I know I use to be like that cause I saw women in my family behave this way. They was like it's being loyal ride or die. But I learnt from experience not to be loyal to someone who is not loyal to you
Biscuits don't always need gravy. All gravy isn't good. There's butter,syrup, or honey. Knowing my worth is far more better than chasing after any gravy. It's ok to wait. Thank you Ace. Now that's life saving inspirational at it's best. 💃
Even at my age of 75, I fell in love with a man that can't give or receive it. He still wants to be friends but, it is hard to do. He lives in the same apartment building as I do so I have to see him every day. I am dating a really nice man who travels a couple of hours to see me. I know how to handle the assholes but, not the good guy. I am learning to love me more than anyone. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the great advice you have given me.
The king in you spoke to the queen in me. I want you to know you have guided me to love me... thank you Ace you made a huge difference in my life .... I am eternally grateful ❤️
Ur delivery cracks me up and ur realness and raw advice keep me coming back for more . I love ur videos. Thanks for caring and always taking the time to motivate and teach .
Good Morning, Vanessa from Belize here... Im single presently by choice but I have been in relationships like this where I was the one who was putting forward way way wayyyyy more than I should simply because Im the type of person who go full force in love when I do, all set on the table and open, just so that my partner don't have any feelings of uncertainty. I learnt that in doing this, for and to the wrong person, can be detrimental to your psyche so I can see the truth in what it is you are saying... I appreciate what you are doing for these women and also for some men if they are truly open minded. Love you humorous nature too..
This is hitting hard for me and as the biscuit and gravy BOTH struggle to reach just the right moment that they come together...they fall apart like the gravy is thicker than it should be and the biscuits turned out undercooked or burnt either way but neither is PERFECT.... its a hard realization when what ur fighting for is taking away more than u realize...when ALL u have tried fails...when all is at that moment do u still continue to fight or do u just let it go...at one point in my life it was very clear but as i get older and wiser u learn things differently ur perception changes of the world and everything in it comes clear. By the grace of God i have been able to withstand the ups and downs but by the grace of God i am still here working on myself and each step in a forward motion is progress. Today i am better than yesterday and tomorrow i will be better than today. Ty for sharing this insight for many
For a young man you have a lot of wisdom. I know your not perfect but I have a lot of respect. Some times the truth is hard to take . .We need more black men and of color with a positive message. You are helping a lot of people. I'am from Cincinnati Ohio . I hope you will come there soon. God bless.
Wow thank you so much for this video I was in a strange relationship for 8 years I think he was a narcissit..struggled for years why I couldnt leave started watching ur videos..something changed in me nomore toxic nomore dealing with that bs ur sooo right self love after a year of therapy trying everything to break free this video woke me up happy new year thank u god bless keep up the fantastic videos
Forgive him and forgive YOU!! Don't you let that little boy define your whole future. God saw you love that guy with good intentions and will bless you with a better guy. You are lovable. Praying for you sis!
The Last Dragon the right one will see and recognize. Learn the lesson and if u could invest that much in the wrong one imagine what would happen with the right one?
The Last Dragon, she wasn't the right one...TRUST ME PLEASE...the right one will NOT allow your time to be wasted at all, your money spent on her...you get back in other ways 7 folds and her hurting you, would be the last thing she does, because hurting you is like hurting herself. A Queen protects her King not disrespect him, but always uplifting him, because uplifting him, she is also uplifted. A Queen will speak Good and Positive words over your Life, why because she wants you to be HAPPY and will do what it takes to keep a Smile on your face and heart...here is the thing...it all natural to her and you will never have to ask for it. I pray my King Brother you find your jewel to be put in your crown.
Well I do declare Mr. ACE...you done said a mouth full of TRUTH...said it again for the young ladies sitting in the back sucking their teeth...I don't think they heard you clearly Good Sir.
Just got out of this type of relationship mentally and physically abusive relationship I tried and tried to make things work lost so much time money and almost all of me in and harder cause I'm carrying his second child... but you can't love someone Into loving you! It sucks so much and hurts but life goes on right..
Facts! Just heard of you this past weekend at the power to exhale power summit. I thoroughly enjoyed your message. I purchased 3 of your books which somehow didn’t make it home with me, I guess someone else needed it more than me at the moment. I will be purchasing! Looking forward to attending one of your events in the future.
Love you have already have lost. And no there’re not coming back. That’s right Ace keep flipping those cards over till you find your Ace. Child please yes I have been there before and never again. That was my one break down over someone moment. After that I decided then no more letting someone do me like that anymore.
man oh man. the truth stings like Chicago cold wind on a wet face. i have been out a situation ship like this as of 3 months ago. but the relationship started showing signs October 2019. i stayed because i attempted to be understanding. then it got so bad, but i had no money, so i had to save then i left. i absolutely went out my way to get to the problem and in the end he said "he didn't like me because i didn't like myself. and the other women in his life would have been and left him because of the way he was acting and because i didn't do it fast enough i seemed weak to him" I will say that i let him go pass my set boundaries because i felt sorry for the story line he was giving me. but as time went on and his words didn't add up, i started pulling back. and that the reason he was mad. a horrific experience but never to go through it again.
I'm going through this now. I'm having a hellified time walking away. I really want to know why it's so hard for men to love a plus sized woman. I am tired of trying to love someone into loving me.
I hope this fines you well...I'm a plus size Queen (size 18/20) and I can say...Sweetie it's not your size at all...my King loves everything I got going on because...but I Loved Me First...bottom line...my Confidence with my curves, rolls and stomach...I Adore it ALL About Me and if he can't accept me as I am, where I am, then he is not for me. Please my Queen Sista keep your crown and head held high...A worthly King will see your worth and enbrace your girth, but you have to Love ALL of YOU "FIRST"...I Love you my Sister and God Bless.
www.amazon.com/You-Cant-Love-Into-Loving-ebook/dp/B07WSGJPCY/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= check this book on Amazon. You Can't Love Him into Loving You
I feel all your statements I cant understand why I'm trying to be a batter man, father, friend and God willing husband and I going thru it trying to find someone. Lots of you ladies sleep on the good guy. I'm fresh outta prison but I've gotten my degree and have an excellent job and I've been sex free waiting for once on my life. Trying to get to know the woman, not worry about objectifying her . Just my pain and thoughts
Exactly 💯 if you love someone that person has to love you too lol! Period.i love you bro .i'mnot going to cheat because you but my values 👌😘💯 everybody who love you will support you love you 👌😘
U re the best man!!!! U make laugh n cty same time. U make fun of such idiots as me who believe he s my soûl mate who discards me several times :D u re the best
SIGN : BONITA DIANE FRYE FROM MACON GA. I love myself more than I LOVE the person that I ALLOW in my LIFE. ...WHEN someone HURT me I LEARNED TODAY THAT I have to let them go. . I LOVE MYSELF SO THAT ALL LOST IN MY GAME. ....I WILL NEVER GIVE UP ON ME. .. because God didn't give up me....so why should I give up on me. ...no one can love me the way I can love myself B💛O💛N💛I💛T💛A💛 IT AIN'T THAT SERIOUS. .... DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND MY SUNSHINE WE PRAY TOGETHER WE STAY TOGETHER AMEN. ... I GOT ME ON LOCK DOWN. ....💛 A MAN CAN'T HANDLE ME BECAUSE YOU AIN'T NEVER HAD A REAL WOMAN. ...YOU JUST BECAME A MAN. ...SIGN : ACE METAPHOR I'M A POWERFUL STRONG BLACK WOMAN. ... I BEEN LOVING MYSELF 56 YEAR. BISCUITS BABY. .. PINKY FINGERS. ...
Omg!!! When you receive a revelation before you even make it to church service. God is speaking through you my brother. Speak!!! Thanks Ace!
so true always from Guyana
I know I use to be like that cause I saw women in my family behave this way. They was like it's being loyal ride or die. But I learnt from experience not to be loyal to someone who is not loyal to you
Self Love, Self Accountability, Self Preservation
Biscuits don't always need gravy. All gravy isn't good. There's butter,syrup, or honey. Knowing my worth is far more better than chasing after any gravy. It's ok to wait. Thank you Ace. Now that's life saving inspirational at it's best. 💃
I’m learning my worth and now I know I’m comfortable being alone and investing in me.
Even at my age of 75, I fell in love with a man that can't give or receive it. He still wants to be friends but, it is hard to do. He lives in the same apartment building as I do so I have to see him every day. I am dating a really nice man who travels a couple of hours to see me. I know how to handle the assholes but, not the good guy. I am learning to love me more than anyone. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the great advice you have given me.
I’m the biscuit boo!!!!! I wish I had heard this 5 yrs. ago!!! But all things come in divine timing. Thank you❤️
I needed all of this!!! Pouring more love into ME!
I keep rewatching this! I love your advice,really needed to hear this. In this situation now and it’s dragging me down.
I am living in Vietnam. I went to high school in Dayton, Ohio. I got the message.
STOP loving someone into loving you back !
The king in you spoke to the queen in me. I want you to know you have guided me to love me... thank you Ace you made a huge difference in my life .... I am eternally grateful ❤️
Ur delivery cracks me up and ur realness and raw advice keep me coming back for more . I love ur videos. Thanks for caring and always taking the time to motivate and teach .
I love how you keep it 100!!! Thank you!
You are speaking the truth!
i lost myself tryna hold on to him but all the while he wasn't tryna loose her
You so animated but so right! Definitely buying the book! Thanks for this Ace!
Good Morning, Vanessa from Belize here... Im single presently by choice but I have been in relationships like this where I was the one who was putting forward way way wayyyyy more than I should simply because Im the type of person who go full force in love when I do, all set on the table and open, just so that my partner don't have any feelings of uncertainty. I learnt that in doing this, for and to the wrong person, can be detrimental to your psyche so I can see the truth in what it is you are saying... I appreciate what you are doing for these women and also for some men if they are truly open minded. Love you humorous nature too..
You are blessing everyday I listen to you ❤️😇☝️🔥🙋🏽♀️
This is hitting hard for me and as the biscuit and gravy BOTH struggle to reach just the right moment that they come together...they fall apart like the gravy is thicker than it should be and the biscuits turned out undercooked or burnt either way but neither is PERFECT.... its a hard realization when what ur fighting for is taking away more than u realize...when ALL u have tried fails...when all is at that moment do u still continue to fight or do u just let it go...at one point in my life it was very clear but as i get older and wiser u learn things differently ur perception changes of the world and everything in it comes clear. By the grace of God i have been able to withstand the ups and downs but by the grace of God i am still here working on myself and each step in a forward motion is progress. Today i am better than yesterday and tomorrow i will be better than today. Ty for sharing this insight for many
So True. Say what u want and turn around and Leave. Sometimes there is no Another Chance. It is Now or Never. Leave and Love yourself. 😊
For a young man you have a lot of wisdom.
I know your not perfect but I have a lot of respect.
Some times the truth is hard to take .
.We need more black men and of color with a positive message.
You are helping a lot of people. I'am from Cincinnati Ohio .
I hope you will come there soon.
God bless.
Love you Ace. So intelligent!👌 ❤❤❤
Big brother I wish I had❤❤❤ All woman needs this. Plus he is sharing secrets.
You’re On It Ace!♥️
Wow thank you so much for this video I was in a strange relationship for 8 years I think he was a narcissit..struggled for years why I couldnt leave started watching ur videos..something changed in me nomore toxic nomore dealing with that bs ur sooo right self love after a year of therapy trying everything to break free this video woke me up happy new year thank u god bless keep up the fantastic videos
❤️❤️❤️❤️This is so good!!! I’m loving on myself now!!! This is soooo true!!!
Damn i wish i have no that a long time ago thank my dude this is a wake up call for my attention....
Thank you. This came at the right time. I am literally crushed right now sick of the pain I am in. 3 years and he walked away.
Forgive him and forgive YOU!! Don't you let that little boy define your whole future. God saw you love that guy with good intentions and will bless you with a better guy. You are lovable. Praying for you sis!
Your delivery is perfection 😂💞✨ thanks Ace!!🖤
I've done this and no it didn't work, I lost a whole lot of time, money, and heartache
The Last Dragon the right one will see and recognize. Learn the lesson and if u could invest that much in the wrong one imagine what would happen with the right one?
The Last Dragon 😢
The Last Dragon, she wasn't the right one...TRUST ME PLEASE...the right one will NOT allow your time to be wasted at all, your money spent on her...you get back in other ways 7 folds and her hurting you, would be the last thing she does, because hurting you is like hurting herself. A Queen protects her King not disrespect him, but always uplifting him, because uplifting him, she is also uplifted. A Queen will speak Good and Positive words over your Life, why because she wants you to be HAPPY and will do what it takes to keep a Smile on your face and heart...here is the thing...it all natural to her and you will never have to ask for it. I pray my King Brother you find your jewel to be put in your crown.
Well I do declare Mr. ACE...you done said a mouth full of TRUTH...said it again for the young ladies sitting in the back sucking their teeth...I don't think they heard you clearly Good Sir.
I love your message and your delivery. wow 💘
Thank u for All the Advice you Give!
I’m here because I saw you on the roommates podcast. SUBSCRIBED 🙌🏾
Thank you I needed to hear this
www.amazon.com/You-Cant-Love-Into-Loving-ebook/dp/B07WSGJPCY/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=
Thanks for sharing beloved you are on point
I love this baby. he is a beautiful soul.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤GLORY TO GOD FOR THIS POWERFUL MESSAGE!!!!!! LUHV U ACE❤❤❤❤
Self love, so true.
That was deep as usual... the soul mate/heart mate was deep🙌
Man, you are as real as it gets.
I love this man! Ace is the truth and I am the biscuit lol!
Just got out of this type of relationship mentally and physically abusive relationship I tried and tried to make things work lost so much time money and almost all of me in and harder cause I'm carrying his second child... but you can't love someone Into loving you! It sucks so much and hurts but life goes on right..
Thank you Ace! I’m the Biscuit!♥️😊
I needed to hear this this exactly what I been going thru
like im going to listen to this everyday until I learn
Facts! Just heard of you this past weekend at the power to exhale power summit. I thoroughly enjoyed your message. I purchased 3 of your books which somehow didn’t make it home with me, I guess someone else needed it more than me at the moment. I will be purchasing! Looking forward to attending one of your events in the future.
Amen speak 🗣!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Self love is winning 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Right on time. Thank God
Preach #Powerful #Message
Great message man. i love it
Love you have already have lost. And no there’re not coming back. That’s right Ace keep flipping those cards over till you find your Ace. Child please yes I have been there before and never again. That was my one break down over someone moment. After that I decided then no more letting someone do me like that anymore.
Thank you for this Ace
Thanks for been big brother to me🎉
alli can do is cry as I listened , he was talking about me to me and I have been so naïve smh love hurts deeply
I have always said that about soul mates......you DONT know. You grow.....until the end. YEP that's when you know!!
WELL said!! And to mention God's word about the heart...tops it. God bless!
Gotta let him go. In order to love u
So true ❤
I really needed to hear this, thankyou x
I love this video. Very helpful
I'm the biscuit, Fam!! Needed this message...
man oh man. the truth stings like Chicago cold wind on a wet face. i have been out a situation ship like this as of 3 months ago. but the relationship started showing signs October 2019. i stayed because i attempted to be understanding.
then it got so bad, but i had no money, so i had to save then i left. i absolutely went out my way to get to the problem and in the end he said "he didn't like me because i didn't like myself. and the other women in his life would have been and left him because of the way he was acting and because i didn't do it fast enough i seemed weak to him"
I will say that i let him go pass my set boundaries because i felt sorry for the story line he was giving me. but as time went on and his words didn't add up, i started pulling back. and that the reason he was mad. a horrific experience but never to go through it again.
I JUST SENT TO A FEW A KNO. ITS TIME TO START HELPING ONE ANOTHER
Been there . Done that. He is right. It doesn' t work. I almost lost myself. Almost lost the love for myself. NO MORE.
I’m accountable to me!!
I'm going through this now. I'm having a hellified time walking away. I really want to know why it's so hard for men to love a plus sized woman. I am tired of trying to love someone into loving me.
I hope this fines you well...I'm a plus size Queen (size 18/20) and I can say...Sweetie it's not your size at all...my King loves everything I got going on because...but I Loved Me First...bottom line...my Confidence with my curves, rolls and stomach...I Adore it ALL About Me and if he can't accept me as I am, where I am, then he is not for me. Please my Queen Sista keep your crown and head held high...A worthly King will see your worth and enbrace your girth, but you have to Love ALL of YOU "FIRST"...I Love you my Sister and God Bless.
www.amazon.com/You-Cant-Love-Into-Loving-ebook/dp/B07WSGJPCY/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=
check this book on Amazon. You Can't Love Him into Loving You
I feel all your statements I cant understand why I'm trying to be a batter man, father, friend and God willing husband and I going thru it trying to find someone. Lots of you ladies sleep on the good guy. I'm fresh outta prison but I've gotten my degree and have an excellent job and I've been sex free waiting for once on my life. Trying to get to know the woman, not worry about objectifying her .
Just my pain and thoughts
Keep your head up! It'll happen when you're not looking or expecting it💯
Amen
Exactly 💯 if you love someone that person has to love you too lol! Period.i love you bro .i'mnot going to cheat because you but my values 👌😘💯 everybody who love you will support you love you 👌😘
You are amazing wirh this sermon🙏🏿
I'm the biscuit ❣️
I needed this. Thank you
You preachin Sir!!!!
Thank you so much
❤❤❤❤❤❤love your words. Help me so much.
Beautiful
Investing in a bottomless relationship......I lost myself and i let it go to LOVE myself.
God led me to this video. THANK! YOU!
I enjoy your conversations
Thank u , gotta let go.
I need to hear this.. I considered myself a people pleaser..
U re the best man!!!! U make laugh n cty same time. U make fun of such idiots as me who believe he s my soûl mate who discards me several times :D u re the best
Thank you so much for this. I needed every minute of this video
Ace! I feel your my Soul Speaker I needed this, and I thank you for this message!!
YOU'RE talking about added value to a relationship. If that other person doesn't
bring added value then it's not a healthy
relationship.
You just gave me law
❤🙏 your sound effects tho🤣
Good to see you on YT. Can't wait to see you in Detroit in a couple of weeks
SIGN : BONITA DIANE FRYE
FROM MACON GA.
I love myself more than I LOVE the person that I ALLOW in my LIFE. ...WHEN someone HURT me I LEARNED TODAY THAT I have to let them go. . I LOVE MYSELF SO THAT ALL LOST IN MY GAME. ....I WILL NEVER GIVE UP ON ME. .. because God didn't give up me....so why should I give up on me. ...no one can love me the way I can love myself B💛O💛N💛I💛T💛A💛 IT AIN'T THAT SERIOUS. ....
DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND
MY SUNSHINE
WE PRAY TOGETHER WE STAY TOGETHER AMEN. ... I GOT ME ON LOCK DOWN. ....💛 A MAN CAN'T HANDLE ME BECAUSE YOU AIN'T NEVER HAD A REAL WOMAN. ...YOU JUST BECAME A MAN. ...SIGN : ACE METAPHOR
I'M A POWERFUL STRONG BLACK WOMAN. ...
I BEEN LOVING MYSELF 56 YEAR. BISCUITS BABY. ..
PINKY FINGERS. ...
" look in my face, look in my eyes.You don't know that." Dwldwl dwl
Thank you.
So amazing. Thank you 🙏 💖
Thank u ace once again 💜
Thank you!!!! I needed to hear this🙏
So true !!!!
I'm the DAMN BISCUIT
it;s true you lose yourself while losing them
I agree i dont love me.. I dont try to push that on someone else
💜learning how to💜
Loving your advice thank you