GAVE SECOND CHANCES,AFTER THE HONEYMOON STATE IS OVER BEHAVIOR AND ABUSE GOT WORSE,IF YOU LEAVE KEEP IT MOVING YOU LEFT FOR A REASON,SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE
👸why would u give a 2nd chance to someone that intentionally hurt u👹? which is evil. they don't like u. he's a snake 🐍abusin, using & makin a fool of u. next time will be worse until u learn to stop taking losers back.
True, because it'll only repeat itself. My husband offered to buy me a house if I came back, and I told him no. That when he had me, he didn't want me, so why go back? I told him that I can get my own house without him, and I did
Recommend watching it all but for me 3 questions to ask yourself before going back together were really eye-opening 14:10: 1. Did this person recognize my value? (Think about the things they did to you: when they ignored, disrespected etc) 2. Did I experience more love or more pain? 3. Can I see myself marrying that person if they stay EXACTLY the same? Honestly everything you say is exactly what I need to hear, thank you Kirk, you help so much🙏
I just detached from a soul mate of 9 years who didn't value me and I been just letting the spirit do its thing. It's definitely hard my mind been playing tricks on me I blocked him on everything and I just want to move forward with my life. 😮💨🙏🏽 Wheww may god be with me cause we left and came back to many times. I need this to be it I'm gone for life. No contact 🙏🏽🙏🏽
You ain't lying. Trouble is I'm co-parenting with a narcissist. Got the divorce and he still wants me and I don't want a relationship with him. So how am am I supposed to deal with this? Already have a divorce and a clause in the divorce that he's not allowed at my residence. We have a 16 year old in common and she's afraid to talk to her father so I end up having to do it. We were together for 20+ years... I pray for understanding and a non-toxic way to handle this 💜💕🦋🔥👑🔥🦋💕💜
I listened to your videos and had the courage to break up with my boyfriend/twins' father today. It was hard because I wanted a family but it was necessary and I'll be better off for it. I'm thankful that I came across this channel.
Be encouraged. You got this ! I know it's not easy, but every week gets better. I'm not with the father of my child either, and it was a painful process, but I know that I'm better off without him. You made the first step to freeing yourself. You're a strong individual ! Hang in there. 🙏
I am no longer in a relationship with my child's father either. This really does pull at my ego but I know that I have to be strong because my baby needs a healthy mommy so I have to focus on me.
I went back for the third time, was beautiful in the beginning but as time went on, he became cold, he didn't value me, yes I began to have more pain, I realize I need to take back my power, I will leave him quietly and peacefully ❤
You definitely go into "panic mode" when you enter that unfamiliar place. But it is something we do have to accept in order to have the strength not go back especially when you already know the pain
I soo needed to hear this video. This dude spirit will not let me go. Its been 7 months, My next step is to do a spiritual ritual of core cutting the next fullmoon. Because I'm tired of him popping up in my dreams or seeing each other in the neighborhood 🤦🏾♀️ My next step is to move out of this damn state. Clean plate
By Believing with all you’re heart that Jesus Christ died to save sinners like us, ask God to forgive you for sinning and asking Him to come in you’re heart ♥️ to make you new and ask The Holy Spirit to cover you with the Blood of Jesus.
I left and stayed left. I ruminated for a couple of weeks grieved and then now I am moving on to build self love and become a better stronger version of myself. I feel good 😊 I don’t need a relationship to fill my worth especially if I’m not made to feel worthy or valued x
Not lost. We haven't decided who the new person will be because we refuse to process the latest available information about ourselves. As you said, when operating out of (negative) ego, we tend to be lazy about change. Until we switch that raggedy, hateful internal loop off, we will choose hurt wanting to return to who we used to be, but no longer can.
We be knowing. We don’t want to accept. I finally accepted he doesn’t want me but that doesn’t make me unworthy to be with someone who does. Literally 1 month since i declared to him he didn’t deserve me….i believe God knew I was prepared to stand on my own this time and he sent someone that is showing me why nothing else worked! ❤
I just told self that ,You don't and won't or Disrespect someone you love. Love is alot of things its breakable like glass hard to put back together because love is fragile. You can heal and be forgave but the bond isn't the same 😊
It's okay to miss someone but knowing and understanding why you can't be with that person is important. Love is an action word. It's patient, kind, peaceful, faithful, etc. If they are not trying to change, leave them alone and love them from far, far away ✌🏾
your so on point…I have so much peace now and because the relationship went on 15 years that now I feel like have totally different life as if I’m living someone else’s life🙄😂 I use ask my “what am I doing? who am I?” Inshallah I’m not going backwards anymore 🌹
I vibrate positive energy towards you, as a man you are the epitome of emotional spiritual intelligence. You the type of person I'd have as a life time friend. I hope to be as wise as you, cz u are teaching !!❤
This is so true and I'm currently experiencing this with the relationship with my soon-to-be ex-husband and the relationship with marijuana that I just gave up after 25 years. S/N: Smudging invites the very thing you are trying to rid, no⁉️🤔
Thanks for explaining now I fully understand about the emotional love memory......advancing by letting go will free the spirit of hurt and get the Inna strength from the universe positive energy to heal for self-love ......thanks coach......
Thank you so much Kirk :) this video has helped me so much and put into words what I knew to be true and affirmed my spirits decision to not go back! Thank you!
Great advice I needed so bad I went back and forth for 17 years , 2024 I confirm this message I’m not going back, thanks my brother u like the big brother I never had
I don’t mix with low vibrational toxic people either. It’s just impossible. I vibrate entirely too too hot and I hope you have a blessed Sunday. I’m off to work.
Dang brother thank you thank you thank you. I was wondering why I was feeling so off-center over a recent just meeting someone and it didn’t go well. My ego came in and had attitude about what you don’t wanna have a decent conversation with me a decent person. Anyhow, thank you because your videos along with a couple other relational videos I’ve watched really, speak to the spirit and the energy of spirit plural because we don’t wrestle against flesh and blood… eh! Thank you! Is the Lord God bless your channel and you continue to prosper in peace and desires of your heart according to the Lord Jesus
Thank you. I really needed to hear this. I would be fine then all of a sudden they would pop into my head and I would want to reach out. Even though I have blocked and moved on from them. I would start second guessing myself. You explained it so perfectly and I now know that what I was doing was right and keep pushing forward. Much love and peace to you ❤😊
❤ thank you!!! To you an your channel, I'm learning from you, an because of you I won't make the same mistakes. My eyes are open, the sleeper has awaken😊
Wow! Thanking and praising God for this word at such a time as this. Thank you Servant of God for your obedience. I hear Gods voice concerning my situation.❤
I like the way you describe different situations I can really understand. I have been going back and forth about a situation. I didn't think that I was strong enough but it's all in your mind and how you discipline yourself. I wish you were doing these videos 20 yrs ago😂😂I could have saved myself from a lot of emotional experiences. Thanks
WHEWWW this video is valuable. Great insight for sure and perspective. Oh my add if that person has changed and showed you with actions you can definitely consider goin back but never let someone block you from a potential partner.
Great video w/sound advice. Thanks for making this subject make sense. Helped me process why I would go back and what to consider in the future of Im ever faced with someone wanting return or vise versa
Yes, I would like to hear what you have to say about someone knowing... your worth. I've been enlightened (better understanding) by other videos you have shared. Thanks!
Hello Kirk. I’m so happy I found your videos. Do you have a Caribbean background? So my ex and I have been broken up almost 2 years, after I found out my boy was out there doing the most, and I have maintained no contact until recently. I have been feeling a pull, a need to contact him and I couldn’t understand it. I think it’s as you said, it’s my last stage of the grieving process and I don’t want to accept that this is it, the end. I feel that magnetic pull, and as you said what you resist will persist. I think it’s exactly what I’m going through. I feel guilty that I still love him, but one of your videos said it’s ok to keep the love but it doesn’t mean I have to act upon every feeling I get…I did contact him and he is remorseful regretful. I feel like he is genuine but how do I know for sure. I think about it f we could try again but the betrayal was so deep. Have you seen any couple get back together successfully after time apart and after tremendous betrayal. I feel foolish even considering it but a part of me still wants to be with him, and maybe that’s the ego. Again thank you for teaching.
"Know your worth" video please you are talking about my life. Its not a mistake i stumbled upon your video's. They are giving me healing, I'm busy dealing.. i dont want anyone eating the fruits of my labour
I needed it , this video is a wake up call, he texted me on New Year’s Day, n they use days like ur bday to get bk into ur life , n I ignored his messages, this man has hurt me so much n I’m tired ,
GAVE SECOND CHANCES,AFTER THE HONEYMOON STATE IS OVER BEHAVIOR AND ABUSE GOT WORSE,IF YOU LEAVE KEEP IT MOVING YOU LEFT FOR A REASON,SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE
Yesss
It keep getting worse for sure
Thank u, i needed to hear this
Thank you
👸why would u give a 2nd chance to someone that intentionally hurt u👹? which is evil. they don't like u. he's a snake 🐍abusin, using & makin a fool of u. next time will be worse until u learn to stop taking losers back.
Amen
Well said 👏
If brutal honesty was a person. Ty sir for your insight. ❤❤❤
Our feelings can lie to us. Don’t go by feeling
Yeasss
Do not emotionally attach yourself.
True, because it'll only repeat itself.
My husband offered to buy me a house if I came back, and I told him no. That when he had me, he didn't want me, so why go back? I told him that I can get my own house without him, and I did
Detangle and know your worth!
Lesson Learned NO 2ND CHANCES. I am now ONE AND DONE.
Recommend watching it all but for me 3 questions to ask yourself before going back together were really eye-opening 14:10:
1. Did this person recognize my value?
(Think about the things they did to you: when they ignored, disrespected etc)
2. Did I experience more love or more pain?
3. Can I see myself marrying that person if they stay EXACTLY the same?
Honestly everything you say is exactly what I need to hear, thank you Kirk, you help so much🙏
Profound 🧐 “we can’t be free because we carry so many connections with other people “ facts 💯🎯. Thank you for the reminder and confirmation ☝🏾
❤️❤️
You gained a follower.. I appreciate your teaching women what the men in our families should have
I just detached from a soul mate of 9 years who didn't value me and I been just letting the spirit do its thing. It's definitely hard my mind been playing tricks on me I blocked him on everything and I just want to move forward with my life. 😮💨🙏🏽 Wheww may god be with me cause we left and came back to many times. I need this to be it I'm gone for life. No contact 🙏🏽🙏🏽
You ain't lying. Trouble is I'm co-parenting with a narcissist. Got the divorce and he still wants me and I don't want a relationship with him. So how am am I supposed to deal with this? Already have a divorce and a clause in the divorce that he's not allowed at my residence. We have a 16 year old in common and she's afraid to talk to her father so I end up having to do it.
We were together for 20+ years...
I pray for understanding and a non-toxic way to handle this
💜💕🦋🔥👑🔥🦋💕💜
18:00 detanglement process: let the body and spirit detangle from the person. The body keeps score.
I’ve always been afraid to take someone back 😢
I listened to your videos and had the courage to break up with my boyfriend/twins' father today. It was hard because I wanted a family but it was necessary and I'll be better off for it. I'm thankful that I came across this channel.
Be encouraged. You got this ! I know it's not easy, but every week gets better. I'm not with the father of my child either, and it was a painful process, but I know that I'm better off without him. You made the first step to freeing yourself. You're a strong individual ! Hang in there. 🙏
@@feliciarigby7776 thank you
I am no longer in a relationship with my child's father either. This really does pull at my ego but I know that I have to be strong because my baby needs a healthy mommy so I have to focus on me.
18:06 😂the process of detaching/loosening/separating/unwoven/unknotting…
I went back for the third time, was beautiful in the beginning but as time went on, he became cold, he didn't value me, yes I began to have more pain, I realize I need to take back my power, I will leave him quietly and peacefully ❤
Well then my ego needs to cut it out so we can move on with our live because it's driving me crazy
A lot times they use you as a doormat because they know that you'll keep taking them back
I'm not lost, just in a new place
I’m not going back. I’m doing much better w/o his co-dependent, stagnant energy. His loss and my gain🙏🏽
You definitely go into "panic mode" when you enter that unfamiliar place. But it is something we do have to accept in order to have the strength not go back especially when you already know the pain
I soo needed to hear this video. This dude spirit will not let me go. Its been 7 months, My next step is to do a spiritual ritual of core cutting the next fullmoon. Because I'm tired of him popping up in my dreams or seeing each other in the neighborhood 🤦🏾♀️ My next step is to move out of this damn state. Clean plate
All you need is Jesus the blood of Jesus covers/ breaks every chain. ✌🏻🩷
How do I do this
By Believing with all you’re heart that Jesus Christ died to save sinners like us, ask God to forgive you for sinning and asking Him to come in you’re heart ♥️ to make you new and ask The Holy Spirit to cover you with the Blood of Jesus.
Love that ego & spirit is different
‼️‼️‼️‼️💯💯💯💯💯 listen that withdrawal period truly hurts but i know the other side will be worth it all
Gaining the fruits of MY LABOR is spot on🥺 God is definitely using you to get these messages out, I thank you brother🤞🏽❤️🙏🏽
I'm Gone Babeee 😂
Wise words letting go is not easy but one of the two needs to recognize give it to God and he will guide you to heal 🙏
I will let the relationship go so I can start the healing process.
Oh my goodness if this is nothing but the truth 🔥 🔥 🔥
I left and stayed left. I ruminated for a couple of weeks grieved and then now I am moving on to build self love and become a better stronger version of myself. I feel good 😊 I don’t need a relationship to fill my worth especially if I’m not made to feel worthy or valued x
Not lost. We haven't decided who the new person will be because we refuse to process the latest available information about ourselves. As you said, when operating out of (negative) ego, we tend to be lazy about change. Until we switch that raggedy, hateful internal loop off, we will choose hurt wanting to return to who we used to be, but no longer can.
We be knowing. We don’t want to accept. I finally accepted he doesn’t want me but that doesn’t make me unworthy to be with someone who does. Literally 1 month since i declared to him he didn’t deserve me….i believe God knew I was prepared to stand on my own this time and he sent someone that is showing me why nothing else worked! ❤
Good on ya, sis 🎉
I just told self that ,You don't and won't or Disrespect someone you love. Love is alot of things its breakable like glass hard to put back together because love is fragile.
You can heal and be forgave but the bond isn't the same 😊
It's okay to miss someone but knowing and understanding why you can't be with that person is important. Love is an action word. It's patient, kind, peaceful, faithful, etc. If they are not trying to change, leave them alone and love them from far, far away ✌🏾
your so on point…I have so much peace now and because the relationship went on 15 years that now I feel like have totally different life as if I’m living someone else’s life🙄😂 I use ask my “what am I doing? who am I?”
Inshallah I’m not going backwards anymore 🌹
This lesson is so deep coach/ teacher......I get it ....thanks for explaining..... Wisdom and blessings ........one love💞
Thank you ❤️❤️
i have watched 1000s of videos. this helped more than all of them. so so good to help with the moving on process. thank you 🙏
Thank you for using the desert as an analogy to where my feelings are. That made all the difference in the world.
I vibrate positive energy towards you, as a man you are the epitome of emotional spiritual intelligence. You the type of person I'd have as a life time friend.
I hope to be as wise as you, cz u are teaching !!❤
Your the wisest man i have listened too sincerely
The word you were looking for at the end I think was detaching 😇 but we understood 😇
This is so true and I'm currently experiencing this with the relationship with my soon-to-be ex-husband and the relationship with marijuana that I just gave up after 25 years. S/N: Smudging invites the very thing you are trying to rid, no⁉️🤔
This is gold!!!! Thank you, very insightful!
Thanks for explaining now I fully understand about the emotional love memory......advancing by letting go will free the spirit of hurt and get the Inna strength from the universe positive energy to heal for self-love ......thanks coach......
This was an ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL GOD SENT YET SO PRACTICAL AND RELATABLE MESSAGE . GOD BLESS YOU
I need to hear a video about a woman's worth. GOD Bless, appreciate you!!!❤❤❤
Please make that video know your worth ❤🎉Thanks so much for your uplifting message.
I watched the whole entire video thank you for this I thought it was just my heart but you explained it and now I understand thank you❤
Glad it helped!🥰❤️
Thank you so much Kirk :) this video has helped me so much and put into words what I knew to be true and affirmed my spirits decision to not go back! Thank you!
Great advice I needed so bad I went back and forth for 17 years , 2024 I confirm this message I’m not going back, thanks my brother u like the big brother I never had
You’re so very welcome ❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾
When u kept calling it “your ego “ all I heard was “your FLESH”
The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak …
This message was so on point and exactly the information that I needed to hear! Thank you for blessing us!
I don’t mix with low vibrational toxic people either. It’s just impossible. I vibrate entirely too too hot and I hope you have a blessed Sunday. I’m off to work.
The word you looking for is "detach..." 😊😊
Thank you Kirk for true wisdom about relationships.
Thank you for explaining the detanglig stage of a breakup 😊 I’m involuntarily obsessing over the relationship right now and it’s very confusing..😬
Dang brother thank you thank you thank you. I was wondering why I was feeling so off-center over a recent just meeting someone and it didn’t go well. My ego came in and had attitude about what you don’t wanna have a decent conversation with me a decent person. Anyhow, thank you because your videos along with a couple other relational videos I’ve watched really, speak to the spirit and the energy of spirit plural because we don’t wrestle against flesh and blood… eh!
Thank you! Is the Lord God bless your channel and you continue to prosper in peace and desires of your heart according to the Lord Jesus
After listening to you , I’m never going back to my situation. Appreciate it & im feeling free , I have my power back !!
You’re very welcome. ❤️🥰
Omg you’ve helped me so much happy new years
Happy new year!!
I kno I was destined to your video and I’m beyond grateful 😢❤
Thank you. I really needed to hear this. I would be fine then all of a sudden they would pop into my head and I would want to reach out. Even though I have blocked and moved on from them. I would start second guessing myself. You explained it so perfectly and I now know that what I was doing was right and keep pushing forward. Much love and peace to you ❤😊
Thank you for freeing my mind now
No more kissy kissy for them as time goes by they'll do the same thing again leave you.
I wish I could like this a million times. Thanks so much Kirk. This video is definitely for me 😢. Exactly what I'm going through now
Thank you!!! This was so helpful! Whenever I think of going back I’m going to rewatch this video!
❤ thank you!!! To you an your channel, I'm learning from you, an because of you I won't make the same mistakes. My eyes are open, the sleeper has awaken😊
Thank you so much
Wow! Thanking and praising God for this word at such a time as this. Thank you Servant of God for your obedience. I hear Gods voice concerning my situation.❤
This is exactly true 💯💯💯
This is call soul ties. You married yourself to them as the Bible said the two has become one. This is why they want to get back. 😮
WRONG
I like the way you describe different situations I can really understand. I have been going back and forth about a situation. I didn't think that I was strong enough but it's all in your mind and how you discipline yourself. I wish you were doing these videos 20 yrs ago😂😂I could have saved myself from a lot of emotional experiences. Thanks
I definitely want to hear your views on self worth
WHEWWW this video is valuable. Great insight for sure and perspective. Oh my add if that person has changed and showed you with actions you can definitely consider goin back but never let someone block you from a potential partner.
My ex treated me better than my current boyfriend. The current one has anger issues, we fight all the time. I don't see him as my future spouse.
Forbidden fruit always taste sweeter 🍓🍍🍒ends up more deadley second time around ..
Thank you
Thank you Man of God
Would like the teaching on 'know your worth'
Great video w/sound advice. Thanks for making this subject make sense. Helped me process why I would go back and what to consider in the future of Im ever faced with someone wanting return or vise versa
Thank you Kirk. This message is very helpful
Yes, I would like to hear what you have to say about someone knowing... your worth. I've been enlightened (better understanding) by other videos you have shared. Thanks!
Yes Sir Please Do A Video On Knowing Your Worth🎉
Yes, please make a knowing your worth video❤
This is so true and spot on!🕯Thank you and Happy New Year!🙏🏻♥️🌟
Great video, yes I think that would be a great topic to discuss (knowing your worth).
Noted!
Rhema word Blessings ❤
Hello Kirk. I’m so happy I found your videos. Do you have a Caribbean background? So my ex and I have been broken up almost 2 years, after I found out my boy was out there doing the most, and I have maintained no contact until recently. I have been feeling a pull, a need to contact him and I couldn’t understand it. I think it’s as you said, it’s my last stage of the grieving process and I don’t want to accept that this is it, the end. I feel that magnetic pull, and as you said what you resist will persist. I think it’s exactly what I’m going through. I feel guilty that I still love him, but one of your videos said it’s ok to keep the love but it doesn’t mean I have to act upon every feeling I get…I did contact him and he is remorseful regretful. I feel like he is genuine but how do I know for sure. I think about it f we could try again but the betrayal was so deep. Have you seen any couple get back together successfully after time apart and after tremendous betrayal. I feel foolish even considering it but a part of me still wants to be with him, and maybe that’s the ego. Again thank you for teaching.
Your worth bring it
"Know your worth" video please you are talking about my life. Its not a mistake i stumbled upon your video's. They are giving me healing, I'm busy dealing.. i dont want anyone eating the fruits of my labour
I distanced myself because her child has no manners or respect
U on point keep going deep.
Fantastic message!!!
I needed it , this video is a wake up call, he texted me on New Year’s Day, n they use days like ur bday to get bk into ur life , n I ignored his messages, this man has hurt me so much n I’m tired ,
Jesus 🙏
Thank you. Would like to hear the 'know your worth video. Blessings
Thank you I really needed to hear that
Thanks I really needed to hear this
what he is calling ego can also be characterized as instinct.
Yes please make that video. Know Your Worth!
Gotcha❤
You spoke perfect
Thank you for the insight one love!
I will try to take it and to keep it moving
Happy New Year.