When She Pulls Away it Should Make Your Day | Why Attraction Grows in Space
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
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If you want a girl to feel more attraction for you, then you need to increase space and anxiety. It's that simple you cannot get a woman excited over you if you are texting her all the time. It doesn't work that way. You must get comfortable with bringing space into the relationship and controlling the space. This is important, especially if she asks for space-you must give it to her!
Also, don't let her control the space and pull away from you and upset you. Instead, it's better to be in control and pull away from her so you control the space (this is psychologically easier and less stressful if you take control of the situation). If you want respect and adoration and high attraction, you must maintain distance and space to get her thinking about you. There are no exceptions to this rule.
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Men should always be the ones creating space to begin with. You do this by focusing on your purpose that naturally make you spend less time in contact with your woman. You won't even notice they have pulled back when they start texting you less and when they do reach out, it's not much of a surprise as you just assume they doing their own thing. From then, all you do is simply make time to set a date and give her a good seeing to in the bedroom.
After binge watching these videos and reading atomic attraction, i've realised in my life experience with dating and relationships, i was more successful when i was obsessively focused on my hobbies, business and goals, which put me more in the power and leadership position and i was the one who often ended the relationship.
I've also been on the opposite end of the spectrum. Letting the infatuation of someone new take over, becoming relationship focused and slowly neglecting doing all the things that are important to me, which has always led me to getting dumped.
awesome man, thanks for the comment
Good summarisation.
Distance only works if she’s attracted to you. If she isn’t she going to feel relieved or even worse indifferent about your absence
Why would you be hanging around a girl who's not attracted to you?? That means your personality isn't engaging u don't fuck her right your not mysterious
"Embrace the space" - superb!
Chris, about two months ago my girl pulled away. I followed your methods to the T. Remained in my center, and not affected by it. I didn’t chase her.
About a week ago, she has been reaching out and tonight she wants me to come over. She said she wants to cook for me and offer dessert at the end. 😂
Thank you!
Imagine you hadn’t known this and fucked everything up , knowledge is power
She's been fkin someone else for 2 months and now wants to come back to keep you in her orbit? Wow
@@Mayorrode Absolutely!
The only thing that hurt me is that to maintain attraction with the girl we love, even for this we have to use such strategies.
But it is how it is. Give her a good night brother!
If it took her two months to contact you, that means she was with someone else, and now things are over with the other guy she wants you back. She doesn't really want you back but she's just trying to see if you're still interested. So if you go to her, that means she's still in control and she'll find that a turnoff. Tell her you don't feel like going out because you're tired or something and instead invite her to your place and to bring a bottle of wine with her. If she declines, that means she isn't serious about getting back with you. Don't contact her. Let her contact you every time, until she comes to your place.
@@LateNightCigarsgood point. Thanks man.
Distance in a “ relationship” only makes you realize you only need yourself .
This works great especially if the attraction was already there. If the girl isn't interested in you much, the distance will just make her move on. So take every situation as being different guys. Because too many of you apply one advice to every situation and every girl, which isn't the case because girls are human too
But if the girl isn't interested in you much and you continue to pursue, you will only lower her attraction
@@blair5475 to an extent yeah. You need to give her space but if you are interested in her, still contact her after a few weeks at most and attract her. Otherwise she will forget about you and you will keep telling yourself that "I'm happy who needs that girl anyway" when you actually wanted that girl, like most guys here in the comments do
@@George-Chris Nah, I've done that several times in the past(contact a few weeks or months later), it's a waste of time and doesn't lead to anything fruitful. Those few weeks, you could spend it finding a girl that has actual interest in you, and forgotten about the girl that has low/little interest.
@@George-Chris If a girl has little interest in you, you react out to her once, and if she makes any excuse, you tell her to get back to you when she's ready, and then move on with your life. If she react out to you later on, cool. If she doesn't, oh well... this works best. 👍
Master how to control your lust and not be needy, and you will not care if a girl wants you or not.
Attraction grows in turmoil I love a pull back specially once attachment is built
True, but question is what to do if the attachment is not built yet?
@@kaberigomes2117 focus on your purpose
what if attachment has not been built yet
@@markwanga4188 thank you
@@markwanga4188 But related to her what action should be taken? Not contact her unless legitimate reason or she contacts back?
I'm late but this is true. You get so much stuff done. It's like the package you were mad at the wait time but then you forgot about it and shows up 2 weeks later and you open the door in excitement
Everything in life is temporary, never lose focus on yourself, be the best you can, always. Don’t chase bitches, let them come to you.
The minute your start believing in them…. It won’t be long before they screw you over
Don't get upset. I totally agree.
Also don't think she really 'needs some "time alone" - There's probably a new guy, but she'll return... Just with her back a 'lil blown out is all. No big deal. I actually mean it, it's not a big deal. Stop getting attached and falling so deeply for women. The days of true love and romance are over. We're living in some truly promiscuous times.
lol
damn, if she’s been touched by someone else then tries to get back with me, I don’t want her.
Yo Bro, thats the type of girl I don't want to have children with, just enough for hook ups. But you are kinda right, tho. Like Patrice O'Neal said never ask the W-questions to such cheaters 'who?why?when?' so you are in control of that ugly ego that brings us men down. Stay safe,Kings.
Agreed, except when you're dealing with a narcissist. They pull away to gain control and manipulate you. It's a different kettle of fish and narcissism is on the rise. Stay alert.
Problem solved. Avoid narcissists
It still "works." The basis of narcissistic personality disorder is low self esteem. They need to feel in control because they are constantly anxious and it eats them up inside. They need constant validation (supply.) That's why they target caring, feeling, empathetic partners. Once you demonstrate they have no power to manipulate you, they go seek their supply elsewhere. You win.
That's what happened with my ex narcissist, she pulled away to see if i will chase her or beg her. I walked away. It's been 6 months, best decision ever.
Best coach on youtube. Short and sweet with psychology studies to back it up
So true. Attraction does grow in space. Specifically when time has been built.
Wow, Mr. Canwell, I'm learning your book right now.
It's true they come back but I'm usually not interested in them anymore
Chris you got any tips on addiction? Could be food, alcohol, sex, phones, you’re in tune with a lot of stuff and would like to hear your perspective on things
I once had a girl contact me after 10 years no contact. And now we are best friends with benefits.
If a female is crazy in love with you and treats you like a king, but you don't love her the same way, and she is asking you to move in and on top of that, she don't want your money, she just wants you to move in rent free. I mean, I like how she treats me, but I don't love her the same way she does me. Any advice?
Same i here, just wait until another came out and you will be in to her ;)
@@edvinaskascionis I already have one, I go visit here every month, only problem is, she is long distance. But I'm totally into her.
It's entirely up to you. If she's treating you like that and you're into her, just tell her you don't want to move in with her right now (you like your own space) but you're happy to continue seeing her. Don't overcomplicate it.
@@MMA-CLIPS2 thanks 🙏
Dont live with them if you re not married with children
Thank you universe ❤️
Guys so once you have built a connection with her, and once you make that space, do you always have to text her first in order to see her? or should one wait first and wait for her to text you about seeing each other?
Merry Christmas Chris
Chase your purpose and money guys.. not girls.. check yourself out .. make you number one .. that is it.
thank you
@@blair5475 you got this bro ..stay focused don’t think
She is not yours, it is just your turn
This guy's a legend.
the real missing piece is she needs to be attracted to you already somewhat. if she is indifferent to you, she couldnt care less if you distance yourself
Hey chris can get your how to get her plan through amazing audio possible?
Someone please tell me, what happens when I match her when she pulls away, she's pregnant with our first child, we got engaged because she wanted to, so when she backed away I did too, now she says she's not happy, does t love me anymore and wants to cancel the engagement and move out. How did I get here, what did I do wrong.
I was dating This Girl for 2 Months i felt like she was pulling away One y she left me on Read So I didnt reply 2 weeks past by and I sent a good morning text we chatted casyally and got left on read again a week goes by and now she keeps posting sad things about missing someone and how hard it is....i know im not going to break no contact but it seems lime her mindset is changing from what she posts i post too but nothing negative i feel like now i should implement complete Radio silence what do you think coach???
Don't assume things. She could be with another dude or just doesn't want you or is busy in something. It could be anything
Bottom line is just don't text her. She will come back mostly. If she doesn't then you'll find someone else
@@justadreamerforgood69 facts thanks bros 💯🤝
Chris can you please tell how to react when your girlfriend falls sick ?? Should we show support or care ??
Take her to a doctor..👹
Nice one Chris
Is this effective to a friend girl? For building attraction to her?
What if you betrayed her trust and she pulls away going on to 2 weeks???
She come back
@khaliltate2808 Yep. She started talkin to me again after over a month of her pulling away. But everything was slow wit her and I played it cool. The last couple of weeks she been kissing me and tell me how much she miss me and my sex lol. Now we're in a good space
@@jamilljones2264 damn how long was your no contact
What about astrological signs? I mean my ex wife is a Capricorn ♑️ ( January ) , is there a possibility? She deleted me on social media ( not block ) . We didn’t talk until now ( 3 months after the divorce)
PS: she just changed the password of her Netflix before yesterday.
This cant be serious…
People adopt their personality and way of thinking based on what they read, they also tend to make general things in astrology fit their personality because it fits everyone lol. You are this but you are that, most people have the same trait at one point in time ... I could be any sign at different moments in my life, drives me crazy.
His voice, litlle bit seak ?
first comment
Nice
Right!! I shall join the military to create distance that'll show her!
I gave me wife space, she divorced me !
Second comment
This title 😂😂😂
This only works for a man if she is invested in him...
Gold digger won't come back.
Imagine any women watches this Chris video then men all personality is destroying so Chris please as a love teacher you make your channel so se secure from womens 🙏 because this is published video make it video for your subscribers only not everyone.
What is your email?