P!nk - Family Portrait (Official Video)

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  • Опубліковано 24 жов 2009
  • P!nk's official music video for 'Family Portrait'. Click to listen to P!nk on Spotify: smarturl.it/PSpot?IQid=PFaPo
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    Lyrics:
    Momma please stop cryin, I can't stand the sound
    Your pain is painful and its tearin' me down
    I hear glasses breakin as I sit up in my bed
    I told dad you didn't mean those nasty things you
    said
    You fight about money, bout me and my brother
    And this I come home to, this is my shelter
    It ain't easy growin up in World War III
    Never knowin what love could be, you'll see
    I don't want love to destroy me like it has done
    my family
    Can we work it out? Can we be a family?
    I promise I'll be better, Mommy I'll do anything
    Can we work it out? Can we be a family?
    I promise I'll be better, Daddy please don't
    leave"

КОМЕНТАРІ • 19 тис.

  • @evaeva1361
    @evaeva1361 3 місяці тому +1031

    Who is listen in 2024

  • @mskden
    @mskden 3 роки тому +2960

    44 year old, celebrating our 1st grandchild and STILL cry every single time I hear this. Childhood trauma sticks the hardest.

    • @ihm90ihm
      @ihm90ihm 3 роки тому +20

      🥺🥺Yeah😔

    • @foreveryactionthereisacons1683
      @foreveryactionthereisacons1683 3 роки тому +84

      A lot of people are still trying to heal the wounded child within.

    • @Findyourcall
      @Findyourcall 2 роки тому +20

      Understand you very much! Congrats on your grandchild birth!

    • @petersticesen6692
      @petersticesen6692 2 роки тому +13

      It never seems to go away. Or be fixed.

    • @user-kl2dm8wu3u
      @user-kl2dm8wu3u 2 роки тому +11

      Understand u so much..cry every time i hear this..my father left when i was 5 years old..childhood trauma heats hardest..((

  • @user-vi9et7gv3v
    @user-vi9et7gv3v 5 місяців тому +232

    I don't care what anyone says but in my opinion this was Pinks greatest hit ever She really put her all into it A real Masterpiece

    • @desihay22
      @desihay22 4 місяці тому +2

      ,💯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 ABSOLUTELY!! 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Stasunger
      @Stasunger Місяць тому

      Absolutely 💯 She put her heart and soul into the song, and you can feel it.

  • @missnix6151
    @missnix6151 4 місяці тому +50

    In 2024 this song still resonates with millions of people the trauma they have experienced.. life.. 💔

  • @julianap3412
    @julianap3412 5 років тому +1903

    Either the lil girl was a good actress or she was feeling it. Damn

    • @missprc943
      @missprc943 5 років тому +141

      She was feeling it totally, it breaks me

    • @Liveagaincay
      @Liveagaincay 4 роки тому +42

      Juliana Porto ok but can we talk about that flip she did at one point in the video

    • @Khloe_dancer_model
      @Khloe_dancer_model 4 роки тому +30

      I know..It always boggles me...😭

    • @Bvela-vu6ph
      @Bvela-vu6ph 4 роки тому +91

      Definitely feeling it, especially on the stair case when pink wraps her arms around her. So sad.

    • @pastels7937
      @pastels7937 4 роки тому +6

      I cryed to

  • @rachelwood3273
    @rachelwood3273 5 років тому +3829

    This song reminds me of my childhood and all the damage it done to me as an adult. Still bring tears every time u hear it.

    • @michellecottrell3553
      @michellecottrell3553 4 роки тому +75

      Same here all I remember was my parents fighting all the time and trying to buy my love both of them .To this day I can't except a present without thinking of the person has some type of agenda

    • @rocsto
      @rocsto 4 роки тому +10

      michelle cottrell same here its ardbut we have to be strong fr ourselves ife isa gift greeting s ..

    • @lizcassar9059
      @lizcassar9059 4 роки тому +19

      It is my childhood 😪

    • @heatherday4724
      @heatherday4724 4 роки тому +8

      And so time is my everything

    • @vxCOCOxv
      @vxCOCOxv 4 роки тому +23

      I swear I could have posted the same thing... I love it but it makes me cry.

  • @IlhanYondemir
    @IlhanYondemir Рік тому +37

    Way, way back when people write emotional, meaningful songs.. Let's go back to that..

    • @AndreHerz
      @AndreHerz Місяць тому +1

      That is true, the singers to day writen nothing important, only empty words...for empty heads.

  • @matildafowler5992
    @matildafowler5992 Місяць тому +25

    My late daughter who was 15 listening to this and I miss hearing her sing this to me she was murdered at age 16 and I am 50 yrs old still listening to it

  • @bbwfiona
    @bbwfiona 5 років тому +3096

    This song has always made me ugly cry. Growing up in a broken home is neither fun nor romantic. It's a hell I wouldn't wish on my worst enemies.
    Edit- thank ya'll for your sweet comments! I am happy and healthy and sane despite growing up in a broken home. But even tho I'm happy now it's still okay to be sad about the past, and even cry if I need to, no matter how silly (or ugly) I look when I do.

    • @55shocked55
      @55shocked55 5 років тому +80

      But it brings on character that only a group of us truly understand.

    • @audreydutto6979
      @audreydutto6979 5 років тому +21

      I can agree with both of yall

    • @beccymiddleton1458
      @beccymiddleton1458 5 років тому +71

      I think what makes this song hard for someone like me is when the home is broken or was for so many years, with violence and betrayal, and they stay together thinking its best for the kids like we aren't aware of whats going on

    • @Llsek16
      @Llsek16 5 років тому +3

      Totally feel u and agree

    • @cyllanshelton4972
      @cyllanshelton4972 4 роки тому +2

      I feel you

  • @screenshotofwords7839
    @screenshotofwords7839 Рік тому +2209

    One of the most powerful visualizations of what it feels like to realize the trauma you carried into your adulthood and realize you have an inner child that is begging to be heard and seen. P!nk has such a deep understanding of emotions - makes me appreciate her work more holistically as an adult.

    • @jeremycrockett2692
      @jeremycrockett2692 Рік тому +17

      I will agree with you on that because this is a powerful song to listen to!

    • @celesteangelique9829
      @celesteangelique9829 Рік тому +11

      Agreed, very well put.

    • @jeremycrockett2692
      @jeremycrockett2692 Рік тому +6

      @@celesteangelique9829 Thanks for agreeing with me and I hope that you will have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year

    • @catisreckless4647
      @catisreckless4647 Рік тому +8

      The song isn't about "trauma", it's about how the divorce of her parents affected her, and how said divorce made Pink blame herself for their problems.

    • @jeremycrockett2692
      @jeremycrockett2692 Рік тому +9

      @@catisreckless4647 Yes, that must be difficult when it comes to dealing with parents who divorced each other

  • @Ember132
    @Ember132 Місяць тому +72

    anyone listening to this song again as an adult and weeping?

    • @greezzlybaby
      @greezzlybaby 14 днів тому +2

      34 and still crying every time I hear it. Since 14, when I first heard it

    • @NoukSilver
      @NoukSilver 5 днів тому

      I just listened for the first time in many years, and I'm instantly weeping again. This song came out when I was 17 and life at home wasn't great (understatement). Even though my parents are still together and we're all doing better now, this song just transports me back to that time and makes me realise I still have issues to work through.

  • @Reviewsbytashajayne
    @Reviewsbytashajayne 2 місяці тому +100

    Who's here listening to this in 2024 ❤ this song really hurts me as I grew up with a step dad who abused me mentally and physically 😔 😢 so listening to this song hurts 💔 😢

  • @adricefn5712
    @adricefn5712 3 роки тому +4249

    I think everybody has his own story to this song😔

  • @tilliemorrison4181
    @tilliemorrison4181 4 роки тому +2546

    Who still listens in 2020?

  • @Aslenka
    @Aslenka Рік тому +67

    Поняла смысл почти сразу, как услышала песню, лет в 12, и испугалась. Как будто про мою жизнь. До сих пор неконтролируемые слёзы, как услышу

    • @TheRah730
      @TheRah730 11 місяців тому +3

      I cry every time comrade!!!!!

    • @user-yj8rl4gb3z
      @user-yj8rl4gb3z 5 місяців тому +1

      те же эмоции, без знания языка...

    • @user-hq8oi3bz7d
      @user-hq8oi3bz7d Місяць тому

      Арбенину Юго 2 послушайте, там все по-русски)))

  • @user-lq1hh4tr4z
    @user-lq1hh4tr4z 10 місяців тому +32

    Очень глубокая песня. Аналогия с внутренним ребенком мощная. И вот эта эмоция в клипе, когда она сгибается, словно от сильной боли - все реально. Я сама пережила эту боль, даже и не пережила еще, видимо она меня переживет..

  • @Natalie-kik
    @Natalie-kik 5 років тому +1059

    “I don’t want love to destroy me like it has done my family” relate to that 😭

    • @michellecottrell3553
      @michellecottrell3553 4 роки тому +19

      Me too I have always been afraid to love or be loved

    • @girlfromthecenteroftheuniv6045
      @girlfromthecenteroftheuniv6045 4 роки тому +12

      Hi, I read your comment and I can relate to this too. I know it's not much, but I truly do hope you find the courage in your heart to try to love and be loved in return. ♥ I'm working on it myself, I haven't found neither trust or love yet, but I've recently learned to not be afraid of rejection, so that's some improvement. Never give up, this is a step by step thing, it needs time ♥

    • @googleuser2811
      @googleuser2811 4 роки тому +3

      I do very much so

    • @saraabdifara2570
      @saraabdifara2570 4 роки тому +2

      Love doesn't not destroy
      But gives life 😥

    • @googleuser2811
      @googleuser2811 4 роки тому +2

      @@saraabdifara2570 mixed up love can mess u up until u find out what it is u are afraid of nice comment tho GL

  • @bulo4naya69
    @bulo4naya69 5 років тому +1843

    A pop song with deep meaning. This is what hard to find nowadays.

    • @Shmo7e
      @Shmo7e 5 років тому +10

      Exactly !!!! 100% agree

    • @delaramsakhaei8929
      @delaramsakhaei8929 5 років тому +35

      Just compare it to ariana grandeeeee lyricssss😐 break up with your girl frienddd yeah yeah cause im boaaaaard😑😑😑😑😑

    • @jasminebogatyreva7857
      @jasminebogatyreva7857 5 років тому +3

      Petra Wéber i know i feel the pain in this song

    • @CLyno_Tha_Black_Rose
      @CLyno_Tha_Black_Rose 5 років тому +16

      I agree. Actually all genres are horrible now

    • @joshjoshjosification
      @joshjoshjosification 5 років тому +12

      There’s actually quite a few pop artists that have meaningful songs. All of pinks songs are amazing, then there’s Sam Smith, Demi Lovato, Kesha, Jess Glynne, Jessie J, etc

  • @heatherrobinson1641
    @heatherrobinson1641 Рік тому +147

    I was listening to throw backs and this one got my eyes tearing up quick. Instant flashbacks to my traumatic childhood. Family portrait was my favorite song to blast through the walls when my parents fought. P!NK got me through my childhood

    • @rocsto
      @rocsto Рік тому +5

      Hello yeah same here,my childhood was a mixture of great moments and pain till this day I cry listening to this masterpiece but now it clean my soul and heart no family is perfect is just no excuse kids don’t deserve any kind of suffering, greetings great comment, wish you happiness.👌🙏

    • @lilithhellea6954
      @lilithhellea6954 Рік тому +1

      Alecia is a great musician and a great artist! In her songs are many of her childhood experiences, trying to work them out. That's why i love her music, cause i can feel the vibes!

    • @kenyattatucker1279
      @kenyattatucker1279 Рік тому +2

      2023 I'm still listening this

    • @user-cr6ud3kz1v
      @user-cr6ud3kz1v 11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you

  • @user-sv4sn1jt1z
    @user-sv4sn1jt1z Рік тому +68

    Эта песня всегда будет задевать мою душу. Как так получилось спеть про несчастное детство ❤

    • @laurier8131
      @laurier8131 8 місяців тому +2

      It would've been so hard for me to do! She's absolutely amazing. She is singing my childhood pain. 😢

  • @igobothwaysallidoismakewav5039
    @igobothwaysallidoismakewav5039 Рік тому +901

    I can't believe this song came from a poem she wrote when she was only 9. Pink is all of us and the collective trauma we went through. 🤟🏻

    • @michaelthacker7852
      @michaelthacker7852 Рік тому +7

      🤟🏻

    • @peterdempsey9766
      @peterdempsey9766 Рік тому +13

      My childhood spot on and many others 😢

    • @peterdempsey9766
      @peterdempsey9766 Рік тому +10

      Sadly my son is going tru the same because I was in and out of jail all his life and he's 23 and hurting and I don't know how to make it better or help because of my childhood 😢😢😢

    • @shannon2863
      @shannon2863 Рік тому +9

      Didnt know that.. You really do learn something new even day! Still playing this song in 2023, like many others it moves me on a personal level, always will! ❤

    • @becky1993x
      @becky1993x 10 місяців тому +3

      *Alicia*

  • @SlendyMiller
    @SlendyMiller 8 років тому +2321

    I have been listening to this song since I was really little and I still relate.

    • @sheylacbanuelo3766
      @sheylacbanuelo3766 8 років тому +7

      same 😪💔

    • @juliasais5413
      @juliasais5413 8 років тому +13

      Same....💔can't stop Crying

    • @SlendyMiller
      @SlendyMiller 8 років тому +5

      Yeah.

    • @palechick9864
      @palechick9864 8 років тому +4

      same

    • @danielaschwarz1971
      @danielaschwarz1971 8 років тому +5

      I wasnt´t little anymore but I was needing my dad so much,but is it too late?We saw us the last time 5 years ago,okay I done much shit in the past but he know that and he feel so sorry but should I go in kontakt with him???

  • @jennafoster8576
    @jennafoster8576 Рік тому +71

    This song was on repeat in my room when it came out. Got me thru my parents divorce. So many of her songs made me feel seen and heard.

    • @358klk
      @358klk 6 місяців тому +1

      Blasting it loud so my parents could hear what I was feeling hah memories

  • @andaydeniz
    @andaydeniz Рік тому +11

    God bless PINK for being with us throughout our childhoods.

  • @andromedaplease
    @andromedaplease 7 років тому +886

    This still makes me cry no matter how many years pass

    • @itsthesigner
      @itsthesigner 6 років тому +1

      ari white 💗💗💖

    • @purplebunny1029
      @purplebunny1029 6 років тому +4

      ari white I just found this song. Every time I listen to it I cry.

    • @wherescasey
      @wherescasey 6 років тому +2

      me too! it's a masterpiece

    • @versace-7251
      @versace-7251 6 років тому +2

      patic video i'm cryyyyyyyyyyyy

    • @stephaniecook5512
      @stephaniecook5512 6 років тому

      Sucks to live like this

  • @michaelhofer2598
    @michaelhofer2598 7 років тому +742

    who's that girl? she deserves to get an Oscar for that performance!

  • @kirstenweir633
    @kirstenweir633 Рік тому +34

    My parents never split but they did argue. When they were good together they were amazing. When they were arguing it could be horrible especially as a kid. This song always made me cry and even now chokes me up. With so many songs i feel like she's put my life into words i couldnt describe on my own.

  • @user-so4bt1yo8s
    @user-so4bt1yo8s 4 місяці тому +9

    This is the most emotional song i've ever heard. It makes it deep everytime i hear it.. and It took me 1 year to realize that the little girl is not her ACTUAL daughter, It was her past self..

  • @MissDreamHuntress
    @MissDreamHuntress 4 роки тому +934

    It's amazing how a childhood trauma prevents you from loving someone, "I dont want love to destroy me like it did my family". It was a lifetime to start loving MYSELF first, many years of therapy. Now I have to learn how to love a partner without loosing myself in the middle. This song is heartbreaking.

    • @shaima2635
      @shaima2635 3 роки тому +18

      Yeah, sometimes I feel I'm incapable of love 😔

    • @amandajade8540
      @amandajade8540 3 роки тому +1

      #angelnumber77

    • @KaitoNiikura
      @KaitoNiikura 3 роки тому +5

      I'm glad you could start loving yourself! I'm proud of you! Maybe someday I'm able to love myself too

    • @daisydavis9424
      @daisydavis9424 3 роки тому +5

      I don't date anymore because I don't see a point in it anyway... And everyone says I will change my mind about getting married and having kids but I don't want kids and I don't see a point in marriage either (especially in the society we live in) I prefer staying alone because I don't want to get hurt again and I don't trust men because I've been sexually molested by enough of them and my family life wasn't the easiest and I don't want to start a family of my own.... I'm only 20

    • @Froz3nGodlike
      @Froz3nGodlike 3 роки тому +5

      @@daisydavis9424 I don't, and will never have kids for the only reason that I don't want to impose that on anyone.
      I've never had a choice about life. I'm 30 right now, and spend 23 years wanting to die. Don't do anything you don't wanna do. To keep your sanity, it's better for you. But in the same time don't listen to stranger on the internet :D Do just what suits you the most. That's what'll make you the happier =). Peace lil' angel.

  • @suzybrat2945
    @suzybrat2945 7 років тому +258

    That little girl did such a good job, always make me want to cry.

  • @Greycurls_95
    @Greycurls_95 9 місяців тому +14

    Amazing how many people come over every day to this song , and also is that a masterpiece….
    Unbelievable❤

  • @crystalcase3972
    @crystalcase3972 7 місяців тому +11

    My life growing up was so much like this....I'm 50 and this song really hits home still

  • @HawaiiASMRNatureRelaxation
    @HawaiiASMRNatureRelaxation 6 років тому +3409

    2018 and the nostalgia never ends ..

    • @madihaz5372
      @madihaz5372 6 років тому +8

      Hawaii ASMR Nature Relaxation that's true

    • @dianapple
      @dianapple 5 років тому +6

      Estamos igual.

    • @alikatt-x
      @alikatt-x 5 років тому +5

      I know. Still hurts just the same in 2018

    • @Sami-rh6rw
      @Sami-rh6rw 5 років тому +5

      agreed

    • @jess4now12
      @jess4now12 5 років тому +6

      Amen To that!

  • @lindseybsmith
    @lindseybsmith 6 років тому +917

    The little girl, on the verge of tears, breaks my heart.

    • @itz_faith4355
      @itz_faith4355 6 років тому +25

      lindsey smith yeah it's even worse when it's ur own childhood

    • @stonew1927
      @stonew1927 6 років тому +20

      Yea, great actress that little one. Maybe she was tapping into some personal perspectives....

    • @lesptitsbouts3230
      @lesptitsbouts3230 6 років тому +2

      lindsey smith Mine too.

    • @lesptitsbouts3230
      @lesptitsbouts3230 6 років тому +1

      Itz_ Faith Unfortunately, you are right.

    • @June_bugsie
      @June_bugsie 6 років тому +9

      I wonder how grown she is now she’s a great little actress

  • @user-fc6nt3cu3f
    @user-fc6nt3cu3f Рік тому +37

    Обожаю её и её песни,как она вкладывает свою душу в каждую песню❤красотка❤❤❤

  • @xeno4665
    @xeno4665 4 місяці тому +6

    Im in my 30s....im a dude....this album got me thru alot as a system kid ..boys home,... foster care..closed custody..and a big string of alone.... Pink held me up and together and still does to this day, ❤❤❤❤ also DMX too❤❤❤ but pink is my soft side ❤

  • @LaBizarraRomina
    @LaBizarraRomina 8 років тому +311

    PINK´S SADDEST SONG EVER!

  • @AnthonyLiccione
    @AnthonyLiccione 3 роки тому +318

    "Everone needs a house to live in, but a supportive family is what builds a home."

  • @ricksgrandauditorium8790
    @ricksgrandauditorium8790 Рік тому +6

    I don't know what the word for it is...as soon as the little girls eyes well up with tears I'm just flooded with that emotion, like a squeezed lemon my face pours.

  • @-tmj-
    @-tmj- 4 місяці тому +6

    This one hit even more, now as adult... ❤😢

  • @WilliamHaist
    @WilliamHaist 3 роки тому +428

    This song was a fucking anthem for all the kids who grew up in households like this. I remember venting my little heart out back in the day to this song. I'll remember this song for my entire life.

    • @joylogue2013
      @joylogue2013 2 роки тому +1

      Yes. I grew up thinking unhappy. Marriages are the way it is fight.

    • @Blueluise
      @Blueluise 2 роки тому +1

      Mary did you know,..,,,

    • @caterinanikols5609
      @caterinanikols5609 2 роки тому

      thats how kids feel, trying to pick up the pieces, even in families that " keep it together" 😪

    • @DonRobertson82
      @DonRobertson82 Рік тому

      This song and that song “wonderful”

    • @AudieHolland
      @AudieHolland 5 днів тому

      is

  • @edylondon5599
    @edylondon5599 7 років тому +1230

    i don't know how she does it,, she always seem to write straight to my heart

    • @kayleighscott5531
      @kayleighscott5531 7 років тому +10

      i know right

    • @theunderpantsgnomes6606
      @theunderpantsgnomes6606 7 років тому +5

      Edy London ikr her videos r always like real life or setting a go getter example

    • @leew2851
      @leew2851 7 років тому +15

      when Pink does pain she always hits it right on the head, awsome track from a brilliant artist

    • @bogdanbogdan6850
      @bogdanbogdan6850 7 років тому

      Lee Wiggett njjiiu,lpocdnjjo

    • @leejee88
      @leejee88 7 років тому +23

      exactly something ive always respected about her as and artist i feel it makes her so underrated shes like a female eminem

  • @hereyourfriendlyboy
    @hereyourfriendlyboy Місяць тому +3

    My parent's divorce is probably the best thing that happened to me, no more war, no more noises, just peace. I love them both, they were better separated. This remind me many things of my childhood and pre-teen and I'm glad I got my memories, as a unified family or two-part family!

  • @tatyanavet376
    @tatyanavet376 22 дні тому +1

    Такая пронзительная песня о ребенке, который мучительно хочет семейного счастья, когда все рушится и он не понимает , как все вернуть...Очень сильная песня, которая обращает внимание на страдания ребенка и его право быть счастливым ..

  • @danae123
    @danae123 7 років тому +206

    It's so sad that this song is relatable to so many people.

    • @user-pp1ti8rr8i
      @user-pp1ti8rr8i 4 роки тому

      👍🚬😀⛪🌞🤗😍😇😉😂🏥👍🚬🌞😀😀😀🌞🚬

    • @user-pp1ti8rr8i
      @user-pp1ti8rr8i 4 роки тому

      👍🚬🌞🤗Dana🤗😇😍😂😉😇🏥👍🚬🌞😀😀😀🌞🚬

  • @kittylissiegirl9162
    @kittylissiegirl9162 8 років тому +368

    P!nk was absolutely not the cliche in 2001. There were so many artists that fit the "Britney" mold, and Pink was just in a classification all her own.

    • @angelitasilva3670
      @angelitasilva3670 8 років тому

      +TheBookWorm1718 ok

    • @Cat-ts7df
      @Cat-ts7df 8 років тому +3

      +Kitty LissieGirl I don't know if you were around in 2001 but she didn't fit the Britney mold on purpose. She was the "anti Britney" and that's how she was marketed after ditching the RnB flashy clothes thing her record company insisted on. It's really funny to watch the contrast of her first music videos that were supposed to be "urban" then a song like Get The Party Started where theres skateboards and all that. Tony Hawk was the shit. She was definitely in a mold sharing it with Avril Lavigne. If you don't believe me connect the dots, Arista was their label. Pink was more genuine about it though. This pop rock direction is where she wanted to be, while Avril had a tomboy costume on, wearing a tie with cargo pants that so clearly wasn't her idea but she did it because she had to fit the mold that Pink laid out. Everyone has their pop lane so it's not THAT embarrassing to be cliche. You have to kind of laugh at "compared to damn Britney Spears" line in Don't Let Me Get Me. How dated is that? Kids have to google who Britney Spears is to understand that one lol

    • @angelitasilva3670
      @angelitasilva3670 8 років тому

      ooo

    • @Omg581
      @Omg581 8 років тому +4

      +puppyspirit36 i dont get how you feel old by knowing who britney is... Everyone still knows who she is mostly cuz of her break down in 2010 i think it was, and she is on XFactor, and she is still making new music. i dont get how you feel old...

    • @kittylissiegirl9162
      @kittylissiegirl9162 8 років тому +1

      Cat XD I was around all right. I just remember an article in a magazine calling her the R&B Britney Spears and one calling her the "tougher" Britney Spears because she was blonde and danced in her videos....And yes, this was before Misundaztood.
      I wasn't really talking about "molds" or cliches regarding imagery, though that's a good point. I was talking about music. Pink was in a lane all her own. It's kind of hard to see other pop artists singing her music successfully without it seeming a little awkward, which is why you hardly see covers of her songs. Her genuine nature is what adds identity to her music, which helps her step into her own lane. Even when she was doing R&B, listen to the song Split Personality, Most Girls, There You Go, her biggest songs. Grab the lyrics. The sound was different from Misundaztood, but the content (lyrics) was all the same. She was still edgy and was quite down-to-earth even before she did a different sound. No R&B artists had the same content she had. Most either sang about love, break-ups, and sex. Split Personality was about none of that.
      In comparison to Christina Aguilera, Jessica Simpson, Britney spears, Mandy Moore, Hoku, Shakira even, Pink didn't sing the average love/break-up songs they sang. Most Girls was a far contrast to Jessica's Irresistible or Mandy Moore's I Wanna be with You, just examples. Same with Split Personality. Just because someone sings livlier songs, or rock and roll, and adds skateboards, it doesn't make someone unique.

  • @myriam84118
    @myriam84118 2 місяці тому +6

    I still cry when I hear this. We did not had one family portrait, we are Romanians, not Americans and life is hard,not a ned of roses.

  • @barbaracarmody3305
    @barbaracarmody3305 Рік тому +6

    You watched this and knew Pink was going places. Pain is a motivator. It can propel us to creativity and positivity.

  • @tobiasburrell6055
    @tobiasburrell6055 6 років тому +4772

    When you grow older and pay more attention to the lyrics... :(

    • @TranceAddict88
      @TranceAddict88 5 років тому +140

      Long story short, listened to this song while I was young never understanding what exactly it's about and english is not my first language. Had many problems in family because of drunk father....later on I learned english and damn this song is so much more than words could say..

    • @patximartel
      @patximartel 5 років тому +29

      My father, my mother and my sister agree that this song represents perfectly our history.

    • @shaberyy
      @shaberyy 5 років тому +22

      This is exactly my story

    • @sabryymusic
      @sabryymusic 5 років тому +13

      OMG THAT HIT ME!

    • @darthhatter188
      @darthhatter188 5 років тому +14

      I got it then cuz I lived it. Didn't think I'd relive it...

  • @missbbabybblue
    @missbbabybblue 7 років тому +645

    after all these years, I still can't hear this song without crying my heart out...

  • @laylaperez2507
    @laylaperez2507 Рік тому +15

    I remember when my aunt bought this CD especially for this song I was 13 and years later I really understand how deep this song was and what it meant to her.

  • @kierathrift3334
    @kierathrift3334 Місяць тому +2

    I never watched the video until today. I haven’t heard the song in years either…the tears I’m choking on right now are burning. Such a powerful song ❤

  • @angierzzz
    @angierzzz 7 років тому +1366

    This hits a little too close to home ... anyone else?

    • @LadyMDrgonfly
      @LadyMDrgonfly 7 років тому +16

      unfortunately, yes. I think it does for too many people. I still cry, sometimes, when I listen to this.

    • @angelfreitas8181
      @angelfreitas8181 7 років тому +7

      yeah, im in one of those moods..

    • @spicyspinner313
      @spicyspinner313 7 років тому +6

      Every time I watch this when they take the little girl into the tv I sob because this song relates to my life so much

    • @barfingunicornsquad8350
      @barfingunicornsquad8350 7 років тому +3

      me too i always cru

    • @aziajones8517
      @aziajones8517 7 років тому +3

      yah....

  • @jenniferhinck9762
    @jenniferhinck9762 4 роки тому +995

    I know now why my daughter listened to this song. It was me and her dad fighting all the time. She didn’t deserve to have this life. We both got away from him but way too late. Sorry Liz

    • @user-jn1wm3tb8v
      @user-jn1wm3tb8v 4 роки тому +46

      Think positive. At least you and Liz are out of that nightmare

    • @s.tiaira9081
      @s.tiaira9081 3 роки тому +39

      That’s amazing you can self reflect like that. I hope things are better for you guys now.

    • @ileniacortese4813
      @ileniacortese4813 3 роки тому +5

      ❤️

    • @erniejames560
      @erniejames560 3 роки тому +5

      :( i guess ill have the same issue

    • @Ashden_Lynnwood
      @Ashden_Lynnwood 3 роки тому +2

      your child is lucky to have a mom like you

  • @Megasxlr237
    @Megasxlr237 Рік тому +9

    It's 2023 and this song still means alot to most of people lyrically.

  • @noelbmagalona
    @noelbmagalona Рік тому +5

    This song makes me cry, I am fortunate to have a happy family but singing this song makes me sad. This is reality for someone who deserves happiness. Pink, thank you!

  • @carmillalaura9446
    @carmillalaura9446 7 років тому +465

    I love Pink's voice 💖😊

  • @angelwings7019
    @angelwings7019 8 років тому +404

    sad how family hurt can hurt forever

    • @kamiladomain402
      @kamiladomain402 8 років тому +4

      Yeah it can its been 7 years since my dad and my mum split up and it still affects me on a everyday basis

    • @rebeccaspratling2865
      @rebeccaspratling2865 8 років тому +9

      +Kamila Domain I'm so sorry. Divorce affects children greatly and shouldn't be decided lightly. as long as there's no violence or abuse going on, people with kids should really work on their marriages and think of the kids. Kids don't ask to be brought into this world, we choose to have them. They are human beings and they deserve what's beat for them. and a whole family is what is best.

    • @semaparker943
      @semaparker943 8 років тому +2

      I'm scared for life cause of meh family :l .....

    • @spockitansfacereveal9439
      @spockitansfacereveal9439 8 років тому

      i used look at this and think oh this will never happen to me the day after i said that my mom and dad divorced i was 9,5 months i moved to a apartment in the same neighborhood,2 months i move because i was getting bullied my friend got hit by a car in front of me she died,my kittens all died by someone shooting them,my 2 dogs died by a wolf in front of me the took a tendon out of my leg,i got bullied to much so i moved away from my brother and dad and went to my moms house in Texas got bullied when i got there,people mentally scars me,i start cutting ,i tried 5 suicides,abuse,alone,i slit my wrist,sent to a mental for no reason tried to recover but they sent me again for having a bloody nose,tells school people are bullying me trys telling anyone to help me,turned emo,dad went to prison,im alone

    • @starheartskull15
      @starheartskull15 8 років тому +1

      I relate so much to this song and it's still like this.. 19 years later and probably for the rest of time

  • @anac7096
    @anac7096 Місяць тому +2

    This is such a sad song... it makes my heart ache to feel the despair of a powerless to child who can't change her family and lives in the middle of a war, feeling hopeless and tiny... I f I could, I would wrap every single child living in a situation like this under a cloak of Love, Nurture and Peace so they could heal and thrive within the rest of their lives. Much Love and Light to you all children in despair. ❤🙏✨️

  • @belatrixstarr
    @belatrixstarr 6 місяців тому +19

    Still here 2024 💜✨ 30 years old

  • @electraxcx
    @electraxcx 8 років тому +141

    Im glad i have a loving family thank god ❤️

    • @The_guy_named_james
      @The_guy_named_james 8 років тому

      😢👌

    • @izzymarie8714
      @izzymarie8714 8 років тому +15

      Well not everyone has that so you don't need to brag because that's not cool at all

    • @schmeaf_
      @schmeaf_ 8 років тому +21

      +Isabelle Torres she wasn't even bragging, she was just saying how she's thankful and you know what? She should be. No, not everyone has a loving family and that's not their fault. Even if someone does have a loving family, they sometimes take advantage of it. She's just being thankful and we need more of that in the world. There was absolutely no bragging in her comment whatsoever.

    • @hannahschreckengost76
      @hannahschreckengost76 8 років тому +1

      That's great!! You have the foundation of how you want to raise your kids.

    • @elliea9159
      @elliea9159 8 років тому +6

      You make me jealous. I have to fight for love.

  • @nickkingofearth
    @nickkingofearth 6 років тому +1139

    I forgot how good this song is

  • @user-dy3xb5nk1l
    @user-dy3xb5nk1l 9 місяців тому +4

    Всем , кто не испытал заботы, теплоты, ласки в детстве. Но сам по себе стал сильным, добрым ко всем...

  • @volobusha
    @volobusha 11 місяців тому +4

    Просто 23 года прошло с первого прослушивания, а до сих пор мурашки

  • @seancharlie8476
    @seancharlie8476 5 років тому +910

    I forgot how good this song is!!!
    Who's listening in 2019??? anybody???

  • @nicolassotosilva8810
    @nicolassotosilva8810 7 років тому +35

    this song hurts :'(

  • @uisanov
    @uisanov 10 місяців тому +5

    29 years old and it still hurts to sing along. 🥲

  • @brittanystack6413
    @brittanystack6413 4 місяці тому +1

    I saw this when I was eight years old and it brought me so much comfort back then. Pink was and is my hero. She's always been down to earth and independent and a bad a**. Her music got me through soooo much.

  • @ChlomoXD94
    @ChlomoXD94 Рік тому +578

    This song was always on repeat for me growing up, I'm 28 now and it still brings me to tears hearing this song and taking me straight back to my childhood.

    • @BenLowther2024
      @BenLowther2024 11 місяців тому +5

      Me too 28 also 😭😞

    • @Blueluise
      @Blueluise 11 місяців тому +3

      oops, Ozzy, since Good Morning Vientman so many things changed, Treme, even Stars in the White House

    • @alisonfairburn4847
      @alisonfairburn4847 6 місяців тому +1

      I feel you I’m also 28my dad was always in and out of my life when I was little 😢

    • @dascaluandreea7271
      @dascaluandreea7271 6 місяців тому +1

      Please please grow up and forget all the trauma

    • @alicezambelli9543
      @alicezambelli9543 6 місяців тому +1

      99😊😊

  • @belsempai2671
    @belsempai2671 8 років тому +72

    The saddest thing about this song is that so many people can relate to it.

  • @Gengy84
    @Gengy84 20 днів тому +1

    There's a fckn mountain stuck in my throat whenever I hear this song. It tears my soul apart. 😔

  • @skaterchick2135
    @skaterchick2135 Рік тому +4

    Listened to this when I was 8, knowing how my life was. It brought comfort knowing p!nk and others were going through the same, as unfortunate as that was. Now I’m 30 and still listening and telling my therapist how I would listen to this when I was younger on repeat. I used to tell myself I never wanted a life like my parents and here I am fighting through daily

  • @scarletserena
    @scarletserena 2 роки тому +482

    I used to listen to this song a lot when I was a kid and my parents just got divorced. I remember crying and watching this music video. So many parents don't realize how divorce and fighting in front of your kids affects them when they don't know what's going on. P!nk was a huge idol for me as a young girl.

    • @averymartin321
      @averymartin321 Рік тому +9

      Very true. My parents got divorced when I was really young and my father was neglectful, cruel and abusive. And my step father was just...not what I felt was a man worth imitating or being a role model. But everyone thought we were a perfect family and he and I used butt heads constantly. We were having WWIII because I just felt like he was a loser. So I could relate to this. And my father...just wasn't what I deserved.

    • @scarletserena
      @scarletserena Рік тому +5

      @@averymartin321 I hope you are in a better place in life now and have done some healing ❤️

    • @averymartin321
      @averymartin321 Рік тому +7

      @@scarletserena those scars healed up what feels like 1000 years ago. But I do understand that feeling that everyone thinks you're just this perfect family and you literally hate it. I remember hating my parents because my mom and step dad used to argue all the time but when we went to church they acted like the perfect couple. We actually took a family portrait together and we did look happy but the whole ride there my step dad and I argued the entire way there. I mean argued and argued. I used to hate the sight of that man. But I was always told how ungrateful I was because he came in the process and stepped up to be a "father " to me and he nowhere near what I wanted. I'm not going to act like I was the perfect kid because I was a terrible little shit of a teenager. Sneaking out and skipping school. I was in a dark place and this song helped get me through that. But now that I'm grown I just used my experiences to know how to not raise my children and how to not be with my future spouse. I hated our family portrait. We all were so pissed off with each other that day. But thankfully I'm over it now. They're divorced now. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @HeiressOfShadows
      @HeiressOfShadows Рік тому +4

      same here, everything was great in the beginning but it was a slow descent into WW3, I used to skip this song and only listen to Get the Party Started but once the bad times came I stopped skipping this song as well as Because of You and When Your Gone.

    • @marcmikel7322
      @marcmikel7322 Рік тому +2

      Scarlet I feel for you and if you give me a chance I will never let you down again I was there every time for you.

  • @extraextra6304
    @extraextra6304 4 роки тому +1063

    Just realized this video is about her dealing with the trauma of her childhood as an adult

    • @irinafurtuna2900
      @irinafurtuna2900 3 роки тому +45

      Same!! Healing her inner child🤯

    • @shaima2635
      @shaima2635 3 роки тому +12

      Really? I didn't know, I thought I saw her dad, he seemed fine. But yeah, mine seem fine to other people too

    • @Mithrandork
      @Mithrandork 3 роки тому +32

      Yeah, it looks like she has a break-up and brings up memories of her past. First time I watched it I thought the little girl was supposed to be her daughter when I think it's supposed to be herself

    • @ericapecore7650
      @ericapecore7650 3 роки тому +7

      Mithrandork they’re wearing the same clothes in every scene lol

    • @royvan6224
      @royvan6224 3 роки тому +7

      11 years after the release! Good job 👍🏽

  • @joleenmasha
    @joleenmasha 4 місяці тому +20

    Who’s dancing with me 2024

    • @Nimbus6000
      @Nimbus6000 2 місяці тому +1

      If you mean slow dancing and crying in the corner singing this at the top of my lungs, then yes, I’m right there with you sis xxx❤

  • @sanico1000
    @sanico1000 Місяць тому +11

    Who the listen 2025 ❤❤❤

  • @maxquinndraws
    @maxquinndraws 7 років тому +1245

    parents are fighting for the millionth time today, this pretty much exactly what I'm going through...fucking love this song

    • @daraley1098
      @daraley1098 7 років тому +26

      I grow up in an situation like that-
      believe me, even if its fucked up now, you will be happy.
      For me it was when I went living on my own

    • @paulwatts5681
      @paulwatts5681 7 років тому +5

      i love tis and talking to my13 yr old self and pink helped me over deth of my gf
      tess

    • @jacobhardnett6418
      @jacobhardnett6418 7 років тому +4

      Afro-Chan fact

    • @itsthesigner
      @itsthesigner 6 років тому +2

      Afro-Chan You will be a very strong woman in a few years. Please just choose to learn the lesson from them, how you not will act against your partner. Crash course part one! Hope that u have a better life now and that ur parents have sorted things out!

    • @rukshanamahmood7289
      @rukshanamahmood7289 6 років тому

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  • @thalia721985
    @thalia721985 6 років тому +226

    still hurts like a knife in the heart

    • @andreapatane4204
      @andreapatane4204 6 років тому +2

      I know how you feel, but my friend's parents got divorced and it wasn't a fun sight to witness in society.

  • @giorgivashakidze2035
    @giorgivashakidze2035 4 місяці тому +90

    2024 ?

  • @LiliCampo
    @LiliCampo Місяць тому +1

    Desdé Colombia escuchando la mejor música 🎶 en el 2024 presente.

  • @vicksterhawk
    @vicksterhawk 7 років тому +120

    This songs tells the story of my family break up and how kids feel... they dont want to be split between 2 families :( but go along with it to keep the peace.. so sad that it speaks to so many

  • @AnimePlaysMinecraft
    @AnimePlaysMinecraft 8 років тому +617

    I can't remember having a family portrait of my family as a whole.

    • @Renaelind
      @Renaelind 8 років тому +10

      me either never had a family portrait

    • @makenziewood4047
      @makenziewood4047 8 років тому +1

      me either

    • @LHMSQ
      @LHMSQ 8 років тому

      +Anime Deamon ur not alone

    • @thefactsaccordingtogabbie149
      @thefactsaccordingtogabbie149 8 років тому +3

      Me either but my mom and dad is married and still together going on 32 yrs. My brothers and I are all grown and alive, one stay in NY tho. The goal is when he come this summer for us to take a family pic we long over due for it.

    • @tgnw6899
      @tgnw6899 8 років тому +1

      Haven't had a family portrait in over 6 years.

  • @nicoleevans8225
    @nicoleevans8225 3 місяці тому +2

    Over a decade later this song hits a different way. Pink has a special place in my heart ❤️

  • @tinah4560
    @tinah4560 Рік тому +1

    thank you for this song. As a mum, I needed to hear this today. I don't want this for my kids so I will continue to endure until they grow up.

  • @lucydade2055
    @lucydade2055 2 роки тому +601

    I think Pink was the only reason I survived as much as I did when I was a child and her songs still hit deep even till this day. She's linked to so many childhood memories, good and the bad and she's the reason I carried on. Can't believe how many years has passed since the first time I ever heard her song.
    Thank you for being the guardian angel I always wished for.

    • @padawannie
      @padawannie 2 роки тому +18

      Same here. My early teens were the worst years of my life. P!nk’s music truly saved me and listening to these songs now make me so emotional

    • @letyruvalcaba7668
      @letyruvalcaba7668 Рік тому +4

      ❤same here

    • @user-jf8xe8ok7k
      @user-jf8xe8ok7k Рік тому +3

      Спасибо 🙏

    • @livwantstodie4919
      @livwantstodie4919 Рік тому +4

      Perfectly said, took the words right out of my mouth. Sending you love!

    • @kenyattatucker1279
      @kenyattatucker1279 Рік тому +3

      2023.

  • @tuny1209
    @tuny1209 7 років тому +29

    This makes me wanna cry, it makes me think about these children who grow up in the middle of a disfunctional family. Kids suffer a lot and some adults don't realize about it.

    • @roufeng1625
      @roufeng1625 7 років тому +4

      Some adults really don't know, how it really is for a child. Children are so much vulnerable than adults, yelling and screaming is similar like throwing grenades at them just like she said in the song "it's ain't easy to grow up in world war III". And yes it's so much easier help these sad children than a scared and broken adult....

  • @DieAerzteFreak17175
    @DieAerzteFreak17175 Рік тому +2

    It's a relief, that the song brings more ease and empathy for myself today.
    I used to cry and get into deep holes of sadness, so I avoided listening to it.. I am glad, I got me!

  • @RudySoobaroyen
    @RudySoobaroyen 8 місяців тому +3

    Since that song was released, it kept bringing tears to my eyes every time I watch or hear it.

  • @ainarasoria
    @ainarasoria 8 років тому +411

    Its impossible not to cry with this song when you live the same situation

  • @alaplaya5
    @alaplaya5 7 років тому +212

    I cried when I was little and saw this video

    • @alaplaya5
      @alaplaya5 7 років тому +43

      Ok ...15 years later and I cried again.

    • @andakassem676
      @andakassem676 7 років тому +10

      Haitani same

    • @evans062089
      @evans062089 7 років тому +10

      Haitani I always cry this is my childhood on a song

    • @theunderpantsgnomes6606
      @theunderpantsgnomes6606 7 років тому +2

      el evans I cried every time. and I watched it once with out crying and I was like how I do date 😕

    • @micheleboles9498
      @micheleboles9498 7 років тому

      I cried to

  • @lornabrand7981
    @lornabrand7981 Рік тому +7

    This song hits hard. Specially when its a life bot just a song 💔❤️

  • @alvarezgamers
    @alvarezgamers 5 днів тому

    I was early 20s when this came out. I just aged out of a group home. My father and mother were both crack addicts who died when I was ten. My grandma died a month later. So I had to grow up in orphan because my extended family abandoned me and my three sisters. After dealing with so much trauma as a child everytime I hear this song it hurts. 44 years old now and still trying to heal my inner child.

  • @juniorboy6959
    @juniorboy6959 2 роки тому +451

    After 21 years and we are here to listen to this Masterpiece from Pink, again and again, Timeless song! Love it
    Edit: 🙏 for the likes

  • @spamsbysavvy4222
    @spamsbysavvy4222 4 роки тому +418

    Growing up in an abusive/toxic household is never easy. I’m almost done. Ready to go...grew up listening to this song and here I am 8-10 years later still listening and relating to each and every single lyric. Sad I have to leave my brother, but after 10 years they still fight and just won’t separate. Pink was honestly my inspiration and still is, I don’t know if a song will ever hurt me as much as this one does each time I listen to it. But it’s worth it

    • @Foofightersgirl666
      @Foofightersgirl666 4 роки тому +4

      This song is extremely deep for me as well 💗.

    • @pru666
      @pru666 4 роки тому +8

      I hope the future is far brighter for you, you’re worthy of a good life full of love. Chase it down and don’t stop. Your family doesn’t define who you become and what you can achieve.
      I believe in you

    • @chrissyguerra-schultz752
      @chrissyguerra-schultz752 3 роки тому

      Me too. 💘 It will all be okay.

    • @mjgirafalco
      @mjgirafalco 3 роки тому +1

      You give me hope that I can get away and escape the fighting to. I’m 17 and my parents fight everyday.

    • @EmceeIntricacy
      @EmceeIntricacy 3 роки тому +3

      18/19 years later here

  • @veroniques-t7575
    @veroniques-t7575 10 місяців тому

    Love this song so much... hasn't aged at all. And the acting performance of that little girl 😍
    Cheer up to all the people who come from a dysfunctional family...🙏🏽

  • @judithcardenas18
    @judithcardenas18 7 місяців тому +2

    Grande Pink. La forma en que muestra que mientras no sanemos a nuestro niño interior, no nos podremos concentrar, trabajar, avanzar, etc al 100% de nuestra capacidad y vamos por el mundo como en automático, dándole duro pero, en el fondo, hay algo que no está completo, que falta. Lo bueno es que ahora hay mucho sobre cómo sanar nuestro niño interior.

  • @anacontreras8599
    @anacontreras8599 10 років тому +38

    The first time i heard it i cried because this is exactly my family

  • @dianaoviedo4315
    @dianaoviedo4315 Рік тому +388

    31 years old and it still hurts to sing along.

  • @tanyaali878
    @tanyaali878 Рік тому +2

    i remember latching onto this song as an eleven ish year old, not being able to understand the older Pink in this video...Im 30 something years old now. No song has captured the angst, that hope and that child within me, within all of us adults of broken homes better than this audio-visual experience. thankyou Pink for helping me deal with shit and knowing that I can make peace with it

  • @malakisands8180
    @malakisands8180 8 місяців тому +3

    This was my upbringing only difference was parents treated us kids as we didn’t exist. Living in a big house but a Nuclear relationship that no one outside of those walls knew how bad it was. Many people have dysfunctional families and we come together through music I saw thank you Pink for having a voice that we can hear and relate