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  • @jbela
    @jbela 5 років тому +93

    Live each day like its your first,thank you. Because i'm tired of being told that "Life is too short".

    • @jacobsullivan6472
      @jacobsullivan6472 5 років тому +11

      Exactly, too much worry and too much weight and pressure.

  • @calidreams5379
    @calidreams5379 5 років тому +32

    Live everyday like it’s the first or last. Both have the same meaning. Each day is a gift so don’t take it for granted. Treasure and make each day the best it can possibly be. The past is already gone, the future unknown, so the most important is the present moment. It doesn’t mean you forget the past or not plan for the future, it means the journey may be more important than the destination.

    • @jjtaylor9147
      @jjtaylor9147 3 роки тому

      Sheesh that was well articulated.

  • @ShadraqsVids16
    @ShadraqsVids16 5 років тому +7

    One time I had a shroom trip and I ad the clearest realization and sensation as if my entire life I was living on auto pilot and following a narrow path created by the walls of social norms. I had felt as if I was just born and it's my first day on Earth. The very next day I started on projects that I had told myself I would get to one day and in 6 months I accomplished more than I thought I could do in years.

  • @palmamingozzi5736
    @palmamingozzi5736 5 років тому +4

    Every day is a gift.

  • @gokulhemanthkumar4556
    @gokulhemanthkumar4556 2 роки тому +10

    "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I'm about to do today?"
    It's my last day. Whatever work I have to do won't bear fruition today, as it will take more than one day. I might as well be lazy and do nothing.
    "If today were the first day of my life, would I want to do what I'm about to do today?"
    Hmm, I was about to procrastinate on all my work and waste my time. Since this is my first day, and I have a lot of time ahead, I might as well take it chill and not do anything today. I can do it tomorrow.

    • @davidn2749
      @davidn2749 Рік тому +1

      Exactly!! It's hilarious how she invents a new way to think simply because she clearly didn't understand the original proposal. Nothing good ever bears immediate fruit, so either we confront our limited lives, and become happy with the effort itself. The latter, always leads to procrastination. I have unlimited time, no one died shortly after their first day!! I have time to putts around. Leading us towards unfulfilling lives.

  • @oceanpoet1
    @oceanpoet1 5 років тому +37

    This is without a doubt the BEST TEDtalk I have ever watched. I have always rejected that "last day" quote!!! Bravo to this incredible speaker

    • @Leanadelle
      @Leanadelle 5 років тому +3

      Thank you, oceanpoet1!

    • @Dandan-tg6tj
      @Dandan-tg6tj 5 років тому +6

      This happens when you think for yourself instead of being prepared to swallow all the cliche's everyone else is throwing at you from all directions. Live your life as you see fit not how you're told to.... And never go to work if possible LOL.

    • @oceanpoet1
      @oceanpoet1 5 років тому +1

      @@Dandan-tg6tj thank you

    • @sachinpanchal7711
      @sachinpanchal7711 3 роки тому +2

      Actually she took wrong this statement of Steve job living like last day,this statement actually means stop wasting your time and only do important work, when you realize that any day can be your last day,you becomes so energetic and with full of joy,you feel adventure,you live every moment of live, your focus is only on present

  • @alexf4894
    @alexf4894 8 років тому +84

    I think she did a good job. This is a much better way of thinking about change and goals rather than the cliche phrase

    • @Leanadelle
      @Leanadelle 8 років тому +1

      Thanks, Alex! :-)

    • @Leanadelle
      @Leanadelle 6 років тому +1

      @Anthony Knight Awesome! What's the name of the video? I'll check it out. And, thanks!

  • @christinabernat9681
    @christinabernat9681 5 років тому +65

    Actually a brilliant talk. Makes so much sense - refreshing!

  • @Fosterupthedogs
    @Fosterupthedogs 3 роки тому +5

    This is the only Ted Talk I’ve really connected with. It was very powerful and beautiful. I’ve been going through a lot of anxiety lately, I’m about to go through a huge change in my life (graduating college :) ) I’ve been freaking out the in the first couple days of my last semester. I was scared and angry that I might never seen my friends again, that the pandemic took away so much time from me, that Im just going to end up working some mundane job while I reminisce about the best years being behind me. But your speech showed me that I have a future, I have a life to live. I’ve had a lot of pain and problems due to my past but after hearing friends story I feel so inspired. If she can overcome the dark coulds so can I. Bless you Leana and thank you for the talk, I’m going to start living each day like it’s my first!

    • @Leanadelle
      @Leanadelle 2 роки тому

      Wonderful! I'm so glad Jenesse's story touched you in this way. She was one inspiring woman.

  • @Future88746
    @Future88746 5 років тому +2

    This is what I would regard as pure talk. Her delivery and the content is exceptional.

  • @MegaSkills9
    @MegaSkills9 5 років тому +4

    The expression only means "Enjoy each day and don't miss an opportunity to do something great." In other words "Don't be afraid to do something that you would finally do, if you only had a day left to live." Nobody actually lives that way 100%. Planning for short term as well as long term things is part of every persons daily life. The old saying is not meant to take so literally.

  • @kennyethanjones.
    @kennyethanjones. 5 років тому +9

    It crazy what a change of perspective can help you achieve, clarity.

  • @atmarampanduranga6719
    @atmarampanduranga6719 4 роки тому +6

    I think that means live every moment and do best whatever you do,give importance to family and friends.

  • @999manman
    @999manman 5 років тому +25

    Watch every UA-cam video as if it were your last!

  • @CDang-ms6dc
    @CDang-ms6dc 3 роки тому

    After all, it's all about possibilities and hope. Living as if it is the last day can shatter hope and render it meaningless for us to keep going authentically. Really grateful for reminding us of this.

  • @sharonwatson4085
    @sharonwatson4085 5 років тому +1

    We get so numb in life from “doing the necessary” and “juggling/coping with the stresses”! This presentation is incredible and definitely “food for thought”. Let each of us live it’s message and share it with others!

  • @beabeliever9
    @beabeliever9 5 років тому +10

    Thank you so much for your perspective. I have been trying to live my life as if its my last day and it really is very depressing, nothing on the agenda seems meaningful enough. It creates a terrible sense of dis satisfaction......in everything. So thanks so much. You ve helped me.

    • @Trendle222
      @Trendle222 5 років тому

      yea basically thinkin like its my last day only stresses me the fuk out =(

    • @angeltorres11
      @angeltorres11 4 роки тому

      She doesn’t get it.... this is the type of people who take everything literally. This is a Figure of speech . Live each day like it’s your last means PUT YOUR HEART AT WHATEVER YOU DO.

  • @alexdevid135
    @alexdevid135 5 років тому +7

    I am really glad that i found this in such harsh times. Your warmth touched me and my mum. Thank you !

    • @Leanadelle
      @Leanadelle 5 років тому +1

      And your message, in turn, has touched me.

  • @ReallyNoAlex
    @ReallyNoAlex 2 роки тому +1

    I know it may sound silly but the game Red Dead Redemption 2 is one of the most incredible games made in that it puts you in the boots of someone going through that very example of existential clarity. You play as a character who hates themself and and goes along with the morally ambiguous tasks they’ve lived their whole life doing. However, when you learn about that expiration date you get a character who sees the world clearly and realizes they can redeem themself and their actions

  • @robertgentle5787
    @robertgentle5787 5 років тому +42

    Beautiful - one of the most insightful TED talks I've heard!

    • @Leanadelle
      @Leanadelle 5 років тому +3

      Thank you, Robert Gentle.

  • @jimsimpson1006
    @jimsimpson1006 5 років тому +4

    Live each day as if it was your first, not your last. I wish I could give this lady a million thumbs up.

    • @Leanadelle
      @Leanadelle 5 років тому +1

      Jim Simpson You just did. ☺️ Thanks, Jim.

  • @brunooliveiradantas9254
    @brunooliveiradantas9254 8 років тому +33

    It was the best message that I have heard.

  • @yosemartin73
    @yosemartin73 5 років тому +9

    Great and insightful ... live like you're gonna live 1000 years ... grateful is the key

  • @sureshkant9188
    @sureshkant9188 5 років тому +6

    Every day is a new life!

  • @freyaegrey
    @freyaegrey 5 років тому +7

    I feel like someday I will look back on this as the thing that changed my life for the better.

  • @annamaria-tl5bm
    @annamaria-tl5bm 5 років тому +5

    Although beautiful speech she took the meaning of that quote very literally..The quote means that you should live to the fullest

  • @Noname-iz9uo
    @Noname-iz9uo 5 років тому +2

    What a fantastic speaker and great message!

    • @angeltorres11
      @angeltorres11 4 роки тому

      She doesn’t get it.... this is the type of people who take everything literally. This is a METAPHOR. Live each day like it’s your last means PUT YOUR HEART AT WHATEVER YOU DO.

  • @renanprospero
    @renanprospero 5 років тому +2

    What a beautiful and impactful way to see life.

    • @angeltorres11
      @angeltorres11 4 роки тому

      She doesn’t get it.... this is the type of people who take everything literally. This is a METAPHOR. Live each day like it’s your last means PUT YOUR HEART AT WHATEVER YOU DO.

  • @resilientlivingtvsmith4227
    @resilientlivingtvsmith4227 5 років тому +10

    Very moving presentation. I felt the emotion and the desire to impact the lives of the audience. Thank you for the heartfelt message.

  • @safiahnordin5116
    @safiahnordin5116 2 роки тому

    Exactly what i need!

  • @merrycrisis
    @merrycrisis 5 років тому +1

    Incredible speech. She's very well spoken too.

    • @angeltorres11
      @angeltorres11 4 роки тому

      She doesn’t get it.... this is the type of people who take everything literally. This is a METAPHOR. Live each day like it’s your last means PUT YOUR HEART AT WHATEVER YOU DO.

  • @lightweight1889
    @lightweight1889 5 років тому +13

    Wow, she seems like a genuinely good person.

  • @PeterNanii
    @PeterNanii 4 роки тому +1

    Live Each Day As If It Were Your Last means that don't waste your time [there is only limited time, you will not waste your time for peoples sh*t ], when you know its your last day, there will be no reason to follow your heart, there is no obstacle to follow your heart. Noise of others' opinions will not change you. you will get the courage to follow your heart.

  • @georginasmith441
    @georginasmith441 5 років тому +3

    I think this is a great talk.....this hit home with me, I was going to comment about the fact most people have to work, do humdrum tasks....such is life - this has given me a different perspective on those. I try to live every day happily!

    • @PioneerPrincessTexas
      @PioneerPrincessTexas 5 років тому

      I love that. Thank you

    • @jimsimpson1006
      @jimsimpson1006 5 років тому

      Even in a humdrum job paying a basic wage, there are always opportunities to see the best in people. And a good attitude can help you move on up the ladder maybe.

  • @jaxtan8542
    @jaxtan8542 5 років тому +1

    Tomorrow is not promised. Live your life today

  • @ichoosejoy2712
    @ichoosejoy2712 2 роки тому

    I completely agree, it's not feasible. You wouldn't want to do work or all the things you need to do. You can't have adventure and do fun things everyday. I think the better version is imagine it's the first day.

  • @leandrobaluyotjr5181
    @leandrobaluyotjr5181 5 років тому +4

    Thanks a lot Ms.Leana Delle for your inspiring talk ! Wonderful and true !

    • @Leanadelle
      @Leanadelle 5 років тому

      You're more than welcome. Thank you!!

  • @heidimckerihan4158
    @heidimckerihan4158 5 років тому +3

    Beautiful outstanding idea! Anything that is the beginning, is surely going to be much more exciting than. ...The last! Wonderful lady for giving out a life changing thought! Love it!

  • @joannoriol6444
    @joannoriol6444 5 років тому +89

    I don't think that saying means, live like you are dying today. I think it means stop wasting time. Just my opinion 🤔

    • @matic117
      @matic117 4 роки тому +2

      fax

    • @izaiahbrayden63
      @izaiahbrayden63 3 роки тому

      Pro tip: you can watch series on flixzone. I've been using them for watching all kinds of movies lately.

    • @jaxsonjake7494
      @jaxsonjake7494 3 роки тому

      @Izaiah Brayden yea, been watching on flixzone} for since november myself :)

    • @gabrielamenequini4695
      @gabrielamenequini4695 3 роки тому +1

      I agree with you

    • @pogmumu3765
      @pogmumu3765 3 роки тому

      fax

  • @tts626
    @tts626 5 років тому +7

    Nice! This is what is referred to in Zen as "beginner's mind", or "shoshin" in Japanese.

  • @frenchfries9258
    @frenchfries9258 Рік тому

    Great talk, great advice!

  • @c8Lorraine1
    @c8Lorraine1 5 років тому +4

    I thank you for this beautiful talk.

    • @Leanadelle
      @Leanadelle 5 років тому +1

      You're more than welcome.

    • @plumpestpigeon5175
      @plumpestpigeon5175 5 років тому +1

      @@Leanadelle Yes, thankyou. You voiced my feelings. I felt like everywhere I turned people were cautioning "Live as if it's your last" and it only made me feel anxiety and discontentment. Your positive approach suits me, and thank you for sharing the experience of your dear friend.

  • @phyliciajoykloes
    @phyliciajoykloes 5 років тому +1

    I like this take on that leren haard sentence. Good story.

  • @andrewrich6905
    @andrewrich6905 4 роки тому

    "Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything - all external expectations ,all pride, all fear of embarassement or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important." - Steve Jobs

  • @leandrobaluyotjr5181
    @leandrobaluyotjr5181 5 років тому +4

    Very inspiring video ! Regardless of our circumstances or situation in life, the "attitude of gratitude " enhances optimism ! And when it happen, it creates positive vibration in us- mentally, emotionally and spiritually that lead us in a state of joy ,peace and wellness. "Today is the day that the Lord has made. I will rejoice and be glad in it -Norman Vincent Peale. Thank you for the resource speaker and more success to you & your company !

  • @brianschill115
    @brianschill115 5 років тому +1

    A wonderful and inspiring talk, which is in itself great reason to listen to it.

  • @Alsaraha.
    @Alsaraha. 3 роки тому +1

    Prophet Mohamed PBUH said (Be in this world as if you were a stranger), I think this might be the common factor

  • @מקסמלכיאל
    @מקסמלכיאל 5 років тому +17

    Urgency causes stress.

  • @dr.arpitakar436
    @dr.arpitakar436 4 роки тому

    My experience was exactly same as her if i think its my last day, depression.. I am glad that I find this video.. Thank you 🙏🙏

  • @bhavanimahendran5271
    @bhavanimahendran5271 5 років тому

    Live as if today is your first and last day
    Living in the movement

  • @chris67oldie48
    @chris67oldie48 3 роки тому

    woke up and it becomes your birthday to start over each choice set your free

  • @hdbdba
    @hdbdba 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you

  • @jburgett45
    @jburgett45 5 років тому +1

    You are an awesome woman and speaker! Your talk was so inspiring I’m actually looking forward to waking up tomorrow! Thank you!

    • @Leanadelle
      @Leanadelle 5 років тому

      Thank you, so much, Belgian Girl!

  • @yokilewis4894
    @yokilewis4894 5 років тому +2

    pure gold

  • @samhijazi8841
    @samhijazi8841 5 років тому +1

    Amazing and thank you, indeed.

  • @ST74UK
    @ST74UK 6 років тому +16

    I really liked this talk, such a charismatic speaker too :-)

  • @paulneugbiyobo4156
    @paulneugbiyobo4156 5 років тому +1

    I agree with starting afresh everyday

  • @velmahamberlin8625
    @velmahamberlin8625 5 років тому +2

    Live each day like it's your first

  • @thedashes6854
    @thedashes6854 5 років тому +1

    Thank you Leana. Very interesting talk. I appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts with us.

    • @Leanadelle
      @Leanadelle 5 років тому

      Thank you, Bancroft! I appreciate your comment.

  • @mariposamoreno
    @mariposamoreno 5 років тому +1

    loved this talk

  • @alisonmcgillivray8008
    @alisonmcgillivray8008 7 років тому +2

    Great talk Leana!!! fabulous stage presence and such a sensible topic!!!

  • @sloza3366
    @sloza3366 5 років тому +1

    Love it. I’ve always thought the same thing.

  • @frankfacts6207
    @frankfacts6207 5 років тому +6

    it means live it like it's your last chance to do some good or get something done

    • @jimsimpson1006
      @jimsimpson1006 5 років тому

      Ah yes, get something done. Now, that project I was going to start last week/last year/forty years ago....

  • @binarsobudiono8388
    @binarsobudiono8388 3 роки тому

    brilliant talk! It's like "day 1" the philosophy of bezos

  • @giymapics6359
    @giymapics6359 5 років тому +1

    Yes it is a choice for everyone to choose the way to live life until the end, in my case I wouldn't follow this advice, Thank you

  • @Beingblisss
    @Beingblisss 6 років тому +80

    We Indians say everyday is your first day & the last one

    • @Leanadelle
      @Leanadelle 5 років тому +2

      I love that!

    • @pikiwiki
      @pikiwiki 5 років тому +2

      that covers everything

    • @Rajo1012
      @Rajo1012 5 років тому +3

      I don't get it. Can someone interpretate?

    • @Leanadelle
      @Leanadelle 5 років тому +4

      @@Rajo1012 I believe this to mean that we're in the here and now. Each new day is a beginning; a starting point, and each day ends as though there won't be another. Now is all that matters. Satish is probably better to explain, but that's my interpretation.

    • @gideonpalmer8809
      @gideonpalmer8809 5 років тому

      No, that would be a completely different ted talk. I think we need some kind of consensus here before we move on

  • @九世心
    @九世心 5 років тому +1

    great talk

  • @jliz6435
    @jliz6435 5 років тому +1

    Live each day as it was your first😇❤️truth is so simple wow 😎

    • @angeltorres11
      @angeltorres11 4 роки тому +1

      She doesn’t get it.... this is the type of people who take everything literally. This is a METAPHOR. Live each day like it’s your last means PUT YOUR HEART AT WHATEVER YOU DO.

  • @LoloLolo-vv2pv
    @LoloLolo-vv2pv 4 роки тому +1

    Amazing

  • @dankhnw8
    @dankhnw8 4 роки тому

    That was beautiful thank you

  • @chengavitch10
    @chengavitch10 2 роки тому

    Nice talk

  • @fightfannerd2078
    @fightfannerd2078 5 років тому +1

    look to the future

  • @pingchen3942
    @pingchen3942 5 років тому +18

    last or first, neither is to be taken too literally! its about having clarity about the preciousness and purpose of life, or keeping fresh eyes and being curious...good point in both. however, i dont think neither is actually enough for awakening to clarity. sorry to say this, but i think its a bit too dramatic , her “maxing out credit cards , flirting with french guys”. good way to make a speech, but sincerely mean it? of cos last stage cancer patient arent able to accomplish any big things, same as none of the newborn babies have any idea how to take a step! come on now..

  • @prikshitmanhas8826
    @prikshitmanhas8826 3 роки тому

    Anyone else contemplating about this way of living after watching the movie "About Time"?

  • @soniateje
    @soniateje 5 років тому

    Amazing!

  • @twopeoplepointingtogod824
    @twopeoplepointingtogod824 5 років тому

    First rather than last 💯

  • @whitfieldwu1564
    @whitfieldwu1564 5 років тому +7

    If live your everyday like last day is impossible, then first day is also impossible.

  • @karaokelola
    @karaokelola 6 років тому +1

    Well done.

  • @GianetanSekhon
    @GianetanSekhon 2 роки тому

    Steve Jobs must be smiling and we too as are perspectives stand corrected.

  • @BangTran
    @BangTran 5 років тому +4

    @TEDx Talks: please take care about the volume level for the next video. thank you!

  • @TessaPK52
    @TessaPK52 7 років тому +1

    Great concept!

  • @angelagarcia7093
    @angelagarcia7093 4 роки тому

    I prefer to live my life as if I was alive. Because, although being alive, of course, from 16 to 19 years old I was dead, i thought all the good things in my life had already past and there was nothing good waiting for me in the future. I thought I was old and it wasn't my time animore. But someday I started to wake up slowly, realizing I had all my life ahead, and that good things can happen to me again. I was young and live was full of opportunities. And little by little i started to resurrect.
    Now I'm scared of dead, which is a good sign, cause before I wasn't. And thinking that one day I am going to die paralises me. Actually if you ask me what would I do in my last day i wouldn't know what to say... I mean, does it even matter? It's gonna end in 24 hours.
    What gives me energy and makes me life my life to its fullest is knowing that I am alive.
    So i prefer to live my life as if I was alive, cause you can be dead inside when your body is still alive, and it's not cute.

  • @sammymiller253
    @sammymiller253 5 років тому +1

    Hear, hear.

  • @debopriyoroy
    @debopriyoroy Рік тому

    Nice video.

  • @amlanmishra6273
    @amlanmishra6273 3 роки тому +2

    I have a little doubt in my mind . How do you live like it's your first day when there are a lot of things you have experienced in the past and you just cannot ignore them and feel happy about it?

  • @sandhyaloveuzindagi1596
    @sandhyaloveuzindagi1596 4 роки тому +1

    It's awsm... 🥰🥰

  • @laurathemajorcan
    @laurathemajorcan 5 років тому +1

    very clever

  • @amadahycatori6198
    @amadahycatori6198 2 роки тому +1

    I read the tittle and said next.

  • @Plethorality
    @Plethorality 5 років тому +13

    Live each day as if it were your last: lie in a hospital bed and call your relatives.

  • @geraldkabamba
    @geraldkabamba 3 роки тому +1

    Like me 2 year's ago, you seem not to grasp what that phase means. As for me I fully understand it now.

  • @vuaeco
    @vuaeco 5 років тому +2

    Can't do anything on my last day because I'd be lying in my death bed unconscious. Can't do anything on my first day because I'd be 100% disabled.

  • @rooseveltlyons5020
    @rooseveltlyons5020 3 роки тому +1

    “Now how many of you actually do that each day”
    *pans to group of old people*

  • @Lovuschka
    @Lovuschka 6 років тому +8

    Tried to live each day as if it was my last. Emergency services now want me to pay for calling them every day and telling them I will die today.

  • @gojump7
    @gojump7 5 років тому +1

    Great TedTalk presentation. Can’t help but laugh that there’s a student in the audience at 13:15 who appears to be multitasking, perhaps studying? Lol

  • @dougvoice
    @dougvoice 7 років тому +19

    so this is the first day of the rest of my life

    • @jimsimpson1006
      @jimsimpson1006 5 років тому +4

      Make it the first day of a new life.

  • @carlosperaltas8122
    @carlosperaltas8122 7 років тому +1

    yo cuando vivo cada dia como si fuera el ultimo tengo unas ganas y motivacion increible, no comparto lo que decis

  • @jamesmcconnon8923
    @jamesmcconnon8923 5 років тому +3

    If I lived every day as if it was my last, I'd be unemployed within a week, and right within a month.

  • @SamSung-jq4ho
    @SamSung-jq4ho 3 роки тому

    Less "Live each day like it was your last"
    More "Today is the first day of the rest of your life"

  • @massecl
    @massecl 5 років тому +1

    Life is short, especially at the end.

  • @cristobalcardenasvalenzuel2665
    @cristobalcardenasvalenzuel2665 5 років тому +2

    i'd like that philosophy ;)