I listen intently because I was lost knowing who I am as a man but confused on how to truly become an alpha male! After so much trauma from being abused for protecting my sister from a toxic boy my mom had tricked us into accepting him as a so-called customer but it was totally different! That woman allowed a man to infiltrate our home and peace to disrupt our life with his controlling ways because religion has got my mom and sisters spiritually lost and because he was allowed to infiltrate our life my sisters the very women I protected as an 15 year old have both turned their backs on me and my oldest sister knows my trauma and denies what I’m going through because of her and my mom! To this day at 45 that ignorant woman sees me as her slave son giving me what she feels I deserve after she intentionally destroyed my dreams and blinded me from knowing my true self😢
I love this sister, too. She speaks the absolute truth, which is needed to help us, inspire us, and to empower us to come into agreement with one another to build our homes, families, and communities so we can build a strong generational black family. We need more virtuous, genuine black women like this.
All of you women in the comments who are praising Ali's uplifting message, pat yourselves on the back. This sista is trying to make us better wives and mothers for our men. #UpliftUs
Although I was 16 years old when this book was published,I have never new about it until now...But as a man I’ve been rejected by many women because I wasn’t the man they need it in their lives because I wasn’t making enough money and I didn’t had the standards that they were looking for.,Also in my past relationships I’ve never been appreciative and thanked for I’ve done in the household,So I have been forced to stay single because we need women to understand us...Also I have kids and always women been selfish because I wanted to raise my kids as a family even though I wasn’t with my kids mom.!But nowadays I don’t know if there is a woman that thinks this way
Nonkululeko, wena alone time isn't "solitude" . but we all need room and space to think without outside interference. Her message is good but the complement to her book should be Nanny Burrows's book from the early 1900s. Happy new year .
@@wryckingbaul8612 you don't have to be a sociologist or psychologist to write books and having those credits certainly don't make a person an expert ! And it's been a bunch of black scholars who've wrote books that nobody read and they dam sure don't live by them
Who is listenin this in April 2024 ?after covid .war in Ukraine and palistine.the border crisis..& the earthquake in NYC..etc may our people have a rebirth for 2025 blessing to the civilized people 🙏
Yeah that's the kind of woman you can communicate silently with With her all you need to be in is the right situation for the right look to know everything of what she's thinking and communicating.
I tell black women, "One of the things we can do for our men is just smile when you see him coming." That statement alone is worth the cost of the books.
I'm sorry but smiling is not working. Action works. I get weird ass smiles from many white people when I walk by them. 🤔 Not putting you down in any way my sister but that smiling shit dont work. Married for 13 years here.
Cecil Cash I think this post went over your head...I think you’re thinking a lil too hard. I’m sure it’s more about the sentiment, the energy, the care and reverence we should show to our brothers. No ones trying to get married here lmao and I’m damn sure not worried about the weird energy I have received from white ppl. I have knowledge of self and that automatically puts them in perspective. I’m Mother Earth, I’m Eve, Oshun, Auset, Black Madonna. The human race started with me. But no offense taken. And congrats on your marriage. I hope it continues to grow in peace and love ♥️✊🏾
This is proof that the more things change, the more they stay the same. This interview is nearly 30 years old, but we are still facing the same issues in our community.
Based off how they did this interview. I'm sure more cases was dragged to drive us away. And they did a good job 30 years later. Until now my eyes will be reading
I ran from this book in my 20s and my circle of women also rejected the book. It was the 90s and we wanted to be in our masculine energy. Once I understood these concepts I got myself together and my husband and children benefited in so many ways. I nearly destroyed my family because of lack of knowledge. When you know better you do better.
As a Black Man, I Thank The Most High for Blessing My ears and Mind as I listen to this Black Queen. Hearing her speak so TRUE and eloquently, has made Me Refocus as The Leader of My Family.💯
Thank Allah whom appeared in the Person Of Master Fard Muhammad whom praises are due forver and His Messenger Elijah Muhammad for blessing you with this sister .
Hear❗️Hear❗️Hear‼️ Exemplar ❗️Magnificent❗️Black Woman and God’s Gift To “Black-Man” Kind ......‼️ That host is an “un-explainable” (dumb-Eurocentric) CHICKEN-HEAD ‼️
I like her face...black ppl are completely lost and confused! She is a hustler like most Muslims 12 kids she needs to write books about self love and repairing the damage done by self hate and slavery 12 kids keep your legs closed and open your mind open, 30 years later she saying the same rhetoric, totally destroying the growth process...
@@iluvrachellef I do agree with alot that Muslims teach for black people. But I don't really buy into religion. I was raised Baptist but I don't buy into that now that I'm am a adult and can think for myself. But you have to be a Muslim to have a Muslim woman it seems
@@ramcesgaston5319 Black people are the only group that doesn't understand the importance of the institution of marriage.....other groups understand the value and importance of being married. It's more than just being with someone forever! It's beneficial spiritually, economically, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically. One Day we (I hope soon) will get it!!!
@OTA She was doing her journalistic duty. If it were not for the questions she asked, the topics of the book she approached, how would you have heard the information? How would you be convinced of Sister Ali's position if she'd never had to defend it? Just change perspectives and think. Raven did her job!
That was a great conversation. And remember people, you don't have to AGREE WITH EVERY SINGLE THINGS someone says to recognise that their overall message has some value.
And men are doing it completely wrong, you’re suppose to express and share from your emotional stage first before your logical one. #HolisiticTeachings101 this is why most relationships fail because both genders are playing the wrong roles at the wrong times. a woman is to think before allowing her emotions to speak for her first and vice verse for the man him to express his feelings first before his thinking.
speaking from the science of black people’s bodies. There’s a different way that a BLACK man’s brain functions differently from a BLACK woman’s. Women process language in the frontal lobe and men in the parietal lobe.
During this interview she remains calm and stick to the facts, no emotional responses or catching an attitude... she continued to SMILE and laugh during the interview... she does not have on a wig, lashes or revealing clothing however still feminine...Queen at Best!
@Arthur Ashy dude we’re talking about natural beauty and modesty. Those two things are looked down upon now and days. A lot of women of today wear a face full of makeup and dress like whores. We’re trying to embrace ourselves and your comment wasn’t needed whatsoever.
Sorry what does lashes and make up have anything to do with it? I have wear make up etc and wear whatever i like but that doesn’t mean I can’t be reasoned with U might want to revise your comment buddy
Exactly! And all these talks shows that attack black men. That's what fuck them up and why all races of men don't want them. And, in 2020 there still blaming it on the black men and society
@@ludacrees 😆🤣 🥶 ...can't o.g. poster simply be a fan of ms. ali's intellectual arguments or it is true that without applied practice, then o.g. poster never truly benefited from her teachings? 🤔
It’s 2023 and we still have the same issues. Things like this aren’t pushed or made public. The system is truly set up to fail us in every aspect of our life. So sad. Hope we take heed and wake up and realize what’s really going on. We really hold the power.
Especially when she said these women would do something in our face then claim we didn’t see what we KNOW what we seen/heard….Jedi mind tric…lm going thru that now…
@@BoB-yn5vs absolutely not! Worshiping Allah is going into moon worship. That is the so called Arabs religion and it has NOTHING to do the so called Blacks, Hispanics and Native Americans. Our True God/Power is the God of Israel. Shalom.
Not going to lie, I wish I heard this YEARS ago. I will be 40 years old next month, and I'm going to be purchasing her book and studying it. She is still so very relevant.
That's the spirit of a Israelite women.and she is telling us that we are Yahawah's chosen PEOPLE THE ISRAELITES according to the Bible and we fit al the curses in Deuteronomy and we are the descendants of Abraham Isaac and Jacob and our Messiah Yahawahshy which we ignorantly calls Jesus.it's time to come back to Yahawah's Commandments statues and laws so we can raise as a nation again.and the are the people of the bible
No, this was a "BIG DEAL" in the the 90's; she was everywhere. I just think her message is being revived, because the message is more relevant today than it was in the 90's. She foresaw the direction the black community was heading and was making a move to get ahead of it. So NOTHING is or was being hidden, it's been here all along - people are looking for answers.
@@summertime8879 Yeah she holds Black women accountable for their role in the problems in the Black community. If you do that today, it's called "Bashing ".
I was 17 when I found her book on my grandma bookshelf…. 20 years later I still agree and understand even more now. I am now a wife and her book has helped me in so many ways when it comes to my behavior and how I love and respect my husband. She is amazing
The zeitgeist effect of this interview is astounding! The fact that this is sooooo relevant today, 32 years later, is a true level of how the ancestors will use someone to relay a message. Sister Ali is still relaying the message to this day! Let us get back to our elders. Those who have paved the way for us. Those who can reach back and tell us what happened and guide us going forward. May the universe & ancestors continue to bless Sister Shahrazad Ali and her family. Asé!
"That Ain't no Secret !! "Got my 📚 book's!" and i'm a Granny wanna Educate my daughter! Sister's i've seen and saw my daughter acting like me when i was young!"😧😳😯" i said OMG!"😮😧" what have i done"??😧" so i got some work too do! A lot of US" let's get busy Sister's! "😯 Peace Family!"😍😙
@Queen Mercy Peace and blessings family! "😙" you can get your book on Amazon or try "Africa World Press,Inc. also 👑 Queen! any of my sister who read this post ✔ check out "SACRED WOMAN BY 👑 QUEEN AFUA! Beautiful Afrikan Queen Mother! it's a Guide To Healing and The FEMININE BODY, MIND AND SPIRIT! You'll 💘 love her 📚 book's!"😁😍" we must REACH ONE TEACH ONE!"😁😍 and. 👑 Queen MaMa Dee Dee! Always say Iron Sharpens iron !! "Sister's so in stead of putting one another down let's build one another up and Educate our self!"😁😍 we need each other UNITE! "😁😍
@Queen Mercy " OH! Queen! There's one more for your list it's called "DRESSED TO KILL (The Link Between Breast cancer and BRAS! The book is by, SYDNEY ROSS SINGER & SOMA GRISMAIJER very educational and informational the QUEEN AFUA! book you won't wanna put it down!"💜💚💙😍 our ancestors left all kinds of Blue Print for us "King's and QUEEN'S! Time to get busy! Our oppressors stay at the DRAWING BOARD !!"😳😯" putting us against each other! and DESTROYING us and 👀 watching us destroy each other!! "Please" let's STOP IT! "😳😯" 💘 love Y'all! "Peace Family! "🌹💜💙💚💞
Antares Scorpicus I’m 58 and remember everybody buying the book to read about who we thought at the time was a crazy woman. Fast forward i now realize this woman is the most sane person we will ever know.
As they shouldn't. This type of foolishness would divide us further. What we need is accountability and forgiveness by both Black men and women, not blame.
True word young sister, we Love and appreciate you eternally ! Stay strong and focused. Walk Humble and Strong! Graceful and right! Check this out and please share if you can see the relevance. Peace and Blessing Black Princess! ua-cam.com/video/dqusjclZQwU/v-deo.html&feature=push-lbss&attr_tag=3spWeB7cw--CmWz2%3A6
Thanks Ms.Ali for standing up for the Black Man you are one of a kind. Please keep up the great work you are doing in a very powerful and positive way!!
Didn’t listen then and not listening now. They want to do their own thing and when the outcome turn badly then they want Sympathy. Okay.....good luck with the sympathy game.
You would do much better to elevate yourself and find mates at that elevated level (no matter their race!) than to call yourself elevating and then digging through trash heaps trying to elevate bums who will thank you for your efforts by siding with the mate THEY really wanted when all your effort is spent.
I wish you find a good man who will appreciate your wisdom and knowledge. You are a blessing to whoever is going to marry you. Women Shahr Ali is trying to build from this book are only found in Venda, Limpopo province in South Africa.
This Sister is absolutely way beyond her time. She understands that African Ancestors were stripped of Their Own Spiritual Traditions and Values. People underestimate the Impact of Slavery, Epigenetics is The Science and Facts of Trauma being passed on a Cellular level. If this Trauma is left unhealed this is pass on from generations to generations. So she has a insightful perspective.
Jose Santana see...the entire fact that I would’ve had to explain that to this interviewer I would’ve went in. Ali was so giddy and loving, she held no punches. And she was very articulate. She just reminded me of who we are. ✊🏾
The Bible calls that Generational Curses which are the result of Soul Wounds (caused by sin, trauma, pain) look up Katie Souza she talks in depth about it.
She oozes royalty and feminine behavior. She oozes righteousness. No man can look at this woman as a so-called black man and not want her!! She is grace....
🤷🏾♂️ I’m 37 & getting my life in order. This is my 2nd time watching this video in 2024. I love, cherish, respect, & value my BEAUTIFUL BLACK SISTAS 👩🏽🎓🖤✊🏾🙏🏾
"If we can't accomplish saving our race, then we have not made an accomplishment"! Shahrazad Ali So very true, black race as we knew it is being replaced!
@@aarondigby5054 Wow, that really shows your twisted mentality. You're the reason why welfare needs to be eliminated. It's crazy that this is the first thing you would even think of to someone adopting children. 🙄
Either way the point is that man and woman should be there for each other, have one another as a team will make the duo a POWER couple, yes being independent is good in all but as a whole we all need someone to carry us through the weak moments or just simply make sure we good when no one else does.
She just gave the medicine that will heal black relationships. Let go of the emotions and clear your head to truly listen. Smile every time you see him 🙌🏾
Ms.Shahrazad Ali teaches the real truth concerning ourselves, we need to respect and inspire each others.Ms.Ali thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom for the better of our people!!!
I said the exact same thing. She gave direct eye contact and I could feel her power through my phone. Loved this video and I’m glad the universe has brought this to me
Agree but the point is at least you learn something that most isn't talking about. I too had learn something from this video. Hope we both grow and be successful and happy in everything we do.
Notice how you are part of the problem by coming in strong about what black women should have done as if black men need to do/change nothing? How weak are you to feel like it’s only up to the women and not the men? You are pathetic and part of the problem🤮
And while I'm talking to a lady who believes that this lady is talking nonsense and she's not because she's clarifying the bad behavior women have displayed and I salute this lady on TV
I am a married woman and married a man from a broken drug addict home and I chose to submit and build him up fresh out the penal system and I'm here to tell you ladies all our blk men need is "God, true love and patience". I'm happy to report he has soared in his career. From a fry cook to managing multi-million dollar stores, treats me like a queen and in 16years total time together never raised his voice or had not 1 fight but it started with me submitting myself and praying and somehow he found his place in life\marriage etc.. God bless. Book coming one day. 😚😇
🤔 wow did you throw the book at her?? Was her leaving a blessing or does the book unfairly bash black women? Are you married to a black woman now? I have so many questions lol I want to read this book moreso now
This woman, Shahrazad Ali, does not disappoint. She resonates with truth, and our women and men will benefit tremendously by listening to her and heeding her message. She's not ahead of her time; she is, in fact, timeless. Thank you so much, Shahrazad Ali.
We cannot heal if we aren’t having realistic conversations. People keep showing up as someone else or who they think they should be or who they were told to be by their broken parents/family members/friends..etc. There are so many layers
This is the most powerful interview I’ve ever witnessed. She spoke nothing but the truth. I love it! Enlightenment is a beautiful thing. As a married black woman, mother, daughter, sister I wholeheartedly agree with everything she said.
@@2minutetopics Yes I’m currently reading it. I ordered it right after watching her interview. I’m interested , in your request. Email me the list of questions & a time & date for the interview.
@@ThePkyles1 Will do! Thanks for the recommendation. I just purchased James Baldwin “I’m not your Negro” & I can’t wait to read it. I have to finish A few more before I can start on it.
I’m so glad to be finding out about this book at 25 while I’m still single and no kids. I really look forward to teaching my children everything I didn’t get taught as a child.
I am 21 years old . I’m so grateful to have found this video and at this age ! Everything this Queen said was 💯. I’ll be ordering this book in a couple days . This actually made me wanna be a better woman now ! Even wanna be more modest . It’s 2022 and modesty is not in ! Thank you so much for this knowledge. This will make me a great Girlfriend one day I can be a wife !
The fact that you embrace her words of wisdom means that you WILL be a good wife. It also means that you will have a joyful relationship filled with that which you desire. As a 48 year old man, I can say that EVERY strong and successful man I've known looks for the woman who heeds Mother Queen Ali's words. TELL ALL OF YOUR FEMALE FRIENDS AND FAMILY! Our nation NEEDS a coalition of peaceful, self- aware woman to survive.
@@marcusdarden1535 brethren you typed all the right words to this young QUEEN. Yes she will be fine, and should share with her friends and associates, we need better outcomes for the future. 🎯💯
She's doing a great job because she is in order. She is teaching the females on how to be women and wives. Instead of trying to boss and manipulate men
Mack. All men are NOT leaders. You know this better than me Sir. I say whoever is good at the math...let them do the math...whoever is good at english...let them do the letters etc. Every woman does not do well in the kitchen. I have 4 sisters. 2 of us can throw down...2 cannot...their men cook. So we have to also make like it's not 1783 and adapt accordingly. Just because a woman may not cook does not devalue her. Do men hunt? I mean do you hunt? You probably do not hunt because you dont have to. Does that devalue your manhood?I promise you that she has a man of means to order dinner or he cooks. She may clean well and sew, garden, mother well etc. Albeit most mothers cook at a minimum if nothing else.
@@jacquelynn2051 you might have a point, but women are definitely not leaders nor were they ever meant to be.the shit show which is The BLK community today is a prime example of the so called strong independent BLK woman trying to be leaders
@@Gandolfspipe2667 The elite powers that be have intentionally pitted black women and black men against each other. We "ALL" have to wake up, recognize the enemy's tactics and stand up for each other. Feminism is our enemy!
@@chavelahutchinson1935 of course she is and she is in order, and she's in alliance with the BLK man. Unlike our other strong educated independent BLK women
Ashley Douglas I know lots of women who thought that chastisement from a man, a little hit, like a slap in the mouth is sexy. And then saw those women get with a man who really laid his fist and feet in their ass and they didn’t like it and were in misery. So be careful of your desires for chastisement, bcuz it’s gonna get real ugly.
Read this book at 16,I'm now 47 today. We have gotten worse as predicted. Social media is the next divider of our people. We still have no honor and discipline in our community. Still addicted to materialism,now addicted to sensationalism.
@@someguyik great question! When I first read it, I was like wow! She is going to have a lot of women pissed, but the truth hurts. Gave it to my girlfriend at the time, she only read a little bit and got upset. Tried to give it to other black women, they wouldn't touch it. I watched the media drag her through the mud. I remember when Iyanna dissed her on Donahue. In the end she was proven right. I tried to talk to black women about their attitude and health back in the 90's I stopped. We will be a community of single people unhealthy mentally and physically. It's only going to get worse.
Welp this thread is depressing... The truth hurts and the reality is just as bad and sad. I wish we would all think like this and create families that stayed together💯
As a black woman, I endorse this message! She's telling the truth and I'm sad that It took me 39 years in order to hear it from someone who looks like me.
@@kseke25 what makes it garbage? You not agreeing doesn't cut it. How does she peddle in garbage. This sister is a queen, you could learn something from her
@MelaninGoddess Jewels Just because you don’t agree with what she is saying don’t mean it’s garbage. You can disagree of course but to be so disrespectful is saying a lot about you.
MelaninGoddess Jewels yesss Queen 👸🏾 👏🏾 that interviewer is very defensive and lacks intelligence and wisdom !!! She needs to stop acting off of emotion and listen to a sister with more wisdom and experience than her it is like listening to your mother she doesn’t listen .
Who listening to this Queen in 2024? Love her for many years ❤
I listen intently because I was lost knowing who I am as a man but confused on how to truly become an alpha male! After so much trauma from being abused for protecting my sister from a toxic boy my mom had tricked us into accepting him as a so-called customer but it was totally different! That woman allowed a man to infiltrate our home and peace to disrupt our life with his controlling ways because religion has got my mom and sisters spiritually lost and because he was allowed to infiltrate our life my sisters the very women I protected as an 15 year old have both turned their backs on me and my oldest sister knows my trauma and denies what I’m going through because of her and my mom! To this day at 45 that ignorant woman sees me as her slave son giving me what she feels I deserve after she intentionally destroyed my dreams and blinded me from knowing my true self😢
Very powerful, it must've been challenging to decide to share that info. @@AnthonyWest-f1s
Meeeeeeeeee
this is really amazing, I wish every African woman could have the chance to interact with this great woman or her book
I love this sister, too. She speaks the absolute truth, which is needed to help us, inspire us, and to empower us to come into agreement with one another to build our homes, families, and communities so we can build a strong generational black family. We need more virtuous, genuine black women like this.
Who is listening to this for the first time in 2020? 🙂
I am ..
Be a sponge.
✊🏾
Christina Hillard meeeeeeeee🙃
This brother
Who is listening to this beautiful message 2023 ❤️❤️🙏🏾 love this women
I always revisit this video just to bring me back to me. ❤❤
Me for the 3rd time
13th February 2023
She’s brilliant! She was decades ahead of her time.
Love her as well
Anybody here in 2024? 😅
Yep this is classic 😊
Absolutely
Yep.
Yes. Friday April 12th 2024 7:46AM EST.
Meeeeee the best interview I heard very empowering 🥰😇
I'm listening in 2024. Who's listening in 2024?
The fact that this was covered in depth in 1991 and there are still high prevalence of these issues in 2022 is astounding.
You ain't lied.
Its worse at least it seems
Yes!
@moabite sounds I’ve changed it in my home as the head of the family
Feminism and the sister code attacked on the black community is strong.
All of you women in the comments who are praising Ali's uplifting message, pat yourselves on the back. This sista is trying to make us better wives and mothers for our men. #UpliftUs
Absolutely.... Us As Blackman we NEED our Blackwomen period....
#PeaceQueen
Awesome! I bought the book after seeing her on Phil Donahue back in the day. Yeah I m a triple OG...LOL
Although I was 16 years old when this book was published,I have never new about it until now...But as a man I’ve been rejected by many women because I wasn’t the man they need it in their lives because I wasn’t making enough money and I didn’t had the standards that they were looking for.,Also in my past relationships I’ve never been appreciative and thanked for I’ve done in the household,So I have been forced to stay single because we need women to understand us...Also I have kids and always women been selfish because I wanted to raise my kids as a family even though I wasn’t with my kids mom.!But nowadays I don’t know if there is a woman that thinks this way
@@djchannels7047 i would of appreciated ypu
Spring of 2021 and we are still going through the fire as black men,,,,,,,
Who’s here in 2024?
I’m revisiting these videos in 2024 but it’s not a new discovery.
Amen 🙏🏽
Me
This conversation puts the African American ppl on notice in a good way
"whoever brings you the most peace should get the most time."
So stealing this.
@@primordialdarkmatterone7415 than you get the most time, times of solitude are also important
Not true. People do comes with misery.
Nonkululeko, wena alone time isn't "solitude" . but we all need room and space to think without outside interference. Her message is good but the complement to her book should be Nanny Burrows's book from the early 1900s. Happy new year .
Ey brother, God bless
I’m a Black woman and I stand behind this message 100% A true Queen 👸🏽
Need my name back
Me too sis!💕
Quiet Storm 😏
Beautiful
We love you so much ladies. Showing love all the way from South Africa.
She is speaking the truth. She’s not speaking against women but she is holding us accountable. I love it
As it should be for all women
She's bringing no data. Just anecdotal stories.
@@wryckingbaul8612 either you a dude and a simp ass incel, or a bitch who is living the truth Ali is speaking about
@Preston If you have an academic license, you can see the book and the non-existent annotated bibliography online. You jackass.
@@wryckingbaul8612 you don't have to be a sociologist or psychologist to write books and having those credits certainly don't make a person an expert ! And it's been a bunch of black scholars who've wrote books that nobody read and they dam sure don't live by them
Who is listenin this in April 2024 ?after covid .war in Ukraine and palistine.the border crisis..& the earthquake in NYC..etc may our people have a rebirth for 2025 blessing to the civilized people 🙏
The black community need this woman.
She’s amazing
We need shared philosophies and values. We are what we have been waiting for. (Js)
Yeah that's the kind of woman you can communicate silently with With her all you need to be in is the right situation for the right look to know everything of what she's thinking and communicating.
She is so helpful. Our people need help, and the women not standing behind us can destroy our race for real. It’s a shame
Lol... I don't need her. She's living in the damn 60's.
I tell black women, "One of the things we can do for our men is just smile when you see him coming." That statement alone is worth the cost of the books.
YES,YES,YES,,,I DID AND STILL DO,BE THEY YOUNG OR OLD!!!!!! :-D
Ole sKool I felt that ✊🏾
@@TfromTennessee Thx. Its time for us to wake up.
I'm sorry but smiling is not working. Action works. I get weird ass smiles from many white people when I walk by them. 🤔 Not putting you down in any way my sister but that smiling shit dont work. Married for 13 years here.
Cecil Cash I think this post went over your head...I think you’re thinking a lil too hard. I’m sure it’s more about the sentiment, the energy, the care and reverence we should show to our brothers. No ones trying to get married here lmao and I’m damn sure not worried about the weird energy I have received from white ppl. I have knowledge of self and that automatically puts them in perspective. I’m Mother Earth, I’m Eve, Oshun, Auset, Black Madonna. The human race started with me. But no offense taken. And congrats on your marriage. I hope it continues to grow in peace and love ♥️✊🏾
I love how she gets the host together every time she opens her doubting mouth.
YES
What's your ig
It’s unbelievable.. But the spirit of Ms.Ali is so elevate she handled her like with such respect and love. Wow we love our sisters 🖤
Correct check n mate.
Facts
This video is a blessing... We are literally seeing the consequences of everything she warned against 🤦🏾♀️
Yes indeed.
And I mean EVERYTHING
Definitely
Totally true
🤯 💥
This is proof that the more things change, the more they stay the same. This interview is nearly 30 years old, but we are still facing the same issues in our community.
Based off how they did this interview. I'm sure more cases was dragged to drive us away. And they did a good job 30 years later. Until now my eyes will be reading
thats cos yall suk.
Because our standards n customs language way of life all we have been robbed of in amerikkka
It’s even worst now ‼️
Actually, it's gotten worse.
She's not telling you what she heard. She's not telling you what she thinks. She's telling you what she knows! She speaks with the authority of truth.
I ran from this book in my 20s and my circle of women also rejected the book. It was the 90s and we wanted to be in our masculine energy. Once I understood these concepts I got myself together and my husband and children benefited in so many ways. I nearly destroyed my family because of lack of knowledge. When you know better you do better.
Wow, that's deep my fly nubian Queen, thank you for your experience 👏🏿🤜🏿❤🤲🏾
Powerful!
Very humble admission 🙏🏾
Talk ya shit.. it’s hard to even type this truth
Respect
I learn what she is saying after divorce. I should have heard this in 2008
From 1991 and it still resonates today in August 2023
And still...October 2023
26 min!
As a Black Man, I Thank The Most High for Blessing My ears and Mind as I listen to this Black Queen. Hearing her speak so TRUE and eloquently, has made Me Refocus as The Leader of My Family.💯
Awesome 👍😎😎
Wish you the best
She speaking of order and that what Yahusha is going to do when he comes back put everything back in order.
Thank Allah whom appeared in the Person Of Master Fard Muhammad whom praises are due forver and His Messenger Elijah Muhammad for blessing you with this sister .
Facts 🤣🤣 wish you the best my boa. These black chickens today are wild. It’s over
I have 4 of her books. I love her as much as I love Dr. Frances Cress Welsing and Queen Afua. And yes I am a black man with a black Queen
Wats da names of her books and where can i get it
Moor wakanda wats hood king thats a fact but is dat da name of da book
Salute Black King💯✊🏿
@@shawndouglas669 You can find her books online at amazon, most black owned bookstores in your town have copies of it too. Goodluck!
aint no queens in your hood fool.
trust me!
Ms.Ali was 37 years old in this footage
Now at 65 she hasn't age a bit
Still a strong, beautiful Queen
SHE "NEVER" WILL BECAUSE SHE IS IN TUNE WITH "TRUTH"!!!!
Hear❗️Hear❗️Hear‼️
Exemplar ❗️Magnificent❗️Black Woman and God’s Gift To “Black-Man” Kind ......‼️
That host is an “un-explainable” (dumb-Eurocentric) CHICKEN-HEAD ‼️
Do u know how many kids she's got,
@William Hudgins 😂😂😂
@@iam9061 She has a total of 12 kids (9 adopted/3 biological).
"Whose Religion? Whose Morals?" That was deep.
💯
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I said the same thing, and that being said left the other lady speechless
Frfr
The man has never had 1 women, nowadays women dont have 1 man for a lifetime. How did this flip happen ?
I like her face. I also like the way she verbally communicates.
Outta12 verbalizes..
@@BeastmodeBeats Boom.
The Interviewer Is a total Bitch
Absolutely...
I like her face...black ppl are completely lost and confused! She is a hustler like most Muslims 12 kids she needs to write books about self love and repairing the damage done by self hate and slavery 12 kids keep your legs closed and open your mind open, 30 years later she saying the same rhetoric, totally destroying the growth process...
Every thing she is talking about is still going on right now in 2020
@Suicidal Vet waaaay worst
@Suicidal Vet Maybe thats what Tupac was warning blacks about
100 Fold...
nate dime SHOL IS
@@frazier2420able 👍🏼
This the kind of Black woman id go to war for anyday
Example of a Queen
I would go to war for black women like this sister....
@@iluvrachellef I do agree with alot that Muslims teach for black people. But I don't really buy into religion. I was raised Baptist but I don't buy into that now that I'm am a adult and can think for myself. But you have to be a Muslim to have a Muslim woman it seems
@@treal4real67 Same. Raised Southern Baptist and agree with some of the Muslim teaching but don't buy into all of it.
For sure my man 👍
Do they still make them like her?
I am a old school brother 71 years old and I believe that she is the best representative for our lives in the black community. I will always love her.
🏆
2020 and everything she said is Still Relevant
Janelle Whiskey this is trash
Janelle Whiskey reality doesn’t change. Really is constant.
Janelle Whiskey this let us know that we are not evolving and now it’s 29 years later
Proud to say after watching her lecture, I purchased all 6 of her books. Got them all for $100!
Hi What site did you purchase her books
Where?
@@chrischip6596 Ebay. They come directly from her site.
You far ahead of the competition
This journalist really think she's crazy.
I’ve NEVER in the history of hearing ever witnessed a woman talk in this manner. It’s almost unreal. Mrs. Ali is truly a wise woman.
Abisola Abiodun oh my god i love that queen... god rest her soul...
Gene Grey wow.
As'e
I know right
Gene Grey It’s unreal hearing an opposing perspective to blk male/female relationships, that isn’t watered down? Lol
I LOVE THIS INTERVIEW STILL WATCHING 2024...HBU?
She tried to warn the next generation but now....
It is sad most don't want the institution of marriage today in 2020.
@@ramcesgaston5319 Black people are the only group that doesn't understand the importance of the institution of marriage.....other groups understand the value and importance of being married. It's more than just being with someone forever! It's beneficial spiritually, economically, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically. One Day we (I hope soon) will get it!!!
@@summertime8879 did u not watch the video when she said never in history has one Blackman been with one women or did u skip that part
@@summertime8879 It’ll be way too late by then.
@OTA She was doing her journalistic duty. If it were not for the questions she asked, the topics of the book she approached, how would you have heard the information? How would you be convinced of Sister Ali's position if she'd never had to defend it? Just change perspectives and think. Raven did her job!
It's 2021.. this is 100% accurate...like time stood still. It's scarrry
Exactly. A book she wrote 30yrs ago still applies today even more than ever is truly scary.
Also black mothers sold their daughters off to d boys getting them pregnant 🤰 at 12 13 and up in 1990 cold game
@@jizzyb1572 what? That has nothing to do with this
@@lnb252 yes it does go research 1990 black girls was getting pregnant by older drug dealers ruined dating all single mothers before 20
@@jizzyb1572 🤡🤡🤡
She is not being biased...she is holding both men and women accountable
She's not taking about your people she's talking about blacks
Absolutely!!
Yep
Lol no she isn’t. But everyone’s perception is their reality❤
That was a great conversation. And remember people, you don't have to AGREE WITH EVERY SINGLE THINGS someone says to recognise that their overall message has some value.
This!!!
"We have the power to make Heaven or Hell for our man"
I love this SISTA!
K
That goes both ways.
When she said I speak with logic & reason not emotion.. That explains everything you need to know.. Men can completely relate
Drop the mic
If only all men were actually like that lol
@@chrislyn1868 if only people can comprehend
And men are doing it completely wrong, you’re suppose to express and share from your emotional stage first before your logical one. #HolisiticTeachings101 this is why most relationships fail because both genders are playing the wrong roles at the wrong times. a woman is to think before allowing her emotions to speak for her first and vice verse for the man him to express his feelings first before his thinking.
speaking from the science of black people’s bodies. There’s a different way that a BLACK man’s brain functions differently from a BLACK woman’s. Women process language in the frontal lobe and men in the parietal lobe.
During this interview she remains calm and stick to the facts, no emotional responses or catching an attitude... she continued to SMILE and laugh during the interview... she does not have on a wig, lashes or revealing clothing however still feminine...Queen at Best!
The exact type of peace I'm tryna get to🤞🏾🤗
@Arthur Ashy dude we’re talking about natural beauty and modesty. Those two things are looked down upon now and days. A lot of women of today wear a face full of makeup and dress like whores. We’re trying to embrace ourselves and your comment wasn’t needed whatsoever.
Sorry what does lashes and make up have anything to do with it?
I have wear make up etc and wear whatever i like but that doesn’t mean I can’t be reasoned with
U might want to revise your comment buddy
@@cjcampbell8177 How you visually present yourself says a lot about the type of person you are.
@@LishaLeeesh Praying that you get the good things that you seek Ms Wilson
Listening to this today knowing that it was made from 1991 is powerful!!!
It is called knowledge, wisdom, vision, intelligence, standards, discipline ..
I've heard and listened to Dr. Ali in the early 90's. Sadly, the sistas were too busy listening to Oprah.
They would rather listen to a woman that hates black men and panders to white women.
@@qman313 You get no argument from me.
@@qman313 Absolutely.
Exactly! And all these talks shows that attack black men. That's what fuck them up and why all races of men don't want them. And, in 2020 there still blaming it on the black men and society
@M Juru Facts! She's been speaking this for a long time. Their ears are always close because of their pride
“ We’ ve never had anyone challenge our behavior.” 😲 words of gold
Exactly!
V77 Scorpio I do all the time and that’s why I’m single lol. Oh well I’m not accepting this bullshit out here in these streets 😂😂
Black men, black women and white media have conspired against anyone challenging black female behavior.
Shiiid! I do and stand 10 toes! But I am many times outnumbered by foolish cowards!
@@misterlemar1591 And they say black women are unprotected... shiiiiiiitt... the simp brigade is fierce.
This was a profound interview. I have admired her since I was a teenager. The truth is healing.
Did you read the book in the 1990s?
she was spitting big fax 📠
You are a very wise woman
Hope u married n never a divorced single mother otherwise loving her meant no value 2ur lifestyle
@@ludacrees 😆🤣 🥶
...can't o.g. poster simply be a fan of ms. ali's intellectual arguments or it is true that without applied practice, then o.g. poster never truly benefited from her teachings? 🤔
It’s 2023 and we still have the same issues. Things like this aren’t pushed or made public. The system is truly set up to fail us in every aspect of our life. So sad. Hope we take heed and wake up and realize what’s really going on. We really hold the power.
Facts
I love how articulate she is and how she gets her points across logically.
Especially when she said these women would do something in our face then claim we didn’t see what we KNOW what we seen/heard….Jedi mind tric…lm going thru that now…
Very consise with every response I can't get enough of it
Manners and good manners are in her DNA, she not all baise in any way, what agift from her maker, Safi Sana dada, mola mlezi akuhifadhi,
Amen
She speaks very well❤💪🏾
2021 and we still have these problems. So Called Black Women, we must change.
I.S.L.A.M. 🙏🏽💛🇲🇦
@@BoB-yn5vs absolutely not! Worshiping Allah is going into moon worship. That is the so called Arabs religion and it has NOTHING to do the so called Blacks, Hispanics and Native Americans. Our True God/Power is the God of Israel. Shalom.
@@BoB-yn5vs nah bro not Islam 😂 religions a problem too you sheep
Damn your gonna argue that Israel is right damn your sleep too 😂
It was force that change the black community, so it will be the same that required to fix it.
Not going to lie, I wish I heard this YEARS ago. I will be 40 years old next month, and I'm going to be purchasing her book and studying it. She is still so very relevant.
Women learn when it's too late.
I remember seeing Dr Cress Welsing on Donahue back in 1991, she tried to warn us too, now look at us!!
I so happy to hear that you fly nubian Queen sister ❤🤲🏾
@@JosephOrganicAttraction it's already to late
I read it in 1999. Can we get married
73 yesr's old Black Man!!
From, Detroit, Mi. 12-7-24
Im, reading "Great Comments"
Im proud of my Brother's & Sister's!!
Power One Love!!
Self examination and personal development
"That Ain't no Secret !! 💘 love her!"😍😙
Reflection is one of the 3 Rs of the sabbath. Few do it
Is a must!!
Yes. It's needed on both sides
Psalm 68:11 period
She has a beautiful spirit! A revolutionary to the core.
Yes
That's the spirit of a Israelite women.and she is telling us that we are Yahawah's chosen PEOPLE THE ISRAELITES according to the Bible and we fit al the curses in Deuteronomy and we are the descendants of Abraham Isaac and Jacob and our Messiah Yahawahshy which we ignorantly calls Jesus.it's time to come back to Yahawah's Commandments statues and laws so we can raise as a nation again.and the are the people of the bible
Truth
They've tried to hide this woman, and her message for decades. This is my first time looking at length at her videos. She is FFFIIIRRREEE🔥🔥🔥🔥
Roger that!!!
No, this was a "BIG DEAL" in the the 90's; she was everywhere. I just think her message is being revived, because the message is more relevant today than it was in the 90's. She foresaw the direction the black community was heading and was making a move to get ahead of it. So NOTHING is or was being hidden, it's been here all along - people are looking for answers.
@@summertime8879 I see. Thanks for the clarification. I've only seen, or heard of her in the last couple of years. Like I said earlier she is fire.
dgrare100 Yes, she is fire FOR Sure!!!! I still get so much from listening to her.
@@summertime8879 Yeah she holds Black women accountable for their role in the problems in the Black community. If you do that today, it's called "Bashing ".
I was 17 when I found her book on my grandma bookshelf…. 20 years later I still agree and understand even more now. I am now a wife and her book has helped me in so many ways when it comes to my behavior and how I love and respect my husband. She is amazing
How many of my fellow black woman are on this tip in 2020 👏🏾👏🏾 🙌🏾
@black king smh...
🙋🏽♀️
Lawd where y'all at ???
😥😥😥
Sista you have to be a real one 😍 to stand up for the black american man. Thankyou
Starting to be more
I wasn’t even born when this aired, but I’m forever grateful to this Queen 👸🏿
Respect ✊🏾
I watched n read her book growing up now these days the men go after foolish loose women
Tambora what’s the name of this book. And do you think women like this still exist and if they do how to find them?
You can be Superman with a woman like this!
The zeitgeist effect of this interview is astounding! The fact that this is sooooo relevant today, 32 years later, is a true level of how the ancestors will use someone to relay a message. Sister Ali is still relaying the message to this day! Let us get back to our elders. Those who have paved the way for us. Those who can reach back and tell us what happened and guide us going forward. May the universe & ancestors continue to bless Sister Shahrazad Ali and her family. Asé!
Eye Got my copy I must say I’ve been working on my marriage. And it has definitely changed my life Thank you sister
❤❤
Peace and Blessings
"That Ain't no Secret !! "Got my 📚 book's!" and i'm a Granny wanna Educate my daughter! Sister's i've seen and saw my daughter acting like me when i was young!"😧😳😯" i said OMG!"😮😧" what have i done"??😧" so i got some work too do! A lot of US" let's get busy Sister's! "😯 Peace Family!"😍😙
@Queen Mercy Peace and blessings family! "😙" you can get your book on Amazon or try "Africa World Press,Inc. also 👑 Queen! any of my sister who read this post ✔ check out "SACRED WOMAN BY 👑 QUEEN AFUA! Beautiful Afrikan Queen Mother! it's a Guide To Healing and The FEMININE BODY, MIND AND SPIRIT! You'll 💘 love her 📚 book's!"😁😍" we must REACH ONE TEACH ONE!"😁😍 and. 👑 Queen MaMa Dee Dee! Always say Iron Sharpens iron !! "Sister's so in stead of putting one another down let's build one another up and Educate our self!"😁😍 we need each other UNITE! "😁😍
@Queen Mercy " OH! Queen! There's one more for your list it's called "DRESSED TO KILL (The Link Between Breast cancer and BRAS! The book is by, SYDNEY ROSS SINGER & SOMA GRISMAIJER very educational and informational the QUEEN AFUA! book you won't wanna put it down!"💜💚💙😍 our ancestors left all kinds of Blue Print for us "King's and QUEEN'S! Time to get busy! Our oppressors stay at the DRAWING BOARD !!"😳😯" putting us against each other! and DESTROYING us and 👀 watching us destroy each other!! "Please" let's STOP IT! "😳😯" 💘 love Y'all! "Peace Family! "🌹💜💙💚💞
This queen will checkmate you in EVERY angle on the chessboard.
PERIOD
Big facts
I don't mind calling her a queen she was right . 2021
Bro…the 1st 4-5 mins I realize this.
Good take.
She a goddess
I'm age 51 and remember MS. ALI. and her book very well. Fastforward to 2019, ha. She was spot on back in them day's.
Same age. I met her at Saviors Day 1997 and bought her book Are You Still A Slave.
Antares Scorpicus I’m 58 and remember everybody buying the book to read about who we thought at the time was a crazy woman. Fast forward i now realize this woman is the most sane person we will ever know.
Tracy Walker facts!!!
Oh she certainly was and that's why i can admit to feeling so bad now for not getting her message back then. WOW!!! SHE IS SO GREAT!!!
@Queen Mercy i think she is hold on.
I love this woman as a son to his mother. She spoke up for me and my brethren when we could not speak for ourselves. Love and Respect for Mrs Ali.
"The truth doesn't change just because of the way we feel about it.." Amen!
Where did she say that love to timestamp it
@@remainstainless757 if you dont find it, its probably just a general phrase, which i approve of
Yh and that also goes for the lies in the bible
Black people wake up!!
No but it does change once you acknowledge how you feel and why you feel it
@@remainstainless757 @39:11
They would never air this on National TV in 2020
Where it aired
sure they would. just to create more discord.
Why Not ?
The me-too movement and black feminist, white supremacist tries to prevent it
As they shouldn't. This type of foolishness would divide us further. What we need is accountability and forgiveness by both Black men and women, not blame.
Self examination is sooo important. I appreciate this elder!!
True word young sister, we Love and appreciate you eternally ! Stay strong and focused. Walk Humble and Strong! Graceful and right! Check this out and please share if you can see the relevance. Peace and Blessing Black Princess! ua-cam.com/video/dqusjclZQwU/v-deo.html&feature=push-lbss&attr_tag=3spWeB7cw--CmWz2%3A6
I agree with you 💯% self-examination is important,...But (Application) of what you (Learn) from that self-examination is more (Important).
Thanks Ms.Ali for standing up for the Black Man you are one of a kind. Please keep up the great work you are doing in a very powerful and positive way!!
I'm at the halfway mark as i post this comment, thus far this women is highly intelligent and articulate.
This interview was recorded in 1991. Twenty eight years later, our communities are in chaos. Maybe we should have listened.
They were in chaos then
Debarge revelar información time
Didn’t listen then and not listening now. They want to do their own thing and when the outcome turn badly then they want Sympathy. Okay.....good luck with the sympathy game.
@@SAPHYTYRA Facts
@@dman221 You're probably right. Don't know what it will take for things to change.
that woman is beautiful... in EVERY WAY
Very true
This woman is amazing. I wish I would’ve heard her when I was 18. Fortunately, I’m never too old to learn!!
I’m only 18 years old and wow the truth that was spoken in such sort time is beyond me! I’m taking this and definitely running with it
Where does ALMIGHTY GODI seriously factor into your lifes equation ?.
I wish you well child.
You would do much better to elevate yourself and find mates at that elevated level (no matter their race!) than to call yourself elevating and then digging through trash heaps trying to elevate bums who will thank you for your efforts by siding with the mate THEY really wanted when all your effort is spent.
I wish you find a good man who will appreciate your wisdom and knowledge. You are a blessing to whoever is going to marry you. Women Shahr Ali is trying to build from this book are only found in Venda, Limpopo province in South Africa.
SALUTE...Infinite!!!
This Sister is absolutely way beyond her time. She understands that African Ancestors were stripped of Their Own Spiritual Traditions and Values. People underestimate the Impact of Slavery, Epigenetics is The Science and Facts of Trauma being passed on a Cellular level. If this Trauma is left unhealed this is pass on from generations to generations. So she has a insightful perspective.
Jose Santana see...the entire fact that I would’ve had to explain that to this interviewer I would’ve went in. Ali was so giddy and loving, she held no punches. And she was very articulate. She just reminded me of who we are. ✊🏾
The Bible calls that Generational Curses which are the result of Soul Wounds (caused by sin, trauma, pain) look up Katie Souza she talks in depth about it.
THAT'S WHY I CALL IT... it seems to me African American steel wearing the invisible Chains From Slavery like our ancestors did..
She comes from a long line of Ancestors who teach and offer healing.
Jose Santana I disagree, we should be at this point but we are far from our time as we allowed others to F UP our mental capacity.
She oozes royalty and feminine behavior. She oozes righteousness.
No man can look at this woman as a so-called black man and not want her!!
She is grace....
No doubt!
🤝
Everything you said were facts
💯
Divine feminine
🤷🏾♂️ I’m 37 & getting my life in order. This is my 2nd time watching this video in 2024. I love, cherish, respect, & value my BEAUTIFUL BLACK SISTAS
👩🏽🎓🖤✊🏾🙏🏾
"Just SMILE when you see him coming"...this is so HUGE! I can attest that I do this for my husband once he made the comment one day, "smile."
This is a very profound & enlightening interview🙌🏾❤️, who’s listening to this for the first time besides me in 2021??
I listened to it the day you sent it to me.
Yassss and loving it bout to order all 6 from eBay
I'm listening and it is an amazing experience to hear a black woman speaking facts in 1991 that Kevin Samuel is speaking today
Me too
Me first time
"If we can't accomplish saving our race, then we have not made an accomplishment"!
Shahrazad Ali
So very true, black race as we knew it is being replaced!
That's been the threat forever😂🤦🏿♀️
And saving the black race is the hardest thing ever
@@aboriginalstraightshooter7967, whites supremacy just set this up 250 years ago.
@@smangalisochalwe6663, just do what you know is CORRECT!!! Easy as eating your favorite treat.
Facts i could defiantly agree
For Shahrazad Ali to have 12 kids & still look that fine & to be that well educated 🙌
9 of them are adopted,
@bravefaery135 nine adopted children, wow that's a lot of child tax break credits about $1500-3000 per child.
@@aarondigby5054 Wow, that really shows your twisted mentality. You're the reason why welfare needs to be eliminated. It's crazy that this is the first thing you would even think of to someone adopting children. 🙄
This message is more relevant today than ever. I'm glad people are rediscovering sister Sheharazad Ali
Sheharazad Ali
SO TRUE SISTER
“If a man has his woman behind him, he will believe he can do anything.” #Jewel
You on point about that brother
Facts! I'm literally willing to die for a women who has my back.
On the side of him not behind him
May I add that she can also be "with" him.
Either way the point is that man and woman should be there for each other, have one another as a team will make the duo a POWER couple, yes being independent is good in all but as a whole we all need someone to carry us through the weak moments or just simply make sure we good when no one else does.
She just gave the medicine that will heal black relationships. Let go of the emotions and clear your head to truly listen. Smile every time you see him 🙌🏾
I remember smiling at a black male on the bus in los angels and he cussed me out so bad that I vowed that I would never do it again.
Because of one incident? Weak
JonMwan G how is that weak?? I don’t understand?? Everything is always about you guys. Have many seats.
Lady Bug are you married?
Rick Perez yes, why?
Ms.Shahrazad Ali teaches the real truth concerning ourselves, we need to respect and inspire each others.Ms.Ali thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom for the better of our people!!!
It’s the eye contact and grace yet POWER in which she speaks. A Queen
That part!! Woman... BLK man,.. ie BLK ppl have fallen far from their glory..
I said the exact same thing. She gave direct eye contact and I could feel her power through my phone. Loved this video and I’m glad the universe has brought this to me
Beauty and much knowledge
I feel attacked, but the hardest pill to swallow is the truth
I hope you see the bigger picture .
I hope the attack is in realizing your own complacency.
Reach higher and be happier with what you grasp.
Agree but the point is at least you learn something that most isn't talking about. I too had learn something from this video. Hope we both grow and be successful and happy in everything we do.
@@kxlot79 🧠💪💪
Stay strong...
27:38 The glaring direct eye contact the Sister gives while administering the truth is undeniable & indisputable.
THAT TRUTH CUTS DEEP!
If the BW had listened, understood, and acknowledged this knowledge our community would be entirely different for the better.
Notice how you are part of the problem by coming in strong about what black women should have done as if black men need to do/change nothing? How weak are you to feel like it’s only up to the women and not the men? You are pathetic and part of the problem🤮
Facts
You mean bm wouldve stopped engaging in criminal activies, creating kids out of wedlock and went to college? Hm
Whole time she was speaking facts to a generation who chose
to ignore and have their children & Grandchildren pay the P R I C E...... 🤦♂️✨
Facts
And while I'm talking to a lady who believes that this lady is talking nonsense and she's not because she's clarifying the bad behavior women have displayed and I salute this lady on TV
My grandparents don't even visit us. :(
💯
I am a married woman and married a man from a broken drug addict home and I chose to submit and build him up fresh out the penal system and I'm here to tell you ladies all our blk men need is "God, true love and patience". I'm happy to report he has soared in his career. From a fry cook to managing multi-million dollar stores, treats me like a queen and in 16years total time together never raised his voice or had not 1 fight but it started with me submitting myself and praying and somehow he found his place in life\marriage etc.. God bless. Book coming one day. 😚😇
And after going through all that how many other women do you allow him to have?
Won’t GOD do it 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@DLH @DLH that was a feminine reaction brother, when a woman is foolish, you don't attack her from a emotional POV..
Alright a great testimony you need a book!!!!!! Called "Watch God Almighty do it!!!"
Nikki Law she didn’t say any of that; you assumed all of that from her statement. You’re projecting negativity onto her and it really wasn’t necessary
I read her book when it first came out in 91. My girl at the time left me when she found out. I didn't try to stop her.
Smart and the rest beginning of the update and the rest
You said the key word (GIRL)
She left you because of a book?
Seriously bro?
🤔 wow did you throw the book at her?? Was her leaving a blessing or does the book unfairly bash black women? Are you married to a black woman now?
I have so many questions lol I want to read this book moreso now
This lady has inner as well as outer beauty and anyone who listened to her with an open mind will notice a warming heart ànd a tearing of joy ❤
This woman, Shahrazad Ali, does not disappoint. She resonates with truth, and our women and men will benefit tremendously by listening to her and heeding her message.
She's not ahead of her time; she is, in fact, timeless. Thank you so much, Shahrazad Ali.
It takes a woman to be honest with herself and receive this message. If we heal ourselves we then help our men heal and we heal together #Inshallah
How long does the healing take? Its been 39 years and I still feel like I'm bleeding out!
@Blue Halfmoon 👊🏾💯
We cannot heal if we aren’t having realistic conversations. People keep showing up as someone else or who they think they should be or who they were told to be by their broken parents/family members/friends..etc. There are so many layers
Capeverdeprc AMEN AMEN AMEN
Facts! 💯
This is the most powerful interview I’ve ever witnessed. She spoke nothing but the truth. I love it! Enlightenment is a beautiful thing. As a married black woman, mother, daughter, sister I wholeheartedly agree with everything she said.
I would like to interview you about these opinions on her book, have you read it?
Check out Nikki Giovanni and James Baldwin "lie to me"
@@2minutetopics Yes I’m currently reading it. I ordered it right after watching her interview. I’m interested , in your request. Email me the list of questions & a time & date for the interview.
@@ThePkyles1 Will do! Thanks for the recommendation. I just purchased James Baldwin “I’m not your Negro” & I can’t wait to read it. I have to finish A few more before I can start on it.
Datsrealnye
She raised many points in this interview. Being able to see things in a different perspective helps us broaden our awareness
Facts
I’m so glad to be finding out about this book at 25 while I’m still single and no kids. I really look forward to teaching my children everything I didn’t get taught as a child.
Call me 😍
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Preach
SAME SIS SAME!
I am 21 years old . I’m so grateful to have found this video and at this age ! Everything this Queen said was 💯. I’ll be ordering this book in a couple days . This actually made me wanna be a better woman now ! Even wanna be more modest . It’s 2022 and modesty is not in ! Thank you so much for this knowledge. This will make me a great Girlfriend one day I can be a wife !
The fact that you embrace her words of wisdom means that you WILL be a good wife.
It also means that you will have a joyful relationship filled with that which you desire.
As a 48 year old man, I can say that EVERY strong and successful man I've known looks for the woman who heeds Mother Queen Ali's words.
TELL ALL OF YOUR FEMALE FRIENDS AND FAMILY!
Our nation NEEDS a coalition of peaceful, self- aware woman to survive.
Great and i totally agree with all you have said. I wish more people of our age group could read this book or watch this interview.
Humility in life goes a long way!
Yes u will make a high value man very happy ❤️
@@marcusdarden1535 brethren you typed all the right words to this young QUEEN. Yes she will be fine, and should share with her friends and associates, we need better outcomes for the future. 🎯💯
"Interviewer throwing pebbles at a bullet proof glass" -ha
Mel Fields this is MGTOW has taken root
Tf you say😂🏃🙊🙈
BAA Haha Haha heeeee haw he haw heee hawwwww heeeee haw lol preach, thank's for that laugh so true
New Fields so true!!! 👍👍👍
Mel Fields exactly smdh
This interview never gets old to me. Love this woman.
She's doing a great job because she is in order. She is teaching the females on how to be women and wives. Instead of trying to boss and manipulate men
Mack. All men are NOT leaders. You know this better than me Sir. I say whoever is good at the math...let them do the math...whoever is good at english...let them do the letters etc. Every woman does not do well in the kitchen. I have 4 sisters. 2 of us can throw down...2 cannot...their men cook. So we have to also make like it's not 1783 and adapt accordingly. Just because a woman may not cook does not devalue her. Do men hunt? I mean do you hunt? You probably do not hunt because you dont have to. Does that devalue your manhood?I promise you that she has a man of means to order dinner or he cooks. She may clean well and sew, garden, mother well etc. Albeit most mothers cook at a minimum if nothing else.
@@jacquelynn2051 you might have a point, but women are definitely not leaders nor were they ever meant to be.the shit show which is The BLK community today is a prime example of the so called strong independent BLK woman trying to be leaders
@@Gandolfspipe2667 The elite powers that be have intentionally pitted black women and black men against each other. We "ALL" have to wake up, recognize the enemy's tactics and stand up for each other. Feminism is our enemy!
@@Gandolfspipe2667 Ms. Ali is strong, articulate and beautiful!
@@chavelahutchinson1935 of course she is and she is in order, and she's in alliance with the BLK man. Unlike our other strong educated independent BLK women
The host was butthurt. She couldn't handle the truth
gman What truth?
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Chris Harris All I’m asking is what truth? And besides, the host isn’t your enemy.
OMG lol to much explaining debating it's 2020 she said slap em in the mouth alot of women would be alive today reality
Ashley Douglas I know lots of women who thought that chastisement from a man, a little hit, like a slap in the mouth is sexy. And then saw those women get with a man who really laid his fist and feet in their ass and they didn’t like it and were in misery. So be careful of your desires for chastisement, bcuz it’s gonna get real ugly.
Read this book at 16,I'm now 47 today. We have gotten worse as predicted. Social media is the next divider of our people. We still have no honor and discipline in our community. Still addicted to materialism,now addicted to sensationalism.
Agree 100%
I'm so curious. What was your initial reaction when you first read it?
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@@someguyik great question! When I first read it, I was like wow! She is going to have a lot of women pissed, but the truth hurts. Gave it to my girlfriend at the time, she only read a little bit and got upset. Tried to give it to other black women, they wouldn't touch it. I watched the media drag her through the mud. I remember when Iyanna dissed her on Donahue. In the end she was proven right. I tried to talk to black women about their attitude and health back in the 90's I stopped. We will be a community of single people unhealthy mentally and physically. It's only going to get worse.
Welp this thread is depressing... The truth hurts and the reality is just as bad and sad. I wish we would all think like this and create families that stayed together💯
As a black woman, I endorse this message! She's telling the truth and I'm sad that It took me 39 years in order to hear it from someone who looks like me.
The host got checked by Ms Ali whenever she tried to get to smart and slick
I have to say this woman is very good at defending her garbage.
@@kseke25 what makes it garbage? You not agreeing doesn't cut it. How does she peddle in garbage. This sister is a queen, you could learn something from her
@MelaninGoddess Jewels Just because you don’t agree with what she is saying don’t mean it’s garbage. You can disagree of course but to be so disrespectful is saying a lot about you.
MelaninGoddess Jewels what are you even saying?
MelaninGoddess Jewels yesss Queen 👸🏾 👏🏾 that interviewer is very defensive and lacks intelligence and wisdom !!! She needs to stop acting off of emotion and listen to a sister with more wisdom and experience than her it is like listening to your mother she doesn’t listen .