Did not know my daughter was doing this and well my wife and i had a talk with her a s we got asked the same things do we masturbate as well. Lets just say this when a child ask you do you masturbate your thoughts are so jumbled and confused about it. And its hard to tell them yes or no. But it is part of development of our sexuality and its ok we are all human we all have sexual feelings one way or another but the talks about masturbation in children well thats a big step. Just dont be mad and just try and understand them they just wanna know why they have those feelings.
Hopefully this video helps parents to prepare a bit by figuring out how they plan to answer the 3 questions that are discussed so it doesn't feel as jumbled and confusing!
Hi, I’m a teen and my parents are very strict about six, boyfriends, personal pleasure, etc. Can you do more teen based educational talks in your videos like how to use a condom and how to have six safely? I know you direct your videos towards parents but I don’t have a safe environment to talk about stuff like that. Thanks! ❤
An amazing mature post from yourself! Your question shows a great level of responsibility, some girls automatically assume it is the boys responsibility with regard to wearing a condom? There are many do's and don'ts and the proper way of doing it, you are very wise to ask! Safe sex is so important, far too many unplanned pregnancies, majority can be avoided with careful planning & knowing the facts. Self pleasuring i.e masturbation, is surrounded by so much myth & inaccurate information. There are many good channels on the internet including this one, sadly there are also some bad ones. I wish you luck in your search for information. Regards David 🦋
Considering how little most any adult really knows about sex, maybe it's better to just hand children a practical manual and let them figure it out by themselves after all?
I think for many adults right now, they had none, limited, or values-based sex education and this has created a discomfort around the topic. Most adults are unlearning and relearning what they knew about sex, sexuality, and sexual health. If parents take the time to hash out these ideas and then approach the talks in a med-acc and age-app way - I think the future looks bright!
@@KathleenHema The future looks bright to begin with, but yes, a little extra improvement never hurts. What bugs me is the amount of misunderstanding about sex. That does even more damage than a lack of understanding. Most of that comes from adult industry being the number one educator by lack of alternatives, which creates extremely unhealthy expectations.
@@sarahk5921 They probably knew more about sex, at an earlier age. In those days, those people often had farm animal and learnt more about how to make a calf and deliver one as well. Nowadays many people are so detached from how animals live and how their food is produced.
Did not know my daughter was doing this and well my wife and i had a talk with her a s we got asked the same things do we masturbate as well. Lets just say this when a child ask you do you masturbate your thoughts are so jumbled and confused about it. And its hard to tell them yes or no. But it is part of development of our sexuality and its ok we are all human we all have sexual feelings one way or another but the talks about masturbation in children well thats a big step. Just dont be mad and just try and understand them they just wanna know why they have those feelings.
Hopefully this video helps parents to prepare a bit by figuring out how they plan to answer the 3 questions that are discussed so it doesn't feel as jumbled and confusing!
So in direct answer to the question, you are saying, 'yes', without saying, 'yes'.
Fact 😅💯
Hi,
I’m a teen and my parents are very strict about six, boyfriends, personal pleasure, etc. Can you do more teen based educational talks in your videos like how to use a condom and how to have six safely? I know you direct your videos towards parents but I don’t have a safe environment to talk about stuff like that. Thanks! ❤
An amazing mature post from yourself! Your question shows a great level of responsibility, some girls automatically assume it is the boys responsibility with regard to wearing a condom? There are many do's and don'ts and the proper way of doing it, you are very wise to ask!
Safe sex is so important, far too many unplanned pregnancies, majority can be avoided with careful planning & knowing the facts.
Self pleasuring i.e masturbation, is surrounded by so much myth & inaccurate information. There are many good channels on the internet including this one, sadly there are also some bad ones.
I wish you luck in your search for information.
Regards
David 🦋
Hi, Kathleen. I'm Zaire Haylock. I love your video. ❤
Hi Zaïre. Thanks for telling me that! I hope it will help you have these talks and answer their questions.
@@KathleenHema I have one question: how do I get in a relationship with a woman?
@@zairehaylock4974um so she doesn’t answer questions like that
@@jjgirlieworld2025 My apologies.
excellent advice!
Thanks so much Jen for commenting and that you found the information to be helpful!!
@@KathleenHema id probably just not answer i don't know, I don't and won't have kids because I have boyfriend.
Considering how little most any adult really knows about sex, maybe it's better to just hand children a practical manual and let them figure it out by themselves after all?
I think for many adults right now, they had none, limited, or values-based sex education and this has created a discomfort around the topic. Most adults are unlearning and relearning what they knew about sex, sexuality, and sexual health. If parents take the time to hash out these ideas and then approach the talks in a med-acc and age-app way - I think the future looks bright!
@@KathleenHema The future looks bright to begin with, but yes, a little extra improvement never hurts.
What bugs me is the amount of misunderstanding about sex.
That does even more damage than a lack of understanding.
Most of that comes from adult industry being the number one educator by lack of alternatives, which creates extremely unhealthy expectations.
What should you do if they walk in on you playing with your self
I’ve talked about this in a different context. Find the video titled, my kid walked in on us having sex, what do I do?
Also a buy and use a lock!
@@KathleenHema
In times past many people lived in a one room dwelling.
How was it all handled then?
How open?
@@sarahk5921 They probably knew more about sex, at an earlier age. In those days, those people often had farm animal and learnt more about how to make a calf and deliver one as well. Nowadays many people are so detached from how animals live and how their food is produced.
I'm comparable with this topic.
Most folks are
Nice Kath merci
De rien!
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Definitely u won't dare as ur African parents that question. Like, who born u self
I understand this way of thinking. Our cultures are very important regarding how we do things and why we believe certain things.
Im surprised your husband lets you talk about all this he'll be like this is embarrassing lol 😅
He would? Or he would not? I know several sex educators that are married to or in relation to other sex educators. 🙂
Can we meet up please