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She Got Mad At Him... FOR DOING WHAT SHE ASKED HIM TO DO.
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I'm sorry but I agree with the girl sometimes females be like no it's okay just because we're trying to be polite but a man should insist on this woman safety I thought y'all as men would know that
... Did it ever occur that we dont wanna insist because you might find us creepy or pushy?
Next time you say no to any man dont be mad if he keeps pushing... YOU ASKED FOR IT. I swear, some of yall want men to be respectful of boundaries, no means no, pushy, persistent, mind readers & communicative all at the same time. RIDICULOUS.
Man pin of shame instantly lol 😂 If you want us to wait with ya tell us, don't do stupid test cuz guess what, play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Y'all ain't independent no more? 🤨
I get it but at the same time if you say "no, it's okay" we assume it's okay because we don't want to be annoying
pin of shaaaaaaameeeeee
As a 45 year old woman I find it mind boggling that people expect a relationship to be built on trust, truth and maturity but start on a foundation of “games.” 🤦🏾♀️
Exactly. When she said “you don’t have to wait” instead of “Thanks for waiting with me”, she played herself. Just be legit instead of playing games.
well said. It is rare i hear a woman talking some sense. But good comment. If only women realised how simple we men are. But ladies read Cosmo magazines and watch feminist videos and twist and complicate everything. Like Dave Chapelle said there ain't no 10 days to please a man. We don't ask don't for much. 😏
Every couple I've known who bragged about starting out that way is split, or I can see it coming. People still look at me sideways when they ask what my secret to being married 20 years with no major fights is.
Clear communication and no "tests". I'm not a teacher and I'm too tired to grade something I'm not getting paid for.
@@raypatson8775 I hope there's some sarcasm in there because that's an awful take. Don't lump all men together, or women either, people are different.
🙏🏻😂
She is the type to find reasons to argue so she can “spice up” a relationship.
She has stalker vibes too. It wasn't even a date. She "bumped into" the poor slub, they were just "hanging out' and look how she's acting 😳
On some Amber Turd, "Every time we get into a fight you just split", type shi 😂
I got the same type of vibes too … well besides urge I had to punch her in the face for being so arrogant yet so high maintenance at the same time and trying to be sexy too
If you want to spice up the relationshipfor her, dust some chili powder on her eyelids while she sleeps and then wait for her to wake up and rub her own eyes
A real spice for me would be her cooking a special dish…you know with all this “female liberation” is pretty rare to find girls that are good cooks in their 20’s
As a man, I also run tests. When I'm interested in a woman I ask her out... and if she says no I won't ask her again. Boom.
A man of infinite wisdom 🫡🫡🫡!!!
👏👏👏
That’s real game💯
My go to has usually been "if you change your mind let me know." That way she doesn't get the chance to be angry that I didn't ask again. It's clear that I'm not asking again and she shouldn't expect me to ask no matter what signs she thinks she is giving me that she wants me to ask again.
“It is 4 am, in Miami, Florida… it’s super dangeroussss…” Then why the fuck are you there? How could you even think to blame him
People in Tulum like to live is so dangerous everyone was like how dangerous the weather that I was like OK I’m not gonna fucking move there if it’s so dangerous why would I move somewhere that’s so dangerous? Why would I move somewhere where all the people are fucking hot that’s like Tulum or Miami. I’m not fucking moving somewhere with hot people that’s dangerous no one would even believe me if I got raped because they’d be like why would you get raped when there’s somebody hot people around No, he’s gonna rape so like old ugly bitch 😂😂😂 I’m snorting as I type that
I was thinking the same thing
The irony is it's not dangerous because EVERYONE IS OUT UNTIL 4AM IN ONE OF THE BIGGEST PARTY CITIES IN THE WORLD. A lot of people are going to their last spot at that time.
I NEVER want to go to Miami now! I need my 6 hours of sleep, damn it!
Lmaooo exactly ! Why would you put your man in this situation.
So basically the guy did everything right, then you "tested" him with your foolishness, and he went off. This guy dodged a bullet.
A major one
An artillery shell
Women should know the days of men accepting the challenge like Queen Cassopeia issued in the original Clash of the Titans is almost not going to happen now days.
A large one
Exactly. A relationship with a woman like that is nothing but an endless game and being "tested."
I'm loving this new era where women tell on themselves upfront and saving men from wasting their time and money.
How to be alone 101 😂
Men that have no time for games, yes. But if the woman looks like the one in the video, a lot of dudes will put up with this shit. The only reason she can say this nonsense is because she can get away with it
👏🏾
Stop calling them women=Proverbs 31. But instead address them by their proper title until further notice: FEMALES.
@@im.meghan that part
I feel like that brother passed her "security" test before she even implemented it, simply by offering to stay with her as his uber came first. the fact that he offered shows that he cares about her safety, and was willing to inconvenience himself to make sure she was good. The fact that she turned him down, because she wants him to beg to stay next to her, to PROTECT HER, is absolutely crazy.
This one right here
I remember an ex I had told me she hated when men opened the door for her, so I said.. "no problem, saves me energy". She ended up cheating on me and I asked her what was so great about him, and she said "for one thing, he opens the door for me". That moment, was an epiphany. From then on out, everything changed and I was much happier. Figured em out.
yeah she was for the streets
You dodged a hollow point there.
Dodged a whole AT-4 round
Women normally say the opposite of what they mean. Better yet a certain type of female says the opposite of what they mean, a woman will let you know what it is and mean what they say.
"Figured em out." -- bro tell us what you figured out to help your fellow bros.
She literally just said, "I want a guy who doesn't take 'No' for an answer and knows that when I say 'No' sometimes it means 'Yes, and I'll get mad if you don't'."
Stay far away from women like this.
Jonny Depp learning this lesson as we speak.
It depends on the tone of voice of the “no” and the way it was said. If they say it playfully, that’s different from a “no” with a serious tone.
@@KB-ye6rp LOL You know how many men fell for this crap. No means no..
Anything negative happens in the end, playfully or serious, no has one meaning.
Thats mind games on another level. The fuckery here cannot be understated. Lack of rational thinking is a huge turn off to me specifically.
@@KB-ye6rp Nope. No means no. The only exception to this, IMO, is in an established BDSM scenario with proper protocol and safe words in place. Ie, not some dude you met on Instagram.
Otherwise, no means no. Protect your liability, boys. With people like this you're only one argument and a few allegations away from, at best, a ruined life.
My marriage spans 3 decades. This woman expects men to be mind readers and that’s just ridiculous. In a few years she’s going to be making a video talking about there’s no good men left and that’s why she’s single.
And we scroll away.
Years?
Nah nah, I give her weeks after posting that
🎯 Tieia.
Probably already started posting men ain't shiit
We will see her in the Kevin Samuel’s youtube podcast lives in a few year.💯🤷🏻♂️
Lol as a 35 year old woman; This video is proof a large majority of women in fact DO NOT KNOW what they want. Her view on courting started off on the wrong foot to begin with. I don’t assume anything for another person, BEFORE I have had a conversation about my expectations. If you act independent and in the same breath say your looking for a protector why the mind games. State what you want, THEN you can make an assessment as an adult should.
Thank you.
yup 100%
Calling women crazy isn’t sexist, it’s called being observant lol
To me, the main thing is the "high standards" as a veneer, you want the right man, but you won't tell him what your standards are? How the hell can we meet each other standards, if I don't know what they are? Spare me the games, and just give it to me straight.
Miss with all respect, you are 35?? You look like you're in your mid 20's!
She said "first date he needs to be paying" when what she really meant was EVERY date he needs to be paying.
She wants a traditional man but don’t you dare ask her to be a traditional woman 🤦♂️
All I have to say is that the equal test to this is that she better be offering to pay her half. If she isn't at least offering then that is a huge red flag about what her expectations are. And this isn't going to magically get better the longer you date or if you get married. If she starts out on the first few dates believing that your money is her money then it's easy to imagine just how much worse that will get when you get married.
Yep
When she complains about how he left in his Uber after SHE gave him the go ahead.
I’m just thinking that if he insisted to stay and wait, there is a 75% chance she would’ve said “I don’t need a Man to look after me” and then say that’s how you recognize the clingy and possessive men.
In summary, we damned either way
Down D Stairs says hello to you
Damned if we do damned if we don’t, preach.
Yes means no. Wouldn't even try to get with a woman like that, consent turns into rape real quick. "I said you could fuck me but in my head I didn't want you to. You failed my consent test."
Wow, how can you even win these stupid mind games then?
If we’re damned if we do, damned if we don’t we might as well don’t and save ourselves the energy
Her: “I’m cold.”
Me: “You didn’t bring a coat outside in Ontario and it’s the middle of February? You failed my common sense test, you’re dead to me.”
Dude I still remember my clubbing days in my early 20's going out in Feb and March and seeing girls in dresses and short skirts huddled together in line FREEZING because they don't want to pay for coat check. Always found it funny
@@riseofazrael They prolly pay more on their clothes and skirts than my old ass coats and jackets, they just wanna look good in the cold lol
I feel cold just reading this. Brrr. Always wear your Long Johns!
@@riseofazrael lollzzz everybody was young and dumb once. I did this! We wanted to look hot and were poor students. $5 coat check is one less drink. It’s insane now that I am in my 30s. We were so ridiculous! Haha. Hindsight is 20/20. 😂
@@suzannemarie86 anyone ever get hypothermia? I use to see it a lot because I was a bouncer in my student days.
*respects someone’s boundaries*
I cannot believe he did that!
She could've just as easily been like "could you walk me to my car? I get a bit nervous alone at night"....I think that's the main issue. There's nothing wrong with wanting protection, there's everything wrong with expecting someone else to know what you need/want without communicating it to them. It's manipulative
She is the type of woman when asked if she's hungry she will say no then complain when you didn't buy her any food when you go out.
And probably tries to eat your food also completely disregarding how hungry you maybe
Lol honestly I'm alright with women being like this cause I will dodge every single one of these chick's who didn't have a father growing up
@@JustAnotherHipHopHead Some did and we're treated like princesses. So it's not a father issue.
@@zizi5721 yup the ''all the women in the family walk right over/ trample on daddy because he has no feelings'' scenario (wich happens all too often).
@@zizi5721 Princesses state when they're hungry or not😊
A Woman refusing a man’s offer to protect her is NOT “being polite” it’s being immature and in her case foolish!
🗣🗣🎯🎯
Lmaooo that's the dumbest shit I've ever heard to be honest
What also gets me is her being cold in Miami
@@vdub4323 🤣🤣🤣 Question of the damn day!!
Exactly !!! I will not put my safety at risk just to test a guy
If you dead, there is nothing i can do.
Cracked me up right away.
Bruh, wasnt expecting him to say "MY DOMINOS!?!?"
No way that she was actually testing the guy that left her. She felt humiliated and then started to convince herself that she was just testing him to save her own ego.
Sounds about right.
makes sense
Exactly. Another Egotistical Narcissist of Modern Day Toxic Feminism
Exactly my guy
This exactly
"He didn't reject me. I rejected him. Oh yeah he failed all my tests. He's not the one."
She said she followed him on IG. She never said he contacted her afterwards even once. She is salty.
Her: “I’m cold”
Response: “ Well damn Jackie!! I cant control the weather!”
Kelso, the anomoly. Both slayer and yet massive simp.
So unrealistic. He would have been slaying.
Classic example of a women killing chivalry. It's the entitlement. She feels entitled to his protection, not grateful for it. If she was grateful she would have said "thanks I APPRETIATE THAT, I will let you wait with me" instead she wan't to play games and feign disinterest, while still expecting that he will stay. She expects this because she feels like he HAS TO. The problem is as soon as I start HAVING to do a thing, it stops being chivalry, it stops being a kind gesture, it only becomes game.
Bruh it's grateful. But yes you're dropping facts
@@tb8654 good look lol
@@tb8654 and appreciate 🤣
This is the one! If a man shows me kind gestures and is gentlemanly in the way he treats me, it makes me happy that he's being chivalrous, that he values my well being and makes me want to reciprocate. Its actually fairly rare so I like to praise men with good manners so they know it's appreciated.
Entitlement is gross no matter who displays it, and this woman is not only clearly incredibly insecure but also entitled to the point of caricature. Imagine expecting a stranger to indulge in your silly games and jump through hoops to impress you. If she had a lot to offer she wouldn't need to behave like that. If she were genuinely confident in herself, she wouldn't interpret every "failure" of a man to act as she wishes, as a direct slight and attack on her value. I recognise what this is because I was somewhat similar as a teenager. She has a lot of growing to do, or else she's going to end up with a doormat and then wonder why she's perpetually unfulfilled.
IF you pay for hey meal
There is no such thing as love to these women, only leverage. 💯🎯
If a woman plays games cut her off instantly, the more men who have this mindset the more good people will avoid these women
💯💯💯
That is how many of them see men.. the view is a show dedicated to sitting around doing nothing but how to get one up on all men, even when they are obviously incorrect they will bang together in incorrect views just to stand for women as women. All about looks and feelings, not facts.
@@jmcc8718 Problem is, even with the red pill community, MGTOW and just general common sense or men with backbones apart from those communities there is still a massive disproportionate number of simps out there. Which consistently feed into their egos and will continue to do so.
facts! it’s why i say M0ST of em they see us as tools to be used.. an disposed of in this era i guess it’s too much to ask for a chick to love you for you. it’s so much harder than it needs to be fr its guys out
here putting up with gals that’s not even doing the basics..
be attractive
don’t embarrass us (respect)
love an affection
be loyal(don’t be a h0)
just the bare essentials
the fundamentals it’s Not a lot fr
crazy thing is we cool with 60-70% of our list of requirements that’s barely over half.. how pathetic is that
THE SHIRT OFF YOUR BACK PART HAD ME GONE- 💀💀💀
Feminine women would be able to accept the protection of a man without a test. He already offered to stay saying no to him could be a sign that he would make you uncomfortable by staying. Stop 🛑 requiring that people beg you for everything 🥴🥴🥴
Women: "Why do guys treat us like everything is transactional"
Women: Makes everything transactional
This is why I don't condemn Fresh and Fit
I know, I know, they're bonkers
And A&B have some running beef with them
But they're also MIRRORS of the type of behaviour modern wmn display 😆
Wmn are fake cryers and manipulators from age 2
And in their own crude way, F&f are following what Kevin Samuels (RIP) also advised
For instance, one wmn looking for a high value man was told by KS to give up her smartphone !!!
It's common knowledge, wmn, especially wives, cruise for validation, and will monkey-branch if they find enough chad to brag about to her friends
If you want to wife up or be a family with a wmn, she will be more and more excited by the carnival carousel on her phone, than the mundane but stable existence with you
Some women do and sone men do. They deserve each other. Decent people if BOTJ genders don’t do that shit. That’s the kind of woman that fresh and fit deserve lmao. Shallow, disloyal, mean and entitled. Chivalry is optional, both genders should try to do nice things to each other. But also: Be thankful if you girl or boy does these things to you.
@ABT nah its worldwide
@@chikooochikkk6235 NOT ALL WMN! 😆😂🤣
Don't be NICE, if you're a guy.
Some honest wmn have declared practically ALL WMN hate that!
Wmn are basically advanced GAMERS who have been strategising and manipulating all their lives.
When they meet a man who is childishly naive, it's like AAA-FPS level fraggers, teamed with someone who's a newbie.
Gamers find non-gamers frustrating .
They have explicit and implicit contempt for a chivalrous low-experience guy.
F&F shows are often contrived and staged.
But they're on point giving the same sht back at the 304's.
I don't watch their shows much anymore, but I hope they carry on doing what they're doing.
I suggest all male dating app requests should states "NOTHING UNDER 5' 6'' AND MUST BE GYM FIT"
Then wait for the wailing to begin.
@@hardplans2366 virgin trying to explain relationships
She's able to get away with this because of the way she looks. Sadly, there are many guys that will put up with this nonsense
She ain't even that good. Looks like a younger Candace Owens. Probably a lame lay and the second these guys cum they are borderline suicidal realizing what theyre stuck with lol
@Zeb Washburn I actually don't disagree but think about it. She wouldn't be able to continue with this BS if what I said wasn't true. There are enough guys that will put up with it
No, she gets away with it because men now a days have poor taste.
Problem is the guys that will put up with her BS are not the guys she wants.
@@techpro68 True, otherwise she would be married
those two have the best dynamic friends can have! just a joy to watch!
She was in Brickell- it’s super safe even at 4AM. 🤦🏾♂️
If a women tests you wayyy too much and too critically… she’s not that into you.
That girl is a little too average looking to be demanding so much.
@@DeLaTr0ll lol you can disagree without coming for her looks. you just come off as a hater
@@minismalls3096 She's average asf. Now silence
@@minismalls3096 "a hater" you're an adult find something else people can say what they want to no were not appealing to everyone and that's fine
@@minismalls3096 she has literally nothing special about her looks. Pretty average. If she looked like Kate Upton that'd be a different story. 😂🤣
I lost a friend in middle school over this "testing mentality" we were on the phone and we did that whole "you hang up know, no you hang up" and after that exchange ran back-and-forth at least twice I hung up and she passed me a note in class the next day that says we're not friends anymore cause I hung up on her🤣
Bro wtf 😂 you high key dodge a bullet.
you lost literally nothing
Nothing of Value was lost that day
😂 😂 😂 😂
Lol your very first shit test
Ladies and Gents, this test is not hard to understand...
Pay for dinner on first date. = FREE DINNER....
Give jacket on request/ Security Test = SIMP MAN READY AND WAITING.
If a woman needs to have tests to find a partner, then she is obviously bored and entitled in the dating scene. Humble people don't test others, they work together to understand and compromise.
What I get out of this sort of things is that people cant be bothered to take the time to get to know someone. They want a quick easy fix, like they are shopping in a store for a thing instead of a human being. Its so sad.
What I get out of it is that passport bros are onto something.............
She is responsible for her own safety. She wants a bodyguard, she can pay for one.
Get a strap!
Dating modern woke women in america is like witnessing mental illness going unchecked and thinking this person needs help. But you can't say it because "it's s,exist to say it" and you don't want lose your job because the mob will pressure your employer. 🎭
the funny part is if you protect her she saying im a strong successful woman what did you think to yourself doing this i could done it myself if you dont this happens so its a gamble if she accepts or not its a dice roll and if you protect her the law will be against you so if someone attacks and you defend and get stabbed or wounded nobody gives a shet and don't call you a hero and if you take that guy out you will be called a murder and brought to jail and she still running free and nobody says why did that guy aimed at her becouse she was acting strong and give the opportunity for that guy to attack her in the first place by standing middle of the night out with a dude she does not even know and talks about safty test im sure she does not even have hijab so no one can see her face and be attracted to attacking her
I agree. It’s a first date, both of you are still strangers. He offered, she said no. How is he wrong?! How Sway lol?!
The national average cost for bodyguard protection is $20 to 30 per hour. However, a bodyguard can cost anywhere from $75 per hour for one guard at a one-day private event to $150 per hour for executive protection that may require bodyguards on-site 24/7.
If she can afford that, by all means hire a bodyguard.
This woman will eventually meet someone just like herself.
I'm sure that's what she wants.
And then he'll ditch her for a better model 🤷♂️
And that's how toxic relationships are made
Feminist meet up? Happens all the time on twitter.
@David and then it's "where are all the good men."
If you jeopardise your safety by refusing to get in the IUber over a test, it’s clearly not that dangerous out there.
Bruh when Aba yelled”MY DOMINOS” I straight up died of laughter XD!!!!!
She treats her dating life like she's playing a JRPG on survival mode.
🤣🤣
I don't know what that means but that's funny
@@charlesmchenry9371 Its a game where you have a rocket launcher and if an enemy approaches you just pull the trigger and rip them into pieces.
@@babylorvbeats I see I see
“MY DOMINOS!” 🤣 Bruh I love y’all
‘MY DOMINOES!!!😩😩’ 😂😂😂
Fuck your domino's
sounded like a kid who’s pal just broke his toy 😂
no you need better balance!!! 🤣
Lmao sounding like Kendrick dad from GKMC
My pops always told me make sure she gets home safe. As an adolescent I did this but did not understand, as a man I see the potential dangers in not doing so.
Oblivious she doesn’t have a man. I don’t think she should be giving relationship advice
Look at the way she says it: "You're done for"... Like if you fail her tests your life is over or you missed the greatest price in your life. The level of narcissism and entitlement behind those words. She really thinks she is something special...
I'm sorry that there are simps out there who would play her games and put up with a woman like that. I could never, I swear
Lmao the crazy part?? There’s a guy somewhere right now that’s kicking himself in the ass, thinking he missed out 😂 when we get smarter, they get more desperate lol
Female here and Exactly. I bet a lot of men have boosted that big ass ego of hers too…another issue.
She met this guy by following his instagram and sliding into his DMs. She's smoking some primo shit if she thinks there aren't a dozen more just like her waiting to take her spot.
@@yumiko0017 oh they totally have, otherwise her ego and entitlement wouldn't have reached these levels.
Desperate men thinking with their dongs is the gasoline while her ego is the fire.
I know right. Someone's use of language is a greater evaluation of themselves than the message they intend to convey
Dating Women in America seems so complicated. It's like dating children that don't know what they want. Nothing more peaceful than a boyfriend or a girlfriend that is honest about their feelings.
is it like this in other countries?
PREACH
My brother in christ as someone who is foreign women like this exist all over the world good and bad everywhere
@@frivolousarguments8578 to some extent yes
Women over 30 tend to outgrow these mindsets and games... and the ones that don't are only able to keep that attitude by either being 🔥🔥🔥 or great in bed lol
Thank you guys for the sanity… it is really crazy taking over these days.. and there is no place to hide..
Thank you for saying those “look at me now “ lyrics!
Women: WE WANT EQUAL RIGHTS!!
Also, Women: TREAT US LIKE QUEENS!!
😂
Lmaoooo
Feminism isnt about equality. Most feminists genuinly believe females are superior, And men are problematic. Feminism has had a huge impact on society. Men And women are drifting apart in the western world.
So this wasn't even a date?
This was you running into someone with no plans, no date, just someone you follow and he's suddenly responsible for you?
He offered to stay and you said "no."
You not talking to him again is the best thing to ever happen to him.
Forreal
Exactly lol
Crazy thing is people in the comments actually acting like it was a date and using that as an excuse to talk shit about the guy.
The creek on the floor just ads to the commentary, thanks guys
Omg i did enjoy this video.that test at the end got me howling😂
A&P are EXACTLY right. I've been on the receiving end where the "help" they want to offer is just an excuse to get you alone. "I feel responsible for you. I was raised to be a gentleman" pretty quickly can devolve into an aggressive "Anything could happen to you if it weren't for guys like me. I'm doing this for you. What are you going to do for me?" If I tell you to go, I do NOT want you to stick to me like glue.
Teaching a guy that no could mean yes and yes could mean no benefits NONE of us.
So, guys, if a girl can't give you a straight answer about what she wants, and expects you to "fight" for her, IMMEDIATELY stop thinking about that girl and MOVE ON. That's how you can catch a charge...because she doesn't decide what she wants until she decides how to feel about the actions she expected you to take.
Yep.
100%
How about men just stop dating until women grow up and learn how to be direct with what they want
@@torachan23 But then there’s no pussy. Might as well try.
@@torachan23 feel free to hold your breath, no one is gonna stop you.
She hung out with a guy she met at a bar and expected him to take on the role of boyfriend or husband and wait around and protect her after she said she didn’t need it. Then she says he never heard from her again as if to assume he wanted to hear from here again and now he is heartbroken or something. For all we know he was wasted and doesn’t even remember who he hung out with that night.
The loss of context and self awareness is huge problem amonst interpersonal relationships with women.
W
She assumed he wanted more, and he may well have been, "Phew! She gave me a quick out, so imma take it!"
@@joshuasterling2144 Don't generalize us with this loca puta.
Oh, plus, if he DID fall over himself to make sure she was okay, she would find it creepy! Crazy little girl lol
Being single nowadays is a blessing, but the downside is when you wanna settle down you gotta deal with people like this
I agree on 2 points:
1.Men have to pay for the first date. A COFFEE date. Ain't no fine dining yet woman, I don't even know your worth...
2. Men have to look out for the safety of the woman. Can't leave a woman alone at 4AM. But what annoys tf out of me is WTF are you doing out at 4AM on a first date???
Fatherless behaviour
I actually had this shit happen to me about 10 years ago. Picked a woman up for a dinner cruise, she walks out her room with this short dress on, shoulders out, and I'm like "you know we're gonna be out on the water, right? Temp is supposed to drop down a bit later on. You don't want to put on something else or grab a coat?" She's like "no, I'm good. I want to be cute." I'm like "well, at least TAKE a jacket with you" and she's like "I told you I want to be cute! I can't be walking around carrying a jacket." I was like "alright." I had MY jacket, though!
Well, we're on the 3-hour cruise, and an hour and a half in, the temp drops, and the breeze off the water was mad cool. She's over there shivering and pissed because I wouldn't give her MY jacket! Man, you had COUNTLESS opportunities and refused because you "wanted to be cute." She was the "cutest", cold MF on that boat that night! Then go tell me "I hope you don't think you getting no pussy." I told her "I hope you don't think you got the only one in town."
In the words of the honorable Willie D of the Geto Boyz "and if you get cold, you go sneeze, cause I ain't giving you my coat so I can freeze!"
There are ways to be cute with a jacket on. She clearly has no sense of style.
Good job sir. This does not sound like a sensible or resourceful woman. So much of being an adult is just forward thinking. It's anticipating the needs of yourself & loved ones now and later and acting accordingly. A person that can't even think an hour into the future to anticipate her own needs obviously cant think weeks, months & years in the future to support the needs of herself, a partner & possibly children. Maybe she was just immature at that time. 🤷🏽♀️
A dinner cruise and she thought showing half of her ass to the world is cute? 😒Dinner cruise to me means fancy stuff, not showing off like some cheap calle 8 hooker. Good on you for at least trying to get her to bring her own jacket/coat.
Or you could say you can get in my jacket and wrap your arms around my waist then wele both be warm. Win winif not done creepy
This is why I'm so scared for my sons who are starting to date... women don't just say what they want. They leave the man confused. Yes means yes and no means no. Stop the mix signals
💯💯💯
True I'm 28 and my mum was asking me why I don't settle down really mum really it's slim pickings out here
Once they get their heart broken a few times. And snap out of being p whipped. They'll start to figure it out some the life lessions. Just make sure they know women don't like simps. Don't wait on her hand and foot. If you treat her like a celebrity she will look down upon you and treat you like a fan. Your son is the prize not her. Whatever craziness she has or whatever she won't do for him another one will. The first couple you get p whipped over because it's your first time getting to stick it anywhere are the hardest. After that it's not the worse thing in the world. If your ok with women they'll learn they come and they go. Especially after high school. There's a whole smorgasbord of them literally to dab and poke. Biggest thing is teach him protection. Most won't use it after awhile. So spermicides and pull out are a good option on top of her being on birth control. Teen mom reality shows are more popular with the young women then you would believe
That leave a man confused part 💯
☮🙏🏾✌🏾💜protect them kids, it's a weird world we're in right now
Oh my !! I spit out my drink rain. He said that there was nothing 😂😂uthat he could do because you’re dead. OMG
The ending of this video was the best analogy I have maybe every seen!
Can women quit trying to play both sides? Is it equality or situational convenience?
Yes.
Yes.
The latter
Just beat them up theyll learn
It’s the latter and no they can’t quit. Or more likely they won’t. In their nature
When people say "everyone deserves love" I was always on the edge of deciding whether or not that's true. Now it's confirmed for me; not everyone deserves to be with someone who provides love.
everyone deserves chance to earn love maybe sometimes
from the looks of it, she isn't looking for love
Love doesn't exist. This world and all of you are delusional. Stop clinging onto hope it'll kill you. Maybe you're stronger than me idk.
@@minismalls3096 She's looking for a man to be her dad, because she didn't have one growing up. Puta acts like a 12 year old kid that needs to be raised.🤦♀️
I'd say everyone has the right to it, but not everyone deserves it.
This is the mindset of people nowadays. Have a person meet their expectations only to whine like children and tack on more terms and conditions for that person in order to secure their own personal sense of satisfaction.
Hearing a crunch then a grown man screaming “MY DOMINOS!” Had me giggling
This is so wild. As a woman I've found that it's so much easier to just communicate my needs in a relationship FIRST instead of having to "run tests" after to make sure whatever guy I'm going to date is actually someone I would feel safe dating. When people suck at communication everyone involved suffers for no good reason
Yes and no. Men lie and act you know. Telling people what you want in a partner so they can conform to that and then change when they get you is not good.
@@frenchgirl5878 well thats why your single no one wants nasty french cooch anyways its dirty
@@frenchgirl5878 FFS anything to blame the man huh?
There's nothing wrong with filtering low quality partners.
Needs
The main thing I’ve realised now that I’m an "adult" is how unstable and utterly un-self aware most people are. It’s truly starting to piss me off.
IKR?
I think it's self-unaware but I agree with your sentiment regardless.
@@Sandro234 thanks, it took me a long time to give up on how to word it 😂
@@bigacornlavafla1310 try Not Self-Aware
@@AllWillBeRevealed957 “aware of the self, they are not” -yoda
Usually I think the guy would wait to see her get in the Uber, but obviously he didn't like her. Lol
He literally asked though. She said no, he respected and trusted her response. Dodged a bullet in the process.
the fact that the scenario began "i was at the bar and ran into someone i follow" and not "so a guy took me out and..."
that alone means he wasnt even responsible for you being there...like running into someone and expecting them to take care of you is HIGH ENTITLEMENT!
Instead of expecting them to notice your cold and give you their jacket you could always oh I don't know ask for it. Use your words
OR COME PREPARED WITH YOUR OWN DAMN JA-A-A-ACKE-E-E-T!!! 🤔
These hoes ain’t nothin but a wet hole. Your not exotic or rare.
I don't get why asking for something is bad. We aren't mind readers and then you sit there mad and cold
My god she's sounds annoying and difficult for no dam reason. 😂😂
This is why this girl ain’t got a man fellas. She been ran through and at the end of the day she’s sleeping alone.
I used to LOVE "failing" these types of tests back in the day. Once told a girl "I got it" when the bill came at the end of a date. She said "Oh that's okay we can split it". So I was like oh yea? Well go ahead. After, she texted me that she more of a traditional girl blah blah blah not interested in going out anymore. I learned to use reverse uno cards on those "tests" making my decision making with women ten times better. Guys, learn who YOU are and not who you've been told to be, liking what you've been told to like and you'll make life easier and be able to laugh at stuff like this like Aba instead of being frustrated at the state of society.
Exactly, I'd fail these tests on purpose while looking them dead in the eyes😂😂 then call them out and hold them accountable for their stupid games. "You wanted to play games so I played along"😂
love this idea i'll take this to heart
a lot of women are hilarious thinking that if we fail these tests, it’s disadvantageous to us. If she wants to split the bill, the man gets to save money on the date. If we don’t give her the coat when it’s freezing outside, we stay warm. If we offer to stay by her b/c it’s late and she says she’s fine and doesnt need us to stay, we get home earlier and have more time to sleep and relax. A lot of women are really hilarious and kind of self absorbed to think that they are the ONLY women in the world and we are so desperate, we got lucky just to have a conversation/date from her, w/o her even showing her full personality and at that moment in time, just a cute face, which billions of women have at first glance. Keep doing these “tests” and you will end up looking stupid more times than not.
@@K.H1914 Women are collectively told by society that they're all beautiful, special and perfect so of course it makes sense they think that way
i love this duo. you guys are great together...
the only protection she needs is from herself 🤣
I had to watch her segment twice. She said she "ran into" someone she follows. Which means, he brought himself there and she brought herself. So they aren't even on a date! So how can you be mad at someone you're not even dating? If they came to meet each other after previously establishing they were on a date, then yeah I can see her point (somewhat). But the fact she's testing this person as if they already established mutual interest for dating is just absurd. That's like me running into someone I know at the grocery store randomly and she mad because I didn't help her carry her groceries to her car and house. The lunacy in the modern day is astounding...
lmao and even if a man did those things she would call him a simp
I swear it's alot of emotional unstable entitled women out here lol I caught the same thing like this isn't her dude they weren't even on a date
Their girls not women
My guess is that she met him, was into him and he dipped once she said she was good - he was just being kind, after she rejected his gesture he was like "aight bet, peace" and now she's cut up about it.
Women like her think every man wants her no matter what. Most probably do but any reasonable and respectable man wouldn't put up with her shit for long. The type of thing she's doing ruins the chances at a successful relationship right from the very beginning.
She told him he didn't have to wait, so he does exactly as he's told and somehow he's in the wrong. Clearly that's logical
She failed his honest and open communication test.
If a girl has that many demands without bringing something to the table herself....she is a digger
I found a girl who doesn't play games and talks honestly about she wants. We've been married ten years through tons of problems, and are still so close other people think we just got married. Screw games. Screw anyone who isn't honest about what they want. Period. Full stop. There's a girl out there who is willing to treat you with enough respect that she talks to you honestly. Work on your own faults and don't settle for less from a woman.
This. This is what I want.
This definitely reeks of lack of respect for men
I married one of those, too. AND she's old school. She's a good woman and I'd die for her.
This is what I’m looking for no doubt.👌🏾
@Chris Katko That's beautiful. I hope I find that too.
I have no idea why I’m laughing so hard at Aba yelling “My dominos!” 🤣
Yooooo 😭😭😭
"Fuck your domino's ☠"
These girls fall like dominoes.
How is this comment from 6 days ago??
@@gabe8876 gets released to non patreon after a few days
Don’t think valuable people go to a relationship and think to themselves “I’m the best and you are just nothing, me me me”. What’s so hard with…talking, holding hands, understand others as equals?
Me personally I will stay up for that “I’m home” text whether it’s my girlfriend or one of the boys. But I get preach most people forget and won’t say anything til the morning.
I know a woman who while having kids mind you….allowed her electricity to be turned off just to see if the man she was dating(now married) would pay the bill. Even if he had to Rob Peter to pay Paul she expected him to pay that bill. Now also keep in mind she had the money to pay that bill. She just told him she didn’t
So she allowed her children to suffer just to test a man? Did you call her out on her bs?
Some females are idiots. Grown children. Not mature. I knew a few like that and quite frankly they can kick rocks barefooted on a -10 freezing day butt naked.
modern women, ladies and gentlemen
Did he really marry this woman with another man's seed?
Did he marry her or when you say (now married) are you stating he married someone else?
Dating advice:
- know what you like and don’t like
- have respect for yourself
- love yourself
- treat others with respect
- give love to the person that you feel that emotion for
If any of these things are invalidated by a person you are dating/courting then leave that person. It’s hard to do the above, but that’s really the only way. You have to be very aware of who you are.
Move "love yourself" to the top and "be a good and interesting person" right below it, and that's the whole enchilada IMO. You really don't need anything else; the rest is a natural consequence.
Love the women that loves you
@@bryantjonathan1617 CSN: Love the One You're With?
Women having respect for them selfes nice joke 😂😂
Indeed.
The play button aligns so well with the youtube app that I couldn't find the button for a couple seconds lmao I was like where the hell did it just go
You too can be a proud graduate of the Amber Heard school of dating like this young lady! The classes includes "Intro to mind games", "Learning the art of Social Media Warfare" "Personaity Bait and Switch" , "Macro Dating Ecomics I - How NOT to split a bill",Macro Dating Economics II - Getting Monetary Pledges and Donations" and of course "Art 365 - Makeup for all Scenarios" (special course on application for snagging and trapping).
Woman, why have you NOT received more likes lmao, that was spot on and awesome 🤣🤣🤣
I like you, youre funny
"Here are some tests to prove on men"
Let's flip the script and say the exact same thing but say women and see how badly they freak out and call us sexist for it.
Flip the script is a good way to test if it is okay... Not always but most of the time.
Women shouldn't test man & man shouldn't test women! Ppl should grow up and just say what they want
@@blablaalbalb8405 I agree however testing people in a good righteous way can prove to be useful
@@opuil Bullshit, no it doesn't. It blows up in the girl's face and she looks stupid. I saw a movie about that. It's called,"He's Mine, Not Yours". The girl hired some puta to "test" her boyfriend's faithfulness and the guy found out about it and dumped the girl(As he should). I was mad that they got back together.
@@opuil yeah like asking them if they have found Jesus and chucking holy water on them to see if their a vampire or a witch.
It's all a defense mechanism. Asking for what you want is hard, people like this would rather play games then tell themselves the other person wasn't right for them when they don't pass their tests. It requires precisely nothing from them in terms of vulnerability and communication.
This woman is not only clearly incredibly insecure but also entitled to the point of caricature. Imagine expecting a stranger to indulge in your silly games and jump through hoops to impress you. If she had a lot to offer she wouldn't need to behave like that. If she were genuinely confident in herself, she wouldn't interpret every "failure" of a man to act as she wishes, as a direct slight and attack on her value. I recognise what this is because I was somewhat similar as a teenager. She likely has an avoidant attachment style and its manifesting as these games to keep people at a distance and behaving in a way that's easily controllable and "safe".
She has a lot of growing to do, or else she's going to end up with a doormat and then wonder why she's perpetually unfulfilled. Or maybe she'll meet a man who she really likes who calls her bluff and refuses to tolerate her nonsense, so she has to get her act together.
You called it though, its 100% a defense mechanism by someone who is deeply insecure.
I live by the mantra “ no one is coming to save you” I am quite capable of keeping my own ass safe Thankyou very much I don’t need a guy to be my saviour and ladies you would do yourselves wonders if you internalized your locus of control and saved yourself instead of waiting for a guy to come save you. So stop “testing” it’s super disrespectful to the guys. I know for damn sure you feel the same about being tested yourselves. I had to drop a guy because he was “testing “ me and when I called him out he was I was just jokin’ ….nah nah I’m
Havin that, I want to talk to a guy and hang out with a guy face to face in order to build trust not fracking “test” him. I refuse to “test” or be “tested”, I just want to communicate with open honesty. Thanks fellas💜🙏
I get making sure someone got home safe if it's someone you care about, but I don't think a first date or to get strange is where that applies
Wow, she made herself an entire victim of an invisible circumstance.
Women “no means no. Respect boundaries, RISPICT WAHMEN!!!!”
Also women “ it’s 4am I told him it was ok to leave but he should know it’s 4am and not to leave me”
Women, as a guy, we don’t want to come across as creepy. It’s 4am it’s a first date or whatever, maybe you don’t feel safe with us, we don’t know, we don’t want to make you feel unsafe, so if you tell us it’s ok to go. WE WILL GO.
That’s exactly what I thought…like a dude is going to come off creepy if he insists on staying.
Legit, I don’t understand cuz they’re all like NO means NO and if you push something it might come across as creepy. And now they’re like actually when I say no that means yes. Like men are supposed to read their minds. Like O don’t understand does no mean no or does no mean yes
If she liked him enough the conversation and issue would never have happened as she would have insisted on going home with him. These issues only happen when a women is not the physically into a guy.
@@kirkbespokeify 100%
@@kirkbespokeify still would have and I don’t see why she is surprised after saying “I’m fine” a person she met on IG and never before did take the Uber. She said no and so he respected it. Clearly the guy wasn’t interested in going home with her. It’s unnecessary and of course a stranger is not gonna tell you to text him when you get home if he isn’tintredyed
I'm will FAIL that so-called "TEST" ON PURPOSE..period
As someone who watches a lot of true crime, the number of killers who text their victims after they are dead is staggering. They think that will clear them. ROFLMAO. This chick thinks that matters,
When a woman plays games like that, shes dead to me lol
yupp
YES SIR!!!
😂🖕🤣🖕😂🖕🤣🖕😂🖕🤣
Underrated comment
Real. Won't even go so far as looking in her direction after that.
There are 4 million more women in the US than men; men's standards allow them to consider women outside of the US. Who is in high demand again?
She seems like the kind of girl that would order the salad but then eat the food off your plate but say she's not hungry.
She seems like the type to punch herself and get a man lock up for it. Bring back the mental hospitals.
The way I see it, when it comes to who pays for the date, it should be whoever asks the other person out
I wish more women would be this up front about how crazy they are. Most wait until you put a ring on it.
The signs are always there before the wedding. It’s just most guys refuse to see them when they’re blinded by their emotions for her until it’s too late
Lollll.
Underrated comment.
@@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986
That shit was poetic. Very true, indeed.
IF YOU LIKE IT PUT A RING ON IT!!! 💦
Most folks aren't geniuses. They show you the signs in little bits. We just choose to ignore cause we think with the wrong head.
As a police detective, let me just confirm that AP are correct when they say a “did you make it home safe?” text means nothing 😂
I like when my friends text that they are home safe because it puts my mind at ease because I will worry, cause I care about them. So she’s reversed engineered that and said well if the don’t text then clearly they don’t care. But people can text you to “check in” and still literally not care less and so her “test” isn’t even effective. I’m getting strong daddy issues with her. I think she expects men to love her the way her daddy told her his little princess ought to be loved. Except she’s like 30 😬
@@cc-dt1sh My theory is that this woman has some deep rooted daddy issues because she wants men to treat her as if she's a 5 year kid that needs to be cared for and raised. Grown adult woman can't check the weather app on her phone before she leaves her house? People are moving mad.
It's 4 am in humid ass Miami, shit, I'm too out of it to be thinking about safety and shit... I'm just trying to sleep. Not that dudes can't be that guy for you... but for real... if we're bad at picking up hints when we are awake, by the time we're fucking tired... stop... you're just sabotaging yourself, when ALL YOU HAD TO DO WAS KEEP IT 100, CJ!
"I was testing you balance but you failed"🤣
Why would you tell a dude who was going to stay with you until your ride came to leave. If he stays then he is creepy to most women. Also if you knew it was getting late why stay till 4am in streets of Miami. Make it make sense. Men and women don't play games. We are adults come on now. Nobody got time for that. … didn't she just meet the guy. He don't owe you anything
"Men and women don't play games."
This one is openly admitting to doing so and encouraging it. Pretending this mentality is not present won't get us anywhere.
Too many games
How the fuck is this comment from 6 days ago......
@@courier4529 think OP is implying that this female isn't a woman but a little girl.
@@randylynch4330 patreon good fellow