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  • @beanmom0075
    @beanmom0075 3 роки тому +4547

    I haven't heard any of these guys say they feel empathy for their victims. Or admit they hurt them and ruined their lives. All of their focus is on them and how they feel

    • @Trinity2130
      @Trinity2130 3 роки тому +310

      I'm convinced you have to be some type of Sociopath to hurt children.

    • @yamisomad3486
      @yamisomad3486 3 роки тому +173

      Of course. They are heartless monsters.

    • @sela2992
      @sela2992 3 роки тому +105

      Omg I was thinking the same thing ! This is ridiculous,

    • @KingNoah85
      @KingNoah85 3 роки тому +26

      @@Trinity2130 yes you do!!!!!

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 роки тому +20

      exactly

  • @ThatBlasianChick
    @ThatBlasianChick 3 роки тому +3303

    imagine hurting children & thinking you deserve a nice place to live .

    • @kellyv.923
      @kellyv.923 3 роки тому +122

      Even a serial killer wants sympathy/empathy when it’s their turn to experience pain.

    • @kellyv.923
      @kellyv.923 3 роки тому +6

      @Xon Xon right.

    • @cdwalter
      @cdwalter 3 роки тому +92

      The psychology of the abuser is that they do not see themselves as an abuser.

    • @temposhop8739
      @temposhop8739 3 роки тому +35

      @@cdwalter people like that have no internal sense of ethics or moral code. They can excuse any actions of their own against others, but not those of others even when they were provoked.

    • @JMac-27
      @JMac-27 3 роки тому +1

      Or a pat on the back, sicks Fu*ks!!!!!

  • @melh8179
    @melh8179 3 роки тому +5640

    The only people I feel sorry for through all of this, Are the KIDS.

    • @itznoelle9563
      @itznoelle9563 3 роки тому +89

      @Xon Xon this is about people who sexually assaulted kids not adults.

    • @MrJess-el8ku
      @MrJess-el8ku 3 роки тому +69

      Indeed they are the only true victims!

    • @itznoelle9563
      @itznoelle9563 3 роки тому +39

      @Xon Xon are you dumb please tell me?! I never said that this is just for people who sexually assaulted kids moron.

    • @zzgordoxzzgaming4718
      @zzgordoxzzgaming4718 3 роки тому +61

      once a kid been victimized, these predators mentality messed up the kids head and may ended up becoming like the predators themselves, it is why it's important to protect the children because they don't have consent nor know what's right and wrong when being victimized

    • @TMANN-jo1ps
      @TMANN-jo1ps 3 роки тому +4

      Mel H did you graduate from high school back in 2006?

  • @bones6169
    @bones6169 6 місяців тому +599

    Watching that offender give the baby a bath made my skin crawl. My stepdad was my abuser and I full heartedly believe that they DO NOT change.

    • @taliabraver
      @taliabraver 4 місяці тому

      Why are these monsters allowed to live?

    • @giiiddyup
      @giiiddyup 3 місяці тому +24

      No they do not

    • @IEatWhiteTwinks
      @IEatWhiteTwinks 3 місяці тому +9

      Exactly

    • @PneumaNoose
      @PneumaNoose 3 місяці тому +20

      Also, that’s his biological child. Of course he will bathe his own baby. This guy is exactly the type of offender who ends up NOT reoffending. When you have someone who freely admits his crime, does everything required to be in compliance, and accepts ACCOUNTABILITY for he has done… THAT is a person who is ready and capable of change. I’ve worked with THOUSANDS of prisoners, and he is doing everything right. Your opinion that he cannot change has nothing to do with him and everything to do with your own pain. I wish you health and healing.

    • @benfarr409
      @benfarr409 3 місяці тому +5

      They don’t

  • @whyisntefavailable
    @whyisntefavailable 3 роки тому +1825

    Lisa Ling can get ANYONE to talk. She's so warm, kind, and engaging.

    • @liesdamnliesandstatsweird1934
      @liesdamnliesandstatsweird1934 3 роки тому +31

      + Susan Cabins Lisa Ling is GENUINE.👩🏾🙌🏾👏🏾

    • @lisebroder6325
      @lisebroder6325 3 роки тому +42

      I had absolutely no sympathy for these creatures they have any idea what they done to the survivors that now have to live with the trauma of being sexually abused creatures and they're complaining they're lucky they're alive anybody did that to my child I would like nothing better than to kill them I know I wouldn't really kill them my child needs me but the feelings of wanting to kill them and the anger and every human emotion possible. Thank you again Riesling for doing another incredible in-depth human story. And you can't believe anything they say when it comes to their sickness around children just because they're paroled or whatever they don't change they just don't want to get caught again I don't hear as of yet any remorse for me creatures

    • @jesscolliflower5531
      @jesscolliflower5531 3 роки тому +1

      7:30 in I was like randy look like uncle no no.. 8:00 mark ,,, told ya !!!

    • @marcogarza3720
      @marcogarza3720 3 роки тому +2

      Its can she fine 🙂

    • @MsIcollins
      @MsIcollins 3 роки тому

      She has the gift all gifts come with a price bigger the gift bigger the price

  • @bgurley1998
    @bgurley1998 3 роки тому +5470

    Children affected by this type of violence usually face a lifetime of trauma. These offenders need to remain in jail. Children deserve to be protected

    • @blondie9422
      @blondie9422 3 роки тому +100

      Most offenders themselves were touched as kids, it’s a horrible viscous cycle. I think they should be humanely chemically castrated.

    • @ShayonceEpperson90
      @ShayonceEpperson90 3 роки тому +32

      Yess they sure do ..

    • @StevenMichaelCunningham
      @StevenMichaelCunningham 3 роки тому +11

      Violence is violence. Go VEGAN & call it what you wish.

    • @pinkysplawn7453
      @pinkysplawn7453 3 роки тому +62

      bee~Agree🙏 I was that kid ...now 35....pain never goes away...he only got 16 n then been out for years n years

    • @StevenMichaelCunningham
      @StevenMichaelCunningham 3 роки тому +12

      @@pinkysplawn7453 I am a survivor too. All pain heals it is just a matter of sobriety. Referred to as Vegan nowadays. They chose what they chose & are weak due to it as all are THEIR responsibility. 🏋️🧘🤸

  • @empresslika
    @empresslika 3 роки тому +4087

    The fact that Christina rubbed Steve’s back as if he’s the victim after he told what he did is just sick. Prayers for those girls and their mother because I know it hurts her to know she brought that predator into her home.

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 роки тому +93

      yep her kids have all been abused I bet almost instantly

    • @MarshasJourney
      @MarshasJourney 3 роки тому +109

      Smh. I can't believe someone can be that stupid

    • @retrochickt7947
      @retrochickt7947 3 роки тому +285

      My thought exactly. He's not the victim at all!!

    • @elanlloyd1224
      @elanlloyd1224 3 роки тому +167

      sickening

    • @alexlewis8143
      @alexlewis8143 3 роки тому +85

      I feel like she wants him to not shut down and stop talking.

  • @rebeccar7578
    @rebeccar7578 7 місяців тому +502

    1. You cannot have ‘consensual’ sx with a minor 2. He’s not being ‘labeled as a SO, he IS one!

    • @hardcorenativextreme
      @hardcorenativextreme 3 місяці тому +10

      I spoke to a female who lost her virginity at 14 to someone who was 22. She got mad when I said it was statutory grape because she wasn't grape she consented to it. It is not just the perpetrators, sometimes it is the victims who can't comprehend that they are victims because they volunteered.

    • @kitno6415
      @kitno6415 3 місяці тому +16

      @@hardcorenativextreme it doesnt matter what she says. 14 yo can not consent

    • @hardcorenativextreme
      @hardcorenativextreme 3 місяці тому +1

      @@kitno6415 exactly, I kept telling her it is considered statutory under the law but she wouldn't listen.

    • @johnnycage3881
      @johnnycage3881 2 місяці тому

      For the 1st point, neither could teens under 18 "consent" to sx with each other but Americans in their i...di...io..cy, hypocrisy, and evil allow it.

    • @KevinSim-mp1cl
      @KevinSim-mp1cl Місяць тому

      @@hardcorenativextremeYou are a low class, uneducated, ignorant chomp. The videos you post of your “niece,” is super suspicious. And that stupid cholo stance in your pic is so cringey

  • @lalalulu17
    @lalalulu17 3 роки тому +1993

    Christina, even if you killed him if he touched your daughter, there's no erasing the damage that has been done to her. The responsible thing to do is to keep Steve away from your life. Its so infuriating how idiotic she was

    • @StevenMichaelCunningham
      @StevenMichaelCunningham 3 роки тому +14

      Killing or molestation of any sort is perverse, corrupt, criminal...be there law or no law.

    • @sarah.j.777
      @sarah.j.777 3 роки тому +17

      @@StevenMichaelCunningham welp, we know you're a perv

    • @StevenMichaelCunningham
      @StevenMichaelCunningham 3 роки тому +13

      @@sarah.j.777 now get s attorney, psychiatrist & social worker. I am a survivor. Next.

    • @StevenMichaelCunningham
      @StevenMichaelCunningham 3 роки тому +4

      As for those of you insulting each of these people including my SELF it was YOU I made the report concerning & such. Christina...& all as such. Either get help...or wish you did.

    • @beedee778
      @beedee778 3 роки тому +60

      @Lala Lulu... Way too many needy females think that ANY "pair of pants" is better than none! Smdh..

  • @damien1781
    @damien1781 3 роки тому +1058

    I was a victim of a child molester and my biggest regret is never turning him in. Ruined a lot of my life

    • @harikari973
      @harikari973 3 роки тому +82

      I’m sorry this happened but, Don’t feel bad telling doesn’t always lead anything . I told and nothing happened at all life went on as normal. Made me feel like a throw away child

    • @stellamary204
      @stellamary204 3 роки тому +30

      So sorry to hear that. I hope you were able to get some kind of help and your life is getting better❤

    • @deborahanderson5681
      @deborahanderson5681 3 роки тому +25

      Yeah I met a monster when I was 6 … I can relate to what your saying

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 роки тому +25

      you can still tell your story and put them on blast online. it's never too late to report. at least get it on the record. even if nothing is done

    • @tattooboo306
      @tattooboo306 3 роки тому +4

      Ditto

  • @josi4251
    @josi4251 3 роки тому +650

    Lisa Ling is a national treasure. I know she may take some heat when covering this topic, but her reporting shines. She's not glorifying or excusing them, just shining a light on what their lives are like.

    • @stephaniebailey7923
      @stephaniebailey7923 2 роки тому

      RAY LAMONICA/GOVERNMENT OFFICIALS are a BUNCH of SNAKES in BED with the WORST CRIMINALS on earth. I am TARGET everywhere I go because of these officials FALSE DOCUMENTS/WITNESSES ACCUSSATIONS. People are PAID by these officials with INCENTIVES (get out of jail free cards)

  • @EyeofSekhmet
    @EyeofSekhmet 7 місяців тому +404

    Did anyone call Child Protective Services on the mother allowing her 2 daughters around a known abuser of young girls?! How dare they film this and NOT report them.

    • @pkc68
      @pkc68 6 місяців тому +50

      They worry about people like this but our veterans are homeless?

    • @christinamenhennett
      @christinamenhennett 6 місяців тому +31

      ​@@pkc68that's the really sad thing. No veteran should ever be homeless!! They put their lives on the line for us, and then they're left homeless.

    • @tammypatton4182
      @tammypatton4182 6 місяців тому +14

      Unless there is a condition of their conviction to be restricted from ever living with minor children, he can live with them as long as the children aren't making statements of abuse or other corroborating evidence to suggest abuse

    • @its_mallloryyy
      @its_mallloryyy 6 місяців тому +24

      id like to see what ended up happening... this was filmed in 2011

    • @princesssarah1213
      @princesssarah1213 5 місяців тому +1

      37:24 ❤❤

  • @shelbs6910
    @shelbs6910 3 роки тому +1796

    As far as Christina goes.. all I have to say is: every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child. They deserve way better than a mother who is risking their safety for a man! Shame on her!!!!!

    • @melodeelewis462
      @melodeelewis462 3 роки тому +33

      Some parents need mandatory sterilization to prevent them from having children to harm or kill

    • @Aog0613
      @Aog0613 3 роки тому +96

      Right. She is not a mother. How can she even look at him without disgust

    • @evelynhernandez-st6xh
      @evelynhernandez-st6xh 3 роки тому +18

      Period!!

    • @sandraschaffer5891
      @sandraschaffer5891 3 роки тому +70

      You got that right. She is desperate and she'll take any kind of man. I wouldn't be able to look in the mirror and have respect for myself if I let a man like that into my life.

    • @gregdahlen4375
      @gregdahlen4375 3 роки тому +7

      well he did his time

  • @lorenajanet7645
    @lorenajanet7645 3 роки тому +1470

    Oh wow there’s a lot of Christina’s out here and that’s why our babies are being harmed by these animals. Zero sympathy for offenders.

    • @sela2992
      @sela2992 3 роки тому +30

      You are absolutely right !!

    • @Shayne_T
      @Shayne_T 3 роки тому +17

      Agreed. ZERO

    • @neteruhathor
      @neteruhathor 3 роки тому +85

      She was such a sad excuse for a mom! I do feel that she obviously has self esteem and self worth issues, but to put your child in danger with a man, who has basically stated that there is no other reason to do it except opportunity, is negligent!

    • @katerineella274
      @katerineella274 3 роки тому +30

      These mothers are often of subnormal intelligence, drug or alcohol addicts. I'm not excusing them but they are not "the reason" why children are abused. The reason, the responsibility lies with the abuser. They want to be powerful and choose the most vulnerable to act out their sexual desires. The mothers of these children are often victims themselves. A sad, sick situation.

    • @timbawangu3038
      @timbawangu3038 3 роки тому +31

      She's broken too, Christina. She's thinking about herself and how he makes her feel, not the child

  • @koolkidangel18
    @koolkidangel18 3 роки тому +773

    Christina needs therapy for her low self esteem and trauma because theres no way I'm dating a child molester and I have small children. That's pure desperation. That dude was sober the entire year and it would have been longer if the family didn't find out

    • @CrackberryMe
      @CrackberryMe 3 роки тому +16

      Facts

    • @ceciliamorales5302
      @ceciliamorales5302 3 роки тому +17

      Omg yes she needs therapy .

    • @thetruepatriot7733
      @thetruepatriot7733 2 роки тому +26

      She has no right! Its not her life, She has no right to gamble with someone else's life. She has no right to risk her child.

    • @eosohand
      @eosohand 2 роки тому +6

      @@ceciliamorales5302 The way he keeps kissing his son

    • @TeaCup1940
      @TeaCup1940 2 роки тому +1

      @@juliehayden123 At least you try to show her. You did a good thing. But up to her if she does not want to listen.

  • @katiez688
    @katiez688 Рік тому +1224

    That Christina is not “giving him a chance”, she is FORCING her innocent 2 year old child to give him a chance.

    • @queenjanee6290
      @queenjanee6290 Рік тому +52

      I couldn’t have worded it better

    • @brendaford5542
      @brendaford5542 Рік тому

      Any parent having a child molester living in their home with children should be in prison also.

    • @Promise2018
      @Promise2018 7 місяців тому +73

      She is not a mother. That is so sick

    • @dollfactory
      @dollfactory 7 місяців тому +16

      It's scary

    • @lisadann6736
      @lisadann6736 7 місяців тому +33

      Some chances are not worth the risk those poor poor children

  • @boopiedoopie2223
    @boopiedoopie2223 3 роки тому +1771

    I stopped from the moment Ryan’s dad said "they’re trying to destroy my son’s life" while his son destroyed more than 1 kid’s life….. :)))

    • @oaklandmade007
      @oaklandmade007 3 роки тому +101

      @@flippyflip10 man, I wouldn't want him near my babies if they were swimming in a 3 piece suit💯 his dad is an enabler, just making excuses for a monster 👹

    • @MsTishalish
      @MsTishalish 3 роки тому +50

      He is a product of his parenting.

    • @cheriray5818
      @cheriray5818 3 роки тому +5

      What a beautiful little kitten

    • @marilyn3605
      @marilyn3605 3 роки тому +29

      He probably was molested himself,i wouldn’t want him near a kid either 😡

    • @NeganJeff
      @NeganJeff 3 роки тому +13

      Every criminal also. Gang members, drug dealers, burglars, car jackers etc. I was sexually assaulted by a burglar when I was preschool age. Why aren't burglar's required to register!?

  • @CarlyGayJepsen
    @CarlyGayJepsen 3 роки тому +1366

    “Not all of us are bad”
    That’s a lot of nerve for someone who reoffended....

    • @zanek532
      @zanek532 3 роки тому +34

      Well it's true not all offenders are bad! The registry doesn't really protect anyone.

    • @benedictatshibi2266
      @benedictatshibi2266 3 роки тому +107

      The fact that he offender in the first place is bad enough

    • @zanek532
      @zanek532 3 роки тому +26

      @@benedictatshibi2266 no it's not lol, he could've taken a piss outside or something non-violent, the reason the registry exists right now is to make the public feel safer when I'm reality it doesn't! Also you pay tax money on it just to keep it up when it still doesn't protect you, it makes it worse for you! 😉

    • @itznoelle9563
      @itznoelle9563 3 роки тому +44

      @@zanek532 these are only for people who sexually assaulted kids.

    • @brookealyssa5079
      @brookealyssa5079 3 роки тому +17

      @@itznoelle9563 if u piss near a school (can’t recall exact number of ft) within so many ft u can b put on the offender list- doesn’t happen often but legally it exits

  • @merry-lynnallison3002
    @merry-lynnallison3002 3 роки тому +1665

    Being a victim of sexual assault at the age of 8 years of age I still deal with the trauma every single day. I'm 62 years of age and I am still traumatised. Sexual offenders should be charged with murder because they basically kill their victims. Once a child is sexually assaulted their life is over. Keep them all in jail.

    • @mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962
      @mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962 3 роки тому +24

      As much as I agree with this. However we are not god.

    • @cosmicreef5858
      @cosmicreef5858 3 роки тому +56

      Not over fortunately. You can get over it, rebuild your life(just what i am doing).
      But this is definitely does not take away from the fact that sexual abuse is even worse than murder.
      I am 29 years old and was molested by my own half brother when i was 7 and my older cousin when i was 8.
      Top it all of with my father's amotional abuse.
      Fortunately i live my life mostly happily and my recovery is not over. :)
      You will get over it, you are strong, you deserve to be happy.
      Unfortunately a lot of people are not this lucky and ending up taking their own lives because they can not take the pain anymore which is around even after many years.
      I just hope that these parasites(offenders) will finally get what they deserve and spend the rest of their time behind bars.
      They should never be let out.

    • @cosmicreef5858
      @cosmicreef5858 3 роки тому +60

      @@mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962 You do not need to be a god to do your job and protect the innocent

    • @mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962
      @mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962 3 роки тому +8

      @@cosmicreef5858 Define the innocent? As I see it guilt runs the world.

    • @grammichal6759
      @grammichal6759 3 роки тому +8

      @@cosmicreef5858 I think the reference to God is society executing offenders/charging them with murder.

  • @jjoh158
    @jjoh158 6 місяців тому +106

    Christina needs therapy. A man admits he abused children completely sober and she thinks her child is safe.

    • @Western_ENT
      @Western_ENT 5 місяців тому +6

      Sober or not is totally irrelevant! It's a NO, period!

    • @SSathe-dd9lo
      @SSathe-dd9lo 3 місяці тому +1

      I would like to know what happened since this was released over a decade ago. I hope everyone is OK and that these children were not abused.

    • @SSathe-dd9lo
      @SSathe-dd9lo 3 місяці тому

      That should have said, I hope that these partners of these offenders have left them, and these children were never abused by these offenders.

  • @KatetheGreat3689
    @KatetheGreat3689 3 роки тому +935

    He said it himself! The only way to 100000% make sure they don’t reoffend is by *never* letting them out. These sentences are wayyyy too light for the crimes they commit!!

    • @tatianaantonio5366
      @tatianaantonio5366 3 роки тому +2

      Because of Kinsey

    • @jbarahona623
      @jbarahona623 3 роки тому +7

      Executing them would be an act of mercy.

    • @jdub-oh9wy
      @jdub-oh9wy 3 роки тому +16

      They should at the very least stop putting them in protective custody and let them get destroyed by other inmates

    • @faith_e_8739
      @faith_e_8739 3 роки тому +2

      They don't deserve life hear on earth 😡😡

    • @OURWORLD4EVER
      @OURWORLD4EVER 3 роки тому +17

      Just give them the death penalty, save the tax payers dollars

  • @georgiaross6741
    @georgiaross6741 3 роки тому +616

    Steve and Christina's story really troubled me. I felt nervous and physically ill as soon as I saw them bathing their son. I don't understand the law that allows him to be around that child or the fact he can be in the home between 6 am and 10 pm, as if a child wouldn't be abused within those hours. I'm so fearful of how that child's life is going to play out.....

    • @jeremystark3350
      @jeremystark3350 2 роки тому +63

      Yeah this guy will for sure offend again and the child will probably be the victim. Disgusting.

    • @Kam1143
      @Kam1143 2 роки тому +43

      He made it clear that the rules in place will not prevent someone from reoffending again…if they are going to reoffend again they are going to do it. There’s nothing that is going to stop them aside a lifetime in prison.

    • @komuhangirinah2594
      @komuhangirinah2594 2 роки тому +3

      thats true

    • @jasmineparker253
      @jasmineparker253 2 роки тому +42

      I had the local supervisor of CPS tell me that even men who are convicted and go to jail for sexually abusing their own children are often times allowed unsupervised visitation with them after they get out how f****** wrong and sick!!!! Society is going down the toilet.... I think we ALL need to get out and vote and start demanding change, kids depends on us to protect them and we are NOT doing even a remotely good job of that collectively as a whole and it disgusts me

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 2 роки тому +1

      I feel like the women that are with these men Are attracted to abusers because they were abused as girls and or major daddy issues but I heard you attract what's familiar

  • @lisafrass
    @lisafrass 3 роки тому +857

    Classic episode.
    Lisa is one of the BEST investigative/freelance journalists of her time and definitely one of the
    G O A T S .
    I also believe she's super underestimated. There are not many American journalist of color with her type of catalogue. I truly admire her. All her pieces are complete. She always understands the assignment. 🙌🏾

    • @sarahannfisher
      @sarahannfisher 3 роки тому +45

      Totally agree! She treats the subject matter with respect, every interviewee with kindness and courtesy.

    • @freeyremnd312
      @freeyremnd312 3 роки тому +7

      Agreed.

    • @bnhyg150
      @bnhyg150 3 роки тому +18

      She's well spoken and open minded and listens to both sides of the coin.

    • @BB-ts2gu
      @BB-ts2gu 3 роки тому

      G.O.A.T.S.?

    • @maggiee639
      @maggiee639 3 роки тому +3

      @@BB-ts2gu greatest of all time

  • @SamuelStevens-e6o
    @SamuelStevens-e6o 10 місяців тому +104

    As an abused child these men are not pushed into the shadows. They are the frickin shadows

  • @rosesarered2285
    @rosesarered2285 3 роки тому +1786

    The girlfriend just being able to sit and listen when he tells his story is very disturbing...almost on the same level as the offender

  • @MzTwEeT1989
    @MzTwEeT1989 3 роки тому +876

    I can't see how anyone could date or be in a relationship with someone who has harmed a child. The wife 20:15 is just sitting there consoling and rubbing his back as if he did nothing wrong wtf, he ruined the lives of those kids. 😭

    • @sarah.j.777
      @sarah.j.777 3 роки тому +85

      agreed, she's just as evil as he is.

    • @bethanyoneal5789
      @bethanyoneal5789 3 роки тому +91

      Right? The part with their baby made me so uncomfortable. Who’s the say he wouldn’t do anything to kids again?

    • @melodeelewis462
      @melodeelewis462 3 роки тому +21

      Sick , she will help him next time.

    • @jordangryder375
      @jordangryder375 3 роки тому +24

      @@bethanyoneal5789 The way the baby acted when he touched it an the way the baby looked at him. Seemed scared .

    • @thulilenkomo7462
      @thulilenkomo7462 3 роки тому +26

      This chick is sick. 🤮It's actually disgusting.

  • @abbigailstone5235
    @abbigailstone5235 3 роки тому +802

    21:00 please tell me someone called the department of child and family services on that delusional mom who’s willing to sacrifice her child’s safety for her own pathetic and selfish desire to be loved. Oh my god that’s just insane. How disgusting

    • @janayialove4414
      @janayialove4414 3 роки тому +69

      Yes please that woman is out her mind!

    • @supermodelatlanta1354
      @supermodelatlanta1354 3 роки тому +12

      Smh. Karen's sister.

    • @abbigailstone5235
      @abbigailstone5235 3 роки тому +13

      @@supermodelatlanta1354 wait what?

    • @rachelcurtis749
      @rachelcurtis749 3 роки тому +56

      Yes it's sickening!! She's allowing him the opportunity to do the same as he did with the first girlfriend !! It's horrible. God please protect all children from these monsters!

    • @bcvc3365
      @bcvc3365 3 роки тому +86

      I’m wondering why his probation officer is allowing him to be in the same house as her children… shouldn’t that be illegal?

  • @TT_09
    @TT_09 2 роки тому +129

    Ryan had a sense of panic and fear when his foot monitor went off. Ironic. I wonder if he contemplates that same sense of panic, fear, anxiety that all of of his victims live with constantly and forever.

    • @tonyprice2256
      @tonyprice2256 2 роки тому

      His 'victims' were all consensual teens - not 4 year olds. None of his 'victims' had any fear of him.

    • @thewanderingfaith
      @thewanderingfaith Рік тому +5

      Right?!

    • @Western_ENT
      @Western_ENT 5 місяців тому +4

      Right on! They're just putting an act coz they knew this female reporter would love it! 😏

  • @luvdaturtles
    @luvdaturtles 3 роки тому +360

    My abuse started when I was 12 by my dads best friend, when he tried to rape me at 14 is when I finally ran and never let him touch me again. Kept it a secret from everyone and when I was 22 he had a heart attack. I got to be in the hospital room as he came off life support and I watched him slowly die. Best closure ever. Finally came clean about the abuse six years later. My parents were so upset. My mom ripped every photo with him in it out of the frame. Glad I don’t have to see his face when I visit their house anymore.

    • @wezangola8226
      @wezangola8226 3 роки тому +24

      Sorry for what happened to you, you are só strong!
      God bless you ❤️

    • @TeaCup1940
      @TeaCup1940 2 роки тому +2

      Did your parents leave you alone with him or how was he able to abuse you?

    • @SILOPshuvambanerjee
      @SILOPshuvambanerjee 2 роки тому +2

      Stay strong

    • @leavemealone7108
      @leavemealone7108 2 роки тому +3

      I'm sorry you went through that 🙏🏻💖

    • @andrewd4413
      @andrewd4413 2 роки тому

      Did he actually rape you or only attempt to rape you?

  • @abigailsanchez7722
    @abigailsanchez7722 3 роки тому +201

    I was a victim of child sexual abuse from the age of 4 thru 9, and suffered many years after. I have no compassion for these type of people. The devastation and pain that they cause last a lifetime. I’ve never truly felt whole, and normal. I’ve carried the pain and still the remanence of it remained decades later.

    • @papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530
      @papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530 2 роки тому +5

      I was 3 that I remember till 9, who really knows🙅... When it began , it was a teen in family who then taught other boys n I to play house n drive hotwheels all over him n I had to be the mom 👀💭 ... Im 50 this year n my sister came to live with us when i was 9 n it stopped 👏🙌👏❣️.. ya never have closure, or heal, even with therapy n IT SuXx 🙅💭💯❣️... Im sorry anyone had to suffer , hes not the only 1 , yet family thought hes not to be prosecuted cause he was "young" , Ots sickening n i dont talk to any of them n I raised my kids safely without any of them ✌️♥️✌️, closure will be at his death cause God said "Vengeance is mine" , I know he will suffer with the others who did bad things 🙌🏳️🙌❣️... Im so sorry we went thru SA , 1 was charged n got 16 years n lived in segregation cause they tried to kill him when they found out his charges, he pulled all 16 years n has to register, the others try to associate when they see 👀 me out, n I walk on, after i cuss them 💯🙅 talk to me EVER

    • @mauricefuqua1947
      @mauricefuqua1947 2 роки тому +4

      Stay strong 💪

    • @richikneogi1603
      @richikneogi1603 2 роки тому

      Who are "these" people?

    • @connievino4226
      @connievino4226 Рік тому

      I hope peace and joy for you. Easy too say. But I would hope the best for you.

    • @carolannpacificadam1944
      @carolannpacificadam1944 Рік тому +1

      As someone with SA past I have no mercy for them

  • @ladydede88
    @ladydede88 3 роки тому +1209

    I don’t like how this made them look like victims! When they aren’t!

    • @buildingthedream7586
      @buildingthedream7586 3 роки тому +33

      9/10 they are victims. It’s likely been done to them. Definitely no excuse tho.

    • @ladydede88
      @ladydede88 3 роки тому +190

      @@buildingthedream7586 after you induce pain on someone else especially a child you’re no longer a victim but a evil predator.

    • @Theweezle12
      @Theweezle12 3 роки тому +17

      @@buildingthedream7586 please explain

    • @josi4251
      @josi4251 3 роки тому +13

      I have a former student who most likely is. The girl (also a student) was a known liar, and her lies sent him to prison. The kid had promise, and now he's in his late 30's and has a terrible life. The majority of these guys, though? Sure.

    • @brookealyssa5079
      @brookealyssa5079 3 роки тому +6

      @@Theweezle12 we’re all victims of victims -still sad and not good

  • @slkrik31
    @slkrik31 Рік тому +572

    The father at the end of this segment said that they’re trying to destroy his son’s life. No sir, your son destroyed his own life by going after underage girls.

    • @j.l.salayao8055
      @j.l.salayao8055 5 місяців тому +9

      And the life of the victims.

    • @Western_ENT
      @Western_ENT 5 місяців тому +11

      Well, dont you think apples don't fall far from the tree?

    • @mksu2991
      @mksu2991 4 місяці тому +1

      all in perspective

    • @slkrik31
      @slkrik31 4 місяці тому +5

      @@mksu2991 so what are you saying?

    • @nicholasagnew2792
      @nicholasagnew2792 4 місяці тому

      I agree, the guy's IQ is obviously pretty low but that doesn't and shouldn't matter really.

  • @trista_official
    @trista_official 3 роки тому +406

    The way these offenders play the victim and act like something was done TO THEM is sickening

    • @mrtwister9002
      @mrtwister9002 3 роки тому +7

      It's only okay to minimize a certain class of people as subhuman. What's good for the goose isn't good for the gander. Only some are deserving of human compassion. Thank you for the enlightenment oh center of the universe. You're not helping with a solution.

    • @alva7701
      @alva7701 2 роки тому

      Agree, face we see but heart we don't know.

    • @gowdsake7103
      @gowdsake7103 Рік тому +4

      @@mrtwister9002 There is NO solution for them

    • @mrtwister9002
      @mrtwister9002 Рік тому +1

      @@gowdsake7103 Oh mighty keyboard warrior! Righteous and forth right!!

    • @iposttoxicshorts
      @iposttoxicshorts 9 місяців тому

      The lisa woman interviewing them doesn’t help.

  • @MoMo420
    @MoMo420 3 роки тому +342

    Sadly, Christina is a poor excuse for a woman and especially a mother!! It appears she has some major self-esteem issues and insecurities, this young lady needs to seek professional help, not validation from a man. She desperately needs to learn to love herself and build herself up. I have 2 daughter’s (25 & 17) and I still would NEVER put my “needs” first at the expense of their safety and security!!

  • @cranberryjuice8740
    @cranberryjuice8740 2 роки тому +424

    I was molested when I was 4 by a older cousin and the memory is still there and haunts me.... imagine a kid who was older than I was... I in no way feel empathy for these people.

    • @ea3946
      @ea3946 2 роки тому +15

      Yeah. My cousin did that to me at age 8 years old. And it still hurts. But I hope some of these men can change. I don’t know. As a survivor it still hurts me. But my way is just to not have contact ever with him. But I still think they can live their life. But I don’t know. I have mix feelings.

    • @rafaelespinoza6530
      @rafaelespinoza6530 Рік тому +1

      😮😮😮😮😮😮

    • @nickdelaney6953
      @nickdelaney6953 8 місяців тому +5

      This is proof that the registry doesn't or wouldn't work it should be abolished

    • @Hogue7
      @Hogue7 8 місяців тому +1

      God wants Homosexuals to be Prosperous.
      I am not someone to deny what God wants.

    • @AngelTechno
      @AngelTechno 7 місяців тому +3

      @cranberryjuice8740 I'm so sorry you had to experience that..

  • @thealarmclock9307
    @thealarmclock9307 Рік тому +128

    Me me me me , put your OWN KIDS AT RISK because he made her feel good.. ohmygod. I'm beyond pissed

  • @DrTLEvans
    @DrTLEvans 3 роки тому +312

    No ma’am! Say what you want about single parents, my kids came first. After my divorce, I made the decision to raise my children alone in my home. I co-parented with their dad. If I dated, men didn’t come to my house. Some ppl date single parents just for the kids. I couldn’t live with myself if something had happened to them. No man was coming before my babies. What in the world, lady?

    • @cynthiatumwesigye1363
      @cynthiatumwesigye1363 3 роки тому +21

      You’re doing great! We need more mothers like you.

    • @tammygause4651
      @tammygause4651 3 роки тому +10

      A great mom!!!

    • @steavey301
      @steavey301 3 роки тому +9

      I feel you … I was single the entire time I was raising my son

    • @telleroflies4373
      @telleroflies4373 3 роки тому

      Let's be honest you were never married. There was no divorce. You were a single mom hahahahhahahaha

    • @ilismommy
      @ilismommy 3 роки тому +8

      I’ve been single since 2018 and I’ll be damned if I let anyone else in my home. I coparent with my kids dad and that’s it. When he has gfs I tell him you better keep eyes on our kids because you never know! I don’t get women who put a man first.

  • @SwedBaben
    @SwedBaben 3 роки тому +466

    I think Ryan is a high risk of re-offending if he's let out. He doesn't seem to think he done anything wrong

    • @ninisherebaxley7589
      @ninisherebaxley7589 3 роки тому +32

      Exactly. He doesn't realize that what he's forever altered his victims' lives, and not for the better.

    • @SwedBaben
      @SwedBaben 3 роки тому +41

      @@ninisherebaxley7589 and him violating his parole rules on the first day was also kinda telling on his character. It wasn't like he had many rules, don't visit the beach and don't go to your parents house, and he does both in one day yet act like a victim when he was jailed again SMH

    • @ryanlantz8258
      @ryanlantz8258 3 роки тому +35

      He’s the worst one out of all of them. He got out of jail the first time and immediately reoffended. He will reoffend again.

    • @SwedBaben
      @SwedBaben 3 роки тому +2

      @@ryanlantz8258 glad I'm not the only one thinking that is very likely

    • @bassssaasuuuup
      @bassssaasuuuup 3 роки тому +1

      They never do

  • @alyssajade7699
    @alyssajade7699 3 роки тому +739

    Christina puts her hand on his back as if he's the victim.. that is just unreal to me.. and I truly believe her letting him be around her kids is putting them In harm's Way.. complete filth!

    • @brandnew2767
      @brandnew2767 3 роки тому +74

      She completely disgusting right along with him! She put her baby at risk for a man she think “treats her good”

    • @oaklandmade007
      @oaklandmade007 3 роки тому +8

      I agree 💯 percent! Ugh

    • @olenkap9585
      @olenkap9585 3 роки тому +16

      Well he did suffer the consequences of his actions and had a long time to think about it. People can change. one crime doesnt force you to commit crime all your life. She supports him 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @BB-ts2gu
      @BB-ts2gu 3 роки тому +27

      I absolutely agree, Alyssa. It’s so disgusting. He will reoffend again. It’s not a matter of if, but when.

    • @kkw-pal1178
      @kkw-pal1178 3 роки тому +6

      Can you believe that shhh?!!!

  • @kristicollett7887
    @kristicollett7887 Рік тому +92

    I'm near 44 years old... I've lived with the trauma of sexual assault for most of my life, 30 plus years! Screw these nasty people!

    • @d.froggiez369
      @d.froggiez369 6 місяців тому +3

      Same, will turn 44 on may 18th...
      Sending you love & big hugs 🫂💚🫂

    • @ghhjjffghklklkkj
      @ghhjjffghklklkkj 4 місяці тому +1

      Will make loads of prayers for you 💞🙏

    • @marysmith2554
      @marysmith2554 4 місяці тому +1

      60 yrs, here.

    • @kristicollett7887
      @kristicollett7887 4 місяці тому +1

      @@marysmith2554 survivors unite!

    • @marysmith2554
      @marysmith2554 4 місяці тому

      @@kristicollett7887 Yes!!!

  • @mrsdeannawilliams9282
    @mrsdeannawilliams9282 3 роки тому +226

    I don’t feel sorry for these men that hurt children. I’m thinking of all of the severe trauma they’ve caused, all of the lives they’ve shattered , and they don’t deserve to be released into the community.

  • @z.c.m9908
    @z.c.m9908 3 роки тому +290

    I love Lisa's journalist investigations and interviews. She's not afraid to get in the nitty gritty of it. She's always super engaging and doesn't try to make it more dramatic than exactly what it is. Why doesn't she have her own talk/interview show??

    • @davidanthony7935
      @davidanthony7935 3 роки тому +7

      Yep! She is so dam beautiful! ❤️😍

    • @ceceliasheart
      @ceceliasheart 3 роки тому +2

      She’s riding on the backs of CSAS to get views. She’s lost all credibility. This could have been approached with more victim support.

    • @janicepearl7877
      @janicepearl7877 2 роки тому +1

      Thank God it’s not a life sentence for the victims 😏

    • @6ec6YRFPTcC
      @6ec6YRFPTcC 2 роки тому +11

      @@ceceliasheart this wasn't about the victims, it's about what happens to the offenders. Try to keep up

    • @aluraschroeder3588
      @aluraschroeder3588 2 роки тому +1

      Cuz shes better then that. A talk show and damand for content will ruin the genuine journalism

  • @angelicapettinato6469
    @angelicapettinato6469 3 роки тому +166

    No matter the topic of discussion, Lisa Ling always handles herself with such class and grace. She is just great.

    • @patr70
      @patr70 3 роки тому +6

      Yes.. you and her are definately a lot more mature then most of this comment section.

  • @Byeimky
    @Byeimky Рік тому +64

    When one of the women gave her story about her nanny molesting her I really felt that especially with the grooming process. It was always “if you don’t tell I’ll give you candy!” “Let’s go the store for some candy now.” Growing up I felt like it was my fault because I didn’t tell my mom because I was embarrassed and allowed candy to keep me quiet. But I was 5/6. I should never have felt guilty for that being done to me.

    • @Western_ENT
      @Western_ENT 5 місяців тому

      Well, I dont know about you but I'd definitely tell if someone tried to bribe or threatened me AT EVEN 10! I only WOULDN'T tell if I still give people the benefit of the doubt, that they didnt "touch" on purpose. But once they clearly show me their true color, I'd not be afraid to tell on them: if it's not your fault, there's NO REASON to fear or feel ashamed! if people ever have these 2 above feelings, there's definitely something wrong in their home, such as parents' teaching/ignorance..

  • @magnoliax5914
    @magnoliax5914 2 роки тому +847

    "He made me feel like a woman" Disgusting. She puts her needs and feelings first than the reality and safety of her daughter. I'm glad that he accepts his punishment and admits what he has done. Men AND women who are child predators and rapists are disgusting. There is a special place in hell for those.

    • @TheMCNemesisOnAmazonMusic
      @TheMCNemesisOnAmazonMusic 2 роки тому +26

      I agree with this. It's sick

    • @alicennami4692
      @alicennami4692 2 роки тому

      @@TheMCNemesisOnAmazonMusic N I’ll pop lol no I up

    • @kakefyll
      @kakefyll 2 роки тому +55

      Where on earth is CPS, these kids are in danger. That woman is sick

    • @pamelal2063
      @pamelal2063 2 роки тому

      CPS is the largest trafficking organization. Research and you're going to be able to see how screwed up the system is

    • @bubbercakes528
      @bubbercakes528 2 роки тому

      She is deranged! That little girl should be taken from her.

  • @gea8347
    @gea8347 3 роки тому +1832

    I'm so glad that she is willing to endanger her own daughter because he "makes her feel good" 😡😠

    • @stellamary204
      @stellamary204 3 роки тому +504

      Honestly she gives me the vibes of when the daughter grows up and tells her something happened she would blame the daughter for "seducing" him.

    • @gea8347
      @gea8347 3 роки тому +238

      @@stellamary204 she totally does. I deeply fear for those children. The fact that he knew what he was doing, was completely aware every single time he chose to molest those children and still went ahead with it. No sympathy from me. These disgusting vile humans deserve everything they get. I personally believe they should never be released.

    • @stellamary204
      @stellamary204 3 роки тому +27

      @@gea8347 100percent!

    • @kimsalmeron1149
      @kimsalmeron1149 3 роки тому +127

      She doesn't deserve her children.

    • @bnhyg150
      @bnhyg150 3 роки тому +110

      This was 10 years ago wonder is she still with the guy or if he's alive.

  • @sharoncaulder6729
    @sharoncaulder6729 2 роки тому +105

    None of these offenders seem to understand how their actions damage the victims entire lives.

  • @GypsyKhi
    @GypsyKhi 4 місяці тому +19

    And then he giggled about it when he admitted that he was completely sober.

  • @GirlNo111
    @GirlNo111 3 роки тому +627

    Once a predator always a predator. The fact that the 23 year old wife with a young daughter lets him be around her child!!!??? Why would she even want anything to do with him in the first place! I feel sick to my stomach

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 роки тому +63

      clearly she has some trauma surrounding abuse and thinks this is all she deserves.
      all offenders are master manipulators and so hes probably making her feel like she's his entire world and constantly love bombing.

    • @kayjay407
      @kayjay407 3 роки тому +45

      @@pinkpugginz I understand your point. However, no matter what she has endured, it is no excuse for endangering another child! This just perpetuates the cycle! I am a survivor and I WOULD NEVER put another child at risk for my own gratification. When you are a Mother, you sign up to sacrifice your wants for your childs needs! Period.

    • @jeffreylieberman1668
      @jeffreylieberman1668 3 роки тому +4

      You don't seem too bright. So if you stole a candy bar as a kid, or got into a fight, we can use that against you for the rest of your life too right?! Once a thief always a thief, once a bully always a bully, right?! Wait until it's your son or daughter, or your mom or dad that makes a dumb mistake, we'll see how you feel then. The biggest child molesters in this world have been of the Bible believer faith. Fact.

    • @SD_Chosen
      @SD_Chosen 3 роки тому +7

      @@jeffreylieberman1668 God Can Change Anyone if They Repent
      You Are Never Too Far Gone With God
      People Will Never Forgive You, But God Will
      God's Word Is the Only thing that Matters.

    • @jeffreylieberman1668
      @jeffreylieberman1668 3 роки тому +3

      @@SD_Chosen which one? There are literally billions. You're not talking about (Christ) the one that the child molesters pray to, are you?
      Satan has a better place in his kingdom.
      Try that route.

  • @nxnxnx800
    @nxnxnx800 3 роки тому +165

    Lisa Ling deserves the highest of honors for her style of reporting on the most important and controversial topics society faces...she does it with professionalism and grace! I feel she should get the Presidential Medal of Freedom! Adore her!

    • @BS-dq1kz
      @BS-dq1kz 3 роки тому +2

      I agree. She’s wonderful.

    • @brandonlee2604
      @brandonlee2604 3 роки тому +1

      I agree!

    • @juliehayden123
      @juliehayden123 3 роки тому +6

      She did a good job, some people are not happy that she was civil with the offenders, it’s not as if she can do a good interview being hostile. If you see how police officers interview offenders to get the right information it’s the same affect.

  • @maddieb.8514
    @maddieb.8514 3 роки тому +801

    How hilarious Randy talks about drug addicts like they're beneath him.

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 роки тому +160

      hes created drug addicts from abusing them. that's why we have an opioid epidemic. people self medicating from childhood trauma

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 роки тому +21

      @The Thing yep almost all my friends have been abused either as children or adults and a fair amount are using drugs or alcohol to function

    • @RLDacia
      @RLDacia 3 роки тому +10

      Seriously, they only harm themselves not others(if they do harm others especially children then xxxx them too).

    • @jodykurt9935
      @jodykurt9935 3 роки тому +10

      A humongous majority of addicts are addicted to drugs due to the actions of these monsters. I look forward to the day when any person who abuses kids for any reason can be hung from a tree. That day is coming.

    • @jodykurt9935
      @jodykurt9935 3 роки тому

      @The Thing one day they will

  • @kellyrowns4730
    @kellyrowns4730 10 місяців тому +43

    So this is a way that predators can get together, swap stories and plan things in the future. How wonderful. America, you should be so proud of your justice system.

    • @isaiahbarnes5906
      @isaiahbarnes5906 7 місяців тому +1

      You commented 3 months ago, so I'll respond to you. The story that starts at 18:19, how!!! A person that touches a child is bs. Then straight up say it wasn't drugs or alcohol. How is he alive

    • @Sam-gl6fu
      @Sam-gl6fu 5 місяців тому

      I was just thinking that. share houses for pedos with the same desires ? ESPECIALLY with the internet they can exchange vile CP and plan out their next victims.. fking nasty.

    • @Western_ENT
      @Western_ENT 5 місяців тому

      @@isaiahbarnes5906 🤣 in America, telling the truth is more important than being good 🤣 it's the "NEW" kind of "MORAL" for DRUGGIE generations! 🤣

  • @Gigi-ki5su
    @Gigi-ki5su 3 роки тому +323

    6 and 10 year old girls..he needs to be in treatment until he comes up with a clear answer on why??? His girlfriend needs help if she found herself in someone who does not know himself.

    • @sophiademure
      @sophiademure 3 роки тому +58

      Those poor girls :(. That was disturbing to hear. His wife defo needs help if she would trust him around her kids, wtf!

    • @camcam9927
      @camcam9927 3 роки тому +30

      And she has a 2 year old daughter herself

    • @brendad7582
      @brendad7582 3 роки тому +22

      I don’t know why they let him out he still needs to be locked up.

    • @oaklandmade007
      @oaklandmade007 3 роки тому +26

      @@TaylorWilliamsnaturalisttaylor yeh, it takes a special kind of evil to lay down with a demon who has assaulted children, and then have a baby with him😡

    • @Camibug
      @Camibug 3 роки тому +16

      I agree. Especially when he openly stated there was no alcohol or drugs involved. Not that that is an excuse but he was very clear that he was in his right mind.

  • @27too2cool
    @27too2cool 2 роки тому +409

    There’s no cure for pedaphiles, so if they have to stay in the woods, that’s luxury in my eyes. I honestly don’t think that’s far enough away. A mom that will subject her kids to that, knowing what he has done, doesn’t deserve to have her kids.

    • @williambilly3269
      @williambilly3269 2 роки тому +25

      I agree. They shouldn't be allowed to work in Congress either like matt gaetz

    • @sarahlear9438
      @sarahlear9438 2 роки тому

      she dont deserve to has kids be called mom or has the honor of being a mom child protective services should be notified the child should be removed from her custody both should be sterilised to prevent future children to be born pedos should has they genitals disabled

    • @coffeecrimegal5968
      @coffeecrimegal5968 2 роки тому +10

      I honestly don’t know or understand why any mother would take a chance like that with her children?? To me that’s putting your needs ahead of your childrens and you gave up the right to be frivolous when you become a parent!

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 2 роки тому

      It doesn't keep anyone safe though

    • @TheKaidynB
      @TheKaidynB 2 роки тому

      There’s no cure now but I bet there’s one out there. I want to find it.

  • @Sshazex
    @Sshazex 3 роки тому +478

    41 taking to a girl that just turned 18? Yeah you’re a danger.

    • @proudmarinemomma827
      @proudmarinemomma827 3 роки тому +64

      These men want arm candy and young girls. It’s totally gross. I wish I could keep those young girls from going with these older men. The whole sugar baby thing is awful.

    • @dall9329
      @dall9329 3 роки тому +20

      Lori don't blame men for being with young girl 18 ,19,20... most of the times these girls just want older men . Look at trump

    • @proudmarinemomma827
      @proudmarinemomma827 3 роки тому +12

      @@dall9329 sorry if I didn’t add more to my comment. You are also correct. These young women are sometimes looking for that sugar daddy too. It happens a lot in fact. I’m not for that either. I guess I’m more old school in my thinking 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @TheSterlingArcher16
      @TheSterlingArcher16 3 роки тому +8

      Men are & will always be attracted to young, attractive (aka fertile) women. Whether viewed as gross or not that’s basic human sexuality… and if the person is 18 it’s legal for better or for worse. The real monsters are the people abusing innocent children.

    • @joygernautm6641
      @joygernautm6641 3 роки тому +19

      @@dall9329 they don’t want older men, they want older man money. Don’t get it twisted.

  • @kristindanger6853
    @kristindanger6853 6 місяців тому +20

    My side will always align to the victim because the PTSD, anxiety and countless other things the victims go through is a prison too....sometimes for life

    • @Western_ENT
      @Western_ENT 5 місяців тому +1

      I mean, why align to the predators at all?? The ONLY reason i could find is becoz such one is the SAME KIND AS THESE PREDATORS! 😏

  • @Josh-md1yi
    @Josh-md1yi 3 роки тому +875

    If a dog attacks a child then it's put down, that's what needs to happen to these child predators!!

    • @flower5396
      @flower5396 3 роки тому +72

      Right! The thing is that the dog doesn't know what it's doing, it's an innocent being, perhaps dangerous but innocent. These men know exactly that they did.

    • @OURWORLD4EVER
      @OURWORLD4EVER 3 роки тому +31

      Exactly, no re offenders that way

    • @primeleverage2266
      @primeleverage2266 3 роки тому +20

      It is that simple brother

    • @primeleverage2266
      @primeleverage2266 3 роки тому +12

      Kill them

    • @natnailsit
      @natnailsit 3 роки тому +20

      💯✊🏾 FACTSSSSS

  • @ZOE_NtombiYaseMancwabeni
    @ZOE_NtombiYaseMancwabeni 3 роки тому +1033

    Let's make it clear. OFFENDERS are NOT VICTIMS.🙄

    • @mike-cs4pv
      @mike-cs4pv 3 роки тому +18

      Unless she's a woman

    • @anavaldez2432
      @anavaldez2432 3 роки тому +9

      Period!!!!

    • @cosmicreef5858
      @cosmicreef5858 3 роки тому +5

      Say it louder.

    • @rosaf4661
      @rosaf4661 3 роки тому

      Seriously

    • @Chickmamapalletfarm
      @Chickmamapalletfarm 3 роки тому +26

      Not all victims will be offenders, but Almost all offenders were victims. That is just the way this horrific cycle goes.

  • @crease142
    @crease142 3 роки тому +442

    If I ever, EVER heard a child molester refer to himself as having “made a mistake” I don’t think I’d be able to hold myself back. It’s vile

    • @PraveenSrJ01
      @PraveenSrJ01 3 роки тому +22

      Many did just make a mistake and deserve a second chance but the ones who go on to reoffend don’t deserve a second chance and are the evil ones.

    • @maam-yj8ph
      @maam-yj8ph 3 роки тому +12

      I think it's harder to decide the punishment when the offender is a child themselves (maybe until age 18). Ages 18 - 26 is a transition period to adulthood and a peak period for athletic ability; if an offender has little to no control over their impulses and emotions, great harm can be done. I think that a 10 - 20 year sentence with therapy, job training, educational options, and community service (supervised) for the younger offenders can hopefully give enough time to see if these individuals are safe enough to be released from prison.

    • @dianabeurman364
      @dianabeurman364 2 роки тому +3

      I'm with you

    • @deku3i
      @deku3i 2 роки тому +49

      @@PraveenSrJ01 Molesting a child is not a mistake, it’s a conscious choice.

    • @12yearssober
      @12yearssober 2 роки тому +2

      Even if it was a woman?

  • @arfriedman4577
    @arfriedman4577 2 роки тому +26

    I love Lisa lings reporting. I remember when this was on tv years ago.

    • @tatianagranger2427
      @tatianagranger2427 6 місяців тому +2

      Channel One! I remember too! She’s great!

    • @arfriedman4577
      @arfriedman4577 6 місяців тому +2

      @@tatianagranger2427 it was a regular TV station, then maybe Oprah own.

  • @imastatistic8347
    @imastatistic8347 3 роки тому +154

    I was a nanny for three years and the fact someone can come into someone else home and do THAT to children who the are paid to care for sickens me.

  • @kathiedavis7827
    @kathiedavis7827 2 роки тому +113

    My daughter was sexually assaulted by a family friend of 19 years. When I found out I had him arrested and he went to prison for 5 years. My daughter is grown now and she with life sentence even with years of counseling she had never gotten over this . When I saw that mother allow her husband to bathe that baby I almost threw up what the hell is the matter with her !! With a 2 year old and a baby there with him his just Asking for her children to be abused! Does she need to be with a man so desperately that she hands her children over to have their lives destroyed. The authorities should take her kids away if she chooses to stay with this guy.

    • @ncmariofan3605
      @ncmariofan3605 2 роки тому

      That filthy rat got off the hook. Had be been caught smoking pot, he'd never see the sun, ever

    • @boogitybear2283
      @boogitybear2283 2 роки тому

      Shows how women have the worst taste in men I’ve ever seen. They really do.

    • @slconley
      @slconley Рік тому +10

      I think it’s terrifying that he has access to a 2 year old and a baby.

    • @שגרירותאוזבקיסטןבישראל
      @שגרירותאוזבקיסטןבישראל 10 місяців тому +5

      Your a good mom, I'm sorry it happened to you❤

    • @nickdelaney6953
      @nickdelaney6953 8 місяців тому

      ​@@שגרירותאוזבקיסטןבישראלhow do you know she's a good mom

  • @lynnetteturner
    @lynnetteturner 3 роки тому +443

    Ryan spends 7 YEARS in prison and 3 WEEKS before his release date he finally realises he has a problem, yeah I'm not buying it!

    • @j.aimebb
      @j.aimebb 3 роки тому +55

      The sparkle in his eye when he talks about the other specific offences being worse… 😬

    • @ladydede88
      @ladydede88 3 роки тому +41

      He said it was an addiction so he may definitely re offend

    • @lynnemelanson6186
      @lynnemelanson6186 3 роки тому

      👿👿👿👿👿👿👿

    • @byleethomas3190
      @byleethomas3190 3 роки тому +1

      He won't re offend the rate is so low

    • @georgiabulldog7671
      @georgiabulldog7671 3 роки тому +13

      @@byleethomas3190 wrong. He already re-offended before

  • @mystiquetreasures663
    @mystiquetreasures663 2 роки тому +29

    These kind of people should never be out.

  • @claudsintheskyy2898
    @claudsintheskyy2898 2 роки тому +905

    Cristina has a 2 year old kid and is willing to be with a man who ADMITS that he molested his ex gf's kids for over a year, that is DISGUSTING, SELFISH and WRONG! I really hope and pray he does not lay hands on her child. Shame on her for even putting her kid in a possibility like that.

    • @tonyprice2256
      @tonyprice2256 2 роки тому +88

      She is not very bright, is she?

    • @icant_thinkkk9320
      @icant_thinkkk9320 7 місяців тому +52

      exactly what i was gonna say. She says she’s been with bad men, just because he’s nice to you you’re gonna take the chance of him touching your children? I think not!

    • @Mmm...yummymummy
      @Mmm...yummymummy 6 місяців тому +18

      She had a kid with him too.
      It seems encouraging to me he is honest about it. I think there is gioe for that one if kept out of dangerous situations,like sleeping at her house

    • @hasanmuhammad3916
      @hasanmuhammad3916 6 місяців тому +3

      Ryan was camping out by somebody house pitch the tent 🎪😮

    • @NicOoG-im2yg
      @NicOoG-im2yg 6 місяців тому +37

      ​@@icant_thinkkk9320Of course hes going to try and win her over and prove his trust duhhh these men target single women with kids ..helloooo... so they can get to them

  • @breannenyquist
    @breannenyquist 3 роки тому +218

    These men act like they are innocent

  • @jojom6657
    @jojom6657 3 роки тому +87

    Ryan, 7 years in jail..."I realized 3 weeks ago that I have a problem"👀

  • @MeganES
    @MeganES 2 роки тому +36

    I don’t feel bad for them, they made vile decisions and now there is consequences.

  • @melmc3913
    @melmc3913 3 роки тому +123

    Woah!!! Christina definitely needs help!
    Oh man, this is so heartbreaking.
    As a woman who was molested by my mother's boyfriend turned husband it absolutely breaks my heart to know a woman would allow a man with a molestation charge into her child's life. So damn sad!!!

    • @katierojas8066
      @katierojas8066 11 місяців тому

      Yeah she’s in denial and super naive and trusting. Her receiving a man’s attention is more important than her children’s safety.

  • @moniquew3603
    @moniquew3603 3 роки тому +126

    Honestly, if my husband and I separate/divorce I will be single until my children are 18+... I would not be able to forgive myself if I brought a monster into my home to abuse my children. No thank you! Prayers for all the children, I hope they get the healing they deserve.

    • @kevinrogers4747
      @kevinrogers4747 2 роки тому +2

      p.s try not to let him know that !

    • @Redsoxman9991
      @Redsoxman9991 Рік тому +1

      Well that sounds kind of extreme lol. Are grandfathers or uncles banned from the house too?

    • @amysho2192
      @amysho2192 7 місяців тому

      Yup. I am a single mom and it is my worst fear. I am SUPER cautious and untrusting. If a guy shows any hint of being sketchy...bye! And when she was little and couldn't communicate well, I never let a man around her without me. Even at her preschool, I asked if men were allowed to work there. They said yes, but there were currently no male teachers. I was so happy.
      When she went to grade school, I'd ask her every few weeks if any guy has touched her or made her uncomfortable. She KNEW what was right and wrong. Now she is 12...she has been homeschooled since 3rd grade. I am SO happy she doesn't go to school. A male teacher SA'd some girl students here a few years back. And he got caught. Imagine all that don't get caught! 😢 Also at the preschool here, there was a male advocate working there who raped a little girl when they were alone in his office. It's awful. I don't ever want to put her at risk. It's scary you never know who the monsters are til it's too late.
      Could be your friendly, wholesome neighbor. Could be your church's beloved pastor. Could be the maintenance man. Could be your uncle. Could even be the babysitter who is taking videos of the child for her boyfriend. You never know.
      I worked at a preschool once and I was helping change a little girl into her bathing suit for water play. We were in the bathroom and there were no cameras in sight. Once the girl got out of her clothes, she looked sadly at me and asked, "Please don't take videos of me." I thought I misheard her so I asked what she said and she repeated the same phrase. I told her I wasn't going to. I reported it to my supervisor (there were other signs if abuse too and they had been in foster care before). So sad.

    • @Saftey1992
      @Saftey1992 4 місяці тому

      My neighbour across the street has a young daughter and she has a new bf every month. Always moves her in with them. I fear for her child but she doesn’t care. She is selfish. She can’t survive without having a bf and doesnt focus on her kid. I want to take her kid in so badly but she thinks she’s a good mother.

  • @soybigpapi
    @soybigpapi 3 роки тому +238

    “Keeping is in prison for the rest of our lives is the only way to make sure we don’t reoffend” yes, so go back to prison.

    • @sarah.j.777
      @sarah.j.777 3 роки тому +12

      or DIE. we should just murder all these dirtbags, not pay to feed & house them. or send them to an island where they work in manufacturing for FREE.

    • @mike-cs4pv
      @mike-cs4pv 3 роки тому +5

      That statement applies to all criminals

    • @moviesjean23
      @moviesjean23 3 роки тому +1

      Prison is expensive

    • @soybigpapi
      @soybigpapi 3 роки тому

      @@moviesjean23 I agree but so is therapy.

  • @m.s.3798
    @m.s.3798 Рік тому +53

    This is NOT a victimless crime

  • @aggness860
    @aggness860 3 роки тому +67

    He destroyed two children's lives forever and she says she trusts this monster? No, it's just a matter of time before he gets his claws in your child. He wasnt even apologetic for what he did!!! Wheres CPS????

  • @kirsikka1029
    @kirsikka1029 3 роки тому +317

    Why is castration not a requirement & a penalty? People don't have any problem wanting to control women's bodies.

    • @INFJ2
      @INFJ2 3 роки тому +16

      Bc u can't stop hands and a tongue

    • @claudiar3553
      @claudiar3553 3 роки тому +35

      Chemical castration could be a contribution to the solution (with therapie etc), it loweres the desires and they become impotent, Androcur its called and as a psychiatric nurse i had patients who got it per injection once per 4 weeks.

    • @kirsikka1029
      @kirsikka1029 3 роки тому +2

      @@INFJ2 it's to reduce the testosterone & hormones = like the same side effects animals get! Kind on one more layer of protection. At least there would be no "GUESSING" WHO WAS AT THE LEVEL OF OFFENDING CUASE THEY GOT NO BALLS!

    • @kirsikka1029
      @kirsikka1029 3 роки тому +34

      @@claudiar3553 just cut them off! Why are Men's Genitalia in such high regard and women have to beg for their Uterus to have respect & not controlled by the government

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 роки тому +13

      chemical castration doesn't work. sexual abuse is about power and control. even if they had no limbs they would still abuse kids.

  • @coryvernon123
    @coryvernon123 2 роки тому +248

    Ryan is the most likely to repeat a crime against children. He smiles and grins throughout the interview like he can't wait to meet another young girl.

    • @iposttoxicshorts
      @iposttoxicshorts 9 місяців тому +18

      Thats why his PO put him back

    • @erinjaynes
      @erinjaynes 7 місяців тому +22

      Ryan doesn’t listen. Ryan thinks he’s above the law. Ryan doesn’t take accountability. Don’t be a Ryan.

    • @edrefeen4006
      @edrefeen4006 5 місяців тому +8

      Ryan is dangerous and needs to be held accountable for his actions

    • @Elizabeth-mf3dn
      @Elizabeth-mf3dn 4 місяці тому +3

      Yes he’s creepy af

  • @paulinekamau9633
    @paulinekamau9633 7 місяців тому +27

    Why are these people out of jail 😡. They should be jailed for 40 years plus

  • @jodidemay5521
    @jodidemay5521 2 роки тому +69

    I love how Lisa can interview these monsters without lashing out.. she has more patience than I do.. these offenders need to be in prison for the rest of their lives

  • @aphiwemagaya3279
    @aphiwemagaya3279 3 роки тому +179

    10 months in jail? That's a pathetic sentence,it's really sad how the justice system fails people!

    • @mrtwister9002
      @mrtwister9002 3 роки тому +4

      And will most likely not reoffend. The longer they stay clean, the more apt they are to stay clean.

    • @jmfia2391
      @jmfia2391 Рік тому +2

      @@mrtwister9002 bs

  • @missdaydreamss
    @missdaydreamss 3 роки тому +561

    Honestly, sexual abuse should be taught in school, starting as kindergarten.

    • @cdwalter
      @cdwalter 3 роки тому +40

      Agreed! My mom investigated it for her job and told me what to look for. I told her and she didn’t turn in my cousin! I was 5!

    • @GbrJose
      @GbrJose 3 роки тому +9

      Not unless you want to deal with entitled parents and parents who are in control of higher power

    • @bjkeene1114
      @bjkeene1114 3 роки тому +39

      Awareness should be taught. Children sometimes don't know that adults are turned on by them. They should be warned at school if not at home. Parents must agree to this instruction.

    • @grammichal6759
      @grammichal6759 3 роки тому +33

      @@bjkeene1114 SAFE touch can be taught.. “No one should touch where your bathing suit covers.” They don’t need to hear about the negative part at that age… Specific crimes. Teach from a positive point of view.

    • @bjkeene1114
      @bjkeene1114 3 роки тому +4

      @@grammichal6759 agreed

  • @brendaford5542
    @brendaford5542 Рік тому +130

    Any child molester deserves a standard death sentence. Worst crime a human being can commit, yet they get the lightest sentences.

  • @raycheldiaz874
    @raycheldiaz874 2 роки тому +190

    Long haired men scare me because of the man that hurt me. I’m 35 and still am traumatized and hurt by this. I shelter my daughter because of what happened when I was 5 from my aunts boyfriend and it keeps me from being open intimately. It NEVER goes away and if you could hurt a child, you could do anything 🥺

    • @izzycarts
      @izzycarts 2 роки тому +12

      Stay strong

    • @dennaecephus3447
      @dennaecephus3447 2 роки тому +15

      Remember YOU did nothing wrong the blame is the offenders....

    • @sarcasticallyrearranged
      @sarcasticallyrearranged Рік тому +2

      I'm sorry for what happened to you and I hope that you received the necessary therapy so it doesn't affect your relationship with your daughter.

    • @carolannpacificadam1944
      @carolannpacificadam1944 Рік тому +1

      There is a different way to live with trauma
      I know I have a SA background ( my sibling molested me)
      I have been in cognitive therapy. It's really good 👍

    • @Bobbyjhoson
      @Bobbyjhoson 11 місяців тому +1

      I don't know wat would make a guy abuse a child like that that is a monster

  • @joelleyaghi1658
    @joelleyaghi1658 3 роки тому +125

    Loved the initiative to go to schools and teach kids about protecting themselves and be more aware of danger.

    • @flower5396
      @flower5396 3 роки тому +3

      Exactly. Because the system let these dogs out.

  • @GodBlessedThisBod
    @GodBlessedThisBod 3 роки тому +149

    23 years old and says “ I’ve been with a bunch of bad guys… and this one makes me feel like a person.” But he lives like an animal and you let him around your kid. So sick.

    • @dianabeurman364
      @dianabeurman364 2 роки тому +16

      These guys are master manipulators!

    • @Shycrochetqueen
      @Shycrochetqueen 2 роки тому +2

      Just be honest look at her like really look

    • @yart-o5x
      @yart-o5x Рік тому +1

      Literally one of The dumbest statement I ever heard

    • @GodBlessedThisBod
      @GodBlessedThisBod Рік тому +1

      @@dianabeurman364 while I know manipulation is very really…. This is flat out stupid

  • @greenthumb8170
    @greenthumb8170 2 роки тому +8

    What I can't seem to comprehend is that many offenders have a genuine physical and/or emotional attraction to young people.

    • @Western_ENT
      @Western_ENT 5 місяців тому

      Whatt?? You meant YOUNG PEOPLE, or KIDS?

    • @maryfreebed9886
      @maryfreebed9886 2 місяці тому

      The wires in their brains are crossed in such a way that the exact same cues which make a normal person only want to nurture and protect a kid instead make them sexually desire them. The unfortunate part is that this is deeply ingrained and like sexual orientation in general, it cannot be altered by any means. This is of course not to excuse them, but rather to drive home the reality that rehabilitation isn't possible and they must be confined or otherwise disposed of to keep them from doing more of the same. They are born either to be miserable or to inflict misery on others, full stop, and are an extremely good argument against the existence of an all-powerful and all-loving God.

  • @anthonyp6755
    @anthonyp6755 3 роки тому +255

    No sympathy for Ryan, he’s the type ppl should fear the most! His father should be more bitter toward his own son’s choices!

  • @Mrs_Kay-u7q
    @Mrs_Kay-u7q 3 роки тому +257

    Felt so uncomfortable when they were bathing the baby and when he was holding her 😩😩 Steve doesn't even seem to trust himself not to reoffend.

  • @Sarah-ty5ev
    @Sarah-ty5ev 3 роки тому +207

    This makes me feel sick. Those children got a life sentence. They are going to have to live with the trauma for the rest of their lives. Sorry but I really don’t have much sympathy for people who hurt children.

    • @sarahtonin4727
      @sarahtonin4727 3 роки тому +5

      No need to be sorry for fighting for our forgotten victims. We get less help and rights than those vile experiments of "humans". I work with people affected by monsters. Hard to get them off the street if not even getting them a warm plate of food. But a disgusting excuse of a person? Living the life with more support 🤮🤮🤢🤢

    • @mike-cs4pv
      @mike-cs4pv 3 роки тому

      @@sarahtonin4727 Women who murder they unborn children are monsters also, right?

    • @sarahtonin4727
      @sarahtonin4727 3 роки тому

      @@mike-cs4pv nah

  • @IamSnowRed
    @IamSnowRed 9 місяців тому +17

    They had a chance to live in society normally. They messed it up for themselves 💯 I dont feel bad for any of them

  • @Shante-330
    @Shante-330 3 роки тому +106

    Taking a child’s innocence and taking someone’s life is the same in my book and both murderers and pedo’s need to do life under the jail.

  • @Camibug
    @Camibug 3 роки тому +231

    Ryan couldn’t follow the most basic of rules set before him for 24 hours. Don’t go to your parents home until you’ve been approved by parole and don’t go to the beach. If he can’t follow basic rules for 24 hours, can he be trusted long term?
    The fact that he blames the system for him ignoring the rules shows he is quick to shift blame instead of taking responsibility. They have to be strict with offenders like him. There are children on the line.

  • @staceyraymond7526
    @staceyraymond7526 3 роки тому +80

    Ryan should stay in jail. He crying about he doesnt know why they would send him back. "What did they expect he wouldnt go visit his family?." Well ryan u were told not to go to your parents house or places like the beach but yet you still went. You cant even follow simple rules. This is the kind of guy who doesnt see anything wrong with what hes done. Hes already been charged and convicted of assaulting 3 kids. He should be serving life!!!!! Lock them ALL up forever!!

  • @scottsent8120
    @scottsent8120 Рік тому +55

    Yet there is no "violent offender" registry. A murderer or two (or more) could be living in your neighborhood.

    • @dangannon9970
      @dangannon9970 Рік тому +6

      Certain states like IL have registry’s for murderers. There’s also states that keeps data based on violent gun offenders/gang members. Some states use that as an enhancement like CA or IL NY FL.

    • @scottsent8120
      @scottsent8120 Рік тому +10

      @@dangannon9970 Thanks. When they start notifying us when a convicted violent offender moves into our neighborhood, in all 50 states, maybe I'll take it seriously.

    • @videoorgy
      @videoorgy 5 місяців тому +1

      And there shouldn't be one either.

    • @loudestloud1834
      @loudestloud1834 3 місяці тому

      ​@@videoorgy dafuq!?!

    • @videoorgy
      @videoorgy 3 місяці тому

      @@loudestloud1834 Indeed

  • @JM33444
    @JM33444 3 роки тому +341

    That dude took a big gulp when she said yeah I trust him with my kid she's crazy

    • @rainsara2795
      @rainsara2795 3 роки тому +13

      Agreed

    • @reesejordan8953
      @reesejordan8953 3 роки тому +82

      He looked shocked his damn self

    • @act4666
      @act4666 3 роки тому +40

      And she barely looked at Lisa. A sign she doesn’t like talking about this.

    • @CrimeTeaTime
      @CrimeTeaTime 3 роки тому +66

      Some one needs to check on that poor baby

    • @act4666
      @act4666 3 роки тому +21

      @@CrimeTeaTime oh I’ll guess the police did after this episode aired. Always liked Lisa Ling

  • @debbiecrawshaw8722
    @debbiecrawshaw8722 3 роки тому +120

    This lady is stupid for allowing him around her child! How can you be that desperate for a man that you would choose a known offender? Plus, risk your child's well-being.

  • @dominiquedominiquepresents3291
    @dominiquedominiquepresents3291 3 роки тому +54

    I pray every victim is liberated from gruesome circumstances 🙏🏾 May god rebuke their Demons

  • @JigglyPuff777
    @JigglyPuff777 9 місяців тому +35

    The guy that's in real estate finding them a home looks just as disgusting and creepy , as they are profiting off of putting these creatures in our areas with our vulnerable innocent children

  • @terryhart4090
    @terryhart4090 3 роки тому +17

    I have to admit, I started watching these episodes because I think Lisa Ling is AMAZING, however, now I can't get enough of her in depth thoroughly researched topics! Challenging, and so well done. Thank you Lisa Ling!

  • @wereskikate5259
    @wereskikate5259 3 роки тому +71

    I wish Lisa would do a "where are they now"follow up
    I would like to see how many went back to prison due to re offending.that is the only way we can tell if they can be safe in society

  • @nikkivamosh3221
    @nikkivamosh3221 3 роки тому +138

    These predators deserve zero sympathy. Every one of them has created so much trauma in their victims. Their victims are sentenced to a lifetime of severe drug abuse and suicide. These men and drug dealers should literally be the ones in jail. They cause destruction and devastation.

    • @rachelkania5833
      @rachelkania5833 3 роки тому +4

      Omg this comment!! Yes! 🙌 I couldn’t agree more. Predators and drug dealers kill people. And for the ones they don’t kill, they still kill their souls. They need to be locked up.

    • @SophisticatedDogCat
      @SophisticatedDogCat 3 роки тому +4

      You literally don’t know that. There are people on the registry who were 18 and slept with their 16 year old high school sweethearts. Kids these days are hoeing themselves out all over TikTok and Snapchat. You really think their lives are “rUiNeD”?

  • @austinballard6815
    @austinballard6815 5 місяців тому +11

    This was made back in 2011...it would be great to see a followup on the people featured in this. I wonder how Steve and Christina his wife made it in these intervening 12-13 years? I wonder what the legal reoffending rate is for these men generally?