@@deemac1094 How do you know that. Most most men aren't even descent. There are a few who are only descent because they can't get women so they have to be fake nice.
I have said I need to get 3 or 4 women pregnant at once than I will find my wife. Women love chaos 🤷🏾♂️ they like fighting other women over you especially if you not on nothing 😂😂. They go to all out war than
Well I will admit when I heard the first part is is dumbass story she just sounded stupid then she needs to take a dumbass to a therapist and tell them about it instead of going online talking about it
You know why she called him Boy! She pick a boy instead of man. Boys are learning responsibilities, while men are responsible. She wanted someone she can control. And now she is complaining about her choice.
I usually don't agree with statements like this, because majority of women don't like being played, but she seems excited about it, liked she likes the drama.
I haven’t been through this nonsense since my college days. She married the player without checking his assets, liabilities, or creditworthiness. It must be nice to be a handsome devil. In my experience, these chicks always try to qualify me for a relationship, not marriage. This woman didn’t know how much this man gets paid biweekly. It is true today as it was in high school. Women are only concerned about the aesthetics of the relationship as long as everything looks good to viewers staring at the husband and her. She is happy to be doing better than the other chicken heads. Regardless of the insurmountable red flags, she is witnessing in her investigation. Why didn’t Miss Smarty Pants do that before she got married to him? Don’t save her or feel sorry for her! TMI! How does sharing over the internet help her or the marriage in question? Stay toxic, my friends or treat her based on how she treats you. Offer no handouts!🤷🏾♂️🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
That's an instant red flag for me. Anyone who puts their personal business on social media is not someone you can trust, and they're doing it for attention.
Right..! Cars don't even have deeds. They have titles. Only houses have deeds. This B^h lying.. I don't believe anything she is saying. bw love hearing about 💩like this, though. 😒😒
I used to work at the child support office in AR.we had our own office but we worked directly with the court. If he signed the baby birth certificate, then he automatically is put on with no DNA test. I'm not sure if it's all states. But I have witnessed a guy with 4 BM and they didn't all know about each other at first 😂
This type of woman has complex issues. First,they really want a baby baby w/o all that comes with it, so they get themselves a whole man/child to fill that role. You can not just put a baby baby out when you get tired of whatever, but you can put a man/child out when you are tired of it. Second, these type of woman love drama. They are addicted to drama. M
This needs to be said. Some of these "so-called" Pookies be on the DL and everything else. But yet, its the ones they label as square dudes they hate so much....make it make sense...smdh
@@gregs7460 It's 2023. Don't nobody have to go through what men have to go through to have a woman....and he likes men. That was for the 1980's and 90's. Anybody lying and backtracking and covering up babies to keep a woman around.... don't like men like that or else he'd just be with one.
Women absolutely love men like this, and complain about the bullshet. But theyre the first to get picked, because he so nice. The good dudes have to deal with the aftermath lol, pookie gets it all for free.
Going to church, wack. Respect her, wack. Making her an honest woman, wack. Church doesn’t make a man good and thus doesn’t mean a woman should follow you. Respecting a woman NEVER ever makes her respect you. She gotta see you are a man of respect and character. Drop her if she don’t and build up your respect and etc. What I said before adds to making her an honest woman. Staying on your purpose is a weekly, quarterly and yearly thing. A woman has to see you doing something she can build herself into. Not knocking you but we gotta shift this whole narrative that religion makes you righteous.
@@whoisdesirtvI go church as well. At the same time does not mean I’m going simp over your ass either 😂. Second see you moving different tell that woman the the door ✌️
I disagree. I'm a mother I have children. My first love died my oldest child passed away from a rare cancer. I don't have time for games and cheating etc. I want to live a peaceful loyal happy loving life. Yes "women" love finding cheating so they have something to do. However some women do not. I am one of them. You entertain another woman you don't get a second chance.
If Donovan fooled the marriage counselors, then they should take more forensic psychology classes😳 I smelled compulsive, pathological and habitual liar the moment she talked about his behavior. My question is, how long did they date❓️😳 she neverrrr noticed anything shady about him😳
These women just don't know the longer they keep gluing these eyelashes the faster they will go blind I saw a story said the glue is getting in their eye skin causing blindness it's probably seeping to they brains too the way they acting😂
I think both women and men love the physical. We go thru all sorts of mental gymnastics to justify staying with them bc it's what we like. I have stayed with women with great bodies and women stay with good-looking pookie baby daddies bc that's what they like.
My marriage was a mess at first. A real Jerry Springer episode. Then we got tired of it and decided we just wanted to be boring and in love. All it takes is a decision. It doesn’t have to be this chaotic. Go to work, come home, enjoy the companionship. Enjoy the intimacy. Go have fun together. That’s it.
Agreed. Her mannerisms. How hype she is. She is crazy nonetheless. And dudes love dealing with this type of woman because they slow and financially supportive.
I believe it. I’m going through something similar. I cry alone in solitude but I’m hyped up when I tell my story. She’s venting. She’s grateful for the information discovered. It’s weird but a rewarding feeling.
No women don't love this, she loves this. Get it right pls. I would have left his ass long time ago. She praying for signs and God has slapped them in her face multiple times. She love this and don't put all women in her category
Always interesting how quite a few women paint themselves as the victim, but wanna be viewed as strong? 🤔 such an oxymoron to me. You got caught lacking, that's why you're a victim. Victims aren't strong at all.
JR I know now if I never knew YOU NOT HERE FOR THE DRAMA 🤣😂🤣 you look like my hubby when I get into stories… so uncomfortable exuding “ hurry up woman, hurry tf up already w/ this story!” 😂😂😂❤
I've never understood black women's fascination with Pookie & Ray-Ray.....They will literally jump over Malik a successful HVM 👨🏽💼 that owns his own 🏡, drives a BMW, and has 0 children to get to Ray-Ray who lives in his mother's basement, rides a huffy 🚲, sells 💿's in front of the corner 🏬, and just so happens to have 5 kids by 5 different baby mommas
Why do people be so surprised that the person they want isn’t what they want fr. It be so funny because the man that women be describing and wanting damn near doesn’t exist. And if he’s out there he don’t have time for YOU. Same with dudes. Y’all be wanting her to look good and loyal to you too but also be humble and regular and shit and it’s like sometimes some of the shit y’all want actually contradict it’s own nature and will never turn out how u want it. You’re gonna be unhappy for the rest of your life pretending that u good. Not lonely either. Just unhappy. Men and women.
I'd disagree with the second part of your statement. Women don't have to be insufferable because she's pretty, that's ridiculous. Being a good person & good-looking simultaneously is an exclusively Male trait??? I honestly call bs. Women choose to be trash when they're pretty due to being coddled/treated a certain way in society. Men don't inherently do that.
You're exactly right. I realized years ago when I was purposely dating that if I found a woman that checked all the boxes on my list that she wouldn't be interested in me because she had a ton of options.
So women like drama. That's t not true. She caught up in the situation because this behavior is something you learn. She has observed this perhaps through her family. I taught my da
Women like this will except the physical look, and think they can work on the rest . Then complain when they get what they get. Women like this get on my nerves. Lol
She's so pretty. I can't believe she's putting up with that shyt. He steals your car and goes m.i.a for two weeks and she still stayed? I don't even feel bad for her. She's doing it to herself cuz he's showing you who he is yet she wants to go to counseling?! Bruh smh 🥴
Most men are into extreme sports. That Adrenaline rush, that physical feeling of intense excitement, up and down, drama filled relationship, that is most women extreme sport. That's how they get intense excitement that they're looking for.
Y'all wmn are crazy for saying JR is crazy for saying wmn don't love this. This ain't nobody's first rodeo. It's too many wmn that consistently go through this and to be totally honest, many of us men have played this type of game ourselves and guess what????....it always works. It probably worked on you a couple of times if YOU ARE HONEST. You might not go for it today but you went for it in the past so you're open to game😂😂😂
It’s a no for me. I have always done background checks, asked around and the first lie I’m out. People who lie about anything are weird AF. All the I’m private and this and that is bs is folk hiding isht. She signed up for pure immaturity. Then he just wasting money.
No we don’t love it we love getting the proof so we don’t get gaslighted. We love being able to walk away with a clean conscious. We don’t love the drama it’s finding out we were right all along that we love. Not the drama but the clarity
I remember I was foolishly in love with someone who just would not stop cheating. I played victim until one day a friend of mine said “You keep letting this happen, you are no longer a victim but an accomplice to your own heartbreak” whew chile got me together real quick!
Girrrrrl I was trying to be on your side, you know sympathize but you should have not tried to continue to work with this relationship and stop being shocked about him lying.🤨
No woman loves to be hurt and disrespected. Alpha, Beta or Zeta doesnt even matter. Dishonesty, and lacking integrity is disgusting. A man has integrity and respect for his woman. However, when you catch someone in lies, and see how deep the lies go.... thats the crazy mind blowing part.
J.R. You made this more about the wannabe Pookie than the volunteer...her. She's living a Bill Withers song. "I'm gonna spread the news, that if it feels this good getting used, oh then just keep on usin' me, until you use me up."
When she said HOUSTON I laughed so loud. I’ve lived here all of my life and the men ain’t 💩 when I was single and dating I quickly learned this and I was CELIBATE. Married my coworker that I had worked with for 4 years . I knew he was NORMAL 😂
I hope this is all a fake story because at the end of the day she got exactly what she attracts if it’s true. She’s not all together and he wasn’t either everyone listen….we all need to run fast before these two catch any of us 😂😂😂😂😂
If a guy can't even pay 80% of the household bills, no matter who is making the most money, he needs to not be with the person he is with or get another income.
@@bhillboy37 lol you say that as if it's a lot of money. I wouldn't be moving in with her, so what she pays in her own spot is of no consequence to me. She would be moving in with me. I pay 100% of the bills. If she feels the need to chip in on bills, I will throw her the cheapest one just so she can feel she's doing SOMETHING. If she makes significantly more than me and moving in with me means a step down in lifestyle for her, that's a choice she has to make. But I am not gonna get a home that is beyond what I can pay 100% of the bills by myself. There's plenty she can contribute to around the home. Groceries and other things needed or wanted around the home. Or she can be in charge of vacations and investments. But all of the house bills are my responsibility.
@@sonnyqsoul Big head...300k is a lot of money, I don't care how you slice it. I don't care that you make more. It's in the top 1% of all of the people in the world. You said all that but what you didn't say is that you've been with one that makes 2-300 Grand. It's easy to pay all of your woman's bills when she don't make much or doesn't have an expensive lifestyle and hobbies. You're really going to tell your lawyer wife that she can't get the home she wants because you like where you live? You lack life experience to say what a man should or shouldn't do.
@@bhillboy37 now you're moving the goalpost. I specifically said pay the house bills, not her bills. If she lives in her place and I live in my place, why would I pay her bills? Secondly, it doesn't matter how much money she makes, I still move the way that I move, and if she gonna be with me, she's gonna move accordingly or she's not gonna be with me. It's that simple. Thirdly, you've no idea what life experiences I have. What you lack is the knowledge of what it means to be a man. If you can afford her, don't try to be with her. If she doesn't wanna take a step down in lifestyle, don't try to get with her. She should be conforming to your lifestyle, not the other way around. If you are conforming to hers, you're not the leader of that relationship and it's over before it actually gets serious.
Idk why people are so unhappy with what they have these days. She seems like a nice, decent women. She’s attractive, has a good paying job apparently. Why is her husband so unhappy with himself that he has to lie constantly. It’s the opposite of alpha for me. 🙄
It's called FOOL'S GOLD syndrome.. she's the willing fool and she was his GOLDen meal ticket. She's NOT a victim, this is thrilling to her via attention. She knew and took on dude as a challenge. 😒 poor baby tho. 🙏🏻 smh
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Trauma Bonding 101
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THIS IS WHY THEY NEED TO BAN TIKTOK!;SHE SAID A MILION MIND YOU'S DAMN I WAS EXHAUSTED!
She loves it
She likes the drama. It shows. She has seen all these red flags and still stayed with him. She likes the game
That's why she didn't keep a decent dude
becuz she is a pookie!!! lol
@@deemac1094 How do you know that. Most most men aren't even descent. There are a few who are only descent because they can't get women so they have to be fake nice.
Omg I said the same darn thing she loves the drama
I have said I need to get 3 or 4 women pregnant at once than I will find my wife. Women love chaos 🤷🏾♂️ they like fighting other women over you especially if you not on nothing 😂😂. They go to all out war than
She put up with too much. He don't respect you if he's lying. She stayed married to say she has a husband but she never had a marriage.
She stayed married to say she is married. He is not a husband nor husband material. Thus, no marriage.
She making herself look bad by even telling this mess of a story.
Facts
If he is a Jamaican Donovan she is in a load 😆
Well I will admit when I heard the first part is is dumbass story she just sounded stupid then she needs to take a dumbass to a therapist and tell them about it instead of going online talking about it
So true
she need to shut up she's doing this for views and likes and content its probably not even a real story
You know why she called him Boy! She pick a boy instead of man. Boys are learning responsibilities, while men are responsible. She wanted someone she can control. And now she is complaining about her choice.
Exactly!
This woman likes the sound of her own voice. This really does sound like a woman who loves drama and chaos. Avoid women like this.
I usually don't agree with statements like this, because majority of women don't like being played, but she seems excited about it, liked she likes the drama.
I told my 15 yr old son…THIS IS WHAT TOXIC FEMININITY LOOKS LIKE
@@freethinkingMILF. Probably gives her something to do.
She still in love with him and will give him anything he wants. She's just trying to look like she's in charge but she's still a fool for the player.
He’s not even a real player he’s a clown real players don’t have to lie to women they just tell them the truth
trauma bonding 101
What woman are you around? What woman would love this type of stuff? This is very stressful just listening to it alone.
THIS! This is the comment I was looking for!
I was about to say the same thing. What kind of women does he entertain ?
I am starting to think you hate women or you have chosen poorly over and over again. Do you need a hug? Big sis is here
Right it's causing me anxiety just listening to it 😂
He generalizes a lot like many people do now and days and it’s so annoying.
This is just too much. She is sounding desperate. I would have bounced, filed for a divorce and call it a L.
The words she uses shows she gets what she likes, (bro) and (boy) that’s how she really sees him and he’s grown.
She's immature
Yup😉
I haven’t been through this nonsense since my college days. She married the player without checking his assets, liabilities, or creditworthiness. It must be nice to be a handsome devil. In my experience, these chicks always try to qualify me for a relationship, not marriage. This woman didn’t know how much this man gets paid biweekly. It is true today as it was in high school. Women are only concerned about the aesthetics of the relationship as long as everything looks good to viewers staring at the husband and her. She is happy to be doing better than the other chicken heads. Regardless of the insurmountable red flags, she is witnessing in her investigation. Why didn’t Miss Smarty Pants do that before she got married to him? Don’t save her or feel sorry for her! TMI! How does sharing over the internet help her or the marriage in question? Stay toxic, my friends or treat her based on how she treats you. Offer no handouts!🤷🏾♂️🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
That's an instant red flag for me. Anyone who puts their personal business on social media is not someone you can trust, and they're doing it for attention.
This the type of men Tyler Perry want us with at least he can pay the light bill 😂😂
This is the type of man you're attracted to. Just embrace it,own it. 😂
🙃 sure ya right 😎👒👛👠🧉🤭🤣🤣🤣
*smoke💨💨💨💨
Yall love pookie’s
Passport ✈️🌎👩🏽
Deed to her car 🚗 is wild. 😂
Exactly.. they were made for each other
Right..! Cars don't even have deeds. They have titles. Only houses have deeds. This B^h lying.. I don't believe anything she is saying. bw love hearing about 💩like this, though. 😒😒
They both got what they deserved.
In Texas, the AG's office also handles child support issues, which includes paternity tests.
Ahhhh. Thanks for the clarification.
So basically the AG in Texas has to survive brain aneurysms from listening to these pookies and pookieetts
I used to work at the child support office in AR.we had our own office but we worked directly with the court. If he signed the baby birth certificate, then he automatically is put on with no DNA test.
I'm not sure if it's all states.
But I have witnessed a guy with 4 BM and they didn't all know about each other at first 😂
@KensinTe not in texas. No matter if the dad signs the birth certificate if he or she has a question of paternity a test is done.
She acted more like his mother than his wife so he reverted to acting like a child.
Yes 😂.
This type of woman has complex issues. First,they really want a baby baby w/o all that comes with it, so they get themselves a whole man/child to fill that role. You can not just put a baby baby out when you get tired of whatever, but you can put a man/child out when you are tired of it. Second, these type of woman love drama. They are addicted to drama. M
Pathological lairs use nice guy routine to smoke screen their false stories.
This needs to be said. Some of these "so-called" Pookies be on the DL and everything else. But yet, its the ones they label as square dudes they hate so much....make it make sense...smdh
Let's not start that bs. A ghey has no reason to be a pookie. Seriously, what's the point of that?
@bhillboy37 Whats the point of that?? To cover up the fact that they bisexual. That's the point of that!! Smdh
@@gregs7460 It's 2023. Don't nobody have to go through what men have to go through to have a woman....and he likes men. That was for the 1980's and 90's. Anybody lying and backtracking and covering up babies to keep a woman around.... don't like men like that or else he'd just be with one.
Women absolutely love men like this, and complain about the bullshet. But theyre the first to get picked, because he so nice. The good dudes have to deal with the aftermath lol, pookie gets it all for free.
But the man who worked making $50k/yr, goes to church and pays tithes, respect her, and wanted to make her a honest woman. He just wasn’t her type lol
Going to church, wack. Respect her, wack. Making her an honest woman, wack.
Church doesn’t make a man good and thus doesn’t mean a woman should follow you.
Respecting a woman NEVER ever makes her respect you. She gotta see you are a man of respect and character. Drop her if she don’t and build up your respect and etc.
What I said before adds to making her an honest woman. Staying on your purpose is a weekly, quarterly and yearly thing. A woman has to see you doing something she can build herself into.
Not knocking you but we gotta shift this whole narrative that religion makes you righteous.
@@whoisdesirtvI go church as well. At the same time does not mean I’m going simp over your ass either 😂. Second see you moving different tell that woman the the door ✌️
@@whoisdesirtvtrue...
@feleciamorris2861 that is true. Woman or man will show who they truly are. Have see red flags. Earlier see them the better.
I’m with you. Even though like I said do same but still don’t ignore or be naive what woman showing you. Take face value.
I disagree. I'm a mother I have children. My first love died my oldest child passed away from a rare cancer. I don't have time for games and cheating etc. I want to live a peaceful loyal happy loving life. Yes "women" love finding cheating so they have something to do. However some women do not. I am one of them. You entertain another woman you don't get a second chance.
So sorry for youre loss, I lost my husband, I know that feeling, sending prayers, & hugs to you, & you're family❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Sorry for your loss 🙏🏽
If Donovan fooled the marriage counselors, then they should take more forensic psychology classes😳 I smelled compulsive, pathological and habitual liar the moment she talked about his behavior.
My question is, how long did they date❓️😳 she neverrrr noticed anything shady about him😳
Covert narcissist!!🎯🎯
PART 2!! Ive been waiting for this!
These women just don't know the longer they keep gluing these eyelashes the faster they will go blind I saw a story said the glue is getting in their eye skin causing blindness it's probably seeping to they brains too the way they acting😂
Is her lashing falling?
😅😅
I think both women and men love the physical. We go thru all sorts of mental gymnastics to justify staying with them bc it's what we like. I have stayed with women with great bodies and women stay with good-looking pookie baby daddies bc that's what they like.
My marriage was a mess at first. A real Jerry Springer episode. Then we got tired of it and decided we just wanted to be boring and in love. All it takes is a decision. It doesn’t have to be this chaotic. Go to work, come home, enjoy the companionship. Enjoy the intimacy. Go have fun together. That’s it.
Running the numbers through Zelle is diabolical 😂😂😂😂
One of her eyes is smaller or squinting. Or magbe the lash is not straight. 😂
He done gave her a stroke lol
After this, I don’t believe this is a true story it’s something that she made up for clout!
Same, the math is not mathing.
No I've known women this stupid. I use to work with a woman just like this!.
Agreed. Her mannerisms. How hype she is. She is crazy nonetheless. And dudes love dealing with this type of woman because they slow and financially supportive.
I believe it. I’m going through something similar. I cry alone in solitude but I’m hyped up when I tell my story. She’s venting. She’s grateful for the information discovered. It’s weird but a rewarding feeling.
First off, you threw a black woman’s clothes out, the police was not called or family members haven’t pulled up!
It ain’t real!!
No women don't love this, she loves this. Get it right pls. I would have left his ass long time ago. She praying for signs and God has slapped them in her face multiple times. She love this and don't put all women in her category
Exactly! i would give her more of a pass if she were younger but atp she's answering her own questions and still dismissing it LOL
I dealt with a man who was a COMPULSIVE LIAR, but once I’ve seen how far he would go just to keep up that lie I GOT TF!!!
I’m invested fr yo Donavan a wild boi. Can’t wait for next week sis‼️ 😂
Who cares 😂😂😂
Big up K.S... Attract what you deserve ( Pooks and Rays )
Isn't that what he attracted? 😂
Stop saying Women loves this. All women are not the same.
Who the HELL want to get up every day!!!!! To this drama in their house!!!!
Run the number through zelle? That’s actually kinda smart. I never thought of that. These women the FBI frfr
sure ya right 😎👒👛👠🧉💨💨💨💨
*smoke
This is alot of women right now but they love this kind of life!!!
Ladies saying bro. Major turn off!
Pay tithes....NOT! Give them a bag of beans, corn, murr, rice & wheat
Or a damn goat 😏
He's ready to help you because you are his bread and butter
When I saw this. I said. No other video is being watched until I see this through
Part 3 please 👍🏻
Always interesting how quite a few women paint themselves as the victim, but wanna be viewed as strong? 🤔 such an oxymoron to me. You got caught lacking, that's why you're a victim. Victims aren't strong at all.
JR I know now if I never knew YOU NOT HERE FOR THE DRAMA 🤣😂🤣 you look like my hubby when I get into stories… so uncomfortable exuding “ hurry up woman, hurry tf up already w/ this story!” 😂😂😂❤
If this man lies this much, how did she not notice it before they got married?
He is a undercover Pookie Ray Ray and have the Powers of Fragile Simps and wearing the Mask of Good kinded Nice Guy!!!!
Thanks Wisdom. If she had a man that treated her REAL GOOD , she would be bored out her mind .
She is absolutely loving this. Look at her face when you pause it at 19:40. She is fucking glowing about this shit!!!
I swear dude is the male version of my ex, lies Lies LIES 🤣🤣🤣
She wanted a man she could control and showed her attention. And his dysfunctional gives her an emotional boost
I've never understood black women's fascination with Pookie & Ray-Ray.....They will literally jump over Malik a successful HVM 👨🏽💼 that owns his own 🏡, drives a BMW, and has 0 children to get to Ray-Ray who lives in his mother's basement, rides a huffy 🚲, sells 💿's in front of the corner 🏬, and just so happens to have 5 kids by 5 different baby mommas
Drama queen... she love this. Look how excited she his.
Why do people be so surprised that the person they want isn’t what they want fr. It be so funny because the man that women be describing and wanting damn near doesn’t exist. And if he’s out there he don’t have time for YOU. Same with dudes. Y’all be wanting her to look good and loyal to you too but also be humble and regular and shit and it’s like sometimes some of the shit y’all want actually contradict it’s own nature and will never turn out how u want it. You’re gonna be unhappy for the rest of your life pretending that u good. Not lonely either. Just unhappy. Men and women.
So true
I'd disagree with the second part of your statement. Women don't have to be insufferable because she's pretty, that's ridiculous. Being a good person & good-looking simultaneously is an exclusively Male trait??? I honestly call bs.
Women choose to be trash when they're pretty due to being coddled/treated a certain way in society. Men don't inherently do that.
You're exactly right. I realized years ago when I was purposely dating that if I found a woman that checked all the boxes on my list that she wouldn't be interested in me because she had a ton of options.
So women like drama. That's t not true. She caught up in the situation because this behavior is something you learn. She has observed this perhaps through her family. I taught my da
@@A_JoshOfAllTradesmost men aren’t good looking and a good person either lol.
Look how hard she work to keep a Pookie 😂
😂😅😂
This sheeeeeit is hilarious! And then she put it on the innanet😂😂😂😂🤦🏿♂️ thank God i aint never dealt with a situation like these couples go thru😂
Can’t trust a Jamaican Donavan… hence , I am a Jamaican
Women like this will except the physical look, and think they can work on the rest . Then complain when they get what they get. Women like this get on my nerves. Lol
He must be blowing her back completely out! Or this story was written by Tyler Perry
She seems liked she enjoyed being the ringmaster to her circus. He showed signs way before they got married.
She got a deed on a car and attorney generals doing paternity tests??!! 🤔🤔
She's so pretty. I can't believe she's putting up with that shyt. He steals your car and goes m.i.a for two weeks and she still stayed? I don't even feel bad for her. She's doing it to herself cuz he's showing you who he is yet she wants to go to counseling?! Bruh smh 🥴
I need a part 3 I'm invested now
Does she not realize pookie association makes her 🗑️
i was waiting for this one
In my uncle Roger's voice
" emotional damage"
Most men are into extreme sports. That Adrenaline rush, that physical feeling of intense excitement, up and down, drama filled relationship, that is most women extreme sport. That's how they get intense excitement that they're looking for.
Facts.
Having a toxic relationship is a right of passage for women. They don't want a relationship that is smooth sailing
This broad is like Kobe when it comes to drama wit dudes
@@usefhaslem6643 I would love a smooth relationship 😂
So they will do A LOT for the right (wrong) dude😂😂😂😂
She probably made this story up
Y'all wmn are crazy for saying JR is crazy for saying wmn don't love this. This ain't nobody's first rodeo. It's too many wmn that consistently go through this and to be totally honest, many of us men have played this type of game ourselves and guess what????....it always works. It probably worked on you a couple of times if YOU ARE HONEST. You might not go for it today but you went for it in the past so you're open to game😂😂😂
It’s a no for me. I have always done background checks, asked around and the first lie I’m out. People who lie about anything are weird AF. All the I’m private and this and that is bs is folk hiding isht. She signed up for pure immaturity. Then he just wasting money.
Ain’t nobody make a comment about her eye
I wanted to so bad. Might be a stroke or palsy
Everybody gon ignore this eye though
No we don’t love it we love getting the proof so we don’t get gaslighted. We love being able to walk away with a clean conscious. We don’t love the drama it’s finding out we were right all along that we love. Not the drama but the clarity
2 kids in the stash is crazy work😂😂😂😂
I can honestly admit I liked to hear about this type of drama however I for sure dont want this poison in my relationship!!
I remember I was foolishly in love with someone who just would not stop cheating. I played victim until one day a friend of mine said “You keep letting this happen, you are no longer a victim but an accomplice to your own heartbreak” whew chile got me together real quick!
Girrrrrl I was trying to be on your side, you know sympathize but you should have not tried to continue to work with this relationship and stop being shocked about him lying.🤨
No woman loves to be hurt and disrespected. Alpha, Beta or Zeta doesnt even matter. Dishonesty, and lacking integrity is disgusting. A man has integrity and respect for his woman. However, when you catch someone in lies, and see how deep the lies go.... thats the crazy mind blowing part.
J.R. You made this more about the wannabe Pookie than the volunteer...her. She's living a Bill Withers song. "I'm gonna spread the news, that if it feels this good getting used, oh then just keep on usin' me, until you use me up."
I bet all her friends feel like ignoring her phone calls becuz all she gonna do is talk about dude for 2 hrs nonstop running her bird mouth
When she said HOUSTON I laughed so loud. I’ve lived here all of my life and the men ain’t 💩 when I was single and dating I quickly learned this and I was CELIBATE. Married my coworker that I had worked with for 4 years . I knew he was NORMAL 😂
Love the intro! Very nice.
We need pt 3!!😂😂😂
That Zelle part was a good little tip.
She loves this shit😂😂😂😂
Child support issues I can relate and feel the pain
God showed her signs from day one, she just chose to ignore God in pursuit of what SHE wanted!!
First off your first mistake is having an iphone. Make sure you empty your trash.
Omg its exhausting. She is the problem as well
Lmao its something wrong with you if you believe we love when "lil boys " cheat on us. She is telling the story after the fact which by then its funny
I hope this is all a fake story because at the end of the day she got exactly what she attracts if it’s true. She’s not all together and he wasn’t either everyone listen….we all need to run fast before these two catch any of us 😂😂😂😂😂
She knew he was a pookie and tried to change him. However, it’s back firing.
Y’all should hear my story 😅
Wow running the numbers through Zelle is so smart
Deed to the car? 😂🤣😭
She knew who he was that's why she got with him.stop the bull@#$%
All this convo....but she choosed him
When she told her husband it's his time to shine he should've known that she had something on him and he should've come clean.
If a guy can't even pay 80% of the household bills, no matter who is making the most money, he needs to not be with the person he is with or get another income.
You must ain't NEVER been with a chick that make 2-300 Grand. You really want to pay 80% of that chicks bills? FOH
@@bhillboy37 lol you say that as if it's a lot of money. I wouldn't be moving in with her, so what she pays in her own spot is of no consequence to me. She would be moving in with me. I pay 100% of the bills. If she feels the need to chip in on bills, I will throw her the cheapest one just so she can feel she's doing SOMETHING. If she makes significantly more than me and moving in with me means a step down in lifestyle for her, that's a choice she has to make. But I am not gonna get a home that is beyond what I can pay 100% of the bills by myself. There's plenty she can contribute to around the home. Groceries and other things needed or wanted around the home. Or she can be in charge of vacations and investments. But all of the house bills are my responsibility.
@@sonnyqsoul Big head...300k is a lot of money, I don't care how you slice it. I don't care that you make more. It's in the top 1% of all of the people in the world. You said all that but what you didn't say is that you've been with one that makes 2-300 Grand. It's easy to pay all of your woman's bills when she don't make much or doesn't have an expensive lifestyle and hobbies. You're really going to tell your lawyer wife that she can't get the home she wants because you like where you live? You lack life experience to say what a man should or shouldn't do.
@@bhillboy37 now you're moving the goalpost. I specifically said pay the house bills, not her bills. If she lives in her place and I live in my place, why would I pay her bills? Secondly, it doesn't matter how much money she makes, I still move the way that I move, and if she gonna be with me, she's gonna move accordingly or she's not gonna be with me. It's that simple. Thirdly, you've no idea what life experiences I have. What you lack is the knowledge of what it means to be a man. If you can afford her, don't try to be with her. If she doesn't wanna take a step down in lifestyle, don't try to get with her. She should be conforming to your lifestyle, not the other way around. If you are conforming to hers, you're not the leader of that relationship and it's over before it actually gets serious.
@@sonnyqsoul I don't lead with my wallet. Feel free to do so at your leisure.
This chick is literally the poster child for the drama looking chicks JR talks about all the time. I used to think he was exaggerating but no…
22:42 at least he’s clean af 😂😂😂
Idk why people are so unhappy with what they have these days. She seems like a nice, decent women. She’s attractive, has a good paying job apparently. Why is her husband so unhappy with himself that he has to lie constantly. It’s the opposite of alpha for me. 🙄
Seems like she is aggressive and dramatic
It's called FOOL'S GOLD syndrome.. she's the willing fool and she was his GOLDen meal ticket. She's NOT a victim, this is thrilling to her via attention. She knew and took on dude as a challenge. 😒 poor baby tho. 🙏🏻 smh