with non-binary/gnc people instead of transgirls before watching this video 😂
me, a trans man: can't wait to find out if i'm a transbian
Solidarity bro
Same bro
@Dan Song oh damn, I hope they're okay ❤
Same
@Dan Song dude wait I'm literally in the exact same situation, right down to being a trans man. I dunno what they're parents think but literally everything they've told me screams trans woman. And you can't just say that because you don't want to set back their self-discovery with spite
I’m trans masculine, but the “wanting to experience violent dysphoria so you know for sure is a form of dysphoria” part was really eye opening and helpful
im nb and holy shit yeah
yh that actually helped me so much ngl
same... I'm transmasc, here, too.
"If you've questioned your gender identity before, but your main concern was that you might not look hot as a ____," hit hard.
Same even tho I'm nonbinary but like yeah
oh dear i do relate to that..
This is just Contrapoint's Shame video condensed into meme form and i like it
I feel like the meme of shoulder angel Kronk right now
Why is no one talking about the shame?
nyaa
i was going to make this comparison after coming back to this because min tweeted about this again recently and then I realized I didn't come up with that thought on my own.
i blame you.
It manages to be equally homophobic
Is it just me, or did Minerva start wearing glasses a lot more after coming out?
Got herself some transition lenses.
it's cause they cover my brows
@@EldenaDoubleca5t VERY duly noted, ty
@@EldenaDoubleca5t get your eyebrows done by a pro. You'll look even more pretty.
@@nopenopenopenope4076 high on my list of things to do when I'm fully vaxxed
When I read this comment, I shrieked, "Transition lenses!!" aloud.
"If your main concern was 'what if I don't look hot as a girl'" god fucking damn I'm already dead you don't have to go that hard
Dusa pfp. Only uploaded video is She-Ra. Checks out.
@@daniellemurnett2534 GFHGFHGFGH yeah u got me
if your main concern was what if I don't look hot as a girl? you might be a misogynist
@@daniellemurnett2534 I WAS JUST ABOUT TO SAY WHY DOES DUSA FIT THIS SO WELL
@@superhetoric damn it's almost as if I've internalised a lot of fucked up unrealistic beauty standards and worry about that stuff way more than I'd like to due to a pervasive culture of misogyny.
watching this as a gay trans man is like the uncanny valley, yes but also no
LMAO MOOD (Bi trans guy right here haha)
You're really not wrong. The "sees a woman and says wow I'm gay" felt very real but in the opposite direction.
@@northstarjakobs so true. It’s kinda how I realized I was trans lmao
we don't get a cool term like transbian, we are trays. get on the serving tray boys
You're driving down the same road in the opposite direction
I need to send this to my lovely friend who recently came out as trans and is going to major in computer science
I love that this whole video is she pretty much calling herself out instead of us lmao
@@ameliasellers6396 Well there's only like 2 of these that don't apply to me, how else am I supposed to feel?!
oooh trust me she called us all out
@@daniellemurnett2534 I think there are three in total that don't apply to me and yet I'm still unsure. I don't cross-dress or envy women's clothes, I haven't watched Puella Magi Madoka Magica and I don't know what egg memes are. I would instantly drink that fricking potion though so I'm thinking the denial is based on fear and internalised transphobia more than rational doubt.
@@Arkayjiya Kinda sounds like it, yes. You should really spend some time on r/egg_irl though, helps with the specifics if you ask me.
Didn't he say he was just a crossdresser on his Tumblr?
Is anyone gonna mention the subtle scalloping on the ends of her sleeves. That's a fashion LOOK
I remember on twitter once, she said her transition fashion goals were to look like a realtor, and like... That is 110% accurate and she absolutely pulls it off
@@margaretmadole fabulous.
God the being weirdly invested in trans issues thing when you think youre cis really IS the trans experience huh
Anyway shoutout to 12th grade me who got so angry at the bad discuss of trans topics we had in my AP psych class that i cried but couldn't figure out why i was upset
Philosophy Tube, that's all I gotta say
'Dear diary, today I was viciously attacked over the internet'
(this video was hilarious, thank you for making it)
"If you think the only good thing about being male is the privilege"
MY SIDES
OP telling on himself
@The Light Bringer (imma assume this isn't a joke cause i rly can't tell) and males aren't? Shure, it's more common for females to be sexually prayed on at youn age ages than males but it still happens to guys and very commingly. So there's no 'privilege' that males have in that regard. Anyone can be prayed on at any age. Me being a boy can go out and still run the risk of being moleste*, rape*, etc just as any girl can
@@YunaLuni uh, as an actual woman-unlike this video's uploader-I haven't known a single female in my 28 years of life that hasn't been sexually harassed or assaulted. most every woman will have a tale of inappropriateness they experienced as a young girl. let's not start on that. it's a fact that girl children are sexualized and victimized bc of their sex, something OP is apparently unaware and/or jealous of. too bad he'll never be a real woman.
@@superhetoric tf are you on about, what does that have to do with the fact that younge males are also sexually assulted & harrased? The fact that apparently all the females you know have been assulted (or anything else you said) dosen't rly matter in this context
@@YunaLuni because the few ≠ the many. no one thinks young boys aren't assaulted.
I’m a trans dude but some of these hit too hah- “i’m just a good ally” yeah right
The Trans Experience™
Trans man to trans woman solidarity ✨
"these memes must not be accurate because im cis and i relate" bro this is lowkey how i figured out im nonbinary
brb gotta go look at some memes no reason ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Yeah, same thing but for bi jokes. "Well, that can't possibly be right, because I'm...huh."
Idk but I am so tickled that the word “transbian” is autogenerated in the captions as “transbean,” giving me an image of a tiny adorable being.
Please someone draw a bean in the colors of the trans flag
“If you’ve ever wished that you experienced really violent gender dysphoria, just so you could know for sure that you actually had gender dysphoria, that’s a form of gender dysphoria.” Egg me is shaking
That was weird to me. It rubbed me off in a weird way. The whole video did. It kinda felt like a joke, like it isn't taking it seriously. That anime figurine of a clearly sexually objectified girl standing there... Just all of it. And I feel like gender dysphoria it's something that manifests itself in your subcounscious, in your dreams and in your waking life. I have it, not violently, but I have it. And I just feel like going "I wish I had gender dysphoria" isn't gender dysphoria. You would know if you had even the sligthless bit of gender dysphoria, because you can really feel it, and if it's in dreams it's VERY obvious. It all feels so fetishized and strange. Wishing you had gender dysphoria isn't a form of gender dysphoria. Gender dysphoria isn't something you choose, it just happens.
@@shoganflamemasta3975 Hi there, three things to point out-
1. Remember the part of the video with all of the idol shows? If I remember correctly that figurine is a character from one of those shows, wearing one of her idol outfits from that show. That's why it's here. (Also the idea that trans lesbians "fetishize" women is a trans-exclusion dogwhistle, so be cautious about phrasing.)
2. This video, in many ways, IS a joke. Trans people (a category that may or may not include you, I don't know you) are allowed to take their own experiences lightly. Riffing on gender dysphoria is especially common because you can dunk on your past self in a relatable way, and that's just good comedy.
3. Gender dysphoria comes in a lot of different flavors, and some trans people don't even experience it in the first place. Everyone interacts with it differently. You may experience it through dreams, and understand it as something that just happens to you, but you can't expect that experience to apply to everybody. Sometimes, the experience of wanting gender dysphoria is the way someone processes their gender dysphoria. Sometimes, people think about their gender as a choice. And that's okay.
Okay that's all from me. I hope anybody reading this has a good day. Bye~
@@shoganflamemasta3975 I think what she meant by “getting gender dysphoria to make sure you have it” is something along the lines of dressing extremely masculine/feminine (for assigned gender at birth) using the wrong pronouns, looking at yourself naked on purpose which is something I myself as a trans male have done. And I mean, why can’t she make a jokey video about it? A lot of people wouldn’t want to make serious coming out videos and her other videos are all in this format so what if she wanted to make something lighthearted
@@shoganflamemasta3975 I understand your viewpoint, but I have to disagree. For 23 years I thought everyone felt like a physical piece of themselves was missing. That thinking, “yeah I’m fine with the body parts I have, but I wish I also had this body part,” was normal. To discover differently was a shock to say the least. And I fought with myself over it. Was it really gender dysphoria? It was a so mild and seemingly fleeting thought and feeling. How could I be sure? Do I have a right to consider myself trans, even though my dysphoria isn’t violent? Isn’t it an insult to compare my mild wish to the hardship and struggle experienced in the trans community? I wished the feeling was stronger, so that I knew for sure that I had a place in the trans community, that I had a place to belong. Then I realized that this fear and uncertainty, that wish to understand what I was feeling, the desire to know who I am, was also gender dysphoria. That my feelings, though mild, were valid. That I was valid. You may not have experienced this yourself, but as someone who has, I know that my experience with gender dysphoria was just as valid as your experience with gender dysphoria. That anyone’s experience with gender dysphoria is valid. That you don’t get to say what is and isn’t gender dysphoria because everyone’s experience is unique. And that implying otherwise, however unintentionally, can hurt people. Please remember that.
@@ChiTengoku I think you are right. I think I'm a bit transphobic because I'm heavily closeted. And my mind can always find a rational way to undermine not only others experience but my own too. I always tell myself "You are not trans. You are just so obssesed with women that you started wanting to become them" "You are not trans, you just have a kink that is objectifying, oversexualizing and fetishizing women" "You are not trans... Yes I fantasize about looking like a girl everyday, and I dream about it often, but I don't suffer from it like real trans people do. Right?" But then sometimes when I think about myself as a lesbian I get really emotional and want to cry for some reason. But for the most part I just shut down everything and tell myself my feelings just come from being a perverted straight male. Maybe the fact that it was so late onset in my life took me really by surprise. Although I have expressed longing to be a girl as a child but it was simply curiosity. I didn't suffer being a boy. I never felt like my body wasn't mine. All that started at around 17 and it just blows my mind that I could be a woman inside. Specially considering that when looking back I was such a disgusting man, and I just feel like calling me a lesbian is unfair to other people. Anyways, l think you are right. I don't get to decide what's gender dysphoria and what's not. And to everyone who read my first comment. It is pretty transphobic, you shouldn't pay attention to it. I'm sorry.
My hypothesis on the computer science commonality:
It’s a field where you don’t really *need* to collaborate so you can keep you feelings to yourself. Being trans must come with a lot of confusing thoughts, and being in comp sci means that you don’t have to articulate that to others. No essays, no self reflection, just pure code. It may be used as an escape from self.
Combined with capitalism telling us constantly that we need to MAKE MONEY YOU POOR, comp sci is a lucrative way to “profit” off a genre of hobby (computers, anime, music, etc -> all can come full circle to computer in some way).
Mine, copied from another reply: "My theory is that cis women were excluded from interacting with computers at a young age (video games, for example, being really marketed towards young boys and not young girls), so trans women tend to be the women who end up in the field, since they were allowed to develop that interest"
...There are compsci courses that don't require you to collaborate??????? 😭😭 Back when I did it, we had like three group projects every single semester
No essays, no self reflection, just pure code. And errors. Help.
That does explain a lot
@@clairvaux8459 no they still do that at my uni at least. so I'm not sure that checks out.
Me wondering why Hbomberguy's Charity Stream hit so hard and was so meaningful to me when I was "just a cis ally."
This whole video was mood. My favorite anime is Madoka Magica.
Here's another one.
If the reason you play a guy is so you can marry a woman but you wish you could wear her wedding gown you might be a transbian.
If you are obsessed with weddings but you ignore the groom you might be a transbian
If you dated a lesbian, and she came out to you, and your first thought was "what does this change? Oh...", you are a transbian
Can relate, I've played many games as a guy solely for the romance options.
@@cybercrasherstv what? no, it means she is a lesbian that doesn't want to be with you.
@@superhetoric no, I mean if she explains to you what being a lesbian is, but your like "but that doesn't change anything", you're probably trans
@@cybercrasherstv uh if you're a man it absolutely does. leave lesbians alone ffs
Every gay person started off as an over invested ally
Preach
this goes doubly for bi people
This is what my coming out process was like:
Me: *abandons my homophobic beliefs that were pushed on me by my parents to learn more about the LGBTQ+ community*
My brain: *wow! gay and trans people aren't bad at all! They're actually really cool.*
Me: *befriends LGBTQ+ people and starts calling myself an ally*
My brain: *wow, I'm such a good ally! Maybe I should start experimenting with different clothes to try and break away from my old self.*
Me: *begins painting my nails different colors and wearing clothes that are considered more feminine.*
Kids at school: *makes fun of me and calls me gay*
My brain: *they don't know anything! I still like girls, I'm just confident in my sexuality and enjoy expressing myself!*
Also me: *starts noticing how handsome and attractive my best friend is.*
My brain: *hold up, I'm not gay! I like girls! It's okay to find other guys attractive, I'm just not insecure like some men are!*
Me: *gets jealous when my friend starts dating someome else*
My brain: *I have no idea why I feel the way I do but I'm sure there's a logical reason as to why I want to push his girlfriend down the stairs right now*
Me: *starts crying whenever I see how cute they are together and wishes he was gay so I could be with him*
My brain: *wait a second, do I like him? There's no way because I'm straight! Right? I-I'm attracted to girls, not guys...sure I get nervous around him, and likes it when he jokingly calls me his boyfriend, or lets me borrow his clothes...that's normal for friends, right?*
Me: *hangs out with my other friend and tells him about the confusing feelings I have for my best friend*
Friend: *bro I think you might be gay*
Me: *surprised pikachu face*
comphet is a helluva drug, huh?
I'll be like that sometimes...
pls im nonbinsry but the "wishing u have crippling dysphoria" SHFKSJFKSKG
God same 😅😭😂
big mood
YEAH
Scalped me
Yup lol
"profound need of getting rid of all body hair"
You can also be some kind of enby trainwreck. Speaking for... uuuuhhh... a friend I guess.
Same problem in reverse for me lol
I identify as agender
arm hair is cool but get the fuck my face and legs please
Genderfluid here, and fucking mood
"getting into a piece of media because most of the cast are girls"
*looks at how I literally spend my entire day on RWBY and Hololive*
*"I'm in this picture and I don't like it"*
I got into Hololive literally right before I figured out I'm trans and let me tell you, I'm trying my best to avoid RWBY because there's a 90% chance that'll be my new hyperfixation.
@@daniellemurnett2534 if it helps, there are boys in RWBY and the creators seem to push for the straight ships more than the gay ships
@@Thunder-Sky Ok in that case literally why would I ever watch it? The duality...
RWBY is hella gay
@@daniellemurnett2534, I’d personally recommend Owl House and She-Ra
I'm agender and the shock I got when I found out that just wishing you were another gender is a pretty big indicator of being trans =O
I mean yeah, that's the whole trans thing xd it's so weird it took me so long to figure out
@@babyblouie4761 Yeah but... Ok I don't know how common that... If not misconception, definitely not quite right idea is, but I always understood it as "trans people feel like [other gender]". Emphasis on feel like. I thought trans people as a whole had a very defined idea of who they *are.* What I didn't know was that merely wanting to be the other gender, even if not quite being able to identify with it yet, is something that's quite common earlier on. Could be that that crucial bit of info is missing from others too.
@@daniellemurnett2534 i mean i think it can def be an indicator, it really depends on how that thought makes you feel, if you feel more into with the other gender you might wanna try out a different label
I'm a little.. tiny bit worried now cause I've always wanted that but I'm not trans
I think
I'm nonbinary/gender fluid and when I told my friends that as a kid I wanted to be a boy, assuming that experience was universal, and they all said "huh?" ..... turns out being 10 and thinking you're supposed to have been the "other" gender is kind of a trans thing to think
Why do you want to report?
- I'm in this image and I don't like it
as a bi nonbinary person, i relate to about half of these, which, mood
Saaaaame
Exactly!
SAAAAAAMEEEEEE
_saammmmee_
To be fair half of these points were about loving women (which is, of course, in the Bi wheelhouse) and the nonbinary and trans experiences share some fundamental similarities. Some classifications even have non-binary under the trans umbrella.
The last one is entirely so people can make jokes about there being more women in stem this year despite the fact the student body hasn't changed.
Trans man but I'm watchin this wholeass video out of solidarity. Vibes. I'm happy to see you producing this kind of content and being yourself!
*Goes on egg_irl out of curiosity*
*5 minutes later*
... Oh no
one of us! one of us! one of us! one of us! ;)
Welcome to the gang, kid. We've got Fem Felicia, Masc Mike, and NB Johnson.
One of us! One of us!
that subreddit is groomer central lol
@@ameliasellers6396 yes.
also as another trans person who realized their identity later in life than childhood or teens it’s very inspiring and reassuring to see you come out, I wish you all the best ❤️
Yes, this
That's beautiful
Wow, the computer science one really got me
As a gay man that might be a straight trans woman this resonates with me way too scarily
I remember when Philosophy Tube came out and everyone was saying “we should have known, no cis person would know the terminology well enough to make that many trans jokes” and my first thought was, “but I got all those jokes and I’m cis” 🤡🤡🤡
My puthy is very dry now.
Surprised I didn’t see “if you can’t tell whether you want to be a girl you see or you want be with them”
Oh a classic
Though that also applies to being a bi cis girl. It's really confusing. "Wait...am I staring at that girl playing with her hair because I wish MY curls were that bouncy? Or because I want to touch HER hair? Or possibly both?"
@@emilymoran9152 I'll never understand that POV, envy feels so different to me than romantic interest. I wanted to kiss her, not sure how else I'd interpret that
Cool, but if that's the conclusion you come to, you should know that lesbians don't give a sht about body hair. I hate this shaving nonsense, that's for straight people, we're not afraid of women's real bodies.
That sweater looks nice on you, queen. Also I felt called out on the Madoka part lol
“If you jump at the opportunity to be a catgirl-“ Just took me out back and put me down like old yeller huh.
Fun fact on the computer science one, that seems to be a Western thing? I was talking with some of my Filipino trans colleagues and that's not the stereotype at all over there (the stereotype there is all trans women are in fashion/beauty/salons/etc.). It was super fascinating when one of us mentioned stereotypes and we realised there was this complete disconnect between our cultures.
lmao yes actually. im a filipino trans girl and in my school it's usually the sporty cis guys who are also into computer science and coding
The fact she used the same format as her most popular videos to give us this art....it gives me life
I'm a trans gay man.. a tray, if you will.
A straight woman obsessed with gay men who wants to be oppressed and watches too much yaoi.
Lol A TRAY
(solidarity from a lace... Lesbian(homoromantic) asexual)
The She-Ra reboot has great storytelling and animation design, that's why it's so good.
**immediately drops pictures of She-Ra, Catra, Scorpia, and Huntara**
No other reason.
I’m a cis lesbian but like half of this applies lol. Trans cis lesbian solidarity
We really are all just women looking to date other women huh
As a CS major, if you study CS, you either become a 9-5 office worker, a femboy, or a transbian. There are no other options.
many feminine men turn out to be transbians too
@@starrats444 Some stop where they are though, and we love + respect them.
The agony of being a bisexual non-binary lawyer in training is somehow wanting to be all three at once
Not true. You could become a furry instead.
@@Firehawk376 idk I feel like usually option 2 or option 3 still apply in that case
Is this a joke?
when you're a bi cis girl watching this
yuuuuup the "i'm super interested in and supportive of lgbt issues but im just a really good ally!!1!" part especially 💀💀
I used to relate to all of these but when i realized I could be a guy's *girl*friend I changed rather drastically. So i've been bi all along but could never really express it because, no offense to gay men or mlm relationships, but I could never find myself comfortable picturing myself in that context. It was fun identifying as transbian for a while, ngl.
I have been dunked upon. Bravo, Minnie. This kills the man (because she's a transbian).
As a gay trans man, this has validated my gender identity and sent me directly into another sexuality crisis
Same bro
Maybe you should speak with a psychologist who's willing to consider: depersonalization, an autistic fixation on the body, autoandrophilia, autohomoeroticism, and more as explanations.
@@SirBlackReeds Why?
@@lyallgarcia8443 TERF crap. Blanchard is a helluva drug.
@@SirBlackReeds Based. These girls need therapy
Me, as a bisexual trans girl who doesn’t watch anime: *confused unga bunga*
This video legit cracked my egg when it first came out 3+ years ago and now I'm so much happier, thank you for shitposting (genuine)
uh oh
uh oh
@@orion2116 this was my friend before she came out as a girl and a lesbian lol I can’t believe I didn’t figure it out before
"AS A JOKE" I FEEL PERSONALLY ATTACKED.
EDIT: WATCHED THE WHOLE VIDEO. I FEEL PERSONALLY ATTACKED IM SOBBINGGGG
So... I am a cis male. I've related to many of those. I have no desire to change genders but DAMN it's interesting to see that in another life that's probably the direction I'd have gone
So I don't want to pressure you at all here, obviously a youtube video can't tell you if you're trans, just saying it might be worth looking into
Uh, if you're, like, really interested in that alternative history... you might be a transbian.
You might not also, but like, maybe examine yourself and your feelings about it removed from the assumption that you're cis. Like don't feel you need to "prove" that you're trans to not be a guy, look at yourself and think whether it's more likely for you to be a guy, a girl, or something else, based only on.. y'know, you. Like, if you were assigned female at birth, would you be uncomfortable with that? If no, then you might at the very least not be a binary man.
You ever read a book called Nevada by Imogen Binnie?
Same! It's interesting
Kinda similar here, I stick with thinking of myself as just a cis guy for convenience, but in actuality I probably wouldn't mind if everyone just referred to me by "they" most of the time. And being a girl always seemed sorta neat to me, if I had the ability to transform into one whenever I wanted, I'd probably use it a good deal.
Minerva in a Q&A a while back: people are always surprised when I tell them I'm straight.
Also Minerva:
he's still a straight white dude, just calls himself a transbian now lolol
@@superhetoric fuck off. Why are you even here?
Thats because heterosexuality is still heterosexuality.....its the sex of the people you're attracted to. Transitioning doesn't make Minerva a lesbian, it makes her a heterosexual transitioned male which is FINE until it comes to taking lesbian words and spaces away from us.
@@letsbakemistakes ❤️
@@letsbakemistakes but trans women are women. So therefore if a trans women is attracted to women-they are a lesbian.
Not a transbian, but the "ally to figuring out you're LGBT+ pipeline" is real
"If you wish you experienced really violent gender dysphoria just so you could know *for sure*, that's a form of dysphoria."
... o-oh.
Huh.
y-yeah, weird right? i mean, aren't most trans people afraid they'll be rejected for treatment for not being trans enough? i've come out to two people now, and the joy i felt hearing them calling me a she was weird. but if i was really trans, i'd think i was a different person in the mirror. what even am i?
I'd make a joke about it being a simple NOT operation, but gender isn't binary.
Oooooooooooh
the bushiroad series one lmaoooo
Incel, but make it woke.
As a bi trans girl who would do some dark shit to never be attracted to men, yet am, all the ones about not being ok with men but very ok with girls hit me SO HARD
I’m gaining such a valuable incite.
And about the potion thing: all of that would depend on the longevity of the effects.
Because would I be curious to feel what it’s like to pass as a girl? Sure, why not? But I feel like making that a permanent thing would be a bit more of a commitment than I’m willing to make.
I was like "but why wouldn't you drink it?" Then I was like "ooooohhhh..."
oh yeah totally. If you gave them the thought experiment, and it was like a complete and total magic transformation, I think most people are curious enough to seriously consider being a different gender for a day.
But for life? Very few cis people give that a second thought. (And the cis people who do give it a second thought are usually women who are really tired of sexism, which ya know fair)
@@AliceHearthrow Yeah. I’m pretty comfortable as a cishet guy. Guilt stemming from an acknowledgment of my systemic privilege aside, I’ve got no complaints.
@@theoneandonlymichaelmccormick wait I'm confused. How do you feel guilty for something you didn't cause? Dude there's no reason to beat yourself up because you just so happened to benefit from a system you didn't create.
@@samt3412 The same reason I can still be guilty for the legacy of colonialism despite being born within this century. Because the effects of these things are still happening. People’s lives are still defined by them. This is not an equal society.
Feeling guilty is literally the least I can do.
Do you need to obrigatory possess a horse face to be a troonsbian?
nah that's just me
No but you do need a phallus
I'm a cis wlw lady and I've literally talked to THREE transbiens that have careers in computer science. So very weird. Maybe programming makes so much sense when you feel like your hardware doesn't match your casing. 😂
Side note, I found your channel through the What Your Ouran High School Host Club Ship Says About You video and can't seem to find a "coming out" video with your identity and gender pronouns. But its not needed. I like how organically and without explanation you started to become more of yourself in each video. Thanks for sharing more and more of your authentic self! You're cool as hell!
She did it on Tumblr, and nowhere else for some reason
It's pretty simple. Trans identified men still have male pattern behaviours because they're men. Most people in IT are men.
Last time I was on this channel she was presenting femme but saying "haha still cis though." Really glad she got to a place where she was comfortable coming out to her viewers, warms my gender-confused heart, lol. :)
wait hold up??. you're a woman! omg i never knew you came out congrats 🥰🥰🥰🥰👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Transbian Computer Scientists
I'm masc nonbinary but god the wishing you had crippling gender dysphoria thing hit so hard
she really did just make a whole callout video for herself. amazing
I thought this was a parody at first, the world has gone to hell. Nice adams apple.
Didn’t ask, don’t care, plus you’re an old white guy
@@loafuscrambuckleold white men are far superior to vile fetishist autogynephiles. You basically just gave his opinion more credence while reducing the value of yours.
Contra:emotional coming out video
Minerva: lol I’m gay af
Btw I respect both their content and love them both
from the point of view of a bisexual: the part about feeling a REALLY strong gender dysphoria to be sure that you actually have it also very much applies to sexuality issues, and, my god, I FELT that bit, like, for so long I wanted to somehow magically be sure that it's really my identity, like WOW
"Getting into a piece of media because most of the cast are girls"
*Screams in YuruYuri, Sakura Trick, Aoi Hana, Citrus, and Sailor Moon*
These are all fairly accurate from what I’ve seen
She's dunking on herself so it better be accurate
Kinda like the weeaboo one
Am transbian, can confirm.
The "wishing to experience violent dysphoria so you know for sure." hit me light a goddamn semi-truck.
hey
hey minerva
hey MINERVA
what the fuck
why would you come for me like this
I did not expect to be so brutally called out when I woke up this morning.
For your last question two words. One name. Nomi Marks
YES
I am trans feminine and majored in computer science. I was thinking the exact same thing yesterday. Why is it so common?!
is this irony?
That's just autogynephilia. Using the word lesbian is appropriation.
as a long-time questioning nonbinary egg, 0:37 put some things into perspective. I really needed to hear that so thank you
RIGHT??? WHY SO MANY PROGRAMMER TRANSBIANS???? SCIENCE, PLZ???
Top ten facts science can't explain.
what in the agp is this
Agp actually refers to straight trans women. Also, it’s nonsense.
@@BlackSheepNara straight trans women are hsts, agps are straight or bi men
@@fjol_7029 being bi is based though
@@BlackSheepNaraNope, in order to be agp you have to be attracted to women, straight trans women arent
I love how at least half of this video is you calling yourself out for not realizing it sooner.
You might be a transbian if: you deserve all the love in the world. Nice video, Minerva!
I just came back to this channel and see she's figured herself out good for her! I remember when you had like three or so videos out. I love your content Minerva! I'm a non-binary lesbian, myself.
EDIT:
oh my god I have those same exact socks saved on my Amazon wishlist and have began getting into coding and basic programming...
congrats on your coming out Minerva 😊
I’m a cis lesbian and I felt called out by some of these
the madoka one swept me under the legs and knocked me to the floor
When I was a teenager I would always go for the women when a game let you decide who to date. When one of my friends called me out on it I was like 'NO THEY'RE JUST THE MORE INTERESTING CHARACTER'..... I came out as bi a year later