60 Secs or She Dies! EXPLAINED | Derek Gaunt

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  • @TEMPLERTV
    @TEMPLERTV Рік тому +8

    Every time I see this video I realize and understand a little more. Derek is clearly a master of his craft.

  • @spencerpalmer2918
    @spencerpalmer2918 Рік тому +22

    My adrenaline went up during that exercise, and I only watched the video. Well done, all!

  • @lorenzocole8166
    @lorenzocole8166 Рік тому +6

    Perfect timing. I just had my quarterly CIT class. They did this scenario. I have been listening to this channel and on my second listen to Chris's book. I was the fifth student to go. I got my instructor to actually toss me his car key. The class was shocked, as was I. Thanks, Blackwater.

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  Рік тому

      That's amazing! We love hearing about your success using the Black Swan Method. It's also helpful for others please feel free to keep sharing your experiences.

  • @GlitterGoose
    @GlitterGoose Рік тому +17

    "Can you help me move the needle?"
    "Yeah, you can bring me a car"
    I laughed too hard at this

  • @d.dimitrov8972
    @d.dimitrov8972 Рік тому +2

    I tried to be a co-negotiator with all three of them, but the tonality really affects your state of mind. It did however help, in retrospect, to see what I missed and could've added. Also it added more questions on the use of the techniques and I'm definitely rewatching the videos and rereading the book a couple of times. Really just great stuff

  • @SmokeOnTheWater108
    @SmokeOnTheWater108 Рік тому +5

    I love the 60 Seconds or She Dies segments. All I think about is how I would fare while in the same position

  • @bud700
    @bud700 Рік тому +1

    Good job! I've enjoyed it every minute. Felt all kind of emotions and all of it only from the tonality of the voice. Love it. A few last minutes was very interesting. I'm looking forward hearing more of these examples, especially related to cutting price. Thanks a lot for sharing this video with the world!❤

  • @Wisi2018
    @Wisi2018 Рік тому +1

    How can I have this kind of mock negotiation? It seems a very fun roleplay to have

  • @kristiec35
    @kristiec35 Рік тому +1

    Tim ROSS UP FRONT !!!! Upsetting The Black Swan !!! 😊😅

  • @876-benyaminisrael9
    @876-benyaminisrael9 Рік тому +1

    Cody, you did a very good job. I loved your what questions. Remember no Why questions 😊

  • @Sanaki_Ahir
    @Sanaki_Ahir Рік тому

    Is it impossible for negotiation mastery group members to take the role of negotiatior when role playing

  • @tejasdesai9687
    @tejasdesai9687 Рік тому +2

    What kind of car would you like? Are you a negotiator or a car salesman? Lo

  • @erikweisz6647
    @erikweisz6647 Рік тому +1

    I've watch this a couple times & I finally have a major insight but I can use for my own business. Stop asking irrelevant or out of context questions just to try and build rapport. It seems to actually have the opposite effect.
    I'm not saying I could do any better. However when the guy said where are you going to go I almost fell off my chair.
    My sarcastic answer is.... I'm going to go to Disneyland. LOL
    Thank God that these guys aren't actual police 🚨 negotiators.

  • @KeithNashRealtor
    @KeithNashRealtor Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @jaredbrosn1780
    @jaredbrosn1780 Рік тому +3

    This guy is good

  • @EwDirt
    @EwDirt Рік тому +5

    Such a wealth of knowledge, for free?!

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  Рік тому +3

      Oh yeah! I'm really going to blow your mind now. Check out our site www.blackswanltd.com. We have tons of free content on there as well. Thank you so much for watching.

  • @martinkirilov4785
    @martinkirilov4785 Рік тому +2

    Watching this for free is carzy...

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  Рік тому +1

      I know right! We are giving you guys behind the scene content and people still complain. Jeez...

  • @freedesigners7680
    @freedesigners7680 11 місяців тому

    During the assertive voice, the only thing I felt like doing was threatening him, in an assertive way, then i realized i could label the threat to sound less assertive 😊

  • @Zmacfee
    @Zmacfee Рік тому +4

    Tim Ross up front🙌🏼

  • @karmen11.12
    @karmen11.12 2 місяці тому

    That's why we shouldn't yell at kids, specially kids, as their psyche is fragile and yelling will either freeze them or just provoke a fight or flight response. I also had a thought saying I understand you're upset, but if it doesn't matter what kind I can get you a Smart that is park right out there, from one of my colleagues, but if you need a bigger car it wouldn't help either of us if you shot that hostage. Would you agree? - wonder if that would help

  • @danishbencomo4861
    @danishbencomo4861 Рік тому

    Awesome topics

  • @phanikedhara1310
    @phanikedhara1310 Рік тому +9

    Would you be opposed to demonstrate this exercise between Chris and Derek ?

    • @thekatyperrymemechannel2122
      @thekatyperrymemechannel2122 Рік тому +4

      How am I supposed to do that?

    • @phanikedhara1310
      @phanikedhara1310 Рік тому +3

      @@thekatyperrymemechannel2122 You better figure it out. Who you think you are. How you're supposed to do that you better figure something out.

    • @eugenetswong
      @eugenetswong Рік тому +2

      @@thekatyperrymemechannel2122 Get Chris Voss on the phone. Tell him to make the video. Do it now, or I will remove my up vote for your comment!! 😀

    • @eugenetswong
      @eugenetswong Рік тому +3

      @@phanikedhara1310 You seem to have a lot to live for.

    • @thekatyperrymemechannel2122
      @thekatyperrymemechannel2122 Рік тому +1

      I'm just not sure we can do it that quickly

  • @tejasdesai9687
    @tejasdesai9687 7 місяців тому

    Robber : I need a car in 60 secs or she dies.
    Cop : So you're not going to surrender is that correct?
    Robber : That's right. I'm not.
    * I think this is a better form of demonstrating understanding*
    Sometimes there just isn't a deal.

  • @nadavnutkis8237
    @nadavnutkis8237 Рік тому

    Mirroring

  • @kiwilander
    @kiwilander 2 місяці тому

    love the sarcasm lol

  • @miselokulula6697
    @miselokulula6697 Рік тому

    High value trades!!!😊😊

  • @tsmith6985
    @tsmith6985 Рік тому +2

    Derek is INTENSE lol

  • @mahapeyuw5946
    @mahapeyuw5946 Рік тому

    I only thought of proof of life in the 2nd one.

  • @PedroPeyolo
    @PedroPeyolo Рік тому

    What robber is dumb enough to not bring their own wheels/think they wouldn't put a tracking device on said vehicle?

  • @876-benyaminisrael9
    @876-benyaminisrael9 Рік тому

    This was amazing 🤩

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  Рік тому

      Thank you so much for watching! Please Like and Share. For more free content and live events visit our site www.blackswanltd.com. Thank you!

  • @alice5515
    @alice5515 10 днів тому

    Just here as the mum of a teenager….

  • @williamjktkd
    @williamjktkd Рік тому +2

    I would love to do the 60 second challenge.

    • @eugenetswong
      @eugenetswong Рік тому

      I met somebody in a comment section of the video, who wanted to practise. We ended meeting once per week, or just chatting via messenger.
      Would there be any problems with you joining our group?

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  Рік тому

      Now you are talking my language. Visit our website www.blackswanltd.com to find out dates and locations of our LIVE events. Once you are signed up let us know. Thanks for watching!

  • @jonathanarce1147
    @jonathanarce1147 5 місяців тому

    Is that Pastor Tim Ross? 😂

  • @NetworkPIMP
    @NetworkPIMP Рік тому +4

    Initial response, in slow quiet voice: "yeah, you're probably not getting a car, and if you do kill her, you're definitely not getting a car... "

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  Рік тому

      It sounds like our training would be a great fit for you. Go to the quiz on our website to discover which kind is right for you: bit.ly/3N9MhWc

  • @williamjktkd
    @williamjktkd Рік тому +3

    if you rob a bank and get caught, you're not getting out of it, its your choice whether you want to do 5 years in prison or spend the rest of your life. You pick, make it easier for me so I make it easier for you.

    • @alexandrevaliquette1941
      @alexandrevaliquette1941 Рік тому

      I can go live on UA-cam and kill one hostage every 10 minutes because the SWAT don't wanna help me getting out of the bank peacefully.
      C'mon Pussy-William, bring me the SWAT vehicle full of gas in less than 9 minutes or I will get the rest of my life without parole!

    • @williamjktkd
      @williamjktkd Рік тому

      @@alexandrevaliquette1941 after the one hostage that was killed you'd best believe your brain would be filled with lead... If you hurt a hair on One hostage, the deal is over and you signed your death sentence. DIPSHIT....

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  Рік тому

      It sounds like our training would be a great fit for you. Go to the quiz on our website to discover which kind is right for you: bit.ly/3N9MhWc

  • @creadorescompulsivos4370
    @creadorescompulsivos4370 Рік тому +1

    Kidnaper: 60 seconds or she dies!
    Me: 60 seconds or YOU die? Seems like you are in a hurry to die...
    Kidnaper: Are you kiding me? You think I'm joking?
    Me: Never! But... what do you think will happen to you if you Kill her?
    I really want to save everybody... You are included... You know that you have already transgred the law and that, for itself, have consecuences... but you can get them worse if you complicate the situation with every second that is passing by... And... if you kill her... you will be killing yourself... Is that what you want?... So, you have 30 seconds to die if you continue with this plan... really want to go ahead? I'm ready...

    • @pastorraul9034
      @pastorraul9034 Рік тому

      What happens if the person says yes to "I WANT TO DIE?"

    • @creadorescompulsivos4370
      @creadorescompulsivos4370 Рік тому

      @@pastorraul9034 I would answer: Me: You have 60 seconds to rethink your decision. Killing her will not solve anything, and it will only make the situation worse for both of us. Think about the consequences of your actions. You can still make the right choice and turn yourself in. I'm willing to help you, but you need to make the first step.
      Kidnapper: Are you kidding me? You think I'm joking?
      Me: I'm not taking this lightly, and neither should you. What do you think will happen if you kill her? You will be caught, and you will face severe consequences. But if you surrender now, you may have a chance for a better outcome.
      Kidnapper: Yes, I'm going to kill her! What are you going to do now?
      Me: Before you do anything, let's talk. Why did you rob the bank? Is there something else going on in your life that led you to this situation? I want to understand and help you, but I need you to cooperate.
      Kidnapper: I don't want to talk.
      Me: Please, just give me a chance to help you. Killing her won't solve anything, and it will only make things worse. You don't have to do this.

  • @rachaelheelan8121
    @rachaelheelan8121 2 місяці тому

    🥸🎀❤️🦋🏆⭐️

  • @williamjktkd
    @williamjktkd Рік тому +1

    these people are horrible... smh do they come to your class without watching any of your videos?

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  Рік тому +8

      "Everyone has a plan until they get hit in the face." - (Mike Tyson) Thanks for watching please Like and Share.

  • @williamjktkd
    @williamjktkd Рік тому

    Why not say, I can get you a car, the SWAT team will blow out the windows the moment you get inside it.

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  Рік тому

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