*Important note to add that we missed.* - She was married for 31 years... To a famous millionaire 20 years older than her. After he predictably passed long before her, she is back to dating and very upset at the market. Was she also engaging in ageism, classism, when she chose an older richer man like many women do? Older men bring stability, income, prestige but the downsides are that they also die sooner. Now that that reality has hit her full force, she wants a refund. Boo boo didnt bring a receipt & aint leaving. SOMEBODY CALL SECURITEEHH
@@slick_will2910 fr he gives a rounded view of the world! Makes people much more proactive instead of reactive since the "victim" mentality is constantly spoon fed to them by race hustlers. In order for the liberal view to make sense people like Thomas Sowell can't exist haha.
She still looks pretty good. If She's "Invisible" she's only invisible to the guys she wants. I'm sure there are guys talking to her and she's treating them like they're invisible.
She's obviously fishing for attention. Watch the Kevin Samuels livestreams and it's all the same thing different woman, all of them 30+ complaining about getting attention but not from the almighty HVM they want. They need to wake up smell the coffee and be realistic about what they want. Why should a HVM [that has MILLIONS of options] choose an old woman with mileage and emotional baggage over prime women in their 20s?
These guys are so funny almost throughout the whole video, but then, once in a while, they spew these sharp philosophical phrases with so much humor, and I’m like, daaaammmn!
She caused the traffic jam. She wants attention. Everyone look at me. Get over it. Your not the center of attention. Just what I think. 🤷🏻♂️ but what do I know.
@@ThatWasPrettyFunny Fair enough. That is indeed one’s relative truth. But then you have the universal truth, which doesn’t delegitimize peoples’ subjective experience but does put things into perspective for everyone equally. I think that reality is what made their comment so witty.
honestly!!! and they would have the audacity of judging young woman so harshly on their decision like grandmas, you did the same as them young woman when you were their age. On top of that, that was your ideas or "advice" that you shared to young woman
As a woman even I 100% agree with this. I highly doubt she is "invisible" as she claims - she's just not getting as much attention as she used to, but she can't handle that. Instead of reflecting on herself and changing her way of thinking, she is blaming men and society. I think for anyone it can be hard to age. You are not going to get as much attention as in your glory days (whenever that is for you). Enjoy it while it lasts, and accept aging gracefully.
She doesn’t get the attention from the people she wants. She wants a man as successful and high value as her but can’t have that because men that fit that description have other options. And from those men’s perspectives, younger women are better options. So they have more, and better options than her. This kind of predicament is pretty common for women like her who are attractive and/or very picky, which I have some sympathy for, but it’s even more common for the women that refuse to settle, and would rather spend their youth dodging commitment, and being super promiscuous, which I have less sympathy for them. They can do that, no one will stop them, no one really should. Because at the end of the day it’s their body their choice whether they want to use it for kids or commitment and what not. But when the consequences of that are obvious, they shouldn’t be surprised when they run right into them. Also, I don’t believe women like the ones I just described are inherently like that. I think really western culture just gives them an unrealistic view of how to approach dating and relationships, and puts almost zero emphasis on teaching women what men are interested in and why. Which is why I do feel kind of bad for them; they were never taught any better and usually only learn until it’s too late. Unrealistic expectations of how things should work out and validating them till they get big egos doesn’t work out a lot of the time.
@@justsomebird4285 yeah rich successful women never have "boy toys".... gender has absolutely nothing to do with this, we are talking about aging, a process that, unbelievably, affects men and women
Actually I feel like women do get a rough lot - hear me out... When you think about it a woman's power is in her youth, beauty and fertility - all gifts bestowed on her when she is young and naive; when she does not have the wisdom to use these gifts to the fullest in order to secure long term wellbeing. In times gone by, (patriarchal) society would be there to moderate and guide young women in this regard but not so much these days. On the flipside, a young man is often the invisible one in the room, because young men are generally low status and poor, their raging hormones make them goofy and awkward... and society sees them as disposable. But for a man, the gifts bestowed on him (status and wealth) come later in life when he has the wisdom to make the most of them. I speak in general terms of course - there are stupid older men just as there are ugly young women. So in this regard there is a disparity in the stage of life that biological power is acquired by women vs men, for which women should have some sympathy.
@@SkeleTonHammer But I think we both know that would never be a relationship that would go anywhere. Odds are like me you are not one of the top 1% of men and if your woman thinks she is too good for you then that coupling is a guaranteed hiding to nothing.
@@customfittedinc I'm betting you are the same kind of women. 'So what'? Stop whining, crying and complaining about your own bad life decisions and take some accountability.
@@customfittedinc you can’t complain because you no longer benefit from your youth. We all get older, and we all know we get older. You’re not gonna get attention based off of that your whole life so use it well and don’t complain when your time is over. 💁🏽♂️
Ummm she’s “56”…& full of it and has lived a privileged life for decades due to her beauty as a top model, It doesn’t last forever Paulina. The New Movement should be to be grateful that you at least had it.
Honestly, being an average looking average income woman partnered with an average looking average income man is totally underrated. Less drama, low-stress team dynamic. Ppl need to chill with the "high value" obsession.
But.....this is the whole point? Average looking women should date average looking men but they feel entitled to 'high value men'. Never understood what happened with 'normal'/'good enough'. I'm average looking myself, of course I would like a really hot girl but you should know your worth. I'm not hitting on models, I try to date women in my league, but they have inflated ego's and only want to date up.
@@Ariovistus50 Spoiler/Protip: Start approaching “unapproachable” women, because nobody else is, and they experience tremendously less interaction due to it- to a frustrating degree.
@@skillustrates Naah, I refuse to feed their ego. They should initiate themselves. I rather give average looking girls a chance. But thanks for the tip.
@@Ariovistus50 You got it flipped, it’s the average-looking girls who have the inflated ego. While the 9s and 10s rack their brain trying to figure out why they aren’t good enough to get avg-girl/below-avg-girl results. The hoops most guys are trying to jump through are being held up and set aflame by the very subset of girls you’re trying to placate, lol. Are you seeing the pattern? This is the frustration I was referring to.
I’m 56 too and I have zero sympathy for this woman. I wasn’t beautiful as a young woman and my looks haven’t improved as I’ve grown older. It’s hard being plain/unattractive at any age. Invisible is my middle name, but I have a husband who still finds me attractive and 3 wonderful kids.
I feel zero sympathy for her. Looking up her background she was 19 marrying a 40 year old. She knows what the game is, she just hates being on the losing side of it now that she’s older.
@@yogijaya2897 She's losing because no one wants her anymore. She based her whole life on how she looked. This is what happens when you make your "looks" the only valuable trait. You only lose in the end because the wall always wins.
@@canadianturtle7240 she sounds like all the silly boys and girls online, who are mad when they cannot find a partner or get sex! This channel has incels who do the same BS. We are just targeting her because of her platform and the fact she was one of the top models. All of them are losers! She is ridiculous! Men are also ignored as they get older unless they have a lot of money, which is rare. So I don’t know why only older women complain. Mind you I am just a few years younger than her. People need to grow up, stop bitching, and take responsibility for their lives. She is very wealthy. She has more than most of us will ever have in terms of material wealth and much more. She and everyone, who bitches why no one looks at them or they cannot get sex blah blah so entitled….really need to get some therapy. And we need to stop giving them any attention. I laughed when I saw this just like I laugh when incels who are mad because they don’t get sex. Get a life, people! Enjoy it and don’t depend on others for validation. She needs to grow up!
Why can't she just gracefully accept that flirting at a party for male attention is juts not going to be apart of her life anymore. It's normal and just a fact of life. You don't see your grandma crying bc she doesn't get hit on at the function anymore, you see her gardening. This model woman is disconnected from aging and simply wants the privilege of her younger self.
She spent ~ 30 years with her husband, who died. She still enjoys sex, and is seeking a partner. Nothing wrong with that. BUT - if she's going to fashion and celebrity parties - she's shopping out of her price range for suitors, in THOSE environments (at her age).
This is the very definition of pulling the ladder up behind you. "I was so hot when I was young and I used it as an advantage all my life, but now that I'm not what I use to be all those other women currently benefiting from what I benefited from should collectively stop benefiting for my benefit."
What would you do if your 20-year-old son was dating a 26-year-old and his girlfriend tragically dies? Would you be happy so now he can date someone his age? What would you say to him?
As a aging 59 yr old dude.. u guys nailed it. Her summer is what every girl dreams of. Hell, her winter ain’t so bad either. Your line, born ugly, die ugly, 100% true. You’ll see a exceptionally unattractive young girl and you just know her life has been and will be shit.
I agree, but I think, with exception to handicaps, all people can improve their bodies and a hot body goes along way for me. Even if she has a butter face. If her body is tight with a good personality, she’s getting laid and can definitely parlay that into relationships, if she has a personality.
@@doodoo871 It is fair to say that men have far more options to increase their general attractiveness if they got unlucky in the looks department though.
@@sublimeblush What you are not understanding is that women who become "invisible" after a certain age are only beginning to feel what it is like for most men in this world. Study after study shows that women rate men on an S-Curve, a pareto distribution, and see the vast majority of men as ugly... yes, ugly. We have the largest percentage of male virgins under 30 than ever recorded. Marriages are falling due to no fault divorces and the unbelievable disparity between custody and custody payments between men and women. Women clown men who are not at least 6'. Article after article call fat women "plus size" while still referring to fat men as fat. "Plus size women refuse to date fat men" is the typical article relating to this. Body positivity and ageism are only movements for women. Old guys are refused jobs all the time. Just read the stories, or know a guy in tech, and they will tell you stories. Imagine having to work up in a company for years and next thing you know you are training your 22 year old replacement? She married Ric Ocasek, a very unattractive dude who was lucky to be born with extreme creativity and drive. Someone who had to completely build himself up. She was hired to be in their Drive video because she was hot and everybody wanted her. They all had to have years of musical experience, plus innate talent, to be there. The talent alone for that one song and video is more than most could fathom. She was born with amazing looks and lived a life roughly 99% of the population never will, and she is still crying about her life. This is why so many men laugh and find this funny.
Only now at 50+ years old, she is being judged negatively by the standards that she help create back when she was in Sports Illustrated and in her 20s.
@@mscutie-rd3vn That's right, maybe maintain or enforce or recreate may have been more accurate? Either way, you're right in that she had no problems going along with it.
She married a man 20 years older than her back in the day, but is upset that men are wanting to be with women who are doing the same shit she did decades ago. Accountability: what's that?
As a woman who was told I was ugly on the daily since I was a child until I was 16, very dorky until I was 20 and I kinda sorta got my looks together a bit more, and then it took me another 6 years to convince myself that any guy would ever want to kiss me, this makes me deeply sad. This reinforces the idea that I "wasted my best years", and my best years were the time I was desperately trying to claw back from PTSD. That was my "summer" according to you guys. And now I should rightfully accept that my best "turn has passed", because I had such a great time in my 20s. My life is alright, I'll be fine even if I have to be alone. But it does depress me to think about the fact that I've never been in a relationship at age 30, and I know that's weird, and the fact that it's weird is debilitating and doesn't make me want to get to know new men, cause I'll have to "explain myself". I know you guys are generalizing, but I feel like so often men only consider the POV of the hot women, and then think every woman experiences that, or at least something similar to that. We don't, we really don't.
You didn’t waste your best years, but you’re most likely past the years when you would attract the most people. Unfortunately that is reality. Doesn’t mean you’ll never be able to find happiness, just means you shouldn’t go in with expectations.
I’m 25 and I have a VERY similar experience. Never been in a “real” relationship and I can count more times when guys have looked disgusted at me than attractive. Many guys say they prefer girls who’ve had past relationship experiences, but when your dating resume is abysmal because you don’t have a certain look, you feel as if your value stems from your appearance. I didn’t wake up one day and lose self confidence, society did that to me. Now I’m learning to be comfortable existing regardless of how others perceive me because my intrinsic value is what matters.
@@PrettyPrincess2614 near the end of the vid Aba stated that women who are not conventionally attractive have his sympathy as their struggle is worse than conventionally unattractive guys.
Yes I think you should accept it. But it’s not some terrible truth, it’s just a fact of life for everyone that no one should take personally. It’s better to detach yourself from how others perceive you than be delusional in my opinion. I believe your battle against PTSD is something I can relate to and that makes me respect you so much more than your level of attractiveness. Something I do want to say though, is that the concept of your “best years” are subjective. Maybe in terms of youthfulness your best years have passed but the toxic relationships you would have attracted in those years would have been the REAL waste of time, not the time you spent healing yourself. The grass is not greener on the other side.
And it's Nice!...You can walk on the park, have a drink on the bar or whatever you want and nobody bothers ya, invsibility is great...well, for functional adults thats it.
"When you're so used to privilege, equality feels like oppression" or so the saying goes. Her pretty privilege is gone and now she knows how it feels to be like every other male.
Its not even pretty privilege because she is still a gorgeous woman.....what happened is the game she played to her advantage for so long has turned on her and she cant stand it!
@@bluemeanie9554 Gorgeous by whose standard. She wants men to flirt with her and they don't. Men are biologically attracted to women who can bear children.
@@paulweber624 But you didnt say "ATTRACTIVE" privilege you said "PRETTY" which signifies visual aesthetics and aesthetically she is still gorgeous. You are trying to conflate physical attraction to relationship attraction....point blank this woman can get it from almost any straight male she comes across, unfortunately for her the "it" wont be a ring
@@serious7179 Stop shitting on men to big up women. None of these broads are a prize. I swear comments like this make me about ready to become misogynistic. Women are shallow AF! And it's their fault. Coming from a decent-looking dude.
You can't convince me that a single man in his 50s wouldn't want to date her. Even an upper class one who has a history of paying young women for company. As long as they are actually looking for a companion I believe they would be very willing to give her a chance. Pretty damn sure a 50 year old man would be thrilled to find a woman the same age that looked like her.
Oh absolutely. It’s likely just her being super picky or there just isn’t any chemistry. Also, she probably knew damn well that men who are well off tend to go for younger women.
Women are still good for sex & relationships without kids at an old age. Yeah don’t discard us completely. She looks fantastic! Why wouldn’t she be chosen? Men would have to be crazy
Yeah absolutely!! She looks very beautiful so while she might not get as much attention as in her 20s, she still propably get more attention as a 50 year old model than an average looking girl in her 20s.
@@moonlightstargem1006 you are missing the point completely. She has men chasing her for sure but she doesn't get the attention from the men SHE WANTS. The guys she wants want younger women. If you really wanna help her and other women like her, tell her to be realistic and let the man who wants to be with her be with her . There are a lot of great men wtv age. Leave alone and stop haressing the men who don't want you and stop shaming these men for having preferences, and go get a good man who wanna be with you.
It means she has nothing else to offer. Her ex-husband was in the band, The Cars, and he wrote her and his sons (I think) out of his will before he died. So she must have been terribad. So she has her kids and nothing else apparently.
Change your party!!!! YES! Thanks guys! I’m a 55 yr old female that gets as much male attention (mostly unwanted) as I did at 15,25,35….. thank you for calling out another deluded celebrity! As usual, perspective is the problem. I love your content! I wish you all the best!
But she only wants one type of man's Attention. A normal man wouldn't get her attention but she still thinks she could pull the same men she did in her twenties and it's pissed off about it
@@hardlyhome314 no because the guys that are easy are the ones that she doesn’t want. Incels I sympathise with, femcels I laugh at because they do it to themselves.
shes too picky so yes she will die unhappy and fkn miserable because no would she look at an average earner after banging millionaires all her life. trash she was and ever will be. sad ending for most females today because they all share this mentality
I feel like people nowadays are so entitled that when someone doesn’t want them they feel the need to try to act like they are somehow oppressed instead of going after the people that do want them
Lol for real, I missed when people would actually just be upset with others, instead of somehow saying something is a systematic issue, or something greatly wrong with our society
I'm one of those ugly girls, but I have never felt invisible in fact I have always felt the exact opposite. I stand out. I was not popular at all when I was younger but everyone still remembers me and knows who I am because I was the really ugly girl. I actually used to wish I could blend in more so that people would stop paying so much attention to me because being ugly made me a target. It doesn't bother me now because thankfully I was blessed with a really good sense of humor along with other traits that make me appealing, and I have never had a problem finding anyone to love me for me, but I do feel bad for those girls who don't have it like that. You got to find your value and if it's not in your looks you got to accept that move on and figure out what it is.
@@chumajamesnxele106 Agreed, this is basically 95% of men's experience. As a man, you have to have the resources, you have to have the charming personality, you have to have the skills. I feel lucky that I found a wonderful woman years ago and am not one of my peers still out there just trying to find someone who won't cheat on them. Sad state of affairs today.
BIG PROPS TO YOU! It is not easy in the beginning but as you mature and grow into your own you do start to appreciate what really matters as an individual and in the world period.
"If you look your age, nobody will listen to you" This is nonsense. Her problem is precisely that she doesn't look her age - in the sense that she's still trying to present herself as a sex object at 50. People don't listen to her because she's delusional, not because she's old.
@@alyzzalee If you dig into the story a bit, that's exactly what she's trying to present herself as. She wants to get the same kind of attention from men for her physical beauty that she used to get, and she's frustrated that it's not working - and it's not working because female beauty is very much age-based.
It could be an issue with her personality. But I think the real issue is that, while she says no one wants to date her, I’m 100% certain that there’s plenty of gentlemen around her age that would love to be her man, but they’re “regular guys” and are thus invisible to her, the same way she’s invisible to the rich and prestigious men that are ignoring her for younger prettier women who are attracted to their clout. Which just so happens to be a good description of herself when she was that age 😂
She still looks damn good for her age. There’s some fine old guys out there that are actually her age who would think she’s gorgeous.. go where you’re appreciated. It’s not rocket science.
I don't think the guys her age actually want her. The model in her prime years didn't want someone her age and wanted someone older. The guys her age are in their prime and they don't want someone their age.
@@RondoRajon41 I guess that’s the dilemma, right? It just looks like a weird validation thing to me.. I’m sure there’s some guys out there who’d love to be with her.
@Bobrzyca Pola Right! And what are the age range of the guys she’s going for? When she said she’d try to approach guys and they wouldn’t be interested, it led me to believe that she’s approaching young guys. From my experience, men usually like women who are their age or a little bit younger. So the chances of her getting rejected are gonna be pretty high if she’s going for guys in their 20s and 30s.
@@Dvrkwulf She wants older guys. She already inherited money from when her millionaire husband that passed away. The reason she is struggling is because socioeconomically, she is higher than most guys(old and young). Millionaires are like 5% of the US population. Women with money rarely date down socioeconomically, they want someone on their level or higher. Also, she was a supermodel which means she was probably 5'9 to 6'0 tall. The average male height is 5'8 to 5'9. She probably wants someone taller than her aswell even at her old age. On top of that she is 56 years old, has kids, and cant procreate anymore. She wants a man with money, which majority of the time tends to be older men. Older men or millionaires want a family and/or a trophy wife. She doesn't fit any of the criteria they are looking for.
@@RondoRajon41 she can just get regular 60 year old dude with a regular Job easy since she already have money and they can both be happy. Yeah she definitely got to lower her standards and go with what she can get just be with somebody who’s company you value to spend your later years with.
From a female who was invisible when I was young, all I can say is, she's not understanding the advantages of being invisible. Like Preach said, you've got to go to a different club. You've got to discover the joys of a different game. Party with a different crowd, enjoy doing things you couldn't do when you were so "visible"..
She just wants a rich man and rich men typically want younger women.. That's the issue. She looks good enough to pull alot of men her age and even younger but she wants a certain type of man who isn't the average male. She's complaining about a problem that she's created for herself.
@@bsmi1361 right, she could easily find men if she went to a middle-class/upper-middle-class party or country club instead of chasing millionaires. She is so spoiled and privileged she thinks the rest of us don't exist outside of the 1% of USA wealthy.
@@martynBVT Facts. The class of men she wants aren't checking for her. That doesn't mean 80% of the other men aren't. But she's paying no attention to a large percentage of men and instead focused on the 20% that are paying her no attention.. It's a never ending game of stupidity.
Aging is a part of life. I’m not a spring chicken, now in my 40s, but okay. You gotta appreciate what phase of life your in and I agree, the pool of suitors available to a women will definitely change. We don’t need an aging movement. What she needs is self love & self acceptance.
im sure her taste in men has changed too, yet we are supposed to be attracted to her forever? everybody wants to be ryan reynolds/marilyn monroe at the age of 25, but even ryan reynolds and marilyn monroe only had that privilege for a year
Yeah, stop focusing on these things you can't have anyway. Accept where you are. The best thing you can do past your thirties is be at peace with yourself.
Once upon a time society regulated this - so very few 40 something women (notwithstanding bereavement or other rare exceptions) would be dwelling on the issue of the "pool of suitors".
When a man whines about not getting the female attention he wants, he's called an incel. This woman deserves no sympathy for not getting the attention she wants. She's not entitled to attention
She lived off the cream of the world for more than a decade or 2. Any man she wanted, any wealth, live any where, choose the offers you want to accept. All because of youth and beauty and nothing more. Now she wants the finest for her whole life. Life don't work that way for a single person on this Earth
She's talking about how since she was a super model in the 90s she experienced people obsessing over her looks and kinda treating her just as a pretty object and now she feels the opposite that she just feels invisible. She is actually being raw and honest about her experience of being a beautiful woman and how you are treated differently with age and people are just missing the points and roasting her.
I LOVE your take on this model, I've been laughing through it!!! It doesn't do anyone ANY GOOD to try and cheat time, it just ain't gonna work sweety❣️ I'm 66 now, I've had my day in the sun so to speak, what good would it do me to try and hang on to something that is NEVER, EVER coming back, we ALL have our time, it's my turn now to help younger people (women especially) to be the best THEY can be, not to try and stay relevant as one of them, LOL!!! The sooner we ALL realize this, the happier, and healthier we'll all be!!
@@super-engineer8437 Social media legit absolutely wrecked the game for us. But I was listening to Elliot Hulse a few weeks back. Continue doing what you do, hit the gym, DO NOT SIMP for these women who don't want you, ignore them. Read books, go outside and take care of your mental. And by 30 - 35 (you should be fine)And these chicks are now gonna want you to date your age
@@avuyilecakwebe6880 …. but then who do you guys date? After you put all that time into yourself (which is great) do you date the younger women that are just wanting to cash in on you guys or do you date women 10 years older than you that learned their lesson? Asking as a married woman 😊
Haha I’m 50 and never felt better. My life is never been about looks. Some older women are so superficial. They usually hate on younger women. It’s pathetic . There’s so much in life more important than being attractive. It’s a privilege to get older. You guys are spot on 👍
@@cobbler88 Don’t take this the wrong way, but if you’re actually 51 years old and you’re calling people trainwrecks in the comments section of UA-cam- and cracking yourself up while doing it- you may have some growing up to do.
@@therainman7777 This is the best you can do? You insert yourself into a conversation with apparently not so sharp reading comprehension skills, then after having the very simple statement you misinterpreted clarified for you, you'd rather (ironically, given the circumstances) shift to condescension rather than accept that you were mistaken, or take the L? I would put forth there is probably a certain age range within which people are most likely to lash out because they've acted the fool, but I'm wagering there's an equal chance that you still don't realize that you didn't understand the original statement. Regardless, the next time the adults are talking maybe you should just sit quietly at the card table in the corner with the rest of the children. Maybe you'll learn something.
28. Bisexual ("People with loose sexual boundaries like bisexuality, polyamory & pansexuality- sexualities where they can't really declare a major or stick to a specific type tend to be trauma survivors*." [*May correlate with No. 26] ) 29. Exhibits 'infantile/neotenic' behaviours when in need of aid (e.g. using a childlike voice* and speech pattern, acting "cute", naive; sometimes with a 'sensual' undertone - often used to avoid accountability, responsibility or get their way) [*Not to be confused with No. 21; this one (29) is intentional while No. 21 is 'involuntary'] [Could correlate with No. 10 & 25. Likely with No. 16] ) 30. Frequent mood swings-- could be 'preemptively' identified with certain comments e.g. "Having someone who can handle your mood swings is such a blessing", "Need a man that can handle me (when I'm mad, act crazy..)" [Correlates with No. 19. Possibly with No. 13, 17, 18, 22, 23 & 25] 31. Really into astrology (has their personality, behaviours or actions based on zodiac signs) 32. Being "Free-spirited"; 'Hippie' or 'Gypsy-like'. (Could correlate with No. 8, 10 & 26. Possibly with No. 28) 33. Often/always plays the victim-- "When you're so used to playing the victim you don't realise when you're being the villain." (Often correlates with No. 15, 20 & 29. Possibly with No. 6, 10, 11, 16 & 17) For those who are perplexed about No. 1-5, google search for images of Saweetie or blac chyna or sumn idk These flags could be a result of insecurities, emotional and/or mental immaturity, childhood emotional neglect, attention/validation seeking, attachment issues, etc. Observing people's personalities, character and behaviours rather than focusing on their 'physical attractiveness' is a good way to overcome the halo effect. Also, like attracts like, so make sure to be self-aware and reflect on your actions/behaviour to grow and mature as a person. And be compassionate to others as you'd be to yourself. These are just my observations & opinions and should be held up to scrutiny.
I’m a women and found this absolutely hilarious 😂 😂😂😂😂😂 I was never the girl that bashed guys So as they’re re blossoming into their grown man…they’re still looking for me Girls should be kinder to young guys. It’s not easy to build up the courage to talk to women
She's 50 and going to clubs where the average age is probably half of hers. She could be the hottest woman in the room, and a good portion of guys would still be weirded out that a woman old enough to be their mom is hitting on them. No shit she isn't turning heads like she used to, not in that scene. Her ego is bruised and she doesn't know how to deal with it except screech about ageism, because she's never been humbled before.
The difference between men and women is that we can still impregnate younger women even when we are old. So you “older” women better realise that reality
@@williamong911 I’m sorry to burst your bubble but mens fertility decline as they get older too. They still have enough sperm to impregnate a younger woman true but their quality of sperm decline. Men are at a higher risk of having kids with autism, learning disability, low IQ after the age of 45. Old dusty sperm. I wouldn’t want an older man to impregnate me, I want a healthy baby.
hey we all gotta know the limitations of our age...being the oldest dude in the club is lame and desperate looking..but at lets say, the gym or at the grocery store your good, if your silver fox type gotta go to more "refined" social gatherings. Dance classes, museums, theatre, quiet bars that reflect your personality.. As for the fertility issue.. Plenty of young dudes like cougars and sugar momma's... And plenty young women like DILF's and sugar daddys....TO EACH.....THEIR...OWN ? ! ?....... stop worrying about the truths the opposite side gotta realize..you got truths to figure out too....we all do..
🥴 my friend who’s younger than me (I’m 38)complains about men checking her out when she’s out on a run. I tell her don’t worry, it’ll soon be over, you’re 30. Tick tock tick tock.🤣 I look 10 year younger than my age so I still get looks.🤣
At 18 years old, she met a married rich dude who was over 20 years her senior. The man divorced his then-37-year-old wife (he married her when she was 20) a few years later and married her. Then, shockingly 😲, they got divorced a few years ago when she was in her forties, after which her wealthy ex died and left her nothing. Ever since, this pillar of society has been championing 💪the movement against ageism
I love the instant loss of control! Preach it! Also her attitude may have something to do with it, like you say she's not getting what she thinks she's 'entitled' to. But no one is entitled to demand anyone to love them or desire them.
Just wanna say guys, to be fair to her, she was married for like 30 years. Her husband recently died and she's newly single... But yeah she still needs a reality check. I'm sure she's not "invisible". Just invisible to the guys SHE wants. Sure there's tons of men willing to even marry her, but they're invisible to her. And even then, I'm sure it's not even as bad as she says it is. It's just a little bit less than what she's been used to for her entire life.
I bet the type of guys she is after are high status who have options. Why settle with a 50+ year old when these guys can get a woman in her mid to late twenties?
You guys are spot on...these women don’t care about sisterhood until they’re value is gone (they sold out when the price was high). In the meantime, the non supermodel women had to build character and work on more important things.
which isnt bad. imo, this is where everybody gets it wrong. having to build your character and intellect isnt a punishment. and even good-looking people should have to do that.
I agree about them not caring about a sisterhood.. but men make these standards. The fashion industry is own by men. You know why youth &beauty is push on women, money. That's why we got all these anti aging pills cream surgery. Evey other commercial is fast quick easy weight loss with this and that. Right after that commercial is the new bacon clogged up your heart burger. I empathize with her cause I know what it is like feel that way. What she is complaining about is the world Using you up and then spitting you out. We dont get to choose how we look she just got lucky with her looks🤷♀️
I paused 1 minute in. It's got nothing to do with how feminine she is. She's just not in her prime anymore. This woman is complaining because she's having an experience that most average men who try to date have experienced from age 18 upwards.
The big difference is that men age into their prime and woman age out of it. So by the time a woman experiences that feeling of not being desirable, it's already too late for her; whereas when a man experiences that in his early 20s, he can use that negative feeling as motivation to develop himself over the coking decades.
I assure you her experience is nothing like the average guy. Her problem is not that she cant get any, her problem is that she cant get any from the 5%ers she is used to getting something from. If she just lowered her standards to include average men she would be right back on the carousel.
@@kvasir8931 Yeah, you're right. This woman experiences the smallest inconvenience in life and wants to make an entire movement out of it. She spent decades of her life living on easy mode, now she's on normal she wants to change the world, and it's not even really normal because she can still get most men her age.
@@Pedant_Patrol That is IF the man is able to acquire the resources necessary to move into that top 1% sphere, but most men WILL NOT do that seeing as 1% is an extremely small percentage of people, meaning MOST WILL NOT GET THERE. It’s good to strive for that point, but most men who are average unfortunately will maintain the same experience throughout their life unless they drastically improve their status, which as we’ve established, is easier said than done.
@@mvp4lyfateverything- Who said anything about being in the 1%. I surely didn't. A man doesn't have to be a multi-millionaire to have relationship success; but I would say that all men can develop themselves between the ages of 20 and 35 to significantly improve their SMV. It just takes some hard work and discipline.
it happens at every age. when you’re 13, you don’t get treated like an innocent 5 year old. when you’re 16, you are expected to shed your immaturity. when you’re 18, no more birthday parties and christmas presents. you gain and lose things with age.
lmao you're right this 50 year old woman is basically having a tantrum because she doesnt get a birthday party anymore when you put it like that its just kind of tragic...
@@NotAnotherKuromi That's not really up to the individual though, unless you're celebrating your own birthday. When it comes to birthdays and presents it shifts from being an obligation when you're a child to, like you said, appreciation, but nobody is owed appreciation if you know what I mean. If people around you value you, you will continue to have the same celebrations and get gifts, if not, tough luck.
@@NotAnotherKuromi that's not the point. She is still a beautiful woman but can't be content with that because she wants to be treated and viewed as a young lady half her age. She is delusional
My guess is... She is not invincible at all. She, like a lot of women just doesnt understand men. She probably wants a man around her age or very slightly younger, AS successful or more successful than she is, driven, competitive, etc. A man like that has options. Thesame way she desires him, he is also desired by the type of women he ACTUALLY wants. Younger women. No matter how much society tries to shame, insult and guilt men into wanting what they naturally don't want, these men will always go for younger. I feel for her. Apparently she was married for years and lost her husband. Sucks. But now she needs to just be realistic. Get what you can get now, try to be content with that... Or stay single.
About 15 years ago this woman made fun of a younger, plus size model for being too curvy. On TV she said the girl catered to the male fantasy and was therefore not model material. Fucking rich to hear her complain about needing to change beauty standards now
She does look really good for someone her age. She took care of herself very well throughout the years. However, if you’re dating for shallow reasons such and looks and money, you’re gonna get treated like a shallow commodity. The reason why happy couples who have been together for decades are still happy is because they have substance to their personalities. She could find not only a partner, but a good kind hearted partner if she dropped the shallow requirements.
Exactly. She's not bad looking or hideous. Just not in her prime anymore. About as delusional as an older male athlete or warrior thinking he can keep up with the younger warriors at the same pace instead of developing the older mentor niche.
There are plenty of men that would feel blessed to have her in their lives. But she wants the men closer to her age that are wealthy and established yet she wants to complain about shallowness. I've got no sympathy for this woman.
All facts and a good breakdown. Paulina needs to look at herself and stop trying so hard to be a victim. Let's be honest...she was a gold digger when she was young and that won't work anymore. Time to switch things up or enjoy single life
I personally can't wait until I'm invisible to random men. Bring it on! It's already started happening in my 30s and I'm so grateful 🙌🙌 Can go about my business without having that feeling of being watched, or having disgusting things said to me.... or having an actual conversation with a man, and have it not lead to an inappropriate touch because I was blamed for flirting. It's freaking awesome! This woman obviously has 0 substance other than her looks. And that ain't anyone's problem but her own!!!!
So, she was treated like an invisible 20-year-old male, and her feelings got hurt? BETA! lol Seriously though, she's got time to waste on nonsense like this? What a luxury to be able to throw away time like that over a standard she helped perpetuate. Must be nice to create and pick your own problems.
28. Bisexual ("People with loose sexual boundaries like bisexuality, polyamory & pansexuality- sexualities where they can't really declare a major or stick to a specific type tend to be trauma survivors*." [*May correlate with No. 26] ) 29. Exhibits 'infantile/neotenic' behaviours when in need of aid (e.g. using a childlike voice* and speech pattern, acting "cute", naive; sometimes with a 'sensual' undertone - often used to avoid accountability, responsibility or get their way) [*Not to be confused with No. 21; this one (29) is intentional while No. 21 is 'involuntary'] [Could correlate with No. 10 & 25. Likely with No. 16] ) 30. Frequent mood swings-- could be 'preemptively' identified with certain comments e.g. "Having someone who can handle your mood swings is such a blessing", "Need a man that can handle me (when I'm mad, act crazy..)" [Correlates with No. 19. Possibly with No. 13, 17, 18, 22, 23 & 25] 31. Really into astrology (has their personality, behaviours or actions based on zodiac signs) 32. Being "Free-spirited"; 'Hippie' or 'Gypsy-like'. (Could correlate with No. 8, 10 & 26. Possibly with No. 28) 33. Often/always plays the victim-- "When you're so used to playing the victim you don't realise when you're being the villain." (Often correlates with No. 15, 20 & 29. Possibly with No. 6, 10, 11, 16 & 17) For those who are perplexed about No. 1-5, google search for images of Saweetie or blac chyna or sumn idk These flags could be a result of insecurities, emotional and/or mental immaturity, childhood emotional neglect, attention/validation seeking, attachment issues, etc. Observing people's personalities, character and behaviours rather than focusing on their 'physical attractiveness' is a good way to overcome the halo effect. Also, like attracts like, so make sure to be self-aware and reflect on your actions/behaviour to grow and mature as a person. And be compassionate to others as you'd be to yourself. These are just my observations & opinions and should be held up to scrutiny.
My parents always told my sisters & I growing up that “Charm is deceitful and beauty fades; but a woman who fears the Lord will be praised. Reward her for her work- let her actions result in public praise.” Not everything is going to last forever especially ones looks.
I feel no sympathy or empathy for women that previously participated in oppressing other women and now they’re realizing their time is up. Whether they said or did something, they actively dismissed our stories. They’re not allowed to make PSA’s demanding all women come together to fight beauty standards because their target audience is no longer interested in them. Nope, stand in that pride you held in being the favorite.
It isn't even a beauty standard. She isn't ugly she's just not AS desirable to men anymore. That's her problem. She chose what to do in her youth and she never chose to build a relationship that would last now you're searching and other people aren't looking for you like they used to
She is the one model I know of who hasn’t had plastic surgery to make her appear younger. She’s being real. People can grow and change their opinions. Life experience has a tendency to do that.
I don't know What she said i saw as a preteen Most men were drawn to me physically Took me years to see They were intimidated by my brains.. I thought my outgoing sporty and being very educated was keeping people🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Men n women were mostly there for surface level reasons... Good news ive met a few loyals for life... However u don't gotta b 50 If u open ur mind at 20 you'll know what she's saying is the way of it... Most people aren't deep Period..
I think the real issue is she didn’t capitalized on her looks the right way. She didn’t take the time to come up with a plan B. Now at age 50, she still finds her self worth through being man’s arm candy. She should have utilized her youthful days to work on her self esteem, her confidence and self value in other ways. Look at Rihanna, a stunning natural beauty but she’s not getting any younger and music can’t financially sustain her lifestyle. She created several businesses and is now a billionaire! Looks can only get you so far, but this ex model still very beautiful and can definitely find a man. Not all older men want younger woman or if they do, it’s usually just a sexual attraction. She should want a man who will truly value her companionship.
She capitalized, she was married for 31 years until her husband passed. She claims to have had a good life but like most women she is complaining she can't get the young dudes she is attracted too.
This was a supermodel on the cover of sports illustrated twice, traveled all over the world in her early 20's, and was married for over 30yrs to a popular rock musician. She lived a life 98% of people will never see or know. She wants to fight "ageism", sorry lady, there is no affirmative action for dating, go sit your ass down somewhere!!!
@@returnofthemac9392 I'm confused. Why are you calling her a bitch, and what does her being married in the past have to do with anything? Her husband died.
@@ananse77 They divorced before he died, but yet, she tries to claim sympathy for her EX-HUSBAND'S death, as if she were mourning the loss of a person she actually loved and was still with. I repeat: when he died, they were not together.
It’s also funny because I watched older videos of her on talk shows and she was complaining about how people objectify her & focus on her looks. Now she complains that people don’t stop and stare when she walks by, the complete opposite
I'm proud of us guys for just accepting rejection without having to start victimizing ourselves to the public. If a dude did this then he is instantly giving off incel vibes and like people start getting scared. This woman says the same thing, is featured in an article. 😮💨
@@yahmicah4294 those guys are all nihilists tho There whole life is about misery and no meaning This woman represents most women while these blackpillers are a small minority
As a woman, I appreciate the courage it takes to ask women out, I admit that I couldn't do it so Thankyou! Some girls need a lesson in polite rejection.
Why would men who can get younger better looking women not do just that? She wants validation and she’s not getting it. She was once one of those women that men ignored older women to be with. Look at the age difference between her & her late husband.
Lol , a woman having to go through what every young man goes through in their early 20s and is complaining about it. That age wall hits quick and a lot of women fail to realize this. As they get older the game changes for them …😅
She deserves it. A smart woman would find herself a good man while she is young and has options. Aging doesn't even matter that much anymore since you can do it gracefully with a husband. Not running around in Clubs looking for partners.
@K C point is feeling invisible is just life for most ppl. More so guys than girls for sure. But she just gotta suck it up is what everyone is saying. She mad a bad decision marrying an old guy. Most dudes don’t have that option. And probably wouldn’t take it if they did.
lol poor Aba just lost his damn mind over this one I'm glad he did, though. I feel like he took the blow for me so I didn't have to personally reel in cringeness at that. Seriously, that's why I love this channel. You guys are like a protective layer of lacquer that keeps me insulated against the grime and filth. Sure, it's clear-coat, I can see it, but you're the ones that are taking the full subjection of it.
"People like to make exceptions of themselves. They hold other people to moral codes that they aren't willing to follow themselves. For example, people tend to think that if they tell a lie, it's because it was absolutely necessary. But if someone else tells a lie, it means they're dishonest. So never make an exception of yourself. If you're a thief, don't complain about being robbed." Edit: Unfortunately, I can't take credit for this quote... I got it from a facebook post, but YT won't let me link it here for some reason.
reminds me of all the jocks after school that realise they cant bully their managers or superiors later in life time to go learn a talent or develop a positive personality lol
This. And not just for looks, but anytime you base your whole self worth one 1 thing, then you risk to fall pretty hard should that 1 thing disappear. In the case of looks, its a guarantee. Here she is, probably in the top 10% of hottest fifty year old women, and it still hit her hard.
@@MakinItHappenn "Isn't that most women though since most of a woman's value comes in her looks and fertility" if i were a monkey or a gorilla maybe, i tend to look for a little more than that in a woman though. i dont even want kids so i can assure you idgaf about a womans fertility.
Paulina relied on her looks to elevate her in a way only a few women can. She was accustomed to being told she was one of the most beautiful women in the world, and having the room stop and stare and flashbulbs going off when she walked into a room. Now she has aged, and she's experiencing what _every_ woman experiences at a certain age. The difference is the majority of women experiencing this were not treated the way she was because of her looks. So it so much harder for her for all that attention to ebb off and stop. Yep, you're invisible. A lot of women were invisible from the very beginning and never really experienced anything remotely like what Paulina has. Instead they were told they were average/ugly/rejected constantly.
Speaking of average women....I actually try to talk them...I like the conversations and peace I have with them....I just like women who can be in peace with theirselves as long as I invest time and affection on them...
Do you remember the show Hot in Cleveland? Older women from LA who were considered over the hill and got no attention. They went to Cleveland and they got lots of male attention. She is just in the wrong city. LA is all about youth or the illusion of youth. She’s beautiful but she’s right she’s invisible in LA.
Ageism is a thing, and there definitely is pressure for women to look young…but even at her age she’s *still* the standard. That’s why I can’t fully take her seriously, she’s the pinnacle of western beauty even in her old age and wouldn’t have a problem getting attention *at all.* She’s just not getting it from where she wants it, the average looking 50+ year old woman would probably kill to look anything like she does.
All I can say is, you guys speak the truth. And that's how the world is. This woman has other assets, I am sure, but she can't get over not being desired for her looks anymore. Did she think she would have been a super model if she was ugly or fat or old? Did she forget that modelling careers are not known for their longevity? Now she gets to experience what I experienced when I was overweight: no one looks at you twice. Find other selling points, work on yourself, and learn to accept men who are not millionaires. Simple.
That last part might be the most difficult of them all. Not saying wanting some stability is a bad thing, but it's always the 6 6 6 number in things that are ''required'' to have a chance, while they have literally nothing to offer than used up poon and some attitude, like.. where does the part come in that you attract men that have these things and does it match the value?
I was w/ you until the “now she gets to experience what I did when I was overweight: no one looks at you twice” part which sounded as if you’re.. projecting some kind of resentment that she didn’t have to experience life as some kind of unconventionally attractive. Are you glad that she now does? Sounds like you’re faulting her for being a conventional beauty for most of her life? It ain’t rlly her fault that society is superficial.
She knows she’s older and I don’t think she is expecting to be treated like a 20 something. She just wants options of guys her own age to date, but many older guys want young girls and that’s messed up. Also, sounds like you’re projecting
@@SupernaturalLove100 ah the point was missed there. She is saying that people have certain qualities that society deems unattractive. In her case, it was being overweight. In the model's case, it's being perceived as old. Some men have height struggles and the list of undesired qualities by society goes on and on. True, it's not her fault that society is very superficial but it's certainly her fault wasting her youth being very superficial with society.
At 58, I'm lucky to have married an amazing woman 32 years ago. The honest God's truth is I find that building that relationship more than compensates for the loss of our youth. Don't get me wrong, I still miss that too. But you really can't have it all. Youth is just the fire starter in a relationship and was never meant to sustain the long burn. Too much focus on youth and beauty seems to have lead many people in my generation to miss out on developing other things that make you attractive or just plain interesting. Humor, hard work, intelligence, caring, fitness, dependability, loyalty, curiosity, optimism, creativity. There is so much we can address other than worrying about wrinkles and skin spots.
Tell that to these young guys who quote Kevin Samuels here. They are living in fantasy world instead of reality. Reality is closer to how you describe.
@UCP9s_kqcHpdt5cxka-uIZRw I agree. But let go of the fact that the majority of people you will meet evaluate social desirability with a losing metric. Those that learn to both develop and see the multifaceted beauty we can all strive for and grow into are at such an advantage in finding and developing thriving relationships over those who are oblivious, only pursuing a one dimensional perishable attribute.
Mant modern women don't care much for building relationships and monkey branch as soon as things get tough. If you don't hook one early, you will end up with the pool of rejects, and their looks aren't a huge factor even there, other things usually are. You have to be really hideous looking as a woman to not get your chances And for every woman that exeriences that degree of loneliness, there are 4-6 men experiencing the same, and half of them don't even look bad Realize again how lucky you are, and then how you're probably not jaded enough to truly understand how grim situation can be ;)
@@dutchdykefinger You are talking about a deeper subject than attraction. As you say, it is certainly easier to bond when you are young and without emotional baggage. It can still work but the commitment needs to be more deliberate. This said in a world that thinks wanting something is the same as committing to it.
"That's what the season entails... it's your time." Truer words never been spoken sir. I'm 50 and had my fun so I can't now turn around and start a "age shouldn't matter movement" because I don't like the selection in my age group?!! Beyotch pleazzzzze. You don't have to like it you just have to accept it. It is what it is and it was what it was ma'am.
The amount of attention/press she has received since her estranged husband Ric Ocasek died is ridiculous. Prior to that I don't think the majority of people would have been able to tell you who she was. I know she was a model and she appeared in the music video for The Cars' song "Drive" (great song btw), which is where I believe she met her husband.
I just looked it up. She was 18 when they met for that video. He was 21 years older and married (to his second wife) at the time. They got married a year after his divorce. Great morals there for both of them. She snagged a wealthy, famous married with kids rock star who was 21 years older; she wasn't worried about older women back then that's for sure. Haha
_I'm totally OK with getting older...it is only when you DEPENDED on your looks when you were younger, that it bothers you when you get older. If you never used your looks as a younger person to gain certain advantages (also attention), it really is no loss getting older._
Yep. As a 47 year old average looking guy who's never once been approached by a woman or asked out in any format, being older now means I give less of a shit to be completely honest. I only seek validation from myself and I know my worth. Something that is clearly sadly lacking in a lot of today's culture (both men and women).
The best part of not being that attractive is that aging isn't destroying my self esteem like it is the really attractive women I know around my age (53).
This chick has a lot of baggage and self-inflicted wounds. She was married to one of the singers from the group The Cars (Ric Ocasek) in 1988 when she was in her 20's and he was in his 40's. In 2018 he wrote this chick out of his will because she refused to take care of him when his health started failing. They were both separated while she planned on divorcing him not knowing he had already wrote her out of the will, thinking she would cash-in. In 2019 he died of heart failure at age 75. Looks like Ric got the last laugh while his crazy wife continuously posts on social media claiming she's a victim.
How did she refuse to take care of him? They lived in the same house so she could take care of him. She would have been better off leaving him alone. He left her nothing. Not even the house she raised his children in for decades...
She was married over 30yrs. Now widowed. She's enjoyed spectacular life success. Appears she's doing pretty damn well. She has nothing to complain abt. 🤔🤔
She still looks AMAZING and has plenty of men commenting/complimenting her on her social media, etc. My experience is that there are loads of younger men who love a mature woman in great shape as well, of course, as men the same age and older. I can’t relate to her to her victim mentality, especially her crying (yes, real crying😢) on instagram. So many beautiful, sexy famous women over 50 on IG just getting on with it. Cindy Crawford, Christy Brinkley (68!), so many… just out there getting their sexy on with loads of male admirers. I can’t give her “poor me” narrative the time of day.
Honestly once u hit 30 Young men lose their damn minds... They literally prey on you... Got worst at 35... They very much r attracted to you.. I think it's an energy thing... I think if u don't care They seem to desire u
As a women, here is my issue with this....Paulina, Do you know how many women have always felt invisible? She is so unrelatable. Welcome to the world of the average woman. Many women at a bar always have men looking over their shoulder for the 10. Paulina never learned to focus on substance because she didn't have to....
I know right? I'm also a woman who's pretty damn antisocial and barely goes out, and the things Paulina is stating are so unrelatable to me as well. Her pretty privilege is gone I guess.
Exactly.... I was always looked passed and ignored bc my friends are sooo beautiful. I've never had anyone buy me a drink lol. Ironically my friends will leave early from a place if they aren't getting any attention and I'm like whut 😅
Now compare the world of the average woman to the world of the average man, especially now in the era of Tinder and Hinge They're not just invisible but around. They're non-existent, as far as women are concerned
@@savioblanc yes, but men are expected to be average. Women are constantly put down for appearance. Think about women that run for office. Why do we talk about their clothes? They are not a fashion model.
If we are gonna call out and shame men for being incel, we should call out women like this too. This isn't in anyway different. The world isn't the reason you're incompetent to be in a relationship.
At 49 I thought I was invisible and was pretty ok with the freedom it brings...then I was hit on ( by a married dude who also knew I was married, so ew) and I was so shocked I showed my husband the message and asked if it meant what I thought it meant. Dude was like, 30. Guess he has an older woman thing but I'm happily married and not about to cheat, especially with another married person. No orgasm is worth blowing up 2 families.
@@unluckyobserver6532 Being hit on by a guy who has children the same age as my grandchildren isn't a positive thing IMO. It was weird and inappropriate.
I'm 26 and I keep trying to tell young girls bragging on older women about how they can take their men, that one day you're going to age. And it hits the pretty girls that hardest because no matter how good you look at 50, you're still 50 to men who desire young women.
Yep same with men, can’t tell you how many rich older men hit on me and my friends thinking we would naturally want them not realizing they are past their prime. Like sorry I’m only attracted to men my own age and the older men are creepy and annoying
@Therapist keep thinking that sweetheart 🤣 they want a sugar daddy to be a trophy wife but they cheat with younger men. Will smith and most celeb men get cheated on for younger men so you really think your average upper class middle man or even slightly rich but average looking man has a chance ?
@@positiveenergy8888 exactly… who wants those tired old geezers when you can have a young dynamic man 😍 my husband is 10 years younger than me and I love it
Let's not also forget that her now deceased rock star ex husband wrote her out of the will for "abandoning him." That reveals her true character. “Even if I should die before our divorce is final … Paulina is not entitled to any elective share … because she has abandoned me,” he added.
A lot of people particularly in this day and age act like as soon as you turn 30 you're a senior citizen 😂. I do agree that some people have a hard time aging and can't let go of their "glory days" for some reason.
My wife is 46 y/old and absolutely stunning, not because she's pinup girl looking, but because she has loved me and me alone for the past 22 years: we've had kids, life experiences together-and no other woman compares.
I’m over 50 and I bloody love, love not being hit on and leered at and treated a certain way just because I was young and pretty. It’s fab being treated wonderfully by genuine people who know you for who you are not what you look like.
Feeling invisible is not a good feeling, however, she's only now experiencing a little bit of what many women experience from the start, even in their youth. Some reality checks hurt like a bitch, especially when you assumed you were immune. She got used to her preferred status and its painful to give up.
@@ssjgoten202 damn bro she's speaking about her experience and you're just invalidating her. i'm sorry to remind you that you don't know her life. it's okay to feel hurt but it's not something women are immune to and it's infuriating to hear men say shit like that. not everyone is a monolith. you are right to some degree but many young women are equally not very attractive, conventional or 'invisible.' i don't and should Not feel entitled to shit but we are allowed to talk about our experiences.
@@aubreyplazasuncle I aimed this at her specifically not all women, she is in fact very conventionally attractive. It may not be very nice to hear but I'd wager my whole live savings on my previous statement and sleep like a baby. I'm a 24 year old male, I have perspective on this issue. This wasn't aimed at women, just her.
She wasn’t complaining about ageism when she was signing the sports illustrated contracts and getting the multiple million dollars deals… She thinks being pretty and getting male attention is a right, no boo boo, that’s a privilege, you’re not entitled to it, don’t get confused
Women who understand looks are fleeting and temporary end up learning how to be a person with a real personality and skills because they know they can't hinge on that forever. Teach women that. Because those women seem to be doing a whole hell of a lot better in older age it seems
Right. It's like a lotto winner. You're only likely to win it once so if you blow it, it's over. You better buy something that keep producing. For the women, they need to find a stable relationship before they get old too because the options are going to get better. Strike while the iron's hot.
*Important note to add that we missed.*
- She was married for 31 years... To a famous millionaire 20 years older than her. After he predictably passed long before her, she is back to dating and very upset at the market. Was she also engaging in ageism, classism, when she chose an older richer man like many women do? Older men bring stability, income, prestige but the downsides are that they also die sooner. Now that that reality has hit her full force, she wants a refund. Boo boo didnt bring a receipt & aint leaving. SOMEBODY CALL SECURITEEHH
bitches gon bitch
31 years?
She's what dictionaries use to put next to the definition of 'hypocrite'
Double Standards, not self aware and lack of accountability. Basically a femcel.
@@jarroddeshields5205 got married when she was 9.
"When people get used to preferential treatment, equal treatment feels like discrimination." -- Thomas Sowell
Deep.
Sowell is the MAN! All black people need to study the OG.
Ohhhhhhhh I like that 👌🏽
@@slick_will2910 Nah we don't lol, social conservatism isn't a panacea for black people.
@@slick_will2910 fr he gives a rounded view of the world! Makes people much more proactive instead of reactive since the "victim" mentality is constantly spoon fed to them by race hustlers. In order for the liberal view to make sense people like Thomas Sowell can't exist haha.
She’s invisible to the guys she wants
But the guys that would want her are invisible to her
A tale as old as time
ding dong!!!
Song as old as rhyme….Father time is a beast! Lol
_* eyes closed, blindfold on, hands over face to cover the blindfold *_
"Where are all the good men? I don't see any!"
@@the180degreerule3 the more you fight time the more it runs lol 🤣
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The irony is that she probably still looks better then most women her age, AND ITS STILL NOT ENOUGH FOR HER
Her personality sucks, very self absorbed
She does look better. Look at That picture of her.
Yeah but who in their right mind would go to the bar and pick up a 50 year old woman? She needs to be at the bingo hall not clubbing.
@@sebaschan-uwu I'm sure she gets attention and $#× offers, but her options ain't the same like it was in her 20s and early 30s..
I hope I still don’t feel the need to go to parties at 50! Is she going to these parties hitting on men young enough to be her sons👀
"You're not stuck in traffic, you are traffic." I LOVE that. What a great way to describe the self centered, victim mentality.
Lived on easy mode for DECADES, but now that she isn’t treated like she’s special, she feels some type of way
When females finally forced to play on normal difficulty
😂
@@ChillAssTurtle she’s still playing on easy mode just not peaceful mode this time
@@ChillAssTurtle when females finally get out of the training area
@@incognitojon902 XD you nailed it
She still looks pretty good. If She's "Invisible" she's only invisible to the guys she wants. I'm sure there are guys talking to her and she's treating them like they're invisible.
May b no one talked to her because she seems out of their league and may be she's a bit awkward or may b introverted so no one pursued her
She's obviously fishing for attention. Watch the Kevin Samuels livestreams and it's all the same thing different woman, all of them 30+ complaining about getting attention but not from the almighty HVM they want.
They need to wake up smell the coffee and be realistic about what they want. Why should a HVM [that has MILLIONS of options] choose an old woman with mileage and emotional baggage over prime women in their 20s?
theyre chadsexual
@@Interstella-ni3vh
Because they will be ultimately unhappy and make that unfortunate man's life hell. They are _hardwired_ to go for that HVM
Exactly!!!
Best quote ever.... "You're not stuck in traffic, you ARE traffic."
These guys are so funny almost throughout the whole video, but then, once in a while, they spew these sharp philosophical phrases with so much humor, and I’m like, daaaammmn!
She caused the traffic jam. She wants attention. Everyone look at me. Get over it. Your not the center of attention. Just what I think. 🤷🏻♂️ but what do I know.
it's a funny quote, but you could be both
@@ThatWasPrettyFunny Fair enough. That is indeed one’s relative truth. But then you have the universal truth, which doesn’t delegitimize peoples’ subjective experience but does put things into perspective for everyone equally. I think that reality is what made their comment so witty.
@@ThatWasPrettyFunny that works semantically, but Im sure if you asked anyone who specialises in traffic science, they would disagree.
thing is, she is still ridiculously attractive. aging is just harder to accept when your whole identity is about being beautiful.
The worst part is older women, instead of giving good advice to young women they encourage them to make the same mistakes
honestly!!! and they would have the audacity of judging young woman so harshly on their decision like grandmas, you did the same as them young woman when you were their age. On top of that, that was your ideas or "advice" that you shared to young woman
Yeah it's called sabotage due to jealousy
Even worse, this kind of thing happen all the time in family circles. Some mothers even proud of it.
This is why middle school girls have the opinions of a old women
This comment here 📌
As a woman even I 100% agree with this. I highly doubt she is "invisible" as she claims - she's just not getting as much attention as she used to, but she can't handle that. Instead of reflecting on herself and changing her way of thinking, she is blaming men and society.
I think for anyone it can be hard to age. You are not going to get as much attention as in your glory days (whenever that is for you). Enjoy it while it lasts, and accept aging gracefully.
She doesn’t get the attention from the people she wants. She wants a man as successful and high value as her but can’t have that because men that fit that description have other options. And from those men’s perspectives, younger women are better options. So they have more, and better options than her. This kind of predicament is pretty common for women like her who are attractive and/or very picky, which I have some sympathy for, but it’s even more common for the women that refuse to settle, and would rather spend their youth dodging commitment, and being super promiscuous, which I have less sympathy for them. They can do that, no one will stop them, no one really should. Because at the end of the day it’s their body their choice whether they want to use it for kids or commitment and what not. But when the consequences of that are obvious, they shouldn’t be surprised when they run right into them.
Also, I don’t believe women like the ones I just described are inherently like that. I think really western culture just gives them an unrealistic view of how to approach dating and relationships, and puts almost zero emphasis on teaching women what men are interested in and why. Which is why I do feel kind of bad for them; they were never taught any better and usually only learn until it’s too late. Unrealistic expectations of how things should work out and validating them till they get big egos doesn’t work out a lot of the time.
@@justsomebird4285 yeah rich successful women never have "boy toys"....
gender has absolutely nothing to do with this, we are talking about aging, a process that, unbelievably, affects men and women
Actually I feel like women do get a rough lot - hear me out...
When you think about it a woman's power is in her youth, beauty and fertility - all gifts bestowed on her when she is young and naive; when she does not have the wisdom to use these gifts to the fullest in order to secure long term wellbeing. In times gone by, (patriarchal) society would be there to moderate and guide young women in this regard but not so much these days.
On the flipside, a young man is often the invisible one in the room, because young men are generally low status and poor, their raging hormones make them goofy and awkward... and society sees them as disposable. But for a man, the gifts bestowed on him (status and wealth) come later in life when he has the wisdom to make the most of them.
I speak in general terms of course - there are stupid older men just as there are ugly young women.
So in this regard there is a disparity in the stage of life that biological power is acquired by women vs men, for which women should have some sympathy.
@@SkeleTonHammer But I think we both know that would never be a relationship that would go anywhere. Odds are like me you are not one of the top 1% of men and if your woman thinks she is too good for you then that coupling is a guaranteed hiding to nothing.
Imagine her whole life she got attention and now she is "invisible", this ol grandma should wake up
She benefitted from this privilege. Now that it's over she's crying. Nah, she was the type of woman who made lots of plane janes invisible.
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Thank you for your comment. I needed to hear this from a woman.
So what dammit
@@customfittedinc I'm betting you are the same kind of women. 'So what'? Stop whining, crying and complaining about your own bad life decisions and take some accountability.
@@customfittedinc you can’t complain because you no longer benefit from your youth. We all get older, and we all know we get older. You’re not gonna get attention based off of that your whole life so use it well and don’t complain when your time is over. 💁🏽♂️
Ummm she’s “56”…& full of it and has lived a privileged life for decades due to her beauty as a top model, It doesn’t last forever Paulina. The New Movement should be to be grateful that you at least had it.
It’s men’s fault like they had control over her life choices - oblivious to the writing on the on wall
Yep and honestly she looks better than most 60 years old women i see around. She looks good for her age and she should be grateful for It.
How is this comment from 2 days ago
Well said.
@@danieladifoggia9019 right, she looks great now and better than most her age.
I can almost bet she did a lot of treating people like they were invisible.
LMFAO I know right?
As someone who met during her prime.. she's really laid back and down to earth.
You bet that based on what exactly? Y'all are so over reactionary. Actually listen to her interviews and what she's actually saying..
As an average who tried hard (hard enough to get relationships eventually), I can assure you 100% her type does, and did.
@@soso-mx8nb yeah she saying all that now.... Bet it was different when she was young😂😂😂😂
Honestly, being an average looking average income woman partnered with an average looking average income man is totally underrated. Less drama, low-stress team dynamic. Ppl need to chill with the "high value" obsession.
But.....this is the whole point? Average looking women should date average looking men but they feel entitled to 'high value men'. Never understood what happened with 'normal'/'good enough'. I'm average looking myself, of course I would like a really hot girl but you should know your worth. I'm not hitting on models, I try to date women in my league, but they have inflated ego's and only want to date up.
@@Ariovistus50 Spoiler/Protip: Start approaching “unapproachable” women, because nobody else is, and they experience tremendously less interaction due to it- to a frustrating degree.
@@skillustrates Naah, I refuse to feed their ego. They should initiate themselves. I rather give average looking girls a chance. But thanks for the tip.
meh glad you found your peace.
@@Ariovistus50 You got it flipped, it’s the average-looking girls who have the inflated ego. While the 9s and 10s rack their brain trying to figure out why they aren’t good enough to get avg-girl/below-avg-girl results.
The hoops most guys are trying to jump through are being held up and set aflame by the very subset of girls you’re trying to placate, lol. Are you seeing the pattern? This is the frustration I was referring to.
I’m 56 too and I have zero sympathy for this woman. I wasn’t beautiful as a young woman and my looks haven’t improved as I’ve grown older. It’s hard being plain/unattractive at any age. Invisible is my middle name, but I have a husband who still finds me attractive and 3 wonderful kids.
I feel zero sympathy for her. Looking up her background she was 19 marrying a 40 year old. She knows what the game is, she just hates being on the losing side of it now that she’s older.
Well, at least that proves she wasn’t ‘agist’ in her teens. I bet the guy was broke too , wink wink 😉
She didn't lose. She won, but now it is her turn to feel normal. She is having a hard time. Please feel sorry for her.
....why should being older mean you are LOSING??
She is WINNING by expressing herself!
Everyone has an agenda but not everyone has a platform.
@@yogijaya2897 She's losing because no one wants her anymore. She based her whole life on how she looked. This is what happens when you make your "looks" the only valuable trait. You only lose in the end because the wall always wins.
@@canadianturtle7240 she sounds like all the silly boys and girls online, who are mad when they cannot find a partner or get sex! This channel has incels who do the same BS. We are just targeting her because of her platform and the fact she was one of the top models. All of them are losers! She is ridiculous! Men are also ignored as they get older unless they have a lot of money, which is rare. So I don’t know why only older women complain. Mind you I am just a few years younger than her. People need to grow up, stop bitching, and take responsibility for their lives. She is very wealthy. She has more than most of us will ever have in terms of material wealth and much more. She and everyone, who bitches why no one looks at them or they cannot get sex blah blah so entitled….really need to get some therapy. And we need to stop giving them any attention. I laughed when I saw this just like I laugh when incels who are mad because they don’t get sex. Get a life, people! Enjoy it and don’t depend on others for validation. She needs to grow up!
Why can't she just gracefully accept that flirting at a party for male attention is juts not going to be apart of her life anymore. It's normal and just a fact of life. You don't see your grandma crying bc she doesn't get hit on at the function anymore, you see her gardening. This model woman is disconnected from aging and simply wants the privilege of her younger self.
She spent ~ 30 years with her husband, who died. She still enjoys sex, and is seeking a partner. Nothing wrong with that. BUT - if she's going to fashion and celebrity parties - she's shopping out of her price range for suitors, in THOSE environments (at her age).
@Adam A. Women don't care how old the roses are, they just wanna know how much they cost. 🤣
This. That grandmotherly energy is going to be so rare in the future generations because women won’t want to move onto that phase of life anymore.
This is the very definition of pulling the ladder up behind you.
"I was so hot when I was young and I used it as an advantage all my life, but now that I'm not what I use to be all those other women currently benefiting from what I benefited from should collectively stop benefiting for my benefit."
That's an excellent description to be fair.
Your name is 32 and I just gave you your 33rd like. I feel dirty.
So well put.
Ya it's sad what this society has allowed women to do
What would you do if your 20-year-old son was dating a 26-year-old and his girlfriend tragically dies? Would you be happy so now he can date someone his age? What would you say to him?
As a aging 59 yr old dude.. u guys nailed it. Her summer is what every girl dreams of. Hell, her winter ain’t so bad either.
Your line, born ugly, die ugly, 100% true. You’ll see a exceptionally unattractive young girl and you just know her life has been and will be shit.
I agree, but I think, with exception to handicaps, all people can improve their bodies and a hot body goes along way for me. Even if she has a butter face. If her body is tight with a good personality, she’s getting laid and can definitely parlay that into relationships, if she has a personality.
No a supposed “ugly” woman’s life would be probably be exceptionally fantastic due to A holes like you not being interested in wrecking her life. 👍
@@doodoo871 It is fair to say that men have far more options to increase their general attractiveness if they got unlucky in the looks department though.
But the exceptionally ugly girl is still doing better than ugly poor men though: she's still getting sex almost whenever she wants.
@@theoplays3933 sure, but men have it harder overall.
I love how she wants to start this "movement" once all the conveniences of being a young attractive woman are no longer available to her.
Hilarious
Right? She's got jokes..
I'll join after she spearheads a "movement" to redefine desirability as it relates to men under 5 9"
You do? Wait til you get old.
Taken from Madonna’s playbook
@@sublimeblush What you are not understanding is that women who become "invisible" after a certain age are only beginning to feel what it is like for most men in this world. Study after study shows that women rate men on an S-Curve, a pareto distribution, and see the vast majority of men as ugly... yes, ugly. We have the largest percentage of male virgins under 30 than ever recorded. Marriages are falling due to no fault divorces and the unbelievable disparity between custody and custody payments between men and women. Women clown men who are not at least 6'. Article after article call fat women "plus size" while still referring to fat men as fat. "Plus size women refuse to date fat men" is the typical article relating to this. Body positivity and ageism are only movements for women. Old guys are refused jobs all the time. Just read the stories, or know a guy in tech, and they will tell you stories. Imagine having to work up in a company for years and next thing you know you are training your 22 year old replacement?
She married Ric Ocasek, a very unattractive dude who was lucky to be born with extreme creativity and drive. Someone who had to completely build himself up. She was hired to be in their Drive video because she was hot and everybody wanted her. They all had to have years of musical experience, plus innate talent, to be there. The talent alone for that one song and video is more than most could fathom. She was born with amazing looks and lived a life roughly 99% of the population never will, and she is still crying about her life.
This is why so many men laugh and find this funny.
Only now at 50+ years old, she is being judged negatively by the standards that she help create back when she was in Sports Illustrated and in her 20s.
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She helped create? Well, maybe. But she certainly benefitted from those standards… and still does. You can be sure she doesn't hang with "mundanes".
I don't think she's even being judged - she got used to attention all the time, and now she's not getting it
She didnt help create it, because she was chosen, those standards started before her she fit it.
@@mscutie-rd3vn That's right, maybe maintain or enforce or recreate may have been more accurate? Either way, you're right in that she had no problems going along with it.
She married a man 20 years older than her back in the day, but is upset that men are wanting to be with women who are doing the same shit she did decades ago.
Accountability: what's that?
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I was definitely looking for that one👌
And he was married when they met. He married her shortly after his divorce from his 1st wife so what does that tell you.
As a woman who was told I was ugly on the daily since I was a child until I was 16, very dorky until I was 20 and I kinda sorta got my looks together a bit more, and then it took me another 6 years to convince myself that any guy would ever want to kiss me, this makes me deeply sad. This reinforces the idea that I "wasted my best years", and my best years were the time I was desperately trying to claw back from PTSD. That was my "summer" according to you guys. And now I should rightfully accept that my best "turn has passed", because I had such a great time in my 20s.
My life is alright, I'll be fine even if I have to be alone. But it does depress me to think about the fact that I've never been in a relationship at age 30, and I know that's weird, and the fact that it's weird is debilitating and doesn't make me want to get to know new men, cause I'll have to "explain myself".
I know you guys are generalizing, but I feel like so often men only consider the POV of the hot women, and then think every woman experiences that, or at least something similar to that. We don't, we really don't.
You should have called in to Kevin Samuel's... rip kevin
You didn’t waste your best years, but you’re most likely past the years when you would attract the most people. Unfortunately that is reality. Doesn’t mean you’ll never be able to find happiness, just means you shouldn’t go in with expectations.
I’m 25 and I have a VERY similar experience. Never been in a “real” relationship and I can count more times when guys have looked disgusted at me than attractive. Many guys say they prefer girls who’ve had past relationship experiences, but when your dating resume is abysmal because you don’t have a certain look, you feel as if your value stems from your appearance. I didn’t wake up one day and lose self confidence, society did that to me. Now I’m learning to be comfortable existing regardless of how others perceive me because my intrinsic value is what matters.
@@PrettyPrincess2614 near the end of the vid Aba stated that women who are not conventionally attractive have his sympathy as their struggle is worse than conventionally unattractive guys.
Yes I think you should accept it. But it’s not some terrible truth, it’s just a fact of life for everyone that no one should take personally. It’s better to detach yourself from how others perceive you than be delusional in my opinion. I believe your battle against PTSD is something I can relate to and that makes me respect you so much more than your level of attractiveness. Something I do want to say though, is that the concept of your “best years” are subjective. Maybe in terms of youthfulness your best years have passed but the toxic relationships you would have attracted in those years would have been the REAL waste of time, not the time you spent healing yourself. The grass is not greener on the other side.
Being a 51 year old guy, I am happy with my invisibility shield. A guy is normally invisible but once you get old - double invisibility.
And it's Nice!...You can walk on the park, have a drink on the bar or whatever you want and nobody bothers ya, invsibility is great...well, for functional adults thats it.
I’m the same age and I definitely went from being “the man” to now in some ways , invisible…. But I’m okay with it lol
Shows men are in touch with reality. Women don't.
That's funny because the older men get, the more attention we get. At least for me.
I can’t speak for all men but I tend to notice we handle being alone much better so being invisible isn’t the end of the world
"When you're so used to privilege, equality feels like oppression" or so the saying goes. Her pretty privilege is gone and now she knows how it feels to be like every other male.
Its not even pretty privilege because she is still a gorgeous woman.....what happened is the game she played to her advantage for so long has turned on her and she cant stand it!
@@bluemeanie9554 Gorgeous by whose standard. She wants men to flirt with her and they don't. Men are biologically attracted to women who can bear children.
@@paulweber624 But you didnt say "ATTRACTIVE" privilege you said "PRETTY" which signifies visual aesthetics and aesthetically she is still gorgeous. You are trying to conflate physical attraction to relationship attraction....point blank this woman can get it from almost any straight male she comes across, unfortunately for her the "it" wont be a ring
@@paulweber624 oh hush...women are generally attracted to younger, well built tall men. That's how it works. But this woman still looks good.
@@serious7179 Stop shitting on men to big up women. None of these broads are a prize. I swear comments like this make me about ready to become misogynistic. Women are shallow AF! And it's their fault. Coming from a decent-looking dude.
You can't convince me that a single man in his 50s wouldn't want to date her. Even an upper class one who has a history of paying young women for company. As long as they are actually looking for a companion I believe they would be very willing to give her a chance. Pretty damn sure a 50 year old man would be thrilled to find a woman the same age that looked like her.
Oh absolutely. It’s likely just her being super picky or there just isn’t any chemistry.
Also, she probably knew damn well that men who are well off tend to go for younger women.
Women are still good for sex & relationships without kids at an old age. Yeah don’t discard us completely. She looks fantastic! Why wouldn’t she be chosen? Men would have to be crazy
Yeah absolutely!! She looks very beautiful so while she might not get as much attention as in her 20s, she still propably get more attention as a 50 year old model than an average looking girl in her 20s.
@@moonlightstargem1006 you are missing the point completely. She has men chasing her for sure but she doesn't get the attention from the men SHE WANTS. The guys she wants want younger women. If you really wanna help her and other women like her, tell her to be realistic and let the man who wants to be with her be with her . There are a lot of great men wtv age. Leave alone and stop haressing the men who don't want you and stop shaming these men for having preferences, and go get a good man who wanna be with you.
It means she has nothing else to offer. Her ex-husband was in the band, The Cars, and he wrote her and his sons (I think) out of his will before he died. So she must have been terribad.
So she has her kids and nothing else apparently.
Change your party!!!! YES! Thanks guys! I’m a 55 yr old female that gets as much male attention (mostly unwanted) as I did at 15,25,35….. thank you for calling out another deluded celebrity! As usual, perspective is the problem. I love your content! I wish you all the best!
But she only wants one type of man's Attention. A normal man wouldn't get her attention but she still thinks she could pull the same men she did in her twenties and it's pissed off about it
@@lindipearson9633 💯 agree
This i agree on
Actually
She got so accustomed to using her looks and youth to get by in life. At 56 years old, she's now shook she can't have anything she wants.
I promise she can still get whatever she wants. Guys are easy
@@hardlyhome314 90% of guts are easy and will take what they can get
@@hardlyhome314 no because the guys that are easy are the ones that she doesn’t want. Incels I sympathise with, femcels I laugh at because they do it to themselves.
It’s more sad to even reach that age and still have that immature mindset. I think that’s the most embarrassing part of this
shes too picky so yes she will die unhappy and fkn miserable because no would she look at an average earner after banging millionaires all her life. trash she was and ever will be. sad ending for most females today because they all share this mentality
I feel like people nowadays are so entitled that when someone doesn’t want them they feel the need to try to act like they are somehow oppressed instead of going after the people that do want them
Everyone nowadays love to take a victim position.
Blame the liberals & SJWs.
yeah, as long as no one is actively trying to treat you with disrespect keep it movin
I’m oppressed cuz I ain’t getting no head rn 😏
Lol for real, I missed when people would actually just be upset with others, instead of somehow saying something is a systematic issue, or something greatly wrong with our society
For reals!
I'm one of those ugly girls, but I have never felt invisible in fact I have always felt the exact opposite. I stand out. I was not popular at all when I was younger but everyone still remembers me and knows who I am because I was the really ugly girl. I actually used to wish I could blend in more so that people would stop paying so much attention to me because being ugly made me a target. It doesn't bother me now because thankfully I was blessed with a really good sense of humor along with other traits that make me appealing, and I have never had a problem finding anyone to love me for me, but I do feel bad for those girls who don't have it like that. You got to find your value and if it's not in your looks you got to accept that move on and figure out what it is.
Welcome to a man's life. May I take your order?
@@chumajamesnxele106 Agreed, this is basically 95% of men's experience. As a man, you have to have the resources, you have to have the charming personality, you have to have the skills. I feel lucky that I found a wonderful woman years ago and am not one of my peers still out there just trying to find someone who won't cheat on them. Sad state of affairs today.
BIG PROPS TO YOU! It is not easy in the beginning but as you mature and grow into your own you do start to appreciate what really matters as an individual and in the world period.
You'd have to be a particularly ugly girl to experience the same level of rejection as an average guy these days.
You don’t sound ugly at all!!! 😉
"If you look your age, nobody will listen to you"
This is nonsense. Her problem is precisely that she doesn't look her age - in the sense that she's still trying to present herself as a sex object at 50. People don't listen to her because she's delusional, not because she's old.
omg
is she present herself as a sex object or are u portraying her as one?
@@alyzzalee If you dig into the story a bit, that's exactly what she's trying to present herself as. She wants to get the same kind of attention from men for her physical beauty that she used to get, and she's frustrated that it's not working - and it's not working because female beauty is very much age-based.
eh im not sure it's that lmao
@@alyzzalee You not an "eye user," eh?
I don't get it... she looks fine to me. Maybe she just never developed a personality as a result of being chased for her younger looks?
Yep that's true. Cause people will put up with anything she was doing at her 20s. So she never was told off and to adjust
The problem is, she's probably looking for billionaires and worldwide famous men, they don't want a 56yo woman, they want a 20-30yo.
She’s look mad good. Most people in their 50s wished they looked like her.
from what i read she is recently widowed of 20 year marriage but either way she is lucky to look like that at that age
It could be an issue with her personality. But I think the real issue is that, while she says no one wants to date her, I’m 100% certain that there’s plenty of gentlemen around her age that would love to be her man, but they’re “regular guys” and are thus invisible to her, the same way she’s invisible to the rich and prestigious men that are ignoring her for younger prettier women who are attracted to their clout. Which just so happens to be a good description of herself when she was that age 😂
She still looks damn good for her age. There’s some fine old guys out there that are actually her age who would think she’s gorgeous.. go where you’re appreciated. It’s not rocket science.
I don't think the guys her age actually want her. The model in her prime years didn't want someone her age and wanted someone older. The guys her age are in their prime and they don't want someone their age.
@@RondoRajon41 I guess that’s the dilemma, right? It just looks like a weird validation thing to me.. I’m sure there’s some guys out there who’d love to be with her.
@Bobrzyca Pola Right! And what are the age range of the guys she’s going for? When she said she’d try to approach guys and they wouldn’t be interested, it led me to believe that she’s approaching young guys. From my experience, men usually like women who are their age or a little bit younger. So the chances of her getting rejected are gonna be pretty high if she’s going for guys in their 20s and 30s.
@@Dvrkwulf She wants older guys. She already inherited money from when her millionaire husband that passed away. The reason she is struggling is because socioeconomically, she is higher than most guys(old and young). Millionaires are like 5% of the US population. Women with money rarely date down socioeconomically, they want someone on their level or higher. Also, she was a supermodel which means she was probably 5'9 to 6'0 tall. The average male height is 5'8 to 5'9. She probably wants someone taller than her aswell even at her old age. On top of that she is 56 years old, has kids, and cant procreate anymore.
She wants a man with money, which majority of the time tends to be older men. Older men or millionaires want a family and/or a trophy wife. She doesn't fit any of the criteria they are looking for.
@@RondoRajon41 she can just get regular 60 year old dude with a regular Job easy since she already have money and they can both be happy. Yeah she definitely got to lower her standards and go with what she can get just be with somebody who’s company you value to spend your later years with.
From a female who was invisible when I was young, all I can say is, she's not understanding the advantages of being invisible. Like Preach said, you've got to go to a different club. You've got to discover the joys of a different game. Party with a different crowd, enjoy doing things you couldn't do when you were so "visible"..
Agreed
When I was "invisible" I got into so many locker rooms and changing rooms unnoticed.
I really do not understand what the fuss is about.
She just wants a rich man and rich men typically want younger women.. That's the issue. She looks good enough to pull alot of men her age and even younger but she wants a certain type of man who isn't the average male. She's complaining about a problem that she's created for herself.
@@bsmi1361 right, she could easily find men if she went to a middle-class/upper-middle-class party or country club instead of chasing millionaires. She is so spoiled and privileged she thinks the rest of us don't exist outside of the 1% of USA wealthy.
@@martynBVT Facts. The class of men she wants aren't checking for her. That doesn't mean 80% of the other men aren't. But she's paying no attention to a large percentage of men and instead focused on the 20% that are paying her no attention.. It's a never ending game of stupidity.
@@CEWIII9873 What’s funny is you’re probably being serious
Superior beings are never ready to hear that they’ve never been superior and now their luck has run out as their cheat code doesn’t work anymore.
Aging is a part of life. I’m not a spring chicken, now in my 40s, but okay. You gotta appreciate what phase of life your in and I agree, the pool of suitors available to a women will definitely change. We don’t need an aging movement. What she needs is self love & self acceptance.
Underrated.
Self love is underrated.
Preach
im sure her taste in men has changed too, yet we are supposed to be attracted to her forever?
everybody wants to be ryan reynolds/marilyn monroe at the age of 25, but even ryan reynolds and marilyn monroe only had that privilege for a year
Yeah, stop focusing on these things you can't have anyway. Accept where you are. The best thing you can do past your thirties is be at peace with yourself.
Once upon a time society regulated this - so very few 40 something women (notwithstanding bereavement or other rare exceptions) would be dwelling on the issue of the "pool of suitors".
Outer beauty doesn't last forever. She should be grateful she even had the luxury and privilege to be a top model at one point in her life
Ikr wtf
“Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.”
Proverbs 31:30 NLT
Nobody gives a shit though and she's finally realizing that
And am sure she has money,,, but being lonely is hard,,, but dating is hard for all of us,, wish her luck
imagine being ugly all your life not have luxury or privilage just being bullied and abused for how you were born
When a man whines about not getting the female attention he wants, he's called an incel. This woman deserves no sympathy for not getting the attention she wants. She's not entitled to attention
Facts looool
She lived off the cream of the world for more than a decade or 2. Any man she wanted, any wealth, live any where, choose the offers you want to accept. All because of youth and beauty and nothing more. Now she wants the finest for her whole life. Life don't work that way for a single person on this Earth
Real spill
She's talking about how since she was a super model in the 90s she experienced people obsessing over her looks and kinda treating her just as a pretty object and now she feels the opposite that she just feels invisible. She is actually being raw and honest about her experience of being a beautiful woman and how you are treated differently with age and people are just missing the points and roasting her.
If white guys made this video they'd be called incel and alt right and misogynist lol
I LOVE your take on this model, I've been laughing through it!!! It doesn't do anyone ANY GOOD to try and cheat time, it just ain't gonna work sweety❣️
I'm 66 now, I've had my day in the sun so to speak, what good would it do me to try and hang on to something that is NEVER, EVER coming back, we ALL have our time, it's my turn now to help younger people (women especially) to be the best THEY can be, not to try and stay relevant as one of them, LOL!!! The sooner we ALL realize this, the happier, and healthier we'll all be!!
"Your average 20 year old male is invisible"
damn Aba... that cut deep
He not wrong though. They was either to young or I was to young for them🤦♂️.
Bruh I'm 25 and I'm still fighting
@@avuyilecakwebe6880 I'm 27 and STILL fighting
@@super-engineer8437 Social media legit absolutely wrecked the game for us. But I was listening to Elliot Hulse a few weeks back. Continue doing what you do, hit the gym, DO NOT SIMP for these women who don't want you, ignore them. Read books, go outside and take care of your mental. And by 30 - 35 (you should be fine)And these chicks are now gonna want you to date your age
@@avuyilecakwebe6880 …. but then who do you guys date?
After you put all that time into yourself (which is great) do you date the younger women that are just wanting to cash in on you guys or do you date women 10 years older than you that learned their lesson?
Asking as a married woman 😊
Haha I’m 50 and never felt better. My life is never been about looks. Some older women are so superficial. They usually hate on younger women. It’s pathetic . There’s so much in life more important than being attractive. It’s a privilege to get older. You guys are spot on 👍
You must have been a trainwreck when you were younger if you've never felt better. 🤣
@@cobbler88 Why? If you’ve never been 50 yourself you don’t know what it’s like. Some people really enjoy that era of their lives.
@@therainman7777 I'm 51. And there's a difference between enjoying your life more than you ever have, and having never felt better.
@@cobbler88 Don’t take this the wrong way, but if you’re actually 51 years old and you’re calling people trainwrecks in the comments section of UA-cam- and cracking yourself up while doing it- you may have some growing up to do.
@@therainman7777 This is the best you can do?
You insert yourself into a conversation with apparently not so sharp reading comprehension skills, then after having the very simple statement you misinterpreted clarified for you, you'd rather (ironically, given the circumstances) shift to condescension rather than accept that you were mistaken, or take the L?
I would put forth there is probably a certain age range within which people are most likely to lash out because they've acted the fool, but I'm wagering there's an equal chance that you still don't realize that you didn't understand the original statement.
Regardless, the next time the adults are talking maybe you should just sit quietly at the card table in the corner with the rest of the children. Maybe you'll learn something.
Models have a bubble they're living in where everyone is nice and respectful and they think it's because of their personality lol
Personality and/or ''hard work''
Duhhhhhhhhh
@@Dickson_ so tldr, attention seeking? And can’t take no for an answer?
28. Bisexual ("People with loose sexual boundaries like bisexuality, polyamory & pansexuality- sexualities where they can't really declare a major or stick to a specific type tend to be trauma survivors*." [*May correlate with No. 26] )
29. Exhibits 'infantile/neotenic' behaviours when in need of aid (e.g. using a childlike voice* and speech pattern, acting "cute", naive; sometimes with a 'sensual' undertone - often used to avoid accountability, responsibility or get their way) [*Not to be confused with No. 21; this one (29) is intentional while No. 21 is 'involuntary'] [Could correlate with No. 10 & 25. Likely with No. 16] )
30. Frequent mood swings-- could be 'preemptively' identified with certain comments e.g. "Having someone who can handle your mood swings is such a blessing", "Need a man that can handle me (when I'm mad, act crazy..)" [Correlates with No. 19. Possibly with No. 13, 17, 18, 22, 23 & 25]
31. Really into astrology (has their personality, behaviours or actions based on zodiac signs) 32. Being "Free-spirited"; 'Hippie' or 'Gypsy-like'. (Could correlate with No. 8, 10 & 26. Possibly with No. 28)
33. Often/always plays the victim-- "When you're so used to playing the victim you don't realise when you're being the villain." (Often correlates with No. 15, 20 & 29. Possibly with No. 6, 10, 11, 16 & 17)
For those who are perplexed about No. 1-5, google search for images of Saweetie or blac chyna or sumn idk
These flags could be a result of insecurities, emotional and/or mental immaturity, childhood emotional neglect, attention/validation seeking, attachment issues, etc.
Observing people's personalities, character and behaviours rather than focusing on their 'physical attractiveness' is a good way to overcome the halo effect.
Also, like attracts like, so make sure to be self-aware and reflect on your actions/behaviour to grow and mature as a person. And be compassionate to others as you'd be to yourself.
These are just my observations & opinions and should be held up to scrutiny.
You speaking facts
I’m a women and found this absolutely hilarious 😂 😂😂😂😂😂
I was never the girl that bashed guys
So as they’re re blossoming into their grown man…they’re still looking for me
Girls should be kinder to young guys. It’s not easy to build up the courage to talk to women
She's 50 and going to clubs where the average age is probably half of hers. She could be the hottest woman in the room, and a good portion of guys would still be weirded out that a woman old enough to be their mom is hitting on them. No shit she isn't turning heads like she used to, not in that scene. Her ego is bruised and she doesn't know how to deal with it except screech about ageism, because she's never been humbled before.
And that’s the same with men who are old
The difference between men and women is that we can still impregnate younger women even when we are old. So you “older” women better realise that reality
@@williamong911 It is the same for men though.. whenever I saw 35+ aged dudes in the club.. it was creepy and gross.
@@williamong911 I’m sorry to burst your bubble but mens fertility decline as they get older too. They still have enough sperm to impregnate a younger woman true but their quality of sperm decline. Men are at a higher risk of having kids with autism, learning disability, low IQ after the age of 45. Old dusty sperm. I wouldn’t want an older man to impregnate me, I want a healthy baby.
hey we all gotta know the limitations of our age...being the oldest dude in the club is lame and desperate looking..but at lets say, the gym or at the grocery store your good, if your silver fox type gotta go to more "refined" social gatherings. Dance classes, museums, theatre, quiet bars that reflect your personality..
As for the fertility issue.. Plenty of young dudes like cougars and sugar momma's... And plenty young women like DILF's and sugar daddys....TO EACH.....THEIR...OWN ? ! ?....... stop worrying about the truths the opposite side gotta realize..you got truths to figure out too....we all do..
Some women: Don’t objectify me!
Those same women years later: Why the F isn’t anybody objectifying me anymore!?!?!?
🤣🤣🤣
@Jen Agrippa "It's only objectifying if it's from the guys I don't like"
@@wtr3059 exactly
🥴 my friend who’s younger than me (I’m 38)complains about men checking her out when she’s out on a run. I tell her don’t worry, it’ll soon be over, you’re 30. Tick tock tick tock.🤣
I look 10 year younger than my age so I still get looks.🤣
@Jen Agrippa Bruuuuuuuh… You’re getting triggered by a joke and telling me to relax. That’s funny 😄
At 18 years old, she met a married rich dude who was over 20 years her senior. The man divorced his then-37-year-old wife (he married her when she was 20) a few years later and married her. Then, shockingly 😲, they got divorced a few years ago when she was in her forties, after which her wealthy ex died and left her nothing. Ever since, this pillar of society has been championing 💪the movement against ageism
Ahahaha nice
Her lack of self-awareness is mind boggling.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Pillar of society 😂😂😂🤣
Ric Ocasek never divorced Paulina. He died 3 years ago. They were married till the day he died. 31 years they were married.
I love the instant loss of control! Preach it! Also her attitude may have something to do with it, like you say she's not getting what she thinks she's 'entitled' to. But no one is entitled to demand anyone to love them or desire them.
Just wanna say guys, to be fair to her, she was married for like 30 years. Her husband recently died and she's newly single... But yeah she still needs a reality check. I'm sure she's not "invisible". Just invisible to the guys SHE wants. Sure there's tons of men willing to even marry her, but they're invisible to her. And even then, I'm sure it's not even as bad as she says it is. It's just a little bit less than what she's been used to for her entire life.
That part 🙆🏾♀️
I bet the type of guys she is after are high status who have options. Why settle with a 50+ year old when these guys can get a woman in her mid to late twenties?
Preach! That’s exactly the point. Invisible to the dudes she wants. IE the older richer dudes.
If all she has to offer is her body then ya..
Yeah, to an old geezer, and now she is receiving the results of her choices.
You guys are spot on...these women don’t care about sisterhood until they’re value is gone (they sold out when the price was high). In the meantime, the non supermodel women had to build character and work on more important things.
which isnt bad. imo, this is where everybody gets it wrong. having to build your character and intellect isnt a punishment. and even good-looking people should have to do that.
That’s definitely what’s going on right now
@@obiwankenobi661 I agree with you!
*their
I agree about them not caring about a sisterhood.. but men make these standards. The fashion industry is own by men. You know why youth &beauty is push on women, money. That's why we got all these anti aging pills cream surgery. Evey other commercial is fast quick easy weight loss with this and that. Right after that commercial is the new bacon clogged up your heart burger. I empathize with her cause I know what it is like feel that way. What she is complaining about is the world Using you up and then spitting you out. We dont get to choose how we look she just got lucky with her looks🤷♀️
I paused 1 minute in. It's got nothing to do with how feminine she is. She's just not in her prime anymore. This woman is complaining because she's having an experience that most average men who try to date have experienced from age 18 upwards.
The big difference is that men age into their prime and woman age out of it. So by the time a woman experiences that feeling of not being desirable, it's already too late for her; whereas when a man experiences that in his early 20s, he can use that negative feeling as motivation to develop himself over the coking decades.
I assure you her experience is nothing like the average guy. Her problem is not that she cant get any, her problem is that she cant get any from the 5%ers she is used to getting something from. If she just lowered her standards to include average men she would be right back on the carousel.
@@kvasir8931 Yeah, you're right. This woman experiences the smallest inconvenience in life and wants to make an entire movement out of it. She spent decades of her life living on easy mode, now she's on normal she wants to change the world, and it's not even really normal because she can still get most men her age.
@@Pedant_Patrol That is IF the man is able to acquire the resources necessary to move into that top 1% sphere, but most men WILL NOT do that seeing as 1% is an extremely small percentage of people, meaning MOST WILL NOT GET THERE. It’s good to strive for that point, but most men who are average unfortunately will maintain the same experience throughout their life unless they drastically improve their status, which as we’ve established, is easier said than done.
@@mvp4lyfateverything- Who said anything about being in the 1%. I surely didn't. A man doesn't have to be a multi-millionaire to have relationship success; but I would say that all men can develop themselves between the ages of 20 and 35 to significantly improve their SMV. It just takes some hard work and discipline.
"you're not stuck in traffic. You're traffic"
Peach
it happens at every age. when you’re 13, you don’t get treated like an innocent 5 year old. when you’re 16, you are expected to shed your immaturity. when you’re 18, no more birthday parties and christmas presents. you gain and lose things with age.
lmao you're right this 50 year old woman is basically having a tantrum because she doesnt get a birthday party anymore
when you put it like that its just kind of tragic...
Woah, no more parties or presents after 18? That's sad man, keep on celebrating, adults deserve to feel appreciated & special too.
@@NotAnotherKuromi That's not really up to the individual though, unless you're celebrating your own birthday. When it comes to birthdays and presents it shifts from being an obligation when you're a child to, like you said, appreciation, but nobody is owed appreciation if you know what I mean.
If people around you value you, you will continue to have the same celebrations and get gifts, if not, tough luck.
@@NotAnotherKuromi that's not the point. She is still a beautiful woman but can't be content with that because she wants to be treated and viewed as a young lady half her age. She is delusional
Good point didn't think about it that way
My guess is... She is not invincible at all.
She, like a lot of women just doesnt understand men.
She probably wants a man around her age or very slightly younger, AS successful or more successful than she is, driven, competitive, etc.
A man like that has options. Thesame way she desires him, he is also desired by the type of women he ACTUALLY wants. Younger women.
No matter how much society tries to shame, insult and guilt men into wanting what they naturally don't want, these men will always go for younger.
I feel for her. Apparently she was married for years and lost her husband. Sucks. But now she needs to just be realistic. Get what you can get now, try to be content with that... Or stay single.
Exactly. She's not invincible; I could probably beat her.
She left her husband and two years after their divorce, he died leaving her nothing in his will.
About 15 years ago this woman made fun of a younger, plus size model for being too curvy. On TV she said the girl catered to the male fantasy and was therefore not model material. Fucking rich to hear her complain about needing to change beauty standards now
@@justinecamille7426 why would he? They weren't married anymore.
@@justinecamille7426 that's what happens when you leave someone. I wouldn't expect her to leave him anything in her will.
She does look really good for someone her age. She took care of herself very well throughout the years. However, if you’re dating for shallow reasons such and looks and money, you’re gonna get treated like a shallow commodity. The reason why happy couples who have been together for decades are still happy is because they have substance to their personalities. She could find not only a partner, but a good kind hearted partner if she dropped the shallow requirements.
Exactly. She's not bad looking or hideous. Just not in her prime anymore. About as delusional as an older male athlete or warrior thinking he can keep up with the younger warriors at the same pace instead of developing the older mentor niche.
There are plenty of men that would feel blessed to have her in their lives. But she wants the men closer to her age that are wealthy and established yet she wants to complain about shallowness. I've got no sympathy for this woman.
All facts and a good breakdown. Paulina needs to look at herself and stop trying so hard to be a victim. Let's be honest...she was a gold digger when she was young and that won't work anymore. Time to switch things up or enjoy single life
I personally can't wait until I'm invisible to random men. Bring it on!
It's already started happening in my 30s and I'm so grateful 🙌🙌
Can go about my business without having that feeling of being watched, or having disgusting things said to me.... or having an actual conversation with a man, and have it not lead to an inappropriate touch because I was blamed for flirting.
It's freaking awesome!
This woman obviously has 0 substance other than her looks. And that ain't anyone's problem but her own!!!!
you shouldnt be aging that bad at only 30 thats kinda sad
So, she was treated like an invisible 20-year-old male, and her feelings got hurt? BETA! lol
Seriously though, she's got time to waste on nonsense like this? What a luxury to be able to throw away time like that over a standard she helped perpetuate. Must be nice to create and pick your own problems.
nah that BETA was too much .hahahaha god blesss you . HAHHHAHAHHAHA
28. Bisexual ("People with loose sexual boundaries like bisexuality, polyamory & pansexuality- sexualities where they can't really declare a major or stick to a specific type tend to be trauma survivors*." [*May correlate with No. 26] )
29. Exhibits 'infantile/neotenic' behaviours when in need of aid (e.g. using a childlike voice* and speech pattern, acting "cute", naive; sometimes with a 'sensual' undertone - often used to avoid accountability, responsibility or get their way) [*Not to be confused with No. 21; this one (29) is intentional while No. 21 is 'involuntary'] [Could correlate with No. 10 & 25. Likely with No. 16] )
30. Frequent mood swings-- could be 'preemptively' identified with certain comments e.g. "Having someone who can handle your mood swings is such a blessing", "Need a man that can handle me (when I'm mad, act crazy..)" [Correlates with No. 19. Possibly with No. 13, 17, 18, 22, 23 & 25]
31. Really into astrology (has their personality, behaviours or actions based on zodiac signs) 32. Being "Free-spirited"; 'Hippie' or 'Gypsy-like'. (Could correlate with No. 8, 10 & 26. Possibly with No. 28)
33. Often/always plays the victim-- "When you're so used to playing the victim you don't realise when you're being the villain." (Often correlates with No. 15, 20 & 29. Possibly with No. 6, 10, 11, 16 & 17)
For those who are perplexed about No. 1-5, google search for images of Saweetie or blac chyna or sumn idk
These flags could be a result of insecurities, emotional and/or mental immaturity, childhood emotional neglect, attention/validation seeking, attachment issues, etc.
Observing people's personalities, character and behaviours rather than focusing on their 'physical attractiveness' is a good way to overcome the halo effect.
Also, like attracts like, so make sure to be self-aware and reflect on your actions/behaviour to grow and mature as a person. And be compassionate to others as you'd be to yourself.
These are just my observations & opinions and should be held up to scrutiny.
@@Dickson_ u prolly spamming this shit stfu
How did ur comment was 2 days ago?? 0.o
How are 20 year old man invisible. I mean I would rather look at 20 year old male than look at 50 year old male.
My parents always told my sisters & I growing up that “Charm is deceitful and beauty fades;
but a woman who fears the Lord will be praised. Reward her for her work- let her actions result in public praise.” Not everything is going to last forever especially ones looks.
Well said
Amen
Amen 🙂
I feel no sympathy or empathy for women that previously participated in oppressing other women and now they’re realizing their time is up. Whether they said or did something, they actively dismissed our stories. They’re not allowed to make PSA’s demanding all women come together to fight beauty standards because their target audience is no longer interested in them. Nope, stand in that pride you held in being the favorite.
As an unambiguous BW who has been called ugly 85% of her life by both men and women, I wholeheartedly agree with this comment.
Fucking preach! 💯
Absolutely!
Right! And she should probably explore why she has the need for men to fawn over her.
It isn't even a beauty standard. She isn't ugly she's just not AS desirable to men anymore. That's her problem. She chose what to do in her youth and she never chose to build a relationship that would last now you're searching and other people aren't looking for you like they used to
She is the one model I know of who hasn’t had plastic surgery to make her appear younger. She’s being real. People can grow and change their opinions. Life experience has a tendency to do that.
I don't know
What she said i saw as a preteen
Most men were drawn to me physically
Took me years to see
They were intimidated by my brains..
I thought my outgoing sporty and being very educated was keeping people🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Men n women were mostly there for surface level reasons...
Good news ive met a few loyals for life...
However u don't gotta b 50
If u open ur mind at 20 you'll know what she's saying is the way of it...
Most people aren't deep
Period..
I think the real issue is she didn’t capitalized on her looks the right way. She didn’t take the time to come up with a plan B. Now at age 50, she still finds her self worth through being man’s arm candy. She should have utilized her youthful days to work on her self esteem, her confidence and self value in other ways. Look at Rihanna, a stunning natural beauty but she’s not getting any younger and music can’t financially sustain her lifestyle. She created several businesses and is now a billionaire! Looks can only get you so far, but this ex model still very beautiful and can definitely find a man. Not all older men want younger woman or if they do, it’s usually just a sexual attraction. She should want a man who will truly value her companionship.
Good point. As I mentioned in my comment she seemed emotionally immature and I agree with what you wrote.
she did capitalize, she fucked around but didnt get a husband. that was her choice
Agreed:)
She capitalized, she was married for 31 years until her husband passed. She claims to have had a good life but like most women she is complaining she can't get the young dudes she is attracted too.
I think she still stuck on that hot girl party phase. She should be going to book clubs and knitting groups.
This was a supermodel on the cover of sports illustrated twice, traveled all over the world in her early 20's, and was married for over 30yrs to a popular rock musician. She lived a life 98% of people will never see or know. She wants to fight "ageism", sorry lady, there is no affirmative action for dating, go sit your ass down somewhere!!!
Oh the bitch was married lmao, ahhh fuck, these women are just delusional lmao da hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@returnofthemac9392 I'm confused. Why are you calling her a bitch, and what does her being married in the past have to do with anything? Her husband died.
@@ananse77 The point is she already had her turn + some
@@benja303 I see. I guess that's one way to look at it.
@@ananse77 They divorced before he died, but yet, she tries to claim sympathy for her EX-HUSBAND'S death, as if she were mourning the loss of a person she actually loved and was still with. I repeat: when he died, they were not together.
“Men walk away to talk to someone 20 years younger”
“Women walk away to talk to someone 20x richer 🤨”
Make it make sense !? Lmao
Funny thing in this scenario is someone who's 20x richer is walking away to someone 20 years younger.
Exactly. Reality is waking them up from their Disney fantasy. 🤣🤣🤣
Funny thing is that she was the 20+ something when she met her 20 years old husband.
Women walk away to talk to someone taller
It’s also funny because I watched older videos of her on talk shows and she was complaining about how people objectify her & focus on her looks. Now she complains that people don’t stop and stare when she walks by, the complete opposite
I'm proud of us guys for just accepting rejection without having to start victimizing ourselves to the public. If a dude did this then he is instantly giving off incel vibes and like people start getting scared. This woman says the same thing, is featured in an article. 😮💨
I’m guessing you haven’t heard of the “Black-pill”. Some brothas are stuck in a sad reality, and have entire channels dedicated to victimizing.
@@yahmicah4294 that blackpill is just door to your downward spiral
@@yahmicah4294 those guys are all nihilists tho
There whole life is about misery and no meaning
This woman represents most women while these blackpillers are a small minority
As a woman, I appreciate the courage it takes to ask women out, I admit that I couldn't do it so Thankyou! Some girls need a lesson in polite rejection.
@@madaxwayne Some would rather keep they heads in the sand.
Why would men who can get younger better looking women not do just that?
She wants validation and she’s not getting it. She was once one of those women that men ignored older women to be with. Look at the age difference between her & her late husband.
Lol , a woman having to go through what every young man goes through in their early 20s and is complaining about it. That age wall hits quick and a lot of women fail to realize this. As they get older the game changes for them …😅
She deserves it. A smart woman would find herself a good man while she is young and has options. Aging doesn't even matter that much anymore since you can do it gracefully with a husband. Not running around in Clubs looking for partners.
@@Aliyaaaa she married young and was married for 31 years. Doesn’t change her entitlement though
Lol it’s funny
@K C point is feeling invisible is just life for most ppl. More so guys than girls for sure. But she just gotta suck it up is what everyone is saying. She mad a bad decision marrying an old guy. Most dudes don’t have that option. And probably wouldn’t take it if they did.
At least some of those women find someone by the time they're 30 something.
lol poor Aba just lost his damn mind over this one
I'm glad he did, though. I feel like he took the blow for me so I didn't have to personally reel in cringeness at that.
Seriously, that's why I love this channel. You guys are like a protective layer of lacquer that keeps me insulated against the grime and filth. Sure, it's clear-coat, I can see it, but you're the ones that are taking the full subjection of it.
"People like to make exceptions of themselves. They hold other people to moral codes that they aren't willing to follow themselves. For example, people tend to think that if they tell a lie, it's because it was absolutely necessary. But if someone else tells a lie, it means they're dishonest. So never make an exception of yourself. If you're a thief, don't complain about being robbed."
Edit: Unfortunately, I can't take credit for this quote... I got it from a facebook post, but YT won't let me link it here for some reason.
I’m gonna tuck that quote into my acquired wisdom pocket
I like your quote
Projection's a b*tch.
Bars.
Depends on what kind of a thief. Not every act is equal.
This is what happens when your whole identity is tied to your looks and have nothing else in life.
This comment is 100% on the money.
reminds me of all the jocks after school that realise they cant bully their managers or superiors later in life
time to go learn a talent or develop a positive personality lol
This. And not just for looks, but anytime you base your whole self worth one 1 thing, then you risk to fall pretty hard should that 1 thing disappear. In the case of looks, its a guarantee. Here she is, probably in the top 10% of hottest fifty year old women, and it still hit her hard.
Isn't that most women though since most of a woman's value comes in her looks and fertility?
@@MakinItHappenn "Isn't that most women though since most of a woman's value comes in her looks and fertility"
if i were a monkey or a gorilla maybe, i tend to look for a little more than that in a woman though. i dont even want kids so i can assure you idgaf about a womans fertility.
Paulina relied on her looks to elevate her in a way only a few women can. She was accustomed to being told she was one of the most beautiful women in the world, and having the room stop and stare and flashbulbs going off when she walked into a room. Now she has aged, and she's experiencing what _every_ woman experiences at a certain age. The difference is the majority of women experiencing this were not treated the way she was because of her looks. So it so much harder for her for all that attention to ebb off and stop. Yep, you're invisible. A lot of women were invisible from the very beginning and never really experienced anything remotely like what Paulina has. Instead they were told they were average/ugly/rejected constantly.
She is invisible because she refuses to have plastic surgery.
Speaking of average women....I actually try to talk them...I like the conversations and peace I have with them....I just like women who can be in peace with theirselves as long as I invest time and affection on them...
Do you remember the show Hot in Cleveland? Older women from LA who were considered over the hill and got no attention. They went to Cleveland and they got lots of male attention. She is just in the wrong city. LA is all about youth or the illusion of youth. She’s beautiful but she’s right she’s invisible in LA.
Ageism is a thing, and there definitely is pressure for women to look young…but even at her age she’s *still* the standard. That’s why I can’t fully take her seriously, she’s the pinnacle of western beauty even in her old age and wouldn’t have a problem getting attention *at all.* She’s just not getting it from where she wants it, the average looking 50+ year old woman would probably kill to look anything like she does.
Love your profile pick
A symptom of basing your identity around your physcial appearence and everyone telling you how beautiful you are.
Factssssss
All I can say is, you guys speak the truth.
And that's how the world is. This woman has other assets, I am sure, but she can't get over not being desired for her looks anymore.
Did she think she would have been a super model if she was ugly or fat or old? Did she forget that modelling careers are not known for their longevity?
Now she gets to experience what I experienced when I was overweight: no one looks at you twice. Find other selling points, work on yourself, and learn to accept men who are not millionaires. Simple.
That last part might be the most difficult of them all. Not saying wanting some stability is a bad thing, but it's always the 6 6 6 number in things that are ''required'' to have a chance, while they have literally nothing to offer than used up poon and some attitude, like.. where does the part come in that you attract men that have these things and does it match the value?
I was w/ you until the “now she gets to experience what I did when I was overweight: no one looks at you twice” part which sounded as if you’re.. projecting some kind of resentment that she didn’t have to experience life as some kind of unconventionally attractive. Are you glad that she now does? Sounds like you’re faulting her for being a conventional beauty for most of her life? It ain’t rlly her fault that society is superficial.
She knows she’s older and I don’t think she is expecting to be treated like a 20 something. She just wants options of guys her own age to date, but many older guys want young girls and that’s messed up. Also, sounds like you’re projecting
@@SupernaturalLove100 ah the point was missed there. She is saying that people have certain qualities that society deems unattractive. In her case, it was being overweight. In the model's case, it's being perceived as old. Some men have height struggles and the list of undesired qualities by society goes on and on.
True, it's not her fault that society is very superficial but it's certainly her fault wasting her youth being very superficial with society.
@@SupernaturalLove100 simp
At 58, I'm lucky to have married an amazing woman 32 years ago. The honest God's truth is I find that building that relationship more than compensates for the loss of our youth. Don't get me wrong, I still miss that too. But you really can't have it all. Youth is just the fire starter in a relationship and was never meant to sustain the long burn. Too much focus on youth and beauty seems to have lead many people in my generation to miss out on developing other things that make you attractive or just plain interesting. Humor, hard work, intelligence, caring, fitness, dependability, loyalty, curiosity, optimism, creativity. There is so much we can address other than worrying about wrinkles and skin spots.
'Wow"
"Right on!
Tell that to these young guys who quote Kevin Samuels here. They are living in fantasy world instead of reality. Reality is closer to how you describe.
@UCP9s_kqcHpdt5cxka-uIZRw I agree. But let go of the fact that the majority of people you will meet evaluate social desirability with a losing metric. Those that learn to both develop and see the multifaceted beauty we can all strive for and grow into are at such an advantage in finding and developing thriving relationships over those who are oblivious, only pursuing a one dimensional perishable attribute.
Mant modern women don't care much for building relationships and monkey branch as soon as things get tough.
If you don't hook one early, you will end up with the pool of rejects, and their looks aren't a huge factor even there, other things usually are.
You have to be really hideous looking as a woman to not get your chances
And for every woman that exeriences that degree of loneliness, there are 4-6 men experiencing the same, and half of them don't even look bad
Realize again how lucky you are, and then how you're probably not jaded enough to truly understand how grim situation can be ;)
@@dutchdykefinger You are talking about a deeper subject than attraction. As you say, it is certainly easier to bond when you are young and without emotional baggage. It can still work but the commitment needs to be more deliberate. This said in a world that thinks wanting something is the same as committing to it.
"That's what the season entails... it's your time." Truer words never been spoken sir. I'm 50 and had my fun so I can't now turn around and start a "age shouldn't matter movement" because I don't like the selection in my age group?!! Beyotch pleazzzzze. You don't have to like it you just have to accept it. It is what it is and it was what it was ma'am.
The amount of attention/press she has received since her estranged husband Ric Ocasek died is ridiculous. Prior to that I don't think the majority of people would have been able to tell you who she was. I know she was a model and she appeared in the music video for The Cars' song "Drive" (great song btw), which is where I believe she met her husband.
"Who's gonna tell you when, it's too late?
Who's gonna tell things, aren't so great?"
She obviously wasn't listening back then lol.
I just looked it up. She was 18 when they met for that video. He was 21 years older and married (to his second wife) at the time. They got married a year after his divorce. Great morals there for both of them. She snagged a wealthy, famous married with kids rock star who was 21 years older; she wasn't worried about older women back then that's for sure. Haha
_I'm totally OK with getting older...it is only when you DEPENDED on your looks when you were younger, that it bothers you when you get older. If you never used your looks as a younger person to gain certain advantages (also attention), it really is no loss getting older._
Yep. As a 47 year old average looking guy who's never once been approached by a woman or asked out in any format, being older now means I give less of a shit to be completely honest. I only seek validation from myself and I know my worth. Something that is clearly sadly lacking in a lot of today's culture (both men and women).
Dead ass spit out my water when Aba put the "triggered preach=$$ + content." Y'all dynamic is hilarious.
You 2 deserve 20 million subs. Such funny commentary its like I'm there riffing with yall.
The best part of not being that attractive is that aging isn't destroying my self esteem like it is the really attractive women I know around my age (53).
This chick has a lot of baggage and self-inflicted wounds. She was married to one of the singers from the group The Cars (Ric Ocasek) in 1988 when she was in her 20's and he was in his 40's. In 2018 he wrote this chick out of his will because she refused to take care of him when his health started failing. They were both separated while she planned on divorcing him not knowing he had already wrote her out of the will, thinking she would cash-in. In 2019 he died of heart failure at age 75. Looks like Ric got the last laugh while his crazy wife continuously posts on social media claiming she's a victim.
females doing female things.
News at 10: _water is wet_
I think she contested it and got paid. You know, female privilege.
How did she refuse to take care of him? They lived in the same house so she could take care of him. She would have been better off leaving him alone. He left her nothing. Not even the house she raised his children in for decades...
@@PamelaBraide This is the version I read, too.
Proud of ric thats how i would go out in this situation
This woman is so privileged that her now being treated like everyone else is somehow unfair. 🙄 Girl grow up....oh wait lol
Loool
Lmao 🤣😂
I’m 100% sure there are thousands of guys, maybe even millions willing to date her but she will never lower her standards.
She was married over 30yrs. Now widowed. She's enjoyed spectacular life success. Appears she's doing pretty damn well. She has nothing to complain abt. 🤔🤔
Everyone has something to complain about tho
She still looks AMAZING and has plenty of men commenting/complimenting her on her social media, etc. My experience is that there are loads of younger men who love a mature woman in great shape as well, of course, as men the same age and older. I can’t relate to her to her victim mentality, especially her crying (yes, real crying😢) on instagram. So many beautiful, sexy famous women over 50 on IG just getting on with it. Cindy Crawford, Christy Brinkley (68!), so many… just out there getting their sexy on with loads of male admirers. I can’t give her “poor me” narrative the time of day.
Honestly once u hit 30
Young men lose their damn minds...
They literally prey on you...
Got worst at 35...
They very much r attracted to you..
I think it's an energy thing...
I think if u don't care
They seem to desire u
Models are just shallow people, honestly. Think she'd grow up a bit and stop fixating soley on her looks and thinking everything revolves around her.
As a women, here is my issue with this....Paulina, Do you know how many women have always felt invisible? She is so unrelatable. Welcome to the world of the average woman. Many women at a bar always have men looking over their shoulder for the 10. Paulina never learned to focus on substance because she didn't have to....
I know right? I'm also a woman who's pretty damn antisocial and barely goes out, and the things Paulina is stating are so unrelatable to me as well. Her pretty privilege is gone I guess.
Exactly.... I was always looked passed and ignored bc my friends are sooo beautiful. I've never had anyone buy me a drink lol. Ironically my friends will leave early from a place if they aren't getting any attention and I'm like whut 😅
Now compare the world of the average woman to the world of the average man, especially now in the era of Tinder and Hinge
They're not just invisible but around.
They're non-existent, as far as women are concerned
@@savioblanc yes, but men are expected to be average. Women are constantly put down for appearance. Think about women that run for office. Why do we talk about their clothes? They are not a fashion model.
Short men?
That was illlllllll: “Gotta face Fall - & Winters Coming”
If we are gonna call out and shame men for being incel, we should call out women like this too. This isn't in anyway different.
The world isn't the reason you're incompetent to be in a relationship.
she was married for 30 years her husband recently passed away.
Oh they definitely call em out… everyone talks about the “I don’t need a man” women.
She’s a pick me really…she should have sat down and ate her food. Lol 😂
@@SuperTruthful To be fair she did pick a guy nearly twice her age if I'm not mistaken. She could have seen that coming.
@@tomfoolery7797 she picked a guy twice her age then that would be nearly 90-100
At 49 I thought I was invisible and was pretty ok with the freedom it brings...then I was hit on ( by a married dude who also knew I was married, so ew) and I was so shocked I showed my husband the message and asked if it meant what I thought it meant. Dude was like, 30. Guess he has an older woman thing but I'm happily married and not about to cheat, especially with another married person. No orgasm is worth blowing up 2 families.
This is goat thinking!
Sup baby? 😂
wired flex lol
@@unluckyobserver6532 Being hit on by a guy who has children the same age as my grandchildren isn't a positive thing IMO. It was weird and inappropriate.
@@pheenobarbidoll2016 So, how did he contact you...?
I'm 26 and I keep trying to tell young girls bragging on older women about how they can take their men, that one day you're going to age. And it hits the pretty girls that hardest because no matter how good you look at 50, you're still 50 to men who desire young women.
Yep same with men, can’t tell you how many rich older men hit on me and my friends thinking we would naturally want them not realizing they are past their prime. Like sorry I’m only attracted to men my own age and the older men are creepy and annoying
@Therapist keep thinking that sweetheart 🤣 they want a sugar daddy to be a trophy wife but they cheat with younger men. Will smith and most celeb men get cheated on for younger men so you really think your average upper class middle man or even slightly rich but average looking man has a chance ?
@Therapist idk what delusional wall you live in but most younger women don’t want a grandpa money or not also we can make that
@@positiveenergy8888 exactly… who wants those tired old geezers when you can have a young dynamic man 😍 my husband is 10 years younger than me and I love it
Most women don't want older men. Many of them are actually creeped out by that.
Let's not also forget that her now deceased rock star ex husband wrote her out of the will for "abandoning him." That reveals her true character.
“Even if I should die before our divorce is final … Paulina is not entitled to any elective share … because she has abandoned me,” he added.
A lot of people particularly in this day and age act like as soon as you turn 30 you're a senior citizen 😂. I do agree that some people have a hard time aging and can't let go of their "glory days" for some reason.
It's true they get stuck think there still 20 n young nahh summer already came winter coming
It’s crazy. I’m in my 30’s and I think this is one of the highest my confidence has been.
Welcome to being in 90% of all men.
My wife is 46 y/old and absolutely stunning, not because she's pinup girl looking, but because she has loved me and me alone for the past 22 years: we've had kids, life experiences together-and no other woman compares.
I’m over 50 and I bloody love, love not being hit on and leered at and treated a certain way just because I was young and pretty. It’s fab being treated wonderfully by genuine people who know you for who you are not what you look like.
She based her whole identity on being "special"
Feeling invisible is not a good feeling, however, she's only now experiencing a little bit of what many women experience from the start, even in their youth. Some reality checks hurt like a bitch, especially when you assumed you were immune. She got used to her preferred status and its painful to give up.
Being "invisible" is great though.
Lots of locker rooms and changing rooms to enter unnoticed...
Ive become invisible at 24, so im gonna do some cool stuff and enjoy my life, not about to cry, imagine when she gets to 68 😅😂😂😂
@@roisin33 I very much doubt you're invisible at 24 compared to your average 24 year old guy.
@@ssjgoten202 damn bro she's speaking about her experience and you're just invalidating her. i'm sorry to remind you that you don't know her life. it's okay to feel hurt but it's not something women are immune to and it's infuriating to hear men say shit like that. not everyone is a monolith. you are right to some degree but many young women are equally not very attractive, conventional or 'invisible.' i don't and should Not feel entitled to shit but we are allowed to talk about our experiences.
@@aubreyplazasuncle I aimed this at her specifically not all women, she is in fact very conventionally attractive. It may not be very nice to hear but I'd wager my whole live savings on my previous statement and sleep like a baby. I'm a 24 year old male, I have perspective on this issue. This wasn't aimed at women, just her.
She wasn’t complaining about ageism when she was signing the sports illustrated contracts and getting the multiple million dollars deals… She thinks being pretty and getting male attention is a right, no boo boo, that’s a privilege, you’re not entitled to it, don’t get confused
Women who understand looks are fleeting and temporary end up learning how to be a person with a real personality and skills because they know they can't hinge on that forever. Teach women that. Because those women seem to be doing a whole hell of a lot better in older age it seems
Exactly.
Right. It's like a lotto winner. You're only likely to win it once so if you blow it, it's over. You better buy something that keep producing. For the women, they need to find a stable relationship before they get old too because the options are going to get better. Strike while the iron's hot.
"You're not stuck in traffic, YOU'RE TRAFFIC" lost it 😂