A lot of people think by getting married you can tackle this problem but if you are a creep before marriage you will be creep after marriage too. The only way to overcome this is building a strong will and having consciousness of allah
The general population are not 'creeps' tho. Even if they do look, its not like they want to look at haram, thats the entire point of the video. Marriage in that case certainly helps.
Well put, I confess my sins to Allah and say If you don't stop me I will fall right in, I need you, before I am about to anything that maybe even close to transgression, It's hard at times but that is bringing us closer to our creator.
@@averagebrownguy4193 I read that as creep into marriage and creep out oc marriage, I've heard people jumping into marriage without facing their naffs, Had to do a double take.
۞ يَـٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ لَا تَتَّبِعُوا۟ خُطُوَٰتِ ٱلشَّيْطَـٰنِ ۚ وَمَن يَتَّبِعْ خُطُوَٰتِ ٱلشَّيْطَـٰنِ فَإِنَّهُۥ يَأْمُرُ بِٱلْفَحْشَآءِ وَٱلْمُنكَرِ O believers! Do not follow the footsteps of Satan. Whoever follows Satan’s footsteps, then ˹let them know that˺ he surely bids ˹all to˺ immorality and wickedness. Quran 24:21
To Talk Islam: why do you make your comments in Arabic; when you must have listened to this video in English-which is spoken by more people; than communicate in English?
This is exactly what I needed to hear, I reverted a few weeks ago amdnthis is something I've been struggling with. May Allah guide all of you to the path of righteousness and serenity. Allhamuillah
Don’t come to Islam unless you want to. Never mind what other people tell you to do. Your way to God is your choice. According to Islam, all religions are from the same God. Altho, it claims all religions have been changed with time and only Islam will maintain its teachings because it’s a religion made for the last human generations on earth (a modern religion you can say), but it contradicts this by saying “God only judges people by their intentions”. It means if you follow any religion, your intentions is what matters. The only major difference between Christianity and Islam is that in Islam God is a single entity. Whatever that means to you. Some muslims think it means God is a single being not part of this world, while others think God is in everything, including this world and us and everything really. I’m the latter.
@@Nawaf- you should rephrase and say that God knows the stuggle we humans go through and if He sees good in your heart and a pure intention, He will make the path clear to you. It's important to get rid of arrogance. But don't say "We don't know where or what God is". You can proof through Kalam arguments that God is not in "everything ", instead He is infinite, outside of space and time.
This is the new age drug that people are getting hooked to. The easily accessible/free drug that is available anytime with ease. Getting help for this drug is a bit difficult and frustrating coz the actions a person gets involved when seeing haram things and most of the society considering it as nothing severe. It leads to mental and physical deprivation in the long term, wish I had known the consequences when I first started slipping into this addiction. May Allah help us all from falling into this trap, make us more resilient and help those who had fallen and trying to get out.
@@jason-s8c Still not completely got out of it bro. I have been fighting from a very long time. It takes so much time depending upon how long one have been addicted. Some people can get out of it soon if they are able to detect the dangers pretty early but the more you delay, the more difficult and out of control it becomes. You need to have a lot of self discipline to get out of it. Offering Salah and meditating are the best methods to gain control on your mind/desires. Ability to know the time and environment ones slips is also very important. So that they stay busy under those circumstances. Find people who are on the same path of recovery from this addiction and help one another or a close friend who can help . A support is always needed if one is addicted very severly. Motivation helps. In the end it's all about educating the mind of the stupidity of seeing haram and how it damages the mind "in the long term". It is very disgusting if you add logic to watching haram, those are just stupid pixels, life is more than that. The consequences will be brutal if you neglect the recovery bro believe me.
@@jason-s8c Selawat by hundreds and thousands per day and night if you can. With the niyat to fulfil the Commandment of Allah. Each selawat will raise your ranks 10x,erase 10sins and gain you 10rewards. Moreover in sha Allah the Prophet will recognise you in the Hereafter. And make more fasts,taubah and wake up for tahajjud begging Allah to remove the addictions(only Allah can help us to avoid sinning and do good deeds).
I struggled with this and told my parents about it. My dad brought me to an Ustaz and from that day onwards, my life changed for the better. Speaking about your problems really helps. Don't keep it to yourself and tell a loved one ASAP. YOU ARE STRONG, DON'T GIVE UP!
@@cestmamin It's ok, it doesn't need to be your dad. It can be someone else who is really close to you. If you don't have anyone, you can just speak to an ustaz, just like in the video. Don't be afraid, they know people like us need help and they will help.
Thank you for this. This made me cry. If you turn away from it Allah(swt) will replace it with a sweetness in your heart. What is with Allah is eternal and what is with us is temporary.
Beautifully put Ibrahim, let me further elaborate your last point because there's a lesson for us Men, in the Glorious Qur'an Allah Azza Wajjal makes mention of things that Men desire the most; Women, children, wealth (gold and silver), horses (mode of transport todays equivalent of Cars).... 3:14, but Allah makes mention this is what the devil beautifies to chase in the dunya so as to distract you from the deen and that you should avoid it because it is Temporary and the real goal is with Allah where he gives you an eternal abode, women, etc you get everything but the difference it Allah gives it permanently, forever. Imran (3:14-15).
@@notimmortalmumin8477 Salaam brothers, Not only is the reward from Allah permenantly, it is also much better than anything of this dunya! The women in paradise will be far more beautiful and pure than the women we see here. So let's try our best brothers, to stop looking at haraam and purify our hearts so we can draw closer to Allah. May Allah grant us jannat al-Firdaws!
Talking about looking at Haram, P0rn is a huge issue among the ummah. Many people relapse and fail their fasts because of it. P0rn is as addictive as smoking and alcohol. Take baby steps and trust the process. It's slow but put your heart into it. Don't try so hard and have faith. Soon, you can quit this meaningless addiction.
@@Wasteman365 people masturbate at night after having their iftar. Well, if they're not married yet. It's hard to get married nowadays. Islam made it easy, people make it hard.
@@Wasteman365 levels of addiction differ from person to person, as does the level of will power from person to person, as does the level of taqwa and iman. i don't think it's correct to look down on those who are struggling with the biggest fitnahs of this generation. some might consider it more addictive than alcohol or drugs as there's virtually zero effort required, virtually zero resources (practically everyone has a device connected to the interent). access to all the p0rn one could wish for, all at the click of a mouse or a tap of finger, imagine a drug addict suddenly had access to all the drugs they could ever want, whenever they wanted, wherever they wanted all at the click of finger? may allah guide us all and keep us on the straight path and keep us away from this filth, ameen.
Alhumdillah. Once again, another down to earth lesson presented to not only Muslims but to all who watch haram things! There wasn't any unrealistic over the top religious conversations. Just the Imam listening and giving PRACTICAL advice!! Excellent!!👍🏿
Never ever have I seen such good advices dealing with this matter. Allāhumma Bārik. May Allāh make us aware of the traps of the shaytān and defeat him. Lā hawla wa lā qūwata illa billāh.
How to pray for forgiveness for MAJOR sins: Conditions for sins to be forgiven: 1. You genuinely regret the action 2. You leave the sin 3. Never return to it. And of course, _beg_ Allah to forgive you for the sin you did. You should recite a dua known as *_'Sayyid Al Istigfar'_* because it is the BEST dua for forgiveness: Shaddad ibn Aws narrated that the Prophet [صلى الله عليه وسلم] said; _"the most superior request for forgiveness is to say:_ [Transliteration]: 'Allaahumma anta rabbee, Laa illaaha illaa anta. Khalaqtanee wa ana 'abduka, wa ana 'alaa 'ahdika wa wa'dika mastata't. A'oothu bika min sharri ma sana't. Aboo'u laka bi ni'matika alayya, wa aboo'u laka bi thambee. Faghfir lee. Fa innahoo laa yaghfiruth-thunooba illaa ant.' Meaning: [O Allah, You are my Lord. There is no god besides You. You created me and I am Your servant, following your covenant and [my] promise to you as much as I can. I seek refuge in You from the evil that I have done. Before You I acknowledge Your blessings bestowed upon me, and I confess my sins to You. So forgive me, for surely no one can forgive sins except You.] Arabic: اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي لّا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْت، خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ، وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْت، أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْت، أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ، وَأَبُوءُ بِذَنْبِي فَاغْفِر لِي فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ The Prophet [صلى الله عليه وسلم] then added, 'Anyone who says this during the day, firmly believing in it, and dies before the evening; or says it in the evening, firmly believing in it, and dies before the following morning, will be among the people of paradise.' " [Sahih al-Bukhari, vol 8, pp212-3, no 318] Try to say this dua after every prayer. Also, after you have repented, try to do as many good deeds as you can. May Allah (swt) forgive every Muslim. You can share this dua by copying the text in my Just Paste It link and inshallah share in the reward: justpaste.it/5jvjn
How to pray for forgiveness for MAJOR sins: Conditions for sins to be forgiven: 1. You genuinely regret the action 2. You leave the sin 3. Never return to it. And of course, _beg_ Allah to forgive you for the sin you did. You should recite a dua known as *_'Sayyid Al Istigfar'_* because it is the BEST dua for forgiveness: Shaddad ibn Aws narrated that the Prophet [صلى الله عليه وسلم] said; _"the most superior request for forgiveness is to say:_ [Transliteration]: 'Allaahumma anta rabbee, Laa illaaha illaa anta. Khalaqtanee wa ana 'abduka, wa ana 'alaa 'ahdika wa wa'dika mastata't. A'oothu bika min sharri ma sana't. Aboo'u laka bi ni'matika alayya, wa aboo'u laka bi thambee. Faghfir lee. Fa innahoo laa yaghfiruth-thunooba illaa ant.' Meaning: [O Allah, You are my Lord. There is no god besides You. You created me and I am Your servant, following your covenant and [my] promise to you as much as I can. I seek refuge in You from the evil that I have done. Before You I acknowledge Your blessings bestowed upon me, and I confess my sins to You. So forgive me, for surely no one can forgive sins except You.] Arabic: اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي لّا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْت، خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ، وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْت، أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْت، أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ، وَأَبُوءُ بِذَنْبِي فَاغْفِر لِي فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ The Prophet [صلى الله عليه وسلم] then added, 'Anyone who says this during the day, firmly believing in it, and dies before the evening; or says it in the evening, firmly believing in it, and dies before the following morning, will be among the people of paradise.' " [Sahih al-Bukhari, vol 8, pp212-3, no 318] Try to say this dua after every prayer. Also, after you have repented, try to do as many good deeds as you can. May Allah (swt) forgive every Muslim. You can share this dua by copying the text in my Just Paste It link and inshallah share in the reward: justpaste.it/5jvjn
I invite you to read the Quran, believe me you will not regret it if you read it's translation, also it may answer your questions you might have in your mind
May Allah benefit this brave and strong brother for all the thousands of young men (and women) who were helped by his question and initiative to ask and willingness to have the session recorded.
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said: “The rights of one Muslim over another are six.” It was said: What are they, O Messenger of Allaah? He said: 1.If you meet him, greet him with salaam; (Saying Assalamualaykum) 2.If he invites you, accept the invitation; 3.If he asks for advice, give him sincere advice; 4.If he sneezes and praises Allaah(Alhamdulillah), say Yarhamuk Allaah (may Allaah have mercy on you); 5.If he falls sick, visit him; 6.And if he dies, attend his funeral. Sahih Muslim (2162)
It s only going to take a few seconds! Please recite! ?? Lets share rewards: 1) SubhanAllah 2) Alhamdulillah 3) La ilaha illaallah 4) Allahu Akbar 5) Astagfirullah watub ilaihi 6) SubhanAllahi Wabi Hamdihi SubhanAllahil azeem.
What an amazing video. No talking about punishment, nor being harsh, just a peaceful talking about what we are doing in our lives. I am absolutely grateful for finding this channel, it just popped on my UA-cam timeline. MashAllah keep up with the amazing content, it really helps all brothers and sisters. Thank you. May Allah swt help us all, ameen. 🤲🏼
Maa Shaa Allah. This video is very necessary for youth in our generation. Many people have been trapped in this for too long. I know I have. It is to such a point, committing the sin, then repenting to Allah, and then going back to the same sin again and again. It has brought me into depression. I hate doing it, and yet I go back to it. I hate myself for it. Many times I have thought, if only suicide was allowed in Islam, I could end this torture. My heart burns with tears after every incident, and Allah (AWJ) knows how many oceans could have filled with my tears till now, crying in front of him, no one else. I don’t have any sense of worth in me. If someone tries to praise me for something that I did, I would quickly become uncomfortable, and direct the praise away from me, to perhaps someone else who helped me in the that work. It hurts. Very deeply. PLEASE, brother, PLEASE sister, stay away from it. PLEASE, I beg you. It will kill you from the inside. Alhamdulillah, Allah has given me the tears to cry in front of him after so many years of transgression, but I know many who have lost that as well. So please, stay away from this evil.
When is it okay to "expose" your sin in order to seek help? I'm very glad you are covering this topic. The taboo has left many people alone in their struggle because they feel that they can't seek help
Notice the difference. "Exposing" your sins means telling others about your sins for sake of amusement, humor, ego, etc. Seeking help with your struggles is not equivalent to "exposing" your sins. Allah wants us to seek the help we need. Allah does not want us to do the former.
When you go to an appropriate person, perhaps a professional, for assistance or advice, it is ok. Now, sharing it in UA-cam comments that anyone and everyone can see, that's not going to an appropriate person, that's making it public. Making a UA-cam video asking for help, that's also exposing yourself. Select an individual that is trustworthy and respectful of privacy. Someone that isn't too invested, someone with knowledge of the subject. Have a clear intention for why you are seeking help and have clean reasoning for the purpose, and make ishihara before you talk with them.
Yes there’s a different from exposing your sins for the fun of it and genuinely seeking help. All is between you and Allah He knows best what your intentions are so make them pure and seek help if necessary.
Jazak Allah khair to people involved who uploaded this, made this and thought of this.. I've needed to hear this for along time and Inshallah me and those that face this challenge for my brothers and sisters.. we win this battle within ourself and against ibliss and the shayteens to fall into the loving n mercy of ALLAH SWT... May Allah guide us all back to the straight path and be pleased with us on judgement day, Ameen.
For every brother & sister i know exactly that phase is not easy to deal with but try get used to dzikir (remembrance) from the heart in anytime & in any situation continues on daily basis slowly but sure it's will cure hope this help
It was narrated from Aisha (Radi'Allahu anha) that she said: "O Messenger of Allah, what do you think I should say in my supplication,if l come upon Laylatul-Qadr ?" He sallallahu alaihi wasallam said: Say Allahumma innaka 'afuwwun tuhibbul' afwa fa' fu anni Meaning : O Allah, indeed You are the Most Forgiving, You love forgiveness, so forgive me. (Reference : Sunan lbn Majah 3850)
@@sulaimanwestbrook2580 marriage indeed helps a little, but the addiction won’t end, you have to fight still, and it could break your marriage sadly if your addiction to the evil things still exist. But yes marriage does help a little
@@Iron_Ottoman i would say it helps more than a little because it's not just the temptations part, you also have someone who is beside you most of the time. This companionship can get rid of your time spent idle and invest in something much more meaningful
I'm a Catholic and my sister's a Muslim, and I learned there are so many things we share in common. Anyways, I just want to share something I've learned about becoming someone we aspire. We should not focus on "Changing" rather we should focus on "Choosing" and that is choosing a different path. The difference is that if we set our minds in changing ourselves, we focus on seeing ourselves as bad becoming good. This will lead us to relapse once in a while, because the bad is what we focus on covering up subconsciously. We should rather focus on our journey in life a path we choose to lead and a past we choose to leave behind. This offers us to not focus on the bad but focus on the good which is our future goal.
Im Catholic too!I lived in a Catholic boys home called Mercy Mission on Jackson st. in Chicago.I certainly did not appreciate it when Brother Ken used to bend me over.But when he made me wash my own poop off his pecker afterwards,I thought he had a lotta nerve.
As a non Muslim I think this is a fantastic and productive way to keep young brothers and sisters away from this evil which has been allowed to infect us.
I'm a non muslim so I can't pray for you. Maybe you don't give credit to evolution theory so I will put It this way: You have the mind and the strength of all your ancestors. You are the result of a success after another. Your mind is wonderful both in complexity and power. You can DEFINITELY overcome this problem. Your brain is plastic and there is a small bug in It. The bug can be canceled. Effort is required.
Only Allah swt can heal and help you! Please do Salah 5 times a day, read Quran everyday, do lots of charity, do tahajjad at night, learn how to do tahajjad, because you do good deed make you're intentions by saying "I make intentions to do this for the sake of Allah swt only" then do the good deeds/tahajjad. Please play all the ruqyah from this channel all day everyday and please make lots of duaa! Make lots of dua after Salah, reading Quran, fasting and after tahajjad. Only Allah swt can help you by doing Salah, Quran, fasting and tahajjad!!! Turn to Allah swt please... keep doing tahajjad ask Allah to remove magic and to protect you from sihr black magic, so the magic never return to you again ameen!... Do hejama on her head and body, eat black seed, olives, olives oil, zamzam water, dates, do hejama on you're body!. The Tahajjud is a special Islamic prayer which is recommended. The Tahajjud is prayed after Isha (the obligatory nightly prayer) and before Fajr (the obligatory morning prayer). If possible, it is most desirable to perform the Tahajjud between midnight and Fajr, preferably in the last third of the night. Though the Tahajjud isn't compulsory, many devout Muslims try to make it part of their daily routine as an act of worship and to earn redemption and forgiveness from Allah.
Who is the imam..I love his calmness this is the sort of advice which was and is desperatley required for the youth..subhan Allah..amazing May Allah reward you
In such situations i would recommend to do Istigfaar 1100 times throughout the 24 hrs span of time. The reason i am saying I myself is the best example. May helps everyone. Aameen
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Pornography is an AMAZING drug. Unlike, alcohol and marijuana etc. which enters the body and then leaves, once pornography enters the body, it stays, because unlike drugs, where you have to go back and fill the tank up again, pornography, enters the mind and can be recalled at any moment. So it is a far more toxic drug, because of our ability to remember. I was exposed to porn and alcohol as a child and combined with violence and a hateful and humiliating upbringing the energy of pornography was extremely satisfying. And that is the other problem, if this child like the other children portrayed in this series get infected with any kind of haram it doesn't feel wrong, it actually feels right. So I would suggest to the counsellor to start with this young mans life, because something is wrong and he is using this filth as a type of medication. Once the root of the toxicity is discovered it will be easier for the kid to let it go and he will understand what it really is and what it is really doing to him and why he is so obsessed with it. One last thing, addiction has two stages the desire to consume haram and then once the product has been consumed by the five senses of the body, the second stage starts and that is an allergic reaction. This allergic reaction manifests itself with the body craving more and more and more. So find out what is wrong and then break the first cycle and then the second is automatically cut loose.
@@ItsJustTech Psychologists just sit, listen and ask questions, the issue will be exposed. It is quite a skill. The first question they ask is: "why are you here?"
As a Christian, although our ways of worship are different, we all know that whatever we call our God, we face the same temptation and urges. This could be a small step to truly become closer. We don’t have to agree on everything, but that small step is to recognize the fight between good and evil. I truly and sincerely have nothing but respect for this message and the fact we all face temptation from the evil one.
Who is this Sheikh? By Allah he said it in the best way I've seen, Subhanallah that is how I would say it, May Allah bless this sheikh and increase his taqwa and eman greatly, to the all the brothers and sisters, listen to those wise words, Inshallah we all learn and reflect from this.
Tahajud is the best cure for any disease of the soul that the son of Adam has. Cry with repentance of remorse and ask in the dead of the night, the forgiveness. The doors of repentance is always open to the servants of ALLAH.! The most gracious and most merciful...!
May Allah Bless you all for your efforts.this shaykh across all the videos shows such an amazing wisdom and affection that can't be found 99% of the time from shuyookh, especially males. بارك الله فيكم
I think being addicted to anything can become an issue , but being addicted to haraam obviously destroys us What we can do is just divert our attention to another think which strikes our mind , some people can become addicted to islamic story books , some can addicted towards knowledgable youtube channels , some towards their passion , some towards acheiving goals like sports . This addiction towards haram things generally happen to those who dont have any aim in their life , so setting aim will help you
Me too. I have been watching it for most of my life. I told myself I would do it only few times then repent, but it escalated into addiction. I have several health issues (Both physical and mental) because of it. My biggest streak without it was only 36 days. If I could overcome it, it would be the biggest achievement in my life.
Why don't we come here and comment after every day we haven't done that. Sometimes I find it difficult to experience treatment on your own. So if you agree to it, I will start.
I love these kind of videos, I have been struggling with this for a long time and this is a great way to look at it like only you and Allah and when you look away from the haram you are doing yourself a huge favor, you don’t want to be the weird guy when he gets married, cry to Allah and talk to hi. About your struggles even when he knows and sees what you are going through, I promise you it will feel amazing when you pour out your feelings and cry and cry to Allah with only you and him it feels so nice because he is with you all the time a lot of men struggle with this because it is truly wrong that’s why you feel guilty when you ejaculate but it’s okay the best of sinners at the ones who repent.
1. It was narrated that Abu Umaamah radiyallahu anhu said: “The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "Whoever recites Ayatul Kursi immediately after each prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entering Paradise except death." 2. Abu Hurairah radiyallahu anhu reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: He who says, "Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi' (Glory and praise be to Allah) one hundred times a day, his sins will be obliterated even if they are equal to the extent of the foam of the sea. (Al-Bukhari and Muslim) 3. Abu Hurairah narrated that the Prophet said:“There are two statements that are light on the tongue, heavy on the scales, and beloved to the Most Merciful: Subahana Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhana Allahi Al-'Azeem (Glory and praise be to Allah, Glorified is Allah, the Most Great.)” (Al-Bukhari) 4. Abu Hurairah reported that the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said: He who repeats after every prayer: Subhan Allah (Glory be to Allah) thirty-three times, Al-hamdu lillah (praise be to Allah) thirty-three times, Allahu Akbar (Allah is the Greatest) thirty-three times; and completes the hundred with: La ilaha illallahu, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul-hamdu, wa Huwa ‘ala kulli shai'in qadir (There is no true god except Allah. He is One and He has no partner. His is the sovereignty and His is the praise, and He is Omnipotent) Will have all his sins pardoned even if they may be as large as the foam on the surface of the sea." (Muslim) 5. Zaid ibn Harithah narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whosoever says: 'Astaghfirullaha al-'Azeem al-ladhi la ilaha illa huwa Al-Hayy al-Qayyum wa atubu illayh (I ask forgiveness of Allah, the Magnificent, than Whom there is no deity, the Living, the Sustainer of existence, and I turn to Him in repentance,) his sins will be forgiven even if he should have run away from the battlefield (while he was engaged in fighting for the Cause of Allah, which is a grave sin in Islam). (Abu Dawud and authenticated by Al-Albani) 6. The Prophet peace be upon him said "Whosoever recites Durood Sharief on me 10 times in the morning and evening, I will intercede for him on the day of Qiyamah." (TIBRANI) 7.Whoever reads Surah Ikhlas ten times, Allah will build a palace for him in Paradise. 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) exclaimed, "If that's the case, then we will increase in our palaces!" The Prophet ? (may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) responded, "Allah is better and greater (in reward)." [Ahmad] 8. Whoever reads Surat al-Kahf on Friday, it wil act as a light/protection for him from one Friday to the next. (Bayhaqi) 9. Whoever performs their ablution carefully and then affirms (their faith by testifying): "Ash-hadu an laa ilaha il Allah wahdahu laa shareeka lahu wa anna Muhammadan 'abduhu wa rasuluhu; Allahumma-ja'Ini min at-tawaabeen waj-a'Ini min a-mutatahireen": 1 testify that there is no true deity except Allah Alone, Who has no partners, and that Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam is His slave and Messenger; O Allah, make me from those who repent and purify themselves' - the eight gates of Jannah are opened for him so he may enter through whichever of these gates he desires.[Tirmidhi] 10. Whoever says: "Radheetu billahi Rabba, wa bil Islaami Deena, wa bi Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallama Nabiyya" - I am pleased with Allah as my Lord, and with Islam as my Religion, and with Muhammad as my Prophet, Paradise would be (made) mandatory for him. [Abu Dawud] 11. Whoever asks Allah for Paradise three times (Allahumma inni as'aluk al-Jannah), then Paradise will say: "0 Allah! Enter him into Paradise!" And whoever seeks protection with Allah (Allahumma ajirni min an-Nar), the Fire will say: "O Allah! Protect him from the Fire!" [TIRMIDHI] 12.Whoever is easy-going, gentle and kind, Allah will make the fire forbidden for him. [Hakim] 13. In Paradise there are rooms whose outside can be seen from the inside and the inside can be seen from the outside. Allah has prepared them for those who feed the poor, who are gentle in speech, who fast regularly and who pray at night when (other) people are asleep. [Ahmad] 14. Narrated from Abu Hurairah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "There is a soorah of the Qur'an, with thirty verses, that interceded for a man until he was forgiven; it is 'Soorah Tabaarak Alladhi bi yadihi'l-mulk (Blessed is He in Whose Hand is the dominion lal-Mulk 67:1]" If you pass this on, It is Sadaqatul Jaria. (meaning you keep on getting rewarded for it, every time someone acts upon it even when you have died, until the day of judgement).
@@mohammedjafer9265 Yes, we shouldn't even go near it. What I meant was if an intrusive thought or whispers from shaytan comes don't even think about whether to sin or not sin. Instead seek refuge in Allah and move on to something beneficial.
And take a moment to feel good about yourself when you make good choices. Don't have a huge party with announcements, of course, just take a moment to silently acknowledge you did a good thing. Sometimes we beat ourselves up inside for our mistakes and don't acknowledge the little victories, kicking ourselves for all the times we gave in. I've heard it described like, "When you are training a dog to sit and they do, you don't kick and hit it."
Thank you for this beautiful message, I am struggling with controlling my eyes and this video will help me In'Sha'Allah JazakuAllah khair may Allah reward you all ❤️
For those suffering from any Haram addictions, InshaAllah, This Method will work for curing your Addiction, It helped me First and foremost FEAR ALLAH AND REPENT everytime Cut the source of temptation • movies • social media etc. Whenever you commit this sin, perform Wudu Sincerely Ask Allah for forgiveness then pray to 2 raka's of Salah of repentance (as a kaffara, if you do more pray 2×2 raka' or 3×2 raka' ) If praying 2 raka' s doesn't work keep increasing to 4, 6 and so on Whenever there is an urge to do the sin you'll remember that you'll have to pray Salah. And Shaitan doesn't want that, so he may avoid you from doing the sin in the first place. The only condition is that you be Sincere, Promise yourself that whenever you do the sin you'll pray Salat at taubah (prayer of repentance) Al`hamdulillah, This works for any other Addiction of yours.
@@althafmuhammed7104 Brother, This really helped me. Be Sincere (you should have the determination to get rid of any addiction or temptation) +Ask forgiveness from Allah immediately
@@MS-og1bc يا معشر الشباب من استطاع منكم الباءة فليتزوج فإنه أغض للبصر وأحصن للفرج ومن لم يستطع فعليه بالصوم فإنه له وجاء. رواه البخاري ومسلم عن عبدالله بن مسعود ـ رضي الله عنه.
@Simm JJ why are you talking to me like I have this? So rude. Secondly let’s say this poor guy can’t (fix himself) what then? He doesn’t get married ever? Stay on this haram path? Getting married helps you fix this problem. The prophet عليه الصلاة والسلام literally said getting married helps cover your eyes & staying away from zina. This the advice from our beloved prophet not from me. Also i am not talking about addiction i am talking about looking too haram in general.
To this addiction there is lot more than sexual desires,it goes deeper in to who you are,if you are internally broken and lost identity of who you are ,you do not have control of what you do and what you want ,then it will be very difficult to get out of this addiction.to get out of this addiction you need to connect to your authentic self with inside you which allah has already given you,and from this place start to act upon.this addiction can be due to trauma,abuse ,negativity,self objectification,thinking you are not good enough.this addiction is becoming so dangerous we still do not know the effects on our mind and body,this addiction may need professional help.some recomendation is dr trish leigh,mark queppet(sexual self mastery series),they talk about this addiction in much deeper.
Your comment made me cry. It describes my situation perfectly. I don’t know who I am. I’m internally broken and I have no identity. I don’t know who I am. And I genuinely have no self esteem
Thank you Rizwan for those sources, I'll check them out, Brothers need to know your want of it isn't haram, every man wants women don't fall for Haram, Zinnah, you deserve better, my advice to the brothers when it gets tough like you will trangress where you accept defeat in your side trust me, some of you will be there, call out to Allah and just confess then I punched the walls until my knuckles busted then the pain distracted me from the urges, it's incredibly hard look at the story of Prophet Yusuf, Mufti Menk makes note had he not reached out to Allah for help, strength he most likely would've fell, We all would, we all weak to that, like a hot knife through butter, you're legs would turn to jelly, get out before you walk the lines of Zinnah.
@@ylangylang1088 Ikhwan, you're a man, a healthy man, you being attracted to women with sexual urges is perfectly healthy thank Allah your testosterone is there and working but remember what we do with that urge, determines if we are transgressors or not, Call out to your creator and tell him, tell him you're weak to your naffs. The fact that it's enough to draw tears shows a literal proof you, a man is scared to transgress against your creator, Allah has placed that within you because he loves you, how many brothers have lost that feeling? That shame, dissappintment? remember when you're alive Allah never closes the door on you, we do by saying Allah can't forgive us. Sahih al-Bukhari 7405 Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Allah says: 'I am just as My slave thinks I am, (i.e. I am able to do for him what he thinks I can do for him) and I am with him if He remembers Me. If he remembers Me in himself, I too, remember him in Myself; and if he remembers Me in a group of people, I remember him in a group that is better than they; and if he comes one span nearer to Me, I go one cubit nearer to him; and if he comes one cubit nearer to Me, I go a distance of two outstretched arms nearer to him; and if he comes to Me walking, I go to him running.' "
Only Allah swt can heal and help you! Please do Salah 5 times a day, read Quran everyday, do lots of charity, do tahajjad at night, learn how to do tahajjad, because you do good deed make you're intentions by saying "I make intentions to do this for the sake of Allah swt only" then do the good deeds/tahajjad. Please play all the ruqyah from this channel all day everyday and please make lots of duaa! Make lots of dua after Salah, reading Quran, fasting and after tahajjad. Only Allah swt can help you by doing Salah, Quran, fasting and tahajjad!!! Turn to Allah swt please... keep doing tahajjad ask Allah to remove magic and to protect you from sihr black magic, so the magic never return to you again ameen!... Do hejama on her head and body, eat black seed, olives, olives oil, zamzam water, dates, do hejama on you're body!. The Tahajjud is a special Islamic prayer which is recommended. The Tahajjud is prayed after Isha (the obligatory nightly prayer) and before Fajr (the obligatory morning prayer). If possible, it is most desirable to perform the Tahajjud between midnight and Fajr, preferably in the last third of the night. Though the Tahajjud isn't compulsory, many devout Muslims try to make it part of their daily routine as an act of worship and to earn redemption and forgiveness from Allah.
Only Allah swt can heal and help you! Please do Salah 5 times a day, read Quran everyday, do lots of charity, do tahajjad at night, learn how to do tahajjad, because you do good deed make you're intentions by saying "I make intentions to do this for the sake of Allah swt only" then do the good deeds/tahajjad. Please play all the ruqyah from this channel all day everyday and please make lots of duaa! Make lots of dua after Salah, reading Quran, fasting and after tahajjad. Only Allah swt can help you by doing Salah, Quran, fasting and tahajjad!!! Turn to Allah swt please... keep doing tahajjad ask Allah to remove magic and to protect you from sihr black magic, so the magic never return to you again ameen!... Do hejama on her head and body, eat black seed, olives, olives oil, zamzam water, dates, do hejama on you're body!. The Tahajjud is a special Islamic prayer which is recommended. The Tahajjud is prayed after Isha (the obligatory nightly prayer) and before Fajr (the obligatory morning prayer). If possible, it is most desirable to perform the Tahajjud between midnight and Fajr, preferably in the last third of the night. Though the Tahajjud isn't compulsory, many devout Muslims try to make it part of their daily routine as an act of worship and to earn redemption and forgiveness from Allah.
ASalam aleykum, this is my fight, I'm struggling, suffering, this is so difficult 😖, I just want to love Allah, to be a good slave, I have no friends, people today lead you to haram, in my country staying at home is better then being outside, women are naked AstaghfiruAllah and they are a lot of fitna and haram, I want to get married to a good woman InshaAllah et Being loved by Allah, kheir make Allah make it easy for us😢
There’s a lot of Muslims struggling with the same exact situation you’re in. Ask Allah for guidance and by his will he’ll grant you passageways to fulfill your desires in a permissible manner. Always ask for forgiveness from Allah swt and don’t let Satan fool you into thinking you’re not forgiven. Do the best that you can and leave the rest to Allah swt.
How to pray for forgiveness for MAJOR sins: Conditions for sins to be forgiven: 1. You genuinely regret the action 2. You leave the sin 3. Never return to it. And of course, _beg_ Allah to forgive you for the sin you did. You should recite a dua known as *_'Sayyid Al Istigfar'_* because it is the BEST dua for forgiveness: Shaddad ibn Aws narrated that the Prophet [صلى الله عليه وسلم] said; _"the most superior request for forgiveness is to say:_ [Transliteration]: 'Allaahumma anta rabbee, Laa illaaha illaa anta. Khalaqtanee wa ana 'abduka, wa ana 'alaa 'ahdika wa wa'dika mastata't. A'oothu bika min sharri ma sana't. Aboo'u laka bi ni'matika alayya, wa aboo'u laka bi thambee. Faghfir lee. Fa innahoo laa yaghfiruth-thunooba illaa ant.' Meaning: [O Allah, You are my Lord. There is no god besides You. You created me and I am Your servant, following your covenant and [my] promise to you as much as I can. I seek refuge in You from the evil that I have done. Before You I acknowledge Your blessings bestowed upon me, and I confess my sins to You. So forgive me, for surely no one can forgive sins except You.] Arabic: اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي لّا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْت، خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ، وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْت، أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْت، أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ، وَأَبُوءُ بِذَنْبِي فَاغْفِر لِي فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ The Prophet [صلى الله عليه وسلم] then added, 'Anyone who says this during the day, firmly believing in it, and dies before the evening; or says it in the evening, firmly believing in it, and dies before the following morning, will be among the people of paradise.' " [Sahih al-Bukhari, vol 8, pp212-3, no 318] Try to say this dua after every prayer. Also, after you have repented, try to do as many good deeds as you can. May Allah (swt) forgive every Muslim. You can share this dua by copying the text in my Just Paste It link and inshallah share in the reward: justpaste.it/5jvjn
For those searching for marriage, this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74). رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: rabbana hablana min azwaajina wa dhuriyyatina qurrata A’yunin waj’alna lil- muttaqina imama. Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
Many people rely on willpower alone to get out of this problem. Reducing your reliance on willpower and developing strategies will get you out of this addiction. Strategies like spending more time outside etc.
This is something created by man by design. There is a reason the P industry generates more traffic then Google, Facebook and Instagram combined. Yes you heard that right. They know what they are doing.
@@YoshiToshiSamYou desiring things you can't have? Maybe it's best you don't quench these desires. What can't you have? A wife? Children? Money? Are all attainable
Just don’t look. And don’t guilt yourself so much. Allah knows your intentions. And if you are sincerely making the effort, and if given the opportunity, would stop looking. He knows that. It’s the most difficult time in all of history for believers. We are so bombarded and desensitized by what’s being pushed at us through various outlets ( movies, ads, music, magazines, internet, tv, computers, dress code, norms, “typical” societal behavior, radios, even just driving we see advertisements )and subconsciously this has a serious effect on us. It’s unavoidable , unless you can manage to find a ancient society where Allahs laws still govern every facet of living. But unless you live in certain parts of the Middle East, it would be difficult to find. And a lot have already died in battle ( pbut). Just try your best, sincerely. The end days are gonna implode at any moment. Patience too. A salam
Why do I feel like muslimcontent is a fake account trying to downplay the seriousness of sharpie fatah comment..those things you just stated are completely irrelevant to what he is saying you didn't need to say them here.
@@Religions.of.fandom i see your following a youtube channel called ""Muslim"". Beware, they are backed Zionists. If you check their website, you can see that they are liberal muslims. They Normalize haram things.
The best thing is finding love inside yourself. This can be through gratitude or by being triggered by someone or something loving. When in this state, any addiction feels like something distant that you'd have to actually exert considerable effort to go to and then crawl all the way back to how wonderful you currently feel. There is some back and forth while learning how things feel inside but I think at some point you can decide how you want to feel and then make a commitment to stay there.
All men struggle with this. Subhan’Allah. May Allah discipline us all. Keep busy.
Assalamualykum wa rahmat Allahi wa barakatuhu
And women, May Allah guide the ummah
Ameen
The first step to a fault confessed is half redressed
Some women do too
All men? You don't want to punished for slander, do you?
A lot of people think by getting married you can tackle this problem but if you are a creep before marriage you will be creep after marriage too. The only way to overcome this is building a strong will and having consciousness of allah
What about the hadith that told us to marry or fasting to control their lust?
The general population are not 'creeps' tho. Even if they do look, its not like they want to look at haram, thats the entire point of the video. Marriage in that case certainly helps.
Well put, I confess my sins to Allah and say If you don't stop me I will fall right in, I need you, before I am about to anything that maybe even close to transgression, It's hard at times but that is bringing us closer to our creator.
@@averagebrownguy4193 I read that as creep into marriage and creep out oc marriage, I've heard people jumping into marriage without facing their naffs, Had to do a double take.
You’re simply wrong. Maybe that’s your experience but other ‘ex-creeps’ would say differently.
۞ يَـٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ لَا تَتَّبِعُوا۟ خُطُوَٰتِ ٱلشَّيْطَـٰنِ ۚ وَمَن يَتَّبِعْ خُطُوَٰتِ ٱلشَّيْطَـٰنِ فَإِنَّهُۥ يَأْمُرُ بِٱلْفَحْشَآءِ وَٱلْمُنكَرِ
O believers! Do not follow the footsteps of Satan. Whoever follows Satan’s footsteps, then ˹let them know that˺ he surely bids ˹all to˺ immorality and wickedness.
Quran 24:21
To Talk Islam: why do you make your comments in Arabic; when you must have listened to this video in English-which is spoken by more people; than communicate in English?
@@alexanderv7702 to talk islam? if you are not a muslim then dont try to understand something you dont have to
@@zxd714 come to truth ISLAM . UNDERSTAND . TRY TO UNDERSTAND . INSHALLAH ALLAH GIVE YOU HIDAYAT . MAY ALLAH GIVE US HIDAYAT AND BLESS US SAY AMEEN.
@@rppacademic what
Lol
This is exactly what I needed to hear, I reverted a few weeks ago amdnthis is something I've been struggling with. May Allah guide all of you to the path of righteousness and serenity. Allhamuillah
You're welcome brother , am a Muslim and I struggle really bad , I had health problems too from it
May Allah reward you for your patience brothers
May Allah keep you and all the Muslims steadfast in their faith!
This is incredibly important advice! As a Christian I admire and respect Muslims in the common struggle against Satan!
Come to islam
Search the truth !!
Don’t come to Islam unless you want to. Never mind what other people tell you to do. Your way to God is your choice. According to Islam, all religions are from the same God.
Altho, it claims all religions have been changed with time and only Islam will maintain its teachings because it’s a religion made for the last human generations on earth (a modern religion you can say), but it contradicts this by saying “God only judges people by their intentions”.
It means if you follow any religion, your intentions is what matters.
The only major difference between Christianity and Islam is that in Islam God is a single entity.
Whatever that means to you.
Some muslims think it means God is a single being not part of this world, while others think God is in everything, including this world and us and everything really. I’m the latter.
@@Nawaf- why prophet Muhammad (SAW) killed so many jews ?
@@Nawaf- you should rephrase and say that God knows the stuggle we humans go through and if He sees good in your heart and a pure intention, He will make the path clear to you. It's important to get rid of arrogance. But don't say "We don't know where or what God is". You can proof through Kalam arguments that God is not in "everything ", instead He is infinite, outside of space and time.
This is the new age drug that people are getting hooked to. The easily accessible/free drug that is available anytime with ease. Getting help for this drug is a bit difficult and frustrating coz the actions a person gets involved when seeing haram things and most of the society considering it as nothing severe. It leads to mental and physical deprivation in the long term, wish I had known the consequences when I first started slipping into this addiction.
May Allah help us all from falling into this trap, make us more resilient and help those who had fallen and trying to get out.
How did you cure yourself?
@@jason-s8c Still not completely got out of it bro. I have been fighting from a very long time. It takes so much time depending upon how long one have been addicted. Some people can get out of it soon if they are able to detect the dangers pretty early but the more you delay, the more difficult and out of control it becomes.
You need to have a lot of self discipline to get out of it.
Offering Salah and meditating are the best methods to gain control on your mind/desires.
Ability to know the time and environment ones slips is also very important. So that they stay busy under those circumstances.
Find people who are on the same path of recovery from this addiction and help one another or a close friend who can help . A support is always needed if one is addicted very severly. Motivation helps.
In the end it's all about educating the mind of the stupidity of seeing haram and how it damages the mind "in the long term". It is very disgusting if you add logic to watching haram, those are just stupid pixels, life is more than that. The consequences will be brutal if you neglect the recovery bro believe me.
@@wandering_guy JazakAllah..
@@jason-s8c Selawat by hundreds and thousands per day and night if you can. With the niyat to fulfil the Commandment of Allah. Each selawat will raise your ranks 10x,erase 10sins and gain you 10rewards. Moreover in sha Allah the Prophet will recognise you in the Hereafter. And make more fasts,taubah and wake up for tahajjud begging Allah to remove the addictions(only Allah can help us to avoid sinning and do good deeds).
I am also fighting bro
I'm a girl.... and i'm also having this problem.... thank you for this video, may Allah protect us
I struggled with this and told my parents about it. My dad brought me to an Ustaz and from that day onwards, my life changed for the better. Speaking about your problems really helps. Don't keep it to yourself and tell a loved one ASAP. YOU ARE STRONG, DON'T GIVE UP!
Did your parents get mad at you
@@ghassanalzaidi7411 Not at all. They just listened to me which was great. It really helps to be a listening ear.
@@cestmamin It's ok, it doesn't need to be your dad. It can be someone else who is really close to you. If you don't have anyone, you can just speak to an ustaz, just like in the video. Don't be afraid, they know people like us need help and they will help.
@@cestmamin pls stop exposing your sins solve it yourself
@@antisocialboy818 pls stop exposing your sins solve it yourself
Thank you for this. This made me cry. If you turn away from it Allah(swt) will replace it with a sweetness in your heart. What is with Allah is eternal and what is with us is temporary.
Beautifully put Ibrahim, let me further elaborate your last point because there's a lesson for us Men, in the Glorious Qur'an Allah Azza Wajjal makes mention of things that Men desire the most; Women, children, wealth (gold and silver), horses (mode of transport todays equivalent of Cars).... 3:14, but Allah makes mention this is what the devil beautifies to chase in the dunya so as to distract you from the deen and that you should avoid it because it is Temporary and the real goal is with Allah where he gives you an eternal abode, women, etc you get everything but the difference it Allah gives it permanently, forever. Imran (3:14-15).
@@notimmortalmumin8477
Salaam brothers,
Not only is the reward from Allah permenantly, it is also much better than anything of this dunya! The women in paradise will be far more beautiful and pure than the women we see here. So let's try our best brothers, to stop looking at haraam and purify our hearts so we can draw closer to Allah.
May Allah grant us jannat al-Firdaws!
Great advise 👍 MashAllah
Assalamu-Alaikum-Wa-Rahmatho-Allahi-Wa-Barakathoh, write like this(MashaAllah)! Assalamu-Alaikum-Wa-Rahmatho-Allahi-Wa-Barakathoh!
Very best
Early bird catches the worm
Talking about looking at Haram, P0rn is a huge issue among the ummah. Many people relapse and fail their fasts because of it. P0rn is as addictive as smoking and alcohol. Take baby steps and trust the process. It's slow but put your heart into it. Don't try so hard and have faith. Soon, you can quit this meaningless addiction.
Thanks for your advice, I really appreciate it.
@@Wasteman365 people masturbate at night after having their iftar. Well, if they're not married yet. It's hard to get married nowadays. Islam made it easy, people make it hard.
Marriage will help with that addiction instead watching porn just make love to your wife
@@Wasteman365 levels of addiction differ from person to person, as does the level of will power from person to person, as does the level of taqwa and iman. i don't think it's correct to look down on those who are struggling with the biggest fitnahs of this generation. some might consider it more addictive than alcohol or drugs as there's virtually zero effort required, virtually zero resources (practically everyone has a device connected to the interent). access to all the p0rn one could wish for, all at the click of a mouse or a tap of finger, imagine a drug addict suddenly had access to all the drugs they could ever want, whenever they wanted, wherever they wanted all at the click of finger?
may allah guide us all and keep us on the straight path and keep us away from this filth, ameen.
@@T33K4Y yeah idk why tf I said what I said. Just being a moron, my bad
Alhumdillah. Once again, another down to earth lesson presented to not only Muslims but to all who watch haram things! There wasn't any unrealistic over the top religious conversations. Just the Imam listening and giving PRACTICAL advice!! Excellent!!👍🏿
Remember that great Rewards await from Allah for self- Restriction 😍 Islam is so Perfect ❤️
WALLAHI ALLAHU AKBAR ☝️💓
Never ever have I seen such good advices dealing with this matter. Allāhumma Bārik. May Allāh make us aware of the traps of the shaytān and defeat him. Lā hawla wa lā qūwata illa billāh.
How to pray for forgiveness for MAJOR sins:
Conditions for sins to be forgiven:
1. You genuinely regret the action
2. You leave the sin
3. Never return to it.
And of course, _beg_ Allah to forgive you for the sin you did.
You should recite a dua known as *_'Sayyid Al Istigfar'_* because it is the BEST dua for forgiveness:
Shaddad ibn Aws narrated that the Prophet [صلى الله عليه وسلم] said; _"the most superior request for forgiveness is to say:_
[Transliteration]:
'Allaahumma anta rabbee,
Laa illaaha illaa anta.
Khalaqtanee wa ana 'abduka,
wa ana 'alaa 'ahdika wa wa'dika mastata't.
A'oothu bika min sharri ma sana't.
Aboo'u laka bi ni'matika alayya,
wa aboo'u laka bi thambee.
Faghfir lee.
Fa innahoo laa yaghfiruth-thunooba illaa ant.'
Meaning:
[O Allah, You are my Lord.
There is no god besides You.
You created me and I am Your servant,
following your covenant and [my] promise to you as much as I can.
I seek refuge in You from the evil that I have done.
Before You I acknowledge Your blessings bestowed upon me,
and I confess my sins to You.
So forgive me,
for surely no one can forgive sins except You.]
Arabic:
اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي لّا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْت،
خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ،
وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْت،
أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْت،
أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ
عَلَيَّ، وَأَبُوءُ بِذَنْبِي فَاغْفِر لِي فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ
الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ
The Prophet [صلى الله عليه وسلم] then added, 'Anyone who says this during the day, firmly believing in it, and dies before the evening; or says it in the evening, firmly believing in it, and dies before the following morning, will be among the people of paradise.' "
[Sahih al-Bukhari, vol 8, pp212-3, no 318]
Try to say this dua after every prayer.
Also, after you have repented, try to do as many good deeds as you can.
May Allah (swt) forgive every Muslim.
You can share this dua by copying the text in my Just Paste It link and inshallah share in the reward: justpaste.it/5jvjn
This is so true, it all starts with the small steps that get you to doing or looking at the greater haram
How to pray for forgiveness for MAJOR sins:
Conditions for sins to be forgiven:
1. You genuinely regret the action
2. You leave the sin
3. Never return to it.
And of course, _beg_ Allah to forgive you for the sin you did.
You should recite a dua known as *_'Sayyid Al Istigfar'_* because it is the BEST dua for forgiveness:
Shaddad ibn Aws narrated that the Prophet [صلى الله عليه وسلم] said; _"the most superior request for forgiveness is to say:_
[Transliteration]:
'Allaahumma anta rabbee,
Laa illaaha illaa anta.
Khalaqtanee wa ana 'abduka,
wa ana 'alaa 'ahdika wa wa'dika mastata't.
A'oothu bika min sharri ma sana't.
Aboo'u laka bi ni'matika alayya,
wa aboo'u laka bi thambee.
Faghfir lee.
Fa innahoo laa yaghfiruth-thunooba illaa ant.'
Meaning:
[O Allah, You are my Lord.
There is no god besides You.
You created me and I am Your servant,
following your covenant and [my] promise to you as much as I can.
I seek refuge in You from the evil that I have done.
Before You I acknowledge Your blessings bestowed upon me,
and I confess my sins to You.
So forgive me,
for surely no one can forgive sins except You.]
Arabic:
اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي لّا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْت،
خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ،
وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْت،
أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْت،
أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ
عَلَيَّ، وَأَبُوءُ بِذَنْبِي فَاغْفِر لِي فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ
الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ
The Prophet [صلى الله عليه وسلم] then added, 'Anyone who says this during the day, firmly believing in it, and dies before the evening; or says it in the evening, firmly believing in it, and dies before the following morning, will be among the people of paradise.' "
[Sahih al-Bukhari, vol 8, pp212-3, no 318]
Try to say this dua after every prayer.
Also, after you have repented, try to do as many good deeds as you can.
May Allah (swt) forgive every Muslim.
You can share this dua by copying the text in my Just Paste It link and inshallah share in the reward: justpaste.it/5jvjn
I am not a Muslim but those were very wise words! Words to live by!
I invite you to read the Quran, believe me you will not regret it if you read it's translation, also it may answer your questions you might have in your mind
May Allah benefit this brave and strong brother for all the thousands of young men (and women) who were helped by his question and initiative to ask and willingness to have the session recorded.
Mashallah I am stunned by the way sheikh explained it in a very calm and beffiting manner.😍
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said:
“The rights of one Muslim over another are six.”
It was said: What are they, O Messenger of Allaah? He said:
1.If you meet him, greet him with salaam; (Saying Assalamualaykum)
2.If he invites you, accept the invitation;
3.If he asks for advice, give him sincere advice;
4.If he sneezes and praises Allaah(Alhamdulillah), say Yarhamuk Allaah (may Allaah have mercy on you);
5.If he falls sick, visit him;
6.And if he dies, attend his funeral.
Sahih Muslim (2162)
I love Islam 😊😊😊
@@samirasaid5042 me too
It s only going to take a few seconds! Please recite! ??
Lets share rewards:
1) SubhanAllah
2) Alhamdulillah
3) La ilaha illaallah
4) Allahu Akbar
5) Astagfirullah watub ilaihi
6) SubhanAllahi Wabi Hamdihi SubhanAllahil azeem.
What an amazing video. No talking about punishment, nor being harsh, just a peaceful talking about what we are doing in our lives. I am absolutely grateful for finding this channel, it just popped on my UA-cam timeline. MashAllah keep up with the amazing content, it really helps all brothers and sisters. Thank you. May Allah swt help us all, ameen. 🤲🏼
Asalaam aleykum
Aamen
Maa Shaa Allah. This video is very necessary for youth in our generation. Many people have been trapped in this for too long. I know I have. It is to such a point, committing the sin, then repenting to Allah, and then going back to the same sin again and again. It has brought me into depression. I hate doing it, and yet I go back to it. I hate myself for it. Many times I have thought, if only suicide was allowed in Islam, I could end this torture. My heart burns with tears after every incident, and Allah (AWJ) knows how many oceans could have filled with my tears till now, crying in front of him, no one else. I don’t have any sense of worth in me. If someone tries to praise me for something that I did, I would quickly become uncomfortable, and direct the praise away from me, to perhaps someone else who helped me in the that work.
It hurts. Very deeply. PLEASE, brother, PLEASE sister, stay away from it. PLEASE, I beg you. It will kill you from the inside. Alhamdulillah, Allah has given me the tears to cry in front of him after so many years of transgression, but I know many who have lost that as well. So please, stay away from this evil.
When is it okay to "expose" your sin in order to seek help? I'm very glad you are covering this topic. The taboo has left many people alone in their struggle because they feel that they can't seek help
Notice the difference. "Exposing" your sins means telling others about your sins for sake of amusement, humor, ego, etc.
Seeking help with your struggles is not equivalent to "exposing" your sins. Allah wants us to seek the help we need. Allah does not want us to do the former.
When you go to an appropriate person, perhaps a professional, for assistance or advice, it is ok. Now, sharing it in UA-cam comments that anyone and everyone can see, that's not going to an appropriate person, that's making it public. Making a UA-cam video asking for help, that's also exposing yourself. Select an individual that is trustworthy and respectful of privacy. Someone that isn't too invested, someone with knowledge of the subject. Have a clear intention for why you are seeking help and have clean reasoning for the purpose, and make ishihara before you talk with them.
Yes there’s a different from exposing your sins for the fun of it and genuinely seeking help. All is between you and Allah He knows best what your intentions are so make them pure and seek help if necessary.
May Allah give us tawfiq to pass these exams
Jazak Allah khair to people involved who uploaded this, made this and thought of this.. I've needed to hear this for along time and Inshallah me and those that face this challenge for my brothers and sisters.. we win this battle within ourself and against ibliss and the shayteens to fall into the loving n mercy of ALLAH SWT... May Allah guide us all back to the straight path and be pleased with us on judgement day, Ameen.
Abundant remembrance of Allah is the remedy and when you slip, know that Allah's mercy is greater than your sin. It encompasses everything
For every brother & sister i know exactly that phase is not easy to deal with but try get used to dzikir (remembrance) from the heart in anytime & in any situation continues on daily basis slowly but sure it's will cure hope this help
Inshallah
It was narrated from Aisha (Radi'Allahu anha) that she said:
"O Messenger of Allah, what do you think I should say in my supplication,if l come upon Laylatul-Qadr ?" He sallallahu alaihi wasallam said: Say
Allahumma innaka 'afuwwun
tuhibbul' afwa fa' fu anni
Meaning : O Allah, indeed You are the Most Forgiving, You love forgiveness, so forgive me.
(Reference : Sunan lbn Majah 3850)
Mashallah thanks for the reminder
@@IbrahimAhmed-ek7dh No problem!
Masha Allah, I really needed to hear this. All praise be to Allah.
Jazakumullahu Khairan.. Very practical advice.
Subhanallah.
May Allah guide us and save us from haraam things.
"one innocent look and then you're hooked"
- Muslim boy
Wallah i needed this, Shukran.
May Allah grant us pious spouses, getting married helps the youth to resist temptations upto an extent.
ameen
Marriages don't help, duaa in tahajjad helps
@@hellfirejahannam7734 bruv your profile name doesn't help your point
@@sulaimanwestbrook2580 marriage indeed helps a little, but the addiction won’t end, you have to fight still, and it could break your marriage sadly if your addiction to the evil things still exist. But yes marriage does help a little
@@Iron_Ottoman i would say it helps more than a little because it's not just the temptations part, you also have someone who is beside you most of the time. This companionship can get rid of your time spent idle and invest in something much more meaningful
Bro this is the best both motivational and teaching video….Ma Sha Allah
I'm a Catholic and my sister's a Muslim, and I learned there are so many things we share in common. Anyways, I just want to share something I've learned about becoming someone we aspire. We should not focus on "Changing" rather we should focus on "Choosing" and that is choosing a different path. The difference is that if we set our minds in changing ourselves, we focus on seeing ourselves as bad becoming good. This will lead us to relapse once in a while, because the bad is what we focus on covering up subconsciously. We should rather focus on our journey in life a path we choose to lead and a past we choose to leave behind. This offers us to not focus on the bad but focus on the good which is our future goal.
There's nothing in common with Islam
Im Catholic too!I lived in a Catholic boys home called Mercy Mission on Jackson st. in Chicago.I certainly did not appreciate it when Brother Ken used to bend me over.But when he made me wash my own poop off his pecker afterwards,I thought he had a lotta nerve.
I enjoy all the abramic faiths. From Jewish, Muslim or catholic, etc. We forget our common goal, love Allah.
@@ratailor8062 not true.muslim are not Abrahamic and don't worship Yahweh the true God of the jews
@@kronos01ful lol imagine thinking the jews are the Israelites
☆The best jihad is fighting against yourself.
May Allah Protect Us From Haram Things!
AMEN!
As a non Muslim I think this is a fantastic and productive way to keep young brothers and sisters away from this evil which has been allowed to infect us.
To my muslim brothers and sisters...please pray for me to overcome this problem ...i dont know what to do anymore,, it is not easy...
I'm a non muslim so I can't pray for you.
Maybe you don't give credit to evolution theory so I will put It this way:
You have the mind and the strength of all your ancestors. You are the result of a success after another.
Your mind is wonderful both in complexity and power.
You can DEFINITELY overcome this problem.
Your brain is plastic and there is a small bug in It. The bug can be canceled. Effort is required.
This is a topic which need to be solved and a clear Jihad mindset is in need for the Younger generation to fight it
@Qᴜɪᴄᴋ Sᴀɴᴅ wrong
Pornography is on the rise for amongst elders as well. Not only teenagers
You said it in the perfect words ❤️🌹
Only Allah swt can heal and help you!
Please do Salah 5 times a day, read Quran everyday, do lots of charity, do tahajjad at night, learn how to do tahajjad, because you do good deed make you're intentions by saying "I make intentions to do this for the sake of Allah swt only" then do the good deeds/tahajjad. Please play all the ruqyah from this channel all day everyday and please make lots of duaa! Make lots of dua after Salah, reading Quran, fasting and after tahajjad. Only Allah swt can help you by doing Salah, Quran, fasting and tahajjad!!! Turn to Allah swt please... keep doing tahajjad ask Allah to remove magic and to protect you from sihr black magic, so the magic never return to you again ameen!... Do hejama on her head and body, eat black seed, olives, olives oil, zamzam water, dates, do hejama on you're body!.
The Tahajjud is a special Islamic prayer which is recommended. The Tahajjud is prayed after Isha (the obligatory nightly prayer) and before Fajr (the obligatory morning prayer). If possible, it is most desirable to perform the Tahajjud between midnight and Fajr, preferably in the last third of the night. Though the Tahajjud isn't compulsory, many devout Muslims try to make it part of their daily routine as an act of worship and to earn redemption and forgiveness from Allah.
Fantastic video keep it up your doing amazing job..
Alhamdullilah. Well said.
May Allah Bless us all, forgive all our sins and grant us Jannah Firdous without accountability. Ameen
Great topics. So important to balance the scripts with the emotional as well as spiritual needs of the protagonists, like in broken iftar
Thank you all for making this video. May Allah forgive our sins. Assalamu Alaykum ve Rahmetullahi ve Berakatuh
Who is the imam..I love his calmness this is the sort of advice which was and is desperatley required for the youth..subhan Allah..amazing May Allah reward you
Thank you for this video, very beautiful advice. May Allah protect & safeguard us from haram.🙏
In such situations i would recommend to do Istigfaar 1100 times throughout the 24 hrs span of time. The reason i am saying I myself is the best example. May helps everyone. Aameen
Thank you!! Ive been facing this problem for a long time now. Gotta get rid of this. Keep making informational videos like this. Appreciate it!
Some really good qirat in my playlist listen with headphones
Must listen:- surah alaa and surah hashr
BarakAllahu Feek. About to donate right Now! Ramadan is almost over and Laylatul Al-Qadr can occur for us!! May Allah Ar-Razzaq guide us all on the righteous path of Haqq. AAMEEN!☪️☝🏽😭
Ameen
Pornography is an AMAZING drug. Unlike, alcohol and marijuana etc. which enters the body and then leaves, once pornography enters the body, it stays, because unlike drugs, where you have to go back and fill the tank up again, pornography, enters the mind and can be recalled at any moment. So it is a far more toxic drug, because of our ability to remember.
I was exposed to porn and alcohol as a child and combined with violence and a hateful and humiliating upbringing the energy of pornography was extremely satisfying. And that is the other problem, if this child like the other children portrayed in this series get infected with any kind of haram it doesn't feel wrong, it actually feels right. So I would suggest to the counsellor to start with this young mans life, because something is wrong and he is using this filth as a type of medication. Once the root of the toxicity is discovered it will be easier for the kid to let it go and he will understand what it really is and what it is really doing to him and why he is so obsessed with it.
One last thing, addiction has two stages the desire to consume haram and then once the product has been consumed by the five senses of the body, the second stage starts and that is an allergic reaction. This allergic reaction manifests itself with the body craving more and more and more. So find out what is wrong and then break the first cycle and then the second is automatically cut loose.
JOIN NOFAP
@@adnanfayaz6594 muslimnofap more specifically
@@jytvreal yes
@@ItsJustTech Psychologists just sit, listen and ask questions, the issue will be exposed. It is quite a skill. The first question they ask is: "why are you here?"
Let's sincerely seek refuge in Allah from this filthy act and to help anyone to discontinue this sin. It's ramadhan and he might help us.
As a Christian, although our ways of worship are different, we all know that whatever we call our God, we face the same temptation and urges. This could be a small step to truly become closer. We don’t have to agree on everything, but that small step is to recognize the fight between good and evil. I truly and sincerely have nothing but respect for this message and the fact we all face temptation from the evil one.
Whether we agree on topics or not,
we are the last and only bastions against relentless evils in this world.
Best remedy ever catch hold of sunnas like sunna namaz dua witr morning evening azkar etc. May Allah protect us all
much needed topic, loved it,❤️❤️💗💗💗💗
♥️LA ILLAHA ILLA ANTA SUBHANAKA INNI KUNTU MIN AD DALEMEEN♥️
Who is this Sheikh? By Allah he said it in the best way I've seen, Subhanallah that is how I would say it, May Allah bless this sheikh and increase his taqwa and eman greatly, to the all the brothers and sisters, listen to those wise words, Inshallah we all learn and reflect from this.
I find it really good to chat with someone about these problems and how to remedy this
I am loving these series 💖💖💖
Yes these were my questions and thank you for the video
Tahajud is the best cure for any disease of the soul that the son of Adam has.
Cry with repentance of remorse and ask in the dead of the night,
the forgiveness.
The doors of repentance is always open to the servants of
ALLAH.!
The most gracious and most merciful...!
May Allah Bless you all for your efforts.this shaykh across all the videos shows such an amazing wisdom and affection that can't be found 99% of the time from shuyookh, especially males. بارك الله فيكم
May Allah swt give strength to our youth
😢😢 Struggle
May Allah forgive us
Billion dollar Advice
ZazakAllah khair Shaikh
I think being addicted to anything can become an issue , but being addicted to haraam obviously destroys us
What we can do is just divert our attention to another think which strikes our mind , some people can become addicted to islamic story books , some can addicted towards knowledgable youtube channels , some towards their passion , some towards acheiving goals like sports .
This addiction towards haram things generally happen to those who dont have any aim in their life , so setting aim will help you
I had the same problem, thanks this is really help a lot.
May Allah .swt always guide us, amin.
Me too. I have been watching it for most of my life. I told myself I would do it only few times then repent, but it escalated into addiction. I have several health issues (Both physical and mental) because of it. My biggest streak without it was only 36 days. If I could overcome it, it would be the biggest achievement in my life.
Why don't we come here and comment after every day we haven't done that. Sometimes I find it difficult to experience treatment on your own. So if you agree to it, I will start.
Start from zero
Day 1 clear Alhamdo Llahe
@@moqtadamohammed4598 that's a brilliant idea
@@amaanullah13 do you need to start with me
I love these kind of videos, I have been struggling with this for a long time and this is a great way to look at it like only you and Allah and when you look away from the haram you are doing yourself a huge favor, you don’t want to be the weird guy when he gets married, cry to Allah and talk to hi. About your struggles even when he knows and sees what you are going through, I promise you it will feel amazing when you pour out your feelings and cry and cry to Allah with only you and him it feels so nice because he is with you all the time a lot of men struggle with this because it is truly wrong that’s why you feel guilty when you ejaculate but it’s okay the best of sinners at the ones who repent.
1. It was narrated that Abu Umaamah radiyallahu anhu said: “The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) said: "Whoever recites
Ayatul Kursi immediately after each
prescribed prayer, there will be
nothing standing between him and
his entering Paradise except death."
2. Abu Hurairah radiyallahu anhu reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: He who says,
"Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi' (Glory
and praise be to Allah) one hundred
times a day, his sins will be obliterated even if they are equal to the extent of the foam of the sea.
(Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
3. Abu Hurairah narrated that
the Prophet said:“There are two
statements that are light on the
tongue, heavy on the scales, and
beloved to the Most Merciful:
Subahana Allahi wa bihamdihi,
Subhana Allahi Al-'Azeem (Glory and
praise be to Allah, Glorified is Allah,
the Most Great.)” (Al-Bukhari)
4. Abu Hurairah reported that the
Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said: He who repeats after
every prayer: Subhan Allah (Glory
be to Allah) thirty-three times,
Al-hamdu lillah (praise be to Allah)
thirty-three times, Allahu Akbar (Allah
is the Greatest) thirty-three times; and
completes the hundred with:
La ilaha illallahu, wahdahu la sharika lahu,
lahul-mulku wa lahul-hamdu, wa
Huwa ‘ala kulli shai'in qadir (There is no true god except Allah. He is One and He has no partner. His is the sovereignty and His is the praise, and He is Omnipotent) Will have all his
sins pardoned even if they may be as
large as the foam on the surface of
the sea." (Muslim)
5. Zaid ibn Harithah narrated that
the Prophet (peace and blessings
be upon him) said: Whosoever says:
'Astaghfirullaha al-'Azeem al-ladhi
la ilaha illa huwa Al-Hayy al-Qayyum
wa atubu illayh (I ask forgiveness of Allah, the Magnificent, than Whom there is no deity, the Living, the Sustainer of existence, and I
turn to Him in repentance,) his sins
will be forgiven even if he should
have run away from the battlefield
(while he was engaged in fighting
for the Cause of Allah, which is a
grave sin in Islam).
(Abu Dawud and authenticated by Al-Albani)
6. The Prophet peace be upon
him said "Whosoever recites
Durood Sharief on me 10 times
in the morning and evening, I will
intercede for him on the day of
Qiyamah." (TIBRANI)
7.Whoever reads Surah Ikhlas ten
times, Allah will build a palace for
him in Paradise. 'Umar (may Allah
be pleased with him) exclaimed, "If
that's the case, then we will increase
in our palaces!" The Prophet ? (may
the peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) responded, "Allah is better
and greater (in reward)." [Ahmad]
8. Whoever reads Surat al-Kahf on
Friday, it wil act as a light/protection
for him from one Friday to the next.
(Bayhaqi)
9. Whoever performs their ablution
carefully and then affirms (their faith
by testifying): "Ash-hadu an laa ilaha
il Allah wahdahu laa shareeka lahu
wa anna Muhammadan 'abduhu
wa rasuluhu; Allahumma-ja'Ini
min at-tawaabeen waj-a'Ini min
a-mutatahireen": 1 testify that
there is no true deity except Allah
Alone, Who has no partners, and
that Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam is His slave and Messenger; O Allah, make me
from those who repent and purify
themselves' - the eight gates of
Jannah are opened for him so he
may enter through whichever of
these gates he desires.[Tirmidhi]
10. Whoever says: "Radheetu billahi
Rabba, wa bil Islaami Deena, wa bi
Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallama Nabiyya" - I am pleased with Allah as my Lord, and with Islam as my Religion, and with Muhammad as my Prophet, Paradise would be
(made) mandatory for him. [Abu Dawud]
11. Whoever asks Allah for Paradise
three times (Allahumma inni as'aluk
al-Jannah), then Paradise will say: "0
Allah! Enter him into Paradise!" And
whoever seeks protection with Allah
(Allahumma ajirni min an-Nar), the Fire will say:
"O Allah! Protect him from the Fire!" [TIRMIDHI]
12.Whoever is easy-going, gentle
and kind, Allah will make the fire
forbidden for him. [Hakim]
13. In Paradise there are rooms
whose outside can be seen from the
inside and the inside can be seen
from the outside. Allah has prepared
them for those who feed the poor,
who are gentle in speech, who fast
regularly and who pray at night when
(other) people are asleep. [Ahmad]
14. Narrated from Abu Hurairah that
the Prophet (blessings and peace
of Allah be upon him) said: "There
is a soorah of the Qur'an, with thirty
verses, that interceded for a man
until he was forgiven; it is 'Soorah
Tabaarak Alladhi bi yadihi'l-mulk
(Blessed is He in Whose Hand is the
dominion lal-Mulk 67:1]"
If you pass this on, It is Sadaqatul
Jaria. (meaning you keep on getting
rewarded for it, every time someone
acts upon it even when you have died, until the day of judgement).
Jazāk Allāhu Khayran
@@ejazmohdkhan Wa Antum Fa Jazakumullahu khayran
I hope we had Sheikh like this in our community.
I understand the issue, but you need to avoid the triggers. Put your phone away, shut down your laptop, keep yourself busy with other halal stuff
Not ruminating will help a lot. Don't even engage with the thought to sin.
@Qᴜɪᴄᴋ Sᴀɴᴅ you can avoid the major triggers, and you have to grow some balls, dont react to everything you see.
@@User-wq2ep bro no one thinking's about it but shaytaan puts it in your mind so never should you see it in the first place
@@mohammedjafer9265 Yes, we shouldn't even go near it. What I meant was if an intrusive thought or whispers from shaytan comes don't even think about whether to sin or not sin. Instead seek refuge in Allah and move on to something beneficial.
And take a moment to feel good about yourself when you make good choices. Don't have a huge party with announcements, of course, just take a moment to silently acknowledge you did a good thing. Sometimes we beat ourselves up inside for our mistakes and don't acknowledge the little victories, kicking ourselves for all the times we gave in. I've heard it described like, "When you are training a dog to sit and they do, you don't kick and hit it."
‘Words from the heart, enter the heart.’
Thank you.
If Shaytaan strikes once, strike back twice with ‘Ibadah.
Thank you for this beautiful message, I am struggling with controlling my eyes and this video will help me In'Sha'Allah JazakuAllah khair may Allah reward you all ❤️
'' What led you into Hell Fire?
They will say: 'We were not of those who prayed.'” (Qur'an, 74:42-43)
🌹Don't forget your five daily prayers🌹
Barak ALLAHA fiik, very useful and instructive for return back from mistakes. May ALLAH love all of you, who had inputs.
What led you into Hell Fire?
They will say: 'We were not of those who prayed.'” (Qur'an 74:42-43)
🌹Don't forget your five daily prayers 🌹
Thanks a lot for the words. Jajakallah Khairan!
Marrying is also very helpful to control many sins including watching haram
" Allahumme inneke
affuvun kerîmun
tuhibbul afve fa'fu annî "
For those suffering from any Haram addictions,
InshaAllah, This Method will work for curing your Addiction, It helped me
First and foremost
FEAR ALLAH AND REPENT everytime
Cut the source of temptation
• movies
• social media etc.
Whenever you commit this sin,
perform Wudu
Sincerely Ask Allah for forgiveness then pray to 2 raka's of Salah of repentance (as a kaffara, if you do more pray 2×2 raka' or 3×2 raka' )
If praying 2 raka' s doesn't work keep increasing to 4, 6 and so on
Whenever there is an urge to do the sin you'll remember that you'll have to pray Salah.
And Shaitan doesn't want that, so he may avoid you from doing the sin in the first place.
The only condition is that you be Sincere,
Promise yourself that whenever you do the sin you'll pray Salat at taubah (prayer of repentance)
Al`hamdulillah, This works for any other Addiction of yours.
Thank you my muslim brother,
Loved it., may ALLLAH Almighty bless you🤲
@@althafmuhammed7104 Brother, This really helped me.
Be Sincere (you should have the determination to get rid of any addiction or temptation)
+Ask forgiveness from Allah immediately
I have the same struggle here may Allah help us all in battle against sheytan
Great video but u forgot the best solution to the problem (marriage)
It was mentioned in the hadeth
Married people masturbate as well when their partners can't satisfy them
exactly !
No, fix yourself first. No one should have to marry an addict.
@@MS-og1bc
يا معشر الشباب من استطاع منكم الباءة فليتزوج فإنه أغض للبصر وأحصن للفرج ومن لم يستطع فعليه بالصوم فإنه له وجاء. رواه البخاري ومسلم عن عبدالله بن مسعود ـ رضي الله عنه.
@Simm JJ why are you talking to me like I have this? So rude.
Secondly let’s say this poor guy can’t (fix himself) what then? He doesn’t get married ever? Stay on this haram path?
Getting married helps you fix this problem.
The prophet عليه الصلاة والسلام literally said getting married helps cover your eyes & staying away from zina.
This the advice from our beloved prophet not from me.
Also i am not talking about addiction i am talking about looking too haram in general.
All muslims women should do veils like this women.May Allah protect you from all kind of danger.
To this addiction there is lot more than sexual desires,it goes deeper in to who you are,if you are internally broken and lost identity of who you are ,you do not have control of what you do and what you want ,then it will be very difficult to get out of this addiction.to get out of this addiction you need to connect to your authentic self with inside you which allah has already given you,and from this place start to act upon.this addiction can be due to trauma,abuse ,negativity,self objectification,thinking you are not good enough.this addiction is becoming so dangerous we still do not know the effects on our mind and body,this addiction may need professional help.some recomendation is dr trish leigh,mark queppet(sexual self mastery series),they talk about this addiction in much deeper.
Your comment made me cry. It describes my situation perfectly. I don’t know who I am. I’m internally broken and I have no identity. I don’t know who I am. And I genuinely have no self esteem
Thank you Rizwan for those sources, I'll check them out, Brothers need to know your want of it isn't haram, every man wants women don't fall for Haram, Zinnah, you deserve better, my advice to the brothers when it gets tough like you will trangress where you accept defeat in your side trust me, some of you will be there, call out to Allah and just confess then I punched the walls until my knuckles busted then the pain distracted me from the urges, it's incredibly hard look at the story of Prophet Yusuf, Mufti Menk makes note had he not reached out to Allah for help, strength he most likely would've fell, We all would, we all weak to that, like a hot knife through butter, you're legs would turn to jelly, get out before you walk the lines of Zinnah.
@@ylangylang1088 Ikhwan, you're a man, a healthy man, you being attracted to women with sexual urges is perfectly healthy thank Allah your testosterone is there and working but remember what we do with that urge, determines if we are transgressors or not, Call out to your creator and tell him, tell him you're weak to your naffs. The fact that it's enough to draw tears shows a literal proof you, a man is scared to transgress against your creator, Allah has placed that within you because he loves you, how many brothers have lost that feeling? That shame, dissappintment? remember when you're alive Allah never closes the door on you, we do by saying Allah can't forgive us.
Sahih al-Bukhari 7405
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Allah says: 'I am just as My slave thinks I am, (i.e. I am able to do for him what he thinks I can do for him) and I am with him if He remembers Me. If he remembers Me in himself, I too, remember him in Myself; and if he remembers Me in a group of people, I remember him in a group that is better than they; and if he comes one span nearer to Me, I go one cubit nearer to him; and if he comes one cubit nearer to Me, I go a distance of two outstretched arms nearer to him; and if he comes to Me walking, I go to him running.' "
Only Allah swt can heal and help you!
Please do Salah 5 times a day, read Quran everyday, do lots of charity, do tahajjad at night, learn how to do tahajjad, because you do good deed make you're intentions by saying "I make intentions to do this for the sake of Allah swt only" then do the good deeds/tahajjad. Please play all the ruqyah from this channel all day everyday and please make lots of duaa! Make lots of dua after Salah, reading Quran, fasting and after tahajjad. Only Allah swt can help you by doing Salah, Quran, fasting and tahajjad!!! Turn to Allah swt please... keep doing tahajjad ask Allah to remove magic and to protect you from sihr black magic, so the magic never return to you again ameen!... Do hejama on her head and body, eat black seed, olives, olives oil, zamzam water, dates, do hejama on you're body!.
The Tahajjud is a special Islamic prayer which is recommended. The Tahajjud is prayed after Isha (the obligatory nightly prayer) and before Fajr (the obligatory morning prayer). If possible, it is most desirable to perform the Tahajjud between midnight and Fajr, preferably in the last third of the night. Though the Tahajjud isn't compulsory, many devout Muslims try to make it part of their daily routine as an act of worship and to earn redemption and forgiveness from Allah.
Only Allah swt can heal and help you!
Please do Salah 5 times a day, read Quran everyday, do lots of charity, do tahajjad at night, learn how to do tahajjad, because you do good deed make you're intentions by saying "I make intentions to do this for the sake of Allah swt only" then do the good deeds/tahajjad. Please play all the ruqyah from this channel all day everyday and please make lots of duaa! Make lots of dua after Salah, reading Quran, fasting and after tahajjad. Only Allah swt can help you by doing Salah, Quran, fasting and tahajjad!!! Turn to Allah swt please... keep doing tahajjad ask Allah to remove magic and to protect you from sihr black magic, so the magic never return to you again ameen!... Do hejama on her head and body, eat black seed, olives, olives oil, zamzam water, dates, do hejama on you're body!.
The Tahajjud is a special Islamic prayer which is recommended. The Tahajjud is prayed after Isha (the obligatory nightly prayer) and before Fajr (the obligatory morning prayer). If possible, it is most desirable to perform the Tahajjud between midnight and Fajr, preferably in the last third of the night. Though the Tahajjud isn't compulsory, many devout Muslims try to make it part of their daily routine as an act of worship and to earn redemption and forgiveness from Allah.
That's really deep!
Oh Allah helps you, and guides you....
ASalam aleykum, this is my fight, I'm struggling, suffering, this is so difficult 😖, I just want to love Allah, to be a good slave, I have no friends, people today lead you to haram, in my country staying at home is better then being outside, women are naked AstaghfiruAllah and they are a lot of fitna and haram, I want to get married to a good woman InshaAllah et Being loved by Allah, kheir make Allah make it easy for us😢
BarakAllahu Feek
There’s a lot of Muslims struggling with the same exact situation you’re in. Ask Allah for guidance and by his will he’ll grant you passageways to fulfill your desires in a permissible manner. Always ask for forgiveness from Allah swt and don’t let Satan fool you into thinking you’re not forgiven. Do the best that you can and leave the rest to Allah swt.
You are a Slave?
How to pray for forgiveness for MAJOR sins:
Conditions for sins to be forgiven:
1. You genuinely regret the action
2. You leave the sin
3. Never return to it.
And of course, _beg_ Allah to forgive you for the sin you did.
You should recite a dua known as *_'Sayyid Al Istigfar'_* because it is the BEST dua for forgiveness:
Shaddad ibn Aws narrated that the Prophet [صلى الله عليه وسلم] said; _"the most superior request for forgiveness is to say:_
[Transliteration]:
'Allaahumma anta rabbee,
Laa illaaha illaa anta.
Khalaqtanee wa ana 'abduka,
wa ana 'alaa 'ahdika wa wa'dika mastata't.
A'oothu bika min sharri ma sana't.
Aboo'u laka bi ni'matika alayya,
wa aboo'u laka bi thambee.
Faghfir lee.
Fa innahoo laa yaghfiruth-thunooba illaa ant.'
Meaning:
[O Allah, You are my Lord.
There is no god besides You.
You created me and I am Your servant,
following your covenant and [my] promise to you as much as I can.
I seek refuge in You from the evil that I have done.
Before You I acknowledge Your blessings bestowed upon me,
and I confess my sins to You.
So forgive me,
for surely no one can forgive sins except You.]
Arabic:
اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي لّا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْت،
خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ،
وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْت،
أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْت،
أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ
عَلَيَّ، وَأَبُوءُ بِذَنْبِي فَاغْفِر لِي فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ
الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ
The Prophet [صلى الله عليه وسلم] then added, 'Anyone who says this during the day, firmly believing in it, and dies before the evening; or says it in the evening, firmly believing in it, and dies before the following morning, will be among the people of paradise.' "
[Sahih al-Bukhari, vol 8, pp212-3, no 318]
Try to say this dua after every prayer.
Also, after you have repented, try to do as many good deeds as you can.
May Allah (swt) forgive every Muslim.
You can share this dua by copying the text in my Just Paste It link and inshallah share in the reward: justpaste.it/5jvjn
For those searching for marriage, this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74).
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Transliteration: rabbana hablana min azwaajina wa dhuriyyatina qurrata A’yunin waj’alna lil- muttaqina imama.
Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
Many people rely on willpower alone to get out of this problem. Reducing your reliance on willpower and developing strategies will get you out of this addiction. Strategies like spending more time outside etc.
I was just about to Go watch " you know " And i found this video , And it's Namaz Time , And now I'm going for namaz , Alhamdulillah for this video 🤍💯
I want you to move forward with your inspiration and
prayers. Good luck to everyone from my channel.
May Allah guide us all, Ameen... ❤
This is something created by man by design. There is a reason the P industry generates more traffic then Google, Facebook and Instagram combined. Yes you heard that right. They know what they are doing.
It was created by the u know who the Germans in ww2 banned it from theaters because they found it immoral they love to keep you hooked to it
My dream is to die soon cuz it's doesn't make sense desiring things can't have
@@YoshiToshiSamYou desiring things you can't have? Maybe it's best you don't quench these desires. What can't you have? A wife? Children? Money? Are all attainable
Beautiful discussion makes me to rethink of how I should deal with the forbiden things thank you so much بارك الله فيكم.
I'm a Hindu, but your advice is helpful 🙂
I am not Muslim but this is a good message for anyone trying to quit anything that they consider bad
Just don’t look. And don’t guilt yourself so much. Allah knows your intentions. And if you are sincerely making the effort, and if given the opportunity, would stop looking. He knows that. It’s the most difficult time in all of history for believers. We are so bombarded and desensitized by what’s being pushed at us through various outlets ( movies, ads, music, magazines, internet, tv, computers, dress code, norms, “typical” societal behavior, radios, even just driving we see advertisements )and subconsciously this has a serious effect on us. It’s unavoidable , unless you can manage to find a ancient society where Allahs laws still govern every facet of living. But unless you live in certain parts of the Middle East, it would be difficult to find. And a lot have already died in battle ( pbut). Just try your best, sincerely. The end days are gonna implode at any moment. Patience too. A salam
♥️SUBHAN ALLAH♥️ALLHAMDULLAIH♥️LA ILAHA ILLA ALLAH♥️ALLAH HU AKBAR♥️
Adult explicit content is Deadliest Pandemic Society Don't talk about much
I would say the deadliest is simply atheism or other false religions but it's definitely up there...for sure😉
Why do I feel like muslimcontent is a fake account trying to downplay the seriousness of sharpie fatah comment..those things you just stated are completely irrelevant to what he is saying you didn't need to say them here.
@@Religions.of.fandom i see your following a youtube channel called ""Muslim"". Beware, they are backed Zionists. If you check their website, you can see that they are liberal muslims. They Normalize haram things.
I have many gripes with the religion but I truly enjoyed listening to him!
With what religion?
@@amaanullah13 Islam - questions, critiques, impressions, and ain't no one to answer them.
@@AcidifiedMammoth hey,I can't understand whether you are mocking our religion or what?
@@amaanullah13 I am not mocking it. All I am saying is: I have some problems with Islam, but I enjoyed listening to the man in the video.
@@AcidifiedMammoth can you tell me what your problem is regarding it?
Wait this isnt satire? Lol. This is so poorly acted I thought it was a joke.
The best thing is finding love inside yourself. This can be through gratitude or by being triggered by someone or something loving. When in this state, any addiction feels like something distant that you'd have to actually exert considerable effort to go to and then crawl all the way back to how wonderful you currently feel. There is some back and forth while learning how things feel inside but I think at some point you can decide how you want to feel and then make a commitment to stay there.
Subhanallah.......may allah reward you for making this video as a naseeha for everyone........aameen