This is so horrible. The fact you can’t just divorce someone and you’re forced to stay in a relationship with someone whom you no longer want to be with. We don’t know what they go through at home. We don’t know why they want to get divorced but it doesn’t matter. They should be able to take their freedom back. Some of us don’t realize how lucky we are to have our freedom
If you don't want to be in a permanent relationship with someone don't marry them. You act like someone's breaking their hands, forcing them to get married. You wanna date, date. You get married and agree to life? I don't have an ounce of sympathy for these women. Make better choices
@@RadiantRivit’s not mutual. The husband must give his wife a GET and she must accept it, yes. But the man always gets the final word. There are an excessive amount of cases where the man refuses to give the wife a GET. These wives are called “agunah” or “a chained wife.” Mutual usually doesn’t come off as backertized as this BS.
I don't care what your religion is, where you're from or background. As a woman: If I did NOT want to be in a commitment any longer and im denied that right because "my husband" refuses... id change into a totally different person. Ultimately, there would be a divorce. You can't change someone's mind, they can only do it for themselves. Tragic to see beautiful women stuck in a relationship they don't even want to be in.
Exactly! I’d be out of there as soon as I was old enough to get a passport! I can’t believe women willingly live in societies like this. As a Scandinavian this is just shocking. So uncivilised. No rights for women. No respect for women as human beings.
What was not mentioned in this video: „men in an Orthodox marriage, by virtue of the fact that they get to hand over a get - or not - hold the divorce power. In Israel, men who withhold gets can be jailed, their driver’s license or medical license can be taken away. In America, where there is a constitutional separation between church and state, secular courts cannot meddle in a religious agreement.“ „Secular courts can, however, enforce contracts like pre-nuptial agreements, and that’s why some in the Orthodox community have been pushing for pre-nups for years. A typical pre-nup mandates that in case of divorce, the husband will provide the wife with a get, and if he doesn’t, he could be forced to pay thousands of dollars a month - a financial penalty that a secular court could enforce.“
The "Halachic Prenup". It is important to get one from a reliable source so the language is appropriate under Jewish law since a coerced gett is also not valid.
@@mariam.3224 Maintaining the status quo is valid. It is a terrible situation for the woman who is stuck, but it is the reality of how it works for Orthodox couples which according to them is God's rules.
@@insightx613 isn't it also a God's rule not being the cause of other's suffering? That is a basic universal rule. .. Right ? I am very sorry for all those women as much as I am also sorry for other women's helpless situation related to religious and political motives who keeps them captive!
I know I was thinking that when she coached him to makesure he would say yes… I see that she feels her husband is no longer the same just sad for both sides :(
If your imaginary friend says 1 person is more important or in control than another, based on a chromosome, maybe you are believing in the wrong imaginary friend.
The ending of this video says that the rabbis put off Guy's release for divorce. They did not grant the divorce that Noa wanted, and I am also glad. I live in the US, and in every state of which I'm aware, one cannot divorce one's spouse, if he or she has become sick or disabled. Our marriage vows state "in sickness and in health", and the divorce courts hold one to that. Noa's not much, it seems to me. She obviously never loved Guy, if she could divorce him when he's in that disabled condition. The end of this video also states that Guy died shortly after this was completed.
That’s what happens when you are forced into a marriage. That was an arranged marriage. She never loved him. She was forced into a marriage with a guy she didn’t love. This is all the more reason to abolish religious meddling when it comes to human relationships. Poor woman. Of course she doesn’t want to be a caretaker for a diseased man she never loved in the first place!
An arranged marriage is different than a forced marriage. I didn't hear Noa say she was forced into marrying Guy or that she never loved him. I hope I missed it, I hope that really was the case. Because if not she didn't get the "for better or worse/sickness and health" part of her vows. How can you call yourself a religious person but then decide to bail when God's plan for your life isn't what you had in mind? Guy died a few months later, God was going to let her move on and rather than have grace she complained and wanted to leave him. It's shameful and I'm glad God put Guy out of his misery of both his condition and her rejection.
@@anglophils645in the us you can get divorced for whatever reason you want. Yes it can be contested cost lots of money and time , but it’ll eventually happen. If she truly loved her husband why would she leave him for something that is not his fault
Marriage requires both party’s assent, why wouldn’t divorce? Btw, I’m not sure I agree with that line of thought, but it’s a reasonable question. In some cultures, marriage is serious business, it actually means something more than a tax write off. Ultimately, though, marriage is still a contract, and if the man can’t or won’t fulfill their obligations, they shouldn’t then retain control over the dissolution of the contract. Pretty sure most Abrahamic religions see it the same way.
She’s divorcing her husband because of his disability. So I shouldn’t judge I don’t know if the situation was abusive due to this or not. But if it’s only because of his new handicap… I believe she must not have ever loved him to begin with if she wants a divorce for that. Again there could be many hidden things that are unknown so I shouldn’t judge … 17:20
But sharia muslim laws granting divorce easily . Even women could divorce their husbands with the Islamic laws on their side. So what are talking about?? Don’t project you frustration on others !!
im Catholic.. but their are faults in alllll religion.U dont need 2 go threw anyone in order 2 speak 2 god.. or to ask 4 forgiveness... only 1 u should be goin to is god... for approval or for forgiveness etc.. theirs faults in all religion... i also think if u marry.. cheating & lying & physical or mental abuse is NOT acceptable... its NOT ok... people need to take marriage seriously... its not a game.. if u take vows dont break them... u should never just up & leave just because things dont go ur way or get hard etc u should work as a team help eachother be their 4 eachother etc & through everything for eachother.. i think its very sad & also very disrespectful how people take marriage as a joke.. & ones who dont have god in their life.. very sad.. its a shame how people are being raised these days..
@@e.b.squared people have seen the result of a society with a 50% divorce rate. Maybe if a woman didn’t half a man’s earnings no fault could be acceptable
@@johnmorrison3560 Men suck and abuse women and trap them in hellish marriages with no way out. That’s why no fault divorce is important and should stay in place. lol. Like any of these men make any money anyways lol
You should checked the stats and see how males leave their sick spouses at higher rates all of the time. You males are selfish and don’t like when the same is done to you….pffff
If a woman or a man no longer wish to stay married to their husband or wife they should be free of the burden. That should be the norm everywhere in the world. It is called civilisation!
This is the problem with orthodox types of religions. They have very narrow blinders on and there is no room for other points of view. The strictness of their rules should not allow them to block someone who no longer wants to live that way or under those types of rules. This is especially true if it takes place within a state like America where we allow much more freedom.
That is a good comment! I do wonder how these Orthodox Jewish laws work in the Western Nations! I believe the churches do have to obey the State Laws! But to what point, if the religious laws contradict the state laws??
@@lenitaa7938there’s a separation in America, meaning that in most cases the state laws actually take a backseat depending on the religion. There are little enclaves of orthodox Jewish communities in New York, and they basically live in a similar state to the Amish(the Amish being another good example of this.) Not in terms of being luddites, but in terms of having their own set of rules, their own courts, their own tax laws, etc. There are some Muslim communities that are currently pressing for similar rights, except they want their little Sharia courts to supersede state courts even for non-Muslims.
I aways respected the jewish religion and people I understood they where very religious I knew how much power they had over the wives in New York as I witnessed and I respected them, but I never knew it was this hard for a women to get out of a marriage which 90 percent seemed to me growing up to be arraigned and I even worked with them in a high end bridle store the world knows. I was taught how I had to act and show them and everything else but I never realized this. This women is an amazing lawyer not just for Israelis women but women of all faiths. It's not as easy to receive an aliment in the Christin faith at all unless the pope approves it and bishops and thats like one n a million. Wow this just highly educated me I love the country it is amazing and the people are as well. But I wish I knew who this lawyer women was, she's truly amazing for women's rights
That's crazy! Straight up if I don't want to be with a person any longer I will move, I will convert to something else if I have to. I'm not waiting for the say so of men to release me from a bad marriage.
I just read up on it! It’s quite an unusual process in Israel! One has to go through the Family Court and through Rabbinic Court!! No Wonder many decide not to marry in Israel, but live together instead! A big headache otherwise!
This is a recipe to make sure people never want to get married. But it's also sad that people enter into relationships so easily now. Back in the day, both families got to know each other. Accountability and mutual respect, are bonds and cords holding couples together. Those are missing today. These things should bind us together, not the law. John 1:17 KJV “For the law was given by Moses, but grace and truth came by Jesus Christ.”
The girl in the second story who was married for 9 years, I'm so happy for her. Don't get me wrong I'm happy for the girl who is trying to get divorced for 2 years but the girl for 9 years, I'm so happy that she finally got her divorce after she had kept on trying and got denied. She deserves so much better her and her unborn child.
One thing that puzzles me the Rabbi said something about "we must arrange another match". Does this mean they have arranged marriages in Jewish law too. If so that's just horrific.
I hope someone helps plan her a secret yet safe escape out of this absurdity. It’s honestly sad how people try to switch religion and use it to their own benefits rather than be open minded and civil. Religion is a blessing and a curse,
This is honestly very sad and I wish the woman luck. I’ve seen a lot of comments mentioning Islam for some reason even if the video has nothing to do with it. So to clarify a women in Islam can get a divorce even if the husband refuses. The reason for divorce can be lack of love and affection or something as serious as abuse or cheating. The women can get the divorce quickly. I’ve literally seen this done because a woman I know got divorced in one court hearing. Literally took her a day to finalize the divorce. Divorce is looked down upon and viewed as negative because it’s separates the family but both men and women can initiate the divorce in Islam for whatever reason they have. It’s also a sin to just leave you wife for two years without granting divorce like what the first Lady in the video had if deal with.
Just another reason i don't practice any religion,i was married off by my parents at 16 to a 22 yr old man after our minister "approved" it,i divorced at 19 and never stepped foot in a church again
You know sometimes we dont knownwhat has happened in any ones home to make them in a time of need to walk out there is something that to me is not ok like what happens in the home e know nothing about there could have been abuse for years or other things for her waitng or this man in a coma to run out. That is very questionable. But i do say that acting is not ok to do because if the tables were turn she wouldnt want at all for her husband to do that to her. Very unfortunate. But as far as a divorce i do feel noone should be obligated to remain where they are not happy but in a coma is not one of them to do it
They picked really bad examples! The women came across as being bad/evil: 1 got pregnant by another man (adultery), 1 prevented her husband from seeing their baby by getting an automatic jail order if he shows up in the country (cruel), and 1 wanted so badly to ditch her husband once he got sick (disloyal & deserting him in his time of need).
Not really. All of those women had valid reasons to leave. And no one was preventing any of the fathers from seeing their children. The men have all the power in that situation, and it’s unconscionable for them to not grant a divorce.
We also, as viewers, must acknowledge that we’ve only been given a glimpse into the end of these relationships. We don’t know if there was physical/emotional/financial abuse, everyday laws they’d need a husband to co-sign on that prevent them from caring for their children as single mothers, and any other reasons. Most problems are more complex than which party is bad or evil. Stop looking for a bad guy to blame in real life scenarios
The lady with the blonde hair clearly doesn't deserve a divorce she needs to grow up and see a psychiatrist and be happy with her marriage and doesn't need kids so I don't know what her mental health issue is
I can't believe existing also modern ppls (juwishes),comparing the with religiously fanatics and from West Europe... Let's hope for women to get their freedom. 👏
Am I the only one heartbroken about the guy whose invalid from a heart attack whose wife just wants to abandon him because of it? That’s not what your vows stated
We do not know the entire story of their relationship. In all honesty, I am not marrying into that type of society. If I am unhappy, and I want out, I want out.
Each to his own as they say and I am completely with anyone who would want to end a marriage where there is abuse, but I have a very difficult time with the one trying to get divorce her husband, because he is invalid/disabled - whatever happened to the promise in sickness and health?" unless they are not telling us the full story... any religion, decree, agreement whatever it maybe called that gives one party power over the other is wrong! Unfortunately, in MOST cultures outside of what is commonly referred to as "developed countries" "it is a man's world" that women and girls live in deprived of their basic, God given rights. How could anyone ask a man who cannot express with full understanding of the situation he is in sign a document of any kind and then he consented? But glad in the end that it was his time to go before signing anything, leaving Noa a free woman. I know her case was said it was still open before Guy died, I hope his death closes his case now. Oh! this life...
so she wants 2 divorce him because he had a heart attack & almost died? THATS WRONG OF HER 2 DO... U TOOK VOWS.. THE TIME HE NEEDS HER MOST SHE WANA BAIL? WOW THATS WRONG & NOT OK.. & SAD... HE DESERVES BETTER THEN THAT (25:28) wow her husbands in a coma.. & she's trying to divorce him wow... omg could u be more cold,rude & soooo more past disrespectful? how can u not follow ur vows u took??... when her husband almost dies & he needs her the most she wana up & bail on him like he was never nothing 2 her wow then why did u even marry?... SHE IS SOOOO IN THE WRONG.. (27:22) if u married U DONT DATE ANYONE OMG WHAT iS WRONG WITH PEOPLE... U TOOK VOWS!!! (29:27) omg & she's pregnant by another man.. wow...while being married 2 someone else is SOOOOOOOOOOOO NOOOOOOT OK!!!!!🤷♀️🤦♀️💯 i think marriage should be taken not lightly... for sickness or worse.. etc u took vows.. i dont think people should be quick 2 just up & bail... if u cant take marriage seriously dont marry then....
So a 44 year old woman who still has half her life ahead of her should be forced to stay married to a man who doesn't know up from down. WOW, May you walk in her shoes all the days you have remaining on earth.
@@SuzyEH don’t know about him but may all woman unworthy of companionship & complaining get divorced from their husband without a penny, childless & homeless face wrath of nature. I want all men unhappy in relationships to abandon their partner.
You dont know their relationship and you dont know her husband, you don't know how he treated her and this video only shows you want they want to, you don't know what they cut out. If men are allowed to divorce their wives beacuse they no longer find them attractive then she should be able to divorce her husband for whatever reason why force someone to be in a relationship. Do you really think their going to be happy together? No so just get the divorce and move on
Men do it all the time. It’s a pervasive in the USA that in women cancer patients many oncologists have a specific sit down with women cancer patients because their husbands often take off. I’m not saying either is okay I’m just saying that this is common.
The second woman should be happy she needs to deal with it clearly she should be happy with the results hopefully she can lose custody of her kid and be alone
Females still property in most religions and cultures. Just listen to lyrics in rap music and ...head of household title.. and who is usually driving the car when man snd woman in it
@@JustinWrtHow so? Do u know her Dad? Aside from her Father, whom I do not know.. Many controlling, abusive men prefer killing their wives rather than give a divorce!
What are you talking about? They are so, so very different. If you have said Christianity, I would’ve agreed. They do have much in common. But Judaism, absolutely not. Muslim women can divorce their husbands, if not by agreement; then by the court’s order.
A Muslims women can divorce her husband in one easy process without having to proved several evidence etc. she can divorce him because of a lack of love and emotional connection there doesn’t need to be a fault etc.
well, yes. Islam stole many aspects of the Jewish faith. But, Jews are a people, not a religion. It was antisemitic Christians in Europe who mislabeled Jews as a 'religion.'
Nothing like over-generalization of a whole topic! Rarely anything is black-and-white! Plenty of anti-Religious ideologists , who killed millions of own people! Mao, Stalin, Khmer Rouge, etc! The other side of the coin! Or in Spain, where one’s political views, whether Conservative or Liberal can have u executed or sent to a ‚camp‘!! All depended on which side had the manpower and guns on that day and time! It was horrific! So, it’s not so much the religion itself, but certain leaders who abuse their power!
How heartless divorcing your husband that had a stroke or heart attack had abit of brain damage.He was in there they ask who President he said BiBi she didnt learn him that did she. Sorry your cruel obviously you didnt love him enough.
A muslim woman can divorce her husband and in most cases he has no say in it. She can even divorce him just for not having emotional connection to him anymore. U dont know what u r talking about. But obviously divorcing ur husband for no valid reason is not encouraged.
This couldn’t be farthest from the Truth. I doubt you have proper knowledge of either to make such a statement. Islam has a lot in common with Christianity; while Judaism is very much unlike any other religion.
well, yes. Islam stole many aspects of the Jewish faith. But, Jews are a people, not a religion. It was antisemitic Christians in Europe who mislabeled Jews as a 'religion.'
It's still not right to have a baby from another man while you're married that's adultery then justify a divorce because the husband had character issues. That wife has character issues also. 😒
@angelliving550 - The husband ran way, the divorce had been dragging on for 8 years and, it apparently wasn't even valid by Jewish law. Therefore she wasn't married.
I dont know what do you mean by similar. But to be specific in the law of marriage muslim women can divorce their husband thru the court. One of the reason for getting divorce is if the husband fails to support her financially or is in absentia for certain period.
@@Kzam19-ux8wg I know. But there's still a lot of dark areas similar to Judaism. Most islamic states perverse the Qur'an as they are all dominated by old ideology. But I had a lot of educated Muslim friends at uni who explained divorce in the Qur'an and women's rights. Which a lot of westerners have no clue about.
@@fokthewef did you know that muslim woman can divorce her husband if he failed to provide financial support, in absentia for certain period, abusive, and if im not mistaken sexual obligation ect.
Women can divorce their husbands in Islam. Why do you have to criticize Islam even if the topic has nothing to do with it and even if it’s a lie. A woman can divorce her husband against his will In Islam. It’s not rare either and socially viewed the same as when a men initiates the divorce.
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Why would you get married in the first place if you want out at a later time ! You picked an choose your choice , live up to the responsible , plus listening to other women is in itself ridiculous !
This is so horrible. The fact you can’t just divorce someone and you’re forced to stay in a relationship with someone whom you no longer want to be with. We don’t know what they go through at home. We don’t know why they want to get divorced but it doesn’t matter. They should be able to take their freedom back. Some of us don’t realize how lucky we are to have our freedom
If you don't want to be in a permanent relationship with someone don't marry them. You act like someone's breaking their hands, forcing them to get married. You wanna date, date. You get married and agree to life? I don't have an ounce of sympathy for these women. Make better choices
Look these women know the rules before they get married .end of debate
They chose to get married and knew the rules. They quitters lol losers enjoy your cats and liberal causes
She can leave but the problem I guess is that she wants to keep the house, half the money..
Go to Satriale’s Pork Store in north Jersey. Ask for Tony. He’ll sort out for ya.
This is the ultimate form of control with the women as a second class citizen beholden to her spouse.
Orthodox religion is always like that.
@@chrysalis4126NO IT IS NO TRUTH. J AM ORTHODOX I AM divorced in 30 days
It’s clearly a mutual thing. You didn’t watch the whole thing if you think that.
@@RadiantRivit’s not mutual. The husband must give his wife a GET and she must accept it, yes. But the man always gets the final word. There are an excessive amount of cases where the man refuses to give the wife a GET. These wives are called “agunah” or “a chained wife.” Mutual usually doesn’t come off as backertized as this BS.
I never understood woman who agree to that situation, knowing that your husband get a full control on your freedom.
The man takes on full obligation to her and is fuly responsible for all her needs. That is why some women choose to make this commitment.
@@letsgettseriousI think in orthodox women work and men just pray all day
I don't care what your religion is, where you're from or background.
As a woman: If I did NOT want to be in a commitment any longer and im denied that right because "my husband" refuses... id change into a totally different person. Ultimately, there would be a divorce. You can't change someone's mind, they can only do it for themselves. Tragic to see beautiful women stuck in a relationship they don't even want to be in.
Mmm
You have my vote !
She should have thought about that before she married him.
@@JohnDavis-yz9nq people change and alot of thesee marriages were arranged by parents
@@TheTravellingGuru-fj7gw she must honor thy husband after marriage even if that means washing his feet everyday. She needs to faithfully serve him.
What happened to for better for worse? In sickness and in health? Her husband is now sick so she leaves him? Sad.
She's not keeping her marriage vows, sad really.
They need a show about this lawyer! I love her
I would do my best to avoid getting married in a country where getting a divorce as a woman is so hard ! No equal rights..NO THANKS!😮
Exactly! I’d be out of there as soon as I was old enough to get a passport! I can’t believe women willingly live in societies like this. As a Scandinavian this is just shocking. So uncivilised. No rights for women. No respect for women as human beings.
@@wolfsbane1991That is why the first thing women should do is to fight these evil religions and leave them for all.
@sumiben5211
The only religious cult women should fight against is feminism!
I’m a Jewish woman was married by an observant rabbi . If I want a divorce, I could care less if I have someone’s permission, especially a man.
Do you live in Israel or an Orthodox Hassidic Community?
@@christinebuckingham8369 YES, why do you ask?
It is mainly an issue if the person is religious or for their children if they became religious with the religious status of a mamzer (bstard).
@@Sherka55 You sound very self-confident, brave and have a young and happy modern attitude - wishing you all the best.
@@christinebuckingham8369 it helps if your Jewish, then you have a better understanding of things.
What was not mentioned in this video: „men in an Orthodox marriage, by virtue of the fact that they get to hand over a get - or not - hold the divorce power. In Israel, men who withhold gets can be jailed, their driver’s license or medical license can be taken away. In America, where there is a constitutional separation between church and state, secular courts cannot meddle in a religious agreement.“
„Secular courts can, however, enforce contracts like pre-nuptial agreements, and that’s why some in the Orthodox community have been pushing for pre-nups for years. A typical pre-nup mandates that in case of divorce, the husband will provide the wife with a get, and if he doesn’t, he could be forced to pay thousands of dollars a month - a financial penalty that a secular court could enforce.“
The "Halachic Prenup". It is important to get one from a reliable source so the language is appropriate under Jewish law since a coerced gett is also not valid.
@@insightx613 and a coerced situation of still marriage is it valid?
@@mariam.3224 Maintaining the status quo is valid. It is a terrible situation for the woman who is stuck, but it is the reality of how it works for Orthodox couples which according to them is God's rules.
@@insightx613 isn't it also a God's rule not being the cause of other's suffering? That is a basic universal rule. .. Right ? I am very sorry for all those women as much as I am also sorry for other women's helpless situation related to religious and political motives who keeps them captive!
@@mariam.3224 Actually there is no such rule. In Orthodox Judaism the rules come from the Torah including the Oral Law.
It’s a beautiful thing to be free…
Should be the norm everywhere in the world!
AMEN!😶
The case with the disabled husband is so sad. poor guy.
I know I was thinking that when she coached him to makesure he would say yes… I see that she feels her husband is no longer the same just sad for both sides :(
If your imaginary friend says 1 person is more important or in control than another, based on a chromosome, maybe you are believing in the wrong imaginary friend.
Mmmm
The bigger question is whether the imaginary is real.
Cannot imagine divorcing your husband as hes had heart attack wtf
My thoughts exactly, and to top it off he was absolutely heart broken... That's called running away from responsibility, poor Guy!
The ending of this video says that the rabbis put off Guy's release for divorce. They did not grant the divorce that Noa wanted, and I am also glad. I live in the US, and in every state of which I'm aware, one cannot divorce one's spouse, if he or she has become sick or disabled. Our marriage vows state "in sickness and in health", and the divorce courts hold one to that. Noa's not much, it seems to me. She obviously never loved Guy, if she could divorce him when he's in that disabled condition. The end of this video also states that Guy died shortly after this was completed.
That’s what happens when you are forced into a marriage. That was an arranged marriage. She never loved him. She was forced into a marriage with a guy she didn’t love. This is all the more reason to abolish religious meddling when it comes to human relationships. Poor woman. Of course she doesn’t want to be a caretaker for a diseased man she never loved in the first place!
An arranged marriage is different than a forced marriage. I didn't hear Noa say she was forced into marrying Guy or that she never loved him. I hope I missed it, I hope that really was the case. Because if not she didn't get the "for better or worse/sickness and health" part of her vows. How can you call yourself a religious person but then decide to bail when God's plan for your life isn't what you had in mind? Guy died a few months later, God was going to let her move on and rather than have grace she complained and wanted to leave him. It's shameful and I'm glad God put Guy out of his misery of both his condition and her rejection.
@@anglophils645in the us you can get divorced for whatever reason you want. Yes it can be contested cost lots of money and time , but it’ll eventually happen. If she truly loved her husband why would she leave him for something that is not his fault
What a strong, important, lovely woman. I hope she can free more women.
If you love someone, you want them to be happy even when it isn't with you.
Divorce should be Easy to do by just one person. It shouldn’t require Both people to nullify the marriage.
Then just stay boyfriend/girlfriend
If one spouse leaves and takes no assets with them, fine.
Marriage requires both party’s assent, why wouldn’t divorce?
Btw, I’m not sure I agree with that line of thought, but it’s a reasonable question.
In some cultures, marriage is serious business, it actually means something more than a tax write off. Ultimately, though, marriage is still a contract, and if the man can’t or won’t fulfill their obligations, they shouldn’t then retain control over the dissolution of the contract. Pretty sure most Abrahamic religions see it the same way.
She’s divorcing her husband because of his disability. So I shouldn’t judge I don’t know if the situation was abusive due to this or not.
But if it’s only because of his new handicap… I believe she must not have ever loved him to begin with if she wants a divorce for that. Again there could be many hidden things that are unknown so I shouldn’t judge … 17:20
As a Jewish woman myself, this is like living under Sharia Muslim laws... Yes, I'v said it.. It's stone age believe. Get rid of it.
Convert, accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior.
But sharia muslim laws granting divorce easily . Even women could divorce their husbands with the Islamic laws on their side. So what are talking about?? Don’t project you frustration on others !!
im Catholic.. but their are faults
in alllll religion.U dont need 2
go threw anyone in order 2
speak 2 god.. or to ask 4
forgiveness... only 1 u should
be goin to is god... for approval
or for forgiveness etc.. theirs
faults in all religion... i also
think if u marry.. cheating &
lying & physical or mental
abuse is NOT acceptable...
its NOT ok... people need to
take marriage seriously... its
not a game.. if u take vows
dont break them... u should
never just up & leave just
because things dont go ur
way or get hard etc u should
work as a team help eachother
be their 4 eachother etc &
through everything for eachother..
i think its very sad & also very
disrespectful how people
take marriage as a joke.. &
ones who dont have god in
their life.. very sad.. its a shame
how people are being raised
these days..
@@riesk181in sharia Islam it is the same. The man has to grant the divorce. And it is far worse.
@@RJD421oh for Pete's sake 🤦
this is how it is in my african country but only difference is the church refuses to grant divorces. they just tell you to separate or pray about it.
Why can’t women divorce? that’s insane
Wow didn’t realise how valuable “no fault divorce” legislation is for women in countries. 🤔 Just took it for granted in ours. Sad this still happens.
They’re trying to take it away in the US again. Crazy.
@@e.b.squared people have seen the result of a society with a 50% divorce rate. Maybe if a woman didn’t half a man’s earnings no fault could be acceptable
@@johnmorrison3560 Men suck and abuse women and trap them in hellish marriages with no way out. That’s why no fault divorce is important and should stay in place. lol. Like any of these men make any money anyways lol
yeshua said whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery. marriage is a done deal .
Marriage is a done deal but if thete is ABUSE, ABANDONEMENT, ADULTRY than it's over--the Bible days so.
05:54 Lady, why do you have your wipers on when it's not raining??😂😂😂
WOMEN ARE NOT PROPERTY, DAMN IT!
Id like to watch a whole show with episodes about this amazing lawyer!
That woman divorcing her husband after he had brain damage she’s horrible. What happen to “ better or worst”.
You should checked the stats and see how males leave their sick spouses at higher rates all of the time. You males are selfish and don’t like when the same is done to you….pffff
If a woman or a man no longer wish to stay married to their husband or wife they should be free of the burden. That should be the norm everywhere in the world. It is called civilisation!
@@Pampilici yeah it's the end of civilisation. Marriage isn't built on that level of individualism
I would be saving money secretly and saying Bye!!
I'm sure some do 🫥
The cruelty of it IS the point. If they can control or continue to hold them back it gives them a false sense of power. Men like that are cowards.
I was waiting for her to turn the wipers off
Beautiful interview 💕💕💕
This is the problem with orthodox types of religions. They have very narrow blinders on and there is no room for other points of view. The strictness of their rules should not allow them to block someone who no longer wants to live that way or under those types of rules. This is especially true if it takes place within a state like America where we allow much more freedom.
That is a good comment! I do wonder how these Orthodox Jewish laws work in the Western Nations! I believe the churches do have to obey the State Laws! But to what point, if the religious laws contradict the state laws??
@@lenitaa7938there’s a separation in America, meaning that in most cases the state laws actually take a backseat depending on the religion.
There are little enclaves of orthodox Jewish communities in New York, and they basically live in a similar state to the Amish(the Amish being another good example of this.) Not in terms of being luddites, but in terms of having their own set of rules, their own courts, their own tax laws, etc.
There are some Muslim communities that are currently pressing for similar rights, except they want their little Sharia courts to supersede state courts even for non-Muslims.
This is so sad on so many levels.
I know. I cried at the end when I read what happened to all of them.
I aways respected the jewish religion and people I understood they where very religious I knew how much power they had over the wives in New York as I witnessed and I respected them, but I never knew it was this hard for a women to get out of a marriage which 90 percent seemed to me growing up to be arraigned and I even worked with them in a high end bridle store the world knows. I was taught how I had to act and show them and everything else but I never realized this. This women is an amazing lawyer not just for Israelis women but women of all faiths. It's not as easy to receive an aliment in the Christin faith at all unless the pope approves it and bishops and thats like one n a million. Wow this just highly educated me I love the country it is amazing and the people are as well. But I wish I knew who this lawyer women was, she's truly amazing for women's rights
Immaturity and selfishness! We are delusional about the impact on ourselves, children and society. Act like adults!
That's crazy! Straight up if I don't want to be with a person any longer I will move, I will convert to something else if I have to. I'm not waiting for the say so of men to release me from a bad marriage.
2023 and womens must ask mens. All over the world. This is so sad. I wish freedom, big wings and a healthy warm relegion. ❤
She wants to divorce her husband because he is unable ro function, thats just so wrong. Dont know how their relationship were prior to his disability
It's all really sad. I cried after reading what they said at the end for all three women.
Divorce rate in Israel is 47.3%, so women are allowed to divorce, if it wasn;t a case - we would see 0-10% of divorce rate.
Or the men granted the divorce so he also can get married again
I just read up on it! It’s quite an unusual process in Israel! One has to go through the Family Court and through Rabbinic Court!! No Wonder many decide not to marry in Israel, but live together instead! A big headache otherwise!
This is a recipe to make sure people never want to get married. But it's also sad that people enter into relationships so easily now. Back in the day, both families got to know each other. Accountability and mutual respect, are bonds and cords holding couples together. Those are missing today. These things should bind us together, not the law.
John 1:17 KJV “For the law was given by Moses, but grace and truth came by Jesus Christ.”
You either accept the stone age rules or you leave. It's that simple.
free housing, healthcare, food
We gon need more info on the dude who died “mysteriously”. Also, what an angel Batya is.
The girl in the second story who was married for 9 years, I'm so happy for her. Don't get me wrong I'm happy for the girl who is trying to get divorced for 2 years but the girl for 9 years, I'm so happy that she finally got her divorce after she had kept on trying and got denied. She deserves so much better her and her unborn child.
Yet it is still not recognized by the State that sucks.
One thing that puzzles me the Rabbi said something about "we must arrange another match". Does this mean they have arranged marriages in Jewish law too. If so that's just horrific.
I hope someone helps plan her a secret yet safe escape out of this absurdity. It’s honestly sad how people try to switch religion and use it to their own benefits rather than be open minded and civil.
Religion is a blessing and a curse,
Except Yeshua HaMashiach came to set us free and show us a better way.
@@soniag4516 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
This is a very beautiful story of jewish marriage n divorce . Lovely ❤
This is honestly very sad and I wish the woman luck. I’ve seen a lot of comments mentioning Islam for some reason even if the video has nothing to do with it. So to clarify a women in Islam can get a divorce even if the husband refuses. The reason for divorce can be lack of love and affection or something as serious as abuse or cheating. The women can get the divorce quickly. I’ve literally seen this done because a woman I know got divorced in one court hearing. Literally took her a day to finalize the divorce. Divorce is looked down upon and viewed as negative because it’s separates the family but both men and women can initiate the divorce in Islam for whatever reason they have. It’s also a sin to just leave you wife for two years without granting divorce like what the first Lady in the video had if deal with.
Are there any updates?
1:01 why are her windshield wipers going? She makes a good case for why women shouldn't drive 😂
Just another reason i don't practice any religion,i was married off by my parents at 16 to a 22 yr old man after our minister "approved" it,i divorced at 19 and never stepped foot in a church again
You know sometimes we dont knownwhat has happened in any ones home to make them in a time of need to walk out there is something that to me is not ok like what happens in the home e know nothing about there could have been abuse for years or other things for her waitng or this man in a coma to run out. That is very questionable. But i do say that acting is not ok to do because if the tables were turn she wouldnt want at all for her husband to do that to her. Very unfortunate. But as far as a divorce i do feel noone should be obligated to remain where they are not happy but in a coma is not one of them to do it
The blonde divorcee is so beautiful, like a Waterhouse painting.
1:13 I like how she doesn't know how to drive lol. Wipers on, no rain.
When it’s cold and my windshield has fog or frost I turn on the wipers and the window defroster. They can be used also when it is not raining too.
@@christinebuckingham8369 but it seems not cold there 😅😂
Wow no patience geesh what kind of a spiuse you'll make!
He is wrong, she is not a Gentile, she is a Jew. Being a convert makes no difference. There is a lot of bias in this case.
They picked really bad examples! The women came across as being bad/evil: 1 got pregnant by another man (adultery), 1 prevented her husband from seeing their baby by getting an automatic jail order if he shows up in the country (cruel), and 1 wanted so badly to ditch her husband once he got sick (disloyal & deserting him in his time of need).
Not really. All of those women had valid reasons to leave. And no one was preventing any of the fathers from seeing their children. The men have all the power in that situation, and it’s unconscionable for them to not grant a divorce.
We also, as viewers, must acknowledge that we’ve only been given a glimpse into the end of these relationships. We don’t know if there was physical/emotional/financial abuse, everyday laws they’d need a husband to co-sign on that prevent them from caring for their children as single mothers, and any other reasons.
Most problems are more complex than which party is bad or evil. Stop looking for a bad guy to blame in real life scenarios
The lady with the blonde hair clearly doesn't deserve a divorce she needs to grow up and see a psychiatrist and be happy with her marriage and doesn't need kids so I don't know what her mental health issue is
You give people control of you life and they will take it.
I can't believe existing also modern ppls (juwishes),comparing the with religiously fanatics and from West Europe... Let's hope for women to get their freedom. 👏
That is abuse, plain and simple. There's no difference with things like this to women living under strict Muslim rule with the Taliban or similar.
Am I the only one heartbroken about the guy whose invalid from a heart attack whose wife just wants to abandon him because of it? That’s not what your vows stated
Escape when u can....
We do not know the entire story of their relationship.
In all honesty, I am not marrying into that type of society. If I am unhappy, and I want out, I want out.
Many people when they are sick are meek Suppose he was a horrible person to her. If she sees her way out take it.
I got the vibe she was abused and this was a way out. She didn't seem to feel to bad for him🙄
@TombRaider666, You're not the only one
Each to his own as they say and I am completely with anyone who would want to end a marriage where there is abuse, but I have a very difficult time with the one trying to get divorce her husband, because he is invalid/disabled - whatever happened to the promise in sickness and health?" unless they are not telling us the full story... any religion, decree, agreement whatever it maybe called that gives one party power over the other is wrong! Unfortunately, in MOST cultures outside of what is commonly referred to as "developed countries" "it is a man's world" that women and girls live in deprived of their basic, God given rights. How could anyone ask a man who cannot express with full understanding of the situation he is in sign a document of any kind and then he consented? But glad in the end that it was his time to go before signing anything, leaving Noa a free woman. I know her case was said it was still open before Guy died, I hope his death closes his case now. Oh! this life...
so she wants 2 divorce him
because he had a heart attack
& almost died? THATS WRONG
OF HER 2 DO... U TOOK VOWS..
THE TIME HE NEEDS HER MOST
SHE WANA BAIL? WOW THATS
WRONG & NOT OK.. & SAD...
HE DESERVES BETTER THEN
THAT
(25:28) wow her husbands in
a coma.. & she's trying to divorce
him wow... omg could u be more
cold,rude & soooo more past
disrespectful? how can u not
follow ur vows u took??...
when her husband almost dies
& he needs her the most she
wana up & bail on him like he
was never nothing 2 her wow
then why did u even marry?...
SHE IS SOOOO IN THE WRONG..
(27:22) if u married U DONT
DATE ANYONE OMG WHAT
iS WRONG WITH PEOPLE...
U TOOK VOWS!!!
(29:27) omg & she's pregnant
by another man.. wow...while
being married 2 someone
else is SOOOOOOOOOOOO
NOOOOOOT OK!!!!!🤷♀️🤦♀️💯
i think marriage should be
taken not lightly... for
sickness or worse.. etc u
took vows.. i dont think
people should be quick 2
just up & bail... if u cant
take marriage seriously
dont marry then....
agreed
So a 44 year old woman who still has half her life ahead of her should be forced to stay married to a man who doesn't know up from down. WOW, May you walk in her shoes all the days you have remaining on earth.
@@SuzyEH don’t know about him but may all woman unworthy of companionship & complaining get divorced from their husband without a penny, childless & homeless face wrath of nature. I want all men unhappy in relationships to abandon their partner.
You dont know their relationship and you dont know her husband, you don't know how he treated her and this video only shows you want they want to, you don't know what they cut out. If men are allowed to divorce their wives beacuse they no longer find them attractive then she should be able to divorce her husband for whatever reason why force someone to be in a relationship. Do you really think their going to be happy together? No so just get the divorce and move on
Why are her windshield wipers on?
Amazing woman though!
I don't how somebody could leaves from disabled one who is dependent on others and forces: say yes, say yes when they will ask you
Men do it all the time. It’s a pervasive in the USA that in women cancer patients many oncologists have a specific sit down with women cancer patients because their husbands often take off. I’m not saying either is okay I’m just saying that this is common.
The second woman should be happy she needs to deal with it clearly she should be happy with the results hopefully she can lose custody of her kid and be alone
our female emotions are used against us. one day, may we be in chg and take care of everyone. love to you all!!!!
No ones stopping you and women like you moving off and making your own society. Best of luck
Literally this video shows how restricted women still are.
Females still property in most religions and cultures. Just listen to lyrics in rap music and ...head of household title.. and who is usually driving the car when man snd woman in it
12:15 wow their true colors came out..!
Let's all remember..it's culture. Period.
I found the situation with Guy all too coincidental.
my dad doesnt believe
in divorce..
Sounds like you have a good dad
@@JustinWrtHow so? Do u know her Dad?
Aside from her Father, whom I do not know..
Many controlling, abusive men prefer killing their wives rather than give a divorce!
Not much difference between Islam and Judaism
Different hats - same religion
What are you talking about? They are so, so very different. If you have said Christianity, I would’ve agreed. They do have much in common. But Judaism, absolutely not. Muslim women can divorce their husbands, if not by agreement; then by the court’s order.
A Muslims women can divorce her husband in one easy process without having to proved several evidence etc. she can divorce him because of a lack of love and emotional connection there doesn’t need to be a fault etc.
well, yes. Islam stole many aspects of the Jewish faith. But, Jews are a people, not a religion. It was antisemitic Christians in Europe who mislabeled Jews as a 'religion.'
My goodness. This is not 1900 😳
Hey what language are they speaking? Is it Yiddish?
Hebrew
Religion, the root of all evil.
Nothing like over-generalization of a whole topic! Rarely anything is black-and-white!
Plenty of anti-Religious ideologists , who killed millions of own people! Mao, Stalin, Khmer Rouge, etc! The other side of the coin!
Or in Spain, where one’s political views, whether Conservative or Liberal can have u executed or sent to a ‚camp‘!! All depended on which side had the manpower and guns on that day and time! It was horrific!
So, it’s not so much the religion itself, but certain leaders who abuse their power!
Agree
Omg .... So regressive,🤔
6:04 wait a minute, there is something about that child
What do you mean?
PA USA
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How heartless divorcing your husband that had a stroke or heart attack had abit of brain damage.He was in there they ask who President he said BiBi she didnt learn him that did she. Sorry your cruel obviously you didnt love him enough.
Leave and never return.
Jeez! Does religion automatically make you a liar? WOW! I can't tell what's true and what's a lie! It's crazy.
You have to admit Jews and Muslims have the most similar culture and belief in every possible way. Like it or not.
A muslim woman can divorce her husband and in most cases he has no say in it. She can even divorce him just for not having emotional connection to him anymore. U dont know what u r talking about. But obviously divorcing ur husband for no valid reason is not encouraged.
This couldn’t be farthest from the Truth. I doubt you have proper knowledge of either to make such a statement. Islam has a lot in common with Christianity; while Judaism is very much unlike any other religion.
well, yes. Islam stole many aspects of the Jewish faith. But, Jews are a people, not a religion. It was antisemitic Christians in Europe who mislabeled Jews as a 'religion.'
@@S.K.S.D No..?
Women strong. We need to stand together…
It’s all bout control absolutely disgusting
Nooooooooo men will ever decide my life unless it's God! Stupiddddd laws!!
God was created by men to control women. The first thing women should do is to get rid of these horrific religions
It's still not right to have a baby from another man while you're married that's adultery then justify a divorce because the husband had character issues. That wife has character issues also. 😒
@angelliving550 - The husband ran way, the divorce had been dragging on for 8 years and, it apparently wasn't even valid by Jewish law. Therefore she wasn't married.
Judaism & Islam are similar in many ways.
Both archaiac as well as Hindu marriage /family matters---
@@soniag4516 what has this to do with Hindus are you hindu
not in this case... Muslim women are allowed marriage even if the husband objects, the court can force a divorce upon him
I dont know what do you mean by similar. But to be specific in the law of marriage muslim women can divorce their husband thru the court.
One of the reason for getting divorce is if the husband fails to support her financially or is in absentia for certain period.
They also think it’s normal to snip the end of a baby boy’s pee pee without anaesthetic. Barbaric.
a divorce is never kosher ! It causes pain and other difficulties !
Yea to males but freedom for women, that’s males don’t like it. Marriage is a social construct
According to Judaism your husband must give you a letter called gaite otherwise you will never get divorced According to Judaism you also know that 😢😮
And they consider themselves open and non-extremist. Where's women's rights in their customs. Same as Islam i guess.
In islam women can divorce her husband.
@@Kzam19-ux8wg I know. But there's still a lot of dark areas similar to Judaism. Most islamic states perverse the Qur'an as they are all dominated by old ideology. But I had a lot of educated Muslim friends at uni who explained divorce in the Qur'an and women's rights. Which a lot of westerners have no clue about.
@@fokthewef did you know that muslim woman can divorce her husband if he failed to provide financial support, in absentia for certain period, abusive, and if im not mistaken sexual obligation ect.
Women can divorce their husbands in Islam. Why do you have to criticize Islam even if the topic has nothing to do with it and even if it’s a lie. A woman can divorce her husband against his will In Islam. It’s not rare either and socially viewed the same as when a men initiates the divorce.
@@ruffruffman1566 go check your facts. Women can divorce their husbands in islam, but go check exactly how this is handled.
These women are so loyal. It makes me want to get married 😅
It seems very misogynistic to me. If this is law in Israel it's an absolute joke.
Kinda of like a large chunk of the rest of the country it seems.
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Why religions are put women in a such a sad position , why religions gave all the power to men why , women are not god child’s 😔
What a load of BS
Why would you get married in the first place if you want out at a later time ! You picked an choose your choice , live up to the responsible , plus listening to other women is in itself ridiculous !
Hebrews 🙄
The language is just 😑 wth!
Dust?