Being a woman has nothing to do with my ability to cook, do laundry, and cater to my man. If that man is not my husband, he will not receive any husband benefits. Nah, sis is most definitely trippin'. I am not his maid.
The issue wasn't that women don't do anything. The issue is giving all these benefits to a man that isn't my husband. He's a man, he should work. My womanhood isn't dependent on what I can do for him. Reciprocity has to be in a relationship. You can cook and keep house all you want too. Yet, if your mate is the wrong person it will NEVER be enough.
Sarissa Vaughn “do nothing” 🤔 don’t you work, cuz I know I do. You stay being your bf’s mother though. This why most BW are unmarried, men generally don’t marry women who act like a wife without actually being married. There’s no reason to marry that woman.
🤦♀️ jeez...I had this issue with a guy he's like you should be cooking when I come over I was like we are not at that level if you want hubby treatment you gotta earn it...
Amen!!!! Its a shame it took a man to shed the light... if I'm working like you are, then no it's not my job to clean and cook for you.... its OUR job... or yes you are more than welcome to hire US a maid.... I can't even believe women think like this... smh
Unfortunately that’s what our parents were taught and then they teach us that that’s what we are supposed to do and what men “expect”. That a mans job is is to provide, take out the trash, and mow the lawn. Hey I had a young guy tell me this is what he didn’t like about his girlfriend!!! I lost a bit of respect for him that day. He said, and I quote: “ I told her she will never keep a man cause she don’t keep a house clean”. (She has 2 little ones b4 they got together) Humph, guess he was tired of helping out and doing his part. Imo...Yet, she kept HIM apparently for 4 years. She works too! He’s tired of babysitting “her” kids when he comes home. Huh? Smh I can’t with the mentality some people have these days. Shit, I’m trying to untwined stereotypical mentality that was imbedded in my own childhood but if that chic thinks cooking and cleaning and picking up after a man is what makes you a woman and will keep him from a side chicks house, .........she has turned a blind eye to reality and is SADLY mistaken. Smh harder
Nah homegirl trippin. And she's trippin HEAVY. I work a fulltime job and have 2 kids. My husband works fulltime as well but I sure as hell am not no damn maid. I do a hell of a lot, women who think like this tend to cater so much & leave no room to themselves. She can go ahead if that works for her but it dont work for me so more power to her. Its 2018. Im good sis lol. Love that you're a man preaching this TRUTH. Women who slave over a man tend to get played more. If my husband gonna cheat one cause i refuse to be his maid then shoot i will help him find someone else cause it ain't gonna be me!
Ace you are on point! I was doing all of this for my husband and he still cheated on me, abused me in all ways, lied to me and still disrespected me. He even go far to tell me after doing all of these he told me im nor submissive enough. Thanks to you plus other groups on fb I walked out. I realized I deserve so much better than this, I love you man. Keep doing what you do. You are helping others including me and I still listen to you. God bless you man!
OMG, my husband did this to me too. Eventually, I realized that he was a narcissist & I just stopped doing everything & started planning my exit. We've been separated for over 2 months now & I ain't never going back. Period.
I feel like every video I watch, you are directly speaking to me. Your videos from Facebook should be on here!! I dont personally use it and it would be 1000x easier to see them here! Need more men like you in the world. 😘 thank you!
Ace, I'm dyin you got me in tears with your expressions I thought I had facial expressions lol this is one of my many videos and it's the absolute truth. Thank you for letting me know I'm not bougie, stuck up or stupid for wanting these simple things in a loving/working relationship
The lady on the recording is symbolic of the older folks. That what they believe. I watched my Mom do everything for him. Occasionally he would help her especially as they got older. I tend to do what she talks about. Make sure dinner is ready, house cleaned up, clothes done... thought I was doing it because I loved him....
Dont agree with her, to be a good woman you have to be a good partner (2/couple). Some guys even if you are a good woman (from her perspective) they will leave you! You can find a good maid everywhere, but find a good parter is very hard, and those who find it, its a blessing!
Being a good provider is actually a good thing...eliminates financial stress and worry..nothing wrong with it..but it definitely cannot be your only strength
Thank you for addressing this, most relationships end because of this! The struggle is real! Men want to keep this thought process alive even as they lose partners and cover it as " she's lazy" The man I am moving out from is so this! He thinks I should be doing all that even if I am out of work with 9 out of 11 medical diagnosis set by SSD. I always hear this " any other woman would be this" my response good go find her but they don't, hahaha because they know they got it pretty good or they are too lazy sitting on their ass blaming. But there is some men I have met that say, don't do that I am a grown ass man when I am tiding his place up👍
I definitely agree with your values and morals. I respect the lessons you've learned and you really be speaking some strong truth... double shot no chaser 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I just found you now but you made me laugh 🤣🤣but all the videos I saw from you,is the true facts of any relationship. You talking deep truth 🙏We needed to ear you 🤩you’re amazing relationship advisor for sure.👏👏👏👏👏⭐️✌️
@acemetaphor As a woman I can agree to a young man needing to learn to be able to take care of himself by learning to clean, cook, shop and etc. However, I do believe it is an understanding of what a man wants when he enter a relationship and what the woman agrees to. I think a man that works hard and desires a woman to be at home or wish her only to work lightly outside of the home but gives her financial security and loves doing it and it is his security because he is older and is tired after work, maybe only having energy to please her and sleep until his day off. I don’t see anything wrong with the woman taking care of who provides for her. Furthermore, if there is a couple that chooses to be equal, than I think the choices to be teammates around the house is a awesome thing as you were speaking of. It’s really just a matter of what you both agree to and are happy with, it’s more than just the physical look of a person that aids your hard or wet! Im just saying!!
Love it !! No I got to have a ring 💍 to do that for a man!!!!! But I do agree!! I clean for my father!!!! A mother should teach!!! Mental Support amen!!!! Love it
Hi Ace, I loved the UA-cam video you did with TanyaTKO. You made SO MUCH sense. Of course we have to view and treat men more than just a paycheck. I am in a relationship with the most wonderful man on earth and there is no greater joy (apart from Christ) than getting to know him and unravel the different layers to him. I am so interested in him and getting to know him. I love it when he opens up, I love it when he allows me to see his vulnerable side...to know he is not judged but allowed to be human...to be himself... knowing he is loved no matter what. And the more I unravel, the more I realize there is no other person I'd rather be with but him. I tell him often, if you didn't have a dime, I'd still be with you. He is my best friend. I hope you find a wonderful woman who will love you for who you are and like you very rightly said, being a provider is a very minute part of that. Women strive to get to know your man. You want a man who knows you and loves you for you. What makes you think men don't want the same? Would you want to be in a relationship with a man who only sees you as a baby machine and someone to cook and clean? Exactly.
chizee 3 I honestly lost interest in the Tko show when it began it was just to entertain her fan base rather than to actually create dialogue. Even women with no job, 4 kids with 5 baby daddies calling him, an RN a broke dusty. There’s 3 funny things I find about the “debate”, for the most part a majority of black people never seen a successful black marriage outside of their paternal grandparents and that wasn’t even discussed. Also there’s even bigger issues that do result in black men “not wanting to commit” due to only having toxic mainstream promotion, middle school social hierarchies being enforced until our 30’s, school to prison pipelines and stepfathers getting treated like shit. And finally why do black people act like this only effects us? We act like white people arent doing this as well and white women are adapting, threatening to exclusively date white men who started the wave and nonamerican black men who’s culture is extremely different from AAs won’t do anything especially when it’s women who literally go into debt to attract men.
That same toxicity is the reason I am single....I am becoming the best version of myself until God put forth a man that is deserving of the woman I am. Cooking and Cleaning is not value!!!!!!
Im writing this before ii see the rest of the video! Lol, yet id say sis is trippin'.. Value is in the heart of a woman and the character she has the spirit she carrys. Only a real human being can see that regardless! 2nd anything in the home or out is 100/100 take turns plan things out compromise do special things and chores for one another etc. Being a good woman is emotional stability mental stability physical stability.. Not letting emotions get in the way or self sabotage. Being a good woman is love in its purest form and energy. Being a good woman is freedom. Now yes providing is great. Yet, ive been in those shoes taking care of some1 every need tired asf rasing children that weren't mine and ii don't even have children yet. I honestly feel like this is long term behavior/plans with a short term person. Cuz they feel like thats enough to keep me id feel like they dont see nothing else with me (because there's no try or anything just the same shyt to try and prove something! Fk outta here validation is for parking!!) going to work. Fk a job. My love is deeper than that no ii dont need u to carry me emotionally or mentally yet some days ii need that attentiveness (well soul love is everyday cuz if ii don't connect to u look u in ur eyes and see ur soul it wouldn't work noway!) Yett love words of healing understanding etc because yes ive grown yet im not perfect and im not a fkn robot and layers of imprints ive grown thru have feel from me and armored me with strengths healers need healing too.. ii have a soul level love. And no love dont pay bills yet ya mind do ii believe in manifestation and LOA if we on the same page and energy anything can be attained. Whatever ii lack in a small sense i expect to have a partner thats a ying to my yang it just makes sense to me. I could go on.. read between the lines lol i am not a slave!
The reason why the side chick can do some much and cater to the man is because she's only a part-time job & see him a times a week, only for a few hours out of the day.
Ppl don’t realize our grandparents relationships lasted so long because they didn’t have a choice...the woman couldn’t leave..where the hell was she going??
And this is why men do these things. There are women out there who will allow it. Doormat women have ruined good men. I will wait for reciprocity and nothing less.
I want him to valued respect trust an truthfully be honest loyal love me as well as I will to him . I need us to be friends 1st. Without it there is no (WE ) WE wont last.
She trying to be his momma and that's a boy its supposed to two ways. She apparently is into lil boys she got cougar written on her lol. She straight trippin boo and she basically tried to justify that its ok. Something wrong with him cheating lmao that girl need a acemetaphor book bet it change her insight.
Thank you so much for that message I really do love you do you straight direct to the point watching your channel I have learned so much thank you so much
Trippin' nephew...many women have done this my generation before and before that and some of the men STILL did dirt. The woman must value herself as a woman (her character, morals, integrity, healthy boundaries, etc.,) She does not have a man but a dependent. Wifey duties to earn and win a man's heart do not work anymore sisters. I don't care what is said but being a maid (mule) will age and make a woman TIDE...periodt! Love ya nephew😘...btw Geezus biscuits?🍪🙌🏾
Lord, let us pray for wisdom. Why was there a fire 🔥 lit up in me as I cringed to hear some of the diarrhea coming out of that woman’s mouth for now my 3rd time. (Watched it in Derrick Jax’s video. Yeah, there was a lot to dissect there! Whew! Bless her. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I think that she should not advise people to make the choices that she has made while being with a man and not even a husband. As for myself I do feel that I like to set the aromas in the kitchen most times. However, he can cook if he chooses to but the kitchen for me is my space to do what I like to do because my choice is to cook for my home. It’s just a comfort zone because it’s what I was raised seeing and not only that I’m good at cooking and I like to see those I love or care about enjoy “MY” cooking. A man can clean that’s a plus and do his laundry if he chooses to but I am just one that enjoys doing laundry and setting the scent to his clothes that I like most, now I’m not going to say he doesn’t know how to wash clothes but sometime washing clothes and smelling his scent is still there makes washing clothes pleasurable. Overall I think a good woman is allowing him to feel that he is able as well as learning more from you being an experienced woman caring for a home.
Even though my ex was toxic, he used to still tell me to sit down sometimes and stop cleaning up all the time. But I thought that what I was supposed to do.
If he is paying all the bills and you lay up. Yes you do need to be taking care of house duties. It should not be a question or not about who does what. If you are both taking care of each other. Sharing responsibility or doing more of one thing than the other should not be an issue.
Oh no no no ! She needs an awaking ! It works both ways in a relationship ! She must have nothing but Narcissistic men in her life ! A real man can take care if himself , before he gets with a woman ! My husband helped in the house , cooking and cleaning ! A man needs emotional and mentally support in this life ! A grown man or woman don't need a mother , to take care of you anymore , your a grown adult !
Yah, no bull shit. It is an equal partnership. I will cook and clean for him if I love him, if he is helpful, if he is participating in the relationship and responsibilities. I do not cook and clean because I am a women, or I wouldn’t work and I would just be at home taking care of babies.
I don't think she means he doesn't have to cook or clean,I think she is saying these are the things that women should do. Yes he should put his laundry in the basket as well as putting the dishes in the sink. But that's not all a relationship is about. He can do those things as well, especially if she's sick,tired etc. If he's a real man, he'll tell her " I got this you go relax".
😂😂😂😂 LOVE the reaction! I believe whichever person is at home should do most of the daily stuff but its just disrespect to leave your personal shit laying around the house. You put your sock in the laundry and ill clean the walls. But you leave your shit laying around you can clean the damned house.
Definitely his piss. That Sis’ perspective, doesn’t mean it’s right or a healthy one for ALL. If it works for her then keep doing what you’re doing. However, she has a forked tongue. She said cooking for, cleaning after a man won’t necessarily keep him then stated if you’re not doing those things the side chick definitely is🙄NEWS FLASH: A FAITHFUL MAN IS A MAN OF GOOD CHARACTER, REGARDLESS! A MAN OF GOOD CHARACTER SOUNDS ALOT LIKE ACE PERIOD But like i said IF it’s working for her keep doing what you’re doing.
Some people are busy slaving away. He still going to leave you after 30 years. He won't say you're too old but that he's fallen out of love. On to the next young active woman. She's from that generation of black Male worshippers.
Can’t believe she said ring or no ring. I don’t agree with that. Ladies value yourselves. Know your value and when I mean don’t, don’t be giving a man your best essence as a woman if he’s not putting forth his for you. Period.
Being a woman has nothing to do with my ability to cook, do laundry, and cater to my man. If that man is not my husband, he will not receive any husband benefits. Nah, sis is most definitely trippin'. I am not his maid.
I'm sorry but it does. We cant expect men to work and women do nothing.
The issue wasn't that women don't do anything. The issue is giving all these benefits to a man that isn't my husband. He's a man, he should work. My womanhood isn't dependent on what I can do for him. Reciprocity has to be in a relationship. You can cook and keep house all you want too. Yet, if your mate is the wrong person it will NEVER be enough.
Sarissa Vaughn “do nothing” 🤔 don’t you work, cuz I know I do. You stay being your bf’s mother though. This why most BW are unmarried, men generally don’t marry women who act like a wife without actually being married. There’s no reason to marry that woman.
@@livelife5947 I'm not my boyfriends mom. I have never played mom so idk what you are talking about. I have never even paid for a date.
@@livelife5947 bw arent married because black men dont want to be.
"What is she expecting y'all to cook? Morals?" I lost it 😂😂😂
🤦♀️ jeez...I had this issue with a guy he's like you should be cooking when I come over I was like we are not at that level if you want hubby treatment you gotta earn it...
No, he gotta put a ring on it!
Amen!!!! Its a shame it took a man to shed the light... if I'm working like you are, then no it's not my job to clean and cook for you.... its OUR job... or yes you are more than welcome to hire US a maid.... I can't even believe women think like this... smh
HELLO!🙌 Girl i feel you, thats the damn truth!
Unfortunately that’s what our parents were taught and then they teach us that that’s what we are supposed to do and what men “expect”. That a mans job is is to provide, take out the trash, and mow the lawn. Hey I had a young guy tell me this is what he didn’t like about his girlfriend!!! I lost a bit of respect for him that day. He said, and I quote: “ I told her she will never keep a man cause she don’t keep a house clean”. (She has 2 little ones b4 they got together) Humph, guess he was tired of helping out and doing his part. Imo...Yet, she kept HIM apparently for 4 years. She works too! He’s tired of babysitting “her” kids when he comes home. Huh? Smh I can’t with the mentality some people have these days. Shit, I’m trying to untwined stereotypical mentality that was imbedded in my own childhood but if that chic thinks cooking and cleaning and picking up after a man is what makes you a woman and will keep him from a side chicks house, .........she has turned a blind eye to reality and is SADLY mistaken. Smh harder
Nah homegirl trippin. And she's trippin HEAVY. I work a fulltime job and have 2 kids. My husband works fulltime as well but I sure as hell am not no damn maid. I do a hell of a lot, women who think like this tend to cater so much & leave no room to themselves. She can go ahead if that works for her but it dont work for me so more power to her. Its 2018. Im good sis lol. Love that you're a man preaching this TRUTH. Women who slave over a man tend to get played more. If my husband gonna cheat one cause i refuse to be his maid then shoot i will help him find someone else cause it ain't gonna be me!
Ace you are on point! I was doing all of this for my husband and he still cheated on me, abused me in all ways, lied to me and still disrespected me. He even go far to tell me after doing all of these he told me im nor submissive enough. Thanks to you plus other groups on fb I walked out. I realized I deserve so much better than this, I love you man. Keep doing what you do. You are helping others including me and I still listen to you. God bless you man!
OMG, my husband did this to me too. Eventually, I realized that he was a narcissist & I just stopped doing everything & started planning my exit. We've been separated for over 2 months now & I ain't never going back. Period.
This is old, I'm late but your face is everything!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😂😂😂👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 This message should be broadcasted daily!
I love you Ace you are so real 💯💯💯💯💯😍 and funny as hell my Brother thanks for your logical input 💙💙
I feel like every video I watch, you are directly speaking to me. Your videos from Facebook should be on here!! I dont personally use it and it would be 1000x easier to see them here! Need more men like you in the world. 😘 thank you!
Ace, I'm dyin you got me in tears with your expressions I thought I had facial expressions lol this is one of my many videos and it's the absolute truth. Thank you for letting me know I'm not bougie, stuck up or stupid for wanting these simple things in a loving/working relationship
The lady on the recording is symbolic of the older folks. That what they believe. I watched my Mom do everything for him. Occasionally he would help her especially as they got older. I tend to do what she talks about. Make sure dinner is ready, house cleaned up, clothes done... thought I was doing it because I loved him....
We silly😂😂😂😂 no you Krazy!!! I love it. Am new and am impressed! You have great knowledge young man. Glad you are sharing it. 😉
Jesus Biscuits 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I'm done 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
I’m cracking uppppp! 😂 it’s the detail instruction about the salmon and sandwich for me lol…he started going off …got me weak 🤣
That would be lovely to have a man do my laundry.
Dont agree with her, to be a good woman you have to be a good partner (2/couple). Some guys even if you are a good woman (from her perspective) they will leave you! You can find a good maid everywhere, but find a good parter is very hard, and those who find it, its a blessing!
Being a good provider is actually a good thing...eliminates financial stress and worry..nothing wrong with it..but it definitely cannot be your only strength
Thank you for addressing this, most relationships end because of this! The struggle is real! Men want to keep this thought process alive even as they lose partners and cover it as " she's lazy"
The man I am moving out from is so this! He thinks I should be doing all that even if I am out of work with 9 out of 11 medical diagnosis set by SSD. I always hear this " any other woman would be this" my response good go find her but they don't, hahaha because they know they got it pretty good or they are too lazy sitting on their ass blaming.
But there is some men I have met that say, don't do that I am a grown ass man when I am tiding his place up👍
It’s so refreshing to listening to you.
Sir I don’t know who you are or where you came from but your honesty is refreshing.
When she said " ring or no ring"...I was done 😂
I definitely agree with your values and morals. I respect the lessons you've learned and you really be speaking some strong truth... double shot no chaser 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I just found you now but you made me laugh 🤣🤣but all the videos I saw from you,is the true facts of any relationship. You talking deep truth 🙏We needed to ear you 🤩you’re amazing relationship advisor for sure.👏👏👏👏👏⭐️✌️
Wow It's so nice to watch a Man tell the Truth. U really have opened my eyes. Thanks
And you're naturally hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
Your salmon-cooking rant was HYSTERICAL!!!!
@acemetaphor As a woman I can agree to a young man needing to learn to be able to take care of himself by learning to clean, cook, shop and etc. However, I do believe it is an understanding of what a man wants when he enter a relationship and what the woman agrees to. I think a man that works hard and desires a woman to be at home or wish her only to work lightly outside of the home but gives her financial security and loves doing it and it is his security because he is older and is tired after work, maybe only having energy to please her and sleep until his day off. I don’t see anything wrong with the woman taking care of who provides for her. Furthermore, if there is a couple that chooses to be equal, than I think the choices to be teammates around the house is a awesome thing as you were speaking of. It’s really just a matter of what you both agree to and are happy with, it’s more than just the physical look of a person that aids your hard or wet! Im just saying!!
That's right.. showing appreciation. Treating him like a king with southern hospitality. Then the bath and message comes next. Sho U right!
Love it !! No I got to have a ring 💍 to do that for a man!!!!! But I do agree!! I clean for my father!!!! A mother should teach!!! Mental Support amen!!!! Love it
She's not trippin'...she tripped! lol!
Hi Ace, I loved the UA-cam video you did with TanyaTKO. You made SO MUCH sense. Of course we have to view and treat men more than just a paycheck. I am in a relationship with the most wonderful man on earth and there is no greater joy (apart from Christ) than getting to know him and unravel the different layers to him. I am so interested in him and getting to know him. I love it when he opens up, I love it when he allows me to see his vulnerable side...to know he is not judged but allowed to be human...to be himself... knowing he is loved no matter what. And the more I unravel, the more I realize there is no other person I'd rather be with but him. I tell him often, if you didn't have a dime, I'd still be with you. He is my best friend. I hope you find a wonderful woman who will love you for who you are and like you very rightly said, being a provider is a very minute part of that. Women strive to get to know your man. You want a man who knows you and loves you for you. What makes you think men don't want the same? Would you want to be in a relationship with a man who only sees you as a baby machine and someone to cook and clean? Exactly.
chizee 3 I honestly lost interest in the Tko show when it began it was just to entertain her fan base rather than to actually create dialogue. Even women with no job, 4 kids with 5 baby daddies calling him, an RN a broke dusty.
There’s 3 funny things I find about the “debate”, for the most part a majority of black people never seen a successful black marriage outside of their paternal grandparents and that wasn’t even discussed.
Also there’s even bigger issues that do result in black men “not wanting to commit” due to only having toxic mainstream promotion, middle school social hierarchies being enforced until our 30’s, school to prison pipelines and stepfathers getting treated like shit. And finally why do black people act like this only effects us? We act like white people arent doing this as well and white women are adapting, threatening to exclusively date white men who started the wave and nonamerican black men who’s culture is extremely different from AAs won’t do anything especially when it’s women who literally go into debt to attract men.
That ring or no ring part killed me 😭😭😭
That same toxicity is the reason I am single....I am becoming the best version of myself until God put forth a man that is deserving of the woman I am. Cooking and Cleaning is not value!!!!!!
She spoke BIG FACTS!!!
She is Completely absolutely and biblically RIGHT!!!... perfect said... We are not extincted...We love you black men=Judah....
I got married at 19. I'm a widow at 37 and I've always been that way. It's not that he couldn't or wouldn't. We would swap roles tho a lot.
Im writing this before ii see the rest of the video! Lol, yet id say sis is trippin'.. Value is in the heart of a woman and the character she has the spirit she carrys. Only a real human being can see that regardless! 2nd anything in the home or out is 100/100 take turns plan things out compromise do special things and chores for one another etc. Being a good woman is emotional stability mental stability physical stability.. Not letting emotions get in the way or self sabotage. Being a good woman is love in its purest form and energy. Being a good woman is freedom. Now yes providing is great. Yet, ive been in those shoes taking care of some1 every need tired asf rasing children that weren't mine and ii don't even have children yet. I honestly feel like this is long term behavior/plans with a short term person. Cuz they feel like thats enough to keep me id feel like they dont see nothing else with me (because there's no try or anything just the same shyt to try and prove something! Fk outta here validation is for parking!!) going to work. Fk a job. My love is deeper than that no ii dont need u to carry me emotionally or mentally yet some days ii need that attentiveness (well soul love is everyday cuz if ii don't connect to u look u in ur eyes and see ur soul it wouldn't work noway!) Yett love words of healing understanding etc because yes ive grown yet im not perfect and im not a fkn robot and layers of imprints ive grown thru have feel from me and armored me with strengths healers need healing too.. ii have a soul level love. And no love dont pay bills yet ya mind do ii believe in manifestation and LOA if we on the same page and energy anything can be attained. Whatever ii lack in a small sense i expect to have a partner thats a ying to my yang it just makes sense to me. I could go on.. read between the lines lol i am not a slave!
Omg!!! I’m over here dying!!! I love you boo! Thanks for this!! I be feeling like I’m crazy with these niggas out here!! 🤦🏽♀️ #ihatedating
No man should get husband treatment if he is not your husband...otherwise you just platonic friends without the ring.
I’m so proud of your parents cos they brought you up very well .👏👏👏👏👏you are a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🙏and make me 🤣🤣🤣🤣no stop 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I agree with her on one thing you do not let anybody change from being your best self. Always loving and kind and respectful don't change. Good woman
The reason why the side chick can do some much and cater to the man is because she's only a part-time job & see him a times a week, only for a few hours out of the day.
Them faces you make🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can’t stand you, you got ma stomach hurting, laughing at you.
I totally agree!!! Especially if he a Good Man and deserves it.... Plus a lot more😘😘😘
Ppl don’t realize our grandparents relationships lasted so long because they didn’t have a choice...the woman couldn’t leave..where the hell was she going??
She is stuck in the 1952 era. Bless her heart. She may had once been the side chick and feels that's what it takes. IJS🤷🏾♀️
Oh shooks Cleaning with Ace too!!!!! “It’s your piss!!!!!!!” “Clean your piss up!!!!!!”
🤣🤣🤣 it's the I'm going over here cause she ain't washing clothes for me.😂😂🤪
Omg you got me cracking up 😂 your too funny
A team only wins when every player plays THEIR position.
Cooking with Ace!!!!! A whole recipe and direction in 3 minutes!!!!!
That's crazzzzzy why give him husband benefits if he's not my HUSBAND!
more power to her I ain't mad!!!!
And this is why men do these things. There are women out there who will allow it. Doormat women have ruined good men. I will wait for reciprocity and nothing less.
🖐🏾I work too, 50/50 is we both do everything
You can tell by the sound of her voice that she was raised that way
LMAO, but no sir that is not the way to clean the bathroom, but I get your drift 🙅🤣🤣🤣
TRUTH SPOKEN!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I want him to valued respect trust an truthfully be honest loyal love me as well as I will to him . I need us to be friends 1st. Without it there is no (WE ) WE wont last.
She trying to be his momma and that's a boy its supposed to two ways. She apparently is into lil boys she got cougar written on her lol. She straight trippin boo and she basically tried to justify that its ok. Something wrong with him cheating lmao that girl need a acemetaphor book bet it change her insight.
I love him. Omg😂😂😂❤❤❤
Sis is Tripping gggggg !! Do she cut the grass to. ????
Ummm... why don't she feel like she should have the same done for her?
😂😂😂👍😂
Oh I’m sitting here knowing that I did everything for that toxic narc🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Never again
Thank you so much for that message I really do love you do you straight direct to the point watching your channel I have learned so much thank you so much
Telling the truth animated and all lol you're funny. Im on agreeance with it all
Trippin' nephew...many women have done this my generation before and before that and some of the men STILL did dirt. The woman must value herself as a woman (her character, morals, integrity, healthy boundaries, etc.,) She does not have a man but a dependent. Wifey duties to earn and win a man's heart do not work anymore sisters. I don't care what is said but being a maid (mule) will age and make a woman TIDE...periodt! Love ya nephew😘...btw Geezus biscuits?🍪🙌🏾
Lord, let us pray for wisdom. Why was there a fire 🔥 lit up in me as I cringed to hear some of the diarrhea coming out of that woman’s mouth for now my 3rd time. (Watched it in Derrick Jax’s video. Yeah, there was a lot to dissect there! Whew! Bless her. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I think that she should not advise people to make the choices that she has made while being with a man and not even a husband. As for myself I do feel that I like to set the aromas in the kitchen most times. However, he can cook if he chooses to but the kitchen for me is my space to do what I like to do because my choice is to cook for my home. It’s just a comfort zone because it’s what I was raised seeing and not only that I’m good at cooking and I like to see those I love or care about enjoy “MY” cooking. A man can clean that’s a plus and do his laundry if he chooses to but I am just one that enjoys doing laundry and setting the scent to his clothes that I like most, now I’m not going to say he doesn’t know how to wash clothes but sometime washing clothes and smelling his scent is still there makes washing clothes pleasurable. Overall I think a good woman is allowing him to feel that he is able as well as learning more from you being an experienced woman caring for a home.
I appreciate this because my x thought it was ok to tell me to stop talking which is toxic.
I’ve done allat and they still stepped out, You don’t get Husband benefits w/NO 💍 period
Amen
Tripping crazy
She ain't trippin at all!!!!
yeah, she tripping HARD!!!!!!!
I m so sorry for all the men n women who don't get peace.....
Even though my ex was toxic, he used to still tell me to sit down sometimes and stop cleaning up all the time. But I thought that what I was supposed to do.
If he is paying all the bills and you lay up. Yes you do need to be taking care of house duties. It should not be a question or not about who does what. If you are both taking care of each other. Sharing responsibility or doing more of one thing than the other should not be an issue.
Oh no no no ! She needs an awaking ! It works both ways in a relationship ! She must have nothing but Narcissistic men in her life !
A real man can take care if himself , before he gets with a woman ! My husband helped in the house , cooking and cleaning ! A man needs emotional and mentally support in this life ! A grown man or woman don't need a mother , to take care of you anymore , your a grown adult !
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Yah, no bull shit. It is an equal partnership. I will cook and clean for him if I love him, if he is helpful, if he is participating in the relationship and responsibilities. I do not cook and clean because I am a women, or I wouldn’t work and I would just be at home taking care of babies.
She set women back 200 years, and she totally lost me to with the ring or no ring comment
Sisters in her own world
Hahahaha 😂😂😂😂 Fucking funny Ace....I need you on replay for chores 😂😂 💖
I don't think she means he doesn't have to cook or clean,I think she is saying these are the things that women should do. Yes he should put his laundry in the basket as well as putting the dishes in the sink. But that's not all a relationship is about. He can do those things as well, especially if she's sick,tired etc. If he's a real man, he'll tell her " I got this you go relax".
Ace, I got a cousin that’s a doctor if you want his #!
😂😂😂😂 LOVE the reaction! I believe whichever person is at home should do most of the daily stuff but its just disrespect to leave your personal shit laying around the house. You put your sock in the laundry and ill clean the walls. But you leave your shit laying around you can clean the damned house.
Hell to the KNOW, your worth. This ain't 1930!
I need to hear your words and love ur shirt
Sis was straight trippin!
Agree!!!!
It's a mutual work😡 rather it be inside or outside the home, and to the relationship!!!
Sister Sister Sister No No No, being a good Woman does not mean you have to be a 24hr robot,
Definitely his piss. That Sis’ perspective, doesn’t mean it’s right or a healthy one for ALL. If it works for her then keep doing what you’re doing. However, she has a forked tongue. She said cooking for, cleaning after a man won’t necessarily keep him then stated if you’re not doing those things the side chick definitely is🙄NEWS FLASH: A FAITHFUL MAN IS A MAN
OF GOOD CHARACTER, REGARDLESS! A MAN OF GOOD CHARACTER SOUNDS ALOT LIKE ACE PERIOD But like i said IF it’s working for her keep doing what you’re doing.
Just sharing.
Loving someone is hard
Some people are busy slaving away. He still going to leave you after 30 years. He won't say you're too old but that he's fallen out of love.
On to the next young active woman.
She's from that generation of black Male worshippers.
She's fantising- living in her head, this gets when in big trouble!
Gonna be bold I will be the maid not cause it is my job but because it needs to be done. Willing to do what it takes
Well hell at least in 1950 they would marry you... Now days men just want grey areas. Im Happily Single
Can’t believe she said ring or no ring. I don’t agree with that. Ladies value yourselves. Know your value and when I mean don’t, don’t be giving a man your best essence as a woman if he’s not putting forth his for you. Period.
No argument here.... Preach👏💯👏💯