MARRIED WOMAN WITH KIDS ASKS 30+ AND 40+ YEAR OLD CHILDFREE WOMEN TO SHARE WHAT THEIR LIVES ARE LIKE
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- 30+, 40+ CHILDFREE WOMEN SHARE WHAT LIFE IS LIKE LIVING WITH NO KIDS
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One of the biggest turn offs listening to married women is that they are also raising their husbands. If they are still with them anyway
That’s because most boy moms don’t raise their sons because “boys are easy to raise” 🙄. Instead they leave that job to their future wives and gfs. I’m not picking up another woman’s slack by raising a grown man.
@@WellBeing999I see your point. Why guys don't get the necessary upbringing I think I'll never understand.
Life's so much easier when, on rare occasions, they've had the upbringing. I do think at times it's unreasonable when people say they should know and do automatically as, I see girls also not receive parental support at times.
Having good role models is so important
Not me. He helps and is very hands on. He bathes the kids, puts them to bed at night, read them stories, cleans and even attempts to cook. Yall just love making up stuff 😂
Not to mention all the married dudes in the DM's
@@shaynelson5067 that’s fantastic
I always feel like people try to push others into having children because misery loves company.
There's definitely this assumption that people have around others having children. I understand people making informed decisions and there's still a lot of ignorance around fertility so, I get that this does need to be put out there.
However, people need to think long and hard about it. I have kids and I wouldn't do it again. I love them and care for them though.
it's usually people with the most damaged relationships with their children that try to push children onto others
I genuinely believe women just don’t want other women to wake up one day alone and too old to have children wishing they did things differently. Old age is extremely lonely. It’s all fun and games when you’re 30/40/50 in good health. When you’re elderly and have nobody (which you won’t because friends and family die off and stop visiting and other people have their own lives) you guys will have AI taking care of you and by that time will likely be offered medically assisted suicide. Life is about family but we are so disconnected we think trips and bags can fill that void. News flash. It doesn’t.
@@kendollarz7246 just because you have family doesn't mean they will take care of you when you get old. you even stated that lol. so to have kids to hopefully make you "less lonely" down the line isn't a solution.
life isn't just about family. that is the biggest issue here. everyone makes their own meaning of life. and many of us are sick and tired of other people telling us that "family is everything" especially someone like me that had an extremely @busive upbringing.
for some people traveling and trips and having fun, building a garden, making art, or raising pets is more than enough to enjoy life. out of the 20 the biggest regrets on the hospice deathbed, not having kids isn't one of them. and to have kids "just in case" you might be lonely later is a horrible and selfish reason to raise progeny.
and even for those that do regret, it's much better to regret NOT having children, than being a parent that does regret having children. go ahead and read regretful parents reddit; hundreds of thousands of parents on there quite literally HATE their children.
Getting a visit from the grandkids once every month in a care home doesn't sound like a good enough sacrifice for me. I want kids, but I will not delude myself into thinking that I control how my elderly years will turn out. I worked with elderly people and saw people have the same outcome kids or no kids, for various reasons. A few examples of my clients include a former doctor, who had a daughter who loved him. Guess what, her job meant she could only visit once a month. One client's only daughter had depression and gave up on life. A former Spanish model whose kids moved to Australia but she refused to go because her whole life was in London. The fear-mongering people do to try to get people to have kids is based on their own fears. I am from a close-knit community, and our elderly relatives tend to live in the same land. We don't toss them. Aunties who have no kids are still our mothers. Western society will not solve its loneliness problem by more bringing kids, more community-hood is the only solution.
“I don’t want to work hard and I don’t want to be exhausted.”
Sis you are speaking to my soul 😂
My mom: get married, have kid, otherwise you gonna be lonely and sad later on
Me: you had 2 marriage and 3 kids, how's the sunshine and rainbow life over there? 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Ouch. 😆😆😆
Me : you forced me to co parent. Think my siblings as your grandchild too then.😂
And you can still end up lonely in a marriage
@@vanessaroper3028 You can have a fulfiling mariage and still finish lonely so. Because nobody know the future, we have no guarantie.
Choose to be happy in your particular situation. Kids or no kids. Husband or no husband
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Right! I have no kids ( I want them) and I have a fiance. I’m happy. But I’d be happy single or with kids.
@Cynful033 💪🏾
I'm 62 and child free, and I'm living my life like it's golden! 😊😊
It’s your Golden Hour
🎶Hello Twin!❤ Where have you been?🎶❤❤❤😂😂
What's crazy is most women with kids that I know all say "don't have kids" 😂
True my cousin use to tell me all the time you don’t know how lucky you’re not to have kids I replied oh yes I do that’s why I chose not to have kids and yet you’re struggling taking care of 3 😂🤦🏽♀️
Right they always say they’ll switch with me in a heartbeat. And I’m like well that makes one of us 😂😂😂😂
and I am one of them...please, don't have kids...for reals, don't have kids
@@heneverforesakesme4038 I can’t have any kids anyways due to a hysterectomy and I don’t regret it
Same
It's quiet and calm. I'm 35 no kids
36 here and same. I have time for myself, time for quiet time, for sleep, for everything I want.
They so obsessed with us 😂😂 life is good and quiet 😂
Great.... AS of 40. Cats , Dogs
I'm anurse, I can't tell you the number of parents I meet who aremidd!e aged or older who are all alone and lonely. Having kids DOESN'T guarantee they'll be there for you when you need them.
My mom worked in a nursing home for years and said the adult children rarely visited their parents and many of them lived in another state. Also, your kids could go before you…no guarantees.
Life is not a game and kids are not toys. Walking past an orphanage on the way to school regularly really cemented that. People need to stop being selfish and start caring for kids’ loves instead of treating them like a means to an end
The woman planning her 3rd cruise of the year is me and i love it 💕😭
I need the details!! ❤❤❤
Where did you find those good deals?!!! 😅
I’ve been on 6 vacations this year 😊
I think different women have different purposes. I am 36 with no children. I love children but the enormity of having my own kid feels a bit overwhelming. The freedom I have brings me joy and happiness, in the same way that for many women having kids brings them joy. As long as you make your decisions with responsibility (so you don’t end up hurting your children) just do whatever makes you happy😊
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Preach!
I truly think your missing the point. You say “do what makes you happy” but MANY women don’t know what makes them happy. Many women are told, having kids being married etc is the dream. Many women (like myself) was raised to be nurturers and mothers. I am childfree but if I wasn’t so adamant when I was younger (and married) I would have been a single mom now. I always told my ex wait, I want to do xyz, blah blah blah. I left him, and I thank god that I waited, only to realize I didn’t want kids with him or in general. I’m about to be 30 and I left my ex 3 years ago. So you say do what makes you happy, but there’s many sides to motherhood that women don’t know and if they knew they might have made a different decision. So yeah, while you make a great points, many MANY women don’t know what makes them happy and they sure be MISERABLE AF raising the kids, with that family, and that marriage that they thought would make them happy.
People should just do what they want. There is no right or wrong. Everyone is here for their own journey.
Exactly
Preach
Headed to Rome for a week as we speak; yeah I’ll remain childfree 🤣
I hope you enjoy your trip
30 child free, I spend my extra free time focusing on my physical health and mental health ❤ I’m feeling great
I have children.
I absolutely respect people who choose not to have them. I'm glad society is moving (albeit slowly) away from shaming individuals who dont want them.
Life is great when you are living it for you and minding your business.🥰
Now wait a minute !! The real tea is how is this lady traveling for over 30 days for less than $3700??
Right!! I was like ma'am drop the info cause I'm trying to be like you!! 😭
@@samantha9644 man! Forget the kids conversation, I’m trying to travel CHEAP!🤣
Waiting on details to trip. Im tryna catch flights. 👀
She probably has excellent credit and saved tons of points that pay for tickets and hotels. Also if you plan ahead and contact hotels directly, it’s possible to get better prices.
Staying Hostels can help a lot
If you don't have a supportive, trustworthy partner as well as your own income, dont get married and certainly don't have kids. I have one child and his dad is a nightmare. Thankfully I'm remarried and he's wonderful. If I didn't have a great career and income my first husband would have destroyed me. I only got fantastic outcomes in Court because I could afford a better lawyer than he could. My second husband knows I'm with him because I actually like and love him not because I need him in anyway.
Key Words: If you weren't financially stable you would have been destroyed. Well Noted, you never know people until you are under their Ctrl esp FINANCIALLY DEPENDENT‼️
yes
I’m 36 and have a 13 year old and that’s it. One and done for me! People will still pressure you to have more kids if you only have one. It’s like you can’t win
It’s always women with three or more kids pressuring me. They want company so bad.
If one day I have kids. One child will be much more for me! I was a single child and it wasn’t that bad!
Marriage benefits men... not women! Children benefit men, not women. How? Because when the father leaves... guess who gets blamed for his irresponsibility? Dont believe me look at all the angry , bitter men in the redpill and manosphere and incel sectors.. a lot of them didn't have their fathers around. And blame their mother for their father's leaving. That's why they have issues with women. Stay child- and marriage free.
All this talk is the character of the person!!! People we need to look beyond the materialistic benefits and go deeper about a person like how do they deal with anger, money, how do the communicate etc! Other people's story doesn't automatically have to be your story!!! If you want something different than work on it!!!!!
A good marriage is beneficial to both men and women and raising a family. Selfish people shouldn’t get married and have children. Remember youth only last a short period of our lives; make wise decisions and share your life with those around you that will help you grow and become a better version yourself.
@@eunicebediako6749Coping much 😂😂😂😂😂 I bet their life is 1000x better than yours is... but of course they should work on their life towards whatever they want- that's the point for all of us- so go ahead & go work on your life
@@jamaicanqueen1058The cool thing is that all of us got to watch your generation be miserable & fcked by men. A lot of us already raised your children while you fought. I choose happiness. If I'm wrong- that's none of your business- go live your life
@@eunicebediako6749. What material benefits? Most of them don’t even have anything 😅 and you can do all that and still have same results. Look at all the women that thought they found ‘the one’ and their results. 😴
There are many reasons a woman is childfree; some are by choice and some are not by choice. Either way, live your life. This is not a competition.
Right I’m 29 and still child free…and I feel like when it comes to that topic people should mind their business…like u don’t know what’s the reasons behind someone not having kids
I was literally wondering why I felt I had no purpose. Now I realize I need a hobby.😅
SINGLE WOMEN LIVE LONGER ❤
Notice how all the older childfree women look healthy and youthful because they have less stress.
I don’t think that’s really necessary to say . Yeah it’s great to look youthful , but your saying mothers who make sacrifices to raise members of society including yourself look old n wrinkly bc of that ! wow that’s a shallow comment ?!? U don’t have to put that out into the world even if u think that… we all are women here and we just need to support each other as women childfree or not
@@Simeon1212yall can’t support each other if people keep trying to push this narrative that if you don’t have kids, you’re going to be lonely and miserable. This is an ignorant mindset because people have different values in life that doesn’t involve a family or kids
@@disasterxdeath did I say anything about having kids or not ???? Read my comment and u will understand what I said . I don’t give 2 Fs what woman want to do with their life . But they don’t need to tear down other women bc of the choices they make . That’s why I said we are ALL women here & we should support each other . The comment she made was shallow & targeting a certain group of women . I would say the same thing if it was the other way around .
@@Simeon1212 I wasn’t referring to you. I was just saying. It’s not that deep. We’re here sharing our opinions
Actually this is not true !! I’m a dermatologist & I can tell you first hand what makes a woman look healthy & youthful is genetics that is first baby or not . Second it is diet, exercise, lifestyle, stress levels . With that being said yes pregnancy & motherhood will age you more or less depends on many factors . Like if you exercise? do you have a loving supportive partner ? Do you have financial stress ? Do you smoke ? Drink ?Etc. I see soo many child free women looking terrible & also looking great. Same with mothers. I’ve seen some mothers look AMAZING& not so great . Have u seen Bernice Burgos? That woman never ages . & that’s another thing having money & access to the best doctors . Let me say Motherhood can be the most beautiful journey & bring a lot of joy & happiness into one’s life . BUT, and this is a big but it’s not for everyone . Being childfree also can be good or bad . Ppl have to be honest both what they really want and stop living based of societal norms.
54 yo childfree cat lady and Loving every single second ❤🎉
When people say you will end up a crazy cat lady, I have always been looking forward to it 😂 I am nearing 40 and have several cats so I hope I qualify 😁
@@heatherlowe7330 i just turned 30 and have my first pet as an adult. Im already looking for more.
same, but I became childfree due to my daughter passing...but yeah...child and marriage free and at peace.
As you should.
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I tell everyone “Don’t have kids” and I got kids 😂😂😂😂😂. My daughters are 13 and I tell it to them straight baby! Please don’t be like mommy, do better. I tell them I got all the cheat codes, ask me I will help you to make the best decision for you, I promise I want to see my daughter win, and be as happy and content with their lives as possible.
You are a gem
My mom is like this. I followed her sage advice and I don't know who loves my Lifestyle more, me or her.😂😂😂
Me too. I have 2 boys and when women complain about not, cause thats what it sounds like, i tell them, they are not missing anything. Live your life!!!!!
Loved my life as a single girl, loving my life even more as a married woman and a new mom. Every one is on their own journey ❤
I'll answer. I raised my siblings from 6 y o while doing house work. I'm done raising children. 42 y o and have no regrets not having children. I spends my childhood, teenage years up to my 30s (financing my younger sibling throufh med school). I am done.😊❤
Wow! That was too much responsibility on you. I hope you start spending on yourself now.
@@nurlindafsihotang49 you already had kids you don't need more. Many people don't acknowledge people raising their nieces and nephews or taking care of their sick parents, or raising siblings where is their mother's day gift, does anybody say happy mother's day to them? They don't get enough credit for what they do.
😂 that lady who made coffee and had no regrets about being single and child-free. Haha well done Stella ❤
I think the problem is trynna use other people to gauge where you “should” be. You made your decisions that’s where you are. Move from there in the direction that you want to go. Granted you can’t unhave kids but it’s never too late to choose you.
I’m 38, no kids, no pets, I have a boyfriend with the same lifestyle as mine and I can say that we live wonderfully ❤❤❤
58, single, no kids, just living my best life and always have.
One minute they shame single Black Mothers, then they shame you for not being a Mother.
60% of kids in the black community are born to single mothers. WE NEED TO SHAME Y'ALL BACK INTO COMMON SENSE.
If a woman says she doesn't want to have kids, it's none of your business.
You say she'll be old, alone, lonely with her cats.
Is it your old?
Is it your loneliness?
Is it your cats?
You may not live long enough to experience old age.
Mind your business kai!
Leave child free and marriage free women alone. Stop your obsession.
There are more women who want to be married and have children than those who don't want marriage not children, by an astronomical margin.
11:20 the way people cannot comprehend the concept of a childfree black woman is the bain of my life lol
they get offended that I get offended they asked! They really don’t expect anything from us except to be broodmares
What does bain mean?
So now you give me this information. I could have used this years ago. The second young woman with the book and the quiet cup of tea lol😂
That first TikTok >>>>> SO TRUE!! ❤ I’m 20 and I already know it’s gonna be a delight 😅😂
My mom is a married woman, stuck with my father for life, and she warns me time and again to not get into that hell, at least not unprepared, but neither she nor me know what can prepare a woman for marriage. Other times, she asks me to find some good man to marry, but again where are those good men? We haven't seen any in our lives! But one thing though, she doesn't need to tell me all these, seeing my father with my own very eyes is enough, enough for me to run away as far as I can from marriage.
My bf and I don’t not want kids. It’s now Fall and it’s my favorite season. We decided that we wanted to do some fun fall activities outside of the state we live in. So what did we do? We looked at our neighboring states and saw what activities they’ll be having and booked a location. We did it two weeks in advance because why not😭
Just to be clear, just because people don't have kids doesn't mean they don't have responsibilities, many people with no kids have to take care of their sick parents, raise their nieces and nephews .
I’m blessed to be surrounded by people who never pressured me about having children. If anything a few told me “good” like I escaped a cult when I said I don’t have any. I actually would love to be a mom but I can’t in good faith have a child without a man I know would be a hands on father and a doting husband. Since they don’t make a lot of those now a days I shall enjoy my friends, family, and spa days .
This! As long as i dont want/like kids enough to raise one by myself, i wont have kids. My man is also not into them so im just gonna save us the headache and lots of money 😅 ill be happy being an autie cat lady
I think the changing of the family structures have made parenting more challenging, but children are a blessing! I will never forget my grandmother’s words to my mother before she died and my father’s words to us when he was about to get one of his leg amputated. I have one daughter and if I had to do things all over again I would prioritize having more children. But to each his own. When I was in my 20’s I remember working with a group of managers who never got married and had kids and they would always encouraged me to do the opposite. Happy I did, although marriage can be a pain at times😊. My daughter brings me so much joy even as a teenager.
I think there are a lot of women who wants kids but can't find a decent man to have them with. Hell, a lot of women just want a partner to go through life with.
Ditto!
The moms who act better than childfree women are similar to the couples that act better than you just because they found a bf/gf (laughable) and push you to get married/ a relationship. Both show that misery loves company and showing off on social media won't fill the void.
Good point made earlier: everyone who's married with kids gets old, and the kids move out when they grow up.
Everyone should make whatever choice they want.
Omg!!! That Cynthia rug @7:24 !!!😂😂😂😂
34 no man no children and I'm happy
They are jealous of her freedom. Its the real hack.
I’m separated w/ 2 kids.. do I regret my decisions, no not at all, but I commend anyone who says they don’t want kids because they are “selfish” when really that’s the most selfless thing to do!!
I’m 43 and have no children I had a hysterectomy last year because I knew I didn’t want to have children because iam already struggling which makes no sense to bring another human being into the world and struggle even more I get the side eye when I meet guys and they find out I don’t have any children babies are hella expensive and I love my freedom and my money
Look out for early menopause.
All the best 😊
@@VeeKayGreenerGrass I have a while for that I kept my ovaries but I’ll be ready for it when it does show face 😳
@@Yo-yo-dt5ze If you had a hysterectomy, whether a partial or total, you don't have a period anymore and have entered menopause. You may have light bleeding for up to a year because the cervix still contains some endometrial cells, which line the uterus but you don't have a period anymore.
@@Yo-yo-dt5ze If you don't have a uterus, you can't have a period. If they left your ovaries you might not have other menopausal symptoms right away, but you may have them a few years younger than the average age for menopause. You might also experience hot flashes because the surgery may have blocked blood flow to the ovaries.
Honestly, I’m noticing a pattern. More intelligent a woman is, the more she is less prone to marry and have kids. Not saying there is not a ton of smart women who have kids. In this day and age I can’t see myself married with kids. Personally I just grew up in a toxic environment and just want peace.
I think thier was a study the higher the woman IQ the less she will marry or have kids
Intelligent women have higher standards for a man in terms of education, profession and maturity, and look for someone capable of co-parenting. They are smart enough to avoid spawning with a manchild.
5:08 Sis shoot the link for this solo travel! Shiiiiiiiiid!
Having a family is hard work. I’m happy for any woman who chose their path. If that path is a family or being single and free- I’m happy for you.
I am 24 and I live with my step dad and 3 younger siblings. The freeness and happiness that I feel when I get the rare moments that I am home alone is something that I look forward to feeling all the time within the next year.
I feel like if you want kids and a family do it. If not, don’t. But I person don’t get jealous of people who can travel and “move freely” 😂 I genuinely enjoy life more post becoming a mom.
However I have an amazing partner who is the love of my life. And that the biggest difference. If I didn’t have him then I wouldn’t be as happy with my decision. I know many mom who had children with not the best man and I understand why some women can regret their decision.
This is so true!! I think who you choose to have children with makes the biggest difference.
Parenthood isn’t for everyone. Kudos to the people who live in truth. I just find it disheartening to hear people say “children are a burden” as if we all weren’t children once who simply wanted love and protection. I think mothers and child-free equally need support in the role that they carry because being a human is not easy in either capacity.
I love being a mother but I don’t shame other women who don’t. My sister is in that group and that fine. My sister and I are both getting our tubes tied. She doesn’t want children at all and I only want the two I have. Be responsible and get preeminently sterilized if you don’t want to or no longer want children. It’s the responsible thing to do!
I suspect women who truly want kids vs those who have them because it’s the norm make the best mothers. I think people can sense when they are wanted vs just tolerated.
Don’t think about being childfree. I think about me and I LOVE SILENCE! OMG! Self improvement and who knows? I thank the lord that my mother is very strict with me. Being careful with my energy, my time, repelling things/people that weren’t meant for me 🎉🎉🎉 I’m the happiest I’ve ever been! 💁🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️
It’s really, really fun, peaceful and quiet ☺️😌
I just saw on X a thread of a woman ranting about child free people saying her kid is going to be alone because he won't have cousins and also what a burden will be to him to take care of all the family when they're old (and of course he will because she's raising him well). She says maybe we don't know yet what caring for our old parents is... oh no, we know, that's part of why we don't want kids.
I have a daughter and I do not want her to have to care for me in my old age. I plan to be active and mobile. Should something happen where I am not, I want to have things set up so that my care is not her responsibility nor a burden on her. She can love me, visit me (or we can live together), and she can ensure that those caring for me are good people and that I'm treated well. But I want my child to thoroughly enjoy her life!
Yes we definitely know! To not only speak on the fact that her child won’t have any cousins but expect her own child to care of his relatives when they get older. It seems like some people with children don’t think that something could happen down the line where their child wouldn’t be able to care for them. Whether it’s a job, a falling out where the child goes no contact or a medical condition. To have that expectation for the child/children isn’t great
@@TabJoy7Agree! I have one daughter and I am not looking forward to throwing my burden on her when I get older. I am putting my finances and everything in place from now so she will not need to worry about this.
I remember the elation I felt when I went to college and could finally do whatever, whenever. It's the hug of freedom in every morning sip of coffee. Daydreaming in mind-numbing silence. Sleep in. Go out. Play my favorite song on repeat a hundred times. Leave my clothes on the floor. Nobody complains. My favorite snack is still there when I get home. 😂
back up. What cruise is that? I want that!
Try Virgin Voyages! Its adult only and still new to the game
@@Spokentruths725 I'll look it up thanks! Sounds like something I would totally dig
@@Spokentruths725thank you!!
I’m delaying the experience as long as humanly possible! Marriage and kids can wait!
I am single mum of one child, my child saved my life so many times, I get all the love from my child🥺🥺 am nurturing and taking care of my child rewarding all the love 🎀🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 I love you the love of my life because of her I am still here other wise I should left this Earth
Go to therapy. Your kid will grow up and will lead a life of their own, and then what?
They need to spread their wings and grow up i hope you realize that
@@juliannehannes11 life is not worth it with out my child it satisfies me i do everything for her and am very happy!🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@rutafisseha5943 That child will turn 18 before you know it and by age 6 will have her own friends and won't want to spend time with you. You are damaging her by the pressure you put on her to be your everything. She is a child and she does not owe you anything, her job is not to make you happy and fufilled. Please join a mommy meet up group and make friends your own age.
Love is a powerful thing. Take good care of your child and they will take good care of you ❤
I'm 45, child free but fatigued all the time anyway. Sometimes I have elder care duties. I guess I could schedule some fun but am too tired.
The reward to have kids in the end is beautiful but not easy for anyone. I seen it from two prospectives and i understand. 💯💯💯
The push for women to have kids is solely to benefit capitalism. They need women in particular to have kids because then they have got you for the next 20+ years. You spend more, get into more debt as well as producing the next generation of consumers, workers and soldiers. Humanity is not dying out. In history whenever there has been a drop in population it has only benefited those who live in that time. Big business and corporations have a shortage of workers so they have to value people more. They have to pay better wages to attract people. The standard of living always rises. The more of us there are, the more competition, the worse the standards for everyone and all these media outlets fear mongering the public know it. Is it selfish not have kids? some might think so, others not. But so what if it is!! It’s amazing how people try to shame women by calling them selfish. Er….okay 🤷♀️ We’re all sinners right?? Also if all I have to offer world is my offspring I wouldn’t be shouting about it. Imagine all those years of studying, working, even being devout to your religion and your greatest accomplishment in life and gift to the world is the result of a quick anticlimactic (for most women) shag. How depressing.
I wonder how many people dislike having kids because they didn't know what it actually meant to be a parent. So many people get caught up in having a baby, but not actually raising children.
I have one child, 36-11 and am well off. However for the women who are regretting or not feeling fulfilled, I hate that for you.
As a married person in my late 20s who wants kids, I find it so gross that people shame women and men who do not want kids and try and bully them for their choices.
I don’t want men/women who don’t want children to have children. Those children end up suffering since the parents often resent them. Let’s praise child free people for being intentional with their reproduction and not making kids suffer.
How many irresponsible and immature people have unprotected seggs, have chicken they don’t want, mistreat, neglect, abandon or do all 3 to these kids and end up causing generational trauma.
I think it’s more selfish to have kids when you really don’t want them. Let them sit this one out and enjoy their lives.
The lady @ 17:06, I agree wholeheartedly. I felt all of your regrets and truly relate.
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Being a mentally beoken person in my 20s make my decision wise. My experience is not across the board but i wasnt ready for a baby or a man with so much wrong about ne.
I love having no kids. I get to do what I want, when I want! :)
Sounds awesome ladies ❤️ I did have three children - 1 my ex and then my 2 boys. It's hard but so much easier than it was with the ex. Need to talk about that too. The common theme is any situation women choose where a man is not the front and centre is demonised! Enjoy your child free life ladies. ❤️
43 here with a 19 and 14yrs old daughters! I tell them not to get married young, not to live with someone when they are young, and to delay children as much as they can… I am honest with them…
I'm just making up for lost time rediscovering myself and growing as myself. I'm just drawing so much of my time, each time fun, unique, playful-interesting. I'm more a playful kid at heart living in her kawaii lifestyle, creating creatively.
4:28 Nah, I need sis itinerary asap!
Nothinhg wrong with being childfree
i don’t have no desire to have kids so when the other woman started talking i was like🤢because wtf are they talking about?😂
I am 29, single, no kids and i wont it to change. Im living abroad and planning gonto another country in one year to work and study, i have a lot to do with my life, a lot of achievements that i want to make. ❤
Meanwhile in the house with kids mom hasn't been able to wash her hair in days and someone's puke is on the carpet and little Paisley won't eat her chicken nuggets because they're not dinosaur shaped but the regular ones were on sale 😂
I was literally thinking how would i keep up with wash days if i had kids, especially little girls because honestly with a boy im making dad handle that.
I had my first child at 38 and now my second at 40.
The majority of my life I was childless. I am more tired but 100% happier now than before children. My life has not stopped once I had my children. I still go on vacation, go out with friends, and go out on the weekends. I just take my kids with me to most places. It's sad that most of these videos portray motherhood as your life ending.
Choose the best path for you.
If I had kids, I couldn’t up and do the things I want/need to do. For example, I wanted to try my hand at renting my house out to see if that’s something I want to expand on and where else I’d like to buy property whether it be personal use or another rental property and while I’m figuring this out, I decided to stay with my mom to save and also, just in case I wound up with bad tenants that suddenly stopped paying rent or any large expenses popped up (which absolutely just happened in the form of a roof repair unfortunately). I’m glad I have the flexibility to do things like this instead of having to take kids into consideration. I can opt to move to the city in a studio or 1 bedroom or I can move to a more rural area with acreage for my dogs to run without having to worry about the school districts. I couldn’t just up and quit a toxic job that had me crying every day. Not having children is just one less stressor. Not to say there aren’t plenty of happy, successful, financially well off, traveling parents out there (my brother is one, way more successful and financially well off than me and travels more than I do for work and pleasure). It all boils down to what you personally want for yourself and honestly, making enough money lol,
Awesome solo travel schedule!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
It’s sad that most decisions are based off financial freedom. And most complaints are about a lack of financial freedom. My point is mothers should have a basic income.
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*Everyone* should receive livable wages.
As a mother of two, don’t have kids unless you want them. Not because it’s hard, or you get more freedom etc. I wouldn’t change it for the world. I say don’t have kids if you don’t want them, because kids deserve parents that want them. We don’t need more mentally unstable children, because they got scared by people that felt pressured to have them.
I don't feel like raising anybody and dealing with that eternal parental anxiety.And no offense but a kid could be born special needs, and that's another layer of issues. I'm good where I'm at.
Married Mom of 3 here. I love my babies 🥰 it’s not easy but it warms my heart. ❤️ I want 1 or 2 more Lord Willing. But also I wouldn’t rush to have kids and if you choose not to I don’t blame you! 😂I Didn’t have my first baby until I was 28 years old and married at that point. People choose to be miserable, whether they have children or not. Its really not the kids that make them miserable or lack there of. Life is what you make it.
There is nothing wrong with not having children if this is not what you want. People should respect other people's choices. However, I believe the younger generations have myopic views on motherhood today and are all about the astatics of life. As someone who worked at a physician's office who had to watch childless elderly people go through their senior years alone, it was heartbreaking. We had to do welfare checks on them when they didn't have to show up for their appointments, sometimes finding them unalived or in a vegetative state. There is a lot to consider, and at the end of the day, it is a woman's right and freedom to make such a decision.
Think long and hard before having a child. Even if married you'll probably wind up raising any children by yourself. Plus taking care of an overgrown baby.
I am 27 years old, don't want to get married or have kids. Funny thing is all my relatives who are very unhappily married and have kids just can't stop asking me to get married and have kids! I ask them why? they say because that's what you are supposed to do!.....yeah sure.
I’m 50, single and childfree. I do what I want, when I want, and more importantly, I DON’T do what I don’t want to do…peaceful.🤗
The idea that women in their 30’s or 40’s without children are happier or less happier than those with kids is highly speculative. You can travel the world, have a great career, make time to do the things you want with or without kids. Life is what you make it!
I'm 32 years old with no kids and will be leaving for Zanzibar in a few hours.Hope this helps!
Having kids thinking you are going to have these stable children that will take care of you when you get old . Life be Lifein and it never turns out that way . Not to mention children die , get unalived , become paralyzed, not care a myriad of reasons you still on your own . Let’s not even mention the waste of air MALE CHILDREN ARE 🤷🏽♀️. Take care of yourself , health ,travel get some hobbies and most of all maintain friendships.
Worse is when parents keep asking when they have grandchildren or even more grandchildren
Age 38 married with no kids. Life and marriage is good! 💕
Comparison is a thief of joy oh my why are you comparing your life to somebody else’s?
The lady quietly reading her book😂😂😂😂❤️
When I tell you how free I feel since my last child left home omg The feeling is indescribable 😊 and even tho I really love my children If I had to do it all over again I definitely would be child free!!!!!Children are just toooo much work 😒 🤷🏾♀️
I’m with you I have 3 and only one at home with me and she’s a teenager. My 20 year old came to visit a weekend ago and as soon as I went to bed she was smoking weed in my living room knowing full well I don’t approve of her smoking and let alone in my apartment. I was so glad to see her off the next day. So looking forward to my 17 year old finally moving on to university in two years. I think I’ll go on a cruise to celebrate my peace and freedom.