What we got wrong about bay area dating (SF vs. South Bay)
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- Опубліковано 19 січ 2022
- Bay area dating is the hardest in the world. Here's why and what you can do about it as a single guy.
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I’ve seen this. Travel to LA often and dating is 10x easier there as opposed to the Bay where it’s basically dating on hard mode.
i had the same experience when moving from bay to san diego then LA!
Holy crap, I've been living in the Bay Area my whole life and this was eye opening to watch
Dude thank you! Living in SF as a single male, I’ve been feeling like I had this image of myself as an average looking guy, and dating here has like shattered that image along with my self esteem 😂. But looking at the data helps a lot!
Glad I could help!
Dang... I live in the bay and you're right. If you can date well here you can date well anywhere.
San Francisco females are not appealing at all
Woman here, wanting to get married and care about my looks… so you’re saying I should go to the Bay Area. I was already thinking about it and this was great news. I’m in a state I don’t want to live in so I don’t really want to date here then get stuck here. I’ve always been drawn to California. The crime and new world order vibe concern me a great deal so we’ll see. Great message to the men by the way! Don’t take rejection personal. A lot of women have trauma and aren’t emotionally open, but it is a numbers game and it’s very important to approach women, a lot of us are highly feminine and waiting for you to approach! Good luck everyone ❤
Honestly I wouldn’t move here to find a husband lol but that’s just my opinion as a woman that just moved to the Bay Area, who’s already trying to leave. I also thought I would do that, there’s definitely quantity but quality idk or maybe not for my preferences but I have heard many other women here having horrible time dating even if there are more men 🤷🏼♀️
@@TheMsIoulia you should write a blog.
im from san jose and was living in LA for 3 years …. had a very active and eventful love life put there. i moved back home a couple months ago… and i hate it. dating here is so trash😢
If techies who wanted to date women worked from home, elsewhere, then it would be an easier dating pool for them. Good job using citations and stats, I appreciate that.
np
Moving back to the bayyyyyyy. Yay 😊
lol congrats ?
Ayyyye congratulations!
Those single man/woman ratio maps are awesome. I saw they are from 2012 though. A lot can happen in a decade. I saw somewhere that the disparity between single men and single women in NYC has been decreasing over the last 30 years. I'd be interested to see if ratios in NYC are less favorable for men today vs a decade ago. But current data is hard to find..
great vids!!! i might have missed it but what sitte is that you are using for checking out the ratios? i wanna use it on my local arizona and when i'm booking for future trip
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@@wessee427 check the beginning of the vid I forgot. Visualize . nyc i think
Just head to Pittsburgh, Minneapolis and LA: dating women is a breeze.
The bay area is truly a hellscape for dating lmao even a fresh account on a dating app will get like 1-5 likes a week for an average guy.
I'm from the Bay Area and I can confirm this. Now I live on Kauai and it's just as bad. While there are a lot of young single transient women in their twenties here, trying to find a halfway attractive single woman over age 35 here is about impossible. It's nearly impossible just to find one you can hit on. It's really bizarre it's as if a plague has come through and wiped them out. When you combine that with the low population of the island it's an impossible situation. Tinder will literally show you nobody. I'm sure most people have never seen that, it says "we suggest you expand your geographical boundaries" or something like that.
Was in North Shore recently in Hawaii. Great and nice looking single women. Choose your picks. Downtown San Jo at 11:30 at bars: wall to wall dudes with few women thinking it's cool to be mean.
It's all the techies fault! The tech jobs made all the men gravitate toward the bay area! Before the tech industry men and women ratio imbalance didn't exist!
I feel like this is a response to my comment on your "best cities" video. Hah. Yeah, I'm at a crucial point where I need to decide whether I go to SF or NYC. Need to think about the tradeoffs. Like, I probably like the mind of SF women, but prefer that NYC women take pride in their appearance.
The data is obviously not as horrible as in the past. But it seems like empirically people find it easier in better ratio cities.
I'm at the point where I want to get married within the next ~5 years. And I feel that I'd be shooting myself in the foot if I go to SF over somewhere like NYC.
(To be clear, I can find jobs elsewhere, but the highest impact jobs are in SF for me since I work in a very specific area in AI and there's only a handful of places to go and they are mostly in SF and prefer working in office.)
The mind of San Francisco women is a crazy one. They are not fit for marriage, same with New York women
SF would be the better choice. NYC is a shell of what it once was pre-Covid. Also, crime and cost of living has gotten a lot worse in NYC.
Looking for a husband in the Bay Area
I live in the Bay Area, actually in the heart of Silicon Valley…. I don’t see any men…😂😂😂
Omg… that’s silly. You guys are way too smart to be rejected. But I will say that many women come to the Bay Area to meet men because of their high salaries, not realizing that silicon men are intelligent and smart, so if you have no brains and only depending on your looks. Good luck ladies. You need both. For me as well, it’s difficult to engage with men that aren’t smart, because silicon men are intelligent. I love technology, having open minded conversations, when I leave the Bay Area, I find men outside if this area don’t have too much passion.
For males you have to be white to get dates in the Bay Area. Bay Area is the most white supremacist place in the USA.
everyone is aisan or indian in SJ…😅
Both NY and San Francisco females are not worth the trouble
They be opportunistic
*women
How would you characterize single women in SF and NYC? And in what city would you say they are worth the trouble?