the comment section. That's another place to meet someone. When you watch/read blogs that interests you, leave comment. Someone might like your comment, strike up conversation with you which may lead to meet-up outside. Good luck.
THANK YOU 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 I am 26 years old and never dated. There is so much I've been unlearning and learning. My religious upbringing set me up for failure relationship-wise, and I've been working on myself to heal from all the trauma and unlearn and relearn. Everything you said has been me all my life.
I’m 22 and always scared to go on dates, this is partly because I have never been in a relationship and I don’t want to be perceived as a JJC or taken advantage of. May God help me 🥺
Open yourself to meeting people it will help. Take notes of some of the things she said especially the sex conversation, try to avoid manipulative people. Be open about yourself (intentions and needs) while you don't take shits remember mama raised a queen 🥰. I'm 23 myself but I think older generation will have more advice for you. Also, spend your money and time in relationship it help you to value yourself more and earn respect for yourself so you don't take shit because of money or maybe because you have not spent enough time with the person. Don't make excuses for people, you have informed them about how you want to be treated don't take shit more than once or twice. I mean leave, it enough time already.
🌟 One thing I wish I did while dating in my 20s is that I wish I didn’t hold people to the same standards to which I hold myself. I can be a bit strict with myself so I thought that allowed me to be strict with the qualities that women I dated or talked to had. For example, if she used to go out or party a lot I felt like it meant she wasn’t a serious-minded person. I’ve since learnt that people are different and you can’t force your values or ideals on others especially when dating. Dope video Bimbs. Have a fab week. 😉🥂🤗
I do this too, I’m sort of an uptight person and also like to be private so I hold other people to this same standard. I can’t comprehend it when the other person isn’t private and uptight like me and is so carefree. I subconsciously think they were not serious-minded people and they’re immature and this has made me move away from them without giving them a chance. Meanwhile, they’re literally just living the way they want, dancing and posting random videos and I’m over there rebuking their immaturity. I’m still working on this but BOY! Is it so hard!
I had a friend that dated so serious in our 20’s. While I was having fun getting to know different guys while tasting different foods and going to do different activities. I would tell my friend these stories and one day she called me a serial dater and insinuated that she did not believe me when I told her I was not intimate with these men. After 3 years of dating, by 25 I was happily married while she was going to her Pastor asking for prayers for a husband. I did it my way, slightly untraditional, but I’ve now been happily married for 10 years. Don’t let people dictate your life with their opinions and stories, God will lead you if you remain obedient. Thank you for sharing many young women need to hear this. ❤
I'm 24, and I've been coined to be aggressive towards men. Honey, I will not be sweet and tender to the ass of a man who is the complete opposite to me. Being upfront is very important. I know I'm sensitive and being that is just clear grounds that I can not do the dating to see how it goes thing. Thank you for this lessons Bimbo, I thought I was crazy for being the kind of woman I am.
I'm also 24 and not the sweetest with men but I've recently gotten to know a guy who tames my aggressive side because of how good of a character he has. I don't feel like I need to bring that side out with him
So so beautiful, I'm 25 now and my relationship is beautiful for me, we go out together with his friends have fun and enjoy every bit of it. My boyfriend is my bestie 💃💃💃 I wish everyone true love🙏
Hi Beautiful Bimbo😍❤️ Love all the points… but You are where you are meant to be right now at this very moment 🙏🏾 You are unique and your story will not be like everyone else. You did not miss him. Every man you did not give a chance was the right decision! When you finally set eye on your soulmate you will understand. When the appointed time comes…, you will understand why I said you are unique! Habakkuk 2:3 🙏🏾 Stay blessed❤️
Wow. Thank you so much for taking out of your precious time to share these tips with us. I will also love to add that; Trust in the Lord completely, and do not rely on your own opinions. With all your heart rely on him to guide you, and he will lead you in every decision you make. Become intimate with him in whatever you do, and he will lead you wherever you go. Proverbs 3:5-6 TPT Ps.32.8 - I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will guide you with My eye. God is still in the business of leading men when they rely on Him, although we all have our choices to make; but He has advised us to choose Life. Much love❤️❣️❤️
This is so insightful . Thanks Abimbola. I love the part about practice dating. Self dates are such a good way to show self love and care. We usually can't give to others freely what we can't give to ourselves. Thanks again.
Thank youuuuuuu Sis👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🔥🔥🔥 Dating is just to getting to know each and spending time together nothing serious. So you see we women can date multiple men than just focus on one that could waste our time or dissapoint us.
Dating for just dating really resonated with me cos I always focused on what the end goal is rather than being in the moment with the guy and I ended up missing out on so many good relationships
I think it is just a way of families raising girls. I'm not sure I will do any better because I will raise my children how I was raised. Sometimes I'm like I just want to know this person and spend time but you hear all sort about being a lady that you just have to cancel your meetings. It has become a part of me that I have to think about how the person fits into my personality and environment before I accept them.
@@giftursula1637 Of course I do but I don't think children should be able left without supervision. I know that it is done out of love, I see it this way because I'm grown but the truth is I'm always their baby to them. Moreover my parents have done so much for myself and my siblings. So i cant be rebellious because of a guy.
Great tips btw Bimbo. I wish more people become aware of these important tips about dating because it's all done wrong. Lots of folks make dating about sxx and they end up getting hurt. Even if im no longer in the scene, ive learnt a few things to help others with
So glad I'm watching this video. Seriously sometimes we tend to be so serious about these things, dating is really getting to know someone and even if it doesn't lead to marriage nobody should die 😂😂, also finding love in different places should be a thing too. Thank you Bim♥️👏
Ha, infact we have to learn more... Thank you, over enjoyed this... Saving for future... In two months time will be 30 yet single, not ready but this video came in alot handy. I would say I lack the practice part and I hardly go out.
Absolutely enjoyed this video...notes taken✍️. 23 now and I'm glad I get to learn more on this platform. I totally resonate with a lot of the points shared. Realized today I've come to truly enjoy singleness so much in the past few weeks and it's made me super happy...I absolutely look forward to meeting my man and getting married ofc but I'll not stall my life on the journey there. Thanks ma'am ❤️❤️❤️
God bless you Abimbola... U see this ASSERTIVE and BLUNT part made lots of people tag me lotta names back then. Biko be upfront and lets know the definition of the dating
Learnt a lot watching this, and realised a few things I’ve been doing wrong. But most especially, I just downloaded bumble & hinge, excited to see how that goes 😅
By the grace of God,I have started taking steps to the big 30. This video made me so emotional. I found it very helpful. Thank you so much for being honest in your sharing. I learnt alot and I will share this video with my friends .
I'm really glad I listened to this episode of yours. My upbringing is "do not talk any male until you're ready for marriage" and when it's time to marry "wait for one old and ugly dirty church member for only God knows where to come marry you" then they'll tag it "God's will" !!! I go livid every single time this issue comes up especially at home. I'm a naturally endowed young lady with all shades of men chasing. I can't help it but it's annoying and frustrating that my father thinks I'm the one calling them. I don't hold their believes when it comes to relationships. I believe in growing in love with someone from youth age. I'm not the married type and I really wish folks especially my family will appreciate that.
Family especially religious parents try to subject us to what they think is "best" but their definition of best might not be a good choice for us. I will say to you that, as a young woman grow into understanding yourself more, the kind of men you prefer, and what works for you.
I'm frustrated right now. Like I'm a good daughter, I just wish I had dated earlier girls that did her unto serious relationships right now. Like I still have to seek permission, text address before I'm allowed to go out, I'm working ooooo I left university 3 years ago. I'm just tired. Their generation is different from ours but I guess girls are raised to be wives if you think otherwise even as a virgin you are a demon child. Omo, me I'm not the rebellious child but I can't just marry anyone like that even me I'm the price.
@@taofeekatajayi4356 I'm happy you still kept your cookies unopened, but be sure you are doing it not because your parents are keeping an eye on you. Do it because of your stand with God and your values. Secondly, have you thought about getting your own space (it's an escape) but no pressure if you don't want to. I want to assure you that there is nothing wrong with you but if you choose to remain in your parents house, talk to them respectfully to cut some slack on your life. All the best 🤗
This was very insightful, I love that you corrected the notion so many of us have about dating,it does not have to lead to a relationship ,sex or any form of commitment, it is just for getting acquainted. Thanks for sharing,you are one of my fave character of the skinny girl in transit series ( The Tiwa and Mide's love got me stuck on it,I love love💘💘💘💘). It's all love from this end,stay winning and beautiful 😍
Thanks a lot for this Bimbs especially being upfront you talked about and the conversation about sex cause a lot of persons wouldn't want to have sex but always scared to say it out because they believe it will chase the guy away. Have actually learnt a lot about this,always be intentional.
Im 23 and i m so glad to hear this cause thats all i believe and how i approach dating. And i really agree if the fact that knowing yourself ,being intentionnal about what you can and can not stand and having fun(enjoying, taking it easy) while dating are key.
I'm in my early thirty's too, and my only wish is that I was more open minded and less scared. I wish I knew my worth clearly and didn't hold tenaciously to one relationship. I wish I had the appropriate teaching on purity because much of my fears was the fact that most men will always ask for sex. That I wish all these, doesn't mean I'm not grateful for where I'm at. I am open-mindedly pursing good friendship with men at present and I'm liking my growth. Thanks for the content, Bombs!
Hello Ms Craig... I'm 27 and I literally have a lot to say about this video, like a whole conversation but I'm just going to say "Thank you for making this video" and at 27, having dated only once...I think it's safe to say I didn't find this video too late. P.S. Didn't know you have a UA-cam channel until I went through your IG stories today. Absolutely love you 😍♥️
Funnily, I just needed to have to come back here today so the message can sink in because I was about holding things to my chest🤣🤣🤣🤣... As per I get coconut head
Yea Facebook for sure. Didn’t meet my husband there but we didn’t know we were friends on Facebook before we met. So there is a chance Facebook would have still done the trick
@AbimbolaCraig currently watching sgit S7E03 and I just love your acting. Keep giving us beautiful episodes and contents❤️❤️ much love from this side🇬🇭
Every Nigerian lady can totally relate with this video including me typing this now. Cause i am also in this fix, always thinking dating should lead to marriage, here I am still single 😂😂. Hahaha
Seriously I need to be in a relationship, I haven't dated in five years. I don't know y these days I don't feel butterflies for guy. I really need help
Thank you so much... this is really insightful...but i have a question... dating is basically getting to know people do you can as much as you want....but while dating them what are they to you... boyfriend? girlfriend? date? or what?
Absolutely, I'm currently dating 3 people and I'm open to more, more like collect to select here. And like Bims said her definition of dating is mine as well, so I meet different guys,eat out, communicate and all. Nothing sexual and still not an exclusive committed relationship,so multiple dating is cool
Thank you so much ma'am but I have few questions. 1. If dating is just getting to know someone and it's nothing more than that, then, what's the difference between dating and friendship? 2. Would you be cool if your man was dating another lady? 3. If one should not go into dating with the intention of marriage? Then, is it with the intention just to know somebody and then know another person and then know another person? Or... "Let's just see where it leads to..." If a romantic relationship is not defined from the beginning, leading to particularly 'no where', then what's the essence. I'm saying this because I believe if we have nothing in mind, we can just be gees 😎. Or maybe I just don't really understand your perspective, I'll appreciate your answers ma @abimbolacraig. Anyone who has answers can answer too. Thanks.
I also wanted to ask that, i think if you want the end point to be marriage then you have to be intentional about how you date. ALTHOUGH, I get what she meant, I think now you should not skip experiencing the person that you are dating just because you are being 'serious'. Sometimes it is good but just doesn't end in a relationship or marriage and THAT'S OK too! We move!
the comment section. That's another place to meet someone. When you watch/read blogs that interests you, leave comment. Someone might like your comment, strike up conversation with you which may lead to meet-up outside. Good luck.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
So I should always leave a comment on any blog I watch/read😂
THANK YOU 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
I am 26 years old and never dated. There is so much I've been unlearning and learning. My religious upbringing set me up for failure relationship-wise, and I've been working on myself to heal from all the trauma and unlearn and relearn. Everything you said has been me all my life.
I’m 22 and always scared to go on dates, this is partly because I have never been in a relationship and I don’t want to be perceived as a JJC or taken advantage of. May God help me 🥺
Open yourself to meeting people it will help. Take notes of some of the things she said especially the sex conversation, try to avoid manipulative people. Be open about yourself (intentions and needs) while you don't take shits remember mama raised a queen 🥰. I'm 23 myself but I think older generation will have more advice for you. Also, spend your money and time in relationship it help you to value yourself more and earn respect for yourself so you don't take shit because of money or maybe because you have not spent enough time with the person. Don't make excuses for people, you have informed them about how you want to be treated don't take shit more than once or twice. I mean leave, it enough time already.
🌟 One thing I wish I did while dating in my 20s is that I wish I didn’t hold people to the same standards to which I hold myself. I can be a bit strict with myself so I thought that allowed me to be strict with the qualities that women I dated or talked to had. For example, if she used to go out or party a lot I felt like it meant she wasn’t a serious-minded person. I’ve since learnt that people are different and you can’t force your values or ideals on others especially when dating.
Dope video Bimbs. Have a fab week. 😉🥂🤗
💯
I do this too, I’m sort of an uptight person and also like to be private so I hold other people to this same standard. I can’t comprehend it when the other person isn’t private and uptight like me and is so carefree. I subconsciously think they were not serious-minded people and they’re immature and this has made me move away from them without giving them a chance. Meanwhile, they’re literally just living the way they want, dancing and posting random videos and I’m over there rebuking their immaturity. I’m still working on this but BOY! Is it so hard!
@@LoveChyy Hmmm. It really is. I guess we have to learn to chill out a bit and be more patient. 👊🏾
@@titoabumere Yeah, baby steps
True
I had a friend that dated so serious in our 20’s. While I was having fun getting to know different guys while tasting different foods and going to do different activities. I would tell my friend these stories and one day she called me a serial dater and insinuated that she did not believe me when I told her I was not intimate with these men. After 3 years of dating, by 25 I was happily married while she was going to her Pastor asking for prayers for a husband. I did it my way, slightly untraditional, but I’ve now been happily married for 10 years. Don’t let people dictate your life with their opinions and stories, God will lead you if you remain obedient. Thank you for sharing many young women need to hear this. ❤
It's the natural hair for me💖💖
I'm 24, and I've been coined to be aggressive towards men. Honey, I will not be sweet and tender to the ass of a man who is the complete opposite to me. Being upfront is very important. I know I'm sensitive and being that is just clear grounds that I can not do the dating to see how it goes thing. Thank you for this lessons Bimbo, I thought I was crazy for being the kind of woman I am.
I'm also 24 and not the sweetest with men but I've recently gotten to know a guy who tames my aggressive side because of how good of a character he has. I don't feel like I need to bring that side out with him
So so beautiful, I'm 25 now and my relationship is beautiful for me, we go out together with his friends have fun and enjoy every bit of it. My boyfriend is my bestie 💃💃💃 I wish everyone true love🙏
Speaking so much truth...
Sometimes I wish there was dating education at some point in one's life
Hi Beautiful Bimbo😍❤️ Love all the points… but You are where you are meant to be right now at this very moment 🙏🏾 You are unique and your story will not be like everyone else. You did not miss him. Every man you did not give a chance was the right decision!
When you finally set eye on your soulmate you will understand.
When the appointed time comes…, you will understand why I said you are unique!
Habakkuk 2:3 🙏🏾 Stay blessed❤️
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Wow.
Thank you so much for taking out of your precious time to share these tips with us.
I will also love to add that;
Trust in the Lord completely, and do not rely on your own opinions. With all your heart rely on him to guide you, and he will lead you in every decision you make.
Become intimate with him in whatever you do, and he will lead you wherever you go.
Proverbs 3:5-6 TPT
Ps.32.8 - I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will guide you with My eye.
God is still in the business of leading men when they rely on Him, although we all have our choices to make; but He has advised us to choose Life.
Much love❤️❣️❤️
This is so insightful . Thanks Abimbola. I love the part about practice dating. Self dates are such a good way to show self love and care. We usually can't give to others freely what we can't give to ourselves. Thanks again.
Thank youuuuuuu Sis👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🔥🔥🔥 Dating is just to getting to know each and spending time together nothing serious. So you see we women can date multiple men than just focus on one that could waste our time or dissapoint us.
Dating for just dating really resonated with me cos I always focused on what the end goal is rather than being in the moment with the guy and I ended up missing out on so many good relationships
I used to be like that too
I think it is just a way of families raising girls. I'm not sure I will do any better because I will raise my children how I was raised. Sometimes I'm like I just want to know this person and spend time but you hear all sort about being a lady that you just have to cancel your meetings. It has become a part of me that I have to think about how the person fits into my personality and environment before I accept them.
@@taofeekatajayi4356 but don’t you think if you know better you should do better ?
@@giftursula1637 Of course I do but I don't think children should be able left without supervision. I know that it is done out of love, I see it this way because I'm grown but the truth is I'm always their baby to them. Moreover my parents have done so much for myself and my siblings. So i cant be rebellious because of a guy.
I love the Video, I clocked 30 this month and I can say all you say is true.
Great tips btw Bimbo. I wish more people become aware of these important tips about dating because it's all done wrong. Lots of folks make dating about sxx and they end up getting hurt. Even if im no longer in the scene, ive learnt a few things to help others with
So glad I'm watching this video. Seriously sometimes we tend to be so serious about these things, dating is really getting to know someone and even if it doesn't lead to marriage nobody should die 😂😂, also finding love in different places should be a thing too. Thank you Bim♥️👏
Thank you 😊😊 yeah the attractions part I really agree with and every other points too
Ha, infact we have to learn more... Thank you, over enjoyed this... Saving for future... In two months time will be 30 yet single, not ready but this video came in alot handy.
I would say I lack the practice part and I hardly go out.
Me too. Practice is quite lacking on my side
I really needed this, thank you 🙏.
I'm 22 and I'm scared of going on dates...
Hmm
Thanks bimbo this was really helpful
The sex talk is what I always run away from
Thanks for letting me know All these things. I’m in my 20’s
Big ups Bimbo. You just made me realize a lot of mistakes am making . thanks🙏🏼
Absolutely enjoyed this video...notes taken✍️. 23 now and I'm glad I get to learn more on this platform. I totally resonate with a lot of the points shared.
Realized today I've come to truly enjoy singleness so much in the past few weeks and it's made me super happy...I absolutely look forward to meeting my man and getting married ofc but I'll not stall my life on the journey there.
Thanks ma'am ❤️❤️❤️
God bless you Abimbola...
U see this ASSERTIVE and BLUNT part made lots of people tag me lotta names back then.
Biko be upfront and lets know the definition of the dating
This is me, I get that no man will stick to u and all of that just because you know what you want,how you want it. God help us ladies
Really relevant and needed conversation
Learnt a lot watching this, and realised a few things I’ve been doing wrong. But most especially, I just downloaded bumble & hinge, excited to see how that goes 😅
By the grace of God,I have started taking steps to the big 30. This video made me so emotional. I found it very helpful. Thank you so much for being honest in your sharing. I learnt alot and I will share this video with my friends .
I'm really glad I listened to this episode of yours. My upbringing is "do not talk any male until you're ready for marriage" and when it's time to marry "wait for one old and ugly dirty church member for only God knows where to come marry you" then they'll tag it "God's will" !!!
I go livid every single time this issue comes up especially at home.
I'm a naturally endowed young lady with all shades of men chasing. I can't help it but it's annoying and frustrating that my father thinks I'm the one calling them. I don't hold their believes when it comes to relationships. I believe in growing in love with someone from youth age.
I'm not the married type and I really wish folks especially my family will appreciate that.
Family especially religious parents try to subject us to what they think is "best" but their definition of best might not be a good choice for us. I will say to you that, as a young woman grow into understanding yourself more, the kind of men you prefer, and what works for you.
I'm frustrated right now. Like I'm a good daughter, I just wish I had dated earlier girls that did her unto serious relationships right now. Like I still have to seek permission, text address before I'm allowed to go out, I'm working ooooo I left university 3 years ago. I'm just tired. Their generation is different from ours but I guess girls are raised to be wives if you think otherwise even as a virgin you are a demon child. Omo, me I'm not the rebellious child but I can't just marry anyone like that even me I'm the price.
@@taofeekatajayi4356 I'm happy you still kept your cookies unopened, but be sure you are doing it not because your parents are keeping an eye on you. Do it because of your stand with God and your values.
Secondly, have you thought about getting your own space (it's an escape) but no pressure if you don't want to.
I want to assure you that there is nothing wrong with you but if you choose to remain in your parents house, talk to them respectfully to cut some slack on your life. All the best 🤗
@@oluwadinma Thank you. I will be getting my space soon.
You spend your 20s being uptight... then you relax in your 30s
This was very insightful, I love that you corrected the notion so many of us have about dating,it does not have to lead to a relationship ,sex or any form of commitment, it is just for getting acquainted. Thanks for sharing,you are one of my fave character of the skinny girl in transit series ( The Tiwa and Mide's love got me stuck on it,I love love💘💘💘💘).
It's all love from this end,stay winning and beautiful 😍
Thanks a lot for this Bimbs especially being upfront you talked about and the conversation about sex cause a lot of persons wouldn't want to have sex but always scared to say it out because they believe it will chase the guy away. Have actually learnt a lot about this,always be intentional.
This is so good .. I actually thought I was crazy by doing the things you said here .... Now I know better
Merci
1hr later I'm watching you after Posting
Communication cannot be overemphasized. Very Key.
Going to watch this video twice so it can sink.
Im 23 and i m so glad to hear this cause thats all i believe and how i approach dating. And i really agree if the fact that knowing yourself ,being intentionnal about what you can and can not stand and having fun(enjoying, taking it easy) while dating are key.
This is crazy😂😂I’m didi and 23
@@realtordidi 😂😂really???? So i have a twin and im not aware of that...
Not one thing I don't agree with in this video. Plenty sense ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm in my early thirty's too, and my only wish is that I was more open minded and less scared.
I wish I knew my worth clearly and didn't hold tenaciously to one relationship.
I wish I had the appropriate teaching on purity because much of my fears was the fact that most men will always ask for sex.
That I wish all these, doesn't mean I'm not grateful for where I'm at. I am open-mindedly pursing good friendship with men at present and I'm liking my growth.
Thanks for the content, Bombs!
This hit home😂😂
Funny not funny
I’m in my 20’s but I can relate to being uptight, too serious and won’t approach a man
Omo!
Bimbo dishing insights like always.
Loving the Hair ❤️❤️🤩🤩
Hello Ms Craig... I'm 27 and I literally have a lot to say about this video, like a whole conversation but I'm just going to say "Thank you for making this video" and at 27, having dated only once...I think it's safe to say I didn't find this video too late.
P.S. Didn't know you have a UA-cam channel until I went through your IG stories today.
Absolutely love you 😍♥️
Bimbo you have said it all . Thank you for this 👍
So much to learn
Thank you bimbo for this lesson
So much wisdom, Abimbola Peperempe💃💃💃💃💃... Thank you Thank you... Oil dey your head.... Twale 🙌🙌🙌
Funnily, I just needed to have to come back here today so the message can sink in because I was about holding things to my chest🤣🤣🤣🤣... As per I get coconut head
Thanks for being honest
So much to learn.
Thank you very much for this.
Always a delight watching and hearing you speak!!! Love the way you reason too!❤
Yea Facebook for sure. Didn’t meet my husband there but we didn’t know we were friends on Facebook before we met. So there is a chance Facebook would have still done the trick
Gems provided. Loved it ❤❤❤👌🏾🙌🏽
🔥🔥 thank you ma this was just what I needed to learn/understand ❤️❤️
I'm glad that I found this page.
I absolutely have nothing to add cos you said it all.
This video got me to subscribe. Thank you Bimbo🙌🙌🙌❤
Yay! Thank you!🙏🏾
@AbimbolaCraig currently watching sgit S7E03 and I just love your acting. Keep giving us beautiful episodes and contents❤️❤️ much love from this side🇬🇭
I loved this so much. Please keep this coming. Awesome makeup by the way
Insightful and educating
Thank you 🙏
Miss Abimbola Craig, l would so much like to meet you in person, l so much admire your uniqueness 💁♀️
This information was really useful and informative. Thanks😘😘😘
Very helpful, love your content ❤️
Thank you, Bimbs.
Thanks Sissy ♥️
I really enjoyed it and learnt alot too
Yeaaaa, and she is here🥰
Thank you so much Abimbola 😍
I really needed this
Thank you 😊
You are smart 🙏❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Abimbola 💓
Thank you so much for sharing
Loved this video mama!
Thanks for this helpful tips
Every Nigerian lady can totally relate with this video including me typing this now. Cause i am also in this fix, always thinking dating should lead to marriage, here I am still single 😂😂. Hahaha
Everything you said !
Thanks for this ❤
Thank You So Much Really For This....
Motivated!🙌
3rd to comment 🥺..... loving this topic
Please when is SGIT coming back?
Lovely Makeup
Seriously I need to be in a relationship, I haven't dated in five years. I don't know y these days I don't feel butterflies for guy. I really need help
Thanx dear🥰🤗,learnt alot from ur video
Love this video.
Thank you🙏🏼🙏🏼
More please 🙏
I so much relate to this video
Nice one
Thank you so much... this is really insightful...but i have a question... dating is basically getting to know people do you can as much as you want....but while dating them what are they to you... boyfriend? girlfriend? date? or what?
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Lol this is good.
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Thank you 😊...eat indomie got me laughing 😂 🤣🤣
Does this mean dating more than one person at a time is okay?
Absolutely, I'm currently dating 3 people and I'm open to more, more like collect to select here. And like Bims said her definition of dating is mine as well, so I meet different guys,eat out, communicate and all. Nothing sexual and still not an exclusive committed relationship,so multiple dating is cool
@@elizabethashaolu641 all right, thanks
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Thank you so much ma'am but I have few questions.
1. If dating is just getting to know someone and it's nothing more than that, then, what's the difference between dating and friendship?
2. Would you be cool if your man was dating another lady?
3. If one should not go into dating with the intention of marriage? Then, is it with the intention just to know somebody and then know another person and then know another person? Or... "Let's just see where it leads to..." If a romantic relationship is not defined from the beginning, leading to particularly 'no where', then what's the essence.
I'm saying this because I believe if we have nothing in mind, we can just be gees 😎.
Or maybe I just don't really understand your perspective, I'll appreciate your answers ma @abimbolacraig.
Anyone who has answers can answer too.
Thanks.
I also wanted to ask that, i think if you want the end point to be marriage then you have to be intentional about how you date. ALTHOUGH, I get what she meant, I think now you should not skip experiencing the person that you are dating just because you are being 'serious'. Sometimes it is good but just doesn't end in a relationship or marriage and THAT'S OK too! We move!
Thank you Abimbola ❤