It's shocking to realize that I frequently allow those unhelpful thoughts to sink into myself. I love these resources! Today I'm going to practice accepting and approving of myself.
I lost my wife in 2019 she was aged 32, I have 3 teen children and am only now accepting treatment and self compassion is my 1st step. God bless you all and things will get brighter ... i just told myself this to x
Love this video! So easy to understand that we should be kind to ourselves like we are to our friends! I can't wait to share this with people that I know!
When I attempt this I instantly know I'm lying to myself? It never clicks, your failures just override it. This for me prevents any growth. I can't get past that accountability and damage done. In non emotional taught Asian culture when I show empathy towards family and friends, they take that as weakness? They don't see that I'm trying to reach out and put them before myself. Like Superheroes do no matter what. They put me down because I can be strong for them. I don't want them to feel this pain they have just inflicted to pad their ego. If I lash out I'm convinced that's the easy way out, continue to be strong. I know I can handle they pain they cannot. If they believe I'm worth nothing, it's hard to convince yourself you are worth anything Your eyes say pain then Love. TY Dr for being a light in this dark world. Happy Fathers Day
Thanks for your comment and experiences! No need to lie to yourself; self-compassion is simply about responding with kindness. You deserve that just as much as every other human. See also some of these common misconceptions about self-compassion: ua-cam.com/video/PsNtjgM6NL4/v-deo.html
It's insightful that Dr. Warren points out the resistance to believing we are worthy of self kindness and acceptance in the heat of the moment. I'd love for self-compassion to be my first reaction instead of a place to remind myself to go AFTER the critical thoughts go flying. Looking forward to taking the course.
Thanks, Andrea! I think one of the hardest things is just noticing self-critical thoughts in the first place. It's definitely a skill that takes practice, and even then it's about noticing *sooner* (and then pivoting to a compassionate response) more than getting rid of self-criticism completely.
This video leaves me with so much warmth in my heart and trust that I can become more compassionate towards myself. Thank you! Can't wait to see what's next.
Nokodemion's Mental-Block Meditation Ich lebe in Liebe. Ich lebe in Frieden. Ich lebe in Freiheit. Ich lebe in Harmonie. Ich lebe unbeschwert. Ich lebe in Gesundheit. Ich lebe in Freude. I live in love. I live in peace. I live in freedom. I live in harmony. I live unburdened. I live in health. I live in joy.
It's great content for people who already realized how they lact of salf love. Most people still lact of awareness about theself hatred. Thanks you so much for this.
What's a simple way you'll be kind to yourself today? I'd love to know!
doing how i show that i love myself? dates
Stop seeing these self- improving videos cropping up all the time?
Thakn you
It's shocking to realize that I frequently allow those unhelpful thoughts to sink into myself. I love these resources! Today I'm going to practice accepting and approving of myself.
great to hear that!
I lost my wife in 2019 she was aged 32, I have 3 teen children and am only now accepting treatment and self compassion is my 1st step. God bless you all and things will get brighter ... i just told myself this to x
Sincerest condolences for your loss, Daz. So glad self-compassion is part of your path. Wishing you love and peace as you continue this journey.
Love this video! So easy to understand that we should be kind to ourselves like we are to our friends! I can't wait to share this with people that I know!
thanks, Lauren!
Nice and simple. I think the greatest gift of self compassion is humility. Humility is definitely a grown up quality.
That's very true! Self-compassion helps us see that each of us (self included) is worthy of the same love and appreciation).
@@MBS101 yes, but beyond that, we can feel that for others even when they disappoint us because: there but for the grace of god go I.
@@PHanomaly absolutely
When I attempt this I instantly know I'm lying to myself? It never clicks, your failures just override it. This for me prevents any growth. I can't get past that accountability and damage done.
In non emotional taught Asian culture when I show empathy towards family and friends, they take that as weakness? They don't see that I'm trying to reach out and put them before myself. Like Superheroes do no matter what. They put me down because I can be strong for them. I don't want them to feel this pain they have just inflicted to pad their ego. If I lash out I'm convinced that's the easy way out, continue to be strong. I know I can handle they pain they cannot. If they believe I'm worth nothing, it's hard to convince yourself you are worth anything
Your eyes say pain then Love. TY Dr for being a light in this dark world. Happy Fathers Day
Thanks for your comment and experiences! No need to lie to yourself; self-compassion is simply about responding with kindness. You deserve that just as much as every other human. See also some of these common misconceptions about self-compassion: ua-cam.com/video/PsNtjgM6NL4/v-deo.html
I hear you. You are wise.
This was great. I think this person is very helpful, thank you
Such a clear, simple, and powerful message. Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤
It's insightful that Dr. Warren points out the resistance to believing we are worthy of self kindness and acceptance in the heat of the moment. I'd love for self-compassion to be my first reaction instead of a place to remind myself to go AFTER the critical thoughts go flying. Looking forward to taking the course.
Thanks, Andrea! I think one of the hardest things is just noticing self-critical thoughts in the first place. It's definitely a skill that takes practice, and even then it's about noticing *sooner* (and then pivoting to a compassionate response) more than getting rid of self-criticism completely.
Wonderful video and detailed explanation of self-compassion. 🙏🏻♥️👍🏻
Thank you for sharing this video. It was extremely helpful. Gave me a better understanding.
Thanks very much!
This video leaves me with so much warmth in my heart and trust that I can become more compassionate towards myself. Thank you! Can't wait to see what's next.
Thank you, Khadija! Do you have a "favorite" self-compassion practice?
A good dose of self - hate wouldn’t go amiss sometimes, if warranted.
Awesome video!!
Thank you, Bryce!
Super and very helpful sir👌👌👏👏
thanks very much!!!
I'm going to watch snl videos of Stuart Smalley.
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Nokodemion's Mental-Block Meditation
Ich lebe in Liebe.
Ich lebe in Frieden.
Ich lebe in Freiheit.
Ich lebe in Harmonie.
Ich lebe unbeschwert.
Ich lebe in Gesundheit.
Ich lebe in Freude.
I live in love.
I live in peace.
I live in freedom.
I live in harmony.
I live unburdened.
I live in health.
I live in joy.
It's great content for people who already realized how they lact of salf love. Most people still lact of awareness about theself hatred. Thanks you so much for this.
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