This was so interesting. I applied to be a dancer and got the job right before meeting my now fiance, but never got to start because I moved 2 hours away to live with him. SO GLAD I never got the chance to start.
Damn girl good topic! I danced through my whole addiction so like 17+ years and damn i went through some rough stuff. I cant believe i made it out in one piece lol ive learned that its a great way to heal listening to others share. Thanks
Damn girl I've been in a horrible depressed state I haven't even kept up with ur videos!! I'm doing MY BEST to feel better! Wish I saw this when u posted!! 🥺 I'm here watching now 😁 🤷🏻♀️ ❤️🙏
I’m glad I’m catching a vlog as soon as it comes out. So I am able to ship products to you. Thank you so much for sharing your story . I am in recovery as well I have 2 1/2 years.
It’s amazing when you talk about something that happened 15 or 20 years ago. For me (and Jen) it’s like we’re describing someone else’s experience. I don’t know if I would be friends with myself at 28. I know I wouldn’t be able to keep up.
You said my last name right!!! I love you lol ❤️❤️ I took a pole dancing class for my bachelorette party it was so fun. I could never be a dancer but it was fun and such a workout!!
My aunt lives in AP, and let me tell you I’ve seen that town change sooooo much from when I was 16 to now (I’m 37), so I wonder when you danced and if the club was seedy. I LOVE Asbury now, LOVE IT, I don’t know the last time you visited, but it’s so nice now, just stay on the beach side on Penn Ave./train tracks 😂
I had to laugh outside with the question, “how did you feel about the outfits you had to wear”? I lol’d and said, “what outfit” haha, but the clubs in Md/DC area that I’m from are full nude. Of course they have outfits on at first, but they’re normally completely nude. And I completely understand the question, and it’s valid, it just made me laugh.
Last time I went to a strip club it was a spontaneous stop because someone wanted to see some porn star doing an appearance. One of the strippers was very pregnant, like 3rd trimester pregnant, which wasn't expected. She clung on to a guy friend of mine, who was trying so hard to be polite, but get away. He started giving her tons of cash to go away, not wanting an 8th month gestation lap dance, which was probably the plan the whole time but funny as hell to all watching him try to politely escape. The thought of his nervousness still makes me laugh.
@@amandajaydexo Obviously not, that's why I was asking. But I didn't mean to offend anyone, it was really just a question out of curiosity. Maybe I should have formulated the question differently? Anyway, I'm really sorry. :/
@@JenCutting You said 12 years ago when actually it was 22 years ago! I love everything that you do, and you and Jess are my favorites, I could listen to you for hours and hours 💜
You are way braver than me lol I took my ex husbands sister to audition at a strip club and I was shocked, it was so gross in there. I know they are all not like that but that one was horrible
Omg Jen so sad that at 44 & sober just talking about them money is making me want to go do this. I obv never would at my age and with kids that are older but god the moooney!!! I wish I had the confidence or idea back in my 20’s without alcohol to have done it because I have confidence now DEAD sober. Hindsight is always 20/20 huh? Great video!
How do you feel if Bella watches this in the future. I have a daughter and would never like her to know this about me. I’m not judging you. Would like to know your thoughts on this.
I'd never lie to her. Ever. It's part of how I became the mommy she loves. If we aren't honest w our children they can't learn from our past or mistakes.
@@JenCutting I agree to a certain extent. Slot of the time though it doesn’t work like that. I’m a child psychologist and it can be like waving a red flag in front of a bull once they hit adolescence. As I said no judgement Bella is your child and you can parent her as you see fit. Just my thoughts. ❤️🌈🙏🇦🇺
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This was so interesting. I applied to be a dancer and got the job right before meeting my now fiance, but never got to start because I moved 2 hours away to live with him. SO GLAD I never got the chance to start.
Outstanding! Classy, honest, sincerely done. ❤❤
Damn girl good topic! I danced through my whole addiction so like 17+ years and damn i went through some rough stuff. I cant believe i made it out in one piece lol ive learned that its a great way to heal listening to others share. Thanks
Damn girl I've been in a horrible depressed state I haven't even kept up with ur videos!! I'm doing MY BEST to feel better! Wish I saw this when u posted!! 🥺 I'm here watching now 😁 🤷🏻♀️ ❤️🙏
Rooting for you!! I was in a bad place too but it got better thank goodness. I hope things have gotten better 🙏
I’m glad I’m catching a vlog as soon as it comes out. So I am able to ship products to you. Thank you so much for sharing your story . I am in recovery as well I have 2 1/2 years.
It’s amazing when you talk about something that happened 15 or 20 years ago. For me (and Jen) it’s like we’re describing someone else’s experience.
I don’t know if I would be friends with myself at 28. I know I wouldn’t be able to keep up.
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You said my last name right!!! I love you lol ❤️❤️ I took a pole dancing class for my bachelorette party it was so fun. I could never be a dancer but it was fun and such a workout!!
Such good questions! I loved watching this! 🖤
This was great not that I expected it not be but good job. Hope you and jarred are well.
Wow I love you already. You help so many people I want to be like you no joke.
The waterbottle trick 😂😂😂 brilliant. I've never heard of it
Let me see that thooong, that thong tha thong thong thong 😂 Girl I'm 28 and I know that one lol
My aunt lives in AP, and let me tell you I’ve seen that town change sooooo much from when I was 16 to now (I’m 37), so I wonder when you danced and if the club was seedy. I LOVE Asbury now, LOVE IT, I don’t know the last time you visited, but it’s so nice now, just stay on the beach side on Penn Ave./train tracks 😂
I danced at Caberet on OBT which is pretty much across the street from Thee Dollhouse.. craziness!!
I wanna know who gave the one thumbs down?!! Shame on you whomever you are!!! Love you Jen!!! I need to order a sweatshirt!!!!!!
Haters gon hate 🤣
Your so right girl💙💚
What an important video. Keep doing what you can to keep sex workers safe, empowered, and informed.
lmao shout out to the doll house, I had no idea u were in my city !
(i’m a dancer)
Just joined your community 🖤🖤 I have so much respect for you and Jess and I will support you both in any way I can! Much love ❤️
I had to laugh outside with the question, “how did you feel about the outfits you had to wear”? I lol’d and said, “what outfit” haha, but the clubs in Md/DC area that I’m from are full nude. Of course they have outfits on at first, but they’re normally completely nude. And I completely understand the question, and it’s valid, it just made me laugh.
Lmao I’m obsessed with you trying to pronounce my last name 😭😭
How bad did I do? 🤣
@@JenCutting it’s not the worst pronunciation I’ve heard lol it’s Bell Moss Toe
i didnt get the water bottle stuff, can someone pls explain! Love the video Jen
Last time I went to a strip club it was a spontaneous stop because someone wanted to see some porn star doing an appearance. One of the strippers was very pregnant, like 3rd trimester pregnant, which wasn't expected. She clung on to a guy friend of mine, who was trying so hard to be polite, but get away. He started giving her tons of cash to go away, not wanting an 8th month gestation lap dance, which was probably the plan the whole time but funny as hell to all watching him try to politely escape. The thought of his nervousness still makes me laugh.
I would never have the confidence to dance. I give you props! Especially with the clubs in east saint Louis IL they're not good at all!!
Sorry, have you been at all of them?
@@ZoeF.O do you know anything about east STL? 🥴
@@amandajaydexo
Obviously not, that's why I was asking. But I didn't mean to offend anyone, it was really just a question out of curiosity. Maybe I should have formulated the question differently? Anyway, I'm really sorry. :/
@@ZoeF.O Awe sweetie. That's okay! My apologizes! I didn't mean to be rude. It's just east STL is a pretty vicious area. 😔
You dance in Asbury?? I love going out in Asbury! What a small world!!
Stars and Bars.... Waaayyy back
@@JenCutting
You said 12 years ago when actually it was 22 years ago! I love everything that you do, and you and Jess are my favorites, I could listen to you for hours and hours 💜
How did your drug use fit in with stripping ? I would have been too out of it too many track marks to not get fired
Just sent some more supplies ♡♡♡ everyone needs tp
The thong 🎵 song🤣😂😅 you brought back so many memories for me
I can't even imagine how I'd react if I found out that my daughter was making a living by "dancing" but it certainly wouldn't be good!!!
Interesting. Peace.
Did backstreet boys or nkotb pop in? Or NSYNC?
Great video sweetie! 🖤💜🖤💜
Good morning ❤️❤️❤️
That was a good video the thong song lol.😹😹
You are way braver than me lol I took my ex husbands sister to audition at a strip club and I was shocked, it was so gross in there. I know they are all not like that but that one was horrible
42!?! 😳😳😳 Girl I thought you were way younger!
What where you doing in Florida ?!?! That’s a ways away from New York lol
"Client or customer...whatever you want to call em'" haha. I'm surprised that the industry hasn't jumped on the "guest" bandwagon lol 😆
Good morning I hope you have a great and productive day stay safe 🤟🏾🤟🏾🤟🏾
I played a stripper in someone’s short film but that’s the closest I got 😂 I’m so awkward
Omg Jen so sad that at 44 & sober just talking about them money is making me want to go do this. I obv never would at my age and with kids that are older but god the moooney!!! I wish I had the confidence or idea back in my 20’s without alcohol to have done it because I have confidence now DEAD sober. Hindsight is always 20/20 huh? Great video!
I just ordered a sleeping bag and sent it to your address. That’s all I can do but hope that it helps
How do you feel if Bella watches this in the future. I have a daughter and would never like her to know this about me. I’m not judging you. Would like to know your thoughts on this.
I'd never lie to her. Ever. It's part of how I became the mommy she loves. If we aren't honest w our children they can't learn from our past or mistakes.
@@JenCutting I agree to a certain extent. Slot of the time though it doesn’t work like that. I’m a child psychologist and it can be like waving a red flag in front of a bull once they hit adolescence. As I said no judgement Bella is your child and you can parent her as you see fit. Just my thoughts. ❤️🌈🙏🇦🇺
Lol u said the name Deja lol I named my daughter that is now 26 Dasia so
Pronounce the same but spelled different....
Can't believe nobody asked, "What did your parents and other family members think and/say when they found out about your dancing?"
Maybe because we already know?
Hi from Oklahoma 💜💜😭😭
didn't your boss are whatever from there wanted to marry ya and make ya quit? I thought I member tht from your earlier videos lol maybe not 💜💋🖤
Lol what?
Morals strip dancing?