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- Опубліковано 17 чер 2011
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male bisexual right here
Same here!
so umm... how old are you? :P
KrixOfficial 19? :p
so, would you like to explain the XXL in your name?
KrixOfficial I'm just a big guy. ;3
i personally have liked girls mostly but i have been attracted to certain guys, and just today my friend came up to me and said he was sorry for mocking me for being bisexual because he realized he is also. one of the most common misconceptions i have seen among males about gay and bi men is that if they like guys they must like all guys, including them. however identifying as bi myself i have only really felt attracted to very few guys. however the main problem i have found is questioning my own skill, i mean after doing a little bit with a gay guy i noticed how good he was and how good i was... before that i could lie to myself and say my skill level was normal for a guy. but i can still lie to myself and just say he was exceptionally skilled
Practice and comfort. It's normal for things not to be amazing when you're still figuring out how to do it for someone else :)
The interesting thing is (and this is just anecdotal) that in my experience, the people most "down" on bisexuality are lesbians. My ex-wife realized in her 30's that she was bi - and that was not a problem, until she started hanging out with some lesbians. They shamed her and derided her, and finally convinced her (for a while) that she was actually a lesbian, but just in denial. I knew this was false - I rarely have known anyone who enjoyed sex with men or women as much as she did. She now knows that her former lesbian friends were wrong, and they have shunned her because she dated a man again.
*****
Apparently, you were just born a sick freak.
I applaud your honesty Pat Doyle & as a bisexual, I love to meet men who understand that we are in fact born this way! I also struggle with the same issue. I have met lesbians in the past who tell me that I am lesbian & just lying to myself & I find them just as ignorant as straight people who do not understand (or do not want to) This Jim Hiatt person is just a sad & lonely troll. His only reason for being here is to upset you so please do not listen to his crap. He is a troll. best way to deal with troll is to completely ignore them. Another useful tip in dealing with online trolls: Report Them for harassment & bullying! If you just hover over any comment, you will see a small triangle appear on the top right (options menu) click it & there is the button to report them to You-Tube. Hope you have a nice day & I wish you and your x-wife all the best :)
Samantha Reynolds
Yeah, but I am extremely reluctant to report anyone for harassment. It is too often used as a tool to silence people we don't like. His comments, repulsive as they are, do not bother me, and might even reflect his true opinions. The best way in my opinion to counter bad speech is either with good speech, or to simply ignore it.
I prefer trolls to censorship of any kind. If he shows up on my doorstep with this crap, then I'll either toss him physically out of my yard, or call the cops. But internet trolls are harmless annoyances.
I am glad that you at least accept yourself as you are, and don't let the narrow minded people (straight or lesbian) try to define your sexuality for you. I must say though, that I find the attitude far more puzzling in lesbians than in straight people - you'd think they would understand. It reminds me of an odd thing I learned when I was with my wife. She started wanting to go to strip "gentlemen's" clubs, and interestingly, the girls would open up to her as a customer in ways they never do with men, and I discovered that, as a group, strippers seem to be more disgusted with prostitutes than some "Christians" I know. It's as though they drew their own line, and perhaps because of its proximity to the prostitute's are even more vehement than most about it. Apparently, it's OK to take off your clothes and basically dry hump someone for cash, but no further. People are strange beasts.
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As I said - sad, pathetic little man. You attempt to emotionally upset people, and make their lives less happy just to get your rocks off. Fortunately, I am not bothered by you, but I am sure many people are. I don't understand exactly the sick pathology of a person who gets enjoyment from being unkind to others, I suppose it's like folks who like to drown kittens, or abuse puppies.
Myth #5 Being Bi is easier than gay. I have thought that it was easier, because you can choose, right, but you can't. You can't choose "who" you like...That is the issue...The labels, gay, bi, etc. doesn't mean anything.
If you could choose, I would think that almost everyone who is bi would have already chosen to be straight and the bi label would not exist.
And my thoughts about "Acting" on your preference. Are you supposed to marry someone who you really love or are you supposed to marry someone based on who is on a list of people your family, friends, and religious groups approves of or the person God wants you to marry? The latter sounds like pre arraigned marriage to me.
If I could choose my sexual orientation I'd have chosen A. I'd get so much more done XD
Bisexuality - attraction to 2 or more genders. It isnt a choice. It just is.
brookexx33beejay Actually bisexuals and their organizations have been defining bisexuality as attraction to 2 or more genders. Pansexuality is not an attraction to more than two, because being attracted to 3 out of all the genders isnt pansexual, its bisexual still or polysexual. I am bisexual and attracted to all genders. Being attracted to ALL genders is commonly known as "pansexual." However, you can still ID as bisexual.
The term "bisexual" originally applied to perfect flowers that had both sexes. The bisexual community takes the 2 meaning to mean 2 gender groups, therefore attraction to SAME and DIFFERENT genders would be 2.
Isn't bisexuality someone who is physically attracted or sexually atteacted to members of their own SEX or another SEX? Instead of gender? I have been researching online, and it says sex instead of gender.
I define people attracted to more than two genders as polysexuals. Just throwing that out there...
12treeGoldfisher And you are wrong. It happes with assumptions sometime.
I AM BISEXUAL And I'm a guy 😘👦🏼😘👧🏼
me too
🖐🏻 here
Hi
One of my good friends is a bisexual guy! Another friend of mine (also a bisexual guy, ironically enough) told me that women tend to identify as bisexual more often than men because in the early years of humankind, women found pleasure amongst themselves while their husbands hunted. Something to consider!
up top man, im the same.
Bisexuality is frowned upon? This is actually the first time I'm hearing this. I know A LOT of bisexuals and never has anyone complained about how hard it is to be bisexual, nor did I find it being frowned upon. Never thought of bisexuality really being a problem amongst people.
I've always thought how awesome it is to be bisex. Me and my girlfirend are both and its damn amazing!
Well I come from a really anti-gay country. I mean, more than 70% of people think gays shouldn't adopt kids and all. And coming form that kind of a community and not experiencing anything like that, it's weird and hard to understand that actually happens. Sad to hear it. I think most people are generally bisexual, the society is just so fucked up that most don't wanna admit or come out or even know they are because society makes them what they are.
Quinlan i understand.
interesting that you said "I think most people are generally bisexual, the society is just so fucked up that most don't wanna admit or come out or even know they are because society makes them what they are," i have a similar opinion that is actually a thesis, i don't know if i'm right or not but
sometimes i get the feeling that humans are naturally bisexual and those who are strictly homo or heterosexual are being socially conditioned. this is, however, just my impression of how people seem to work, i have absolutely no idea if i'm right and no interest in trying to defend the idea, but yeah :P interesting to see a similar point of view o/
It actually is frowned upon more then you might think, even in the gay community.. Maybe even more there actually.
Think of like this I love bros and hoes. :P
Lara vdv I get that in the gay community a lot. I am an active member of the Gay community in my town, and I am a bisexual female. The majority of responses by my gay friends are..."you are only half decided." "You aren't a real lesbian." "Your not a real...REAL....bisexual." It's insane. Bisexual is weirdly frowned upon because people think it's playing both side of the fence, as if there is an all out war between the gay and straight community. Bisexuals are the social switzerland in this equation and sometimes people don't want your in-put. I understand when fighting for rights it can appear as if it is Gay against Straight when really the battle has more to do with religious background and a matter of people being open and accepting. It is hard enough in this world to be open with who you are but being rejected by a gay community sometimes hurts more than being rejected by the rest of the world. It is not every community, and I keep that in mind, but in general this video hits it right on the head. Thank You!
How about we just say we're "sexual" and call it a day.
I'm a guy and yes i do find other males attractive. I lean towards women but I would call myself Bi. I have sampled from different menus and I like have both pretty well. PS Lacigreen is so hot.
Personally, I think it's pretty cool that I'm able to fall in love with someone, regardless of gender. But hey, no sexuality's better than another. Homosexuality, heterosexuality, bisexuality, pansexuality, asexuality, it's all good. Just you do you!
No.
#BisexualMasterRace
+Zach A-L Words cannot describe how happy I am that you said that.
Laci, I want to say thank you. This was the first video of yours that I watched and it's because I was thinking of coming out and so I was searching about bisexuality to see what kind of reactions I might get. This video, along with many others, helped me realise that I hadn't truly accepted my bisexuality myself yet. You helped me along the path of self-acceptance and coming out and, through your other videos, you also brought me into the world of feminism and taught me what school didn't. The amount of myths I believed before finding your channel, it was ridiculous. Sex+ has helped me so much so thank you.
With me I have always looked for love in a person, not a gender. If that makes me bisexual, so be it.
yeah I just figured that out XD
Even though I myself am a lesbian, my girlfriend is Bi and I am completely supportive of them. They aren't confused or greedy, it's just what they feel.
Sophia Lind thank you someone who is gay and not an ass about bi people thank you bless you and have a great day life and everything else
I just saw this, and I would simply like to say: Dear Laci, I love you
I hate it when people resort to the default position that being bisexual is just being indecisive or "confused" I identify as bisexual because I am attracted to both genders. Admittedly not equally, I am more attracted to men than women but that does not make me indecisive. If anything it makes me pretty decisive given that I already identify as bisexual. Typically people are just ignorant when it comes to sexualities that aren't one nor the other. And just because they don't feel it themselves doesn't make it impossible for others to feel.
Is it just me or Laci's hair is just fucking hot in this video..
hair....ya right....
Mindshi fter yes he said HAIR
Freud wrote in a now-famous letter that "Homosexuality is assuredly no advantage, but it is nothing to be ashamed of, no vice, no degradation; it cannot be classified as an illness." This view was radically liberal for his time.
I'm bisexual. I'm emotionally and sexually attracted to men and mostly sexually attracted to women but I do get emotionally attached to women when I get close to them. I've always been this way. I'm never going to come out. straight people don't come out, why should I? I'm happy like this. :)
Thank you, laci! Your videos always make me feel a lot better about myself and more accepting towards others, keep doing what you're doing xoxo
Laci , I LOVE the little song at the end! Please always keep it in your videos ! It makes me happy!
Also there's a bit difference between pan sexual and bisexual. People make that mistake all the time.
Exactly! Bi sexual basically means you like boys and girls, while pansexual is boys, girls, bisexuals, transsexuals, other pansexuals, gender fluids, gender/sexual binaries, etc. Pansexuals is basically being gender blind while bisexual is mainly boys and girls
Pansexuality is attraction to all genders, or regardless of gender. While bisexuality is usually defined as attraction to 2 or more genders (not just boys and girls). A bisexual person can be attracted to genderfluid and transgender people, and sometimes they are attracted to people regardless of gender too, but they just prefer the term "bisexual" over "pansexual". They're both similar and really it depends on what the person prefers labeling themselves as
***** There's more than 2 sexes as well, go read up :)
***** just like to mention that it's not that asexuals don't have sex, some do, but some also prefer not to. Asexuality just means you aren't sexually attracted to anyone, not that you don't like sex.
A AL the "bi" in bi sexual literally means 2... but what is genderfluid? like what squirts out at a climax?
I'm bisexual and have a slight female preference. This has lead some people to doubt that the only reason I call myself bi is to fit in with the LGBT community. That I'm actually just straight. And honestly, it's a bit annoying.
Yes I know.
I've just discovered your channel and I've just seen a small number of your videos and oh crap I just want to spend the night watching them all. You're awesome, very clear, you use the rights words, you address the issues in all their complexity, and always with a smile. I literally want to share every one of your videos on facebook (and I probably will !). So thank you so, so, so, sooooo much. Have a great day !
For any young teens or adults or anyone for that matter wondering about sexuality, unless you feel more comfortable with a label, do not feel pressured to label yourself. As stated in the video, sexuality is a spectrum, so labels don't even have to be necessary.
My mother has one of the worst (in my opinion) outlook on Bi's. She believes that they will never have a stable and lasting relationship because they will always be wanting the other sex that they didn't settle down with, so in her eyes, all bi people will cheat.
We get into a lot of fights over the matter, because i am myself, Bi.
That absolutely sucks and I really hope for your sake and hers, that she grows out of that ridiculous idea
I'm bi. And I really don't know how to tell my friends. Like seriously, in my entire grade, I'm the first person to have a crush on a girl. I've only told my best friend, and she's fine with it. But I'm scared. •~•
Tell them, if they can't accept you then that's their problem.
You probably aren't the first, based on my experience, you just don't know about everyone else because they all feel the same way. Wether or not you tell the rest of your friends is up to you. If you don't feel safe telling them, then don't tell them. Maybe talk to your friend that accepts you about it. Just don't feel ashamed for being who you are because for every person who accepts you there will be at least one person who won't accept you. Remember that it's not about the people who don't accept you but the people who DO.
How I came out is I said I LIKE MEN AND WOMAN BTCHES and walked away. I am a man, btw, but my mom and dad didn't take me seriously. They said it was the internet that influenced me... :I
i'm bi too. just... don't give a fuck :D i've never do a "coming out", i just say, sometimes, the same things about men and women (i'm a girl). My parents have understood it progressively. My friends understand thaht i'm not joking or "do it to have male's attention", but it takes a while. But, if you don't consider that your sexuality is "different" or "anormal", just act like everybody else : natural.
People will ask you questions but it's normal, it's not the most frequent orientation so... you'll have to educate them. And, sometimes hear a lot of bullshit ("you fuck with your boyfriend AND your best (girl) friend at the same time?" for example). Be strong, facing the problem is always better that live in scare and shame.
Hey I'm like two months late to the party, but I recently came out to my friends about being bi. Take it at your own ease, but remember, if they don't accept who you are then they aren't the kind of friends you need. Most people will be a little confused and will need explaining, so just be patient with that. Good luck c:
Bisexual and proud. That is all.
Thank You, Laci for one of the more clear-headed talks on the subject I've heard for very, very long time. To be fair to those a little slower on the take up, it DOES help to have a good dose of caffeine kicking in before giving a this one a listen.
I actually have a little story about ignorance on this matter... I had a girlfriend a few years back, and i had admited to her that I was bi, actually it was while I was dating her that I actually figured out I was bi, and she had told her mom about this... her mom beeing pretty old fashioned and always seeing stuff very black and white assumed that I would turn out to actually be gay later on and just slowly be coming out of the closet, because ofc, bisexuality doesn't exist, it's just a made up thing according to her...
im a out bisexual and a male. my whole family is supportive of gay rights and strait lifestyles but have always told me that eventually i have to pick a side because what i am doesnt exist, my girlfriend and our maybe soon to be trans girl friend however love and apreciate me for everything and its good to see others come out and be as free as they want no matter how hard. Love your vids laci and keep up the awesome work :3
I really love that you did this video laci
You are awesome! I've only seen two vids of you so far, first one being on Sam Pepper, and this one. All I can say is that I'm happy I ran across a youtuber like you, and now I can subscribe for the first time, happily! Now I'm gonna watch this other video saying, "BAN CIRCUMCISION??!", to see what's in store.
When I was younger (about 5th grade) I first had an attraction to girls & actually my first best friend (female) ended up being my first kiss. Then as sex ed took place I heard words like "gay" "lesbian" & "bisexual" for first time. I was told being ANYTHING other than straight was BAD, let be known this wasn't some God will send me to hell thing & more of a gender role type deal, plus media & crap. ANYWAY, it wasn't until I was about 14 I started showing interests in guys & thought I just went through a weird gay phase even though I was still attracted to females & often watched lesbian porn (my mom caught me once!) Unfortunately after a string of bad relationships in high school I thought maybe I'm just a confused lesbian. It wasn't until I actually sat down (at 19, I'm 20 btw) with myself & actually had a talking out loud discussion with myself that I realized I like both sexes. Sometimes I like men more, sometimes I like women, idk. To be honest I'm still slowly figuring it out especially since I'm still a virgin & there are SOO many other aspects to attraction & things but bisexual is what I seem most comfortable identifying with for the time being. I LOVE this video & thank you Laci for always being able to shed some much needed light on things. This video it over 3 years old & is still extremely useful. Much appreciated!
Bisexual and proud of it !
i want to say thank you for this video, iv been waiting for a video like this.
thank you, thank you, thank you, i honestly cannot thank you enough for making this video
I'm going to be completely open here so I ask for your consideration. I have no idea what sexuality I am. There are times where I'm around a guy I think is kinda nice and has a great personality, I act a little off and blush as I would act if I had a crush on a girl. When it happens, it's around someone who has great personality, not necessarily body shape. I'm a guy in case you're asking, and I'm noticing myself being a little more open with my femininity than I'm used to. I've always been pretty feminine, and actually a good portion of my friends think I'm gay. I have no idea whether this is just a rush of hormones, I just know that I have been having this debate in my mind for about 3/4 of a year now. I have no idea what attraction to a male is supposed to be like, I've only been openly attracted to women. Whether I'm bi or gay or straight I'm at a loss for. Any help from you nice people would really help me out. Thanks :)
You are likely pansexual, attracted to personality when gender matters the least. . Look it up and dont be afraid to confide in a friend or two and take it slow and find out what makes you comfortable.
I've ruled that out because sometimes I look at people I think are pretty and I feel attracted to them, this being men and women, but a. it is stronger with women, and b, with men it tends to go more towards personality
it can vary, like she says there can be millions of versions. either way feel free to explore and have fun. :)
Labels are just an explanatory aid. Just cause they're sometimes useful doesn't mean you'll fit into some :) Sometimes (much more frequently than people are raised to believe, actually), people are just attracted to attractive people.
Also, sexual attraction tends to have a lot more to do with how comfortable one feels with a person than it does strictly physical features o: at least, with real people anyway
well put
I'm bisexual AND transgender.... believe me, I catch shit from a LOT of types of people LMAO.
That is unfortunate, hang in there
Thanks i do my best
***** I try my best to be a good and kind human being
Dude here. Happily married for seven years. Totally bisexual, which took most of my life to square away with. Now I'm comfortable and at peace with it.
I'm not bisexual, I have friends that are, both male and female, and I accept and love them completely. I do understand the feeling of being told "it's a phase, it doesn't exist" ect, ect. I have Tourette's Syndrome that became very prominent around the age of 16-17 (it stops being classified as Tourette's once you turn 18 and it comes up, for whatever reason, I don't know what it becomes, but it's just not a thing and rarely happens). By this point, people knew me in high school, and they knew I was, for the most part, adequately normal, just a bit of a nerd. I had a tic or two but it wasn't super noticeable. Once my Tourette's kicked in, people told me to stop it, that I was faking it for attention, I'm making crap up. Some of these people were close friends. It isn't something I can help; I didn't wake up one morning and decide to put my body through extreme stress and pain by 'faking' tics. I know it sounds like I'm equating bisexuality to a disease at this point, but I'm not at all. I'm saying that a girl doesn't wake up and decide she wants to start eating out vaginas every once and a while, same to men for maybe wanting to hit on that hot guy at the bar and lead to some sexytimes. It's just who you are, learn to live with it and accept it. People are ignorant, so educate them if they ask you questions and ignore them if they spit on you. Sometimes people just don't understand, make sure not to hate on them because society doesn't teach them everything in the world.
I am a bisexual guy too. I think everybody is potentially bisexual, but society has conditioned people, especially guys, to repress this. Under the Roman empire bisexuality was pretty much the norm, and it is only under the influence of monotheism that this changed.
Dude, seriously you guys say these absurd statements without statistics. Not everyone has the "potential" to be bi. If someone doesn't like it, they don't like it. The only way they could get it is by force, which is making someone who they aren't.
Don't think, know.
+Jannet 5sos Homophobic? No, just someone who doesn't like people forcing their beliefs on others.
+Jannet 5sos How about you propose a counter argument before assuming I'm Homophobic?
uhhh what?
honestly sending this video to my mom right now
I get comments all the time about my bisexuality, negative and positive...you nailed the myths Laci...Great vid
Oh I absolutely love Laci! She's so smart and compassionate and open minded. And she's so real. Whatever she shows on camera is the real Laci. She's so amazing!
This woman is actually really beautiful and some kinda genius. I don't know if that's a common combination or not. Go Ms. Green, go. YOWSA!!!
Hardly a genius....
Then again for someone who doesn't know if it is 'common' for a woman to be both smart and beautiful, you wouldn't have much of an idea what ingenuity is...
I'm a guy. And I don't believe in male/female differences. I think that if there are frequent kinds of differences between boys and girls it's only because their parents educated them so ("lets give our daughter a baby toy and give our son some violent video game..."). And as I don't believe that love is based on ones body, but his or her personality, behavior, etc... well "Bisexual" "Heterosexual" and "Homosexual" are not even words that exist to me. Only "love". Oh, and "homophobia" and "Biphobia" sadly, because the world is full of idiots. This is a great video by the way
Your viewers are like my favs
Every time I try to come out to my mom as bisexual. She basically tells me I'm lying and that bisexuals don't exist. " you're either gay or straight! There is no in between...." Or "I've never seen you with a girl before." Or "you just think it's cool to be bisexual that's why you're doing it."
Well for me I am a bisexual because I am confused, idk if that makes sense? I'm going through a phase where I don't know if I'm a boy or girl or fall somewhere in between. So experiment and a bisexual helps with figuring out what I want to be
Gender identity and sexual orientation are independent of each other. It is perfectly fine to experiment with who you like but don't make the mistake that liking one specific gender makes you become a specific gender.
You may want to look into the Q (questioning) side of LGBTQ! There may be a lot of people who can relate to you.
"you humans and your quaint little catergories" Torchwood
When I was young, I never really thought about girls with girls, or boys with boys. Once I got into middle school, I started to realize how I really like girls too. I am not bi as I consider myself omni, but it is similar, and I find it funny how people are like "make up your mind" or "it's just a phase". Maybe it is, maybe it isn't, but it isn't your decision.
Thank you so much for posting this video!!! I am bisexual and my boyfriend was having a very hard time understanding what that meant. This made it much easier for him to understand.
by now, I've grown allergic to the sentence 'it's just a phase'
Thank you for making this video I'm bi and I have know for about 7 months I have watched some videos and most bi's are outcasted because there technically not lesbian but not straight at the same time I can't tell my mum or grandma cause I'm scared there gonna say its just a faze but I know it's no
This is the first Laci Green video I've watched, and I'm super into it.
Hey, Laci. I doubt you'll see this but I just wanted to tell you that back in 2012, I saw this video just before I came out as bi. I had just come to terms with my sexuality myself and was frantically googling "14 and bi?????!!!!!!" 😂 I saw this and you helped so much and I immediately subscribed to your channel. 6 years later, I have been fully out as bi to everyone for about 5 years now and I'm still subscribed to you. Thank you for helping young teenage me come out of the closet. ❤
I'm my case I didn't accept my bisexuality until I was like 30 years old... I had sex with a girl when I was teen and I really though it was a phase... but I had to accept after many years to have some fantasies with women and falling for a friend of mine...
I still prefer men, is easier in a way to be with them because I know I can marry him, have children (and if we adopt and something happen to me he can take care of the child, same sex couples sometimes, when the one of them who adopted the child or had the child dies, the other one has no rights to keep their child)...
But still be a woman is more relaxing... I have been with some girls and even if we are so different is like we are in the same tune... and I love to hug them...
Sadly, there are many people who say they are Bi because is like a fashion now... some real bi never get out of the closet (if we can say it like that) because the society restrictions...
The good thing to be a girl bi... I can see another girl that I like and if they asks me why I'm looking at her (if they ask) I can say I like her clothes... and is accepted... and yes... I understand why men loves good formed boobs!!!
im bisexual
I have found your videos very informative. I'm a nurse and I'm planning on going back to school and majoring in female sexuality. Thank you for doing these videos for all those women and girls that want to know more or really need to know the basics.
I am married to a man (much to the relief of my parents and grandmother), and we are exclusive and monogamous and all that. Doesn't make me straight or otherwise eliminate my ability to admire hotness in any gender from afar.
what doesn't make sense to me is that being LGBT is some type CIVIL RIGHT and everyone should except someones sexual preference or FETISH
Well if you don't agree with it, no one is forcing you to, you just have to accept that it is a part of life and society. And learn to respect people no matter what gender, orientation, race, or age they are. and a fetish is not a sexual orientation. It's not lesbian, gay, bi, trans, tarintino.
where was the disrespect? can someone be born bisexual? is someone who is fully transgender be consider not GAY? is having a foot fetish any different from homosexuality ? IT ALL HAS TO DO WITH THE ACT OF SEX WRIGHT? if you don't think that there isn't any liberal media propaganda that is forced upon society to accept homosexuality as NORMAL then your sadly mistaken.
well nothing beyond conservative propaganda makes it abnormal, and its not based purely on sex acts, I know plenty of gay virgins. and of course people are born that way. like I said disagreement and acceptance are different. I accept that your opinion differs from mine, believe it or not I am not trying to change your opinion, and I don't agree with you, but I accept that your opinion won't change. I apologize if this came off as starting an argument.
Trexson Cole Not everything that has to do with the act of sex is right. Everything that is consensual sex between adults is fine and right for them. There is no need to get so caught up in proclaiming that something someone is doing or feeling that is not infringing on anyone else's rights is wrong, and the reason why people are so adamant about protecting people's rights to be respected regardless of sexuality, gender, religion, ethnicity etc, is because those who give people a hard time for their differences, are perpetuating bullying.
Trexson Cole I think I disagree with you, but I'm not sure because your english is so bad I can't tell what you're trying to say
I'm bi-always have been-as is most of the human race; but through rigorous religious/social conditioning most of the human race is left hopelessly confused as to what their basic sexual nature is-or 'should' be. Glad I aint one of them.
Most of the human race is bi-sexual,heh?Really?I've got news for you pal,I am very comfortable with who I am(hetero-sexual)and I am very open-minded and compassionate towards people who's sexual orientation differs from mine.
I've also rejected religion from an early age & I am a full blown anti-theist.
I've known people like you,who are under this false belief,that just because they happened to be bi-sexual themselves,that anyone is capable of bi-sexuality...not true.
There are physical differences in the brain,that determine sexual orientation(though there is a small segment of the populace that chooses to be socially bi-sexual...be it curiosity or experimentation)...but still,there's a huge difference between a sociological/sociocultural bi-sexuality and the biological urge stemming from the design of your brain(which is much more powerful).
It's not right and very unfair,to lump everyone in the same category and proclaim that everyone is fundamentally bi-sexual(but is not acted out,because of some bigoted ignorance).
Heterosexuality,homosexuality and bi-sexuality are(for the most part),biologically driven and as such,are distinct orientations that should be recognized and respected from all sides.
So please,stop role-playing as some sexual zen-master-center-of-the-universe and read up on some medical journals on sexuality,before wrongly accusing most of the heterosexual community of being straight(based on ignorance).
Philo Beddoe Not everyone is bisexual or can be bisexual, but almost everyone is. Kinsey Scale: ever heard of it? Read about it. Very few zeros or sixes.
And "I've got news for you[,] pal", you yell at him for being "some sexual zen-master-center-of-the-universe" but you are the one who seems to be the bigoted ignoramus.
Maria Griswold Oh really?So according to you,everyone is bisexual...but I'm an ignoramus,because I don't recognize my own sexuality?
So then...I yelled at Derrako,because I expressed my offense at his narrow-sighted comments?
Did I use any profanity?Did I capitalize all of my text?No...I did not.
Go get a psychiatric evaluation,because you have lost all sense of reality.
I guess I do need a psychiatric evaluation, because I must have missed the memo that "almost" lost meaning when put into a sentence.
The fact that I never claimed that every single person is bisexual obviously went over your head, as I never once claimed that you are bisexual, or that one becomes ignorant if they do not recognise their own sexuality. One who understands the paradigms of English grammar could understand that the reason I believe you to be an ignoramus is because of your bigotry and obvious misinformation of the strata of sexuality.
And it's not according to me, it's according to scientific studies that I have heard of and henceforth looked up.
One does not need to use excessive capitalization or profane language to show their bigotry, some of the most slanted ideals are in seemingly calm messages, because it is hard to get your point across by writing in caps lock, as very few people want to read that.
It is also very hard to seem credible with weak blows such as claiming I'm psychotic, but most people who dabble into those kinds of insults never learn how to properly get their views across.
I do believe that you are the one having a "hissy-fit" that someone has some sort of belief system that contradicts yours.
And it wasn't one survey, there was quite a bit of study into this area.
You did call me psychotic, as psychosis is clinically defined as losing contact with reality, and did you not say "Go get a psychiatric evaluation,because you have lost all sense of reality" in one of your intensely emotional rants?
You also adamantly protested my response because you hadn't used any profanity... oops.
My "unfathomable reason" for defending him is that I don't particularly like it when people use the anonymity of the internet to insult people for having their own view, stating a scientific fact that very little of humanity is entirely heterosexual or homosexual, and also that religious and social conditioning creates viewpoints on what acceptable sexuality is.
I personally believe you should find a way to have an argument without getting so emotionally involved. All I was trying to do was stand up for someone. You only seem to want to attack my response.
I'm so glad you mentioned Robyn Ochs! She came to a local college and lectured and later did a workshop with a combination of two college GSA groups. Nothing but good things to say about the experience!
I found out my orientation only about a year ago. All I knew about was "gay" that was until I met my best friend Aislinn. She taught me about the lgbt+ community at around fourth grade! I asked my mom if it was normal to have girl crushes and she said yes. I was happy for a while and didn't feel different until I realized it was more than a straight, girl crush. I knew I wasn't a lesbian. That's when I learned the word bisexual. It basically freed me. I could express my feelings through one word without awkwardly rambling on about it. It was great. My parents and family had always told me that they would always be accepting if I came out so I wasn't that scared. Now it's sort of funny, but I can relate to both of my parents. To mom: Wow, look at him. To dad: *whispers* dayyumn *shifts eyes* (͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
💚💛💜LOVE YOURSELF💜💛💚
Freakin pseudo intellectuals.
I've heard of pseudoscorpions, but what's a pseudointellectual?
Sup bisexual over here 👌
You have become my new favorite human. Thank you for being you, and for all that you do. Much love ❤️💛💚💙💜
My gf told me she's bi, she never planned on telling anyone but felt so good that she's planning on telling everyone now :D If you're LGBT then just accept it and come out to someone close to you, you shouldn't be ashamed and in my experience it was awesome, we spent the whole week grinning at each other and feeling amazing. All those myths are just that, myths! My gf says she likes boys and girls about 50:50, it's not a phase, she believes she was born that way and she knew at 13 (which most people think is too young to decide) and she was certain at that age. Also it doesn't mean she's more likely to cheat or want more than 1 relationship/ a three way.
O N L Y T W O G E N D E R S
Only 2 sexes. Lots of genders.
Or, here's an idea. Let people live how they want to. They're not doing anything to hurt you so leave them alone. If you think they're sinning or something, let them sin.
Bullshit. Lots of gender confusion. That's all. Gender is biological, not psychological- period, end of story.
Dirk Diggler sex is biological dude, sex and gender are different things
Dirk Diggler like check yoself
I don't agree laci I believe its
a choice just based on my research stop listening to what the gay community says and look at there actions rather then there words
Be careful with that. The Bi-hater part of the gay community is a loud minority. I like that you aked about it inside of the LGBT community, but do wider research.
Too do real research you can't tell people your doing research on them and you can't believe the words they say cause I came to a conclusion we all tend to act a certain way when being watched
Its been proven to exist in men
Im bi. its not a choice. why would people willingly subject themselves to ridicule?? You shouldnt say things like that unless you are part of the community because there is NO way for you to know.
I am part of a community and I'm hated for it trust me more people hate me then you
I'm bisexual. It's not that frowned upon by a lot of people in my school, especially since I have at least one other bisexual friend who, need I add, is pretty well accepted by everyone.
Holy shit this made me cry! Thank you for helping me to realise the prejudices within my own head so I can truly embrace my authentic self :)
2 genders
Justin DeWitt yes
no body disagrees with you.
Pollarstar thank you
Explain agender people.
The whole "they're just confused" or "are greedy" NO! That's not how it works
Thank you so much, Laci! Being bisexual is really difficult and I love how you voice the issues that come up with it in such a great way. It's really not black and white, I'm mostly attracted to men but there are some dayum fine ladies I'd love to have a relationship with, not neccessarily just a sexual attraction, but a devoted partnership.
This video just threw me over the top about how much I love you :3
I wasnt really sure about myself caause never felt romantically with a woman before and preferred men, BUT STILL i felt that i had it in me but couldnt name it. this spectrum thing laci, i dont need to be one of those half-halves. This is one of the rare moments that im feeling like a total bisexual. THANK YOU.
I've felt this way since I was 13. I am now 18. I don't need you or anyone else to tell me that my feelings are wrong or that they'll change. I'm happy the way I am. You cannot make assumptions about other people based on your own life experiences. Just because you thought you were bi then accepted that you were gay doesn't mean that all people who identify as bi are going through the same experience that you have.
I am a 41 year old woman. About two years ago I was having a conversation with someone and they found out I am bisexual. Her comment was, "Aren't you too old for that?" This was one of the most hysterically ignorant things I had ever heard.
***** i don't think anyone is going to take you serious, so just stop trying. You obviously don't have any idea what you're talking about.
:) Thanks sep
I love watching videos like this because I learn so much from it!
Thank you! My sister recommended me your videos and now I can't stop watching. You are so smart and direct and honest and everything this world needs. I didn't really think that bisexually is frowned upon (probably because I myself am Bi and never had a problem with it/understand it + my friends don't care) but just the first comment tells me I'm wrong. I actually believe there are way more bisexuals but they just get put (or put themselves) in these gay/straight labels.
I'm a bisexual and not afraid to admit it...
One i hate is people saying girls just say they are bi to get more guys to like them, if anyone found out when i was at high school i would get people saying "im a slut" and "i just want all the boys to like me" .....
I have a friend who is a lesbian and I told her I was bi. She was like "no way you can't be bi you are defiantly a lesbian". I find that lesbians are the hardest on you when your bi. That's just from my experience.
I am a bisexual female.
I started showing an interest in females in the 6th grade, and I confided in my best friend who blew it out of proportion and refused to be friends with me until I was straight. As if I could just change my sexuality. She had went to my mom and told her, even when I told her I wasn't ready for my parents to know. My father didn't care, he was supportive. My mother basically put me on lockdown and we always argued and never got along because it clashed with her religious views. So I told everyone I was just "confused" and that I was straight, and then everything went back to normal. And I've been hiding who I am ever since.
As the years went by, I got more and more comfortable with who I am and what I like, and I told a few close friends how I feel towards other women. My friends have been really cool about it and say that it doesn't change how they see me, and it is the best feeling to be loved and accepted.
I've come to realize that no matter how much I love my best friend, if she can't love and accept me for who I am, a bisexual female, then she was never my best friend in the first place.
i love how hyper she is! she makes some good points too awesome vid >:D
I am very thankful to have found this video because I have struggled with this my entire life with this. I told my mother I was bisexual and she began laughing in my face and degrading me and my significant other I cant mention being bisexual because it ends as one of those illogical debates where the reason being bisexual or gay is wrong is because its not "natural". But what is the definition of Natural in society today when society is just full of a bunch of contradictions? I have started watching your videos finding that a lot of my day to day struggle has a lot to do with what you talk about. The struggle of being called a slut because I have had sex with multiple people, the fact that I love all genders of people, the fact that I am a feminist (or more of I am not a feminist but more of a humanist). Life has to much negativity and I can honestly say I was suicidal until I stopped caring what others thought, I became strong, but still confused about who I really was as a person, but I feel like even though I may still be finding myself, this definitely helped to define myself more as a person. I can now proudly say, I am bisexual, I am a feminist and I am kick ass as a woman to! Thanks for being awesome and for bringing all of us to light with the struggles we all face :)
I can't begin to describe how awesome Laci is.. she's intelligent, she's gorgeous, she's fun to watch and she's a great show host (and does a great job as a video editor).
What really bothers me is that people think it's being selfish or greedy for being bi. Yet your being more excepting and open to both genders!
This video is so awesome. Thanks girl.
I personally believe some people abuse the term. Im not saying it doent exist, heck, I am Bisexual, but i think theat some people who are in denial might see it as a way to be open but still be considered straight. Im not saying all people do that, far from it, but i do believe that it is a very small majority. Thats my opinion, but really it doesnt make a difference.
I am Bi but mostly into guys. But I can appreciate a nice female body and personality
Love this! You go girl!
Laci Bravo excellent good video wise words of wisdom knowledge and truth spoken from a very wise woman. Great topic choice of discussion
And thanks for making this video! It helps me understand that I'm not the only frustrated about other people.
I've been hesitant to identify as bisexual because I'm not as attracted to men as I am to women. I suppose I should stop that.
I love you! Your sanity is heart warming!
so true! love and sex can be shared with different types of people! :) thank you, you are the best!!
I would like to say
ME GRATEFUL FOR CAPTIONS
I been learning how to not type or write in a thing called CAPS where it's all upper-case cause i recently became deaf and i am happy cause your captions are so perfect :D
Also, My name is Cole and I AM Bi-Sexual
Thanks alot. Idk how I ended up onto this video... but you really helped me out. I dont get talked to wrongly by my mother like one of those girls in the video because she is also a Bi and ended up with my father. But I do get talked to by my other family members. You are alot of help to me on showing them the facts behind something they talk about bisexuality ignorantly. And yes, Im a male to those who (for some reason i respect) want to know male bisexuals (considering the ONLY female vids :b)