To her son; I'm so sorry that you lost your mom she was dearly loved and will be missed. Keep moving forward and make her proud. She'll be watching over you.
I will mourn a class act like Olivia Newton-John, not this woman who could've killed people in her effort to escape paparazzi finding her drunk driving. As for the Ellen Degeneres fling, it served two purposes: help her failing career at a time when Ellen was a huge star and also counting on some alimony after separation but that didn't work out.
Having to make medical decisions for my own father at 32 years old, I can't even imagine if I had only been 20. Remain strong Homer. You're awesome, and so is your mother. It takes time, but you and your brother will get thru this.
I had to do the same with my own father who was 87 going on 30 and I was Anne's age at that time. My thoughts go out to her children, family, and friends during this difficult time.
The decision to pull the plug can be easy when there are no other options. It is still the hardest thing I ever had to do as a parent. Pray for her sons.
I did the same thing for my mom a few years ago it is one of the most hardest things I have ever experienced in my life but I hope her son's remain strong that it does take years to overcome something like this and they have some type of Peace in their life and make their mother proud
I’m so heartbroken for her sons. I lost my mom at 18, and 23 years later I still don’t know how to live life without her. It’s truly devastating not having your mom around for every part of your life. Anne, RIP, and boys, stay strong.
@The Ghost of Mr P I totally understand. I thought you meant trolling me. I’m not praising her for anything; however, I feel horrible for her children because I know what it’s like to lose a parent. I pray for the victims as well. They do not deserve nor did they ask for the loss they’ve endured. I’m sorry about your best friend. That’s something traumatic that’s kept with you forever. I can’t imagine how that felt. I’m glad you explained more in detail for me. Thank you, sir.
The footage of her tearing ass around the city is really scary. She actually ran into a storage unit and nearly missed a pedestrian zooming through an ally. It's a blessing that no one else was injured.
Death is just another path, one that we all must take. The gray curtain of this world pulls back and all turns to silver glass, and there you see it. White shores, and beyond a far green country under a swift sunrise.
My heart goes out to Anne’s sons. I lost my Mom in my 20’s and it’s life altering. I wanted my Mom to see me grow into adulthood. To share my victories and to encourage me when I fell short. She never met my spouse, my children, and I never got a chance to truly give back to her what she gave to me. Even though I have a lovely and full life and it’s been over 20 years since she passed, I can’t overcome the loneliness without her. My hope is that both boys grow close and support one another and to give each other the grace to not be OK. I learned from Japanese culture the idea of “Endure”. That when life throws you a hard blow, that it will hurt but you can and you will endure it. I hope for them that they can and will endure this loss. God bless
Hi Niki Blame her Doctors and her Employers; they all knew She was a sick person and still allowing her to move/drive and work. They are now responsible for her premature death. Please pass this message to her sons. Thank you BJL
Yeah I had a similar situation I left my post above everybody's right now and it's very life-altering and thankfully the universe blessed me with another mother to give me a traditional love even in my 30s you still need nurturing love from a parent and the hardest thing is deciding some with fate with pulling the plug and it's so hard but you know that they're not suffering anymore and they're in a better place than so I hope her son's thing it's not their fault and that life does get better and hopefully they break the cycle.
I am genuinely sorry you've experienced such a great loss. I lost my mom to suicide in my 20s and, while the nature of her death certainly added to our grief, her absence from my life over the last 20 years has had the same effect on me that you described above with such verisimilitude. You absolutely nailed the endless grief that becomes a silent passenger in your life who blends into the background nearly unnoticeable until an event occurs that she would've been the first person you'd have wanted to talk to about it, and it's in those moments that you realize your grief is just as great as it was that 1st day without her. I will always miss my mom and her absence will be deeply mourned until my last breath. I know Anne's sons have had a very rough week to say the least but my heart breaks thinking of what they still have to endure. May they somehow find peace and light in this darkness.
I'm 53 and have two boys 20 and 15 and I can't even imagine. Home and Atlas you are both in my thoughts. I recently lost my mother as well and definitely is a roller coaster of emotions. Hang tight to each other.
I can't imagine being 20 yrs old and having to take care of so many grown-up decisions. It's hard enough that he and his brother have lost their mom. So many best wishes to the two of them.
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
@@jenniferhcsmith-5586 That's so true. Everything is normal one day and then the next day could shatter your life. One of the reasons I've learned to try to appreciate every moment.
For what little I know about drug use, I think she miscalculated that day - the drugs must have hit her differently. I don’t think she did this intentionally, a bad reaction to the drugs or maybe she took an extra dose. I don’t believe she did this on purpose at all!
@@linnylu1052 Who knows what her state of mind was that day? Whether or not she intended to take her own life is something we'll never know the answer to.
@@ashleyvalentine2790 the woman living there was not the owner. Her neighbors raised about $150,000 for her. The owner will rebuild the house brand new with insurance proceeds. They’re fine.
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
To her children, I am so sorry for your loss . I know, what it’s like to lose a mother. I wish you and your brother all the very best, and know that your mom will be watching over you and your brother. Sending lots of love…
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
@@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 that’s fine. Everyone has the right to their own opinion, however, i do agree with you. And of course, I feel for the victim here too. My prayer is definitely with her, but I’m also thinking of her kids. Because, they are also victims of this tragedy.
My heart goes out to Homer and Atlas. I know what it's like to lose a mom and suffer agonizing "emotional swings" as Homer stated. I feel for them. I thought Homer's words were very profound for someone his age to say. "Eternal Freedom." I too believe that we will see them again. 💔
My condolences go out to you and your family. So sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful and talented actress. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. RIP❤️🙏🏾
Dear Homer an Atlas, What a beautiful soul your mama was. She is free and no longer in pain My heart aches for you both. Please remember to do alot of self care . Creativity can help with the grieving process. ✌️ and love ❤️ stay strong Robin
My father died suddenly when I was 16 it destroys a young person's life. I feel and pray for her boys. Poor poor babies. She was a beautiful talent. 🙏😘
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
Hugs to Homer and Atlas. There are No words to express this profound tragedy. May you always find comfort in each other moving through your life experiences as siblings. ❣🙏🥺
Rest in paradise, Anne Heche. She was such a firecracker and I loved her energy. I loved her acting, and I especially remember her in '6 Days 7 Nights' and 'Volcano'. My heart goes out to her sons and her family. Love & light.
Dear Homer and Atlas, I can only imagine the loss you both are feeling at this time , my heart goes out to you. During this time I hope you're receiving support,love and of course lots of hugs. Please be strong and take care of yourselves , I've no doubt this is what your mother would want. I'm sending my best wishes.
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
@@robbieogle8622 She likely couldn't fight her "demons" anymore, she lost her way in life. It happens. May she now rest in peace. Anyone can have fame and fortune but life isn't a bed of roses. So sad she died the way she did :(. We'll never know why she decided to do what she did. To me it looked like she deliberately drove very fast as it doesn't look like she applied the brakes before her crash so maybe suicide?
My husband was born the same year as Anne and I looked at him today and thought what an unimaginable loss it would be if I lost him. I am so painfully sorry that Anne’s family lost their mum like this. My kids still rely on their dad just as I’m sure Anne’s kids relied on her (and yes they are our kids no matter what the age. I lost my eldest son to a very early death due to trying to suppress his inner demons with drugs and alcohol, he eventually took his own life in 2018. I am not saying this to take anything away from Anne’s death and her family but I want her family to know I understand their loss exponentially, and know the grief and road back to finding some peace is a rocky one with lots of pot holes on the way. I extend to all her loved ones my deepest and sincerest sympathy for their tremendous loss and want them to know I am sending my love and prayers their way. You will want to be brave and strong but don’t see it as a weakness to ask for help and support, I know without this I would have found the grieving process so much harder. Bless you all, you are in my prayers, and rip Anne you were a strong, independent, wonderful woman and will be missed by many, many, people. With love and prayers to your family Anne, I’m sure a star shines brighter in heaven for you.
If her sons or family read my comment, may she rest easy, everyone has problems and I’m sorry for other peoples comments. I really enjoyed her films and I wish she could’ve received help. I’m sorry for your loss.
What an amazing son. He did just beautifully sharing his pain and having to make what I'm know are incredibly painful decisions. Our family lost our 2.5 month old granddaughter and donating her organs ended up being a light in the darkness. Blessings to Anne and her family and friends.
It is so good to see so many compassionate messages on here for the family. For the past several days I have seen people say such horrible things about her, and being so judgemental look, we all know she had issues, and yes, it's her own fault, this happened I'm only saying this because that's all people have been saying except, of course, they have been very rude and disrespectful about it and not thinking about her children at all, but this is their mother, and the least people can do is be supportive and not continue putting someone down who has legally been dead this whole time, but yet that's what people have been doing. People have lost their compassion and their sympathy, instead, they want to keep breaking someone down even when they're dead, and they tend to forget that this person has a family, and they think it's ok to come on 2 comments and say, absolutely horrible things because they think they have a right to, but if this happened to their family they would be highly pissed off, and they forget that. So the next time you put a comment up, think about if it happened to you, wouldn't you want people to support your kids and not say the most outlandish and disgusting things, and being so judgemental? Yes, what she did was wrong, and thankfully, no one else was hurt, but she wasn't perfect, she messed up, and unfortunately it caused her death. But that doesn't matter, what matters is supporting her kids and not saying, awful things about her, just have a heart that's all I'm asking for, and that's all the family is asking for I think these young men are incredibly strong, and I know that their mom is so proud of them. I'm so sorry, you lost your mom, I know the pain you're going through. Bless yalls heart so much, and people actually do care and overlook the people who only want to drag your mother's name in the mud. They're not worth your time or energy, I really am sorry, and I truly hope she's found some peace God bless y'all.
First my heart goes out to her boys. I am so sorry for your loss. These boys are so young especially her youngest boy. These boys still needed their Mom and she died in such a traumatic way. I think what people are forgetting is that this woman was fighting demons. I’ve been sexually abused when I was 7yrs old. No I don’t use drugs or alcohol. But I definitely use food as my drug. I am hurting myself only. Trauma like that is absolutely difficult to deal with. My childhood was robbed from me. Anne was abused by her own father. My abuser was my neighbor. Its hard enough but I can’t even begin to imagine if it was my own father. The parent that’s supposed to protect you. Let’s also remember she had a disease: drugs and alcohol abuse is a disease. Yes thank God she didn’t kill or hurt anyone else but remember Anne ultimately paid the highest price for what she did she paid with her life. Have any of you that are saying terrible things not made mistakes? Have you been forgiven? Ok maybe not as bad as she did. Regardless she was a HUMAN BEING I mean she lost her life have we become SO heartless that we can’t have just a bit of compassion for someone who has died?! Treat others as you would want to be treated. No matter what you think there are still young boys who have lost their Mom. Try to remember that. Again no matter what she did pay the ultimate with her life. I heard they still have her on life support because they are trying to see if she’s a match for organ donation. That’s some she wanted and her family agreed. At least her final act will help people. That has account for something. I pray for her and her family and I pray for my fellow humans that when we are at our worst we can forgive each other. Please just be kind. 🙏🏼💔
For her beautiful baby boys your mom will always be with you I'm so saddened for your loss. I lost my mom 16 years ago and she was only 63 and she sends me yellow butterflies even at the strangest times of the year when they clearly should not be here but I know that's my mom's way of letting me know that she's here with me and always will be. God bless you both and keep you in his care and may your hearts be filled with joy.
I lost my father suddenly at the age of 20. It was beyond difficult! He was brain dead and I had to make medical choices for him. I’m so sorry , Homer, that you have such a burden at such a young age. However, living in eternal freedom is such an incredible gift along with being able to donate organs and tissue. I’m sure your mother will bless another life with her gift of donation. My father was able to donate his liver, parts of his eyes, and several other tissues. It was wonderful to know a mother of three in her 30s was able to continue to live because of my father’s liver. Your mother was a blessing in many other ways too in spite of her struggles. She is free🙏❤️
@@syroleelane2794 you don’t always have to pick sides. You can have compassion for both. Just cause someone has compassion for someone doesn’t mean they don’t have compassion for the victim. That’s the issue with this world. Always picking sides and not having compassion for everyone.
@@mastervz4806 It's not "picking sides" when everybody just talks about the Hollywood star's fate but not even has one word to offer about the consequences for the ones who's house was completely damaged? That's your way of showing "compassion for everyone" - by ignoring one side completely? Wow, that's rich... - I was not picking sides (like you obviously did) cause I never said you should not pay respect to Heche. I just said don't forget/ ignore the other side.
Homer I know how painful it is for you to lose your mom. I often thought oh, I’ll call my mom and the fear and emptiness when a second later I was with the pain of her not being there to call ever. I just tried to make sense of a situation that was unsolvable. So I put one foot in front of the other and did the best I could and cried a lot. Your mom would want you to know she is ok now and loves you and your brother. You were brave in the face if your loss to honor her like you did. You learned well from her. Let people love and help you in your minutes and hours to come. “Just as a bird flies free from its cage, your mom flew home to God.” Bless you and your brother
I felt very touched by your post. I too lost my Mom. She died when I was in my 20s, and that was 21 years ago. I can’t tell you how many years it took me to no longer have that immediate almost instinctual reaction of “I need to call my Mom”. I still long for her, I just don’t have the phone call thing happen anymore. It’s almost sadder as time passes because I have a hard time remembering her voice and her smell. Things I never thought I’d loose. Life goes on - you get jobs, fall in love, marry, divorce, have kids, etc - but for me, it’s always tinged with sadness and loneliness. For me, it’s just inescapable.
Soph, your words are beautiful and comforting. I hope you’ll consider sending a condolence card to her sons with this message. I know they will appreciate it. I was a little older, in my 20s, when I lost my mom suddenly. I was comforted by cards I received from strangers (to me) who were church friends of my mom. It helped tremendously to hear an anecdote that gave a different piece of my mom’s life I wasn’t a part of, living in a different state. Just something I hope you’ll consider. Peace. 🙏🏻
Thank you for taking the time to reassure these two young boys about their mother. Life is so precious and at this age they need all the reassurance and comforting especially losing their mother as such a young age that they can. Helping them with words and knowledge of losing a mother will help them understand so much more. Thank you again for taking the time to write to them
One of my favorite actresses! For some reason I’m taking this one hard! She was a beautiful person! RIP Anne Heche- May your sons continue your memory- ❤️❤️❤️
How heart wrenching. Anne was a phenomenal actress & seemed like a warm, caring mother. She was a pioneer for the LGBTQ community whether people want to acknowledge it or not. Hope the family, especially her boys, find solace
Shocking. Sad. Sorry for the kids. She was loved, so, in the end that's the best thing anyone can say about anybody -- that they're well loved & will never be forgotten.
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
@@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 That's a different conversation tho. I wasn't talking about the homeowner there. Yes, it sure looks like Ann Heche was speeding in the videos they found. Was the house at the end of a street, at a T intersection maybe? Or what?? Was Ann H. just drunk & speeding? Was there some kind of emergency?? Or was she driving drunk & suicidal maybe? On meds, and/or suicidal, as well as speeding?? Or she was perhaps going too fast to turn, if she had to turn there? Brakes fail too?? Just somehow totally lost control of the vehicle, for whatever reason?? Sun got in her eyes?? I wonder if we'll ever really know what happened there, what the issue was, or what was going on in A.H.'s head at the time of the crash. I also really wonder why she didn't get out of the vehicle. Was she trapped in it somehow & couldn't get out?? Was she pinned down by anything?? She lost oxygen for too long to be anything less than brain dead -- but why?? Was she knocked unconcious, and did the fire just suck all the oyxgen then out of the vehicle?? The firefighters would likely know that, or at least if she was pinned down in the vehicle; their report would be interesting. Her medical report, re. her arrival condition at hosp., re drugs or alcohol in her system, etc etc might be very interesting to know too, & if she had a concussion etc. So.....not nice for the homeowner, at all, but at least they survived, where they could have been killed, really. And they likely at least had insurance -- I should imagine their mortgage co. would hv required such insurance to be in place. So, it could hv been much worse. I also hope there were no animals harmed, or any that failed to get out of the house!! I am sure the homeowners will sue Ann Heche's estate tho, for everything they can think of that might fly, if they can prove the reason for the crash was speeding or drinking while driving, or both, both being against the law. Hopefully they won't have any problem making a claim meanwhile with their own insce. co. Any proceeds from the estate re damages from the crash may be required by law to be paid back to the insce. co., I don't know -- in that you can't get paid twice over (or at least sue in 2 different courts at the same time) for the same claims or damages, I don't believe, & that could depend upon where you live (?). It's going to take a long time to finally be overwith tho, whatever. The homeowner needs to be saving all receipts & proof re crash-related expenses -- photos are good too.
I send my deepest condolences to her sons, their fathers and Heather, her dear friend. Your loss is immense. I send condolences to Ellen as well. What was not worked through in this life Ellen, will be in the next. Forgiveness is kindness, it is an important part of love . I miss her so very much and we never even met. I love you Anne Heche. Enjoy the afterlife! I look forward to meeting you after I cross over. 🌹
@@NorthPhilly-zr7xc no one knows what was going on in Anne's mind when this terrible accident occured. she may have known what she was doing?she may have been drugged unknowingly? she may have had a mental breakdown over something wedont know about? please dont be so quick to judge her, she was a kind and gentle woman and a marvelous actress and should be remembered as such in my opinion
considering they had all seen her alive and fighting off her abductors this eulogising is truly truly sick....i hope all you people face the consequences of your actions ...soon
It's been devastating for the woman who was nearly killed and her emotional and mental stability and trauma after this financially it's probably destroyed the homeowner thanks Anne heche rest in peace
@Boston Gal she was an occupant...so the homeowner as well as the occupant now have to endure the financial mental and emotional trauma of a selfish addicted drunk ... That makes it better?
Dear Homer and Atlas, It is quite obvious how much your mom loved you both and was so proud of you!My sincere condolences for your loss. Your mom is free with no pain. Be strong and one day you will be reunited with her. Until then, make her proud and find and fulfill God’s purpose for your lives! God bless you both and keep you!
Anne has always been one of my favorite actresses! My heart breaks for her sons the light that Anne carried was so bright she stood up for the many causes she believed in she never followed the sheep she had her own way of thinking and that’s what I loved about her! She done so much good in her life - I Will remember her smile and her positive outlook!
I hope people respect her children. People raise their own self esteem by bashing people in every news story. Their nastiness won't hurt her, but it will devastate her grieving sons and good people don't do that. I wish them peace and strength during their horrible loss.
I cant imagine making those decisions at such a young age. I feel for her boys so sorry for what you all have to go through, stay strong and take the time you need to grieve it will come and go, my prayers are with all of you family and friends, RIP Anne 🙏❤
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
@@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 The homeowner AND Anne’s loved ones need prayers and support. You seem to believe her family should suffer for her actions which is utterly ridiculous.
@@jacwindsor5552 She was a terrible person and I almost find it funny how people are pretending to give a shit and acting like it’s such a “great loss” when NOT A ONE OF THEM would have said this shit before she died!!! 😡
Rest in peace Anne. I just cannot believe it took the fire fighters so long to get her out. The image of her popping up on the stretcher before being put in the ambulance is haunting of the pain she must have been in. May she now be in a happier place. My heart breaks for her sons.
@@123marlanamars I believe a wrongful death lawsuit will be filed against the fire department as they fought to contain and control the fire, but didn't try to rescue Anne sooner. If they did, she might be with us here today. Whatever her demons and mistakes, she was one hell of an actress. Her six completed projects that are in post production will be a memorial and testament to her talent.
@@kscptv Explain to me why she was completely covered up? She wakes up pulls the sheet off and they didn't stop right there to administer some form of treatment. She was forced back onto the gurney. Who was she running from? She could have driven her car off a cliff in LA. Why smash into a house?
Boys I know it hurts like hell right now, but momma is in a much better place and not hurting inside anymore. I promise you both you will see her again. May you Rest In Peace Anne. We will look out for the boys from here on out.
I cried when I heard that she had died. She was another tortured soul who tried to fit in what we call a normal society. May she now be at peace with Our Lord….no more pain Anne. Just a fan who loved her. 🙏😢❤️
I know little about her but from what I've learned of her childhood, she came from an intensely traumatic past. This is tragic. I'm betting she was taking psychiatric drugs, or some sort of substance. She may have been panicked. In that state of mind, she may have simply been reacting like a trapped animal as she crashed into that house. Her kids are adorable! 😭 I highly doubt she ever intended for this to happen. I hope she is finally free of whatever was troubling her.
@@Starry_Night_Sky7455 Amen Bonnie…..I know that she was on cocaine and had been drinking vodka and wine and most likely was on prescription meds also. Thank you for your compassion…there are many out there whom wish to judge her and think the worst of her. I am a 69 year old woman who has suffered from anxiety almost my entire life…..I also lived in a house of hitting and verbal abuse. I take anxiety meds for 13 years now and I never had a sip of alcohol since. Nothing good would have come from it. Now, if my father had been molesting me my entire young life, I would probably be dead myself. I could not imagine what that does to a child’s mind….her own father…what kind of animal was he! May she Rest In Peace.
How could she have been brain dead when a man claims he spoke to her after the crash and there's video of her flailing on the gurney right before she was put in the ambulance. Something's not right here.
So sad, her poor children, may they find much support and love in their time of grief. Their mother was beautiful and lived through a childhood that came with heavy scars and challenges to survive and thrived and overcame a lot despite that.
Anne Heche. You are free of pain an now looking up for your children every minute god as good cause he has you next to him with your beautiful smile we will be very miss RIP
So young, forever young. RIP Anne, you were a special kind of light in this world, I pray that you’ve been reunited with your brother and have found peace, although I can’t imagine that you would have chosen for it to be like this, may you continue to be a guiding light for Homer and Atlas, and my deepest condolences to all who knew and loved her.
Most creative people have so much going on in their mind and the world thinks its beautiful until it's not. Anne was an amazing actress and I hope everyone involved in this tragedy can recover and Anne can rest. 💖
As a creative, empathetic, business owner in the world, I have to say it is hard. You try so hard to please others because it's what gives you joy, but people can be so mean. They pressure you. They want so much from you and take advantage. When you finally say no more, they freak out on you for not being able to be human and have personal time or just simply can't do the impossible for them. A creative mind is in the clouds all day wanting a better world. We are so grateful for grateful people and that's why we keep doing it but it wears on you. This world is unlimited but societal laws and unwritten rules are limiting. A creative mind feels claustrophobic.
Addiction on many cases is a biproduct of self medicating due to mental illness. We need to get to the source of the issues so tragedies like this can be minimized. Getting off of drugs for some is just a bandaid not a resolution to the cause of it.
Dearest Mom, I am so saddened that your son passed on too soon. I am so pleased you had him and his love for the time you did. It will live on in you forever. Someday I believe we will see.our loved ones gain. I so sorry. He was much too young to go. A Mother of two boys. 💕😘🌹 A Colorado Mountain Grandma, USA 💜
To her son's..I pray for you both to have courage..strength and perseverance but most of all hope...never let hope die..your mother will live on forever in every memory and story you share for the rest of your lives..she will never be far..she will always be in your heart
I think he knew she was hurting and she had battles to fight those were words went beyond the physical pain she was in. That’s what just broke my heart poor kids.
And maybe him seeing his mother do weird things drinking or drugs, made him more mature mentally. But he knew her better than any of us. I still say she didn’t do this intentionally. She took the drugs intentionally but somehow she had a bad reaction.
Speaking as someone who has lost a parent (my dad died in May last year after suffering a heart attack), you never get over the loss, nor does it get easier. There's an empty space that can never be filled. It's been one day at a time since Dad died. I have moments when I think I see him, but when I get closer I see it's someone else.
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
Sending love and prayers your way, Homer and Atlas... I am so sorry for your loss. Your Mom will be in a better place, many people will be able to live on because of her generous sweet soul, and her love will always be with you.
I literally clicked on this video right after watching your hair transformation video then saw your comment ❤️ Love you Jess! Thanks for being such an inspiration
Her brakes were screeching as her car was flying down the street. The way first responders acted was odd. Putting the blanket covering her completely is if they’re dead. She obviously wasn’t dead when she fought through the restraint and tried to get out. Also, why was no first aid being administered or a neck brace or anything? Just rushed into a ambulance and no burns visible on her hair. Her shirt was intact and not burned. Something is not right and I think she was definitely murdered.
Her son looks just like her! What a tragic ending for this beautiful talented actress! My Sincere Condolences to her sons, family, and close friends! 🙏🏽 😢
The saddest part is the children left behind and the woman who lost her home and personal belongings. I don't know her story or what she was thinking before the events unfolded but I wish only peace and inner strength for her victim, her children and for her soul. RIP
OMG I just can't believe the horrific devastation her sons have been feeling. I am deeply sorry that Anne Heche has not recovered. I just can't imagine the heartbreak. Well, actually I can. My positive thoughts go out to you to find the comfort & kindness around you. ✨️ No one can tell you how you feel. For each one of us has our own pain that is ours to own. Please find a little comfort knowing that she is no longer in pain & will be watching over her sons until they meet again. Rest In Peace Anne 🌌
Your mom did her very best to make her sons proud of her. She loved you dearly and is now watching over you. Unfortunately she couldn’t beat her codependency. Please don’t blame her ,blame her traumatic childhood. Sending you & your brother all the love & prayers you need now to grieve her passing. May her sweet soul RIP.
Nah, I'm blaming her. She chose to d r u g up, speed, crash, was told to get out of the car after the first crash (that man was being a guardian angel of sorts & was given a chance to stop her rampage) but she chose to speed away where she crashed into a home. I'm glad that she was the only one physically hurt because she was ready to risk the lives of those driving or walking in the neighborhood she was speeding in. She was also going to take the lives of the woman and her dogs in the house she crashed into. Many people have traumatic childhoods, suffer from addiction, etc yet don't lump them with this woman who chose to endanger her and the lives of people and animals. Most don't do this. She had every chance in the world and had the best doctors and the means to get help. Something most of us don't have the privilege of enjoying. She chose this. She chose to try to take others lives with her too, but I'm glad she wasn't successful with that.
@@alexialira3839 This may be all true and I agree wholeheartedly with you on most of what you say but please remember there's 2 precious boys that need to start comprehending there reality and start somehow, picking up the pieces . Just saying, it's probably not what they want to be hearing or reading at this very minute Maybe further on down the track once they've had time to digest things and see the big picture It just may help them in some way to see & hear yours and others opinions that are similar.
mona2242 I agree with everything you're saying. However this is not the time to say or write judgemental things about her. The woman just died for christ sake! Please show some respect.
My heart goes out to her sons cause I just lost my mother last December and it has been the hardest thing I HAVE EVER HAD TO GO THROUGH, so I know how and what they are going through!! 💔💔
My heart breaks for her sons. I cannot imagine being so young w that weight on my shoulders. I was honestly happy for her & Ellen. She seemed so happy then. As the wife of an organ recipient, I applaud her & her family for donating her organs. Thats so selfless to do that for someone else when you're going thru such a tragedy. Praying for peace for her & comfort & strength for her family, friends & fans🙏💔
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
My heart breaks for Homer and Atlas. Rest In Peace Anne Heche- may the afterlife be filled with kindness and freedom ❣
That was nice, Natalie. 💔
Is everyone a Universalist??
Sorry but their is no peace apart from Jesus
I pray she knew Jesus.
Lmaoooooooo 🤣
To her son; I'm so sorry that you lost your mom she was dearly loved and will be missed. Keep moving forward and make her proud. She'll be watching over you.
He doesn't read these comments.
❤️😘
My heart breaks for both sons, and for Anne too, for whatever triggered her pain.
I will mourn a class act like Olivia Newton-John, not this woman who could've killed people in her effort to escape paparazzi finding her drunk driving. As for the Ellen Degeneres fling, it served two purposes: help her failing career at a time when Ellen was a huge star and also counting on some alimony after separation but that didn't work out.
She was a drug addicted alcoholic who was on a suicide mission
Having to make medical decisions for my own father at 32 years old, I can't even imagine if I had only been 20. Remain strong Homer. You're awesome, and so is your mother. It takes time, but you and your brother will get thru this.
This is such a beautiful, thoughtful and kind message ♡
I had to do the same with my own father who was 87 going on 30 and I was Anne's age at that time. My thoughts go out to her children, family, and friends during this difficult time.
poor young guy will also have to deal with insurance and lawsuits at only 20.........
The decision to pull the plug can be easy when there are no other options. It is still the hardest thing I ever had to do as a parent. Pray for her sons.
I did the same thing for my mom a few years ago it is one of the most hardest things I have ever experienced in my life but I hope her son's remain strong that it does take years to overcome something like this and they have some type of Peace in their life and make their mother proud
I’m so heartbroken for her sons. I lost my mom at 18, and 23 years later I still don’t know how to live life without her. It’s truly devastating not having your mom around for every part of your life. Anne, RIP, and boys, stay strong.
Nice comment, sorry you lost your mom young🙏
@The Ghost of Mr P I’m 42
@The Ghost of Mr P thank you for the advice. Can I ask why you’d troll something like this?
Also, I’m nowhere near 50 yet.
@The Ghost of Mr P I totally understand. I thought you meant trolling me. I’m not praising her for anything; however, I feel horrible for her children because I know what it’s like to lose a parent. I pray for the victims as well. They do not deserve nor did they ask for the loss they’ve endured. I’m sorry about your best friend. That’s something traumatic that’s kept with you forever. I can’t imagine how that felt. I’m glad you explained more in detail for me. Thank you, sir.
The footage of her tearing ass around the city is really scary. She actually ran into a storage unit and nearly missed a pedestrian zooming through an ally. It's a blessing that no one else was injured.
The son’s words about his mom being pain free and eternal freedom really got to me
Well, remember he SAW her burns and suffering. So, in a way, it's a relief.
Same.
I think he was also referring to her mental pain.
Death is just another path, one that we all must take.
The gray curtain of this world pulls back and all turns to silver glass, and there you see it.
White shores, and beyond a far green country under a swift sunrise.
John 3:16
My heart goes out to Anne’s sons. I lost my Mom in my 20’s and it’s life altering. I wanted my Mom to see me grow into adulthood. To share my victories and to encourage me when I fell short. She never met my spouse, my children, and I never got a chance to truly give back to her what she gave to me. Even though I have a lovely and full life and it’s been over 20 years since she passed, I can’t overcome the loneliness without her. My hope is that both boys grow close and support one another and to give each other the grace to not be OK. I learned from Japanese culture the idea of “Endure”. That when life throws you a hard blow, that it will hurt but you can and you will endure it. I hope for them that they can and will endure this loss. God bless
Hi Niki Blame her Doctors and her Employers; they all knew She was a sick person and still allowing her to move/drive and work. They are now responsible for her premature death. Please pass this message to her sons. Thank you BJL
So beautifully written. My heart is with those boys 💕
Yeah I had a similar situation I left my post above everybody's right now and it's very life-altering and thankfully the universe blessed me with another mother to give me a traditional love even in my 30s you still need nurturing love from a parent and the hardest thing is deciding some with fate with pulling the plug and it's so hard but you know that they're not suffering anymore and they're in a better place than so I hope her son's thing it's not their fault and that life does get better and hopefully they break the cycle.
the other sad part is that she left behind a 13 year old son
I am genuinely sorry you've experienced such a great loss. I lost my mom to suicide in my 20s and, while the nature of her death certainly added to our grief, her absence from my life over the last 20 years has had the same effect on me that you described above with such verisimilitude. You absolutely nailed the endless grief that becomes a silent passenger in your life who blends into the background nearly unnoticeable until an event occurs that she would've been the first person you'd have wanted to talk to about it, and it's in those moments that you realize your grief is just as great as it was that 1st day without her. I will always miss my mom and her absence will be deeply mourned until my last breath.
I know Anne's sons have had a very rough week to say the least but my heart breaks thinking of what they still have to endure. May they somehow find peace and light in this darkness.
My heart goes out to her sons! I pray she finds Peace and is finally free from all the pain she suffered in this life.
Sending love to the sons, the people that lost their home and everyone affected, thank God there were no other lives lost or people injured.
I'm 53 and have two boys 20 and 15 and I can't even imagine. Home and Atlas you are both in my thoughts. I recently lost my mother as well and definitely is a roller coaster of emotions. Hang tight to each other.
I can't imagine being 20 yrs old and having to take care of so many grown-up decisions. It's hard enough that he and his brother have lost their mom. So many best wishes to the two of them.
I had to make that decision for my mom at age 20. It is so rough at the time, but then it gets easier. ❤️
I had those decisions at 16, then hospice for my surviving parent @ 20...many people do
@@thesummerland6165 prayers sent. no one ever knows what life challenges they may have too face.
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
@@jenniferhcsmith-5586 That's so true. Everything is normal one day and then the next day could shatter your life. One of the reasons I've learned to try to appreciate every moment.
OH NO! My heart goes out to Anne's sons and the rest of her family and friends .Rip Anne Heche 🙏
@ronza 3 ???
@@luana1600 dont click it. A virus or info will be stolen
@@luana1600 I know right. 🙄
For what little I know about drug use, I think she miscalculated that day - the drugs must have hit her differently. I don’t think she did this intentionally, a bad reaction to the drugs or maybe she took an extra dose. I don’t believe she did this on purpose at all!
@@linnylu1052 Who knows what her state of mind was that day? Whether or not she intended to take her own life is something we'll never know the answer to.
Praying for Anne’s entire family. I am sad with a hurting heart!! RIP Anne, your pain is all gone now!!
And for the homeowner and her pets. RIP Ann. 🙏 Remember the homeowner.
@@ashleyvalentine2790 thank God she and her pets are safe. It doesn’t take away anything from her by feeling sympathy for Anne and her family
@@ashleyvalentine2790 the woman living there was not the owner. Her neighbors raised about $150,000 for her. The owner will rebuild the house brand new with insurance proceeds. They’re fine.
@@ashleyvalentine2790 stop praying for clueless animals
What pain?
Oh my god, that video where she says she’s going to be the best mom and he’s so sweet… my heart is broken. This is such a sad story. 💔
This is so sad, especially for her kids, but I'm glad to hear her family respects her wishes to be a donor. 😔RIP
My deepest condolences to her sons. It’s not easy losing a mother. I lost mine years ago. I still miss her to this day..
Me too' both my Parents 😢💔
It’s a life-altering and profound loss... you don’t know , and really cant fathom it, until you join the club 💔
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
Me too but now she’s my Angel
I lost my mother back in 1996, and I haven’t been the same since. 😔
To her children, I am so sorry for your loss . I know, what it’s like to lose a mother. I wish you and your brother all the very best, and know that your mom will be watching over you and your brother. Sending lots of love…
Sending Anne's son's so much love ❤️ and prayers- Jesus stay close and hold then in Your Love. Boys, your Mom is your biggest cheerleader- always!!
'Your loss'.
'To lose a mother'.
You're welcome.
loss*
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
@@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 that’s fine. Everyone has the right to their own opinion, however, i do agree with you. And of course, I feel for the victim here too. My prayer is definitely with her, but I’m also thinking of her kids. Because, they are also victims of this tragedy.
My heart goes out to Homer and Atlas. I know what it's like to lose a mom and suffer agonizing "emotional swings" as Homer stated. I feel for them. I thought Homer's words were very profound for someone his age to say. "Eternal Freedom." I too believe that we will see them again. 💔
LLP
My condolences go out to you and your family. So sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful and talented actress. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. RIP❤️🙏🏾
Amen 🙏💕🙏 RIP beautiful lady.
Dear Homer an Atlas,
What a beautiful soul your mama was.
She is free and no longer in pain
My heart aches for you both.
Please remember to do alot of self care .
Creativity can help with the grieving process.
✌️ and love ❤️ stay strong
Robin
My father died suddenly when I was 16 it destroys a young person's life. I feel and pray for her boys. Poor poor babies. She was a beautiful talent. 🙏😘
I am with you. I was 17 when my Dad died. Life never the same.
Her 2 boys will be scarred for life for sure.
Same here. I lost my father when I was 13. It leaves a hole in your soul forever, such a traumatic loss.
Condolences to Homer and Atlas. I hope she's at peace now,free of her pain and suffering 🙏
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
Hugs to Homer and Atlas. There are No words to express this profound tragedy. May you always find comfort in each other moving through your life experiences as siblings. ❣🙏🥺
Rest in paradise, Anne Heche. She was such a firecracker and I loved her energy. I loved her acting, and I especially remember her in '6 Days 7 Nights' and 'Volcano'. My heart goes out to her sons and her family. Love & light.
Dear Homer and Atlas,
I can only imagine the loss you both are feeling at this time , my heart goes out to you.
During this time I hope you're receiving support,love and of course lots of hugs.
Please be strong and take care of yourselves , I've no doubt this is what your mother would want. I'm sending my best wishes.
So sorry for this great loss. Praying for her sons and family!
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
Aww those poor boys. My heart goes out to them after losing their mom.
She never looked happier than when she was with her boys. My heart goes out to them.
So why was she so wreckless?
@@robbieogle8622 She likely couldn't fight her "demons" anymore, she lost her way in life. It happens. May she now rest in peace. Anyone can have fame and fortune but life isn't a bed of roses. So sad she died the way she did :(. We'll never know why she decided to do what she did. To me it looked like she deliberately drove very fast as it doesn't look like she applied the brakes before her crash so maybe suicide?
My husband was born the same year as Anne and I looked at him today and thought what an unimaginable loss it would be if I lost him. I am so painfully sorry that Anne’s family lost their mum like this. My kids still rely on their dad just as I’m sure Anne’s kids relied on her (and yes they are our kids no matter what the age. I lost my eldest son to a very early death due to trying to suppress his inner demons with drugs and alcohol, he eventually took his own life in 2018.
I am not saying this to take anything away from Anne’s death and her family but I want her family to know I understand their loss exponentially, and know the grief and road back to finding some peace is a rocky one with lots of pot holes on the way. I extend to all her loved ones my deepest and sincerest sympathy for their tremendous loss and want them to know I am sending my love and prayers their way. You will want to be brave and strong but don’t see it as a weakness to ask for help and support, I know without this I would have found the grieving process so much harder.
Bless you all, you are in my prayers, and rip Anne you were a strong, independent, wonderful woman and will be missed by many, many, people. With love and prayers to your family Anne, I’m sure a star shines brighter in heaven for you.
If her sons or family read my comment, may she rest easy, everyone has problems and I’m sorry for other peoples comments. I really enjoyed her films and I wish she could’ve received help. I’m sorry for your loss.
What an amazing son. He did just beautifully sharing his pain and having to make what I'm know are incredibly painful decisions.
Our family lost our 2.5 month old granddaughter and donating her organs ended up being a light in the darkness. Blessings to Anne and her family and friends.
RIP Anne Heche 💗
To the sons, May she rest in heavenly peace, stay strong and keep her memory in your heart
Such a great actress, but so tormented. I hope her children are well taken care of. R.I.P Anne!
It is so good to see so many compassionate messages on here for the family. For the past several days I have seen people say such horrible things about her, and being so judgemental look, we all know she had issues, and yes, it's her own fault, this happened I'm only saying this because that's all people have been saying except, of course, they have been very rude and disrespectful about it and not thinking about her children at all, but this is their mother, and the least people can do is be supportive and not continue putting someone down who has legally been dead this whole time, but yet that's what people have been doing. People have lost their compassion and their sympathy, instead, they want to keep breaking someone down even when they're dead, and they tend to forget that this person has a family, and they think it's ok to come on 2 comments and say, absolutely horrible things because they think they have a right to, but if this happened to their family they would be highly pissed off, and they forget that. So the next time you put a comment up, think about if it happened to you, wouldn't you want people to support your kids and not say the most outlandish and disgusting things, and being so judgemental? Yes, what she did was wrong, and thankfully, no one else was hurt, but she wasn't perfect, she messed up, and unfortunately it caused her death. But that doesn't matter, what matters is supporting her kids and not saying, awful things about her, just have a heart that's all I'm asking for, and that's all the family is asking for I think these young men are incredibly strong, and I know that their mom is so proud of them. I'm so sorry, you lost your mom, I know the pain you're going through. Bless yalls heart so much, and people actually do care and overlook the people who only want to drag your mother's name in the mud. They're not worth your time or energy, I really am sorry, and I truly hope she's found some peace God bless y'all.
First my heart goes out to her boys. I am so sorry for your loss. These boys are so young especially her youngest boy. These boys still needed their Mom and she died in such a traumatic way.
I think what people are forgetting is that this woman was fighting demons. I’ve been sexually abused when I was 7yrs old. No I don’t use drugs or alcohol. But I definitely use food as my drug. I am hurting myself only. Trauma like that is absolutely difficult to deal with. My childhood was robbed from me. Anne was abused by her own father. My abuser was my neighbor. Its hard enough but I can’t even begin to imagine if it was my own father. The parent that’s supposed to protect you. Let’s also remember she had a disease: drugs and alcohol abuse is a disease. Yes thank God she didn’t kill or hurt anyone else but remember Anne ultimately paid the highest price for what she did she paid with her life. Have any of you that are saying terrible things not made mistakes? Have you been forgiven? Ok maybe not as bad as she did. Regardless she was a HUMAN BEING I mean she lost her life have we become SO heartless that we can’t have just a bit of compassion for someone who has died?!
Treat others as you would want to be treated. No matter what you think there are still young boys who have lost their Mom. Try to remember that. Again no matter what she did pay the ultimate with her life. I heard they still have her on life support because they are trying to see if she’s a match for organ donation. That’s some she wanted and her family agreed. At least her final act will help people. That has account for something.
I pray for her and her family and I pray for my fellow humans that when we are at our worst we can forgive each other.
Please just be kind. 🙏🏼💔
I feel so sorry for her two boys. They're so young. My heart goes out to them.💕
I'm so sorry for the pain her sons are going through. She was loved by many.
Not really
For her beautiful baby boys your mom will always be with you I'm so saddened for your loss. I lost my mom 16 years ago and she was only 63 and she sends me yellow butterflies even at the strangest times of the year when they clearly should not be here but I know that's my mom's way of letting me know that she's here with me and always will be. God bless you both and keep you in his care and may your hearts be filled with joy.
What an amazing brave and strong son.... His words are absolutely beautiful.
I lost my father suddenly at the age of 20. It was beyond difficult! He was brain dead and I had to make medical choices for him. I’m so sorry , Homer, that you have such a burden at such a young age. However, living in eternal freedom is such an incredible gift along with being able to donate organs and tissue. I’m sure your mother will bless another life with her gift of donation. My father was able to donate his liver, parts of his eyes, and several other tissues. It was wonderful to know a mother of three in her 30s was able to continue to live because of my father’s liver. Your mother was a blessing in many other ways too in spite of her struggles. She is free🙏❤️
I am so very sorry this has happened. This woman endured many things..
and still believed in love
I feel bad for the people whose home and belongings she destroyed. She was on drugs. A totally preventable tragedy.
She been through a lot in her life. You can just hear it in her voice. RIP.
@@tinkletink1403 For What??
Well, so is the family who's whole home is destroyed now - and nobody even seems to care about those victims...
@@syroleelane2794 you don’t always have to pick sides. You can have compassion for both. Just cause someone has compassion for someone doesn’t mean they don’t have compassion for the victim. That’s the issue with this world. Always picking sides and not having compassion for everyone.
@@mastervz4806 It's not "picking sides" when everybody just talks about the Hollywood star's fate but not even has one word to offer about the consequences for the ones who's house was completely damaged? That's your way of showing "compassion for everyone" - by ignoring one side completely? Wow, that's rich... - I was not picking sides (like you obviously did) cause I never said you should not pay respect to Heche. I just said don't forget/ ignore the other side.
@@syroleelane2794 wow you’re so defensive… geez.
I'm glad she didn't kill anyone during her suicide.
So sorry for Anne’s boys. It’s wonderful that there are lots of people who will see to the boys. May God bless her family and friends.
My deepest condolences to all who love her, especially her sons. May their beloved mother Rest In Peace. ✨🙏🏼✨
Always adored her. May peace encompass and surround family and friends.
Homer I know how painful it is for you to lose your mom. I often thought oh, I’ll call my mom and the fear and emptiness when a second later I was with the pain of her not being there to call ever. I just tried to make sense of a situation that was unsolvable.
So I put one foot in front of the other and did the best I could and cried a lot.
Your mom would want you to know she is ok now and loves you and your brother.
You were brave in the face if your loss to honor her like you did. You learned well from her. Let people love and help you in your minutes and hours to come.
“Just as a bird flies free from its cage, your mom flew home to God.” Bless you and your brother
I felt very touched by your post. I too lost my Mom. She died when I was in my 20s, and that was 21 years ago. I can’t tell you how many years it took me to no longer have that immediate almost instinctual reaction of “I need to call my Mom”. I still long for her, I just don’t have the phone call thing happen anymore. It’s almost sadder as time passes because I have a hard time remembering her voice and her smell. Things I never thought I’d loose. Life goes on - you get jobs, fall in love, marry, divorce, have kids, etc - but for me, it’s always tinged with sadness and loneliness. For me, it’s just inescapable.
Soph, your words are beautiful and comforting. I hope you’ll consider sending a condolence card to her sons with this message. I know they will appreciate it. I was a little older, in my 20s, when I lost my mom suddenly. I was comforted by cards I received from strangers (to me) who were church friends of my mom. It helped tremendously to hear an anecdote that gave a different piece of my mom’s life I wasn’t a part of, living in a different state.
Just something I hope you’ll consider. Peace. 🙏🏻
Thank you for taking the time to reassure these two young boys about their mother. Life is so precious and at this age they need all the reassurance and comforting especially losing their mother as such a young age that they can. Helping them with words and knowledge of losing a mother will help them understand so much more. Thank you again for taking the time to write to them
One of my favorite actresses! For some reason I’m taking this one hard! She was a beautiful person! RIP Anne Heche- May your sons continue your memory- ❤️❤️❤️
How heart wrenching. Anne was a phenomenal actress & seemed like a warm, caring mother. She was a pioneer for the LGBTQ community whether people want to acknowledge it or not. Hope the family, especially her boys, find solace
Shocking. Sad. Sorry for the kids. She was loved, so, in the end that's the best thing anyone can say about anybody -- that they're well loved & will never be forgotten.
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
@@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 get out of here...your not needed or your comment
@@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 agree 💯. Clear minds were absent from these catastrophic decisions why not just crash into a tree or a brick wall 🤷🏼♀️
I didn't love her. She was a human trainwreck
@@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 That's a different conversation tho. I wasn't talking about the homeowner there. Yes, it sure looks like Ann Heche was speeding in the videos they found. Was the house at the end of a street, at a T intersection maybe? Or what?? Was Ann H. just drunk & speeding? Was there some kind of emergency?? Or was she driving drunk & suicidal maybe? On meds, and/or suicidal, as well as speeding?? Or she was perhaps going too fast to turn, if she had to turn there? Brakes fail too?? Just somehow totally lost control of the vehicle, for whatever reason?? Sun got in her eyes?? I wonder if we'll ever really know what happened there, what the issue was, or what was going on in A.H.'s head at the time of the crash. I also really wonder why she didn't get out of the vehicle. Was she trapped in it somehow & couldn't get out?? Was she pinned down by anything?? She lost oxygen for too long to be anything less than brain dead -- but why?? Was she knocked unconcious, and did the fire just suck all the oyxgen then out of the vehicle?? The firefighters would likely know that, or at least if she was pinned down in the vehicle; their report would be interesting. Her medical report, re. her arrival condition at hosp., re drugs or alcohol in her system, etc etc might be very interesting to know too, & if she had a concussion etc. So.....not nice for the homeowner, at all, but at least they survived, where they could have been killed, really. And they likely at least had insurance -- I should imagine their mortgage co. would hv required such insurance to be in place. So, it could hv been much worse. I also hope there were no animals harmed, or any that failed to get out of the house!! I am sure the homeowners will sue Ann Heche's estate tho, for everything they can think of that might fly, if they can prove the reason for the crash was speeding or drinking while driving, or both, both being against the law. Hopefully they won't have any problem making a claim meanwhile with their own insce. co. Any proceeds from the estate re damages from the crash may be required by law to be paid back to the insce. co., I don't know -- in that you can't get paid twice over (or at least sue in 2 different courts at the same time) for the same claims or damages, I don't believe, & that could depend upon where you live (?). It's going to take a long time to finally be overwith tho, whatever. The homeowner needs to be saving all receipts & proof re crash-related expenses -- photos are good too.
I send my deepest condolences to her sons, their fathers and Heather, her dear friend. Your loss is immense. I send condolences to Ellen as well. What was not worked through in this life Ellen, will be in the next. Forgiveness is kindness, it is an important part of love .
I miss her so very much and we never even met.
I love you Anne Heche. Enjoy the afterlife! I look forward to meeting you after I cross over. 🌹
I love her as and actress but that was very selfish of her she knew she has son out here why do something like that smh rip
@Dark Titan Great point. I only remembered their relationship when reading your post.
@Dark Titan Ellen took her from him, lol. Anne was a full grown adult, made her own decisions. SMH
@Dark Titan lol weirdo
@@NorthPhilly-zr7xc no one knows what was going on in Anne's mind when this terrible accident occured. she may have known what she was doing?she may have been drugged unknowingly? she may have had a mental breakdown over something wedont know about? please dont be so quick to judge her, she was a kind and gentle woman and a marvelous actress and should be remembered as such in my opinion
Eternal freedom. What wise words from a 20 year old. RIP Anne💫
considering they had all seen her alive and fighting off her abductors this eulogising is truly truly sick....i hope all you people face the consequences of your actions ...soon
Condolances to Anne's sons & family. So heartbreaking!
My condolences and prayers go out to her two sons. It has to be devastating for them.
My condolences 🙏 to the family. Such a difficult time. Prayers for allof you:(
It's been devastating for the woman who was nearly killed and her emotional and mental stability and trauma after this financially it's probably destroyed the homeowner thanks Anne heche rest in peace
@ronza 3 schaam je
@Boston Gal she was an occupant...so the homeowner as well as the occupant now have to endure the financial mental and emotional trauma of a selfish addicted drunk ... That makes it better?
@@missmarymary6506 it doesn’t make it any less traumatizing and sad for her children, JFC what is wrong with people like you saying this
Dear Homer and Atlas, It is quite obvious how much your mom loved you both and was so proud of you!My sincere condolences for your loss. Your mom is free with no pain. Be strong and one day you will be reunited with her. Until then, make her proud and find and fulfill God’s purpose for your lives! God bless you both and keep you!
Anne has always been one of my favorite actresses! My heart breaks for her sons the light that Anne carried was so bright she stood up for the many causes she believed in she never followed the sheep she had her own way of thinking and that’s what I loved about her! She done so much good in her life - I Will remember her smile and her positive outlook!
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I hope people respect her children. People raise their own self esteem by bashing people in every news story. Their nastiness won't hurt her, but it will devastate her grieving sons and good people don't do that. I wish them peace and strength during their horrible loss.
I cant imagine making those decisions at such a young age. I feel for her boys so sorry for what you all have to go through, stay strong and take the time you need to grieve it will come and go, my prayers are with all of you family and friends, RIP Anne 🙏❤
I’m so sad these boys lost their Mom. May peace and love surround them and all who loved Anne, and may she Rest In Peace.
I love her as and actress but that was very selfish she has son's out here why do that
@@NorthPhilly-zr7xc Please try not to judge her harshly. She must have been in a very bad place mentally/emotionally to have done that.
@@Gemmarose9012 I know I'm just saying she should've got herself some mental health
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
@@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 The homeowner AND Anne’s loved ones need prayers and support. You seem to believe her family should suffer for her actions which is utterly ridiculous.
I'm very sorry for her kids. They lost their mom.
She was too busy speeding to care
@@jacwindsor5552 She was a terrible person and I almost find it funny how people are pretending to give a shit and acting like it’s such a “great loss” when NOT A ONE OF THEM would have said this shit before she died!!! 😡
My heart hurts for her boys. They are in my prayers.
Hello 👋 how are you doing?
What's crazy is when she was being loaded into the ambulance, she was sitting up, and a short while later, she was brain dead.
Rest in peace Anne. I just cannot believe it took the fire fighters so long to get her out. The image of her popping up on the stretcher before being put in the ambulance is haunting of the pain she must have been in. May she now be in a happier place. My heart breaks for her sons.
So she did pop up -I thought I saw her rise up.
I’m shocked.
@@123marlanamars I believe a wrongful death lawsuit will be filed against the fire department as they fought to contain and control the fire, but didn't try to rescue Anne sooner. If they did, she might be with us here today. Whatever her demons and mistakes, she was one hell of an actress. Her six completed projects that are in post production will be a memorial and testament to her talent.
Hollywood pervert mafia get another decent human who knew too much .
@@kscptv Explain to me why she was completely covered up? She wakes up pulls the sheet off and they didn't stop right there to administer some form of treatment. She was forced back onto the gurney. Who was she running from? She could have driven her car off a cliff in LA. Why smash into a house?
Boys I know it hurts like hell right now, but momma is in a much better place and not hurting inside anymore. I promise you both you will see her again. May you Rest In Peace Anne. We will look out for the boys from here on out.
I'm so sorry to her son. Bless you for your donation. 💜💛
I cried when I heard that she had died. She was another tortured soul who tried to fit in what we call a normal society. May she now be at peace with Our Lord….no more pain Anne. Just a fan who loved her. 🙏😢❤️
I know little about her but from what I've learned of her childhood, she came from an intensely traumatic past. This is tragic. I'm betting she was taking psychiatric drugs, or some sort of substance. She may have been panicked. In that state of mind, she may have simply been reacting like a trapped animal as she crashed into that house. Her kids are adorable! 😭 I highly doubt she ever intended for this to happen. I hope she is finally free of whatever was troubling her.
@@Starry_Night_Sky7455
Amen Bonnie…..I know that she was on cocaine and had been drinking vodka and wine and most likely was on prescription meds also. Thank you for your compassion…there are many out there whom wish to judge her and think the worst of her. I am a 69 year old woman who has suffered from anxiety almost my entire life…..I also lived in a house of hitting and verbal abuse. I take anxiety meds for 13 years now and I never had a sip of alcohol since. Nothing good would have come from it. Now, if my father had been molesting me my entire young life, I would probably be dead myself. I could not imagine what that does to a child’s mind….her own father…what kind of animal was he! May she Rest In Peace.
I cried Bo who
pain free & eternal freedom.. beautiful words from her son 🙏
rip🌹~ anne heche
How could she have been brain dead when a man claims he spoke to her after the crash and there's video of her flailing on the gurney right before she was put in the ambulance. Something's not right here.
So sad, her poor children, may they find much support and love in their time of grief. Their mother was beautiful and lived through a childhood that came with heavy scars and challenges to survive and thrived and overcame a lot despite that.
I would have loved her just by seeing her, that face looks like an angel, may you rest in peace.
Condolences to Homer and Atlas, along with family and friends 🙏.
Rest In Peace Anne...
May you find true happiness and eternal love on the other side.
Anne Heche. You are free of pain an now looking up for your children every minute god as good cause he has you next to him with your beautiful smile we will be very miss RIP
So young, forever young. RIP Anne, you were a special kind of light in this world, I pray that you’ve been reunited with your brother and have found peace, although I can’t imagine that you would have chosen for it to be like this, may you continue to be a guiding light for Homer and Atlas, and my deepest condolences to all who knew and loved her.
So heartbreaking 💔
Prayers for her sons🙏family and friends during this difficult time 🙏
Most creative people have so much going on in their mind and the world thinks its beautiful until it's not. Anne was an amazing actress and I hope everyone involved in this tragedy can recover and Anne can rest. 💖
As a creative, empathetic, business owner in the world, I have to say it is hard. You try so hard to please others because it's what gives you joy, but people can be so mean. They pressure you. They want so much from you and take advantage. When you finally say no more, they freak out on you for not being able to be human and have personal time or just simply can't do the impossible for them. A creative mind is in the clouds all day wanting a better world. We are so grateful for grateful people and that's why we keep doing it but it wears on you. This world is unlimited but societal laws and unwritten rules are limiting. A creative mind feels claustrophobic.
Addiction on many cases is a biproduct of self medicating due to mental illness. We need to get to the source of the issues so tragedies like this can be minimized. Getting off of drugs for some is just a bandaid not a resolution to the cause of it.
I had to make the same decision with my 19 yr old son. It was the most horrible time of my life. My heart goes out to her family. Sending love 💙
I’m so sorry you lost your son. My deepest condolences.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
You made a great Decision I believe you help somebody else live rest in peace to your son my heart goes out to you as well
Dearest Mom, I am so saddened that your son passed on too soon. I am so pleased you had him and his love for the time you did. It will live on in you forever. Someday I believe we will see.our loved ones gain. I so sorry. He was much too young to go. A Mother of two boys. 💕😘🌹
A Colorado Mountain Grandma, USA 💜
Deepest condolences for your loss.
Precious son. My mom also was killed in car accident and a fire afterwards 90% . She was 54. I'm so sorry. God bless and help you and your brother.
This is so tragic! May God watch over her 2 young sons! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
To her son's..I pray for you both to have courage..strength and perseverance but most of all hope...never let hope die..your mother will live on forever in every memory and story you share for the rest of your lives..she will never be far..she will always be in your heart
Her son seems like a mature young man. It's good that he's been able to get there despite her struggles with her mental health.
I think he knew she was hurting and she had battles to fight those were words went beyond the physical pain she was in. That’s what just broke my heart poor kids.
Probably, someone’s got to be the parent. A drug addicts children have to be the adult often times.
And maybe him seeing his mother do weird things drinking or drugs, made him more mature mentally. But he knew her better than any of us. I still say she didn’t do this intentionally. She took the drugs intentionally but somehow she had a bad reaction.
@@HeadNtheClouds very true
@@linnylu1052 I heard that one of those drugs was Fentanyl, the same drug responsible for Prince's death. Why it that still being marketed?
My love goes out to her sons. It’s unbelievably difficult losing a parent. Hope they find some solace
Speaking as someone who has lost a parent (my dad died in May last year after suffering a heart attack), you never get over the loss, nor does it get easier. There's an empty space that can never be filled. It's been one day at a time since Dad died. I have moments when I think I see him, but when I get closer I see it's someone else.
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
My heart goes to the two sons Anne left behind. Being 20 is still young.. Praying for your strength Homer and Atlas... 😔
Her brother died the same way. She also had 2 sisters die, and an abusive father that died of AIDS. Sad life.
Sending love and prayers your way, Homer and Atlas... I am so sorry for your loss. Your Mom will be in a better place, many people will be able to live on because of her generous sweet soul, and her love will always be with you.
She wasn’t dead when she was put in the Ambulance!
Omg I can’t imagine 😭 my deepest condolences to her family!
I literally clicked on this video right after watching your hair transformation video then saw your comment ❤️ Love you Jess! Thanks for being such an inspiration
Just know her heart was still beating for you boys and giving you the strength to move forward. Bless the family as she is in God's hands now.
Crashes car sparks an explosion.. unreal, she was alive until she was out into the ambulance
Her brakes were screeching as her car was flying down the street. The way first responders acted was odd. Putting the blanket covering her completely is if they’re dead. She obviously wasn’t dead when she fought through the restraint and tried to get out. Also, why was no first aid being administered or a neck brace or anything? Just rushed into a ambulance and no burns visible on her hair. Her shirt was intact and not burned. Something is not right and I think she was definitely murdered.
My deepest sympathies to all her family and especially her sons.
Her son looks just like her! What a tragic ending for this beautiful talented actress! My Sincere Condolences to her sons, family, and close friends! 🙏🏽 😢
The saddest part is the children left behind and the woman who lost her home and personal belongings. I don't know her story or what she was thinking before the events unfolded but I wish only peace and inner strength for her victim, her children and for her soul. RIP
She was a tenant. Her and the home owner suffered massive losses
@@winniethepoohandeeyore2 yes they did
OMG I just can't believe the horrific devastation her sons have been feeling. I am deeply sorry that Anne Heche has not recovered. I just can't imagine the heartbreak. Well, actually I can. My positive thoughts go out to you to find the comfort & kindness around you. ✨️ No one can tell you how you feel. For each one of us has our own pain that is ours to own. Please find a little comfort knowing that she is no longer in pain & will be watching over her sons until they meet again. Rest In Peace Anne 🌌
Eternal peace for a lady who seemed to be fighting demons for a long time. PLEASE PEOPLE GIVE THIS FAMILY THEIR PRIVACY AND SEND UP PRAYERS. 🙏🙏☝️
Your mom did her very best to make her sons proud of her. She loved you dearly and is now watching over you. Unfortunately she couldn’t beat her codependency. Please don’t blame her ,blame her traumatic childhood. Sending you & your brother all the love & prayers you need now to grieve her passing. May her sweet soul RIP.
Nah, I'm blaming her. She chose to d r u g up, speed, crash, was told to get out of the car after the first crash (that man was being a guardian angel of sorts & was given a chance to stop her rampage) but she chose to speed away where she crashed into a home.
I'm glad that she was the only one physically hurt because she was ready to risk the lives of those driving or walking in the neighborhood she was speeding in. She was also going to take the lives of the woman and her dogs in the house she crashed into.
Many people have traumatic childhoods, suffer from addiction, etc yet don't lump them with this woman who chose to endanger her and the lives of people and animals. Most don't do this.
She had every chance in the world and had the best doctors and the means to get help. Something most of us don't have the privilege of enjoying. She chose this. She chose to try to take others lives with her too, but I'm glad she wasn't successful with that.
@@alexialira3839 you're toxic
@@alexialira3839 This may be all true and I agree wholeheartedly with you on most of what you say but please remember there's 2 precious boys that need to start comprehending there reality and start somehow, picking up the pieces .
Just saying, it's probably not what they want to be hearing or reading at this very minute
Maybe further on down the track once they've had time to digest things and see the big picture It just may help them in some way to see & hear yours and others opinions that are similar.
mona2242 I agree with everything you're saying. However this is not the time to say or write judgemental things about her. The woman just died for christ sake! Please show some respect.
Oh I'm sorry, that message was meant for @Alexia Lira
He looks so much like his mother. My heart is with him. 😢💔
My heart goes out to her sons cause I just lost my mother last December and it has been the hardest thing I HAVE EVER HAD TO GO THROUGH, so I know how and what they are going through!! 💔💔
My heart breaks for her sons. I cannot imagine being so young w that weight on my shoulders. I was honestly happy for her & Ellen. She seemed so happy then. As the wife of an organ recipient, I applaud her & her family for donating her organs. Thats so selfless to do that for someone else when you're going thru such a tragedy. Praying for peace for her & comfort & strength for her family, friends & fans🙏💔
Hopefully her family knew of the decision to donate. Not an easy subject to bring up, but one that families do need to discuss.
What she did was wrong. She was speeding under the influence and consequentially crashed into another person’s home with all of their personal belongings lost in the fire. What y’all need to do is pray and keep the homeowner in your thoughts and prayers because she’s the one that’s suffering and needs the most support out of anyone else, what Anne did was careless and dumb. I don’t care how ruthless I sound.
So sad. Prayers to her sons. Now She is no longer suffering. What a heart warming clip of her and her son.