Wow! This is the best, the saddest and a very unique story that I have ever heard! It’s all your dad’s fault to start with. He should never force you to marry your ex-husband at the first place. And, he should let you divorce him when he abused you the first time then you could have been married to the American guy. But, at the same time, I’m glad you connected with him and his wife again and were able to attend his funeral at end of his life. That was the best thing for him and you, grandma!❤️I also very happy for you that you live a long happy,and healthy to see some many generations of grandchildren and great grandchildren in your life! Happy for you, grandma❤️👏
Lawv....cas kuv mloog hmong cov txiv neej lub siab phem no es cas kuv yuav ntxub txiv neej hmoob tag npaum no es xav kom txiv neej hmoob tuag kom tag xwb....ntxub txog qhov kuv muaj 43 xyoo lawm los kuv yeej hlub tsis tau thiab tham tsis taus txiv neej hmoob dev no li...kuv ces yeej xav kom txiv neej hmoob tuag kom tag cas yuav coj tau txaus ntxub tag ib sim neej li
I’m with you woman, I’ve been single for over 20 yrs. I have friends who’s been married/divorced multiple times, and I’m stiiill single. 😅😅😅 and wants to remain single and enjoy my grandkids until the day I return to my Lord Jesus Christ. I’m not going to pog nplas and yawg plas like y’all hmoob people say.
Vuag me tais aw ua cas kuv nrog koj tu tu siab rau koj zaj neej neeg os hlub koj tshaj vim koj txoj kev hlub uas hlub nrog lwm haiv neeg es koj txawm tu siab thiab nco nws npaum Li cas Los tsis pom qab mus nrhiav nws thiab tsis paub tham qhia nws qhia tsis tau rau leej twg li os hlub koj mog me niam tais aw .nco ntsoov khaws koj txoj kev hlub nqa mus tham qhia yawm saub es mus nrhiav kom tau koj tus hluas nraug Meskas rau lwm tiam mog.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Kuv mob siab rau koj tshaj plaws os niam tais. 😢 She’s not wrong about longevity, I have an old maid aunt that has never been married and she’s so active and out going at the age of 82. I also have a cousin that went through an abusive relationship and never date and married since her divorced, she lived a very long time.
Aww I never heard of a hmong girl back in those days dating an American. What a sweet love story. Sorry the elder didnt support you niam tias. You would've been in a real happy marriage.
Funny how yesterday, I literally just asked my mom if there were any hmong girls who dated and/or had any kids during the war era. Great to hear stories like this!
I always thought if there were love stories like this when the war was happening back then and if any Hmong women fell in love with a military person. Wow would have loved to hear the other side of your boyfriend’s story too but unfortunately he has passed. You’ve endured a lot of pain and abuse in your life. Thank you for sharing your story.
Tais aw nrog koj tu siab tshaj peb yus los ua ib tug ntxhais hmoob mas txiaj txawj raug tsim txom tshaj plaws os nyob rau ntawm 100 leej ces ntshe tsuas 1 leej thiab tsis tau kev nyuaj siab xwb os
Thank you for sharing your story. It was beautiful to hear. Just know that it was meant to be because if it is, you guys would’ve been out together anyways. And that was not the case so let it go and live your life.
Another story to prove that Hmoob men like your father and ex-husband, including all the men in your ex-husband's clan, are evil and abusive to you as a Hmoob woman. There's no justice for you in this lifetime. Thank you for sharing your sad love story.
Ntuj aw Tais aws. Ua cas yuav ruam ua luaj lis os. Thiab tsis muaj peev xwm lis os. Leej twg ncaws kuv ib ncaws ces kuv ib qws rov qab xwb ntag los hos.
Hmong OG….please don’t come between peb menyuam kev hlub. Especially yog nej twb kam peb tham in the first place. Peb nplooj siab hlub leej twg lawm ces peb yeej nyob tos tau tus neeg ntawv. Zaj neej neeg no tu siab heev. Thov kom lwm tiam neb sib tau mog tus mi grandma.
What a sad story. She's so disappointed about love and never opens her heart to find love again. She could have found true love and happiness with someone else.
Tus me niam tais Ua cas Koj Txoj Neej neeg yuav tu siab Ua luaj li os tiam no tsis tau Los twb laus2 lawm es mam tos rau tiam 2 os mog vim yog tej laus xwb os es Txhob tu2 siab hnov Koj txoj Neej neeg mas hlub Koj kawg nawb mog hais txog Ntawm lub Hnub nyoog ces tej zaum Ntshe Koj tseem Hlob kuv niam os mog tab si kuv niam ces twb ncaim peb mus yug dua Tshiab Thaum xyoo 1980 lawm os mog es nrog Koj tu2 sib kawg li es thiaj li sau ntau2 Los Txhob xav li Cas mog nyob Koj thiab Koj Tsev neeg os
Tus pog no tham li nws yog Npib vwj.kopuas yog npib vwj os .puas yog koj tham txog ib tug thab ham mis kas tuaj ua hauj lwm rau looj ceeb.zoo li kuv twb yuav paub koj sub ne
Wow! This is the best, the saddest and a very unique story that I have ever heard!
It’s all your dad’s fault to start with. He should never force you to marry your ex-husband at the first place. And, he should let you divorce him when he abused you the first time then you could have been married to the American guy. But, at the same time, I’m glad you connected with him and his wife again and were able to attend his funeral at end of his life. That was the best thing for him and you, grandma!❤️I also very happy for you that you live a long happy,and healthy to see some many generations of grandchildren and great grandchildren in your life! Happy for you, grandma❤️👏
My grandma never remarried after my grandpa passed when I was just 4yrs. She stay single until she was 95 years of age pass away.
❤😢what a sad story
Such a sad story. And what a true lover 😢 Tu Siab os Niam tais es 😢
Sad love story…sister…you are very fortunate to have a longevity life…you are very blessed…😩👍🤠!
Lawv....cas kuv mloog hmong cov txiv neej lub siab phem no es cas kuv yuav ntxub txiv neej hmoob tag npaum no es xav kom txiv neej hmoob tuag kom tag xwb....ntxub txog qhov kuv muaj 43 xyoo lawm los kuv yeej hlub tsis tau thiab tham tsis taus txiv neej hmoob dev no li...kuv ces yeej xav kom txiv neej hmoob tuag kom tag cas yuav coj tau txaus ntxub tag ib sim neej li
Ohyo. Koj haislino mas cov txiv neej hmoob yua ros los cej n.tsua teem dua os. 😊
Cas zaj dab neeg no yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li os 😢😢😢
This is a good, sad, lost love story 😭. Nrog koj mob siab thiab tu siab kawg os tus me niam tais aws.
Something different from all other story. Amazing true love story.
What a sad story of an innocence hmong girl whose life and heart were ruined forever
I’m with you woman, I’ve been single for over 20 yrs. I have friends who’s been married/divorced multiple times, and I’m stiiill single. 😅😅😅 and wants to remain single and enjoy my grandkids until the day I return to my Lord Jesus Christ. I’m not going to pog nplas and yawg plas like y’all hmoob people say.
Vuag me tais aw ua cas kuv nrog koj tu tu siab rau koj zaj neej neeg os hlub koj tshaj vim koj txoj kev hlub uas hlub nrog lwm haiv neeg es koj txawm tu siab thiab nco nws npaum Li cas Los tsis pom qab mus nrhiav nws thiab tsis paub tham qhia nws qhia tsis tau rau leej twg li os hlub koj mog me niam tais aw .nco ntsoov khaws koj txoj kev hlub nqa mus tham qhia yawm saub es mus nrhiav kom tau koj tus hluas nraug Meskas rau lwm tiam mog.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow even sad life
Kuv mob siab rau koj tshaj plaws os niam tais. 😢 She’s not wrong about longevity, I have an old maid aunt that has never been married and she’s so active and out going at the age of 82. I also have a cousin that went through an abusive relationship and never date and married since her divorced, she lived a very long time.
Thank you for sharing your beautiful love story grandma. ❤
Aww I never heard of a hmong girl back in those days dating an American. What a sweet love story. Sorry the elder didnt support you niam tias. You would've been in a real happy marriage.
My grandma never remarry since the 70s after my grandpa got murder. She's about almost 100 years old.
Tu siab ua luaj os
Such a good and sad story..thank you for sharing your story ❤
Hlub koj os me niam tais
This needs to be a movie!!! Please some one we will definitely help contribute some money towards this project ❤
Moral of the story is once you go Meka you'll never go back
Hmoob limhiam. History li cas los hmoob yeej siab phem pauv tsis tau.
Your story deserves to be a movie. Bc it’s something different. This is so sad 😭💔
Agreed
Nah. It's boring asf
@@RedmanLS3keeping it real
I was thinking the same thing. What a beautiful and melancholy love story.
Ntxim hlub thiab tshua tshaj plaqs os pog aw! Thiv kom koj ntsib tus txiv hlub2 koj ntawd os mog!😊
Tau say cow bone txawv chicken bone 😮
Meskas tsis yuav niam yau li hmoob liam 😮
Sorry for your loss. What a future it could have been. I can see why your sad😢
True love will never die 😢
Uacas yov ntxim hlub ualuaj zaj no mas thiaj yog ib zaj love Story ua tu siab thiab mobsiab tshaj plaws 😭
Txhua yam ces pov kiag rau txoj hmoo. Qhov koj muaj koj ntau kuv yeej pab nrog koj tu siab thiab ntxub kawg. Tiam sis thaum koj nrauj tag koj tsim nyog rov mus pib dua lub neej tshiab... txhua yam ces nyias yeej nqa nyias txoj hmoo los ua neej tiag tiag li.. thov kom koj noj qab hnav zoo nawb..
Zaj no yog muab ua movie ntshe yuav tu siab thiab zoo saib heev li os
Funny how yesterday, I literally just asked my mom if there were any hmong girls who dated and/or had any kids during the war era. Great to hear stories like this!
Txiv neej Hmoob lub siab lim hiam os lawv aw!!!
Hmoob txoj niag cai dev no mas ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws
Kev hlub ib vuag tsis sib tau nco mus tag ib sim. Long life yog nyob ntawm txoj hmoo
I always thought if there were love stories like this when the war was happening back then and if any Hmong women fell in love with a military person. Wow would have loved to hear the other side of your boyfriend’s story too but unfortunately he has passed. You’ve endured a lot of pain and abuse in your life. Thank you for sharing your story.
Koj tus txiv koj tuag los tseem nyob na los qhia kuv mus muab nws xyuas me ntsis sob ntsej muag txiv neej hmoob siab qias neeg
Koj lub neej raug tsimtxom ua neej lwjsiab, yog tim koj txiv xwb. Yog vim licas niam&txiv thiaj ntsia taus luag ntaus ncaws tsimtxom yus tus ntxhais nqaij ntuag ntshav nrog?
hmoob lub ntuj yog dab ntxwg nyoog yeej tsis muaj qhov muag pom li
Txhua yam no ce tim kj txiv xb os cia kj txiv mam ri kev npam
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Tais aw nrog koj tu siab tshaj peb yus los ua ib tug ntxhais hmoob mas txiaj txawj raug tsim txom tshaj plaws os nyob rau ntawm 100 leej ces ntshe tsuas 1 leej thiab tsis tau kev nyuaj siab xwb os
Wow..that's true love..
Ca pab kj mob siab tu siab tshaj li o pab koj nco tu koj g tau heev li o
Omg..such a sad story 😢
Wow such a sad story. Feel so sad for you. So heartbreaking 💔
Wow, u are the first hmong girl that I've heard of that dated a white guy during the war.
Thank you for sharing your story. It was beautiful to hear. Just know that it was meant to be because if it is, you guys would’ve been out together anyways. And that was not the case so let it go and live your life.
Tu siab tshaj plaws li os 😢
War and Love....congrats you're a very strong woman live close to 100 years ❤️ 💙
Love this story. Women are very strong and as wise as men.
Too sadly 😢
Niam tais aw nrog koj tu siab rau koj zaj dab neeg os mog ❤❤
Omg such sad story..Thov kom neb sib tau rau lwm tiam os tus me niam tais aww😢
Another story to prove that Hmoob men like your father and ex-husband, including all the men in your ex-husband's clan, are evil and abusive to you as a Hmoob woman. There's no justice for you in this lifetime. Thank you for sharing your sad love story.
Cas lub neej kho siab ua luaj li niam tais los 2 kua muag
She be missing the BWC her whole life.
So sad
Txiv neej hmoob mas phem tshaj Dab...nws yuav niam yau cas nws ho tsis tuag ..tus mus yuam yuav luag tej ntxhais xwb ....tseem ntaus luag tej ntxhais thiab..Sim neej no...txiv neej hmoob mas siab phem tshaj Dab...tus txiv neej quav dev ntaus neeg li ntawd...pes tsawg tiam Los tsis thov ntsib ntxiv lawm ...o hmoob
Cas yuav pab koj tu siab ua luaj tsis tau lub neej li yus lub siab xav li os peb cov ntxhais mam yeej ua neej tu siab tshaj li 11:03
Koj tus txiv lim hiam ko 10 tiam los tsis tas yuav xum mus Vaj tswv neeg tsis xum ua nws xeem neeg .
เป็นคุณยายที่ความจำดีมากและอายุยืนมาก👏👏👏👏👏
Niam tais aw… sorry rau koj lub neej os😢😢
Ntuj aw Tais aws. Ua cas yuav ruam ua luaj lis os. Thiab tsis muaj peev xwm lis os. Leej twg ncaws kuv ib ncaws ces kuv ib qws rov qab xwb ntag los hos.
Tus siab tshaj li o. Lwm tias thov kom neb tau ua ke nawb tus niam tais. ❤
Ntsej muag txiv dev siab neeg nyoog ntawd twb tsis hlub yus cas tseem muaj plhus hlub muab koj ntaus heev npaum li ntawd thiab.
Hmong OG….please don’t come between peb menyuam kev hlub. Especially yog nej twb kam peb tham in the first place. Peb nplooj siab hlub leej twg lawm ces peb yeej nyob tos tau tus neeg ntawv. Zaj neej neeg no tu siab heev. Thov kom lwm tiam neb sib tau mog tus mi grandma.
Meka has a saying, “Better to be love than to be loved”.
Huh?
Do u mean "it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?"
😢😢😢
Kv mas pab koj chim siab txog twg li os 😢🤬
What a sad story. She's so disappointed about love and never opens her heart to find love again. She could have found true love and happiness with someone else.
Tais aw koj zaj dab neeg ma tu siab tiag tiag li os
Cas tug siab ua luaj li nco mus ib sim
Honestly, i don't think it would have lasted if u and him ended up together anyways. Ntses dim ntses loj xwb.
Tus me niam tais Ua cas Koj Txoj Neej neeg yuav tu siab Ua luaj li os tiam no tsis tau Los twb laus2 lawm es mam tos rau tiam 2 os mog vim yog tej laus xwb os es Txhob tu2 siab hnov Koj txoj Neej neeg mas hlub Koj kawg nawb mog hais txog Ntawm lub Hnub nyoog ces tej zaum Ntshe Koj tseem Hlob kuv niam os mog tab si kuv niam ces twb ncaim peb mus yug dua Tshiab Thaum xyoo 1980 lawm os mog es nrog Koj tu2 sib kawg li es thiaj li sau ntau2 Los Txhob xav li Cas mog nyob Koj thiab Koj Tsev neeg os
Siab phem npaum li ko cas ho yuav ua dab tsis os
Hello Grandma!!!!!
Peb hmoob 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Zoo kawg os❤😂
Nrog koj tu siab os me niam tais
Wow what a sad story😢😢😢
Agree. How heartbreaking.
lub npe dab neeg no tis tau txawv2 li es twb tsis phim zaj dab neeg li
Tittle must be( tus hlub los muaj, tus tsim los laib.)
es ua cas dab xwm kab ho nthe who tus neeg dag thiab tsheej yus txoj kev hlub hos hmoob lub ntuj los tuag ntsiag to tib yam nkaus thiab
Qhov koj xav tías nyob ntev vim tsi muaj tus txiv, kuv xav tias yuav tsi muaj tseeb no nawv.
Ua neeg nyob es koj yuav mus ntshaw txiv ua luaj li na lov. Yog yus niam yus txiv ua tsi tau txiv neej yawg ces txhob sim qws yob...
kV Niam Niam los yos peb Niam tais kuj nyb ntev kawg li thiab twb yuav muaj 100 xyoo lm o peb yawm txjv twb tuag yuav muaj 30 xyoo lm tab sig peb Niam tais noj2 tshuaj es tseem Niam hnub mus ua teb thiab o
Niag ntsej muag txiv no khav lub ntau xwb es nws tuag lawm ls tseem nyob na
The title is confused me
Me, too
Thought it was about some children.. 😅
I think its tus hlub los muaj tus tsim los muaj
Tsuas thov kom peb cov mloog siav ntev li kj xb os phauj, thov kom kj mj lub zog khov kho lm yav tom ntej nb
As zaj no mob kuv siab kawg
The title is so confusing it doesn’t make any sense
Koj lam hais kuv mua ib tus niam laus muaj 12 tus mes nyua m muaj 94 xyoo nws li tub tsis muaj mob thiab
Koj ces to tsis muaj txiv los laus li ko los vim koj yog ib niag poj laib nyob tim nplog los ma
Cas lub neej tu siab ua luaj😢
First
Title is confusing. Mam li tuaj yuav mes Kas teb chaws mes Kas no mas
Hais twb tsis txaus ntseeg li.
May koj Piav ruam uas luaj. Twb tsis qhia seb thaum pom koj tsej muag tawg tas tus mekas pom es nws ua cas pob.
Ua tsuag rau koj zaj neej neeg os! Zoo mloog thiab tu siab rau koj kawg li os.
Tus pog no tham li nws yog Npib vwj.kopuas yog npib vwj os .puas yog koj tham txog ib tug thab ham mis kas tuaj ua hauj lwm rau looj ceeb.zoo li kuv twb yuav paub koj sub ne
Xav xa 1 zaj neejneeg tuaj rau koj tham tiamsis tsis paub xa rau li cas.
Nyob zoo os kuv tuaj Oklahoma new year cas tsis ntsib koj li os niam ntsuab teev aw