Listen, I lost over 75lbs and became closer, happier and more loving in my marriage! My husband loved my fat ssa just as much as he loves me 75lbs lighter! In fact, he made changes too and lost 70lbs! This is how you do it!!!! We are a FIT happily married couple now!!! #FOREVERLOYAL
Okay. Great for you! BUT, you do realize you're in a very small minority. Based on the statistics alone you could be lying 🤥 to us. But, I'll chose to give you the benefit of the doubt. Stay joyfully & happily married.
@@JamesASharp lol you know it's so dysfunctional that people believe dysfunction is the norm versus healthy Happy relationships! You can definitely believe what you want to believe, but I will tell you that I don't have that type of time to make up a lie. I absolutely could be lying but why? Why can't it be that this story is not the norm and my story is the norm? Because people would rather believe in drama people will rather believe in negativity. I'm a light bringer! I've been wonderfully married for 23 years! And forever to go relationships such as marriages should grow and evolve into the best union possible, could it be that he didn't jump on board and evolve with her? I'm not condoning cheating but maybe he was stuck in his old ways and stagnant and stuck in comfortability whereas she wanted upward movement and to better herself. How can two walk together but to agree? She was leveling up. He possibly needed to read the room, and didn't! Again, I'm not condoning cheating. And she'll likely regret it.
@lionessgoddess603 the full video is in the description. The wife basically says the same thing. She admits that she was the problem and her ex-husband didn't do anything.
No, it wasn’t…it was just her options of what she really wanted were actually a reality when she settled for a man, her husband she really didn’t want.
@@sidneywilder2731it’s crazy to think that women like her will defend this by trying to come up with some type of explanation to excuse cheating. This is why I don’t trust any of them. It’s too dangerous.
@@eugenechelseafc89 it really is dangerous 😳, this pro basketball player said he don't have a girlfriend because he don't trust to easy ,so everything is everything according to him 🤷🤷 basketball players get cheated on too ,divorced and and took to the cleaners too
She will regret her choices at some point. She left a man who loved her for who she was. It's admirable that she lost weight but she lost sight of the fact that the guy she was cheating with wouldn't have given her a second look had she not lost the weight.
Imagine leaving a dude that accepted you how you were. Only for the dudes that did not want you when you were big. Ay man I hope we get an update because women truly do it to themselves.
Men are visual and women like money. Good buddy stayed with her only for her to catch feelings for guys who didn't like her visual before. But men do this a lot too when that good woman stayed with you while you are broke, and now you catch feelings for women who did not want you when you were broke. Happens ALL the damn time with these athletes and these IG models. And now you get caught up in a bunch of nonsense.
Some men pick heavy ladies because they feel it makes them unattractive to other men do there won't be any chance of her cheating! Little do they know a man will creep with ANYTHING!
Lose all that weight just to cheat on her husband now she got no husband and the weight she lost starting to come back 🥴🤦🏿♂️. Some women shoot themselves in the foot then cry foul and no accountability when their decisions turn for the worse
@@omarcook3663 it's funny she talks proudly how she was getting all that male attention when she lost weight but the question she avoided is the men that you threw your marriage away for where are they now?? No where to be found especially that work husband she caught feelings for even though he was trying to get a nut he wasn't trying to turn his work husband title to actual husband 😂🤣😂
🤣😂That just tell me because she was the weight she was that's the only reason why she settled with her ex husband because she thought that'll be the best she could do
I’m not calling my gf or wife everyday while at work. Unless it’s an emergency I’ll see you at home. Some chicks are needy because they are either insecure or possibly have some abandonment issues! At best, I’ll send a text, but a phone call everyday is wild! It will become annoying at some point!
I have worked with so many women that need to be called or calling at lunch 😂 Not me, unless it’s urgent, that’s my time to relax, eat, do my thing…. too needy some people
🎯💯 who trying to put all that work in a female just for her to get the big head and leave . It's these types that really mess it up for other women who try to do right. It's like we can expect the pretty females to pull stunts like this but when the big 🐻 s are having that same pretty girl attitude then ain't no man safe out there
Are you really surprised?! 😂😂😂😂😂 You women really think that women are incapable of evil. "Women are sugar, spice, and everything nice." You have drunk the Kool-aid. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Men are not angels. And surprise, women aren't angels either.
Women of low self esteem get into a loving nurturing relationship and once they gain self esteem and start getting attention from other men they move on to greener pastures
This happens when you marry the ugly duckling. My ex was the same. She used to be really skinny and braces. As time went own by the time she hit 25 and I was 27. She lost the braces, started gaining weight which gave her a killer shape. And she met a friend at work. Within a year she was sleeping around with numerous men and got pregnant. She later told me that she wasn’t used to so many men giving her attention. She said when she went to the club there was a guy who had money trying to get with her and she asked herself. “Did I check out to early”.
A man does not have to have a 15 minute phone call at work with ANYBODY! He’s at WORK. I as a woman I don’twant to be bothered at work for 15 minutes unless it’s business, doctors appointment or family emergency. Now sometimes I might initiate a call with someone during break if we scheduled it ahead of time. Or I’ll call my grown kids to talk about something interesting in my down time when THEY are not at work.
You see symmetrically beautiful women who don't believe they are beautiful for whatever is going on in their head. She didn't see herself as desirable when she was big. So she settled in her marriage. He was what she could get being overweight not wanted. Her husband desire for her would never transfer to her feeling desirable because in reality she settled. Her weight lost gave her access to who was previously unavailable in her mind. She felt desired because for the first time in her life, "The Type" she desired, desired her. He was the step up. The husband was the concession.
@@RepentOrPerishL133 I don't think she settled. Settling is when you can get more, but you choose less. At a heavier weight, she didn't settle; but rather guys she wanted did not want to settle. In order to get that fit guy, she realized she needed to be fit too. And once she got in shape, options opened up to her that she never saw before. She got an ego and now it's all gone to her head. It's the same thing when someone wins the lottery or s star athlete gets his first big contract. Now all of a sudden, he's tricking off IG models that he never had access to when he was broke and can't control himself. Little does she know, they are only with her for the shape and not her. She gained the weight back and they disappeared. The same thing happens when a star athlete goes broke like when Dennis Rodman was running around with Madonna and Carmen Electra. They disappeared once the fame and money ran out.
Props to her for being transparent. On the other side, she deserves all the shame that comes with her actions. This shows that you can’t make all women happy no matter how good you are.
I had a woman, when I wasn’t working 9-5 but I still needed to do shit daily, calling me everyday - when we were first getting going. She could call from her job and speak endlessly - when SHE could find on the job space and time to do so. She was AT work but the conversation meant I couldn’t GET to what I needed to do. After awhile of course I had to tell her I didn’t have time to talk like that on the phone each day. And of course she wasn’t understanding and said I was considering myself and my time as “too important” for her! This while she was ON SALARY calling me - and even interrupting the conversation when immediate job issues would arise!
It's unfortunate that one person acts like an idiot and everyone gets blamed for their nonsense. She should be ashamed and I hope her husband and child can heal from the mess she's created. None of this dumpster juice behavior reflects anything that I'm doing and I'd advise other people to edit their social media so they aren't only seeing toxic behavior.
I’m European and I find the African-American culture extremely hyper-sexualized. From the music, the outfits, the body language their actual language…it’s all about sex, getting some, and explicit body parts and what to do with them. It’s getting old real fast, when viewed from the outside.
Crazy im listening to this i juz got off the phone wit my gurl while at work for lik 15minz. I didn't feel like talkin of couse im in mode at work but put my ego aside just so she can hear my voice so she can fall asleep
A woman asking for “15 min” during the day clearly has too much time on her hands. A text check in, sure. But a conversation? Nah. We can debrief at the end of the day. 🙅🏾♂️
Yall don’t know people at all. This is a baseline issue with people who have battled self esteem issues. When men hop on here and say “men are only as faithful as their options,” too many say “yeah, that’s right.” However when a woman is only as faithful as her options yall don’t get it and it becomes a character flaw. In both instances it is a character flaw. Options don’t make you a cheater, lack of discipline makes you a cheater.
That's is common for that to happen it's the attention and selfish it's about them they don't care oh they hurt or leave behind until things go sour out there
My husband would rather me dress more provocative which a lil strange to me but I tell him I’m modest because I respect you and our marriage and even dressing modest and men hit on me and I say I’m married they still disrespectful to me
@@kitkatbar3871 men don't practice hypergamy, at least not to the same extinct that women do. Some all their life as the inability to be satisfied with what they have only comes second to how they feel at any given moment in time. Case in point, this video. If anything she should have given her best self to her faithful and devoted husband but instead she gave it to a stranger and left her husband, marraige, and even kids, to get pumped and dumped by someone new for a couple of months. This is also a part of why there is no empathy for black women by real black men when they complain about men and relationships.
@@kitkatbar3871That's not what matters to XX. Many podcasts have proved it, you don't like men who have no 304... you'd rather share an alpha. You'd rather share an unfaithful man. My XX acquaintance dropped her husband for an unfaithful athlete...
@@kitkatbar3871men are loyal creatures by nature. Men will stick with women who gained weight, suffered injury or Major illness. Oh, I get it. You are referring to the top 1% guy? Sorry, didn't know 🙄
@kitkatbar3871 men go out the house and barely have to fight temptations Women walk out the house and get compliments bout a 1000 a day even on the ugly days so you expect me to believe out of 1000 tries you didn't put 1 of them dudes on the roster for a just in case purpose ?
Most relationships aren’t meant to last forever. Some are meant to help you grow and learn what to do right in the next relationship. Some people need to understand this. 💯
Please don't standup in a church ceremony with all the fixings holding to that mentality. You will just be adding to the other worldly buffoonery that has infiltrated the church that needs to be purged.
She never loved her husband and never liked or respected him. She always wanted attention from other men. It was her desire. She wiĺl regret her decision thinking grass is greener on the other side.
Sadly this happened all the time because she didn't know who she really was she didn't love herself when she married that man she was just settling because in her mind at that time in her life because of her size she felt like I need to keep this man simply because he's the only one that showed her attention and love at that
One thing about it is , karma wants to be wanted and loved! It’s coming when that guy she wants watch her gain that weight back and he either cheats and tell her the same thing or just go.
Sorry but no. Disrespecting a man’s time when he’s at work trying to provide just to talk? They can talk when you get off work. Women need to grow up and stop acting like teenagers.
Getting a lot of attention from men isn't all it's cracked up to be. Trust me. Lust is fleeting bcus there is always other women for a man to lust after. I'd rather be loved, cherished and respected. That's what seems to be hard to obtain these days. Just my opinion though....
Gwntlemen, understand this one thing, women are only loyal to their emotions. When you understand this, relationships will be more clear to you. Tread carefully and keep it moving accordingly.
Loses 100 lbs, then not only cheats on her husband but has an affair, 'punishes' affair partner's behavior with other women by cheating with other sex flings, aborts a fetus because she does not know who father the baby... all this to only realize affair partner never cared to have anything with her; probably wishing he never sexed her to begin with. And then, coming to this interview having lost most everything, but with the weight gained back. Karma, dawg!
I will say this, the bible does not require a woman to love her husband but does require the husband to love his wife. The wife must respect her husband. The Lord understood how important it is for a wife to respect her husband. Women today are lost foolish and showing how little they understand their role as a wife. If a man loves you, he will move heaven and earth to please you. A smart woman will respect and care for him and the family.
The interview with the woman who lost 100 pounds and cheated on her husband was the worse 49 minutes I’ve ever watched. Even though she never spoke of any ill words towards her ex husband, she got conceded once she lost her weight. She start feeling herself and it went out of control. They even asked in the interview if her husband had a chance to date her once she lost weight and she actually said no. Another thing about the interview was that she referred to her husband as her best friend but friends don’t do friends the way she treated her husband. She was even pregnant at one time and didn’t know who’s child it was and had it aborted. I’m glad her husband was able to bounce back and marry someone else but this woman was just horrible. The bottom line was she married someone she wasn’t into and I was wondering why did she even date him and marry him.
I’m going through that rn the girl that I talk to wants to sit on the phone for hours I hate phone calls. i told her if I’m on the phone with her I focus on her but l she wanna be on there 4 hours everyday. I’m lowkey coo off her tho she a lil crazy. I’m ok with clingy. I just think she has too much time on her hands if she wanna be on the phone all day. I told her to get a hobby chill w yo friends she just don’t listen.
Women are only loyal to their WANTS & NEEDS period … if Captain America wanted Lizzie for a night or two she wld tell her boyfriend she’s not happy and wants to break up !
So let me get this right, the very man that probably supported her on her goals and journey was treated like trash by her while she cheated on the good man she had because she was feeling desired by other men. Hmmm sounds like what us black men put up with all the time. Now we do not have to. She will soon regret her decisions because as she developed I'm sure through the pain he will eventually elevate 12 times more than she will in value. I am also sure she will double back but by then it will be too late he will be gone or forever changed. She is a disgrace to the wedding vows of for better or worse, through sickness and health till death due you part. I'm assuming she said I do then fast forward years later now she don't after the agreement to do so. So when women brake contract and self sabotage their relationships they should be mandated to pay back the husband for the expense of the wedding and anything that he provided after their wedding. This would hopefully remind women to take their marriage vowels more seriously then to throw it all away for a false superficial belief. Looks can always change but your thought process is the most important change of it all. See if a woman thinks like her then she shouldn't get married or be quarted by other men. I said what I said.
That's why I've always said: if you met her big, keep her big! The moment you encourage your chick to lose weight, she will begin to feel herself too much, and aim to replace your butt, even if you were the one who cheered her on! If you met her while she's in shape. Fine! But if you met her big (perhaps that's your thing, or you "settled"); then NEVER cheer her on to shed pounds! Ever! You will regret it! It's better to keep a woman feeling insecure about herself, than for her to feel like she's hot shit.
Not surprised at All … Like I said when u help a women accomplish ANYTHING she WILL lose RESPECT for YOU ! … if u think I’m bs’ing go head and test my theory !
What is the point of this guy's channel? To show that women are scandalous because guys get called out for being scandalous more often? Trying to make it fairer? Seems like common knowledge that human beings are hedonistic and have little integrity.
Jr ending the video what that simp energy oh, so it only takes 15 minutes to call the woman The same woman that will be complaining about not getting a 5 or 15 minute call also rations out sex and will call that a chore. She'll leave you when sex feels like a chore to her and she will also leave you if you make communicating frivolously a chore.
Is her name Myesha if so I use to work with this girl if this her if it’s not it looks just like her and she is the type that needs attention period she was always so extra and knew it all not my cup of tea but this looks just like myesha that use to work at mercy medical in Baltimore city
Listen, I lost over 75lbs and became closer, happier and more loving in my marriage! My husband loved my fat ssa just as much as he loves me 75lbs lighter! In fact, he made changes too and lost 70lbs! This is how you do it!!!! We are a FIT happily married couple now!!! #FOREVERLOYAL
Cool
Okay. Great for you! BUT, you do realize you're in a very small minority. Based on the statistics alone you could be lying 🤥 to us. But, I'll chose to give you the benefit of the doubt. Stay joyfully & happily married.
Congrats
@@JamesASharp lol you know it's so dysfunctional that people believe dysfunction is the norm versus healthy Happy relationships! You can definitely believe what you want to believe, but I will tell you that I don't have that type of time to make up a lie. I absolutely could be lying but why? Why can't it be that this story is not the norm and my story is the norm? Because people would rather believe in drama people will rather believe in negativity. I'm a light bringer! I've been wonderfully married for 23 years! And forever to go relationships such as marriages should grow and evolve into the best union possible, could it be that he didn't jump on board and evolve with her? I'm not condoning cheating but maybe he was stuck in his old ways and stagnant and stuck in comfortability whereas she wanted upward movement and to better herself. How can two walk together but to agree? She was leveling up. He possibly needed to read the room, and didn't! Again, I'm not condoning cheating. And she'll likely regret it.
@@leelee5593 ty!!!!!
She is a disgrace to what a Wife and Mother is. Her Ex Husband loved you, protect and provided. Karma is undefeated Ma’am
You don’t know shit you just know from the outside. People are always judging and seeing dumb shit this is a small clip.
@lionessgoddess603 the full video is in the description. The wife basically says the same thing. She admits that she was the problem and her ex-husband didn't do anything.
Is she? Because men have been doing this for centuries
@@lionessgoddess603you must be a cheating wife too
That karma doesn't play and it is brutal
"men WANT to be loved, women love to be WANTED."
😂goes both ways
Yep
@@henluv1no it doesn’t 😅
You said it backwards
@@CaviarDiamondsss well I did not. read the words.
She wasn't really into her husband and she's there because he's a nice guy and a provider. This was in her to cheat the whole time
No, it wasn’t…it was just her options of what she really wanted were actually a reality when she settled for a man, her husband she really didn’t want.
I agree
@@christielove2877 you just proved dude point 🤷🤷🤷🤷 you said the same thing he said ,in different words
@@sidneywilder2731it’s crazy to think that women like her will defend this by trying to come up with some type of explanation to excuse cheating. This is why I don’t trust any of them. It’s too dangerous.
@@eugenechelseafc89 it really is dangerous 😳, this pro basketball player said he don't have a girlfriend because he don't trust to easy ,so everything is everything according to him 🤷🤷 basketball players get cheated on too ,divorced and and took to the cleaners too
She will regret her choices at some point. She left a man who loved her for who she was. It's admirable that she lost weight but she lost sight of the fact that the guy she was cheating with wouldn't have given her a second look had she not lost the weight.
She won’t regret shit as long as simps keep giving her attention
She’ll gain it back be be miserable
I wonder why she would ever expect anyone to wanna be with her after this video. She threw away a marriage to be a toss around
If you watch the full vid she admits that she was wrong and regrets
@@CocoaW555stop making excuses for that damn woman
Imagine leaving a dude that accepted you how you were. Only for the dudes that did not want you when you were big. Ay man I hope we get an update because women truly do it to themselves.
Because she thought he was low value. XX have a double mating strategy
Men are visual and women like money. Good buddy stayed with her only for her to catch feelings for guys who didn't like her visual before. But men do this a lot too when that good woman stayed with you while you are broke, and now you catch feelings for women who did not want you when you were broke. Happens ALL the damn time with these athletes and these IG models. And now you get caught up in a bunch of nonsense.
Pure words of wisdom right there. 🙌🏽
She ended up divorced, and the dude she was cheating with was married, and broke up with her the second she got divorced.
Some men pick heavy ladies because they feel it makes them unattractive to other men do there won't be any chance of her cheating! Little do they know a man will creep with ANYTHING!
"Accept me at my worst, and I'll cheat on you at my best."
--A modern woman
💯🤣💀
Facts 🎉
Truly sad...
Yup lol😂
😅😅😅😅
Lose all that weight just to cheat on her husband now she got no husband and the weight she lost starting to come back 🥴🤦🏿♂️. Some women shoot themselves in the foot then cry foul and no accountability when their decisions turn for the worse
😂😂
@@omarcook3663 it's funny she talks proudly how she was getting all that male attention when she lost weight but the question she avoided is the men that you threw your marriage away for where are they now?? No where to be found especially that work husband she caught feelings for even though he was trying to get a nut he wasn't trying to turn his work husband title to actual husband 😂🤣😂
🤣😂That just tell me because she was the weight she was that's the only reason why she settled with her ex husband because she thought that'll be the best she could do
I’m not calling my gf or wife everyday while at work. Unless it’s an emergency I’ll see you at home. Some chicks are needy because they are either insecure or possibly have some abandonment issues! At best, I’ll send a text, but a phone call everyday is wild! It will become annoying at some point!
Yeah it would be annoying. A daily text is understandable
Exactly. Gotta give them time to miss you
I have worked with so many women that need to be called or calling at lunch 😂 Not me, unless it’s urgent, that’s my time to relax, eat, do my thing…. too needy some people
@@devadii24 exactly, ima start including this in my first few dates questioning: “so, you like phone calls while at work? Oh ok! “ Blocked! 🤣🤣🤣
Omg lol this made me smile like yesss yesss king
This is literally how it always happens. Hypergamy will always triumph.
Hypergamy has nothing to do with this.
Nothing to do with the topic
That’s the danger of dealing with them big girls.🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️😂😂😂😂
🎯💯 who trying to put all that work in a female just for her to get the big head and leave . It's these types that really mess it up for other women who try to do right. It's like we can expect the pretty females to pull stunts like this but when the big 🐻 s are having that same pretty girl attitude then ain't no man safe out there
Facts lol
I used to work at a community center called Douglas, a guy named Andre worked there. Was married to s big woman she lost weight and did the same thing
KEEP THE CONTENT AND KNOWLEDGE COMIN JR.
She was bold she felt entitled
Wow…. Just wow. “I was ready to leave my baby to be with this man.” What in the entire hell 🙄😑
Exactly
Only a crazy person wants to leave a baby for a man 🤯
Are you really surprised?! 😂😂😂😂😂 You women really think that women are incapable of evil. "Women are sugar, spice, and everything nice." You have drunk the Kool-aid. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Men are not angels. And surprise, women aren't angels either.
Leave her marriage and her babies? WTF! What woman who isn’t on dope wants to walk away from their babies…
Oh she was on that D, it just wasn't the soft powdered kind.
The mother of mine did (we were not together) to go have other babies with a baby 🤷🏿♂️
Women of low self esteem get into a loving nurturing relationship and once they gain self esteem and start getting attention from other men they move on to greener pastures
This happens often so I'm not surprised at all.
😅😅😅😅😅 me neither
This happens when you marry the ugly duckling. My ex was the same. She used to be really skinny and braces. As time went own by the time she hit 25 and I was 27. She lost the braces, started gaining weight which gave her a killer shape. And she met a friend at work. Within a year she was sleeping around with numerous men and got pregnant. She later told me that she wasn’t used to so many men giving her attention. She said when she went to the club there was a guy who had money trying to get with her and she asked herself. “Did I check out to early”.
A man does not have to have a 15 minute phone call at work with ANYBODY! He’s at WORK. I as a woman I don’twant to be bothered at work for 15 minutes unless it’s business, doctors appointment or family emergency. Now sometimes I might initiate a call with someone during break if we scheduled it ahead of time. Or I’ll call my grown kids to talk about something interesting in my down time when THEY are not at work.
I saw the full interview. She said he was a great husband.
Question … She said she never felt more desired…Why is it that her husband didn’t make her feel desired…With the weight ? 🤔
You see symmetrically beautiful women who don't believe they are beautiful for whatever is going on in their head. She didn't see herself as desirable when she was big. So she settled in her marriage. He was what she could get being overweight not wanted. Her husband desire for her would never transfer to her feeling desirable because in reality she settled. Her weight lost gave her access to who was previously unavailable in her mind.
She felt desired because for the first time in her life, "The Type" she desired, desired her. He was the step up. The husband was the concession.
@@RepentOrPerishL133 I don't think she settled. Settling is when you can get more, but you choose less. At a heavier weight, she didn't settle; but rather guys she wanted did not want to settle. In order to get that fit guy, she realized she needed to be fit too. And once she got in shape, options opened up to her that she never saw before. She got an ego and now it's all gone to her head.
It's the same thing when someone wins the lottery or s star athlete gets his first big contract. Now all of a sudden, he's tricking off IG models that he never had access to when he was broke and can't control himself.
Little does she know, they are only with her for the shape and not her. She gained the weight back and they disappeared. The same thing happens when a star athlete goes broke like when Dennis Rodman was running around with Madonna and Carmen Electra. They disappeared once the fame and money ran out.
She fell to lust
Props to her for being transparent. On the other side, she deserves all the shame that comes with her actions. This shows that you can’t make all women happy no matter how good you are.
This is what happens MOST of the time
I've noticed big women who lose weight or skinny women who gain weight always want to act like a 304
Passport bros stand up!!!
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As if a women there wouldn’t do the same thing lol
🤔 when you fly back to whatever country you from a new set of passport Bros will take your spot. Am standing up all right am rock hard🍆😂😂
@@Bubbles-qh7ezahhhh no lol they actually value family plantation bro lol
That's crazy!
I had a woman, when I wasn’t working 9-5 but I still needed to do shit daily, calling me everyday - when we were first getting going.
She could call from her job and speak endlessly - when SHE could find on the job space and time to do so.
She was AT work but the conversation meant I couldn’t GET to what I needed to do.
After awhile of course I had to tell her I didn’t have time to talk like that on the phone each day.
And of course she wasn’t understanding and said I was considering myself and my time as “too important” for her!
This while she was ON SALARY calling me - and even interrupting the conversation when immediate job issues would arise!
Didn't a famous DJ wife just do that to her husband?
Its a fxxked up world out here
It's unfortunate that one person acts like an idiot and everyone gets blamed for their nonsense. She should be ashamed and I hope her husband and child can heal from the mess she's created.
None of this dumpster juice behavior reflects anything that I'm doing and I'd advise other people to edit their social media so they aren't only seeing toxic behavior.
I’m European and I find the African-American culture extremely hyper-sexualized.
From the music, the outfits, the body language their actual language…it’s all about sex, getting some, and explicit body parts and what to do with them. It’s getting old real fast, when viewed from the outside.
I actually know two big women who lost weight and left their husbands 😩
Suk EHonda is a creep herself, we just assume creeps like other creeps
My BM was shopping around for a BBL.... i seen the invoice and took off... 😂
She was ready to leave her kids for another man? Your babies though? That line right there caused me to give her the bombastic side eye!
Crazy im listening to this i juz got off the phone wit my gurl while at work for lik 15minz. I didn't feel like talkin of couse im in mode at work but put my ego aside just so she can hear my voice so she can fall asleep
Same thing happened to me
A woman asking for “15 min” during the day clearly has too much time on her hands. A text check in, sure. But a conversation? Nah. We can debrief at the end of the day. 🙅🏾♂️
Yall don’t know people at all. This is a baseline issue with people who have battled self esteem issues. When men hop on here and say “men are only as faithful as their options,” too many say “yeah, that’s right.”
However when a woman is only as faithful as her options yall don’t get it and it becomes a character flaw. In both instances it is a character flaw. Options don’t make you a cheater, lack of discipline makes you a cheater.
My man don’t have to call me everyday but a text won’t hurt maybe a 5 minute call to check in cuz I’m busy making my paper too so it’s not just you
She gained it back.
That's is common for that to happen it's the attention and selfish it's about them they don't care oh they hurt or leave behind until things go sour out there
My husband would rather me dress more provocative which a lil strange to me but I tell him I’m modest because I respect you and our marriage and even dressing modest and men hit on me and I say I’m married they still disrespectful to me
Attention is woman's biggest addiction! And there's no cure
Women are only as loyal as their options. Dude married her but didn't know, he was just taking a long turn.
It's always just your turn.
Men are also only as loyal as their options
@@kitkatbar3871 men don't practice hypergamy, at least not to the same extinct that women do. Some all their life as the inability to be satisfied with what they have only comes second to how they feel at any given moment in time. Case in point, this video. If anything she should have given her best self to her faithful and devoted husband but instead she gave it to a stranger and left her husband, marraige, and even kids, to get pumped and dumped by someone new for a couple of months. This is also a part of why there is no empathy for black women by real black men when they complain about men and relationships.
@@kitkatbar3871That's not what matters to XX. Many podcasts have proved it, you don't like men who have no 304... you'd rather share an alpha. You'd rather share an unfaithful man. My XX acquaintance dropped her husband for an unfaithful athlete...
@@kitkatbar3871men are loyal creatures by nature. Men will stick with women who gained weight, suffered injury or Major illness. Oh, I get it. You are referring to the top 1% guy? Sorry, didn't know 🙄
@kitkatbar3871 men go out the house and barely have to fight temptations
Women walk out the house and get compliments bout a 1000 a day even on the ugly days so you expect me to believe out of 1000 tries you didn't put 1 of them dudes on the roster for a just in case purpose ?
Did they touch on how she gained it back?
Most relationships aren’t meant to last forever. Some are meant to help you grow and learn what to do right in the next relationship. Some people need to understand this. 💯
I hope you're talking about boyfriend and girlfriend and not husband and wife
@@fmc2973I agree with him/her.. My ex was a great woman and I didn’t do right by her.. Have now been married for 14 years since she left me
Second and third marriages have higher divorce rates than first and don't last as long.
Please don't standup in a church ceremony with all the fixings holding to that mentality. You will just be adding to the other worldly buffoonery that has infiltrated the church that needs to be purged.
You've been watching too many women have conversations. That didn't even make sense.
She didn’t say no
That’s the problem
She never loved her husband and never liked or respected him. She always wanted attention from other men. It was her desire. She wiĺl regret her decision thinking grass is greener on the other side.
It’s a thin line between fries and shakes
Married her at her WORST... LEFT HIM AT WHAT SHE THOUGHT WAS HER BEST... STOP MARRYING THESE WOMEN
Sadly this happened all the time because she didn't know who she really was she didn't love herself when she married that man she was just settling because in her mind at that time in her life because of her size she felt like I need to keep this man simply because he's the only one that showed her attention and love at that
WILLING TO LEAVE YOUR KIDS FOR A MAN TOOL😂😂😂😂
One thing about it is , karma wants to be wanted and loved! It’s coming when that guy she wants watch her gain that weight back and he either cheats and tell her the same thing or just go.
Sorry but no. Disrespecting a man’s time when he’s at work trying to provide just to talk? They can talk when you get off work. Women need to grow up and stop acting like teenagers.
Y'all gotta watch her whole interview
Why?
She just wanna make sure you’re at work… she cheating dawg 😂😂
I watched this interview on another channel, she will never be happy. God works in mysterious ways.
I saw hour long interview how broke her story down. End of it all she took accountability of what she did..
The side dude was hittin the base of that pocket 👀….she shouldn’t have open that Pandora’s box. But what comes around goes around
She's settled for her husband. She never really loved him. Because of her low self esteem he was tbe best she thought she could do.
Getting a lot of attention from men isn't all it's cracked up to be. Trust me. Lust is fleeting bcus there is always other women for a man to lust after. I'd rather be loved, cherished and respected. That's what seems to be hard to obtain these days. Just my opinion though....
Man majority of these BBW are just like that
Bobby Womack song 🎵 *a woman's got to have it* she's got to know that she's needed around. She needs to know that she's not walking on shakey ground.
Gwntlemen, understand this one thing, women are only loyal to their emotions. When you understand this, relationships will be more clear to you. Tread carefully and keep it moving accordingly.
She weak as water ....there was never no love for her family 😮
Sheeit, water can cut rock. She's weaker than cotton candy.
She was losing weight for her crush to notice her
She thought sex was love.
Loses 100 lbs, then not only cheats on her husband but has an affair, 'punishes' affair partner's behavior with other women by cheating with other sex flings, aborts a fetus because she does not know who father the baby... all this to only realize affair partner never cared to have anything with her; probably wishing he never sexed her to begin with.
And then, coming to this interview having lost most everything, but with the weight gained back.
Karma, dawg!
Now her ex husband is re married with there child and she’s a lonely thot.
🔥🔥🔥🔥
I disagree...... All women don't think like this
I will say this, the bible does not require a woman to love her husband but does require the husband to love his wife. The wife must respect her husband. The Lord understood how important it is for a wife to respect her husband. Women today are lost foolish and showing how little they understand their role as a wife. If a man loves you, he will move heaven and earth to please you. A smart woman will respect and care for him and the family.
damn sucks to be him
The interview with the woman who lost 100 pounds and cheated on her husband was the worse 49 minutes I’ve ever watched.
Even though she never spoke of any ill words towards her ex husband, she got conceded once she lost her weight. She start feeling herself and it went out of control.
They even asked in the interview if her husband had a chance to date her once she lost weight and she actually said no.
Another thing about the interview was that she referred to her husband as her best friend but friends don’t do friends the way she treated her husband.
She was even pregnant at one time and didn’t know who’s child it was and had it aborted.
I’m glad her husband was able to bounce back and marry someone else but this woman was just horrible.
The bottom line was she married someone she wasn’t into and I was wondering why did she even date him and marry him.
Cause that was her only option. And at times, our only option is our best option .
Thanks cause I was interested but not tryn watch that
So how she gain the weight back?
@@JarodM-s3cbelieve that if you want to 😆
How about the woman carry herself like a lady and Paul would never think to disrespect her like that!
YK Osiris just be taking L after L
I’m going through that rn the girl that I talk to wants to sit on the phone for hours I hate phone calls. i told her if I’m on the phone with her I focus on her but l she wanna be on there 4 hours everyday. I’m lowkey coo off her tho she a lil crazy. I’m ok with clingy. I just think she has too much time on her hands if she wanna be on the phone all day. I told her to get a hobby chill w yo friends she just don’t listen.
Why is everyone so surprised at this woman only love under a condition not unconditionally
Women are only loyal to their WANTS & NEEDS period … if Captain America wanted Lizzie for a night or two she wld tell her boyfriend she’s not happy and wants to break up !
This why they got passport bros
This is a dam shame!!’
Wait…a big black sister modest? That is 40oz cap. I don’t know what big modest chicks.
Did she gain the weight back
That's the irony
I never met a Paul in my life. So no. Real men don't fuck with Paul's
So let me get this right, the very man that probably supported her on her goals and journey was treated like trash by her while she cheated on the good man she had because she was feeling desired by other men. Hmmm sounds like what us black men put up with all the time. Now we do not have to. She will soon regret her decisions because as she developed I'm sure through the pain he will eventually elevate 12 times more than she will in value. I am also sure she will double back but by then it will be too late he will be gone or forever changed. She is a disgrace to the wedding vows of for better or worse, through sickness and health till death due you part. I'm assuming she said I do then fast forward years later now she don't after the agreement to do so. So when women brake contract and self sabotage their relationships they should be mandated to pay back the husband for the expense of the wedding and anything that he provided after their wedding. This would hopefully remind women to take their marriage vowels more seriously then to throw it all away for a false superficial belief. Looks can always change but your thought process is the most important change of it all. See if a woman thinks like her then she shouldn't get married or be quarted by other men. I said what I said.
He got married to someone already she wanted him to act crazy after finding out what she did and he got her with kindness.
AVERAGE STILL OVER WEIGHT!
The question is will she make time for you? Women will always make excuses to cheat regardless of her man's level of attention she gets.
That lady is way too loud.
That's why I've always said: if you met her big, keep her big! The moment you encourage your chick to lose weight, she will begin to feel herself too much, and aim to replace your butt, even if you were the one who cheered her on!
If you met her while she's in shape. Fine! But if you met her big (perhaps that's your thing, or you "settled"); then NEVER cheer her on to shed pounds! Ever! You will regret it! It's better to keep a woman feeling insecure about herself, than for her to feel like she's hot shit.
Hmm
😂 what if a person wants to be on some bs let them just focus on yourself
@@leelee5593😆👍💯
Not surprised at All … Like I said when u help a women accomplish ANYTHING she WILL lose RESPECT for YOU ! … if u think I’m bs’ing go head and test my theory !
She’s ain’t shit one thing you gotta understand she’s not yours it’s just your turn and karma doesn’t have 🤔💔💔 an expiration date🤔
What is the point of this guy's channel? To show that women are scandalous because guys get called out for being scandalous more often? Trying to make it fairer? Seems like common knowledge that human beings are hedonistic and have little integrity.
@@randallmadison9910 bollocks.
Jr ending the video what that simp energy oh, so it only takes 15 minutes to call the woman
The same woman that will be complaining about not getting a 5 or 15 minute call also rations out sex and will call that a chore. She'll leave you when sex feels like a chore to her and she will also leave you if you make communicating frivolously a chore.
Hypergamy is real.
Behind the 8 ball on this one, jay. Women are dangerous
Is her name Myesha if so I use to work with this girl if this her if it’s not it looks just like her and she is the type that needs attention period she was always so extra and knew it all not my cup of tea but this looks just like myesha that use to work at mercy medical in Baltimore city
Why are you out with weird Paul?
1:55 when it comes to specific women i totally disagree with you on this