Don't Be Afraid To Be Seen Trying
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- Опубліковано 17 вер 2024
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fun fact: i legit thought Busta Rhymes said that part but realized it was [redacted] - charge it to my head not my heart!
say something nice about yourself in the comments! DO IT
i am powerful~!! (growing channel xo)
I'm a fantastic mediator. I have an open heart.
I'm patient and kind :)
I MAKE BOMBASS COOKIES
I dork out about some of the most seemingly mundane things, have these little bouts of joy. And I like that.
I have been paralyzed by the thought of being seen as a novice at anything. Not in 2021. We failing EVERYWHERR until I figure it out.
Yeah why do we feel this way? Like even if Im by myself and I don’t execute something the way I envisioned it the first time I get so down on myself. It’s so weird.
Can I watch? Jk. But I genuinely love this comment. I need to get more comfortable being seen failing.
Love this 💯
Yes!!!
PERIODT 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Congratulations to ME for passing my last exam, turning 24, and graduating from college ALL IN THE SAME WEEK! ✨✨
Sis screaming CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!You did that!
Whaaat!? That's HUGE baby girl!😃
Congrats it’s nice to hear someone winning 😊
"I am intelligent and capable. What I do not know I am able to learn" -QueenGCreative
I like this!
I love this.
Love this
Whos Here From Berleezy To Support
Here bro euuuuugh
Yess vid does not disappoint 👌
Me bru eughhh
Right here!
EUGHHHHH!!!!!
Something nice to myself: "I did the best i could this year".
YES! Do you baby!
This exact FEAR is what kept me from starting my UA-cam channel for 10 YEARS! I thought, “my life isn’t interesting enough, nobody wants to hear what I have to say😓.” But you know what, I took that leap of faith this year in April and even though I don’t get all the support I would like from family or friends, this community has been so welcoming and positive so far. And it feels good to know that I am encouraging other moms and making a difference in their lives by sharing my motherhood journey and tips as a doula. I’m not afraid to be seen trying anymore ❤️. Thank you for this video, it definitely encouraged me to keep going 😌!
Well done for getting started.
@@sharlaamysamuel Thank you so much ☺️🙏🏿!
Found my mantra for 2021: “Don’t be afraid to be seen trying.” *adds quote to 2021 bullet journal*
Cause I SHALL be trying some thangs in 2021!
I’m with you sis! Let’s get it!
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Yaaass ma'am!
Same girl!!
SAME. Here’s to manifestation 🥂!!
"We're not jumping together fam, because I feel like you're showing off" lol
I’ve learned that it takes a year of people seeing you trying before they start to support you.
Wow that’s good !!! Like a good observation
ay yay yay 😪
@@ladiepink Yeah, I try new things allllll the time. If you truly put yourself out there and give it a real good try. At the year mark, you will start to see people responding and acknowledge your effort.
THIS!
Interesting. That makes sense. People usually don’t want to emotionally or financially invest into something that they will get burnt on. So giving them that sustained period of effort must build trust and probably some, ‘Oh shit, I want to get on this train to so I don’t get left behind!’ FOMO feelings
Berleezy sent me here, & because of how this quality content resonated, I’m here to stay 🤗
Never ever has a piece of “online content” resonated so deep in my spirit... thank you
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This!!!
I felt that in my soul tbh. This video has come at the right time.
Ma’am get out of my head I was just thinking the same thing!
*EEZY GANG HAS ENTERED THE CHAT
EEUUUUUUGGGGHHHHHH
EEEUGHHHHHHH
EUGHHHHHHHHH
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Kids are the best example of this, they're not afraid to fail in front of people
THE innocence of babes
I was afraid. I would rehearse things in my head over and over and I would hate doing something if I wasn't immediately good at it. My mom told me once I was the kind of child who was quiet for weeks and then would suddenly know a bunch of new sentence structures.
I've been telling myself "I want to try too many things to be afraid at being bad at them". Life is too limited if you only want to do things you're good at. Thank you for this.
Calling people “butts” feels very Spongebob and I’m absolutely on board
😂 facts 💯
Evelyn: Say something nice to yourself.
Me: I'm not a *butt of a person* 😏
You have a great sense of humor 🤣How about that 😁
My mantra this year was “Don’t be afraid to be bad at something new” and it’s amazing what you discover about yourself when you literally just allow yourself to be human/vulnerable.
Amazing matra! I've found myself punishing myself whenever I can't just do something right away. Which is an absurt standart to hold yourself to anyways, so this ''Don't be afraid to be bad at something new'' in combination with ''Don't be afraid to be seen trying'' are gonna be my new mantras.
I just showed my friends some of the poetry I’ve been too embarrassed to share! It was horrifying, but it felt good to show something I’ve worked hard on!
As a mother of an adult son who suffers from severe anxiety, who worries so much about looking foolish or be seen as a failure, I really appreciate this WORD! So true!
"i don't want it to LOOK LIKE i don't know what i'm doing" i felt that 😅
the people who are hating on you for trying are projecting their own insecurities on you
nothing but the truth! you trying is making them feel guilty for not trying. so they try to make you stop.
this makes so much sense
This statement gets truer every day for me
Berleezy sent me eughhhhh!! This video is fire✨✨
How did you know i needed this Evelyn? How. Did. You. Know?!!?
She's that voice inside our heads.
I think we all need this right now. 😅
Right!!!
Whew, I needed to hear this!! I'm lowkey applying to grad schools abroad but don't want to tell anyone in case I don't get in. But uhhhh I have to tell them so I can get a letter of rec.
Whew! Your timing is always impeccable. Needed this now, more than ever ❤️.
Riiiiiiight? Cause same🥺
RIIIGGGHHHTT. I've been afraid of being seen all my life. But to get where I want to be in my music career, I gotta share it. ❤
we got this!
Amazing! Really needed!
Here from Berleezy video.
You can be Inspiring too! DON'T ALWAYS OVERTHINK EVERYTHING, you got this thing called LIFE! DON'T TAKE IT FOR GRANTED!❤
"Antonette, you aint got no followers on UA-cam like that. Just post the poetry already and have fun!"
Yes!!!!!!
I would love to subscribe to some poetry, whenever it may be, whatever it may be, for however many people it may be!
Edit: as long as I am ok as an audience, and I totally understand if I am not for whatever reason
@@zachklieman2141 Thank you so much Zach! I really appreciate the support. This is my actual UA-cam channel if you want to follow it. :)
I just watch the one on confronting your emotions! I loved it :)
This is me!! I've literally been sitting on my work for over 5 years 🤦 I have NO IDEA what I'm so afraid of.. I'll support you if I can.
Watching this for a late-night mid-Masters thesis pick-me-up.
Self, you're trying your hardest to beat your bad brain blues back, manage untreated ADHD, and graduate with your M.S.. You have come far and you should be proud! No one is perfect, and no one (including yourself) should expect you to be. You're doing your best right now. Keep moving forward!
Not being afraid to be seen trying took me from 1 sale on Etsy last year to 58 this year! 🙌
congratulations! so excited for your growth and your continued growth! keep goinggggg
Where are you now in progress with your etsy business?
I’m here from berleezy channel. He wasn’t lying very inspirational and pure positive I’m subscribing
Something nice about myself is that I am incredibly resilient & I'm grateful for that.
I feel like this should be a whole class in school, starting elementary/primary, to build this mindset!
Yes!!!! Totally agree.
Brene Brown put me on to a poem by Ted Roosevelt I think. It’s called “The man in the arena”. Y’all if you haven’t seen it, check it out
Thank you for this
I've seen her do it on a TedTalk....so good.
"Those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat" Powerful...I'm printing this out and putting it on my wall, thank you
I almost wanted to cry because I've been going through intense creative hesitation for a while with great ideas that I was just so afraid would flop and I really needed this. Thank you so much.
You can do it!! 😃
😭😭😭I'm experiencing the same feeling.
Thank you everyone. I don't even know y'all but I'm big bb touched 🥺💜🙏🏾
and tbh let it flop until you fly
Came here from Berlins video, had to drop a like great message!
My self compliment - I am resilient. Even if I don’t feel like it.
I needed this, was feeling like giving up on my brand. Something nice: I am good at creating something from nothing.
That tweet for chadwick man...the feels !!!!
just came over from berlinnnn, i’m about to binge all of your videos
-sees Evelyn-
-sees the title-
-immediate click-
Something nice about myself: It took a moment, this blinking cursor. But I can do what it is, whatever I put my mind to.
Just received my well-earned certificate in Personal Styling this morning and I REALLY needed this pep talk
I went from not being able to run one mile to running 26.2 miles. I wasn’t afraid to be seen trying and someone stopped and helped me. I’m fearless!
Great! Your name should be "one less obstacle"...
This is exactly the message I needed after getting the news I got into grad school in Ireland. Don't be Afraid to be Seen Trying
*"people are butts"* ~ my new mantra for sure | tarot channel xo
That's definitely a lesson from 2020 🤦🏿♂️
@@alexricky87 yees lmao~
So “don’t be afraid to be seen trying”, if that’s the motto then I won’t be afraid to be seen struggling because this college thing is getting tough. But I know that what I’m feeling now is only temporary. Self anxiety is a butt, but I hope that myself and others can become more aware of who we are and what we want. Thanks Evelyn From The Internets, your content is always well needed!
this hit different.. might’ve just changed everything for me
I appreciate my intent and effort towards becoming my most authentic self, and having compassion for myself when I think I come short
The unexpected “let’s go” left me in tears.
Me to me: "You're smarter than you give yourself credit for!"
I started an MBA in Oct and we had our first group presentation that was the final grade for a class today and I did pretty good :)
@Lakeisha Carter Thank you!
something nice to myself: i love how passionate and resilient i am. i admire how brave and unrelenting i am in living out my dreams. i am proud of me :)
I am resilient and will continue to grow in every area of my life no matter the obstacles.
You are as eloquent as you are hilarious -- needed this message, so so badly.
This is exactly why I started to repeat my daily affirmations:
I am smart
I am gentle with myself
I am deserving of patience
A word 🙌🏽 ⛪️
I am resilient.
I am loved.
My best will look different everyday.
“Prioritize yourself and your community over the people who may be watching from the sidelines of your life” WOW. As someone who recently turned 26 and juust started trying to make my art a real something while seeing others who have done it for less time and are just soaring... this meant so much. Because I can feel like welp, I guess I should give up now. Little things like this give me another little push to continue.
You are now MY fairy godmother ( does that make Ira Glass my fairy great godfather? )
"I don't see how you can hate outside of the club, you can't even get in." -Evelyn the GOAT 2020 :)
I say "Don't be afraid to be seen trying" to myself like 20 times a day, and it's because of YOU! It's literally helped me so much. Thank you ♥♥♥
literally same!
IKR ima add this now
Here from berleezy thank you for this inspiring video
Dear self: it's ok to do what you can do, now, so that you can do what you're supposed to do, later.
I'm proud of myself for fighting thru adulthood. It has been hell. Thru the many failures, setbacks, let downs, depression, you name it, I'm still here. And that means something.
Something nice about myself:
I have a warm smile 🌻
Some years back I wouldn't have known I'd still be here to this day. I'm grateful for sticking around, choosing to keep living through the good and bad, making the most out of those buckets of love, beacons of purpose, sparks of joy, dashes of radiance along the way. Stumbling but trying and happy to be.
my personal version of this phrase is: “Take it easy, but take it” Thank you for this lil pep talk you’re an inspiration! Love from the Philippines 🇵🇭 💙
love that!
@@katrinab7657 Pls feel free to use it as a lil reminder! I hope it helps, stay safe 🧚🏻♀️✨
I had this phrase up on my whiteboard at work this week. Salamat po for the reminder!
@@elfcare glad to be of help, Maligayang pasko at manigong bagong taon love! 🧚🏻♀️✨
I find myself not only afraid of the snide comments, but of the compliments too. Having someone point out a change I made, even in a positive way, feels like I'm suddenly a specimen on display for everyone to evaluate. Like, I want to make a change and just have no one say anything.
I will say I've been a lot more open and vulnerable with people this year, and it's paid off. I'm proud of myself for that.
Something nice to myself: If I want it, really want it, I never come back without it!
Late to the party but message received. The fear of looking stupid has prevented me from taking real risks in life. Slowly but surely im moving into a space of being seen "trying" because I'm human and I've finally accepted how normal that actually is. Thanks for the reminder! ✨️
"Your conviction and your convenience don't live on the same block."
Glad Berlin put me on sis spittin straight faxxs 🙏🏿 , already hit that subscribe button 💛
Something nice to myself: I'm doing better, and slowly relearning how to take care of myself. The amount of time it's taking me is driving me crazy... but it's still progress.
I feel this on a personal level. Such a slow process... But at least we are still moving
Thank you
This is something I'm slowly learning. What helps me is remembering that people can't help you if they don't know you need it.
Whew child... My head was nodding through this whole video like it was a 90's era hip-hop jam. Something nice... "Girl, you try every day and you've come a long way. I'm proud of you."
Humility is beautiful, Humility with Faith by Works is inspiring, Humility with Faith by Works in Love is divine. Thank you for this second wind, this breathe of fresh air. First time hearing/seeing the words “Don’t be afraid to be seen trying” but to know that process has started and now I am encouraged I am blessed by this. 🦒 God Bless You!
On my tombstone, just write “She tried!” All I can do is try. Thanks for this video! I always try in private, but now it’s time to go public.
Something nice about myself: I have lots of potential, the resources to nurture my potential into greatness, and now the motivation to wobble in front of y’all while I get there.
I went from a D average to straight A's and EVERYONE watched me struggle haha. Most were supportive but some were butts. I always knew I was smart, I was just too scared to try. This video was everything!! Thanks for keeping it real! xoxo
BERLEEZYYYYYYY
Yep, y'all gonna continue to get these on the 1's and 3's Mandolin strums because *I'm having fun gotdangit!*
My body is changing and while that is sometimes unsettling, my spirit is essentially the same.
By the grace of God, I've had the strength to finish my Masters. I'm not in the career I dream about, but I've started to take the first steps to get there. One day I'll be a Counselling Psychologist 🙌🏿
I came hear after watching Beerlezy's video. Both of you give very inspirational messages, thank you.
I’m really funny, at least I know how to make myself laugh, and I effortlessly make the people around me laugh 😬
I make myself laugh all the time! It's a GIFT!
Sometimes these videos be hitting different.
Something nice to myself: I’m grateful for your perseverance.
The twists comment made me spit out my tea though
Woooooow you have no idea how much I struggle with this. All my life, literally since I was a child, I would maneuver around simple tasks in public because I was scared of being seen. Even with simple things like walking down the street, if there was a crowd I’d walk around the block. I am just now starting to step out of this bubble at the age of 23. Thank you for this!!!!! Really thank you! No one ever in the internet has talked about this problem in this way. Thank you!!!!
Words of wisdom. And because you asked: I do my best for my patients everyday because I really care about their lives and happiness.
Berlin pmo & she speakin facts though
Yeah I was watching his video, and this video randomly fell in my recommend.
I am kind and intentional with my feelings.
1:08 I have been thinking about this idea for years and this is the first time I heard somebody else bring it up. 🌟
*Don’t be afraid to be seen trying.*
I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately.
I owe you a debt of gratitude for putting this mantra on my radar. ✨💕
Building a life thats inching closer to the one you want to live! Whoaa. As someone who definitely feels a pressure to be "put together" and "perfect" all the time, this was GREAT
This was timely.
Something nice about myself: I am smart and able to do anything I set my mind too.
I’m smart, I am beautiful, I am loving, and I am allowed to love myself. Thank you Evelyn, I’ve always been afraid to be seen trying because I’m afraid of looking like I’m failing. But if you’re afraid of being seen, no one will see you shine.
"There's nothing wrong with getting rest."
Eezy gang 🤘🏾
Something nice: you tried something new, the pandemic hit, you adapted, and succeeded. Faith thru struggle. Life still sucks, but you don’t.
💯💯💯 life sucks but you don’t!! YASSSS
No one will see this : BUT I want to say thank you. I honestly was struggling, here’s why.... I gained 100lbs . I today I have lost some water weight which in my book is still lbs I need to see off the scale . I’ve been on my diet for 1 week and have lost 11lbs. I’m huge 240 lbs and I’m very small in height but I’m trying. My diet coach today asked me to be part of a 1 week success picture to put on Facebook, I said yes but later I freaked out. I don’t have social media. I’m afraid of my stomach being in peoples faces. I don’t want people to see me fall and this is helping me .
I am about to graduate from grad school with a 4.0 with a 3 year old, a husband in fellowship, and in the midst of a pandemic. I'm going to celebrate out loud because I worked hard and earned the right to be celebrated!