Those are both great! I'd probably take the historical route as well. Princesses were married off to men like twice their age for political gain, right? So, that's what the lady in the post wants? Lmao.
Ladies, men. If you think that "love" is shown by drama, by being beaten by your spouse, get help. Seriously. Get help. That is insanely unhealthy. That. Is. Not. Love.
My wife's been in jail for the past 6 months, third time arrested in the span of a year, she's not mentally well n I dunno exactly whats wrong or how to start getting it fixed, out of my hands at this point n just hope somehow the fact she failed court competency will bring some results as they attempt to restore her competency, cus at this point from what I've heard from her family elsewhere she called, she's hallucinating on a hair trigger thinking her brother all the way on the other side of the country is somehow there at the jail for some inexplicable reason, some time before she'd told me she saw me riding away on a 4 wheeler with some girl, I video called her as I was walking home from work while carting gardening supplies in a stroller, I'm like "how tf do you think I could be in two places at once?" But then it's like she simply falls back to some other mind frame only to bring it up again later, disregarding the fact.
Yikes. I know it doesn't mean a whole lot from some stranger on the internet but I hope things get better for you mean. That's gotta be rough, trying to handle all that and take care of a family at the same time. Props to you for managing thus far.
@@wingedlightsss thx, got my gardening on, seed starting n that's helping keep me focused. Nothing worse than not having anything to do n being too depressed to want to do anything.
"if a guy doesn't beat u than he doesn't love you" .... ... ... oh my God... What is wrong with some people out there... ain't no way anyone would purposefully go out of their way to create drama... Can't wait for her to be single in her early 40s and realize what a mistake she thought that way and likely lost this good dude with her stupidity.
Agreed. He seems like the perfect man. I mean idrc if a man spoils me ahha but never cheats? Always loving, he'll apologizes when hes wrong or maybe hes not wrong but he doesnt want more fighting! I mean I already have my perfect man tbh but theres not many guys like mine or hers, and shes trying to throw hers away. Lawd.
Sadly I have SOME experience with this.... O_o And yea, nah. If someone tries to get me to fight them simply for the sake that I'm right and I'm strong in my convictions despite being falsely accused.... fighting isn't going to make me any more or less right and would only prove that I can't handle someone not believing me, as if hurting someone is going to make them believe you....? Smh, yeah its part of a mental illness straight forward
Fun fact, the spell involving two candles and twine is a cord-cutting spell, the goal of which is to cut them completely out of your life and release any emotional attachment to them. Good luck trying to bring someone back with that one.
It really boggles my mind how some people (of both sexes) don't realise that people tend to want to date others with similar interests. Attraction level definitely is a big factor, but most people don't want a relationship with someone if they have nothing in common.
For real, I thought it was just me who thought like this. This is exactly why many “beautiful” people are married with “ugly” people and people act like thats not how it works.
@@ChillyUltraKillprobably yeah? Maybe not terraria as that’s very specific, maybe liking the same genre of games as you? Two people having ADHD could be probable, they relate to each other’s problems so they can help each other 👍
Well done on the insight and restraint on the one girls post you saw trauma in. Its easy to be cruel to text from a distance and equally hard to choose compassion.
I dated a girl similar to that a long time ago. She would constantly create drama to get a rise out of me. When that didn't work, she cheated on me. I knew she had trauma in her past, but I didn't understand the connection. I was very young and naive.
people that want to be treated as "princesses" need to read up on history, could kidnap her for land, or money, or to maintain peace between our two countries.
While political marriages did happen on occasion it's more common for princesses or nobles to marry in their own region/country. Political marriages weren't that common they just get the attention like most rare things do.
And that hapsbug dude also kind of have to be a nobleman with a great swath of land and political hold. I don't think they will be all that worse off in the end. Princesses in that time were not all kidnapped or ransomed or had drastically bad married life, for the time period. Arranged marriages were normal for them, it was also kind of something they expected to happen. I dont think the present day gold diggers and such would be too opposed to be married to a nobleman or equal tbh. It was a much easier life, than say, a villagewoman born to a family of freemen, free to marry around. Both might have their perks, but given the choice most commoners would have probably chosen to be a princess than vice versa.
I really want to see how chaotic a group of nicegirls and niceguys would be if they all were interacting with each other. I would bet it would be complete and utter chaos.
I have a theory that niceguys and nicegirls are the only ones right for each other because they’re the only ones who understand each other. Same with pick me boys and pick me girls.
I never did understand not liking shorter men - dated everything from 5'2, to 6'5, and frankly, once you're horizontal, it doesn't make much difference. Personality is far more important! And I really love that it's always the girls who could be stand ins for Keebler Elves that are doing the most whining about a guy's height 😂
It's partially because of gender norms and social status stuff in my opinion. Like, there are women who are attracted towards a dude's height as a status symbol similar to how dudes will sometimes be attracted to a conventionally attractive woman as a status symbol. This isn't always the case, but it does happen and some don't even realize they're not physically attracted to such attributes and are instead only attracted to the social status it brings. This is mainly an issue for people who are overly focused on social status since they think how their partner looks and what their partner does/has all reflect on themselves, and so they focus on traits of partners that give themselves a good self-image. While partners do to an extent reflect their significant other, ultimately how society views your partner shouldn't be as important as how your partner personally makes you feel. There's also gendered insecurity on both sides regarding height where the trait is unfortunately associated with masculinity and feminity, and so you'll have shorter men and taller women often feeling like they're not masculine or feminine enough and think that nobody will want them. I empathize for these people in these down times since I can only imagine their struggle. I truly do hope that those people will eventually find someone someday soon.
@@anonymouscommentor411 how did we reach this point in human history where height, a thing which we can't control, is considered a status symbol? Napoleon was 5'6 yet that guy earned the title 'Nightmare Of Europe'. Now a title like that is what I'd consider a status symbol but height? Hell no that's just downright idiotic as *FUCK.*
14:38 I hate to break it to you lady. But Seth Green, actor, comedian and writer of the TV show Robot Chicken is 5'4 and has been married to his wife for 14 years. And she's pretty attractive. So clearly some women do like short men.
Well since the only way is to get the guy excited n then have him expose that part, she gonna whip out the Tae measure and check right before?.... That would be grounds to just let it be a one night stand, and surely she wouldn't just skip straight to that... cus obvious lmao, which means a guy could lie about it and she wouldn't know until however long, which would mean bothe of them would be wasting their time. And if this woman isn't actively seeing multiple men which present more problems, her odds aren't very good so either she's dumb or she's just carrying on the odd liston standards, even if a dude were 8+ inches I doubt the dude would enjoy the aspect of being measured just to make sure, lmao.
16:14, i feel so bad for this dude, he gave her all his love, when she eventually leaves him he's just gonna lose all of that love and become heartless ,he wont even be capable of loving and trusting someone again.
11:14 The "princess... soooo you're saying you want your father to sell you off to a random man you don't know for political gain??? cause, that's exactly what princesses are treated like... the king and queen would just give their princess to another's prince in order to secure peace with that other kingdom... and you're saying you want that for yourself???
I quit dating years ago because I have a bad pattern, which means I needed help. I dated one girl who wanted me to move in with her (and her kids) after six weeks of dating. She was a mass of red flags. For example, she flushed 10 goldfish because she was "bored of them." When I told her, as gently as I possibly could, that I didn't think me moving in would be a good idea she spent the next 24 hours filling up my DMs with insults. Another girl I dated (for far too long) once told me she wanted me to be more like a man. "Someone who doesn't put up with her BS and will put her in her place when she's getting out of hand." All I could think was, you don't want a boyfriend, you want a dad. So, yeah, I've dated others who had similar issues. That's why I haven't dated in years. There's a lot of good ones out there, I just don't trust myself to find them.
5:50 Paying for the entire bill is a gift, not the standard. If someone goes out of their way to pay the bill, that’s a kind deed. However, someone actively being angry at it not happening is a red flag for sure.
That was the funniest thing Ive heard in awhile - being accused of collecting only fan units as trophies - theyre units! The dude wasnt trying to shame her or anything and shes defending her onlyfluks thing like its a Masters degree. Ppl are like atoms, they prefer the lowest energy state.
You're very lucky. Dating these kinds of girls can wreck your self-esteem and confidence. If you're very young, it can also warp your sense of what a relationship is supposed to be like.
20:17 As a pagean, I apologize on my community's behalf. I promise our religion and practices don't make us become crazy bitches that call themselves nice.
Mfs out here too dumb to know the difference between a poem and a spell. Must really freak out whenever he picks up entire books of poetry. HELP! THIS IS A BOOK OF SHADOWS!!
The worst part is there are people like this in the real world too. A portion of the people in the vid could just be posting that shit for satire or ragebait but these "people" (if I can even call them that) will genuinely act like this towards other people, which makes it an infinite times more difficult to trust people these days.
Okay well about the apple tree analogy What if I’m heavy enough that I break a branch with good apples on it? Does that make me the perfect man who has people swarming me? Or does that mean my áşş is just fat?
$1,500 - $2013.67 + Insurance for the parts to make your own gaming pc. Play all games you want and avoid this crap. I know all women aren't like this, but holy hell r/niceguys /nicegirls are the reason dating is so hard.
ad hominem attacks are usually not good, but an ad hominem attack about looks when the person's argument is that they are too pretty for ugly girls isn't an ad hominem attack because it's related to the argument. 1:15
Right, ad hom is "you're wrong because you're ugly", not "you're ugly". As long as "you're ugly" [or "you're stupid" or whatever] isn't your argument for *why* a person is wrong/incorrect, it's not ad hom. It's just a regular insult.
@3:22 Okay the guy says he has a long drive to the restaurant and he was just leaving. Looking at the timestamps, assuming he was driving the entire time, he drove for over an hour to this restaurant. Only to get ghosted literally at the door because he got there right at 5 but waiting to park was too much?? I don’t know about anyone else but at that point I’d start demanding gas money
1:20 This is not ad hominem - that is specifically attacking the person _instead_ of the claim. The girl is making a claim _about_ her appearance - commenting on her appearance is therefore directly related to the validity of her claim.
I was gonna make some joke, but I realised it would be overly mean spirited towards OF models which I don't actually have an issue with. I will say instead that people aren't trophies and nobody should be viewed that way.
@@anonymouscommentor411 yeah they're just tryna survive in this world too. I can respect them for that. Except the ones that act like the women in the video, I'd make the most devious and offensive jokes about them.
My ex use to intentionally do shit to make me pissed because she said it was "hot". Honestly I understand hanging out with ur guy friend a bit and thinking it's cute when ur bf gets mad but she would do shit that was way to much. The reason we broke up was because of one of these occasions where she told her friend to "flirt" with me ( more like borderline sexual harassment) and then told me she cheated and she never loved me, to see if I'd cheat and if I did she was gonna make me beg for her back. I pretended to flirt back and then last minute I called her out because I knew exactly what she was doing. She got embarrassed and pissed at me for finding out and I guess NOT cheating???? So I dumped her. Well that and the fact I told her my mother died and then she turned it around and started saying I was insensitive because her grandpa died. (I comforted her for months non-stop and was as polite as possible, this was entirely out of nowhere.)
8:07 As a woman, I can definitely say the answer to that is no. Any notion that even insists that not being attracted to women is s-xist is like something you'd hear out of mid-2010s Tumblr.
It's also homophobic since it quite literally implicates gay men as being sexist for their lack of attraction towards women. Funnily enough, I have seen quite a few nice girl posts who unsuccessfully try to pressure gay dudes with such absurd notions. It's honestly wild what a person who feels entitled to someone else will say to get what they want from them. Whether it's nice guys or nice girls, that entitled attitude remains at the very core as they all refuse to understand that they're not owed someone else's time, affection, attention, etc..
@@anonymouscommentor411 Exactly. Honestly, I frankly do not get why intercourse is so important to those people to where they have to try and pressure (or even try and force) others into being attracted to them. Then again, I am aroace so your perspective may be a bit different.
Exactly, I have no idea why that post is in this, if anything this dude seems like the victim of some nice-girl-esque manipulation and I hope he's doing better and feeling more secure in his sexuality.
17:42 Okay, as stupid as this analogy is, I only have one thought on it. What happens when the apple falls out of the tree due to wind or season? Then, they're literally right where everyone can reach them anyway. So, how does that analogy make sense then? Oh wait, it doesn't! Lol
"Me omw to become a red flag after being a green flag so long and it got me nowhere" If you think you've been too good for people and will now become bad, trust me, you were never all that good. Good people are good not because they want something from someone else, but because that's who they are, no matter how others treat them.
that bachelor night does sound fun. it's like game night. but i don't think it should actually end with a committed relationship, it should just be like pretending you're on the show
The more history you learn about or the more Chinese dramas you watch, the lower on the list of occupations 'Princess' will land lol. Traded, bartered, held hostage (if war does break out), victimized, disrespected, your kids may be raised by others, you're a kidnapping risk, your public perception is paramount and you have very little freedom.
Jesus. Listening this stories makes you appreciate what you have. Also by listening to this I think that having pet is better than having some of those crazy B as EX or potential girlfriends.
In fact, you have to specifically pick two. Alpha men are always either egotistic and emotionally stunted, or they’re emotionally intelligent and not actually bad people but have a severe self esteem issues so they cling to the ‘alpha’ mentality. They usually start off as the latter and become the former
Not a person with kids but my thought on disclosing kids is a bit different if the person is just looking for a hookup and not anything sensuous I don’t feel like having kids has anything to do with the hookup
People who play hard to get without ever even hinting that they actually want the person they're playing it with to pursue them do not have the right to be upset when the person moves on.
It also would not give them the right to have a little kid tantrum, as if they did not get what they want. The world does not revolve around one person, that’s what a lot of these people need to understand.
"im so hot why is my crush dating this girl i think is ugly when obviously he should be dating someone as attractive as me?' honey, you forget that you're going to be old someday. your youthful beauty isn't gonna last. you don't get to decide who he deserves to date, he does.
16:19 oh Boy. I got a serious story. I was getting my Diploma in computer engineering there was a girl whose really good and often post about how she gets mistreated by men and only women are this good creature who sacrifice their own happiness for the man they love. She'd even post about how she wants a kind and good man. But the funny thing is the guy she was dating at that time would often slap her even in front of US. And funny thing is when we ask why doesn't she leave Him. Her response was men love hurting women they love the most.💀💀 Some people are beyond repairable I guess 😑
These are plain insults, not ad hominems. Ad hominems are specifically used as a fallacy in arguments. People roasting a b**ch because she's being a b**ch is just an insult. Or more like instant karma. 😏
6:28 How dare thou! Brocolli is fricking great, especially with breadcrumps and butter. Heaven for tongue, and mouth. If anyone disagrees, get the hell out
I mean, I'm under 5'7" and I date men. But I think that's because I'm gay, not because I'm short.
HOW DARE YOU BE MISOGYNISTIC?!/j
Dating men as a man does sound kinda gay, can't lie.
Touché
I’m going 5”7’ but I got so used to men that now I’m bi 😞
I remain unconvinced! Your wit has no effect on me!
“You are gaslighting me, avoiding questions and not being direct”
*Proceeds to answer literally no questions op has asked*
"I'm an interesting person. My therapist says so. apparently I would make a great case study! That makes me important."
They listened to her and left them alone? The *_AUDACITY!_*
AVGN: More like aud-ASS-ity!
🤦♂️
What??? You respected someone's boundaries and wishes??????
i know, a real shocker! it's like men know how to be respectful or something!
"How dare you use my own spells against me!" Lol
@10:48
If she is a princess then damn! I wouldn't mind Toad telling me she is in another castle because she ain't worth the time.
I'd go full French revolutionary.
Oh. A princess? I have just the right tool for that problem!
Fortunately her size preference would mean she isn't interested in dating humans ( ' is feet '' is inches).
Those are both great!
I'd probably take the historical route as well. Princesses were married off to men like twice their age for political gain, right? So, that's what the lady in the post wants? Lmao.
*Chalkeaters intensifies*
Ladies, men. If you think that "love" is shown by drama, by being beaten by your spouse, get help. Seriously. Get help. That is insanely unhealthy. That. Is. Not. Love.
My wife's been in jail for the past 6 months, third time arrested in the span of a year, she's not mentally well n I dunno exactly whats wrong or how to start getting it fixed, out of my hands at this point n just hope somehow the fact she failed court competency will bring some results as they attempt to restore her competency, cus at this point from what I've heard from her family elsewhere she called, she's hallucinating on a hair trigger thinking her brother all the way on the other side of the country is somehow there at the jail for some inexplicable reason, some time before she'd told me she saw me riding away on a 4 wheeler with some girl, I video called her as I was walking home from work while carting gardening supplies in a stroller, I'm like "how tf do you think I could be in two places at once?" But then it's like she simply falls back to some other mind frame only to bring it up again later, disregarding the fact.
Ugh just fkin tired, gotta go back to work tomorrow, been trying to care for our 3 kids, been doing a fairly good job but.... f%%k.
Yikes. I know it doesn't mean a whole lot from some stranger on the internet but I hope things get better for you mean. That's gotta be rough, trying to handle all that and take care of a family at the same time. Props to you for managing thus far.
@@wingedlightsss thx, got my gardening on, seed starting n that's helping keep me focused. Nothing worse than not having anything to do n being too depressed to want to do anything.
@@ShaggyTheClown17 "got my gardening on" is a super solid line
"if a guy doesn't beat u than he doesn't love you"
.... ... ... oh my God... What is wrong with some people out there... ain't no way anyone would purposefully go out of their way to create drama... Can't wait for her to be single in her early 40s and realize what a mistake she thought that way and likely lost this good dude with her stupidity.
Agreed. He seems like the perfect man. I mean idrc if a man spoils me ahha but never cheats? Always loving, he'll apologizes when hes wrong or maybe hes not wrong but he doesnt want more fighting! I mean I already have my perfect man tbh but theres not many guys like mine or hers, and shes trying to throw hers away. Lawd.
But can their man beat Goku tho?
A lot of that mentality is from how someone was raised unfortunately. When you're raised abusively you can come to see it as normal.
Sadly I have SOME experience with this.... O_o
And yea, nah. If someone tries to get me to fight them simply for the sake that I'm right and I'm strong in my convictions despite being falsely accused.... fighting isn't going to make me any more or less right and would only prove that I can't handle someone not believing me, as if hurting someone is going to make them believe you....?
Smh, yeah its part of a mental illness straight forward
Fun fact, the spell involving two candles and twine is a cord-cutting spell, the goal of which is to cut them completely out of your life and release any emotional attachment to them. Good luck trying to bring someone back with that one.
To be fair its better for the dude that she did the spell, maybe she'll finally stop texting him
@@PunsandQuips For his sake, I hope it worked.
I will never understand why people think being an a-hole online is quirky and then get mad that they can't make any friends. 🤷🏾♀️
Immaturity.
It really boggles my mind how some people (of both sexes) don't realise that people tend to want to date others with similar interests. Attraction level definitely is a big factor, but most people don't want a relationship with someone if they have nothing in common.
For real, I thought it was just me who thought like this. This is exactly why many “beautiful” people are married with “ugly” people and people act like thats not how it works.
Does this mean that someone would like me more if they also liked terraria mods, ultrakill and having ADHD?
@@ChillyUltraKillprobably yeah? Maybe not terraria as that’s very specific, maybe liking the same genre of games as you? Two people having ADHD could be probable, they relate to each other’s problems so they can help each other 👍
Well done on the insight and restraint on the one girls post you saw trauma in. Its easy to be cruel to text from a distance and equally hard to choose compassion.
I dated a girl similar to that a long time ago. She would constantly create drama to get a rise out of me. When that didn't work, she cheated on me. I knew she had trauma in her past, but I didn't understand the connection. I was very young and naive.
people that want to be treated as "princesses" need to read up on history, could kidnap her for land, or money, or to maintain peace between our two countries.
"My girl wanted me to treat her like a princess, so I married her to a hapsbug duke to strengthen my alliance with France"
@@matheussanthiago9685 sounds reasonable.
While political marriages did happen on occasion it's more common for princesses or nobles to marry in their own region/country. Political marriages weren't that common they just get the attention like most rare things do.
And that hapsbug dude also kind of have to be a nobleman with a great swath of land and political hold. I don't think they will be all that worse off in the end. Princesses in that time were not all kidnapped or ransomed or had drastically bad married life, for the time period. Arranged marriages were normal for them, it was also kind of something they expected to happen. I dont think the present day gold diggers and such would be too opposed to be married to a nobleman or equal tbh. It was a much easier life, than say, a villagewoman born to a family of freemen, free to marry around. Both might have their perks, but given the choice most commoners would have probably chosen to be a princess than vice versa.
YES! I was thinking the same thing! Is this "Princess" enough for her? Lmao!
As an autistic guy that experiences high levels of anxiety on a daily basis, girls like that genuinely scares me
Same here. 😢
I really want to see how chaotic a group of nicegirls and niceguys would be if they all were interacting with each other. I would bet it would be complete and utter chaos.
It's called Twitter/ X
I have a theory that niceguys and nicegirls are the only ones right for each other because they’re the only ones who understand each other. Same with pick me boys and pick me girls.
Unfortunately it doesn't work like that. They only go after normal persons.
80% the guys dodged not just a bullet but a tactical nuke
Or atomic bombs
They dodged a goddamn asteroid ☄️
I never did understand not liking shorter men - dated everything from 5'2, to 6'5, and frankly, once you're horizontal, it doesn't make much difference. Personality is far more important!
And I really love that it's always the girls who could be stand ins for Keebler Elves that are doing the most whining about a guy's height 😂
It's partially because of gender norms and social status stuff in my opinion. Like, there are women who are attracted towards a dude's height as a status symbol similar to how dudes will sometimes be attracted to a conventionally attractive woman as a status symbol. This isn't always the case, but it does happen and some don't even realize they're not physically attracted to such attributes and are instead only attracted to the social status it brings. This is mainly an issue for people who are overly focused on social status since they think how their partner looks and what their partner does/has all reflect on themselves, and so they focus on traits of partners that give themselves a good self-image. While partners do to an extent reflect their significant other, ultimately how society views your partner shouldn't be as important as how your partner personally makes you feel. There's also gendered insecurity on both sides regarding height where the trait is unfortunately associated with masculinity and feminity, and so you'll have shorter men and taller women often feeling like they're not masculine or feminine enough and think that nobody will want them. I empathize for these people in these down times since I can only imagine their struggle. I truly do hope that those people will eventually find someone someday soon.
@@anonymouscommentor411 how did we reach this point in human history where height, a thing which we can't control, is considered a status symbol? Napoleon was 5'6 yet that guy earned the title 'Nightmare Of Europe'. Now a title like that is what I'd consider a status symbol but height? Hell no that's just downright idiotic as *FUCK.*
11:18: also notice the single apostrophe here delineating the 8.5 not as inches, but as FEET
She likes to get freaky with squidward...
Keep in mind that, the tallest person in recorded history (Robert Wadlow) was 8 foot 11 at his tallest.
8 feet is a lot when most people only have 2.
@@AIHumanEquality my metric ass thinking the same.
@@cloud_congestusshe only dates ppl with that One Piece body
18:13 It sounded so wholesome till the end.
Yeah, I was genuinely smiling and thinking, 'what could go wrong?' 🥲 like girl, if you don't want him, I do!
For real bro-
_"You can't go looking for love, you will not find it, love has to find you."_
Excactly
4:03 I actually had a guy try to do the same thing. He later sent an apology to everyone because everyone was offended and said no.
16:18 the poor guy he’s giving his heart to a girl but she’s so idk traumatized or messed up she’s gonna cheat on him for fun
I wouldn't want to associate myself with someone who only cares about looks regardless of their gender.
well how tf would u even know that? lol
@@ShaggyTheClown17 Well you see we humans have this thing we use to communicate called language...
@@AIHumanEquality yea but there's also another thing called "lying," which tends to be the most common problem people run into :/
@@ShaggyTheClown17 Lying isn't as easy as people think it is and I'm a pretty observational person.
@@AIHumanEquality That's good but apparently it's like the MAIN problem people run into, unless thats just a copout for something else but meh. Gnight
OMG IM QUIRKY 😍😍😘😘
* proceeds to do the most inhumane thing imaginable *
14:38 I hate to break it to you lady. But Seth Green, actor, comedian and writer of the TV show Robot Chicken is 5'4 and has been married to his wife for 14 years. And she's pretty attractive. So clearly some women do like short men.
"I'm not into one night stands or hookups..... also you have to be 8.5" long and don't ask how I'll find out....."
wuuuuuut?
She makes it sound like she'll secretly find out without your knowledge or consent ngl. Huge creep vibes tbh
Well since the only way is to get the guy excited n then have him expose that part, she gonna whip out the Tae measure and check right before?.... That would be grounds to just let it be a one night stand, and surely she wouldn't just skip straight to that... cus obvious lmao, which means a guy could lie about it and she wouldn't know until however long, which would mean bothe of them would be wasting their time.
And if this woman isn't actively seeing multiple men which present more problems, her odds aren't very good so either she's dumb or she's just carrying on the odd liston standards, even if a dude were 8+ inches I doubt the dude would enjoy the aspect of being measured just to make sure, lmao.
Just sounds more like a crappy way to excuse the fact she does have one night stands.
16:14, i feel so bad for this dude, he gave her all his love, when she eventually leaves him he's just gonna lose all of that love and become heartless ,he wont even be capable of loving and trusting someone again.
that HAS to be bait no? there's no way it si not
@@rosin632Some girls would have the same mindset as Devandu just said.
It’s funny how most of these nice girls are just bashing other women. Nice girls and Nice guys should bond over their hatred of women.
11:14 The "princess... soooo you're saying you want your father to sell you off to a random man you don't know for political gain??? cause, that's exactly what princesses are treated like... the king and queen would just give their princess to another's prince in order to secure peace with that other kingdom... and you're saying you want that for yourself???
I quit dating years ago because I have a bad pattern, which means I needed help.
I dated one girl who wanted me to move in with her (and her kids) after six weeks of dating. She was a mass of red flags. For example, she flushed 10 goldfish because she was "bored of them." When I told her, as gently as I possibly could, that I didn't think me moving in would be a good idea she spent the next 24 hours filling up my DMs with insults.
Another girl I dated (for far too long) once told me she wanted me to be more like a man. "Someone who doesn't put up with her BS and will put her in her place when she's getting out of hand." All I could think was, you don't want a boyfriend, you want a dad.
So, yeah, I've dated others who had similar issues. That's why I haven't dated in years. There's a lot of good ones out there, I just don't trust myself to find them.
Honestly your best bet is to focus on friendships first.
whenever i feel dumb i watch these videos or the niceguys ones both make me feel better
5:50
Paying for the entire bill is a gift, not the standard. If someone goes out of their way to pay the bill, that’s a kind deed. However, someone actively being angry at it not happening is a red flag for sure.
That was the funniest thing Ive heard in awhile - being accused of collecting only fan units as trophies - theyre units! The dude wasnt trying to shame her or anything and shes defending her onlyfluks thing like its a Masters degree. Ppl are like atoms, they prefer the lowest energy state.
10:49 of you expect to be treated as a princess, then expect to be sold to my rivals as a way of bringing peace to our kingdoms.
I've literally never interacted with a girl like this before
And I'm getting pissed
I'm experiencing second-hand outrage
You're very lucky. Dating these kinds of girls can wreck your self-esteem and confidence. If you're very young, it can also warp your sense of what a relationship is supposed to be like.
My short gay kings thriving.
20:17 As a pagean, I apologize on my community's behalf. I promise our religion and practices don't make us become crazy bitches that call themselves nice.
Mfs out here too dumb to know the difference between a poem and a spell. Must really freak out whenever he picks up entire books of poetry. HELP! THIS IS A BOOK OF SHADOWS!!
ugh all these people sound insufferable and immature, makes me cringe so hard
The worst part is there are people like this in the real world too. A portion of the people in the vid could just be posting that shit for satire or ragebait but these "people" (if I can even call them that) will genuinely act like this towards other people, which makes it an infinite times more difficult to trust people these days.
6:15 well how else are you supposed to describe pizza? And tonight it's been a bad, bad pizza pie.
I hear so much about nice guys that I didn't know r/nicegirls was a thing until just a few weeks ago.
Okay well about the apple tree analogy
What if I’m heavy enough that I break a branch with good apples on it? Does that make me the perfect man who has people swarming me? Or does that mean my áşş is just fat?
"Do you partake in the leaf perhaps, or maybe the crackpipe" 😭😭😭😭💀
You're the funny
0:05 *”HOW DARE YOU LISTEN TO ME?!”*
The confidence is stored in the nose
21:04 I'm a witch, and eve I wouldn't do allat.
I anticipate the day one rejects a girl with "That's a Whole lotta Words, too bad I'm not readin' em"
$1,500 - $2013.67 + Insurance for the parts to make your own gaming pc.
Play all games you want and avoid this crap.
I know all women aren't like this, but holy hell r/niceguys /nicegirls are the reason dating is so hard.
20:22 okay but that'd do for some metal asf song like fr fr
or breakcore
idk
Damien putting a wholesome spin on this subreddit is immaculate. Great vibes
ad hominem attacks are usually not good, but an ad hominem attack about looks when the person's argument is that they are too pretty for ugly girls isn't an ad hominem attack because it's related to the argument. 1:15
Right, ad hom is "you're wrong because you're ugly", not "you're ugly". As long as "you're ugly" [or "you're stupid" or whatever] isn't your argument for *why* a person is wrong/incorrect, it's not ad hom. It's just a regular insult.
9:02 that is the text I fear when I don’t text people back asap
Text as soon as possible but I don't like getting ghosted
ad hominem attacks are the only way to get a narcissist's attention I'd imagine.
I love how most of these posts have things that are fair standards to have, but the way they were communicated was executed extremely poorly 😂
I honestly don’t see a problem with the “5 bachelors” post
She respected his decision and moved on
The fact that she thinks she's entitled to that scenario in the first place
@@maxdaae I mean yeah that’s fair too, just my opinion
these women are an embarrassment to the rest of us. good god... they make it easy to figure out who to avoid though.
@3:22
Okay the guy says he has a long drive to the restaurant and he was just leaving. Looking at the timestamps, assuming he was driving the entire time, he drove for over an hour to this restaurant. Only to get ghosted literally at the door because he got there right at 5 but waiting to park was too much??
I don’t know about anyone else but at that point I’d start demanding gas money
I love emkay dark mode
1:20 This is not ad hominem - that is specifically attacking the person _instead_ of the claim. The girl is making a claim _about_ her appearance - commenting on her appearance is therefore directly related to the validity of her claim.
Dude I accidentally caught this 21 seconds after it was posted
i love emkay. i get excited when a new vid is on my homepage
OF "models" are "trophies" now??? Ew. Hahaha
Not even gonna count those as participation trophies.
Do they make reject trophies?
@@Puddingskin01 Think that's called being blacklisted.
I was gonna make some joke, but I realised it would be overly mean spirited towards OF models which I don't actually have an issue with. I will say instead that people aren't trophies and nobody should be viewed that way.
@@anonymouscommentor411 yeah they're just tryna survive in this world too. I can respect them for that. Except the ones that act like the women in the video, I'd make the most devious and offensive jokes about them.
My ex use to intentionally do shit to make me pissed because she said it was "hot". Honestly I understand hanging out with ur guy friend a bit and thinking it's cute when ur bf gets mad but she would do shit that was way to much. The reason we broke up was because of one of these occasions where she told her friend to "flirt" with me ( more like borderline sexual harassment) and then told me she cheated and she never loved me, to see if I'd cheat and if I did she was gonna make me beg for her back.
I pretended to flirt back and then last minute I called her out because I knew exactly what she was doing.
She got embarrassed and pissed at me for finding out and I guess NOT cheating???? So I dumped her.
Well that and the fact I told her my mother died and then she turned it around and started saying I was insensitive because her grandpa died. (I comforted her for months non-stop and was as polite as possible, this was entirely out of nowhere.)
8:07 As a woman, I can definitely say the answer to that is no. Any notion that even insists that not being attracted to women is s-xist is like something you'd hear out of mid-2010s Tumblr.
It's also homophobic since it quite literally implicates gay men as being sexist for their lack of attraction towards women. Funnily enough, I have seen quite a few nice girl posts who unsuccessfully try to pressure gay dudes with such absurd notions. It's honestly wild what a person who feels entitled to someone else will say to get what they want from them. Whether it's nice guys or nice girls, that entitled attitude remains at the very core as they all refuse to understand that they're not owed someone else's time, affection, attention, etc..
@@anonymouscommentor411 Exactly. Honestly, I frankly do not get why intercourse is so important to those people to where they have to try and pressure (or even try and force) others into being attracted to them. Then again, I am aroace so your perspective may be a bit different.
Exactly, I have no idea why that post is in this, if anything this dude seems like the victim of some nice-girl-esque manipulation and I hope he's doing better and feeling more secure in his sexuality.
@@KateCantDraw Same here.
17:42 Okay, as stupid as this analogy is, I only have one thought on it. What happens when the apple falls out of the tree due to wind or season? Then, they're literally right where everyone can reach them anyway. So, how does that analogy make sense then? Oh wait, it doesn't! Lol
Plus, why would you pick a rotten apple? It's not even edible
13:01 people like this would burn a man’s house down if they asked why they got rejected just so they can improve
Damien is DA BOSS
you are the first comment congrats
Thanks for the reminder for why i should avoid a relationship with immature women
17:17 I hope he replied with an "ok"
"Me omw to become a red flag after being a green flag so long and it got me nowhere"
If you think you've been too good for people and will now become bad, trust me, you were never all that good.
Good people are good not because they want something from someone else, but because that's who they are, no matter how others treat them.
3:59 that sounds like an awesome idea, but it could be waaay better. Hear me out: just remove her from the situation
forget red flags, i'd rate this entire video a red giant star
When someone misspells the word "dumb"...
12:20 I’m gonna risk it
When Undertale and deltarune music is the best for background
21:03
You good girlypop, spells aint the way to go 😂
Toil and trouble cauldron bubble
@@alexs6746 potions it is then
that bachelor night does sound fun. it's like game night. but i don't think it should actually end with a committed relationship, it should just be like pretending you're on the show
The more history you learn about or the more Chinese dramas you watch, the lower on the list of occupations 'Princess' will land lol. Traded, bartered, held hostage (if war does break out), victimized, disrespected, your kids may be raised by others, you're a kidnapping risk, your public perception is paramount and you have very little freedom.
Jesus. Listening this stories makes you appreciate what you have.
Also by listening to this I think that having pet is better than having some of those crazy B as EX or potential girlfriends.
The funny thing is that yesterday I was wondering if there was an equivalent to women incels.
Now I know.
I wish I didn't.
Oh buddy, they've existed for a while.
Why are people so comfortable being so mean 😭😭??
This video makes me so glad i calm my jealous and im not narcissistic
Secure, emotionally intelligent, and alpha male do not belong in the same sentence.
In fact, you have to specifically pick two. Alpha men are always either egotistic and emotionally stunted, or they’re emotionally intelligent and not actually bad people but have a severe self esteem issues so they cling to the ‘alpha’ mentality. They usually start off as the latter and become the former
Holy crap, that apple tree one was pure cope
11:38 thats the only actual rational thing she said in that whole message
The ladies that hide or use fantasy or over active judgement are just as jerky as the dudes
This is painfully true. Only 30 seconds in but it’s paint fully true😭
i apologise for being that person but painfully*
@@cursedmammottgaming5371it's ok bro, i understand smart or correcting people and i like them :)
@@cursedmammottgaming5371sorry, i had to but apologize*
Not a person with kids but my thought on disclosing kids is a bit different if the person is just looking for a hookup and not anything sensuous I don’t feel like having kids has anything to do with the hookup
14:46 as a wman, im into short men
People who play hard to get without ever even hinting that they actually want the person they're playing it with to pursue them do not have the right to be upset when the person moves on.
It also would not give them the right to have a little kid tantrum, as if they did not get what they want.
The world does not revolve around one person, that’s what a lot of these people need to understand.
"im so hot why is my crush dating this girl i think is ugly when obviously he should be dating someone as attractive as me?' honey, you forget that you're going to be old someday. your youthful beauty isn't gonna last. you don't get to decide who he deserves to date, he does.
16:19 oh Boy. I got a serious story.
I was getting my Diploma in computer engineering there was a girl whose really good and often post about how she gets mistreated by men and only women are this good creature who sacrifice their own happiness for the man they love. She'd even post about how she wants a kind and good man. But the funny thing is the guy she was dating at that time would often slap her even in front of US. And funny thing is when we ask why doesn't she leave Him. Her response was men love hurting women they love the most.💀💀
Some people are beyond repairable I guess 😑
5' 7" is NOT Short for a man. Average male height is 5' 6" Quit letting the internet lie to you.
14:45 that's fine, lass. Send them short kings my way
Ad hominem attacks are ok if they are in response to an ad hominem attack.
These are plain insults, not ad hominems.
Ad hominems are specifically used as a fallacy in arguments.
People roasting a b**ch because she's being a b**ch is just an insult. Or more like instant karma. 😏
Remember guys, dont date crazy.
Sadly some guys are into that s*@t
Please tell me the girl who wants drama is just baiting and its not true.
That FetLife bio sent me.
I know that gray and red color pallet anywhere.
that’s not nice :(
6:28 How dare thou! Brocolli is fricking great, especially with breadcrumps and butter. Heaven for tongue, and mouth. If anyone disagrees, get the hell out
Bro has the diet of my cousin’s dead rabbit
This subreddit is wild as usual. 😂