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    Julie Benz (Dexter, Hawaii Five-0) joins us to talk about everything from issues with panic attacks and infertility to being surprisingly killed off of her dream role on the hit show Dexter after 4 years. Julie was absolutely amazing this week and opened up about how previous experiences with being left in the shadows and dealing with rejection fueled her fire to continue pursuing a successful career in acting. We also talk about what it’s like dating as we get older, Julie’s former life as a groomed child ice skater, and realizing that our work and roles don’t define who we are as people.

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  • @safertobeanonymous2224
    @safertobeanonymous2224 3 роки тому +1013

    That scene where we saw her dead was one of the most devastating moments for me on TV.
    Physically upset me!

    • @bonnielee78
      @bonnielee78 3 роки тому +42

      I know, it was heartbreaking. It was so creepy thinking what the trinity killer did to Rita in that bath tub.

    • @kathykelleyskillercontent1795
      @kathykelleyskillercontent1795 2 роки тому +13

      Same for me and my husband. He was really shook

    • @edita_gla
      @edita_gla 2 роки тому +4

      same, I remember that I cried :(

    • @RUTHLESSambition5
      @RUTHLESSambition5 2 роки тому +13

      I was shook watching that scene. Never seen it since. Won't even play the season where she died. Will just skip that season and go to the Julia Styles season

    • @oespectadorbr
      @oespectadorbr 2 роки тому +5

      I agree. I watch this scene for the first time just 2 days ago and it really got to me. Just fell anxiety, can't explain...

  • @Jaguar1314
    @Jaguar1314 3 роки тому +1497

    She was so good for the show, she brought light to balance the darkness. She was amazing.

    • @HEAVYDRINKER8702
      @HEAVYDRINKER8702 3 роки тому +24

      I don't know why I read your comment in Dexter's voice 🤣🤣🤣

    • @StoneysWorkshop
      @StoneysWorkshop 3 роки тому +29

      yea the show wasn’t as good after her, felt hopeless

    • @kimsrurallife8775
      @kimsrurallife8775 3 роки тому +13

      Show never the same after left. 😞

    • @Quest4Six510
      @Quest4Six510 3 роки тому +4

      Funny enough that’s why they killed her off, at the time they thought she was too bright for a dark character like Dexter

    • @retrogaminga1072
      @retrogaminga1072 3 роки тому +24

      Her killing was perhaps the most sad thing I ever seen in a TV series….

  • @andersonhbk
    @andersonhbk 3 роки тому +590

    Her death may have sucked but she should feel amazing knowing it was one of the most shocking and unforgettable deaths/moments, not only for Dexter but in TV history. I will always remember it.

    • @gastonmejri2941
      @gastonmejri2941 3 місяці тому +1

      Update your pfp, its supposed to be 2 stars now

    • @user-rw7tb1fj3f
      @user-rw7tb1fj3f Місяць тому

      Absolutely! Just watched this scene with my bestie tonight whose watching for the first time and her jaw literally dropped to the floor and her hands went up over her mouth so fast she couldn't believe it.

    • @CharleyCarey
      @CharleyCarey 13 днів тому

      that feeling is nice but it doesn't pay the bills though.

  • @robpolaris7272
    @robpolaris7272 Рік тому +116

    I’m sure it sucks losing a job, but her death really cemented her character as a pivotal point in the main characters development.
    She was great in that role.

  • @dx316dx316
    @dx316dx316 3 роки тому +855

    The Trinity Killer story arc was one of the best for Dexter and her character death was tragic, shocking, unexpected and necessary.

    • @drewnes64
      @drewnes64 3 роки тому +30

      I agree. Could’ve probably come a little later, but that season ending was so good.

    • @nebulous8389
      @nebulous8389 3 роки тому +18

      Yeah it was great storytelling. Also it just really shows that Dexter's lifestyle is incredibly dangerous and it was inevitable that there would eventually be more casualties in the mix.

    • @kdizzle901
      @kdizzle901 3 роки тому +6

      It was the best story arc and the writers for season 5 had huge shoes to fill and that’s why season 5 gets so much hate but I think season 5 was the epilogue for dexter and the aftermath of Trinity……..dexter should have ended at season 5 or they should have scrapped the ideas for season 6 and make the season 7 story arc where in the first episode she finds out he’s a serial killer by finding the blood slides……..and the series finale should have been when leaguers is murdered and then he dex and deb cover it up and then go into work like it’s a normal day

    • @christophergargaro959
      @christophergargaro959 3 роки тому +6

      Agreed - when you think about how S4 ran, Rita’s death was necessary. Really sucked to lose her character but man was that a shocking and incredible ending.

    • @kennymarket2428
      @kennymarket2428 2 роки тому +13

      After that the show kind of started sucking. The moment needed to happen but it was a moment that was supposed to ruin dexter and be the end of him. It happened way too soon. All it did was kill the show. She grounded Dexter and she was a great story point.

  • @Renagade2332
    @Renagade2332 2 роки тому +137

    Julie should take pleasure in knowing that her final scene in Season 4 was the cherry on top of the masterpiece of the greatest Dexter season. Literally one of the best seasons of television ever.

    • @axelode45
      @axelode45 Місяць тому +6

      I think season 1, 2 (if you ignore lila sometimes), 4 and 5 (meh villains) are about equal in terms of over all quality. The story writing in season 1 is perfect and unpredictable and season 2 and 5 have some really intriguing supporting characters (doakes and lumen), but season 4 probably has the strongest villain acting-wise and is the most psychologically thrilling/upsetting of all the seasons.

  • @cubefarmerhkc9105
    @cubefarmerhkc9105 4 роки тому +806

    She is a very underrated actress.

    • @_birdie
      @_birdie 3 роки тому +9

      there are just too few things that she’s in. and i think on dexter her character could’ve lasted another season before it was ‘time’ for her to be killed off.

    • @lorijohnson4628
      @lorijohnson4628 3 роки тому +2

      She really is!! She's an awesome actress!!

    • @lorijohnson4628
      @lorijohnson4628 3 роки тому +15

      @@_birdie I agree!! She also played on ANGEL as Darla!!

    • @chriswilson1968
      @chriswilson1968 3 роки тому +10

      She was great in Angel.

    • @chand911
      @chand911 3 роки тому

      What's her rating?

  • @Che-jn9oi
    @Che-jn9oi 4 роки тому +555

    That shit was heartbreaking. I loved that character

    • @LeChina
      @LeChina 2 роки тому +5

      Nah her character was mad annoying.

    • @g99_b8
      @g99_b8 2 роки тому +18

      @@LeChina tf are u on no she wasnt

  • @JahlenJohnson11
    @JahlenJohnson11 4 роки тому +823

    I love her so much, I almost quit watching dexter when she was killed off. It was so upsetting

    • @stacin821
      @stacin821 4 роки тому +51

      I just got done binge watching it and I was heartbroken when she was killed too. I kept saying "I can't believe they killed Rita! I don't even want to watch anymore" to my husband over and over. He wasn't watching so he had no idea what I was even talking about. I did finish watching though. Still pissed they killed her off.

    • @nhg9649
      @nhg9649 4 роки тому +42

      Staci N I kept saying to myself, “please be one of dexters dreams”

    • @stacin821
      @stacin821 4 роки тому +10

      @@nhg9649 me too!! I was thankful I was watching it on Amazon. Couldn't have imagined having to wait until the next season to see if it was real or not.

    • @error-error-qm8xj
      @error-error-qm8xj 4 роки тому +2

      BRUUUUHHHHHH YOU SPOILLED DELETE THE COMMENT U SPOILLED THE SHOW

    • @stacin821
      @stacin821 4 роки тому +15

      @@error-error-qm8xj lol you can't be reading youtube comments if you're watching a show 😂 the entirety of UA-cam is a spoiler.

  • @dannybarichello1575
    @dannybarichello1575 2 роки тому +118

    She was so beautiful on the show. The epitome of a great wife and mother. I was sad to see her go.

    • @thatguybutitsactuallyagirl5384
      @thatguybutitsactuallyagirl5384 2 роки тому

      Um lmao Rita was suck as a mother and very too demanding as a wife

    • @samboes8785
      @samboes8785 2 роки тому +1

      I don't think she was a bad mother necessarily. I agree with what Danny said but she was also troubled and flawed like anyone else.

    • @lionelmessisburner7393
      @lionelmessisburner7393 5 місяців тому +3

      genuinely she was kind of distractingly beautiful, but she was an amazing actor and added so much to the show.

  • @baywatchrules12
    @baywatchrules12 3 роки тому +202

    Would have loved to seen Rita's reaction about dexter being a serial killer 🤣🤣

    • @TripleTreuViet
      @TripleTreuViet 3 роки тому +19

      Yeah thats the part that sucked most, she dying without finding out about Dexter. Trinity most likely told her but still, they could've made it like.....she found out then whatever her reaction, she went home n got killed. becuz her personality, she could've never accepted Dexter as a serial killer, so if she finding out, u know shes gonna die. That would've been better but to kill her n never knew who he is just feels incomplete something its missing. Especially the ending. They should've let everyone know

    • @Morgan24_7
      @Morgan24_7 3 роки тому +8

      That's what I wanted to see.

    • @truegrit9202
      @truegrit9202 2 роки тому +36

      @@TripleTreuViet trinity didn’t know he was a serial Killer. He just thought he was a guy exploiting him for money.

    • @thevideocommenter3061
      @thevideocommenter3061 2 роки тому +5

      it's for the best, she would have freaked the fuck out

    • @spydagod8703
      @spydagod8703 Місяць тому

      If you really care about the character of Rita you never want her to find that out

  • @rexracer3221
    @rexracer3221 3 роки тому +383

    Dexter was never the same after killing off Rita, it lost it's heart and humanity.

    • @xenofett7008
      @xenofett7008 3 роки тому +13

      Agreed! I stopped watching Dexter after Rita was gone.

    • @MrAdamloring1985
      @MrAdamloring1985 3 роки тому +27

      I think they may have changed show runners around that time, because the quality of the show dipped considerably the next season, and it eventually morphed into garbage.

    • @Z3sty367
      @Z3sty367 3 роки тому +11

      Still thoroughly enjoyed the rest of the seasons, such a blast!!

    • @mygoogleemail2063
      @mygoogleemail2063 3 роки тому +2

      She was Dexter's only hope.

    • @malefico3d
      @malefico3d 3 роки тому +5

      Agree completely, following seasons just get worse and worse. It just killed the show.

  • @avewave29
    @avewave29 2 роки тому +52

    I started atrociously sobbing when Dexter heard Rita’s phone ringing, I couldn’t breathe and continued to sob for a good hour after the ending of the episode.

  • @ramonecricket5183
    @ramonecricket5183 3 роки тому +131

    It's easy to say 'They shouldn't have killed off Rita!' if she was your favourite character or if you think the show became shit after season 4, but there's no question that the decision to kill off such an important character, and in that way (bathtub, killed by Trinity) was creatively genius, and it really put the finishing touches on what was arguably the best season of the show. For the first time, Dexter actually lost. Yes, he killed Trinity, but he still lost.

    • @pumarox95
      @pumarox95 3 роки тому +9

      Yes,I agree.It really sucks that she was killed off but it did have a powerful impact.It obviously added a lot for Dexter's character development.But I kind of wished she at least reappeared every now and then as a ghost for Harrison or to reassure Dexter.Seeing this interview made me realize that it would have been hard for her to return to the sets.

    • @richboyprado
      @richboyprado 2 роки тому

      Perfectly said

    • @ajax3748
      @ajax3748 Рік тому +6

      I didn't even think it sucked after season 4. 5 was pretty solid. 6 went downhill. 7 is actually one of my favorites. 8.....well 8 just sucked

    • @maxmeier532
      @maxmeier532 8 днів тому

      it wasnt creativity that was driving that choice, so much is clear. They didnt even care to film the scene and show it in hindsight at least. It's just "so this happened". The obvious choice would have been to integrate Rita and the kids leaving the show into the storyline of Dexter being exposed. But they probably wanted to save that for another season but not pay the supporting actors for another year.

  • @yesseniaayala2664
    @yesseniaayala2664 2 роки тому +18

    After they killed her off, they got rid of her kids too. It was so sad because I got use to seeing the kids too, and knowing they lost both parents is heartbreaking. Rita’s brought light into Dexter darkness, and he wasn’t the same after she was killed off. I cried for her character. Not just that, but she didn’t deserve to die,

  • @ramoncote5566
    @ramoncote5566 3 роки тому +23

    Julie Benz is probably my favorite actress, I named my dog after her character from Buffy. When I first saw Dexter I was so happy to see her again. She is great & beautiful!

  • @sandervisscher2323
    @sandervisscher2323 4 роки тому +86

    I’m still mad that they killed Rita! She was so good in the show. Took me of guard when i saw the last episode season 4

  • @NicodemusT
    @NicodemusT 3 роки тому +101

    That episode devastated me.

  • @maximusaurelius9906
    @maximusaurelius9906 4 роки тому +176

    So sorry to hear how broken up she was over her character being killed off and losing a job she loved. It must be all the more difficult knowing that the show wasn't ending, just your time on it. While I haven't seen everything she's ever been in, her role as Rita on Dexter is perhaps my favorite of all her characters and her best work. More so than Darla on Buffy and Angel, better than her work on Desperate Housewives, No Ordinary Family, Defiance and Rambo. I know she was in Jawbreaker as well, but it's been a while since I've seen that. I bet she has some other good performances I've never seen or may have forgotten.

    • @maximusaurelius9906
      @maximusaurelius9906 4 роки тому +1

      @Hello ThereYes. Defiance. So far so good. I am still in the beginning of season 2. Solid work by Julie.

    • @cheri7054
      @cheri7054 2 роки тому

      They should have given her one more season.

    • @maximusaurelius9906
      @maximusaurelius9906 2 роки тому +3

      @@cheri7054 If they insisted on killing her off I would have turned her into Dexter's conscience. Similar to the role that James Remar aka Harry Morgan played as Dexter's father. Like a little angel on his should. Rita and Harry Morgan could even have been competing view points struggling to guide Dexter down the right path. Rita's angel would be more kind, loving and forgiving, whereas Harry's character would continue to play the same role giving Dexter the advice he needs to hide his true nature and cover his tracks. I think Debra Morgan will take on a similar role in the new season of Dexter.

    • @cheri7054
      @cheri7054 2 роки тому

      @@maximusaurelius9906 She might not be the best conscious for him cuz she died cuz it was Dexter's fault. He took Rita's kids Mom away. I hated that part.

    • @maximusaurelius9906
      @maximusaurelius9906 2 роки тому +2

      @@cheri7054 True, but Rita's character was the forgiving and accepting type as noted by hey choice in men. Plus she ignorant of who Dexter was in life, would she not also be so in death? And she would be a figment of Dexter's imagination.

  • @ardyjeen6144
    @ardyjeen6144 3 роки тому +31

    She’s commanding... she delivered a line in the TV show ‘Angel’ that was so intense, when she told Angel that “...God doesn’t want you...” an amazing scene! ł

  • @zippo_muk9254
    @zippo_muk9254 Рік тому +10

    *Rita’s death made the season so much better, and helped set the scene for S5.* I knew it would happen. At first I thought Dexter would save Rita and in doing so reveal himself as a killer by killing trinity while saving her and then she would keep his secret. I had bad feelings but as soon as I heard Trinity say “it’s already over” I knew 100% he had gotten her.

  • @mygoogleemail2063
    @mygoogleemail2063 3 роки тому +6

    We all cried.
    I'm still not over it. I'll never be over it.

  • @Balmighty1981
    @Balmighty1981 4 роки тому +63

    She’s amazing my favorite show

  • @_birdie
    @_birdie 3 роки тому +20

    Damn. Can’t even remember the last time I saw her in something, after she left Dexter. It’s a real shame...She’s fantastic. I adore her. 😕

  • @moonrammer12
    @moonrammer12 3 роки тому +8

    Dude I literally cried. Broke my heart.

  • @itzKingIzzo2U
    @itzKingIzzo2U 4 роки тому +18

    I'm in the middle of watching dexter.. Episode 5 of season 3 to be exact...
    This woman caught me the whole time because of her character

  • @robertosucci1151
    @robertosucci1151 3 роки тому +9

    Rita truly made Dexter better (Both the character and the show) He felt more humane and made the show real. I was very sad they killed rita off, I literally just watched the S4 finale.

  • @FitGamer88
    @FitGamer88 3 роки тому +24

    I think we were all upset to see her go. Her death was totally unexpected

  • @gregholmes6083
    @gregholmes6083 3 роки тому +10

    Thanks for this. I never really thought about how an actor felt knowing their show will go on, just without them... If it is any consolation, her characters death is easily going down in history as one of the most surprising and game changing scenes in all of television. Best of luck to her.

  • @SonicDreamMusic
    @SonicDreamMusic 3 роки тому +91

    I agree her death was shocking, and I'm sorry for her personally given the impact it had, but that's the kind of thing that made the show shocking, unpredictable, and awesome. You knew it was a different game at that point. Interestingly, Game of Thrones seemed to take that to the next level, killing off popular characters.

  • @letthetruthbetold...finall6771
    @letthetruthbetold...finall6771 3 роки тому +6

    One of the most underrated actress in Hollywood. She’s very awesome!

  • @freemind3122
    @freemind3122 4 роки тому +111

    Your death made me cry a lot....i loved you actually.

    • @MMAINDIA365
      @MMAINDIA365 3 роки тому +4

      I cried bro but for Dexter

    • @cosmic1861
      @cosmic1861 3 роки тому +5

      Same, but for the kids.

    • @carterstevens1751
      @carterstevens1751 3 роки тому +2

      Bro I just watched her death I havent cries this much is like 5 years

    • @carterstevens1751
      @carterstevens1751 3 роки тому +1

      *havent cried this much

    • @Maplelust
      @Maplelust 3 роки тому

      I don't even remember this girl.

  • @MoietyVR
    @MoietyVR 4 роки тому +12

    So happy to see some content back on UA-cam!

  • @shubhashish3330
    @shubhashish3330 3 роки тому +20

    It's very disheartening that they killed the Light beyond Dexter's tunnel😭

    • @winstonmarlowe5254
      @winstonmarlowe5254 2 роки тому

      Dexter was never going to be able to have a normal life. He was lying to himself.

  • @karissamelendez6553
    @karissamelendez6553 3 роки тому +83

    Them killing Rita was one of the dumbest things they could have done. I loved her! Absolutely adored her role.

    • @retrogameslover2023
      @retrogameslover2023 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah I know. Most of us never saw that coming. Ever since, the show just got more worse.

    • @junie1017
      @junie1017 3 роки тому +4

      I didnt realize how much they foreshadowed it, when Dexter totalled his car Rita was upset about the "hours" he was working and said "she didn't sign up to be a widow." Also I think they killed her off to show that Dexter can't have it all, he chose his life as a killer over his life with Rita.

    • @Paglavc1
      @Paglavc1 3 роки тому +7

      The fact that we all adored her is the best reason to say why they killed her off. Dexter is a monster, and his actions end up getting people destroyed. He was the one who wanted to get to know Trinity and with that caused him to retaliate. Rita is a collateral damage for his actions, just like his father was, just like Debra was, just like Doakes was, just like La Guerta was... The reason we feel so bad is because Rita was our surrogate, though which we could love Dexter, and because Dexter knew it was all his fault. He finally got a glimmer of light that might change him, when it all comes crashing down.

    • @daisyhoward5472
      @daisyhoward5472 3 роки тому

      I loved it. Couldn't stand her voice. But the actress is nice and so is her (deeper) voice.

    • @vicentecastillo8352
      @vicentecastillo8352 3 роки тому +1

      it made the show legendary.

  • @w33d533d
    @w33d533d 2 роки тому +13

    I like her performance in Angel as Darla. They gave her a good part, and she pulled it off phenomenally in my opinion. It's amazing she was only in Buffy for like the first 7 episodes and not even in all of those, but still ends up being one of the most significant characters in the whole story of both shows. Angel is my fav show, even over Dexter, but i would consider the acting as "serviceable" not exactly the best, but Julie as Darla is an exception there, I always believed her acting like it was a real person, and her character was twisted and had one of the darkest story lines of the show, which is more impressive how she nailed it. Big fan of her, and both shows.

  • @danboud8135
    @danboud8135 3 роки тому +8

    Julie can take heart in knowing she was present for the show at its absolute best.

  • @leagreenall5972
    @leagreenall5972 3 роки тому +32

    Rita's death was so impactful... and one of the reasons it was awesome for the show... but realistically her character had run its course and a new direction and the fall out of her death for the story line was needed.

  • @SD3Dot
    @SD3Dot 3 роки тому +29

    It was the single most powerful thing that happened it that series.

  • @xenofett7008
    @xenofett7008 3 роки тому +16

    I got to talk to Julie about this very subject because I was upset and refused to watch anymore Dexter after she left. Very sweet person and decent actress.

    • @ashishstanley
      @ashishstanley 3 роки тому

      Omg! What did she say? I'm devastated after watching that scene recently.

    • @xenofett7008
      @xenofett7008 3 роки тому

      @@ashishstanley She basically said she was very upset about it too and loved her character.
      I stopped watching Dexter after they took her out.

    • @tatum2739
      @tatum2739 3 роки тому +2

      @@xenofett7008 Honestly good call. Dexter was awful after season 4. This new season should be good though since it has the original writer

  • @sonsudoku1511
    @sonsudoku1511 3 роки тому +6

    The most sadest thing is not her death but the way she was killed...

  • @Humanipathic
    @Humanipathic 2 роки тому +8

    I'm always horrified and intrigued at the thought of that scene w/her and Trinity, which can have more effect not seeing it but what was said and him doing it, her reactions and Harrison there. The fear for her life and her son's life, not knowing he won't kill him for she knows. We got a glimpse even more in recent new episode. Wonder if we see more.

  • @darthdurf9611
    @darthdurf9611 3 роки тому +3

    I went to high school with her, Franklin Regional High School.....she was super sweet and curious, even when she had acting jobs in school, never had an ego....she was great in dexter

  • @avdad2000
    @avdad2000 3 роки тому +6

    For me, the single saddest moment of any show I’ve ever watched…

  • @noblecyborg-savage
    @noblecyborg-savage 3 роки тому +11

    I'm not speechless very often watching a show but I was shocked when Rita got killed

  • @bhbluebird
    @bhbluebird 2 роки тому +5

    There is always a haunting loveliness to any character she plays. I love her in Angel and Dexter -- such a cruel ending to her character, but it fit in with the dark narrative of the series.

  • @bwcarter921
    @bwcarter921 2 роки тому +3

    So glad they brought Darla back on "Angel." She rocked!

  • @jdzspace33
    @jdzspace33 3 роки тому +7

    I wonder if she takes any solace in the fact that for a lot of people her character dying was the end of the show. Probably not because it doesn't really change her situation, but I have to imagine that the showrunners probably regret killing her off at some point. All so he could have a new girlfriend each season. Have to believe they could have done better with the family dynamic. Owell

  • @qs4177
    @qs4177 2 роки тому +2

    She is so good I wish she would have had her own series.

  • @westelkhunts1974
    @westelkhunts1974 2 роки тому +2

    She just is so beautiful! I literally stopped watching when she died!
    So so so innocently beautiful! Love it!

  • @vicjames3256
    @vicjames3256 3 роки тому +5

    What a great moment though. Very moving. Esp. since she had a huge impact on the show. It's one of the top 5/10 WTF moments in TV history.
    That's legend status.

  • @kylejoe5477
    @kylejoe5477 2 роки тому +4

    They made a mistake killing her off. Dexter needed Rita. She was the humanity he needed. The show got worse after this...

  • @Gigibaby88
    @Gigibaby88 3 роки тому +21

    Aww this broke my heart 🥺 I remember when I watched that episode & it got to her death, I was literally thinking it wasn't real and must be Dexter hallucinating or something. I just couldn't wrap my head around them actually killing off Rita. I would actually be very interested in their reasons for doing so because I personally thought it was a terrible decision & one of the reasons why the quality of the show started going downhill after S4. Also I couldn't stand ANY of his other love interests, they all just felt wrong to me. RiP Rita 😢

  • @ilyCarrott
    @ilyCarrott 3 роки тому +4

    when she died on the show i thought it was a dream, so i wasnt worried, then i realized it wasnt and started crying myself

  • @winter_s_44
    @winter_s_44 Рік тому +2

    One of the few shows where you felt each important death was actually for the storyline and not just because there were behind the scenes issues with the actors, or they were just trying to revive the show. They were extremely purposeful, and so I never had an issue accepting them. As sad as I was to see important characters go, because the show and writing was so good, I was even MORE excited to see what came next. For me, that completely overshadowed the loss.

  • @roymccoy835
    @roymccoy835 3 роки тому +71

    “All men? Oh thank god there were was a woman.” Wtf kind of question/statement are those?

    • @lanemeyer77
      @lanemeyer77 3 роки тому +5

      Shut up bro

    • @OhHeBustin
      @OhHeBustin 3 роки тому +1

      @@lanemeyer77 😮

    • @roymccoy835
      @roymccoy835 3 роки тому +14

      @@lanemeyer77 found the incel

    • @terrasikorski9565
      @terrasikorski9565 3 роки тому +12

      It’s usually easier for women to talk to another women and feel more comfortable and at ease

    • @McCallaFilms
      @McCallaFilms 3 роки тому +10

      Yeah! That was really weird that he threw Identity Politics in there for no reason... So sad.

  • @mrscary3105
    @mrscary3105 3 роки тому +3

    I loved her character, it was very sad.

  • @gabrielg.9140
    @gabrielg.9140 10 днів тому

    Re watching Dexter as the spinoffs are announced and I can say I was so heartbroken when they killed her off. Bastards! 😢

  • @jtbrownjtbrown
    @jtbrownjtbrown 2 роки тому +1

    Seeing her killed off Dexter really broke my heart. I can't even watch it when I rewatch the shows.

  • @fatphillmargera
    @fatphillmargera Рік тому +1

    She made the show what it was in a lot of ways and that season (and that episode) was the last drop of greatness being squeezed out of the show.

  • @topofdastands
    @topofdastands 3 роки тому +8

    To this day I hate John Lithgo for killing her!

  • @bojnebojnebojne
    @bojnebojnebojne 2 місяці тому

    Yeah, the scene where Rita is killed off really crushed me even though i saw it coming from how the trinity arc played out, the visual of it actually broke me, i loved her character.

  • @Ese.vato100
    @Ese.vato100 Місяць тому

    Rita’s death and Glenn’s death in TWD are the 2 saddest deaths I’ve seen on TV😭😭

  • @michaelmartin8337
    @michaelmartin8337 Рік тому +2

    I cried when she was killed on Dexter😭😭

  • @RANCE22808
    @RANCE22808 3 роки тому +4

    I know the conditions of covid are unfortunate but I miss when Michael actually had guests over his house.

  • @paran315
    @paran315 2 дні тому

    I remember being very upset watching that last scene.
    I was relieved when she was sent away by Dexter, thinking 'oh Rita and kids are safe, I can watch the rest of the season in peace now'
    Then the phone ringing confused me a bit and when Dexter heard the crying Harrison, I felt physically ill. Like nauseous.
    I had to splash my face and walk around a bit before proceeding to the next season😢

  • @misstinytrader88
    @misstinytrader88 2 роки тому +2

    I was sooo pissed when they killed her off! She played off of Dex so well!

  • @alexandramarberry1023
    @alexandramarberry1023 Рік тому +1

    It would've been cool if they had kept her on as one of Dexter's visions to balance out Harry. Like Harry was the devil over one shoulder telling Dexter that he needed to be alone and he needed to kill in his ritualistic way, and then Rita was the angel over his other shoulder telling him that he is a good person and that he can be better.

  • @TheFearCreepypasta
    @TheFearCreepypasta 3 роки тому +17

    Killing off rita nearly ruined the show, it took away such an important part of the dynamic.

  • @MeetMrMayhem88
    @MeetMrMayhem88 2 роки тому +2

    Well, I guess one upside is that Rita's death has pretty much laid most of the groundwork and plot for the new Dexter season, bc without Rita dying, we wouldn't now have this entire story of Harrison's emerging dark passenger from being born in blood.

  • @indyj16
    @indyj16 3 роки тому +1

    Benz was always one of my favorite actors. I was mad when her character was killed, but not surprised given the nature of the show. I couldn’t watch it for a while after that.

  • @Itz_KLONOPIN
    @Itz_KLONOPIN 2 роки тому

    One of my all time favorite actors interviewing one of my other all time favs 😄

  • @JnEricsonx
    @JnEricsonx 3 роки тому +2

    I was happy to meet her back around 2010 or so. I got to comment that in 2008, she starred in probably the 3 bloodiest movies of that year. Rambo 4, Saw 5 I think, and Punisher War Zone.

  • @DarylMCDeath
    @DarylMCDeath 2 роки тому +2

    The most unnessesary death in Hollywood History...

  • @scratchnmix9511
    @scratchnmix9511 3 місяці тому

    She was probably one of my favorite characters on the show. I fell in love with her. I understand why they had to kill her but at the same time I wish they found a different way because even when I'm rewatching the show; I'm hoping it's not going to happen and it literally feels like I have a knot in my stomach every time I know it's coming. She was probably one of the best actors by far.

  • @srhatfield
    @srhatfield 2 роки тому +2

    Oh wow, I thought she left Dexter to pursue the No Ordinary Family series. I'm sorry that she had to go through that, she's such an amazing actress!

  • @sephirothx7x514
    @sephirothx7x514 Рік тому

    Julie Benz is legit incredible. She is awesome in everything she does and she seems to be such a nice person too. Really hope she gets more good roles.

  • @lifeexperiencepodcast
    @lifeexperiencepodcast 3 роки тому +6

    she’s literally an Angel on earth

  • @mrstifler8987
    @mrstifler8987 Місяць тому

    The season finale was literally upsetting. The first episode of the next season where Dexter is talking to the kids is soo damn sad.

  • @endorbr
    @endorbr 3 роки тому +19

    Killing Rita was the point where the show took a downturn. It only got worse with each season after that.

    • @QuackTape21
      @QuackTape21 3 роки тому +2

      Thats when Clyde Phillips, the Showrunner left. Then the lead writer left the next season. That's more than likely why

    • @wthwasthat8884
      @wthwasthat8884 3 роки тому +3

      @@QuackTape21 The lead writer left with Phillips. The new showrunner was a guy from 24. No wonder it became such predictable action nonsense.

    • @alphanerd7221
      @alphanerd7221 2 роки тому

      5 was better than 4, but after the wake of Rita was gone so was anything interesting about the show.

    • @joshrandall5297
      @joshrandall5297 2 роки тому

      I disagree. Yvonne Strahovski is easy to look at.

    • @endorbr
      @endorbr 2 роки тому

      @@joshrandall5297 I’m a fan of Yvonne going all the way back to Chuck. But even she couldn’t make the writing in the last couple seasons into something palatable.

  • @CevaQ
    @CevaQ 3 роки тому +5

    48 and she is probably even more beautiful now than when she was in her early 30s. Fine wine.

  • @everyoneash
    @everyoneash 3 роки тому +5

    I'm sorry it was so tough for her but that ending with the bathtub and the trinity killer getting one last laugh...it was dexter's highest moment. Unfortunately it was also all downhill for dexter after.

  • @bloodsling
    @bloodsling 23 дні тому

    her episode on Supernatural..amazing..Dean was %100 smitten,and rightly so.

  • @slantdsugco
    @slantdsugco 10 днів тому

    I swear… she is the most beautiful human.

  • @AllAboutNat
    @AllAboutNat 3 місяці тому

    Only just seen the exit, I was so shocked, cried for hours! I absolutely loved Rita, I wanted her in it forever. It's not the same without her.

  • @scottlawson1800
    @scottlawson1800 2 дні тому

    With hindsight, what she knows now, is that the show peaked on her last episode. That was Dexter at its peak, regardless of whichever season is your favourite (and I loved all of them), the general consensus is that the 4th was the best. (I know she came back for another good-bye prequel episode I think in the 5th, but season 1-4 were the Rita years, and arguably the best)

  • @mitchfortson8413
    @mitchfortson8413 2 роки тому +1

    We miss you Rita,you where the best ,I have anxiety ad well it sucks

  • @Rooiku
    @Rooiku 2 роки тому +3

    I wish the interviewer would not interupt her so often, just let her talk man.

  • @KeldonA
    @KeldonA 4 місяці тому

    First time a character death hit hard!
    The show would never have worked as well without Rita. Her acting was exceptional and helped build up Dexter's character x100.

  • @bobchurch215
    @bobchurch215 3 роки тому +1

    That was so perfect the way they did that. It was such a shock for all viewers and fans, and Dexter too. Came out of nowhere. The biggest emotional shock in a TV show that I can remember since the end of Mash, with Hawkeye in therap talking about the chicken on the bus. I never saw Dexter when it first aired, just binge watched the whole series over a very few days. They could have actually ended the series on that note, if you think about it, with Dexter appearing to have found some since of humanness, just to lose it all and seeing the futility of even trying after that and becoming even a more sick killer.

  • @QQ-nd1gn
    @QQ-nd1gn 21 день тому +1

    She has (and continues to) aged like the finest of wines.

  • @imthegrk
    @imthegrk 2 роки тому +1

    I read that it was in her contract that she would not get plastic surgery while on the show. Apparently she had work done and the producers noticed. Then she was canned.

  • @dcworld4349
    @dcworld4349 4 роки тому +15

    The way John Lithgow told the story during the finale special taping I thought she wanted to leave so they decided to give her exit the ultimate meaning. Yes her death certainly did help cement the first 4 seasons of the show, but it also never recovered until Deb found out about Dexter and then again ended that season on a highnote when Deb chooses Dexter, before sadly going off the rails.
    Since she wanted to stay then it would have been more interesting to give Lumens arc to Rita, having Trinity break her but not kill her. Making it plausible given her prior history that she would go down a dark path, with Dexter. Eventually leading to her clawing her way out of the darkness and do the one thing Dexter would never suspect, be the one that catches him.
    The natural conclusion of the story was the ending of the entire series being Dexter reliving every moment of his life as he is being executed. The idea that it wasn't some super cop or another big bad killer being the one who stops him but instead the woman who started the series being afraid of even touching him, being so close that she could fool his own hyper survival instinct when it came to his own freedoms always felt right to me.

    • @dcworld4349
      @dcworld4349 4 роки тому

      @Hassan Rehman thank you :)

    • @dcworld4349
      @dcworld4349 4 роки тому +1

      @@murtazashakir9048 thanks ;)

    • @NicodemusT
      @NicodemusT 3 роки тому +1

      It’s a show. Please tell me you bother to be this descriptive about actual people you actually see.

    • @dcworld4349
      @dcworld4349 3 роки тому +2

      @@NicodemusT Not sure what you mean? I don't know about you but I think it would be very rude of me if someone told me about their life and I started adding suggestions to how their own life's narrative should have played out

    • @OhHeBustin
      @OhHeBustin 3 роки тому

      @@NicodemusT it's fun to analyze, that's all I'm gonna say

  • @brotherchrisrco1125
    @brotherchrisrco1125 2 роки тому +1

    What Grace she had during her fireing during the meeting with the Producers. I wish I could have such Grace...

  • @kellymcnaull5377
    @kellymcnaull5377 Місяць тому

    I am still not over her character’s death. I don’t know if I’ll ever be over her character’s death.

  • @susanluce8242
    @susanluce8242 3 роки тому +8

    I love Julie so much! I was gasp 😦 when they killed her off of Dexter, it was one of the most shocking deaths on a show I love. I screamed NOOOO when I watched it, my hubby was in another room and came running thinking something terrible had happened in our real lives 🙃 such great writing, but so sad to lose Rita.

    • @Nohcal
      @Nohcal 2 роки тому

      I screamed WTF. And my wife was like,what happen? I just could not wrap my mind around what happen. I really was upset about this.

  • @taslimajaby933
    @taslimajaby933 3 роки тому +2

    I cried too

  • @gunm808
    @gunm808 3 роки тому +1

    That was probably the best season of Dexter but her death scene was devastating and really hard to watch. My then spouse and I were both disturbed by it. The character went through a lot and to not only be killed off, but in the way they did it felt pretty gross tbh.

  • @doublebogey6273
    @doublebogey6273 26 днів тому

    Rita's death was heartbreaking as a viewer. Although i missed her greatly, the impact it had was worth the move

  • @ericvonkaenel3643
    @ericvonkaenel3643 3 роки тому +1

    Saddest episode ever.