Informative video and stunning as always you have a inner light that shows when you talk dating wisdom. loved all four tips and details, being I'm introverted male have never dated or had a relationship Sometimes signs of attraction has went over my Head.
@@mac1bc easier said than done for a logical and analytical Person who that trait isn't a selling point, and no Degree cooking, tech self taught and learned
Love your videos...not that this question apolies to me as im in a healty loving relationship when and if she asks about your past relationships should you be honest and say you never had a girlfriend (but ONLY if its true) or would that creep her out, lol
She wants to be more than a friend. 1 she becomes physical.- she compliments you. 2 she asks a lot of questions about you. 3 she starts doing things for you- she might call, ask for lunch,coffee etc. 4 she compliments you.
You are so informative Appolonia. Yeah, I agree that women love to offer acts of service once they begin falling tor you. She may even begin commenting on a shoe that may look good on you or a certain suit that fits your physique, thus showing that she already understands you and what's best for you.
Damn, like I swear. I've been following you since last month.. This psychological stuff is the key to unlock the door into her heart and get past her traps and eventually finding the prize at the end of the maze.
Unfortunately, in my experience, the women I've encountered felt they should be the focus on my life rather than an addition to it. It's becoming more difficult to find women that can stand on their own let alone one that shares your values and interests.
All women want that from the men they choose. How come most married men cant take money out the house for something just for him without her getting pissed off and wanting a divorce. Remember one thing, women dont marry the man she marries the lifestyle he able to provide, and sex alone gets boring after the first week or so especially if you're fuckin 5x each day.
@@delljr2769 So, what do you want from women? Commitment? Well, you are then living in a wrong culture. Contract is what you are going to get, if you are from the west. If you want commitment then you can't break your own family bond (with your parents, brothers/sisters, relatives). There cannot be too much individualism. You got to compromise somewhere. India has the lowest divorce rates in the world. It is because of ancient culture/tradition of monogamy and family bonding. If the man loses his job, wife will go to work to save the family. Husband will look after the children. Wife wakes up early in the morning, cooks for the whole family and then go to work. Neither husband nor wife cheats mostly because they know that they are violating the natural law (dharma) because it can create karma or cause and effect. So at philosophical level also India is different (even though they are also aping the west blindly nowadays). Mostly there is no blind hedonism or materialism
Women today are a complicated species. This shy woman shows me all the signs of attraction, then she just stays quiet. Maybe I should try to ask her interests and hobbies, the see if anything happens. If not, then move on.
Just focus on your life and let them do what they want they are manipulated by the media to yhe point of not wanting what they want so hit the gym and focus on money
i think this is the first time i'm got onto your page and i think i'm looking because of a situation i have at work where the girl ( and i'm krazy for her ) compliments me like to day she said " you're killin it with the outfit i was wearing ". not the first time for that kind of compliment - she and i have been going back and forth like this for months - I keep putting myself "On Hold" because i want to make sure my "Intentions" or "Intention" is how it should be. I've been single for quite a while because i made the decision to stop picking the wrong women till i figure out what i was doing wrong. i've put myself in check with this woman so many times it came to the point i said to myself ( for the first time ever about anyone ) " i unconditionally love her " - and then i put that on hold - since i see her at work regularly we bump into each other and then i'm right back to being krazy about her.... i'm all vulnerable because i can't hide my damn feelings which means almost everyone at work sees what's going on . She's not the kind of woman who would ever say first though that she's interested she's way too smart for that at least i'm pretty sure about that. I think i accidentally and insensitively hurt her feelings once because she was gone for a month thought i'd never see her ever again. I was freeking LOOSING IT mope'n around the whole month people asked me "what's wrong are you ok". Yeah i can deal - but she showed up unexpectedly one day just dropping in and came back to see me and i was just OMFG - i was so in the moment krazy to see her i couldn't help and the only words out of my mouth were " i missed you" ....then she had to go so right back again thought i'd never see her again----. then the next day she showed up to work and i was so excited/happy/thrilled to see her show up i had to just put myself on hold completely - was the only way i get a grip on myself - so of course she comes almost running out to the yard where i work and said in the most beautiful tone of voice i've heard from her " how are you doing " and i was practically non reactive because of my state of mind and needed to have some kind of control of myself - all i said was i'm doing pretty good and didn't make a connection like i wished i had .... I think she was so excited because she took me saying the day before " i missed you " as me saying lets heat things up ..( but i can't be sure and don't want to assume anything )... Anyway she walked away and a few minutes i saw her and she was a little depressed which i've never seen her because she's always so full of joy ( what i love about her )..... Lonng story short here - watching your video here - i already realize i care for this girl more than i've ever cared for anyone in my life - mmmmm i'm telling ya ( i gota get a grip on myself ) but when you say women like to know what a guys thinking and or women look for how a guy makes them "Feel" - i felt like maybe next time i see her oor at the next opportune appropriate moment i should just tell her " i've never cared for anyone like i care for her " ----- it's so not the same as just saying " OH i LOVE YOU" which can sound like BS - but today i couldn't help myself and i walked up to her and said " your amazing " --- she was very receptve about that asked me why i thought so LOL - anyway i just told her " you just are ".. i've been trying to figure out how to break this ice with her and stick my neck out without feeling like a fool in the process or some lame ass and think if i tell her i've never cared about anyone as much it's a fairly neutral approach ............. anyway thnx for your vid has helped me think through this a bit ------ it's weird - i've put myself in check so many times with her i crossed the road that i like her so much for who she is that how i feel is UNConditional - and that's a damn first for me --------- i feel so out in unfamiliar territory with her i'm just KRAZY - anyway - thnx again
The day I want a woman is the day I find one without major entitlement issues. I'd have to go outside North America. Where most women live half way between fantasy and reality. "I'm strong and independant" they say. "Could you do this because I can't" 5 minutes later.
Already know she likes me Sign no 1. She offered to share her coffee with me after she drank it from the sipping orifice (because why am I going to be a dick and remove the entire lid)🤣 #2 She does dish out compliments with my response being a simple thank you. #3 I show her my scars and she touches them (very important) you can implement this strategy in your conversations and find out for yourself🙂 #4 when you leave, hugs that last more than 5 seconds followed by a deep breath (she's already planning on thinking about you when you leave....imagine that!) #5 also when you leave and no hugs are involved yet, she'll just voluntarily escort you. You'll see the way she does it and it will not feel as if it was forced. There you go
You rock ! Thank you I went into rock bottom when my best friend was killed and my Girlfriend of 7 years walked out on me shortly after, but I have been watching your all videos and it makes me hopeful for the future . Also the girl I always have had a secret crush on hit me up out of no where so (: with your help I think I got this life thing .
Hi Stonie, Wow! That is a lot and I know it can be difficult. I'm so happy you can find support with my videos. I am here for you even if it's just a video. Stay strong and I know you got this life thing! xo Best, Apollonia
Second video I watched of yours, and you're really honest, and realistic. I find women to be a real mystery, and usually don't like to put too much thought, or assume...let's just say I'm oblivious to signals, or find myself in denial over any signs that a girl gives me, just to spare myself possible disappointment. I find your advice very sincere, so I suppose I'll subscribe, and see what more I can learn from you. I'm definitely not a player, and would really like to meet someone special. I'll have to watch your last video b/c my last relationship was a nightmare. :)
true but that's where being masculine comes into play. If you see the signs, aske her out. If she says yes then she likes you and is worth giving a shot. If she says no than she either doesn't like and is just playing games, or she likes you but not enough to date. Either way move on.
This was solid advice. Thank you! Perhaps a video on how Not to be constantly a woman's Second or even last choice after other guys. How to find a sweetheart of your own? I'm still stuck in opening a door for a lady days, so I may be in left field still. A gentleman in his late 30's is not an appeal these days. -Comanche Nation -
Apollonia Ponti Your words are on point. Although, women pride themselves on How Many choices they have these days. They Always seem to know I am still alone and modern females want Nothing to do with a hard working man so it's a guarantee that I will be alone for when they are done with the guys they choose first. True statement : A man and his Mamma is More appealing than a man and his dog these days. -Comanche Nation
my crush is always looking for me and always smiling etc. i never heard her ask me any question or her being curious about me. Its like shes two different people and shes also a bit cold when she leaves work
I read Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages. Good book. He talked about us having a love tank like a car has a gas tank and our love tank get filled by a good woman. My cheating former wife of 20 years was too busy shooting holes in my tank. The only 'love' I had at that time is that I LOVED telling her we were done. Dating seems a bit daunting now a days.
Thank you Apollonia. I think that a woman will do whatever she can to show how fun she is as a person to hook up with you. By the way, you know what i love about you Apollonia is that you know what you are doing especially that white outfit. I'm happy you became confident wearing it. You look fantastic and remember you ate always loved by me. Allah bless you Apollonia.
Why don't you make some videos for women and teach them how to directly walk up to a guy and say lets get a room and sleep together. Life would b simple instead of all this drama for men n women.
You've just answered your own question. Aside from that, most women want to be pursued and aren't interested in just getting a room and sleeping together.
Great book! Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman is a win. Read that book back when it was first published. Highly recommended along with Love and Respect by Dr Emerson Eggerich.
I fell for a woman who actually tried to make it look like it's bad for being in love...Like how is that bad loving someone? And when I stopped hanging around with her, she began to tell all her friends and everyone that I left her cause I had feelings for her which is stupid (in her own perspective)....I mean tried to flirt and cared for her, I even trusted her, and was always there for her but she would say I make her feel uncomfortable and now I have stopped caring and moved on, she began telling everyone that I left her cause I fell in love with her...I mean what does she even want really? @.@ I am confused tbh... Now everyone comes to me and asks me if it's true...why did I leave if I have feelings for her? Well wtf ever? Why are women have to be pain in the arse sometimes man? Totally complicated...
Excellent choice. Sign up for his news letters, invaluable advice. If you don't know how you naturally want to be shown that you're loved, you'll always be looking in the wrong places.
I would say that her breakdown of how men and women differ in respect to attraction is more descriptive of the difference between demi sexual and normal sexual attraction. There are men and women who are both.
Karma or cause and effect based on past lives of a person is the primary decider. All the other superficial reasons and analysis are secondary. Nothing is random. Free will cannot achieve anything beyond what is pre-programmed by karma in our lives. If your karma was to come across beautiful women and get into relationships with them despite being ugly, it would happen. Despite being a tom cruise look alike if your karma was not to across beautiful women, it would also happen
The girl i really like will never ask questions like that so i know this will happen because the only time we are around each other is in church and church activities
Hey Apollonia, huge fan after one video that I've been on a binge watching all your other videos. They've been super helpful and I appreciate everything you've done for us guys. I'm currently talking to a girl things seem to be going great. We're pretty open about liking each other but we haven't talked about a relationship or commitment. It has only been a few weeks so I think it's still early but when is a good time frame to start talking about working towards a relationship?
Ask her what she's doing this weekend...jf she gets horrified, you have your answer. All you have to do is calmly say, "I was looking for a place to gi with my cousin, sister, friend..." Then just use the chick as practice...practice talking ti her and making her laugh...and don't get your hopes up, you're practicing for the next girl that comes along.
This woman likes me, misses me, attractive towards me, thinks of me, calls and check on me everyday, and wants to plan things with me, and we are just friends. Does this sounds like friends to you?
Yep and then you find out women for some reasons don't want a good guy ! Some women say" there's no good men left" , I say learn how to pick a them .. Don't pick the "bad boy" and expect not to get hurt , lol... And by the way stop playing games ,we as grown men have no time for that .. We only have one life to live no different then you so just tell us what you expect out of us and let US decide if that's what we want instead of getting us emotionally involved and attached just to play emotional games with our feelings ... And please ladies we real men respect honesty, faithfulness, and loyalty, no different than you ..
Let say for argument sake, I was a Lesbian,Bisexual,Transsexual or even Gay.What signs would she show to me.You find these in life.That is what life is all about.❤️.
Unfortunately, three of these absolutely do not necessarily show that they want to be more than just friends. Only reason three, I.e., going out of their way to help/do things for you is correct in this list.
Informative video and stunning as always you have a inner light that shows when you talk dating wisdom. loved all four tips and details, being I'm introverted male have never dated or had a relationship Sometimes signs of attraction has went over my Head.
Hi Demetruis,
Happy you enjoy the videos! Also, hope my videos help with attraction in the future.
Best,
Apollonia
@@ApolloniaPonti they do Sometimes I second guess attraction from rejection Fear. Thanks for Reply
We can tell sir. Get out there and start getting some rejections under your belt.
@@mac1bc easier said than done for a logical and analytical Person who that trait isn't a selling point, and no Degree cooking, tech self taught and learned
Love your videos...not that this question apolies to me as im in a healty loving relationship when and if she asks about your past relationships should you be honest and say you never had a girlfriend (but ONLY if its true) or would that creep her out, lol
She took her dress off in front of me and just stood there smiling...I had no idea if she wanted to be more than just friends :)
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She wants to be more than a friend.
1 she becomes physical.- she compliments you.
2 she asks a lot of questions about you.
3 she starts doing things for you- she might call, ask for lunch,coffee etc.
4 she compliments you.
my sister wants to be more than friend?
@@thierry1026 HAhAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Watch Game of Thrones in front of her to see if it's true.
@@thierry1026 Maybe she wants to be your monetary recipient.
Then she says you're my big brother!!
@@thierry1026 Bro 😂
If she's trying to help she still might just be being a good friend. Friends help each other.
I think #3 is the best one because she's taking her time and investing in you.
Investing in you yeah Off course Most Women do that 🤔😉😱😄😀😆😆🤪🤪🤪😂😂
You are so informative Appolonia. Yeah, I agree that women love to offer acts of service once they begin falling tor you.
She may even begin commenting on a shoe that may look good on you or a certain suit that fits your physique, thus showing that she already understands you and what's best for you.
Many coaches stress avoiding questions about past relationships, but if she starts talking about it, I enjoy listening to those experiences.
Your channel is super underrated. You give some of the best advice and insight I’ve ever heard. Keep it up
I always wait till Apollonia says "You.. are always.. loved" before going to her next video. It makes me smile every time! You are AWESOME Apollonia!
Damn, like I swear. I've been following you since last month.. This psychological stuff is the key to unlock the door into her heart and get past her traps and eventually finding the prize at the end of the maze.
Unfortunately, in my experience, the women I've encountered felt they should be the focus on my life rather than an addition to it. It's becoming more difficult to find women that can stand on their own let alone one that shares your values and interests.
All women want that from the men they choose. How come most married men cant take money out the house for something just for him without her getting pissed off and wanting a divorce. Remember one thing, women dont marry the man she marries the lifestyle he able to provide, and sex alone gets boring after the first week or so especially if you're fuckin 5x each day.
@@delljr2769 So, what do you want from women? Commitment? Well, you are then living in a wrong culture. Contract is what you are going to get, if you are from the west. If you want commitment then you can't break your own family bond (with your parents, brothers/sisters, relatives). There cannot be too much individualism. You got to compromise somewhere. India has the lowest divorce rates in the world. It is because of ancient culture/tradition of monogamy and family bonding.
If the man loses his job, wife will go to work to save the family. Husband will look after the children. Wife wakes up early in the morning, cooks for the whole family and then go to work. Neither husband nor wife cheats mostly because they know that they are violating the natural law (dharma) because it can create karma or cause and effect. So at philosophical level also India is different (even though they are also aping the west blindly nowadays). Mostly there is no blind hedonism or materialism
She did all of those signs. Still rejected me
Same here. I should've known, the body language was not genuine. It wasn't there in her eyes
She was just playing or got bored . Same happened to me . No worries mate
Women today are a complicated species. This shy woman shows me all the signs of attraction, then she just stays quiet. Maybe I should try to ask her interests and hobbies, the see if anything happens. If not, then move on.
Just focus on your life and let them do what they want they are manipulated by the media to yhe point of not wanting what they want so hit the gym and focus on money
Might you didn’t effort enough or she just played with you
WOW! Earth shaking signs! She flirts with you! Who would have thunk it! Amazing revelation!
Been taking serious notes lol and honestly, I've had this happen on recent dates. Great video Ms Ponti! The signs are there if your paying attention 😀
Yes! So happy you're here! Thank you!
Best,
Apollonia
i think this is the first time i'm got onto your page and i think i'm looking because of a situation i have at work where the girl ( and i'm krazy for her ) compliments me like to day she said " you're killin it with the outfit i was wearing ". not the first time for that kind of compliment - she and i have been going back and forth like this for months - I keep putting myself "On Hold" because i want to make sure my "Intentions" or "Intention" is how it should be. I've been single for quite a while because i made the decision to stop picking the wrong women till i figure out what i was doing wrong. i've put myself in check with this woman so many times it came to the point i said to myself ( for the first time ever about anyone ) " i unconditionally love her " - and then i put that on hold - since i see her at work regularly we bump into each other and then i'm right back to being krazy about her.... i'm all vulnerable because i can't hide my damn feelings which means almost everyone at work sees what's going on . She's not the kind of woman who would ever say first though that she's interested she's way too smart for that at least i'm pretty sure about that. I think i accidentally and insensitively hurt her feelings once because she was gone for a month thought i'd never see her ever again. I was freeking LOOSING IT mope'n around the whole month people asked me "what's wrong are you ok". Yeah i can deal - but she showed up unexpectedly one day just dropping in and came back to see me and i was just OMFG - i was so in the moment krazy to see her i couldn't help and the only words out of my mouth were " i missed you" ....then she had to go so right back again thought i'd never see her again----. then the next day she showed up to work and i was so excited/happy/thrilled to see her show up i had to just put myself on hold completely - was the only way i get a grip on myself - so of course she comes almost running out to the yard where i work and said in the most beautiful tone of voice i've heard from her " how are you doing " and i was practically non reactive because of my state of mind and needed to have some kind of control of myself - all i said was i'm doing pretty good and didn't make a connection like i wished i had .... I think she was so excited because she took me saying the day before " i missed you " as me saying lets heat things up ..( but i can't be sure and don't want to assume anything )... Anyway she walked away and a few minutes i saw her and she was a little depressed which i've never seen her because she's always so full of joy ( what i love about her )..... Lonng story short here - watching your video here - i already realize i care for this girl more than i've ever cared for anyone in my life - mmmmm i'm telling ya ( i gota get a grip on myself ) but when you say women like to know what a guys thinking and or women look for how a guy makes them "Feel" - i felt like maybe next time i see her oor at the next opportune appropriate moment i should just tell her " i've never cared for anyone like i care for her " ----- it's so not the same as just saying " OH i LOVE YOU" which can sound like BS - but today i couldn't help myself and i walked up to her and said " your amazing " --- she was very receptve about that asked me why i thought so LOL - anyway i just told her " you just are ".. i've been trying to figure out how to break this ice with her and stick my neck out without feeling like a fool in the process or some lame ass and think if i tell her i've never cared about anyone as much it's a fairly neutral approach ............. anyway thnx for your vid has helped me think through this a bit ------ it's weird - i've put myself in check so many times with her i crossed the road that i like her so much for who she is that how i feel is UNConditional - and that's a damn first for me --------- i feel so out in unfamiliar territory with her i'm just KRAZY - anyway - thnx again
This Is A Great Video!!! Thanks for sharing! I agree with all your 4 points at least it holds true in My Experience 👌👌👌💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥
Apollonian is the best I’ve seen on advising men with understanding women.
Thanks so much!
get the series of books men are from mars women are from venus
@@49inxs great books!!!
The day I want a woman is the day I find one without major entitlement issues. I'd have to go outside North America. Where most women live half way between fantasy and reality. "I'm strong and independant" they say. "Could you do this because I can't" 5 minutes later.
Hi good morning love watching your videos
Thank you so much for your help and support ❤️ 🙏❣️ 😊 for me to get it done
Thank you so much for your help.
She wants to be more than friends; buy She doesn’t want to be my girlfriend, she wants to be my “super friend” 😂 hell no
Yes, you should be her BFF...BEST FRIEND F@CK !
@@donaldfewell9929 - When you get this figured out, please let the rest of us slobs know!
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@@vumeopower BEST F@CK FRIEND you mean.
Ha Ha!! Right, she just can't tell you she likes you romantically!! Even, though the balls in her court!!
Already know she likes me
Sign no 1. She offered to share her coffee with me after she drank it from the sipping orifice (because why am I going to be a dick and remove the entire lid)🤣
#2 She does dish out compliments with my response being a simple thank you.
#3 I show her my scars and she touches them (very important) you can implement this strategy in your conversations and find out for yourself🙂
#4 when you leave, hugs that last more than 5 seconds followed by a deep breath (she's already planning on thinking about you when you leave....imagine that!)
#5 also when you leave and no hugs are involved yet, she'll just voluntarily escort you. You'll see the way she does it and it will not feel as if it was forced.
There you go
She does all of it. Keeps coming around etc.
Still wants to stay friends.
I must be really deep inside the friendzone 😅
I love your videos an music can I have yr tune please
She just wanted your attention
Is it me or just every time I see a girl named Apollonia I immediately think on Godfather 1 ...
Wonderfully said.
how many got here because shes so pretty?
1. ✔
2. ✔
3. ✔
4. ✔
...and she still flakes
Ernie Contreras. Lol
Ain't that some shit
friendzone??
Lol
Dude same fucking problem
What the fuck :p
You rock ! Thank you I went into rock bottom when my best friend was killed and my Girlfriend of 7 years walked out on me shortly after, but I have been watching your all videos and it makes me hopeful for the future .
Also the girl I always have had a secret crush on hit me up out of no where so (: with your help I think I got this life thing .
Hi Stonie,
Wow! That is a lot and I know it can be difficult. I'm so happy you can find support with my videos. I am here for you even if it's just a video. Stay strong and I know you got this life thing! xo
Best,
Apollonia
@@ApolloniaPonti thanks so much
That's real it's good talk about yourself.
3:19 You were about to say "Men are f*cked" 😂😂😂 Tell 'em how you really feel! Lol. (Low key, I'll admit we definitely are 😉)
I rewound it to catch the gear shift away from the F bomb. It was pretty funny.
Lol u had me dying!!!! Lol i pressed 3:19 over and over again!! Lol
@@dominicbrogsdale3348 Me too! Lol
Thanks for the information Appollonia. Love the tan.....beautiful
Great advice apollonia. Very helpful
Wow! No wonder! I was just being patronized and tolerated!
I cant believe guys actually dont know this eye contact and smiling always worked for me then the chase is on
Love that book. 5 love languages.
Thank you is the Goldmine of information
Second video I watched of yours, and you're really honest, and realistic. I find women to be a real mystery, and usually don't like to put too much thought, or assume...let's just say I'm oblivious to signals, or find myself in denial over any signs that a girl gives me, just to spare myself possible disappointment.
I find your advice very sincere, so I suppose I'll subscribe, and see what more I can learn from you. I'm definitely not a player, and would really like to meet someone special. I'll have to watch your last video b/c my last relationship was a nightmare. :)
Love your videos, they have been very helpful and inspirational! Continue doing what you do best!
Thank you! Will do!
Ain't nobody got time for that
This is exactly how my GF was acting towards me when we first met💯 the same exact stuff.
Women know women like men know men!! Best 2 u 2!!
What happens now is she still acting that way?
Thank you for this!
My pleasure!
But women also flirt just for attention. You can’t win
Thats so true man, and now we have to ask "how we know if she is just playing or flirting"
true but that's where being masculine comes into play. If you see the signs, aske her out. If she says yes then she likes you and is worth giving a shot. If she says no than she either doesn't like and is just playing games, or she likes you but not enough to date. Either way move on.
@@Shadow127534 Being masculine. lol.
Oh yeah bud you do win..Tequilla shots help matters tremendously!
Make her do the things for you. If she goes out of her way to things for you, you can probably tell she likes you.
Great video, so much on point and accurate
No touching no text no call only eye contact body language and conversation and shes married and I know them both.. Muxed signals big time
And here I thought it was when she " has both legs thrown over her shoulders" (smile)!
Heyyyy, you've removed the buddha head and laptop. Lol.
I really loved that background scene madame
This was solid advice. Thank you!
Perhaps a video on how Not to be constantly a woman's Second or even last choice after other guys.
How to find a sweetheart of your own?
I'm still stuck in opening a door for a lady days, so I may be in left field still. A gentleman in his late 30's is not an appeal these days.
-Comanche Nation
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Hi There!
A gentleman in his late 30's is very appealing! If you are a woman's second choice then you shouldn't be a choice at all.
Best,
Apollonia
Apollonia Ponti Your words are on point.
Although, women pride themselves on How Many choices they have these days.
They Always seem to know I am still alone and modern females want Nothing to do with a hard working man so it's a guarantee that I will be alone for when they are done with the guys they choose first.
True statement :
A man and his Mamma is More appealing than a man and his dog these days.
-Comanche Nation
Really good video , I recognise myself in it
Is called giving take be kind to each other care for each other look after each other have a laugh and a joke make each other happy simple as that
my crush is always looking for me and always smiling etc. i never heard her ask me any question or her being curious about me. Its like shes two different people and shes also a bit cold when she leaves work
Your Awesome and so is she.
I read Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages. Good book. He talked about us having a love tank like a car has a gas tank and our love tank get filled by a good woman. My cheating former wife of 20 years was too busy shooting holes in my tank. The only 'love' I had at that time is that I LOVED telling her we were done.
Dating seems a bit daunting now a days.
Great she does that but keep saying (in friendly and respectful way)
This is so rare! LOL! Once you are in the friend zone you never get out unless she has aged and no longer attractive!
Sad that I didn't check my notifications oflate. Missed you r videos badly.
She made fun of me lmao and u say that’s a sign thankx 😂❤️
Tease me please me - yeah possible
*Eats popcorn as he listens in on this*
You bring men hope, thank you
A woman who wants to be more than just friends thats what you want just tell her straight up its the only way she can talk to you
Some people do like complimenting everyone though
Thank you Apollonia. I think that a woman will do whatever she can to show how fun she is as a person to hook up with you.
By the way, you know what i love about you Apollonia is that you know what you are doing especially that white outfit.
I'm happy you became confident wearing it. You look fantastic and remember you ate always loved by me.
Allah bless you Apollonia.
Brilliant wisdom!!
Why don't you make some videos for women and teach them how to directly walk up to a guy and say lets get a room and sleep together. Life would b simple instead of all this drama for men n women.
You've just answered your own question. Aside from that, most women want to be pursued and aren't interested in just getting a room and sleeping together.
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Great book! Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman is a win. Read that book back when it was first published. Highly recommended along with Love and Respect by Dr Emerson Eggerich.
Thanks Apollonia!
You're welcome!
God bless you ✊🏻
You too!
I fell for a woman who actually tried to make it look like it's bad for being in love...Like how is that bad loving someone? And when I stopped hanging around with her, she began to tell all her friends and everyone that I left her cause I had feelings for her which is stupid (in her own perspective)....I mean tried to flirt and cared for her, I even trusted her, and was always there for her but she would say I make her feel uncomfortable and now I have stopped caring and moved on, she began telling everyone that I left her cause I fell in love with her...I mean what does she even want really? @.@ I am confused tbh...
Now everyone comes to me and asks me if it's true...why did I leave if I have feelings for her? Well wtf ever? Why are women have to be pain in the arse sometimes man? Totally complicated...
Damn that's sucks bro 😟
Awesome thank you 👏
You look so classy here. Just beautiful.
On this planet, it is prohibited to fall in love without reading Chapman's 'The five love languages'
Excellent choice. Sign up for his news letters, invaluable advice. If you don't know how you naturally want to be shown that you're loved, you'll always be looking in the wrong places.
@@farshimelt where to sign up?
This is my phone, not Michael Cary's phone.
Great advice
I would say that her breakdown of how men and women differ in respect to attraction is more descriptive of the difference between demi sexual and normal sexual attraction. There are men and women who are both.
Karma or cause and effect based on past lives of a person is the primary decider. All the other superficial reasons and analysis are secondary. Nothing is random. Free will cannot achieve anything beyond what is pre-programmed by karma in our lives. If your karma was to come across beautiful women and get into relationships with them despite being ugly, it would happen. Despite being a tom cruise look alike if your karma was not to across beautiful women, it would also happen
If some guy, ANY guy, didn't figure all this out before watching this video, then the cause is lost.
Men from Asian cultures don't get it. It's very complicated there.
The girl i really like will never ask questions like that so i know this will happen because the only time we are around each other is in church and church activities
Tim Esmond If I were you I would ask her to do something outside of church. She'll know what you mean.
This ultra new category 🔥 😂😂
Half girlfriend 😉🤔💜
Hey Apollonia, huge fan after one video that I've been on a binge watching all your other videos. They've been super helpful and I appreciate everything you've done for us guys. I'm currently talking to a girl things seem to be going great. We're pretty open about liking each other but we haven't talked about a relationship or commitment. It has only been a few weeks so I think it's still early but when is a good time frame to start talking about working towards a relationship?
She calls me sweet names like love, baby..I don't do the same but she hasn't stopped.
ask if( NO ) MOVE ON !!! LIFE IS SIMPLE!!!!
OKAY she did all freakin' 4... I asked her if she's interested in anyone, she said NO🙃🙃Now I'm confused and lost interest
ask her if yall want to try to be more than friends
Ask her what she's doing this weekend...jf she gets horrified, you have your answer. All you have to do is calmly say, "I was looking for a place to gi with my cousin, sister, friend..." Then just use the chick as practice...practice talking ti her and making her laugh...and don't get your hopes up, you're practicing for the next girl that comes along.
Thank you👍 learning alot from you
Happy Singles Awareness Day #ForeverAlone
APOLLONIA PONTIIIIIIIIIII 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I mean I have almost never seen a woman do this to me. They are usually too insecure even to deliver a compliment
This woman likes me, misses me, attractive towards me, thinks of me, calls and check on me everyday, and wants to plan things with me, and we are just friends. Does this sounds like friends to you?
Yep and then you find out women for some reasons don't want a good guy ! Some women say" there's no good men left" , I say learn how to pick a them .. Don't pick the "bad boy" and expect not to get hurt , lol... And by the way stop playing games ,we as grown men have no time for that .. We only have one life to live no different then you so just tell us what you expect out of us and let US decide if that's what we want instead of getting us emotionally involved and attached just to play emotional games with our feelings ... And please ladies we real men respect honesty, faithfulness, and loyalty, no different than you ..
0:52 throws grass at you AND ONLY YOU at soccer practice?
Let say for argument sake, I was a Lesbian,Bisexual,Transsexual or even Gay.What signs would she
show to me.You find these in life.That is what life is all about.❤️.
AP I see that hood in you (;
Unfortunately, three of these absolutely do not necessarily show that they want to be more than just friends. Only reason three, I.e., going out of their way to help/do things for you is correct in this list.
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Good tips.. Empathetic
Ms ponti can you make a video about how to handle dating a girl with male friends..it can be challenging and competitive
sure
Nice video beautiful ✌️
Nope I’m 0-4 on this
So she does like me ... 😁❤️ Y'all doing all this to make me see this 😂 guess who's been chosen.. me
I don't have any problems in person ,but to get women to answer me on a dating site this is a problem
Dating sites are creepy
Appreciate your great information, I’m waiting to hear more from you.
She comes to visit with you at your table is when she is not serving other customers