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  • @tru2608
    @tru2608 Рік тому +59

    If u injure that narc just right. They won’t be coming back around trying to play any new games on u. That hate will turn into fear and make them respect u. That narc will be gone and will stay gone.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  Рік тому +10

      💯💯💯

    • @11GodsGirl11
      @11GodsGirl11 Рік тому +4

      That's what I'm finding...19 months out and no contact!

    • @AmandaLove-uo2du
      @AmandaLove-uo2du 10 місяців тому +2

      I hope so because I discarded him twice. And last time he didn't hoover me. In fact he claimed to have delete his Facebook because of his fear of me exposing him.😂

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes9507 Рік тому +16

    I caught him cheating and he went into a rage on me . He thought I’ll cool off then tried reaching back out- I rejected the Hoover I left that and never looked back. Snatched all power grids . 😂. Now I speak with my silence through my Absence. ..

  • @chilo597
    @chilo597 11 місяців тому +1

    When i found out. In my hurting anger he filmed me. "How crazy i am" its CRAZY!

  • @nopereradicator
    @nopereradicator Рік тому +28

    This is gonna sound weird but one of the most freeing days of my life was the day I decided to match his energy and stop walking on eggshells because I realized no matter what I did or said or didn’t do or didn’t say he was offended.

  • @deb2319
    @deb2319 Рік тому +35

    The best way to heal a trauma is to 'stop' doing what you have always done. Change focus and never look back to any narc. They cannot will not help their arrested development. Love this channel your humour and facts make so much sense. Thank You! 🎉

  • @realjones2401
    @realjones2401 Рік тому +11

    They try and make you feel guilty about everything like they are perfectly fine mentally.

  • @Peacealways247
    @Peacealways247 Рік тому +9

    NO is an injury! They don't want to be wrong. They really don't know how to have a conversation periodt! They practically turn into a child when you correct them OR they will show rage. You're absolutely correct. Yea, they don't need to change. Its like they only like the "praise or affirmation" conversation...they want to be worshipped.

  • @Glitter504
    @Glitter504 Рік тому +7

    He used to tell me are you also working for the FBI under cover?? I recorded him too ! He was like you don’t love me I said I need proof you’re as crazy as I see 😂Cause I checked him always 😂and when I knew that half legged duck was cheating again I dumped him 😂and now have met an amazing man . We just got back from Spain ❤

  • @viewerwatching5712
    @viewerwatching5712 Рік тому +15

    I was married for 13 years and together for 20 with my ex narc. This year in March I discovered that she had been texting another man. She gaslit me and said they were just friends and that she would stop. The next month in April she was supposedly going out with her girlfriends to dinner. Shen she came home i found a drive thru restaurant receipt in her car. I confronted her with it and asked did they all group up in one car and go through the the drive through and this was the dinner that her and her girlfriends had that night. The level of rage she displayed was amazing. She hollered and screamed and stated she wanted a divorce. We divorced in June of this year. I didn't know i was with a Narc until i left her alone. I have never had so kuch peace and joy in my life since she blessed me with that divorce. God is good, I went NO contact immediately after moving out and haven't looked back.

    • @myeshahollie1177
      @myeshahollie1177 Рік тому +2

      I wish I could go no contact, but we have children together, which makes it hard

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 Рік тому +4

      @@myeshahollie1177 I understand, then you have to grey rock method, which is no emotions and limited response.

  • @LovingOnZ
    @LovingOnZ Рік тому +10

    I realized I was dealing with a victimhood narcissist! I recorded him the last three times! Praise God for my gift of vision (A demonic dream), discernment and your channel.

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust Рік тому +10

    I told the narc you will never be perfect and your a sinner .I said it thoughout the whole situationship I talked back to him and made my voice known and I told him he is a pathological liar 🤥all the time I pointed out his mistakes all the time he didn't like it.

  • @Samantha-cp1qm
    @Samantha-cp1qm Рік тому +5

    Took the wind out their sails and snatched the generator. Yeah! That part.😆😆

  • @PrettyEmpowering
    @PrettyEmpowering Рік тому +11

    I kinda cracked up when you said masses of people are realizing they are dealing with a narcissist, because I think a lot of narcissists are getting narc injuries and looking up why they feel this bad and thinking that other people are narcissists. I know one and early on they were such a victim and I was consoling them constantly because their bf at the time was narcissist. I do believe he was one. But later when the discard came I discovered SHE was a narcissist too. She started being abusive and I had to grey rock to protect myself from her. I tried to compromise, tried to resolve things it was always met with more upset, insults and storming off. I realized she just doesn’t want to solve things. She wants the chaos and nonsense and non closure like you recently talked about. But the laughable part is she thinks IM the narcissist. And I’m selfish. And my grey rocking to protect myself she probably would think of it as the narcissistic using the silent treatment as a form of abuse, when that’s what she did with me. I never gave a full silent treatment I just avoided talking to her as much as possible. So I say all this to say, I think even the narcissists are now aware of narcissism but still not aware enough to recognize it’s them that are narcissists because they see themselves as the victim like a “backwards walking giraffe” would. 🙃🤸🏾‍♀️🚷🔙🦒🙅🏾‍♀️

  • @leniecelewis3415
    @leniecelewis3415 Рік тому +14

    In That Situationship I Was ALWAYS Wrong And When That Bird Found Out That I Was Right From Someone Else He Never Said You Was Right SMH What A Big Jurk 😂

    • @karine717
      @karine717 Рік тому +3

      I went through the same thing in my past situationship. Lies Lies & more Lies

  • @godisamulti-racialhermaphr7560

    Wholeness to boldness, love it!

  • @tmichele8922
    @tmichele8922 Рік тому +3

    So true, I had a video of him snoring and talking, showed him the video the next morning and this joker said “ that ain’t me” I was like damn your in the same pjs from last night. I’m so glad he’s gone. Them constant temper tantrums in a year of a roller coaster ride, I’m glad he’s gone.

  • @MzBrownbaby
    @MzBrownbaby Рік тому +3

    So true these beings are really sick in the head.. i caught my narc red handed, by the next day. He asks what's wrong with you and said " I made reservations for us to go to dinner." ( he was just caught at a resturant with another woman) i laugh now but at the time im like wait what. 😮 he acts as if it never happened. As a lady, I politely walk pass him quietly not disturbing the other lady. He flew over to where I was getting my food to go. I didn't say nothing to her because im like he gonna need somewhere to go. Cause i was sooo done...😂😂

  • @blackbutterfly7107
    @blackbutterfly7107 Рік тому +2

    Whew... this was narc number 1 all day with screaming and hollering. Over the simplest, silliest things too.. once I pointed out that the lead singer of 3 Doors Down had on a hat in the video Here Without You. Narc insisted he didn't and when I showed him the video proving I was correct.. 💥💥💥💥🤬👹🤬👹💥💥💥💥 that demon was BIG mad! They are exhausting and so not worth having interactions with. 🙄😮‍💨

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 Рік тому +21

    Good Afternoon Ms. Telsha. I'm glad you posted today. The narcissist gets a narc injury about everything 😂. They need shock therapy treatment 😂

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  Рік тому +5

      Facts tho Lolol!!💯😂

    • @lagoldie9783
      @lagoldie9783 Рік тому +2

      ​@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationshipsSo True!✅🔥💯

    • @lorraineamaker9416
      @lorraineamaker9416 Рік тому

      All of this right here you said. He called me fat a.. n I called him foghorn rooster legs. He was pissed I said come here boy in my rooster voice. 😂😂😂oh well. I done dropped 60 pounds since, but he still got them legs. Pot belly 🦅 Grateful it’s over. Caught him in all his lies. The side piece can have that lie on rooster legs. GOD Bless both of em.

    • @Ty_ThatGuy
      @Ty_ThatGuy Рік тому +1

      ​@@lorraineamaker9416😂😂😂

    • @lagoldie9783
      @lagoldie9783 Рік тому +3

      @@lorraineamaker9416 That's awful for someone to call you a name like that. Makes me upset, someone need to tap that jaw of his for real. I'm sorry you got violated in such a terrible way. If it were up to me, he'd have to serve jail time, hard time. These narc men need to be locked up in a 5 by 10. I never liked the way men dealt with women . They ain't fit to lead, or be the head of a mule, let alone another human being. It's disgusting. I hope they get messed up real good.

  • @Lolliee0
    @Lolliee0 Рік тому +5

    Yes, thank you this backward walking giraffe told me to just say that I miss him just because he wanted to hear it and I just went silent. Immediately. Then fast forward he ended up at my door. With that said , I hope ppl understand only GOD WILL BE ABLE TO SAVE YOU! Also I don’t wish anyone to have to feel that type of pain or go through it. However it is real. The tears I drop are not from pain ANYMORE. I see what GOD HAS DONE for ME, pure joy💋💪🏾🙏🏾🤗

  • @Cassie-em5kp
    @Cassie-em5kp Рік тому +3

    When I finally woke up I was trying to fact check everything, I remember the narc screaming at me to ( stop digging) he was losing his mind.

  • @jochosen3969
    @jochosen3969 Рік тому +2

    TRUTH TRUTH TRUTH TRUTH TRUTH 💯💯💯💯💯

  • @krich4251
    @krich4251 Рік тому +8

    My ex-narc used to complain to me all the time about his GI problems. I asked him why he didn't try taking a probiotic and he just glared at me and began pouting.

  • @Yvette75
    @Yvette75 Рік тому +8

    I do not talk to the narc or allow my daughter talk to him without him on speaker so there are witnesses.

  • @joshjoseph1394
    @joshjoseph1394 3 місяці тому

    Who wants to be in a relationship when you know these kind of people exist on earth

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 Рік тому +8

    I served up many Narcissistic injuries to my soon ex husband just by being authentic & truthful. He didn't care because he monkey branched to the secretary from his work 😈

  • @sazzy2121
    @sazzy2121 Рік тому +2

    He’s gone! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @debbiegalica2992
    @debbiegalica2992 Рік тому +2

    I gave him so many before I ever knew what it meant.

  • @noturavgbaba
    @noturavgbaba Рік тому +3

    When they start recording… run 🏃🏽‍♂️

  • @the4000daysproject
    @the4000daysproject Рік тому +2

    I didn't know I was dealing with a malignant, sadistic narcissist when he discarded me. I found out that later but when he discarded me and it was the most disrespectful thing someone has ever done to me I was so angry, so upset and the the same time so relieved that I did something that I didn't knew at the time that was a narcissistic injury. For months before my discard I was feeling off, I was praying to stop thinking about him I was crying to something to happen to let me off of the thought of him- he was already in a way triangulating me with a "friend" of his that ai had serious concerns about. When my discard came out of the blue, out of nowhere and it was so hurtful and harmful I sent him a text and I said "Thank you for letting me go, thank you for setting me free of my confusion, I couldn't let you go because of my feelings and needed you to let me go so I could feel free again. In a weird way I still needed you so you can set me free." Holy sh!t I didn't know back then what I've done. I was sincere, it hurt me so much but I also felt relieved it was finally over and I tols him. I didn't know what he was. And what I did without knowing was that not only I inflicted a narcissist injury but I also confirmed that he had full control over mw and with his discard he actually freed me of his control. Have you seen a malignant narcissist to go in a panic mode? I DID! And it wasn't even intentional. To tell him that he just lost his control over me, the full control that he had over me... omg. That person that lied to me and kept me on the hook fo for over 2 years came around like a beaten dog, absolutely pathetic, desperate and in 2 weeks he went over all emotions a human can experience. Begging, blame shifting, love bombing, future faking, swearing, cursing, regrets and promises for a never ending love, confessions....I was in disbelief! Someone that was withholding interaction and affection and discarded me like a piece of trash... in just two weeks showed me everything I needed to know and cleared all my confusions. Despite all the hurt I just shook my head, stayed silent and I thought "Omg this dude is way worst than I even imagined, I just dodged a bullet and he, himself helped me do it!"

  • @ShuaibuArome
    @ShuaibuArome Рік тому

    When i wakeup and knowing that she a narc,i lashed her badly,unmasking her,insulted her of her weak ego and finally exposed her,now i noticed she clear off all her pics on fb and go off ins/gram.
    I dont care what anybody may think,we need to protect innocent people out there by exposing them cos the pain they cause is out of this world,i have never felt that kind of pain in my life when i found out that i was just played after invested money,time,emotion and more.

  • @ashleyrose2578
    @ashleyrose2578 10 місяців тому +1

    I recently just broke up with my narc because he cheated on me. I had videos, snapchats, pictures, Facebook posts and he still denied it was him 😂 He said I’m breaking up with him for no reason because he doesn’t know her. Hilarious that they’re all the same! Demons!

  • @shameekaprice7494
    @shameekaprice7494 Рік тому +5

    You are so right sis

  • @montaejaimez3441
    @montaejaimez3441 Рік тому +1

    The things that tick narcs off are usually very trivial. You could be having a conversation with them and make a general statement. Their low self esteem will make them take that general statement and flip it to be a personal jab against them. Now all of a sudden you’re public enemy #1 with a literal target for revenge on your back. These types of people are on a different level of delusional thinking. When you spot one it’s best to just stay far the hell away from them.

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust Рік тому +4

    Good afternoon I cause a massive a inhury discarding that dusty weirdo and filed for divorce and .I refuse to talk to him he has called my phone and send mail to my address moving in silence that narc won’t hear from me ever again .

  • @kenyattahockenhull5636
    @kenyattahockenhull5636 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for the gems

  • @theemperor772
    @theemperor772 11 місяців тому

    This is so on point and I appreciate how explained the nature of their sensitivity cos it’s so true!

  • @leandraherring1824
    @leandraherring1824 Рік тому +2

    YESS MRS, TELSHA 😂😂 THE NARC HUSBAND I WAS WITH WOULD GET MAD WHEN I WOULD GO BEHIND HIM AND ASK QUESTIONS ABOUT CERTAIN THINGS HE WOULD GET MAD AND STROM THROUGH THE HOUSE MAKING NOISE AT NIGHT WHILE IM TRYING TO SLEEP 😂😂 HUNNY THE LAST TIME WAS THE LAST TIME WITH ME,,, SIR IM DONE DEALING WITH THAT APE HE NEEDS TO BE GOVERNED BY WILD LIFE OF THE MINONS😂😂😂 LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA STRAIGHT FACTS ALL DAY❤❤💯👊

  • @techauntie
    @techauntie Рік тому +1

    Always on point! So true!

  • @kiantimartin815
    @kiantimartin815 Рік тому +3

    Omg when u said they said it was an illusion I said omg that's what they said to me so I wouldn't find out the truth straight up gaslite me

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  Рік тому +3

      We can’t make this stuff up! That clown told me that lol! Smh 🤷🏽‍♀️😅

    • @kiantimartin815
      @kiantimartin815 Рік тому +3

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships yes made me feel crazy and apologize for stuff I didn't do but God he revealed to me that I wasn't he kept on until I confronted them and I haven't heard from them since

  • @BarbNBarb
    @BarbNBarb Рік тому

    Thank you, beautiful! 🦄 It's truly amazing how you still keep it fresh & coming! 💥💯🫂

  • @lolaschultz3825
    @lolaschultz3825 Рік тому

    Oh he would get sooo mad when I had facts I could never win !!!

  • @YourCoach4Growth
    @YourCoach4Growth Рік тому

    When I sent him home, he called and promised on his unalived baby that he was gonna unalive me if it was the last thing he did! Just evil

  • @cttofl8822
    @cttofl8822 Рік тому

    They hate to be corrected, or told they wrong about anything. They will get visibly angry or mad. How could you know more….. 😅😮

  • @telrper
    @telrper Рік тому +1

    This is facts and for a while I felt guilty stating the facts in a calm matter. They'll challenge you on things you've been learning and gaining knowledge on for years then get upset when You're right they are never stood corrected. Lol

  • @Sheik2791
    @Sheik2791 Рік тому

    Lmao that was an illusion 😂 the audacity

  • @11GodsGirl11
    @11GodsGirl11 Рік тому

    I was recently told (by a flying 🐒) that the flashbacks of abuse were just 'bad dreams' and 'false memories' that I believe were real. 🥴

  • @danovangrinnell4479
    @danovangrinnell4479 Рік тому

    The ultimate shame n exposure is the the ultimate injy.😂.

  • @tmichele8922
    @tmichele8922 Рік тому +2

    Facts

  • @juliahaymer
    @juliahaymer Рік тому

    I did the same thing to the narc that he did to me, there was no arguing or anything because it wasn't that severe. The narc didn't call me for over a week after I gave him a dose of his own medicine minus the arguing. Smh

  • @YourCoach4Growth
    @YourCoach4Growth Рік тому

    I got a full blown rage blow up by simply asking ex narc to come to bed out of the game room.
    He blew up and accused me of trying to control him and at midnight there was an argument til 3 am!!! I kept asking, WHAT STARTED THIS ARGUMENT, cuz I waa tired and had to work! Smh

  • @donnettewoods5577
    @donnettewoods5577 7 місяців тому

    Yes , it’s eats them up inside….

  • @JaneenHunter
    @JaneenHunter Рік тому

    Thank you ms Tea for speaking on this they will throw your pass in and be dirty with it and put they own twist on your pass life oh my im so glad God remove this evil spirit out my life 2/years standing strong and bold and healing and Thriving.OH God Thank you ❤❤

  • @christinafisher6169
    @christinafisher6169 Рік тому

    Funny I write suspecting phone calls down. Im definitely more aware of peoples motives for calling me. I wont call someone if my motive is wrong.

  • @rhondaricks1544
    @rhondaricks1544 Рік тому +3

    Lol...."illusion"😂😂😂

  • @julieraymond6870
    @julieraymond6870 Рік тому +1

    When you show them they fake and full of it😊

  • @peggyeastwood3246
    @peggyeastwood3246 Рік тому

    I got a house and my narc stole my meds to miss me up and was jealous of me got real nice place

  • @Teddybare-fp3xr
    @Teddybare-fp3xr Рік тому +1

    Hey t it's a shame how everyone talks about the new supply as if they wasn't. I saw the down grade from me. I truly felt sorry for these women. I'm in the same category. So how can you think you are better. Down grade up grade side grade back grade. You are no better

    • @Teddybare-fp3xr
      @Teddybare-fp3xr Рік тому +1

      I've heard response when they upgrade women are still jealous. They manipulate everyone please don't think you are better

  • @ElisaForHealing
    @ElisaForHealing Рік тому +1

    Hey Ms. Telsha!

    • @Coalesce23
      @Coalesce23 Рік тому +1

      The whole truth! Wowww. It’s amazing how they are carbon copies of each other… sad truth.

  • @randhirchand1966
    @randhirchand1966 Рік тому

    There’s my BEAUTIFUL GODDESS

  • @danovangrinnell4479
    @danovangrinnell4479 Рік тому

    It's time to go.😊

  • @truelies7147
    @truelies7147 Рік тому

    I stopped talking to her completely. It's been 4 mos but I had dealings with someone else and she found out now she's calling and texting and cursing me saying it was my fault we broke up.

  • @alicjathesinger
    @alicjathesinger Рік тому +1

    That was an illusion🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣please tell the whole story🤔🤔🤣☺️☺️☺️💯💯

  • @Mini.M.
    @Mini.M. Рік тому

    Dear Telsha, do you know if the narcissist care about the optik of his new Supply?
    Me and his ex were very natural but pretty. His new Supply that he married got nose surgery, lots of botox and cat eyes. I feel sooo ugly when I look at her.
    But he is texting me 2 month after his married with "are you okay?"
    What does he want from me, when he got the black hair barbie?

  • @MsFlameglow
    @MsFlameglow Рік тому

    Amen sister say it live with one angry ad hell

  • @HoneySz-q5p
    @HoneySz-q5p Рік тому

    You telling them that you already expect them to act a certain way and are not disappointed is an injury. I guess related to shame.
    But then again I didn't know what to expect because that made the mask come off and the gaslighting begin.

  • @latanyadavis8743
    @latanyadavis8743 Рік тому +1

    How many narcissistic people you being with wow

  • @TonyJohnson-z3p
    @TonyJohnson-z3p Рік тому +5

    🪄They didn't get the 20 minutes before l started ⚖️🍀

  • @JamFlava1
    @JamFlava1 Рік тому

    Female narcissist are way worse than male narcissist….. I met a female narcissist and a male narcissist, both were diagnosed one. Female was worse than the male I experienced….High ego, belittle, toxic, verbal abuse, bullying, low self-esteem, very manipulative, jealousy, me me me, the conversation is always about her, if you don’t agree with her, she downgrade you….Male narcissist was more cold, indifferent towards my feelings not toxicity. He was little bit cruel, emotionless, unfeeling, cold person…….Like I said female narcissist are way worse than male narcissist. Woman want more narcissistic supplies than male narcissist, that’s what I figured about it….

  • @metavio7
    @metavio7 Рік тому

    Amen 🙌🙌🙌🩵🩵🩵

  • @BrittneySharde15
    @BrittneySharde15 Рік тому +1

    Have you ever watched a UA-cam video and heard you actually literally life???? 🙏🏿🤎 so grateful for you!!! I am finally FREE!! 2 months on the 19th!!!