Muslim Couple React To VIRAL Marriage Advice! | The X-Pod
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- Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
- There is so much relationship advice out there and let's be honest, not all of it is good! We sat down and reacted to the most popular marriage advice out there, which includes some questionable advice from Jordan Peterson, Pearl Davis and a few others!
Let us know any relationship advice you have heard on your quest for love! We can't wait to hear them!
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 - Intro
01:48 - Talk about you relationship problems with family and friends
03:33 - Have a baby, that will fix your relationship problems
05:03 - If you're struggling with your marriage, get a second wife
06:04 - Argue in front of your kids and teach them conflict resolution. Jordan Peterson
12:09 - Take a Love Language Quiz and see who you are compatible with
16:13 - Forgive your husband if he cheats, marriage is for life. Divorce should be banned, think of the kids. Pearl Davis
22:16 - You have to compromise when seeking marriage. Just marry him
28:57 - Make decisions for your spouse, you know them best
33:17 - If he can't handle you at your worst, he doesn't deserve you at your best
I N S T A G R A M:
➡ @thexs.official
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B U S I N E S S E M A I L:
➡ sufyanxamara@gmail.com
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- BAD RELATIONSHIP ADVICE - Don't marry her, she's your 1st girlfriend, you're still in high school, you've got so much of life left to live . . . 20 years later, still committed to weathering the storms together - APIDTA - 🖤
MVP moment! Tabarakallah! May Allah always give you good and bless your marriage! 🤲🤲🤲
Sufyan seems like a sensible guy. High levels of social and emotional intelligence. You both seem like a great couple. May Allah bless you both.
Alhamdulillah. Very kind words. May Allah return the reward you tenfold. 🤲
damn, I actually learned so much. Love how you guys spoke on advice that seems to be a common thing in our society and most people agree on yet you guys disagreed and spoke on how it was wrong. Mind-boggling and so enlightening.
So happy you enjoyed it! ❤️❤️
Love these videos, so interesting to hear your viewpoints.
Love love love to see you guys having conversations, I always want to here each others points of view, sounds like a healthy couple conversation to me
New subscriber, I love you guys
So happy you have subscribed and what a lovely comment! Hope you enjoy everything we have coming up! 💗
Amazing video .. no words . Just subhanallah. 👌 keep doing what you're doing brother
Love these podcasts ❤
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Top tier editing guys love it 😂❤
Thank you, Mr Liam! 😅❤️
Love this episode
Yaaay! ☺️
Great video ❤
bless you guys
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Loveee to see these conversations from a muslim perspective. The pressure to compromise into marriage is SO real and I’m so glad you guys touched on that topic. I’m glad you didn’t settle, it’s inspiring!
The pressure IS REAL!! We have sisters going through this so glad we got the chance to mention it. Alhamdulillah ❤️
this was so good can you do more similar segments? ☺️
Yes, in shaa Allah. Really glad you enjoyed it! ☺️
I’m happy you all do these types of talks! It’s really great ❤ hope Allah keeps blessing you
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Please do a part 2 !!
Bad relationship advice- you can change them and their bad habits😬
We nearly did this one! It was on our original list. We’ll do another soon! 👀
The way she says Feeling personally attacked right now Sufyan 🤣
It’s one of her favourite lines 🤦🏽♂️😂😅
@@TheXs.Official 🤣🤣♥️ I love her! Masha’Allah I love both of your videos especially the advice ones about marriage.if you have any more advices regarding how to carry relationships after one gets married throw in more tips😁
Best relationship advice
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Thanks guys for this beautiful talk. Also I wonder what accent is this? I just came across ur channel and I’m curious. All love❤
I'm Scottish and Sufyan has an English accent ☺️
Love you guys may Allah bless and make you the coolness for each other eyes ❤❤❤
Ameen 🥰❤️
when the wife is totally dependent on the husband financially due to economic downturn of the Country they are, the truth is she stays in the marriage because she has nowhere else to go.
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I agree with most of your points great session. Your wife is very beautiful and u are a knockout, meaning overly handsome. Enjoy watching you guys.
Assalam aleikum The X’s,❤
Wa alaikum assalaam ❤️
Omg proper 100% true Pakistani control drama hate it ❤
Be careful who you take marriage advise from, some people have agendas but most are just clueless, esp when we go to friends, they have the same level of wisdom as you do being the same age- look for people who have interest in keeping your marriage alive
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sorry couldn't see the video until today, missed you guys. If I could ask something from you is to make a video about what's happening to our brother and sisters in Palestine and the amount of fabrication in the western media. If you can understand Arabic you would see a whole different narrative of what's actually happening on the ground, it's basically a genocide and don't forget them in your dua'a of course and may Allah protect you and your beautiful family and our entire Ummah💕💕
Most definitely. We are filming this video today in shaa Allah. 🤍
With all due respect, the polygyny rule still applies today. The Qur'an is very clear that a man is allowed to marry up to 4 wives if he is financially and physically capable. If you are a true Muslim, then you must believe that the Qur'an is the word of Allah and it is the last message to mankind before the Day of Judgement.
There are actually multiple viewpoints on this. There is a clear condition set in the Quran in the preceding line. I personally think it MAY not be applicable today as the condition set regarding orphans is not applicable.
I am not condemning marriage to multiple wives. It happens to be something that is not applicable to me regardless. I just think that the debate as to the existing conditions is a definite point of interest.
Also, whilst permitting polygyny under specific circumstances, the Quran also states that monogamy is always preferable and that a man will never be able to treat multiple wives justly.
@TheXs.Official I agree that monogamy is preferable. However, we must say that polygyny is allowed if a man is financially and physically capable. All the 4 madhabs agree that polygyny is allowed but I believe Hanbali and Shafi say that monogamy is preferable. The issue you are referring to is the Qur'anic verse on polygyny, while it is true that it is talking about orphans, the general principle of a man having multiple wives is permissible according to the hadith of the Prophet SAW where men had multiple wives even if they weren't orphans during wartime and peacetime and he allowed it. Many of the Sahaba also practiced polygyny like this also. So the polygyny verse is not specified to orphans as the general principle of polygynous marriages still applies. The verse you cited where Allah says you will never be able to be completely fair to all your wives is true; however, the other part of the verse Allah says that if you don't leave the other hanging (meaning you attend to thw other wives to the best of your ability) He will forgive you. As such, polygyny is halal and we should not be making something that Allah has made permissible impermissible. I agree with you that monogamy is preferable according to the Qur'an and Sunnah and for a multitude of reasons but cannot make something that is allowed in Islam unallowed simply because the "times have changed." The Qur'an is the legislation for all of mankind till the end of times. Surah Maidah (5:3) "This day have I perfected for you your religion and completed My favor on you."
My dear brother, I do not deny the Quran and Sunnah. There are, however, rulings in the Quran and Sunnah which were brought for specific situations at that time, and are not applicable in all settings today. Context is crucial. I am not of the viewpoint that the “times have changed” and so something that was decreed halal is now haram. Not at all. If it was decreed halal, it will always be halal. I do believe that if there is context, this should always be considered. I have never declared polygyny haram. I have only ever put emphasis on then conditions which make it permissible.
There is clear emphasis on Allah SWT preferring monogamy, yet we run towards polygyny despite being told that we will never be just. Such is the nature of man. This is most definitely a point of reflection. Although halal, it reminds of a something I read which stated that the Muslim today asks if something is mukrooh so that he can practise it, whereas the Muslim before asks what is mukrooh so that he can avoid it. Subhanallah. I know this one is not mukrooh, but the sentiment remains.
In shaa Allah, we will speak about it in a video and we can discuss some more. Also, feel free to email or dm so we can speak at length.
You speak very beautifully, maa shaa Allah. May Allah shower you with blessings and increase us all. 🤲
@TheXs.Official Thank you for your clarification. I must have misunderstood you. With regards to polygyny, I believe that among the things that Islam considers permissible (ok if you do ok/if you don't) polygyny is on the verge of being makrooh. 2 of the madhabs said that polygyny is on the lowest level of permissibility in Islam. In reality, we must understand that men getting multiple wives is completely optional if they meet the requirements, never is it encouraged and I don't like it when people encourage it. Muslims must realize however that polygyny is HARAM if a man is NOT financially or physically capable. Too many men go into these relationships thinking they are when they actually aren't and they end up ruining families, and it makes people see Islam in a bad light when it shouldn't. Polygyny should be reserved to the men who meet the requirements and actually have the level of taqwa to be faithful to all their wives.
@@TheXs.OfficialYes please do a video on this topic and other "controversial" topics regarding Islamic views and practices, such as LGBTQ, hijab etc. It's so interesting to get your and your wife's viewpoint on these things.
I watched this yesterday and loving all the podcasts so far 🫶🏼
- Would like to know however, was there anything wrong with the last video title (personally think it suit the video more) - or maybe just keep it as “Bad Relationship Advice”. Hope it was just a creative change and not anything controversial in affect, keeping you in duā in staying safe & well so we can receive more wisdom/insights from both your experiences 😊.
It was just a creative change. We tend to change the title and thumbnails from time to time as insights are providing constant data on audience response. We also didn’t want a certain someone’s face on the thumbnail after recent events. 😒
Really appreciate the feedback, though. Titles and thumbnails are so tricky! 😩😅