@@Mr_Invisiblee pray 5 times a day. If you find yourself alone and vulnerable pick up the Qur’an and read. And always tell yourself “do I want to risk eternity of bliss just for 80 years of garbage”
@@Mr_Invisiblee if you ever sin go pray 2 rakaat after that and sjathan is not gonna like it so he will tell you not to do the sin so that your not gonna do the prayer
Let's not belittle the real thing by equating this and that to it. The real thing requires a lot of iman and courage, which the Sahaba (May Allaah be Pleased with them) had (of course under a Khalifa blabla).
@@rameenalawi3224 Don’t discourage someone if you can’t encourage. You could’ve say something positive If he hasn’t ever seen and yet he is 18 then remember he will never bcz the path of 18 is the way you fall a victim of this stuffs Don’t be jealous of anyone’s win
Our graves are very near. How can we ever justify our sins to Allah on the Day of Judgement. Know that our Prophet who cried for days for our salvation will see your sins in your list of deeds, and know you watched these filth, and your eyes will not deserve to see the pure women in Paradise or the chaste mothers of the believers. I dropped my sister at a college, and lost the way, so I halted to ask random students the direction, and every white male student I approached readily gave their phone to me to show the direction properly. None of them hesitated to share their screen savers of mobile apps, and this shows how pure a life these non-Moslem youths are leading, when Moslem young men are plagued with the filth of porn and fornication. At Salah time, when I went to the college prayer room, I saw it was full with converts, rather than born Moslems. Then I approached local Moslem students, many from Indian, Pakistani, Moroccan or Bengali origin, but when I tried to talk to them about Allah and importance of prayers, those boys lashed out at me, cursing me for trying to preach to them, and they were even brining verses of Quran to put forth ignorant arguments, and then I realized that Allah is replacing each one of them with non-Moslem students. Rather than allow those born-Moslem students to pray in the university campus mosque, Allah place White men in their stead, men who were likely born in disturbed households, and were deluged in pork and wine from their birth, and whose very existence in this world came as result of adultery and sin, but they chose to lead honorable lifestyles. Indeed, those non-Moslem students readily gave their phones to strangers unworriedly, not caring which app I will accidentally press. They have nothing to hide in their phones. Who will Allah prefer to place in Paradise? Ponder well! Who do you think is going to be more worthy of Jannah? Don’t you think Allah might one day decide to replace us all, with those White men who because of their self-respect, pride and honour, refrain from leering at filthy videos of disgusting men and women having sexual relations. Who is more worthy to Allah? Allah does not like filth or dirt! We pray five times a day, and think all our sins are erased, but Allah does not need the prayers from dirty-eyed and foul-minded Moslems who watch porn and think about other explicit images all day! You think Allah can tolerate our prayer knowing you watched filth prior to this? You think Allah will be happy to hear you read Quran and look at the holy verses with the eyes that looked at such sick and vile objects?
Allahumaghfir Dhanbee, Wa Tahhir Qalbee Wa Hassin Farjaee O Allah, Forgive my sin, purify my heart and guard my chastity The duaa to help stop pornography
Brothers, I hope this channel Admin makes some Islamic videos about the harms of porn. Moslem youths are being plagued by this disease, but for many non-Moslem white men, it is their pride that keep them pure and good. Whoever I talk to about Islam, they listen with eagerness and say they will take a course in Islam, while Moslems I advise lash out, and even speak negatively about tenets of Islam, until I was afraid for the future of this Ummah, and I felt like screaming and crying. Every one of us will have to die, today or tomorrow, and imagine, if you have to lose Iman and faith in Allah because of these filthy sins, and because you were addicted to watching these disgusting things, then we must ask why were we even born. You and I will rot in the awaiting grave and those dirty bodied porn stars who you watched will also die and decompose in the shallow graves and will be eaten by insects and worms, and yet, Moslems are constantly searching online for more filthy images and videos. Who do you think Allah will prefer to have next to Him in paradise? Moslems who watch porn and think about sexual relations all day, or non-Moslem men who are chaste and have a clean heart? Never think Allah has a dearth of people to worship Him, and if your heart is filthy, then Allah will replace you with the non-Muslim youths who have a pure heart, because they do not find the filthy women in porn movies to be attractive or worthy of their time. In whose heart do you think Allah will decide to preserve the Koran? Who do you think Allah will give the gift of the Koran, in their hearts or our dirty eyes and filthy minded souls which have become cheap by constantly watching disgusting bodies of human worshiping? While Moslem are watching and worshipping filthy probate parts of sinful men and women, don’t you think Allah might choose to expel us from the glorious folds of Islam? During the lifetime of the Prophet, the honorable Companions were brave and chaste, and they conquered the world. And now, Moslems are living like filthy worms begging for alms to non-Moslems, when our country is in tatters, and rather than weeping for the plight of fellow Moslems, we are buying Wi-fi to watch more porn, and becoming dishonored in this world as we are about to be dishonored in the next, as Moslem are begging for scraps as refugees, who get tossed a piece of bread from time to time, when the Companion of Prophet were so honorable and proud that they did not see women as objects to watch in porn.
Pornography is more dangerous in my opinion than any other drug. Why? - easily accesable from any device - its free - its legal - its everywhere ( movies, music, street "hypersexualised era" ) - accepted in most societies as "normal" - scenes you watched stay in your head like forever. If a scene (accidentally) crosses your mind for a second, you are hooked again. May Allah help us and protect us from this filthy addiction. :(
Fasting helps a lot I have been doing intermittent fasting and it really helps also I am going to fast tomorrow. Fasting is the instant solution to these type of addiction. Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.) said if you want to control sexual thoughts you must control your food
Solution : 1-prayer 2-quran 3-don't stay alone 4-stop listening to music 5-Spend your free time by doing things that will make u forget ur sexual desires, if u have a hobby and i'ts halal do it 6-If you're a gamer don't play solo play with your muslims friends that fear allah and always remind u of your prayer 7-no matter how many times u return to it never surrender (i'm currently fighting it for +9 years started doing it at the age of 11 and now i'm 20) and what i've learned is prayer helped me forget the urge and loneliness makes the urge hard and always watch islamic videos about hell and punishment of the grave and stop listening to music
Music can change someones behavior, like music that contains sexual words in it, as someone addicted to music i can confirm, u can also read how Music change the mood of the listener; it's dangerous especially if someone is addicted to it like me@@eggyolk7449
Wow mashallah brother, can you please help me cuz I have had trouble because the urges are so uncomfortable to sit with I go crazy and dont know what to do Any tips?
@@animeartistics49 do a lot of good deeds and do good things, after that you will feel like if you watch anything haram then it will ruin all those things, for example whilst fasting you wouldn’t watch haram things and after it you would feel like if you do then it will ruin the fast
@@antimatter333 I tried my best during ramadan and relapse on day 18 or something like idk I try my best in even trying to memorize the quran but the temptations feel too strong but thanks for the advice bro
Would LOVE to have a convo with you on this topic, I struggled with porn addiction for many many years and faced so many dark times, there were many days I prayed to Allah to take my soul, thats how much the pain was.
Alhamdulilah. You are a benefit to those who are struggling. It takes a lot of will power and strength to overcome that. It shows how strong you truly are and that is a blessing in itself that you overcame it and can talk about it now!!! You are awesome!!!! May Allah reward you.
Im Proud of you!!!! You are such a benefit to the Ummah!!! Keep going and May Allah reward you for all of the help and reminders that you give!!!! Great video!!!!!
*_Islam teaches a 3x divorced women must marry another man and taste each other's juices before she can go back to her 1st husband (Halala Marriage)_* *And if he hath divorced her (the third time), then she is not lawful unto him thereafter until she hath wedded another husband. Then if he (the other husband) divorce her it is no sin for both of them that they come together again* if they consider that they are able to observe the limits of Allah. These are the limits of Allah. He manifesteth them for people who have knowledge. - Surah 2:230 It was narrated that 'Aishah said: "The wife of Rifa'ah came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'Rifa'ah divorced me and made it irrevocable. Then I married 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair, and what he has is like the fringe of a garment.' The Messenger of Allah smiled and said: 'Do you want to go back to Rifa'ah? *NO, NOT UNTIL HE ('Abdur-Rahman) TASTES YOUR SWEETNESS AND YOU TASTE HIS SWEETNESS.'"* - Sunan an-Nasa'i 3283 Grade: Sahih (Darussalam) 'A'isha (Allah he pleased with her) reported: There came the wife of Rifa'a to Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) and said: I was married to Rifa'a but he divorced me, making may divorce irrevocable. Afterwards I married Abd al-Rahman b. al-Zubair, but all he possesses is like the fringe of a garment (i. e. he is sexually weak). Thereupon Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) smiled, and said: Do you wish to return to Rifa'a. *(YOU) CANNOT (DO IT) UNTIL YOU HAVE TASTED HIS SWEETNESS AND HE ('Abd al-Rahman) HAS TASTED YOUR SWEETNESS.* Abu Bakr was at that time near him (the Holy Prophet) and Khalid (b. Sa'id) was at the door waiting for the permission to be granted to him to enter), He (Khalid) said; Abu Bakr, do you hear what she is saying loudly in the presence of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)? - Sahih Muslim 1433a Narrated `Aisha: The wife of Rifa`a Al-Qurazi came to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Rifa`a divorced me irrevocably. After him I married `Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair Al-Qurazi who proved to be impotent." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to her, "Perhaps you want to return to Rifa`a? *NAY (YOU CANNOT RETURN TO RIFA`A) UNTIL YOU AND `ABDUR-RAHMAN CONSUMMATE YOUR MARRIAGE."* - Sahih al-Bukhari 5260 How disgusting is this?! A woman must first sleep with another man before she can return to her 1st husband? Let's contrast this with the Bible as women are cherished in our Bible. Ephesians 5:25-33 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband.
@@itsye0676 Making it up really? Here we go: *sūrat l-baqarah* *And if he hath divorced her (the third time), then she is not lawful unto him thereafter until she hath wedded another husband. Then if he (the other husband) divorce her it is no sin for both of them that they come together again* if they consider that they are able to observe the limits of Allah. These are the limits of Allah. He manifesteth them for people who have knowledge. - Surah 2:230 Source: corpus.quran.com/translation.jsp?chapter=2&verse=230 It was narrated that 'Aishah said: "The wife of Rifa'ah came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'Rifa'ah divorced me and made it irrevocable. Then I married 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair, and what he has is like the fringe of a garment.' The Messenger of Allah smiled and said: 'Do you want to go back to Rifa'ah? *NO, NOT UNTIL HE ('Abdur-Rahman) TASTES YOUR SWEETNESS AND YOU TASTE HIS SWEETNESS.'"* - Sunan an-Nasa'i 3283 Grade: Sahih (Darussalam) Source: sunnah.com/nasai:3283
@@JasonLovesJesus the divorce in islam is saying you are taliq 3 times so when saying 3x it doesnt mean they got married and divorced 3 times it means he said 3 times she is taliq so she is officially now divorced and she is no longer lawful to him ( except if he did not intend to divorce her .. or he was just angry when he said the words ) and yes she cannot go back to him untill certain conditions
@@mrcrush3r534 Which is what I said, I know that when she's divorced 3x she's not lawful for her original husband UNTIL “she cannot go back to him untill certain conditions” *she marries another man, sleeps with him and he taste her juices and she taste his juices which is gross and demoralising.*
MashaAllah it takes alot more strength to resist than to do it. You are stronger than you think because you already stopped! Nothing good comes easy. May Allah make it easy for you brother you can do this!! You are strong and capable and with Allah's help you will succeed.
When u guys dont do the sin, remember the fact that u can do whatever u want in Jannah for Billions and Billions of years ,that's right, whatever u want for Forever and Ever.Since the Life of Jannah is not a Test like this World,Allah would not be angry at u for whatever u do in Jannah.So have that sense of Feeling that,when u hold urself back from a Sin,just remember u can have the same pleasure in a Good Way Forever in Jannah.
@@habibasalim3092 thank you sister, I will make sure to look into it inshaallah, and as an update, I'm more able to resist my urges and became more able to maintain my 5 prayers a day, please pray for me
Thank you man for these amazing videos. You're doing great work and you deserve more views because this is a very serious topic. Masturbation Is a sinkhole, it just drags you deeper and deeper. It's awful.
*Dua:* O God, I sincerely repent to you from sins, sins and sins, O God, keep me away from all evil and keep my eyes from the forbidden and my hearing from the forbidden and my hands from the forbidden, O God, with your mercy I seek help, so fix my affairs for me all and do not entrust me to myself a blink of an eye. Amen اللهم إنِّي أتوب إليك توبةً صادقةً من الذنوب والمعاصي والآثام، اللهم أبعدني عن كلِّ شرٍّ واحفظ بصري عن الحرام وسمعي عن الحرام ويدي عن الحرام يا الله برحمتك أستغيث، فأصلح لي شأني كلّه ولا تكلني إلى نفسي طرفة عين. آمين
The dua: (اللهم لي اغفر ذنبي، وطهر قلبي، وحصن فرجي) (Allahum maghfir dhanbee wa taher qalbee wa hassin farjee) (O Allah forgive my sins, cleanse my heart and guardy chastity) May Allah forgive all our sins Inshallah ❤
I started when i was pretty young im talking 10 years old and I stopped when i hit 12 because i Knew thats when you get mature and i need to take Islam serious, alhamdulillah it was a bit hard but now i can confidently say i havent watched porn since, and im 14 now
Same age always do something else that u love I like watching what if stories about dbs because it's interesting whenever I think of that sin I always say uhh that's disgusting and stupid I ain't doing that and then I decide to watch a video on another topic
Mahn...I've been waiting for this and finally. I was so busy watching nothing very useful or helpful that I forgot this was coming. Thank you brother! I'm happy that I decided to go thru every video and finally get what I needed for years. I remember I asked you how I can contact you other than here about THIS topic and it is here. I really appriciate it brother✌
My grandmother got cancer find out today please pray for her her name is asta ouakrim please please pray for heeeer may Allah bless u all and your families
Listen to Surah Rahman by Abdul Qari Basit three times a day for just a week. After each recitation she needs to drink half a glass of water after she has made dua for herself by; closing her eyes forgiving everyone in her heart and then saying 'Allah' in her heart from the bottom of her heart three times. Then make her dua for cure and drink the water before opening eyes. Check out Dr Javed Surah Rahman therapy if you feel you need more info. It works by the will of Allah
This dua is especially helpful for those struggling with the temptation to fall back into bad habits or addictions: اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ الثَّبَاتَ فِي الْأَمْرِ وَالْعَزِيمَةَ عَلَى الرُّشْدِ O Allah, I ask You for steadfastness in the matter (of faith) and determination to adhere to the right path.
Say, “My Lord has only forbidden open and secret indecencies, sinfulness, unjust aggression, associating ˹others˺ with Allah ˹in worship˺-a practice He has never authorized-and attributing to Allah what you do not know.” 7.33
It reminds me of the story of the kid at the time of prophet PBUH? He once saw an uncovered woman. For that He cried for weeks and thought Allah revealed to prophet that he is a hypocrite. He was alone for weeks and cried and cried and the companions were searching him until he met the Prophet and he repented and then he died while having coversation with prophet. And his last words were La ilaha illallah. Look at him and look at us
It would have been much easier for me if i didnt have any studies. I do my a levels and i have to be on the laptop like a lot. Espeicially during lockdown. I did not do it from july 2020 until 2021 which was like six months and then in second lockdown bam . But alhamdulilliah am coping in a way by couple weeks. Make dua
Pray 5 times a day and fast, and read Qur’an when you have free time. How can we have free times for this put not pull out the Qur’an? Just saying we can’t risk eternal bliss just for 80 years of stress and work and work and work
A dua that asks for protection from the evil within oneself and from harmful desires: اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ نَفْسِي وَمِنْ شَرِّ الشَّيْطَانِ وَشِرْكِهِ O Allah, I seek refuge in You from the evil of my own self and from the evil of Satan and his associates.
I have a friend who used to do semen retention videos on youtube, I think looking up this topic could be helpful to some dudes trying to quit 👍👍👍 good luck all! you got this, its all mindset
*_Islam teaches a 3x divorced women must marry another man and taste each other's juices before she can go back to her 1st husband (Halala Marriage)_* *And if he hath divorced her (the third time), then she is not lawful unto him thereafter until she hath wedded another husband. Then if he (the other husband) divorce her it is no sin for both of them that they come together again* if they consider that they are able to observe the limits of Allah. These are the limits of Allah. He manifesteth them for people who have knowledge. - Surah 2:230 It was narrated that 'Aishah said: "The wife of Rifa'ah came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'Rifa'ah divorced me and made it irrevocable. Then I married 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair, and what he has is like the fringe of a garment.' The Messenger of Allah smiled and said: 'Do you want to go back to Rifa'ah? *NO, NOT UNTIL HE ('Abdur-Rahman) TASTES YOUR SWEETNESS AND YOU TASTE HIS SWEETNESS.'"* - Sunan an-Nasa'i 3283 Grade: Sahih (Darussalam) 'A'isha (Allah he pleased with her) reported: There came the wife of Rifa'a to Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) and said: I was married to Rifa'a but he divorced me, making may divorce irrevocable. Afterwards I married Abd al-Rahman b. al-Zubair, but all he possesses is like the fringe of a garment (i. e. he is sexually weak). Thereupon Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) smiled, and said: Do you wish to return to Rifa'a. *(YOU) CANNOT (DO IT) UNTIL YOU HAVE TASTED HIS SWEETNESS AND HE ('Abd al-Rahman) HAS TASTED YOUR SWEETNESS.* Abu Bakr was at that time near him (the Holy Prophet) and Khalid (b. Sa'id) was at the door waiting for the permission to be granted to him to enter), He (Khalid) said; Abu Bakr, do you hear what she is saying loudly in the presence of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)? - Sahih Muslim 1433a Narrated `Aisha: The wife of Rifa`a Al-Qurazi came to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Rifa`a divorced me irrevocably. After him I married `Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair Al-Qurazi who proved to be impotent." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to her, "Perhaps you want to return to Rifa`a? *NAY (YOU CANNOT RETURN TO RIFA`A) UNTIL YOU AND `ABDUR-RAHMAN CONSUMMATE YOUR MARRIAGE."* - Sahih al-Bukhari 5260 How disgusting is this?! A woman must first sleep with another man before she can return to her 1st husband? Let's contrast this with the Bible as women are cherished in our Bible. Ephesians 5:25-33 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband.
@@JasonLovesJesus bruh thats just ignorancy, Prophet said it because first the couple has 3 chances to get to each other after they intended divorcing because allah does not like divorce. and if they just keep divorcing and getting back again and again, this is a violation of the marriage and rules of allah because you should make your decisions carefully and consciously. so when the couple has given up 3 chances and separated, and if they again want to get back again it simply means they dont get well with each other. so it is commanded like that so that the woman hopefully might find another husband better than the first one and get well with each other and then might not intend to marry the first one. This rule simply aplies because if you just keep divorcing and getting together again, it might mean that the couple doesnt get well with each other or they are making a mockery of the marriage. Remember, Allah tells us that he does not like divorce. Hope you understand
@@ibrahimmonaf345 You're creating your own version of Islam. Yes or No Did Muhammad say she needed to marry another man and let him taste her juices BEFORE she can go back to her 1st husband?
@@JasonLovesJesus yes but after they had divorced 3 times. im not old enough but i know that a couple has to give divorce three times to each other and not one time so that they can think for it once again and get back together as god simply does not like divorce. you also mentikned in your hadith about a women divorced 3 times, so its logical that she should marry another husband and have sex with him as it will give her another chance with someone and they might get well together. well if they dont, then she can go to her first husband if she thinks the first one is the one she will love the rest of her whole life. remember they first got 3 chances. im not creating it, this is what the ahadith were all about.
Thanks brother. What about the withdrawal symptoms that one experiences as a result of abstaining from this filth. It is important to talk about it. Symptoms such as extreme anxiety, irritability, trembling shaking, sadness, extreme horniness, mood swings. These symptoms can get so bad that it pushes one to go back
Assalamu Alaykum akhi, We shouldn't be making our sins public my brother, i understand you have good intentions, however i must speak my heart. May Allah grant you khair for the good that you do. Ameen.
Some Muslims got to know that they not the only Muslim doring this sin, otherwise it leads to doring the sim again and having no motivation, this reply is late
Wow this is so helpful man. The psychology of this is spot on - and transferbale to other sins and even things that are not sins e.g. suppose someone is lonely or depressed just by having the door open works wonders which I have started to do Alhamdullilah
رَبَّنَا لاَ تُزِغْ قُلُوبَنَا بَعْدَ إِذْ هَدَيْتَنَا وَهَبْ لَنَا مِن لَّدُنكَ رَحْمَةً إِنَّكَ أَنتَ الْوَهَّابُ Our Lord, do not put the sanctity of our hearts and grant us mercy from Us. Surely Thou art the Bestower. ترجمہ: اے ہمارے رب، ہدایت دینے کے بعد ہمارے دلوں کو کجی میں مت ڈال اور ہمیں اپنی طرف سے خاص رحمت عطا فرما۔ بےشک تو ہی عطا فرمانے والا ہے۔ Dua for me my brother and sisters jazakallah
Guys keep a goal while keeping praying to don't break weak even if you feel weak because it's an illusion of pain just a few moment & you will get stronger everytime you face the urge & just in half a second break the stare at any atractive pics you see & slowly you won't even feel it
Dua means, In the terminology of Islam, dua literally meaning invocation, is an act of supplication. The term is derived from an Arabic word meaning to 'call out' or to 'summon', and Muslims regard this as a profound act of worship. This is when Muslims from all over connect with God and ask him for forgiveness and favors.
I started porngraphi at the age of 14 to 15 now I'm 21 years old in my experience this is most dangerous addiction and very hard to leave .remember guys is a battle between u and saitaan (iblees) someone time he beats you and someone time u beats him, but never lose hope always think that Allah seeing u.
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي عَبْدُكَ، ابْنُ عَبْدِكَ، ابْنُ أَمَتِكَ، نَاصِيَتِي بِيَدِكَ، مَاضٍ فِيَّ حُكْمُكَ، عَدْلٌ فِيَّ قَضَاؤُكَ، أَسْأَلُكَ بِكُلِّ اسْمٍ هُوَ لَكَ سَمَّيْتَ بِهِ نَفْسَكَ، أَوْ أَنْزَلْتَهُ فِي كِتَابِكَ، أَوْ عَلَّمْتَهُ أَحَدًا مِنْ خَلْقِكَ، أَوِ اسْتَأْثَرْتَ بِهِ فِي عِلْمِ الْغَيْبِ عِنْدَكَ، أَنْ تَجْعَلَ الْقُرْآنَ رَبِيعَ قَلْبِي، وَنُورَ صَدْرِي، وَجَلَاءَ حُزْنِي، وَذَهَابَ هَمِّي O Allah, I am your servant, the son of your servant, the son of your maidservant. My forelock is in your hand, your command concerning me prevails, and your decision concerning me is just. I call upon you by every one of the beautiful names with which you have described yourself, or which you have revealed in your Book, or you have taught to any of your creatures, or which you have chosen to keep in the knowledge of the unseen with you, to make the Quran the delight of my soul, the light of my heart, and to remove my sadness and dispel my anxiety.”
I'm stuck in this condition right now where I'm feeling so hopeless and failure because as a lonely guy it has always been challenging for me to overcome it by my own but I always tried my best going into hardship and talking to allah day and night praying all 5 but I think I made allah far away from me because every 4 or 5 days I get into these disgusting contents afterward I can't even hold myself its like what I've done in past doesn't matter and don't need any retentions may Allah grant me to the right path and hope to you too my brothers and sisters now you know my story what I've been going through and still falling please pray for guys 🖤🙏
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ سَمْعِي، وَمِنْ شَرِّ بَصَرِي، وَمِنْ شَرِّ لِسَانِي، وَمِنْ شَرِّ قَلْبِي، وَمِنْ شَرِّ مَنِيِّي) Oh God, I seek refuge in You from the evil of my hearing, the evil of my eyes, the evil of my tongue, the evil of my heart, and the evil of me. Don't forget in your duas my brothers and sisters. 🖤
Why are you exposing your sins to the public? Its a major sin to expose your sin in front of other people. Abu Hurayrah said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “All of my ummah will be forgiven except those who sin openly. It is a part of sinning openly when a man does something at night, then the following morning when Allaah has concealed his sin, he says, ‘O So and so, I did such and such last night,’ when all night his Lord has concealed him and the next morning he uncovers what Allaah had concealed.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5721; Muslim, 2990).
@@ibraahim4154 from which fatwa or your evidence from either hadith or Quran to support such things? Please advise. I have given you my evidence. Dont give a fatwa without evidence.
@@user-xr2hw5ls9m your interpreting what I said wrong. I'm telling why he is making this video to help muslims dealing with this problem and fix it. He is affirming to people saying that he's dealt with it as well. If you dont like the way he does dawah then just don't watch it. Simple as that
@@ibraahim4154 because its my duty to forbid evil. “Let there arise out of you a group of people inviting to all that is good (Islam), enjoining Al-Ma‘roof (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to do) and forbidding Al-Munkar (polytheism and disbelief and all that Islam has forbidden). And it is they who are the successful” [Aal ‘Imraan 3:104]
SQ I THINK I JUST COPPED 2 PS5s ALHAMDULILLAH, BEST BUY WAS LIVE AND I JOINED 40 MIN LATE AND MANAGED TO COP, NOW HOPEFULLY THEY DONT CANCEL IT THIS TIME!
Asslamo Alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu Sir I think it is very brave of you to talk about this private topic and may help people. On the other hand I wanted to tell you something in private, but I do not know, how to contact you. Actually we should hide our sins and not tell anyone about them, I do not want to offend you, just remind you.
Very good tips brother. Also, I would like to add that it should help by giving in charity with an amount that would somewhat hurt you after everytime you do whatever sin your addicted to. And give yourself excuses that ok I will not do it today but I'll wait for a better oppurtunity next week etc. And then gradually you will at least have a big gap between each sin. And In sha Allah have more chance of dying after you have repented and kept away from this addiction. And also think about things that turn you on such as looking at a women. No matter how badly you are burning to look, just lower your gaze and ask yourself that you want that chick?, then lower your gaze and Allah will give you better. But if you keep looking then that will take away your reward.
Dua to seek protection from unlawful desires: اللهُمَّ اغْفِرْ ذَنْبِي وَطَهِّرْ قَلْبِي، وَحَصِّنْ فَرْجِي "Allaahum-magh-fir dhan-bee wa ṭah-hir qal-bee, wa ḥaṣṣin far-jee" O Allah forgive my sin, cleanse my heart and guard my chastity.
Asalaamu-alaikum SQ. I appreciate that you are helping lots of people by speaking about topics like this. However I know Allah says that we shouldn't expose our sins. So perhaps you shouldn't speak about your experience perhaps talk about it in a general sense. What are your thoughts
You are right brother. Allah has cursed those who expose their sins after Allah kept it as a secret. Maybe this brother didn't have that intention of exposing it but rather to help others. Allah knows what is in our hearts. But to stay safe, this brother should say, only recommendations, and not to say I have done this and that
@@TM-rm4xp he has exposed his own sins and the experience he had for us so that we may benefit from it and stay away from such filth. you should not expose others sins to anyone. This filth is much bigger problem than war. Its like a pandemic on especially young generation.
If you are really determined, then you can make Promise on Quran or Allah that you will not watch it for certain months and after that time period is completed you can make another promise and Increase the time period.
"اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ ذَنْبَهُ، وَطَهِّرْ قَلْبَهُ، وَحَصِّنْ فَرْجَهُ" {مسند أحمد} "O ALLAH! Forgive his sin, and purify his heart, and protect his private parts" {Musnad Ahmad}
I didn't want to be rational. As a person who experienced how believing Allah helps to psycology I want to say this sometimes porn addiction are linked to past traumas and it is hard to give up porn with them. So if you think five times pray doesn't help you it isn't because of praying but you may need a psychologist
اعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم آمنت بالله ورسوله “It is mentioned that Shaytaan runs away from the one who reads this du’aa when having evil thoughts” أصبحنا واصبح الملك لله رب العالمين. اللهم إني أسألك خير هذا اليوم فتهـه ونصره ونوره وبركاته وهداه واعوذ بك من شر ما فيه وشر ما بعده. “Whoever reads this du’aa in the morning and evening will be forgiven from the sins he committed during the night and day and Allah protects those who recite this du’aa with sincerity”
I didn't watch almost a year alhamdulillah Allah always with me.
Is it possible to learn this power?
@@Mr_Invisiblee yes brother doing simple things pray five time daily and fear Allah ☝ because he always watching you.
@@Mr_Invisiblee pray 5 times a day. If you find yourself alone and vulnerable pick up the Qur’an and read. And always tell yourself “do I want to risk eternity of bliss just for 80 years of garbage”
@@Mr_Invisiblee if you ever sin go pray 2 rakaat after that and sjathan is not gonna like it so he will tell you not to do the sin so that your not gonna do the prayer
@@Mr_Invisiblee get a wife that’s it
Pornography Addiction Recovery is the our time JIHAD.
Incredible line there ,incredible wisdom
Let's not belittle the real thing by equating this and that to it. The real thing requires a lot of iman and courage, which the Sahaba (May Allaah be Pleased with them) had (of course under a Khalifa blabla).
Seriously
@@absolutelynobody3837the best jihad is fighting your nafs
@@aqib8755 fab hadith
Alhamdullilah. I never watched pornography I am almost 18 years old
Good never do
@@rameenalawi3224 Don’t discourage someone if you can’t encourage.
You could’ve say something positive
If he hasn’t ever seen and yet he is 18 then remember he will never bcz the path of 18 is the way you fall a victim of this stuffs
Don’t be jealous of anyone’s win
MashaAllah my brother Allah always save you from Evil
@@samirrahman2433 I just deleted my comment.
Sorry my bad, i taught it would be funny.
That was only fur fun.
Again sorry
Masha Allah bruder god bless you, you are doing great 🙏
This video couldn’t have came at a better time. May Allah bless & increase you and anybody who may be facing these toxic adversities.❤️
Beautiful message ❤️ Ameen 🙏
Our graves are very near. How can we ever justify our sins to Allah on the Day of Judgement. Know that our Prophet who cried for days for our salvation will see your sins in your list of deeds, and know you watched these filth, and your eyes will not deserve to see the pure women in Paradise or the chaste mothers of the believers.
I dropped my sister at a college, and lost the way, so I halted to ask random students the direction, and every white male student I approached readily gave their phone to me to show the direction properly. None of them hesitated to share their screen savers of mobile apps, and this shows how pure a life these non-Moslem youths are leading, when Moslem young men are plagued with the filth of porn and fornication.
At Salah time, when I went to the college prayer room, I saw it was full with converts, rather than born Moslems. Then I approached local Moslem students, many from Indian, Pakistani, Moroccan or Bengali origin, but when I tried to talk to them about Allah and importance of prayers, those boys lashed out at me, cursing me for trying to preach to them, and they were even brining verses of Quran to put forth ignorant arguments, and then I realized that Allah is replacing each one of them with non-Moslem students. Rather than allow those born-Moslem students to pray in the university campus mosque, Allah place White men in their stead, men who were likely born in disturbed households, and were deluged in pork and wine from their birth, and whose very existence in this world came as result of adultery and sin, but they chose to lead honorable lifestyles.
Indeed, those non-Moslem students readily gave their phones to strangers unworriedly, not caring which app I will accidentally press. They have nothing to hide in their phones. Who will Allah prefer to place in Paradise? Ponder well! Who do you think is going to be more worthy of Jannah? Don’t you think Allah might one day decide to replace us all, with those White men who because of their self-respect, pride and honour, refrain from leering at filthy videos of disgusting men and women having sexual relations. Who is more worthy to Allah? Allah does not like filth or dirt! We pray five times a day, and think all our sins are erased, but Allah does not need the prayers from dirty-eyed and foul-minded Moslems who watch porn and think about other explicit images all day! You think Allah can tolerate our prayer knowing you watched filth prior to this? You think Allah will be happy to hear you read Quran and look at the holy verses with the eyes that looked at such sick and vile objects?
Allahumaghfir Dhanbee, Wa Tahhir Qalbee Wa Hassin Farjaee
O Allah, Forgive my sin, purify my heart and guard my chastity
The duaa to help stop pornography
JazakaAllah Khair
I'll rewrite it in arabic so that you can write the arabic version as well.
"اللهم اغفر لي ذنبي و طهر قلبي و حسن فرجي"
Salam alykoum I created a small project of Da'wah with content in French and English thanks to those who’ll come see baarakAllah fikoum 😊
@@metamorphic2600 *حصن فرجي
Thank you brother
The dua sq was talking about at 11:58 “O Allah, forgive his sins, purify his heart, and protect his chastity.”
JazakaAllah Khair
Salam alykoum I created a small project of Da'wah with content in French and English thanks to those who’ll come see baarakAllah fikoum 😊
in arbi
If I’m reading it for myself do I say his or my?
@@agentz5879 i think he just copied from somewhere)
ya you say me
I just don't wanna die like this please pray for me my fellow Muslims please!
First day I’m trying I don’t wanna do it again till at least 2025
@@harisrehman2124 dude don't do it ever again
Brothers, I hope this channel Admin makes some Islamic videos about the harms of porn. Moslem youths are being plagued by this disease, but for many non-Moslem white men, it is their pride that keep them pure and good. Whoever I talk to about Islam, they listen with eagerness and say they will take a course in Islam, while Moslems I advise lash out, and even speak negatively about tenets of Islam, until I was afraid for the future of this Ummah, and I felt like screaming and crying.
Every one of us will have to die, today or tomorrow, and imagine, if you have to lose Iman and faith in Allah because of these filthy sins, and because you were addicted to watching these disgusting things, then we must ask why were we even born. You and I will rot in the awaiting grave and those dirty bodied porn stars who you watched will also die and decompose in the shallow graves and will be eaten by insects and worms, and yet, Moslems are constantly searching online for more filthy images and videos.
Who do you think Allah will prefer to have next to Him in paradise? Moslems who watch porn and think about sexual relations all day, or non-Moslem men who are chaste and have a clean heart? Never think Allah has a dearth of people to worship Him, and if your heart is filthy, then Allah will replace you with the non-Muslim youths who have a pure heart, because they do not find the filthy women in porn movies to be attractive or worthy of their time. In whose heart do you think Allah will decide to preserve the Koran?
Who do you think Allah will give the gift of the Koran, in their hearts or our dirty eyes and filthy minded souls which have become cheap by constantly watching disgusting bodies of human worshiping? While Moslem are watching and worshipping filthy probate parts of sinful men and women, don’t you think Allah might choose to expel us from the glorious folds of Islam?
During the lifetime of the Prophet, the honorable Companions were brave and chaste, and they conquered the world. And now, Moslems are living like filthy worms begging for alms to non-Moslems, when our country is in tatters, and rather than weeping for the plight of fellow Moslems, we are buying Wi-fi to watch more porn, and becoming dishonored in this world as we are about to be dishonored in the next, as Moslem are begging for scraps as refugees, who get tossed a piece of bread from time to time, when the Companion of Prophet were so honorable and proud that they did not see women as objects to watch in porn.
May Allah help all of us, Amin
Pornography is more dangerous in my opinion than any other drug. Why?
- easily accesable from any device
- its free
- its legal
- its everywhere ( movies, music, street "hypersexualised era" )
- accepted in most societies as "normal"
- scenes you watched stay in your head like forever. If a scene (accidentally) crosses your mind for a second, you are hooked again.
May Allah help us and protect us from this filthy addiction. :(
آمين!
آمييين
Ameen
allahuma Ameen
Amin 🤲🏻
Very brave to discuss this openly. Well done.
Im so excited for Ramadan :) INshallah we can all spiritually grow
Fasting helps a lot I have been doing intermittent fasting and it really helps also I am going to fast tomorrow.
Fasting is the instant solution to these type of addiction.
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.) said if you want to control sexual thoughts you must control your food
Yes
But some people are doing this due to being possessed by jinn
When do you eat in the day sinne you do intermittent fasting.
Solution :
1-prayer
2-quran
3-don't stay alone
4-stop listening to music
5-Spend your free time by doing things that will make u forget ur sexual desires, if u have a hobby and i'ts halal do it
6-If you're a gamer don't play solo play with your muslims friends that fear allah and always remind u of your prayer
7-no matter how many times u return to it never surrender (i'm currently fighting it for +9 years started doing it at the age of 11 and now i'm 20) and what i've learned is prayer helped me forget the urge and loneliness makes the urge hard and always watch islamic videos about hell and punishment of the grave and stop listening to music
JazakAllah Khair bro ❤❤ , its very beneficial ❤
true, but doing activities like fasting or being in public will stop u from doing it@arfaihn9113
Can u give me the reason why i should stop listening to music, and what is the correlation between music and porn?
Music can change someones behavior, like music that contains sexual words in it, as someone addicted to music i can confirm, u can also read how Music change the mood of the listener; it's dangerous especially if someone is addicted to it like me@@eggyolk7449
I’m proud of my self I’m trying to stop I didn’t watch from 2 months.
Wow mashallah brother, can you please help me cuz I have had trouble because the urges are so uncomfortable to sit with I go crazy and dont know what to do Any tips?
mashallah brother!
Mashallah may Allah guide you ameen
@@animeartistics49 do a lot of good deeds and do good things, after that you will feel like if you watch anything haram then it will ruin all those things, for example whilst fasting you wouldn’t watch haram things and after it you would feel like if you do then it will ruin the fast
@@antimatter333 I tried my best during ramadan and relapse on day 18 or something like idk I try my best in even trying to memorize the quran but the temptations feel too strong but thanks for the advice bro
Would LOVE to have a convo with you on this topic, I struggled with porn addiction for many many years and faced so many dark times, there were many days I prayed to Allah to take my soul, thats how much the pain was.
Brother sq can delete this if he wants but if anybody is really struggling and needs someone to speak to dm me @ ernyc1 on instagram.
Alhamdulilah. You are a benefit to those who are struggling. It takes a lot of will power and strength to overcome that. It shows how strong you truly are and that is a blessing in itself that you overcame it and can talk about it now!!! You are awesome!!!! May Allah reward you.
@@ummsalahudin As Salaamu Alaykum Alhamdulilah
@@AbdulKarim-rw9nu Walaikum as Salaam wa rahmantuallahi wabarakatahu!!!
@@ummsalahudin May Allah the most high reward you Ameen🤲🏿
Im Proud of you!!!! You are such a benefit to the Ummah!!! Keep going and May Allah reward you for all of the help and reminders that you give!!!! Great video!!!!!
*_Islam teaches a 3x divorced women must marry another man and taste each other's juices before she can go back to her 1st husband (Halala Marriage)_*
*And if he hath divorced her (the third time), then she is not lawful unto him thereafter until she hath wedded another husband. Then if he (the other husband) divorce her it is no sin for both of them that they come together again* if they consider that they are able to observe the limits of Allah. These are the limits of Allah. He manifesteth them for people who have knowledge. - Surah 2:230
It was narrated that 'Aishah said: "The wife of Rifa'ah came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'Rifa'ah divorced me and made it irrevocable. Then I married 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair, and what he has is like the fringe of a garment.' The Messenger of Allah smiled and said: 'Do you want to go back to Rifa'ah? *NO, NOT UNTIL HE ('Abdur-Rahman) TASTES YOUR SWEETNESS AND YOU TASTE HIS SWEETNESS.'"* - Sunan an-Nasa'i 3283 Grade: Sahih (Darussalam)
'A'isha (Allah he pleased with her) reported: There came the wife of Rifa'a to Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) and said: I was married to Rifa'a but he divorced me, making may divorce irrevocable. Afterwards I married Abd al-Rahman b. al-Zubair, but all he possesses is like the fringe of a garment (i. e. he is sexually weak). Thereupon Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) smiled, and said: Do you wish to return to Rifa'a. *(YOU) CANNOT (DO IT) UNTIL YOU HAVE TASTED HIS SWEETNESS AND HE ('Abd al-Rahman) HAS TASTED YOUR SWEETNESS.* Abu Bakr was at that time near him (the Holy Prophet) and Khalid (b. Sa'id) was at the door waiting for the permission to be granted to him to enter), He (Khalid) said; Abu Bakr, do you hear what she is saying loudly in the presence of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)? - Sahih Muslim 1433a
Narrated `Aisha: The wife of Rifa`a Al-Qurazi came to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Rifa`a divorced me irrevocably. After him I married `Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair Al-Qurazi who proved to be impotent." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to her, "Perhaps you want to return to Rifa`a? *NAY (YOU CANNOT RETURN TO RIFA`A) UNTIL YOU AND `ABDUR-RAHMAN CONSUMMATE YOUR MARRIAGE."* - Sahih al-Bukhari 5260
How disgusting is this?! A woman must first sleep with another man before she can return to her 1st husband? Let's contrast this with the Bible as women are cherished in our Bible.
Ephesians 5:25-33 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband.
@@JasonLovesJesus stop the cap your making this up
@@itsye0676 Making it up really? Here we go:
*sūrat l-baqarah*
*And if he hath divorced her (the third time), then she is not lawful unto him thereafter until she hath wedded another husband. Then if he (the other husband) divorce her it is no sin for both of them that they come together again* if they consider that they are able to observe the limits of Allah. These are the limits of Allah. He manifesteth them for people who have knowledge. - Surah 2:230
Source: corpus.quran.com/translation.jsp?chapter=2&verse=230
It was narrated that 'Aishah said: "The wife of Rifa'ah came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'Rifa'ah divorced me and made it irrevocable. Then I married 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair, and what he has is like the fringe of a garment.' The Messenger of Allah smiled and said: 'Do you want to go back to Rifa'ah? *NO, NOT UNTIL HE ('Abdur-Rahman) TASTES YOUR SWEETNESS AND YOU TASTE HIS SWEETNESS.'"* - Sunan an-Nasa'i 3283 Grade: Sahih (Darussalam)
Source: sunnah.com/nasai:3283
@@JasonLovesJesus the divorce in islam is saying you are taliq 3 times
so when saying 3x it doesnt mean they got married and divorced 3 times
it means he said 3 times she is taliq so she is officially now divorced
and she is no longer lawful to him ( except if he did not intend to divorce her .. or he was just angry when he said the words )
and yes she cannot go back to him untill certain conditions
@@mrcrush3r534 Which is what I said, I know that when she's divorced 3x she's not lawful for her original husband UNTIL “she cannot go back to him untill certain conditions” *she marries another man, sleeps with him and he taste her juices and she taste his juices which is gross and demoralising.*
Thank you brother. I have been quiting since 3 days ago and I have strong urges already. Pray for me.
MashaAllah it takes alot more strength to resist than to do it. You are stronger than you think because you already stopped! Nothing good comes easy. May Allah make it easy for you brother you can do this!! You are strong and capable and with Allah's help you will succeed.
after the 5th day, it becomes easier and easier
💪🏼u can do it bro .. ...keep pushing
When u guys dont do the sin, remember the fact that u can do whatever u want in Jannah for Billions and Billions of years ,that's right, whatever u want for Forever and Ever.Since the Life of Jannah is not a Test like this World,Allah would not be angry at u for whatever u do in Jannah.So have that sense of Feeling that,when u hold urself back from a Sin,just remember u can have the same pleasure in a Good Way Forever in Jannah.
@M then what is it?
Pornograffy ruined my salat and my life in general, god bless you for your advise friend
Sometimes you should listen to ruqya. By Abunadeer ruqya in London .this is a huge sickness
@@habibasalim3092 thank you sister, I will make sure to look into it inshaallah, and as an update, I'm more able to resist my urges and became more able to maintain my 5 prayers a day, please pray for me
@@Omartabyaoui how bout now brother
@@Nssr6.9 I'm back to praying hamdolillah but still struggling with this bad habbit, but at least I got my salat on point, alhamdulillah.
"Getting you closer to the hellfire is where they make their real money" lol FACTS
Thank you man for these amazing videos. You're doing great work and you deserve more views because this is a very serious topic. Masturbation Is a sinkhole, it just drags you deeper and deeper. It's awful.
Thank you brother for putting yourself out there for us to benefit may Allah reward you with highest reward this world and here after.
Wow! THANK YOU! I needed to hear this.🙏🏾
Mashallah sis
*Dua:* O God, I sincerely repent to you from sins, sins and sins, O God, keep me away from all evil and keep my eyes from the forbidden and my hearing from the forbidden and my hands from the forbidden, O God, with your mercy I seek help, so fix my affairs for me all and do not entrust me to myself a blink of an eye. Amen
اللهم إنِّي أتوب إليك توبةً صادقةً من الذنوب والمعاصي والآثام، اللهم أبعدني عن كلِّ شرٍّ واحفظ بصري عن الحرام وسمعي عن الحرام ويدي عن الحرام يا الله برحمتك أستغيث، فأصلح لي شأني كلّه ولا تكلني إلى نفسي طرفة عين. آمين
Man your a legend❤️may allah grant you jannah ameen
Just know that i love you man
Never watched never will !!!!!!
Insha'Allah.
اللهُمَّ اغْفِرْ ذَنْبِي وَطَهِّرْ قَلْبِي، وَحَصِّنْ فَرْجِي
Thanks sister may Allah bless you
امين
Salam alykum sister, where are you from if you dont mind me asking
Nice one thx
That topic came in the right time subhan allah ! jazak allah kheer 😊
Point starts at 8:26
Thanks
The dua:
(اللهم لي اغفر ذنبي، وطهر قلبي، وحصن فرجي)
(Allahum maghfir dhanbee wa taher qalbee wa hassin farjee)
(O Allah forgive my sins, cleanse my heart and guardy chastity)
May Allah forgive all our sins Inshallah ❤
I started when i was pretty young im talking 10 years old and I stopped when i hit 12 because i Knew thats when you get mature and i need to take Islam serious, alhamdulillah it was a bit hard but now i can confidently say i havent watched porn since, and im 14 now
Allah humma barik may Allah bless u bro
You are not out of the woods yet. Don't let your guard down. Barakallahu feek.
Same age always do something else that u love I like watching what if stories about dbs because it's interesting whenever I think of that sin I always say uhh that's disgusting and stupid I ain't doing that and then I decide to watch a video on another topic
You weird, like imagine being a muslim doing that
@@kayekeo He said he stopped 2 years ago. Can't you read properly?
Mahn...I've been waiting for this and finally. I was so busy watching nothing very useful or helpful that I forgot this was coming. Thank you brother! I'm happy that I decided to go thru every video and finally get what I needed for years. I remember I asked you how I can contact you other than here about THIS topic and it is here. I really appriciate it brother✌
Yeah, I will overcome this Insha Allah
My grandmother got cancer find out today please pray for her her name is asta ouakrim please please pray for heeeer may Allah bless u all and your families
May Allah protect her
@@WAYOFLIFESQ ameen
Listen to Surah Rahman by Abdul Qari Basit three times a day for just a week. After each recitation she needs to drink half a glass of water after she has made dua for herself by; closing her eyes forgiving everyone in her heart and then saying 'Allah' in her heart from the bottom of her heart three times. Then make her dua for cure and drink the water before opening eyes.
Check out Dr Javed Surah Rahman therapy if you feel you need more info.
It works by the will of Allah
Ameen
MAY ALLAH SAVE US FROM ALL EVILS AND MAKE US HIS TRUE SLAVES AMEEN
Ameen Ya Rabbul Alameen
This dua is especially helpful for those struggling with the temptation to fall back into bad habits or addictions:
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ الثَّبَاتَ فِي الْأَمْرِ وَالْعَزِيمَةَ عَلَى الرُّشْدِ
O Allah, I ask You for steadfastness in the matter (of faith) and determination to adhere to the right path.
Imagining tip 3 gave me a mini heart attack... JazakAllah for the reminder brother.❤️
Say, “My Lord has only forbidden open and secret indecencies, sinfulness, unjust aggression, associating ˹others˺ with Allah ˹in worship˺-a practice He has never authorized-and attributing to Allah what you do not know.” 7.33
In my country their is a saying, Small drops (rain) makes big floods!
Salam alykoum I created a small project of Da'wah with content in French and English thanks to those who’ll come see baarakAllah fikoum 😊
Yup, firstly one would say " it is just a small drop of water, how could that be a flood " then without even seeing it. It becomes an ocean.
Lol 🤣🤣🤣 u had me at small drop 😂😂😂
Small drops of what? Lmfao.
"They had us in the first half. I'm not gonna lie"
Sq ya know what's up. Finding the pin point and destroying it is the key. Ma man ❤
It reminds me of the story of the kid at the time of prophet PBUH? He once saw an uncovered woman. For that He cried for weeks and thought Allah revealed to prophet that he is a hypocrite. He was alone for weeks and cried and cried and the companions were searching him until he met the Prophet and he repented and then he died while having coversation with prophet. And his last words were La ilaha illallah. Look at him and look at us
Its the story of tha’ labah subhanallah
the duaa is "ALLAHUMAGHFIR DHANBEE WA TAHHIR QALBEE WA HASSIN FARJAEE" May allah bless you SQ
اللهم أريني الحق حقا و ارزقني اتباع و أروي الباطل باطلا وارزقني إجتناب
It would have been much easier for me if i didnt have any studies. I do my a levels and i have to be on the laptop like a lot. Espeicially during lockdown. I did not do it from july 2020 until 2021 which was like six months and then in second lockdown bam . But alhamdulilliah am coping in a way by couple weeks. Make dua
May Allah make it easy for you bro....make dua for me too
Salam may Allah bless u my bro
Pray 5 times a day and fast, and read Qur’an when you have free time. How can we have free times for this put not pull out the Qur’an? Just saying we can’t risk eternal bliss just for 80 years of stress and work and work and work
Nasir Khan Jan
I’m not a religious Muslim but wallah I love your videos
This really helped me thank you brother I love you in Allah ❤️
A dua that asks for protection from the evil within oneself and from harmful desires:
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ نَفْسِي وَمِنْ شَرِّ الشَّيْطَانِ وَشِرْكِهِ
O Allah, I seek refuge in You from the evil of my own self and from the evil of Satan and his associates.
Make dua for each other guys today in jumuah ( جمعة مباركة) (اللهم صلي و سلم على سيدنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه أجمعين)
I have a friend who used to do semen retention videos on youtube, I think looking up this topic could be helpful to some dudes trying to quit 👍👍👍 good luck all! you got this, its all mindset
*_Islam teaches a 3x divorced women must marry another man and taste each other's juices before she can go back to her 1st husband (Halala Marriage)_*
*And if he hath divorced her (the third time), then she is not lawful unto him thereafter until she hath wedded another husband. Then if he (the other husband) divorce her it is no sin for both of them that they come together again* if they consider that they are able to observe the limits of Allah. These are the limits of Allah. He manifesteth them for people who have knowledge. - Surah 2:230
It was narrated that 'Aishah said: "The wife of Rifa'ah came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'Rifa'ah divorced me and made it irrevocable. Then I married 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair, and what he has is like the fringe of a garment.' The Messenger of Allah smiled and said: 'Do you want to go back to Rifa'ah? *NO, NOT UNTIL HE ('Abdur-Rahman) TASTES YOUR SWEETNESS AND YOU TASTE HIS SWEETNESS.'"* - Sunan an-Nasa'i 3283 Grade: Sahih (Darussalam)
'A'isha (Allah he pleased with her) reported: There came the wife of Rifa'a to Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) and said: I was married to Rifa'a but he divorced me, making may divorce irrevocable. Afterwards I married Abd al-Rahman b. al-Zubair, but all he possesses is like the fringe of a garment (i. e. he is sexually weak). Thereupon Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) smiled, and said: Do you wish to return to Rifa'a. *(YOU) CANNOT (DO IT) UNTIL YOU HAVE TASTED HIS SWEETNESS AND HE ('Abd al-Rahman) HAS TASTED YOUR SWEETNESS.* Abu Bakr was at that time near him (the Holy Prophet) and Khalid (b. Sa'id) was at the door waiting for the permission to be granted to him to enter), He (Khalid) said; Abu Bakr, do you hear what she is saying loudly in the presence of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)? - Sahih Muslim 1433a
Narrated `Aisha: The wife of Rifa`a Al-Qurazi came to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Rifa`a divorced me irrevocably. After him I married `Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair Al-Qurazi who proved to be impotent." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to her, "Perhaps you want to return to Rifa`a? *NAY (YOU CANNOT RETURN TO RIFA`A) UNTIL YOU AND `ABDUR-RAHMAN CONSUMMATE YOUR MARRIAGE."* - Sahih al-Bukhari 5260
How disgusting is this?! A woman must first sleep with another man before she can return to her 1st husband? Let's contrast this with the Bible as women are cherished in our Bible.
Ephesians 5:25-33 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband.
@@JasonLovesJesus bruh thats just ignorancy, Prophet said it because first the couple has 3 chances to get to each other after they intended divorcing because allah does not like divorce. and if they just keep divorcing and getting back again and again, this is a violation of the marriage and rules of allah because you should make your decisions carefully and consciously. so when the couple has given up 3 chances and separated, and if they again want to get back again it simply means they dont get well with each other. so it is commanded like that so that the woman hopefully might find another husband better than the first one and get well with each other and then might not intend to marry the first one.
This rule simply aplies because if you just keep divorcing and getting together again, it might mean that the couple doesnt get well with each other or they are making a mockery of the marriage.
Remember, Allah tells us that he does not like divorce.
Hope you understand
@@ibrahimmonaf345 You're creating your own version of Islam.
Yes or No
Did Muhammad say she needed to marry another man and let him taste her juices BEFORE she can go back to her 1st husband?
@@JasonLovesJesus yes but after they had divorced 3 times. im not old enough but i know that a couple has to give divorce three times to each other and not one time so that they can think for it once again and get back together as god simply does not like divorce. you also mentikned in your hadith about a women divorced 3 times, so its logical that she should marry another husband and have sex with him as it will give her another chance with someone and they might get well together. well if they dont, then she can go to her first husband if she thinks the first one is the one she will love the rest of her whole life.
remember they first got 3 chances. im not creating it, this is what the ahadith were all about.
What are you saying fear Allah how could you speak in such vile manner you can't preach anything
For me to stop = do other fun things that can make us ignore it
Thanks brother.
What about the withdrawal symptoms that one experiences as a result of abstaining from this filth. It is important to talk about it.
Symptoms such as extreme anxiety, irritability, trembling shaking, sadness, extreme horniness, mood swings. These symptoms can get so bad that it pushes one to go back
Assalamu Alaykum akhi,
We shouldn't be making our sins public my brother, i understand you have good intentions, however i must speak my heart.
May Allah grant you khair for the good that you do. Ameen.
Some Muslims got to know that they not the only Muslim doring this sin, otherwise it leads to doring the sim again and having no motivation, this reply is late
Wow this is so helpful man. The psychology of this is spot on - and transferbale to other sins and even things that are not sins e.g. suppose someone is lonely or depressed just by having the door open works wonders which I have started to do Alhamdullilah
رَبَّنَا لاَ تُزِغْ قُلُوبَنَا بَعْدَ إِذْ هَدَيْتَنَا وَهَبْ لَنَا مِن لَّدُنكَ رَحْمَةً إِنَّكَ أَنتَ الْوَهَّابُ
Our Lord, do not put the sanctity of our hearts and grant us mercy from Us. Surely Thou art the Bestower.
ترجمہ: اے ہمارے رب، ہدایت دینے کے بعد ہمارے دلوں کو کجی میں مت ڈال اور ہمیں اپنی طرف سے خاص رحمت عطا فرما۔ بےشک تو ہی عطا فرمانے والا ہے۔
Dua for me my brother and sisters jazakallah
Alhamdulillah i was stopped for 11 month
Thanks so much! You helped me alot with these tips May allah reward you for helping us overcome it
I feel like kids should be the ones hearing this message right now
Guys keep a goal while keeping praying to don't break weak even if you feel weak because it's an illusion of pain just a few moment & you will get stronger everytime you face the urge & just in half a second break the stare at any atractive pics you see & slowly you won't even feel it
Dua means, In the terminology of Islam, dua literally meaning invocation, is an act of supplication. The term is derived from an Arabic word meaning to 'call out' or to 'summon', and Muslims regard this as a profound act of worship. This is when Muslims from all over connect with God and ask him for forgiveness and favors.
I started porngraphi at the age of 14 to 15 now I'm 21 years old in my experience this is most dangerous addiction and very hard to leave .remember guys is a battle between u and saitaan (iblees) someone time he beats you and someone time u beats him, but never lose hope always think that Allah seeing u.
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي عَبْدُكَ، ابْنُ عَبْدِكَ، ابْنُ أَمَتِكَ، نَاصِيَتِي بِيَدِكَ، مَاضٍ فِيَّ حُكْمُكَ، عَدْلٌ فِيَّ قَضَاؤُكَ، أَسْأَلُكَ بِكُلِّ اسْمٍ هُوَ لَكَ سَمَّيْتَ بِهِ نَفْسَكَ، أَوْ أَنْزَلْتَهُ فِي كِتَابِكَ، أَوْ عَلَّمْتَهُ أَحَدًا مِنْ خَلْقِكَ، أَوِ اسْتَأْثَرْتَ بِهِ فِي عِلْمِ الْغَيْبِ عِنْدَكَ، أَنْ تَجْعَلَ الْقُرْآنَ رَبِيعَ قَلْبِي، وَنُورَ صَدْرِي، وَجَلَاءَ حُزْنِي، وَذَهَابَ هَمِّي
O Allah, I am your servant, the son of your servant, the son of your maidservant. My forelock is in your hand, your command concerning me prevails, and your decision concerning me is just. I call upon you by every one of the beautiful names with which you have described yourself, or which you have revealed in your Book, or you have taught to any of your creatures, or which you have chosen to keep in the knowledge of the unseen with you, to make the Quran the delight of my soul, the light of my heart, and to remove my sadness and dispel my anxiety.”
(الهم احرمني لذة معصيتك واهدني لذة طاعتك)
I'm stuck in this condition right now where I'm feeling so hopeless and failure because as a lonely guy it has always been challenging for me to overcome it by my own but I always tried my best going into hardship and talking to allah day and night praying all 5 but I think I made allah far away from me because every 4 or 5 days I get into these disgusting contents afterward I can't even hold myself its like what I've done in past doesn't matter and don't need any retentions may Allah grant me to the right path and hope to you too my brothers and sisters now you know my story what I've been going through and still falling please pray for guys 🖤🙏
Loneliness is not a Excuse for Doing the Worst of Zina of Eyes
Nofap day 30 wish me luck brothers
Edit: day 45
Update?
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ سَمْعِي، وَمِنْ شَرِّ بَصَرِي، وَمِنْ شَرِّ لِسَانِي، وَمِنْ شَرِّ قَلْبِي، وَمِنْ شَرِّ مَنِيِّي)
Oh God, I seek refuge in You from the evil of my hearing, the evil of my eyes, the evil of my tongue, the evil of my heart, and the evil of me.
Don't forget in your duas my brothers and sisters. 🖤
I did it for quite some time in my teens and one day I thought "what if I die doing it". I stopped the same day
May Allah swt forgive us and guide us and grant us all the highest ranks of jannah ..Amen 🤲🏽
Ameen
Gotta watch this 👀
You are very good at bringing hope to people
Salaam Bro, can You do a video on what You think of anime or one piece?
Or video on anime addiction? :)❤, Jazakmullah Khayr, My Bro
Keep up the good work my brother
80 lashes will sort out this addiction. Once and for all
Yeah, but will it happen in non Muslim countries?
Why are you exposing your sins to the public?
Its a major sin to expose your sin in front of other people.
Abu Hurayrah said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “All of my ummah will be forgiven except those who sin openly. It is a part of sinning openly when a man does something at night, then the following morning when Allaah has concealed his sin, he says, ‘O So and so, I did such and such last night,’ when all night his Lord has concealed him and the next morning he uncovers what Allaah had concealed.”
(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5721; Muslim, 2990).
Hes doing it for educational purposes to help the ummah using his personal experiences.
@@ibraahim4154 from which fatwa or your evidence from either hadith or Quran to support such things?
Please advise. I have given you my evidence. Dont give a fatwa without evidence.
@@user-xr2hw5ls9m your interpreting what I said wrong. I'm telling why he is making this video to help muslims dealing with this problem and fix it. He is affirming to people saying that he's dealt with it as well. If you dont like the way he does dawah then just don't watch it. Simple as that
@@ibraahim4154 because its my duty to forbid evil.
“Let there arise out of you a group of people inviting to all that is good (Islam), enjoining Al-Ma‘roof (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to do) and forbidding Al-Munkar (polytheism and disbelief and all that Islam has forbidden). And it is they who are the successful” [Aal ‘Imraan 3:104]
Al hamdulillah I needed this video and Allah answered to my need !
SQ I THINK I JUST COPPED 2 PS5s ALHAMDULILLAH, BEST BUY WAS LIVE AND I JOINED 40 MIN LATE AND MANAGED TO COP, NOW HOPEFULLY THEY DONT CANCEL IT THIS TIME!
Ggs
Asslamo Alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu
Sir I think it is very brave of you to talk about this private topic and may help people. On the other hand I wanted to tell you something in private, but I do not know, how to contact you.
Actually we should hide our sins and not tell anyone about them, I do not want to offend you, just remind you.
Very good tips brother. Also, I would like to add that it should help by giving in charity with an amount that would somewhat hurt you after everytime you do whatever sin your addicted to. And give yourself excuses that ok I will not do it today but I'll wait for a better oppurtunity next week etc. And then gradually you will at least have a big gap between each sin. And In sha Allah have more chance of dying after you have repented and kept away from this addiction. And also think about things that turn you on such as looking at a women. No matter how badly you are burning to look, just lower your gaze and ask yourself that you want that chick?, then lower your gaze and Allah will give you better. But if you keep looking then that will take away your reward.
so glad u made this video my bro, alh man jzk
A Very Good Message
MashaAllah, Jazaak Allah 😊
Dua to seek protection from unlawful desires:
اللهُمَّ اغْفِرْ ذَنْبِي وَطَهِّرْ قَلْبِي، وَحَصِّنْ فَرْجِي
"Allaahum-magh-fir dhan-bee wa ṭah-hir qal-bee, wa ḥaṣṣin far-jee"
O Allah forgive my sin, cleanse my heart and guard my chastity.
tip #1: 8:28
tip #2: 9:20
tip #3: 10:32
Asalaamu-alaikum SQ. I appreciate that you are helping lots of people by speaking about topics like this. However I know Allah says that we shouldn't expose our sins. So perhaps you shouldn't speak about your experience perhaps talk about it in a general sense. What are your thoughts
You are right brother.
Allah has cursed those who expose their sins after Allah kept it as a secret.
Maybe this brother didn't have that intention of exposing it but rather to help others. Allah knows what is in our hearts.
But to stay safe, this brother should say, only recommendations, and not to say I have done this and that
@@TM-rm4xp he has exposed his own sins and the experience he had for us so that we may benefit from it and stay away from such filth. you should not expose others sins to anyone. This filth is much bigger problem than war. Its like a pandemic on especially young generation.
Masha Allah good tips
Liked that
Always keeping it 💯✔
Im not addicted in normal pornography but im addicted to hentai. Hate myself for doing so may Allah forgive me and all of us. 🤲
If you are really determined, then you can make Promise on Quran or Allah that you will not watch it for certain months and after that time period is completed you can make another promise and Increase the time period.
Thank you so much for this brother!
Ohh my man,,, I want that confidence to speak about my po.. addiction infront of people 😱😱👍👍
good video wallahi from lesta uk livin in bln germany
"اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ ذَنْبَهُ، وَطَهِّرْ قَلْبَهُ، وَحَصِّنْ فَرْجَهُ"
{مسند أحمد}
"O ALLAH! Forgive his sin, and purify his heart, and protect his private parts"
{Musnad Ahmad}
jazakallah hu khair for this amazing advice brother sq
You doing a good job man Masha Allah 🥰
I didn't want to be rational. As a person who experienced how believing Allah helps to psycology I want to say this sometimes porn addiction are linked to past traumas and it is hard to give up porn with them. So if you think five times pray doesn't help you it isn't because of praying but you may need a psychologist
Jazakallah khair wa ahsan
. ☝Allah
Protect You &Your Family &All Muslims Ummah Around The W🌎rld &Help Non Muslims To Accept Al Islam
Allahumma inni ass-alukal huda wat tuka wal afafa gina..
Your videos save lives, May Allah greatly reward with greatness
May He accept
@@WAYOFLIFESQ Ameen
im proud of you too !! 🤍
اعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم آمنت بالله ورسوله
“It is mentioned that Shaytaan runs away from the one who reads this du’aa when having evil thoughts”
أصبحنا واصبح الملك لله رب العالمين. اللهم
إني أسألك خير هذا اليوم فتهـه ونصره ونوره وبركاته وهداه واعوذ بك من شر ما
فيه وشر ما بعده.
“Whoever reads this du’aa in the morning and evening will be forgiven from the sins he committed during the night and day and Allah protects those who recite this du’aa with sincerity”
It takes great courage to admit something like this in public.
Daaaamn i tho i was the only one who watch😅😂 alhamdulillah u came to my recomendations