You should be said that your stepmother didn’t love you she took care of you. Your mom if she was able to have kids she probably won’t come back and find you. Because she doesn’t have kids and her step kids don’t like her she came looking for you.
The problem here is your dad. He was married yet he took advantage of your grandma and mom by forcing your mom to marry him as a second wife. Your dad knew what he was doing, forcing a woman who didn’t love him to marry him. I feel your mom’s pain. Despite all that happened between your mom and dad, she is your mom. She gave you life. She’s lived a difficult life because of your dad. I’m sure if your dad was the person she loved, she would’ve treated you differently when you were a baby. Forgive her.
I listened to this story to the 10 minute mark and it was enough for me because I feel like I already know how the story is going to go. I cannot stand stories like this, and even as a man, it disgust me greatly. So let me guess, the man (father) is supposedly the good guy in this story and the woman (mother) is the evil villain and karma comes to her? The man, already has a wife and kids (some most likely as old or older as the second wife) and he sees that a poor family are desperate and vulnerable so he decided to just buys the girl to be his wife like some chicken in exchange for his help and expect the girl to love him? If karma is real and/or fair, this man should have died a painful and miserable death before the kid was even born. Yes, some are going to argue that, “It’s because of that man (the father) that the girl and her family are even alive.” Whether that is true or not, it does not change the fact that he’s a cruel, despicable, disgusting and evil man. What I found amusing and at the same time, disgusting is that in these kind of stories and in many Hmong stories, the man even have the audacity to curse (foom) the wife.
If you look at the overall big picture in this story, the mother is actually the hero and you can’t even blame or fault her for the decision that she made even if you thought it was cruel. First of all, she was being bought and forced to be married to a despicable, disgusting, and predatory man she neither know or love. She was raped repeatedly as a young girl. Secondly, she never wanted a child in the first place, especially a child by that evil man and who could blame her if we are honest with ourselves. She was able to overcome and free herself from that despicable man. If anything, the mother should be praised...not scorn.
I don’t blame either party… but still your mom had the choice to take you or leave you back then so now you have the right to love or not love her… good luck to you brother, you deserve all the good things in life
Your father was a predator who preyed on those less fortunate than him. Even though that was the norm to sell your daughters off like livestock, it's still wrong. I'm happy your mom had the strength to leave. I feel bad for her that your father damaged her reputation and she lived a life settling for less. Be happy that you may inherit strength like your mother who would rather walk a path by themselves then succumb to the imprisonment imposed by your father.
I’m new to this channel and whenever I listened to one of the stories and go to the comment section I see that most of the comments are beyond stupid and/or heartless. It’s almost like good is bad and bad is good, love is hate and hate is love, etc. Anyway, thanks for being one of few voices of reason I see in here.
Nrauj koj txiv, zoo dus nrog niag yawg dab nyob. Your mother was innocent,. Your father robbed her youth. Hnub no koj muaj ntxhais, yog koj cov ntxhais tau lub neej zoo li koj niam lub koj puas tu siab? Tus tsim nyog npam yog koj txiv. Koj txiv yuav npam qhov nws ua phem rau koj niam thiab niam loj. Your dad yog ib tug predator.
Bro you mom only loved you when she had no one left to turn to. She only came to find you when she knew she was getting old and has no life left. You are blind to see that. Yes she is your mom but you seem to have shown more love to your mom then to your dad.
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Its ok every one has their own suffering, you tell your we kept ours. That is why I never bow down for other mom when pasted away at foom kom.
Forgive her. Life is not fair for her. Think about if they forced you to someone you don't really like and love, then you will understand her.
yog koj niam yug muaj ces nws yeej tsis hlub koj lawm os twb yog nws yug tsis muaj nws thiaj mam hlub koj xwb
Ib leej niam txoj kev hlub mas thiaj loj li lub ntuj daim av. Txawm koj niam tsis tau hlub koj thaum yau es muab koj tso tseg rau koj txiv los vim nws tsis hlub koj txiv xwb. Koj txiv quab yuam nws yuav xwb. Kuv ntseeg lawm tias koj niam hlub thiab khuv xim koj heev.
Kuv zoo siab koj niam ntse heev tsis tseg nws tej qub text qub tes rau cov tub nws tu es nws tseg rau koj uas yog tus nws yug. Yus niam yug yus thiaj hlub Yus ti txha.
You should be said that your stepmother didn’t love you she took care of you. Your mom if she was able to have kids she probably won’t come back and find you. Because she doesn’t have kids and her step kids don’t like her she came looking for you.
GOOD MORNING LOVELY HMONG PEOPLE!
Txiv neej siab PHEM mas phem tiag2 li os. Thaum yus quab yuav luag thiab muab luag laib pov tseg mas tsis paub luag muaj siab ntsws li. Tiamsis thaum luag muab yus laim povtseg mas…. Txawj foom tiag2 li os.
The problem here is your dad. He was married yet he took advantage of your grandma and mom by forcing your mom to marry him as a second wife. Your dad knew what he was doing, forcing a woman who didn’t love him to marry him. I feel your mom’s pain.
Despite all that happened between your mom and dad, she is your mom. She gave you life. She’s lived a difficult life because of your dad. I’m sure if your dad was the person she loved, she would’ve treated you differently when you were a baby. Forgive her.
If Karma is real shouldn’t the father have suffered much much more than the mother?
Zoo siab niam taug ❤❤❤❤❤❤
This man, the father, is evil taking advantage of this poor family. He will get his curse from her because he ruined her life.😢
Yog tias kev npam yeej muaj tiag ces kuv xav tias tus txiv yuav tsum npam loj tshaj li 100 npaug tus niam no.
Nej ho xav li cas xwb?
Yus Niam yug Yus txawm nw yuav ntxub Yus txiv npaum cas nw tsis yuav yus txiv lawm los nw yeej tseem hlub yus tshaj mog Niam tshiab ces luag hlub yus tsuas yog hlub daim tawv xwb yus niam yug yus thiaj Hlub tuaj nruab siab nruab Plawv mog
This is very sad! Your mom received karma even though she was forced into a marriage with a total stranger. May she rest in peace.
I listened to this story to the 10 minute mark and it was enough for me because I feel like I already know how the story is going to go.
I cannot stand stories like this, and even as a man, it disgust me greatly. So let me guess, the man (father) is supposedly the good guy in this story and the woman (mother) is the evil villain and karma comes to her?
The man, already has a wife and kids (some most likely as old or older as the second wife) and he sees that a poor family are desperate and vulnerable so he decided to just buys the girl to be his wife like some chicken in exchange for his help and expect the girl to love him? If karma is real and/or fair, this man should have died a painful and miserable death before the kid was even born.
Yes, some are going to argue that, “It’s because of that man (the father) that the girl and her family are even alive.” Whether that is true or not, it does not change the fact that he’s a cruel, despicable, disgusting and evil man. What I found amusing and at the same time, disgusting is that in these kind of stories and in many Hmong stories, the man even have the audacity to curse (foom) the wife.
I was thinking the father will get his curse in eternal life for taking advantage of this poor girl for making her life so miserable 😢
If you look at the overall big picture in this story, the mother is actually the hero and you can’t even blame or fault her for the decision that she made even if you thought it was cruel.
First of all, she was being bought and forced to be married to a despicable, disgusting, and predatory man she neither know or love. She was raped repeatedly as a young girl.
Secondly, she never wanted a child in the first place, especially a child by that evil man and who could blame her if we are honest with ourselves. She was able to overcome and free herself from that despicable man. If anything, the mother should be praised...not scorn.
I don’t blame either party… but still your mom had the choice to take you or leave you back then so now you have the right to love or not love her… good luck to you brother, you deserve all the good things in life
Your father was a predator who preyed on those less fortunate than him. Even though that was the norm to sell your daughters off like livestock, it's still wrong. I'm happy your mom had the strength to leave. I feel bad for her that your father damaged her reputation and she lived a life settling for less. Be happy that you may inherit strength like your mother who would rather walk a path by themselves then succumb to the imprisonment imposed by your father.
I’m new to this channel and whenever I listened to one of the stories and go to the comment section I see that most of the comments are beyond stupid and/or heartless. It’s almost like good is bad and bad is good, love is hate and hate is love, etc.
Anyway, thanks for being one of few voices of reason I see in here.
Koj niam txawm tsis xav yuav koj txiv los ua zoo sib hai xwb txhob mus tham hluas nraug thiaj tsis tau kev npam pob
Yog kawg
Ntuj aw ib leej niam liam zoo li nws yug tau koj xwb nws kwv nws lub nceb khiav mus caum lwm tus txiv neej lawm koj tseem lees nws ua koj niam thiab ?
Yog koj tsis muaj kev txhaum ces koj txiv tej lus foom yeej tsis raug nws.
Nrauj koj txiv, zoo dus nrog niag yawg dab nyob. Your mother was innocent,. Your father robbed her youth. Hnub no koj muaj ntxhais, yog koj cov ntxhais tau lub neej zoo li koj niam lub koj puas tu siab? Tus tsim nyog npam yog koj txiv. Koj txiv yuav npam qhov nws ua phem rau koj niam thiab niam loj. Your dad yog ib tug predator.
😢😢😢😢
Txawj no tim koj txiv xwb
Ntuj aw koj niam twb tuaj thaum tseem hluas2 thiab twb tsis muaj me nyuam tau2 tes es tseem tsis txawj hu mus teem kuaj mob naw ,
Bro you mom only loved you when she had no one left to turn to. She only came to find you when she knew she was getting old and has no life left. You are blind to see that. Yes she is your mom but you seem to have shown more love to your mom then to your dad.
Your mom give every reason to cheat on your dad. She could have just divorce him and set him free.
She could not divorce him because he owned the law. It’s all his fault forcing someone to marry him is a crime.
Right...she was his prisoner. He pretty much own her. Like she could just go to him and say, “I want to divorce you” and he would just let her go.
What is the point of your story? For us to feel sad for your dad or you? Your story make me hate your dad 1000x worst. May he not rest in peace