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  • @sheilablanton4894
    @sheilablanton4894 Рік тому +43

    Baby let me tell you !!!! that nasty bird cheated on me ..I let him think that I had forgiven him an he put on his best ack..AN THEN I BOUNCED AN NEVER LOOKED BACK I HAD ENOUGH 💯 💯

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 Рік тому +6

      Same thing I did - but he thought he’ll give a few months to cool off . Then he tried reaching back out, I rejected everything changed my number & moved away. 💯🙏🏿

  • @SassyMrsK
    @SassyMrsK Рік тому +22

    “It’s cool when they do it - problem when I do it.” lol

  • @deborahcalhoun621
    @deborahcalhoun621 Рік тому +16

    My divorce was final yesterday. I’m narc free.

  • @meganfrancis4431
    @meganfrancis4431 Рік тому +8

    He hated me with a passion, would not let go!!!!!

  • @tarshaledwards7468
    @tarshaledwards7468 Рік тому +10

    Changed the locks by 9a while he decided to pack his trash…

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes9507 Рік тому +12

    I discarded that 3 yrs ago he didn’t see it coming and I never looked back. He went all the way down back to all those addictions..

  • @leniecelewis3415
    @leniecelewis3415 Рік тому +17

    I Discarded Him First And Even If I Wanted To Go Back I Can't Not After What I Seen Him With Baby I Can't Unsee That Crypt Keeper 😂

  • @gemini2loveme
    @gemini2loveme Рік тому +5

    Being discarded is the best thing to happen! "Okay" "yep" "great" no why...no asking or beggin...when you are over it, you're over it. 🎉😂

  • @michelleglover2045
    @michelleglover2045 Рік тому +23

    He said he knew I was leaving but his actions showed different. Best decision I ever made!!!

  • @estherticharevamusic4221
    @estherticharevamusic4221 Рік тому +18

    It's not that easy to stand your ground if you are being financially abused by the narcissist and you are financially dependent on them, especially if there are young kids involved

    • @northpole4592
      @northpole4592 Рік тому +5

      Exactly. And the isolation. They are not excuses, they are part of the narcs evil... And to leave is very risky. Specially if trusted for long time... I am 48 and I am trapped and depressed. I used to be strong, independent, clever, nice, not broken ! Be careful people...

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 Рік тому +4

      @ Esther..
      There are some questions you must ask yourself. Go deep within, ask yourself is it worth staying in the abuse having your children to witness this?
      ( they know)
      Also, How important is your peace ?
      All I’m saying is the pain is in staying not leaving.
      Once you take the first step, and have faith your Higher POWER will move you to the finish line.
      I left like a thief in the night; he didn’t see it coming. I was completely done. Best decision I could have made.
      Even so, he wasn’t the daddy of the year treating me the way he did. If the really love they’re children, they would never ever abuse their mother.

    • @northpole4592
      @northpole4592 Рік тому

      @@browneyes9507 I do not think she needs confirmation that she should leave.. but solutions. Believe me, we are trying to solve things, but going to live on the street without a plan, and not being able to think properly, and having 0 support, is real, and it is dangerous. When I was 14, 17 y. old I was stronger and in a better situation than now at 48 y.old, a life wasted and brain and health destroyed. Stop thinking about us like if we are not aware of the situation. Gaslighting, depression, isolation, no money in the bank is a thing. I used to think how nice people tolerate bad people hurting them? Until now, now I Know. Please take this point into account when advicing. For the rest, you are 100% right. The sooner the better.
      For example in my case now, I do not know if I should wait until next may so I will have a certification to be able to work where I will live next. I want to leave ASAP, tomorrow! but I do not know how to keep myself safe and not ending alone at the street with 0 Money. I do NOT have friends or family anymore. Suggestions other than "you are idiot" are more than welcome. Thanks

  • @godisamulti-racialhermaphr7560

    Clan of crows, exactly! They do their best, to give you their worst!

  • @heatherwagar5868
    @heatherwagar5868 Рік тому +2

    I discarded him when the breadcrumbing behavior and leaving me on read. I went up in a puff of smoke and never looked back. I wiped the board and blocked and deleted. I treated him with such kindness throughout the entanglement. He has no control over me. I’m glowing now ❤

  • @str8ttruthnochaser311
    @str8ttruthnochaser311 Рік тому +5

    I'm watching the downfall evictions,warrants & debt upon debt. New supply is a total lower. 43 lives with mom 5 kids multiple baby moms...Hotel meet up 😅

  • @marcusmitchell2364
    @marcusmitchell2364 Рік тому +1

    All i can say is… my life is so peaceful without my NARC bm in it… no drama… no arguing… no gaslighting… no manipulation… no lies… I don’t answer her phone calls… and if it’s bout the kids I send a text…

  • @mayday802
    @mayday802 Рік тому +6

    Mine did not want to attach or detach - wanted the whole cake and eat it all while auditioning sources of new supply. The final discard was seriously ugly enough but he contacted me later the same day. Even on his way to moving 900 miles away, blowing up my phone. Found out he shacked up with the new supply weeks later and was still trying to contact me. A year later, triangulating hoover to manipulate the new supply and inflict a wound on me. He displayed it all: the shame, the pain, the rage, the deflection, the deceit, the scamming, the set-ups, the false self, the real self. Lord, I lived through it all and the healing process as enlightening as it is difficult. Happy to testify I am at peace, I am recovering, and Jesus Christ is my Lord, my Savior, and Redeemer. Amen! My former nemisis is not fairing well from what I gather, and that is the final scene to play out and free me from all of it. Hallelujah!

  • @Peacealways247
    @Peacealways247 Рік тому +6

    I've had 2 narcs that actually began to look like demons. Both had huge nostrils too especially the last one. I see one of them here and there now and I have 0 when I see them. No attention at all. They DO NOT SLEEP, they nap and maybe not that. You're right about the face to face. The day of my discard, he was panicking when I called him out. I packed up erthang and he had the gaul to sneak some of my clothes when I wasn't looking to give to me at a later time trying to be mean. These birds do some crazy mess.

  • @tyreewilliams7954
    @tyreewilliams7954 Рік тому +15

    Facts, Ms. Telsha, they do spiral out, 2 years 8 months no contact. When she realized the first year that it's really a wrap. Family members they tried to come thru, nah I'm good..💯

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 Рік тому +3

      Yep I do think fact in my case , I know that after the first year they go into panic mode cuz they thought you should’ve gave in. But when you stay NC it destroys that fake ego 4 ever.
      But, they still have some hope that you come back : they cannot find no peace ( with the new supply) until they hear from you .
      They need to get the last word- do not allow it..keep moving forward in YOUR PEACE ❤️

    • @mjathisbestandteachingskil6980
      @mjathisbestandteachingskil6980 Рік тому

      ​@@browneyes9507Correct keep away have a peaceful mind

  • @leandraherring1824
    @leandraherring1824 Рік тому +18

    TELSHA ❤❤ I DISCARDED THAT NARC WITH A FROG FACE 😂😂.. NO SIIR YOU CANT EVER NEVER HAVE CONTACT WITH ME AGAIN U PLAYED THE GAME AND LOST AND IMMA ALWAYS WINN THE BATTLE ❤❤❤.. THANK YOU QUEEN... TELSHA ❤❤❤

    • @Glitter504
      @Glitter504 Рік тому +1

      Me too !!!! He did not expect it wanted to marry me and was very rich was giving me lotta money too i was taken care of fully but his serial cheating I left that dumb bird!

    • @shirlspark_stardust
      @shirlspark_stardust Рік тому

      Yes same here sister Queen ✊🏻

    • @leandraherring1824
      @leandraherring1824 Рік тому

      @@shirlspark_stardust ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @terasaknox7168
    @terasaknox7168 Рік тому +6

    I did the discarding first! Then they tried to discard I said, oh no! You're already discarded so put your discard back where it came from! They blocked me😂😂😂

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust Рік тому +12

    Good afternoon Ms Tea and survivors Thursday night live stream be lit❤‍🔥
    I thank God I got rid of that misreable backwards walking giraffe with the pockets touching in the back 😂 I love my peace those demonic creatures thought we wouldn't survive we did thank you Jesus🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @aliciabell7631
    @aliciabell7631 Рік тому +10

    When the relationship ended I didn't feel like I lost ANYTHING. YES he snored real loud like it was a deep sleep but it was very light.

  • @JoneleM
    @JoneleM Рік тому +12

    My boyfriend discarded his ex narc/ baby mother & she has terrorized him ever since. Mind you she’s married with a new baby. But that don’t stop her from doing witchcraft/ smearing/ obsessing over him!!! But I rebuke it the name of Jesus❤

  • @Jessecraft1954
    @Jessecraft1954 Рік тому +4

    These things are serial destroyers.

  • @Fullgrace061
    @Fullgrace061 Рік тому

    That’s the truth .

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 Рік тому +25

    Hi Ms. Telsha. Good afternoon. True. I'm glad we all escaped the clutches of these narcissistic vipers. We are blessed! Have a good day!

    • @booginas
      @booginas Рік тому +1

      FACTS 👏🏾💥

  • @travelwithsouthernchick5112
    @travelwithsouthernchick5112 Рік тому +2

    Nothing but truth after 18 years I had to run!!! I was married to a bird!!!!

  • @Peacealways247
    @Peacealways247 Рік тому +2

    They NEVER want you to pull the plug first. Ohh no, its a LOSE for them and they NEVER want to lose. A loss on the board removes them from the MVP nomination.

  • @beverlyjackson5053
    @beverlyjackson5053 Рік тому

    TRUTH!!! It is AMAZING to watch the BIG BAD WOLF get his house blown down by the LITTLE PIGGY🤣 I watched him spiral out of control. People were calling me asking me what was going on...I told them YOU AIN'T SEEN NOTHING YET! Keep watching!!! I shut that power grid DOWN!!!

  • @CarlaMcmillion
    @CarlaMcmillion Рік тому +6

    I discarded that backwards walking giraffe 😂, over a yr. ago, and he", the narcissist demon, keep calling me from different numbers, BLOCKED game on 💯✌🏾,Thanks for Sharing Ms. Telsha🔥❤️

  • @tommybrown187
    @tommybrown187 Рік тому +4

    You don’t know how much these videos keep many of us going. When I’m confused & hurt I watch these. God Bless you.

  • @annettet7941
    @annettet7941 Рік тому +7

    Thanks, this is ringing true. He caused his own suffering. Love you❤

  • @Luckystarlight1
    @Luckystarlight1 Рік тому +3

    Don’t you do it!!!!!!!!!! They hate you for real y’all!!!!

  • @Cali001
    @Cali001 Рік тому +4

    I’m still over here Shoutin’ from last nights LIVE 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽what you do with the residue. Com’ on here somebody. Yassss

  • @liftedenergy3693
    @liftedenergy3693 8 місяців тому

    That is true. They will try to punish you after you discard them.

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 Рік тому +1

    I done been talked about, all kinda things but i just don't worry about it i pray about it. 😊

  • @ravenmeyer3740
    @ravenmeyer3740 Рік тому +2

    Dropped mine four days ago by phone. He was in the discard phase with me. I told him to bring my garage door opener back. Haven’t heard back from him.

  • @RemoniaBrown
    @RemoniaBrown Рік тому +8

    Hi, my 1 year 8 months old baby always dancing to your song after introduction.. I have a big sister narc and my last baby father is one too... My life story is one crazy one, however the holy spirit leads me to your platform to gain strength

    • @northpole4592
      @northpole4592 Рік тому

      For me is 4 people hurting me. Even the neighbor. It is awful.

  • @lyndabennett1ify
    @lyndabennett1ify Рік тому

    Im howling here ' narcs belong in trees, not in your bed' love it ❤

  • @nataliedelvalle4883
    @nataliedelvalle4883 Рік тому +1

    I discarded that bird first, got a restraining order on him. Hes with someone and still trying me. He violated the restraining order so guess who got a warrant. I hope he spends the whole weekend in jail. He used, verbally, mentally and physically abused me for 10 years. He so smart hes stupid. Alcoholic and all. Praying the judge orders him to sign over the house we bought together!🙏

  • @noreensirianni3135
    @noreensirianni3135 Рік тому +1

    Picked up my former who actually was found all alone in his bed. My former husband, narcissistic death certificate was given to me today and after 34 yrs of marriage, four children, survived and survivor benefits are for the number one A+, me not the witches side pieces texts. Thank you, Jesus!

  • @kvessell41
    @kvessell41 Рік тому +3

    Yes indeed 🎯

  • @erock1437
    @erock1437 Рік тому +3

    I rejected the Hoover in the narc’s face not once but twice! She completely came unglued and I smiled in her face as she melted down publicly in the neighborhood as I was washing my car. It was absolutely beautiful and people called her crazy and sided with me!🎃😂

    • @northpole4592
      @northpole4592 Рік тому +1

      That is not a real narc. Really. A real narc will kill you. Be careful.

    • @erock1437
      @erock1437 Рік тому

      @@northpole4592 Your comment is something a narcissist would say, and the undermining too. I was talking about the narcissist Hoover that I rejected.

    • @Nina2598-k5x
      @Nina2598-k5x Рік тому +1

      ​@northpole4592 fr while he think shi cute she could be bpd and ruin his ah😂😂😂

    • @northpole4592
      @northpole4592 Рік тому

      @@Nina2598-k5x Indeed...

  • @deniseendsley8206
    @deniseendsley8206 Рік тому +1

    Or holding your key you gave them forever like what that’s going do I was straight laughing to my rental office lock change please out in the streets with the work uniform on for hours smh

  • @joyceanderson7436
    @joyceanderson7436 Рік тому +2

    The family stare is real😂😂

  • @Luckystarlight1
    @Luckystarlight1 Рік тому +1

    That part Sis😂😂 Y’all she is speaking straight facts!!!! Listen to Telsha !!

  • @redjewel83
    @redjewel83 Рік тому

    Yep. I finally filed for Divorce 2 months ago. He had no clue. He was angry and had the nerve to say I was the sneaky one.

  • @jennifermarconi3884
    @jennifermarconi3884 Рік тому

    So true…. It was ok when he wanted to roll out but when I was done I felt the wrath. So demonic

  • @SharleneRitchieChaneb
    @SharleneRitchieChaneb Рік тому +4

    Hey family and Ms.Telsha have a blessed weekend ❤❤

  • @abigailthompson7265
    @abigailthompson7265 Рік тому

    I rejected the narc hoover after him crying wolf to my aunt about being in a life or death situation. I thank God for disconnecting me for the past 3 years and 4 months, and I will never look back!😂

  • @misstd158
    @misstd158 Рік тому +1

    Lol 😂 just to much but so true 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dawnettawilkins2088
    @dawnettawilkins2088 Рік тому

    Yes I discarded that fool 🐦 that thought he was smart but was really slow 😂😂😂😂1 yr & working on 4 months
    And u right about that snoring I would just lay there listening to him😢

  • @blessedam1210
    @blessedam1210 Рік тому

    They can dish it but can't take it. Any time you expose those rats they go in attack mode. They never expect for you to have the upper hand!

  • @pamwhite3603
    @pamwhite3603 Рік тому

    I did it first and never looked back went total no contact he’s dead to me ❤️

  • @julieaugustin5217
    @julieaugustin5217 19 днів тому

    Preach it sister

  • @Nikki_Nicole_
    @Nikki_Nicole_ Рік тому +3

    So true! Thank you for this video!!

  • @jennifermarconi3884
    @jennifermarconi3884 Рік тому

    Oh ya the rage and verbal assault whewwwww

  • @Ashwhi
    @Ashwhi 9 місяців тому

    We dont discard we cutoff ties 😢🙏🏾💫

  • @Nelly_DG_Nelson
    @Nelly_DG_Nelson Рік тому

    Damn you described to the Sweet Tea 🍵 exactly what I did 3 weeks ago! My Timing was impeccable (Cuffing Season) lol ! I feel amazing, got to meet you in person ma’am !!

  • @Blessingz007
    @Blessingz007 Рік тому

    Lol 😂lol Yessss, they want to see you face 🤣 2 face..I didn’t know it was because they want to read the body language...Interesting....Sis ur too much. I absolutely love these videos. I know it's not funny, but at the same time, it's funny 😂... Honestly, since having this added narc knowledge, I feel sorry for the narcissist, I really do...I am praying 🙏🏿 for the narc. Jesus heals ❤

  • @leontinewilbon9964
    @leontinewilbon9964 Рік тому

    Yesareright

  • @holtzcouture8452
    @holtzcouture8452 Рік тому +1

    Soooo true

  • @melissakelly54
    @melissakelly54 Рік тому

    My daughter loves your like button song😂🎉

  • @sylviaamodeo7090
    @sylviaamodeo7090 Рік тому

    I discarded that trash.!!
    He moved out my house so it looked like he did. Lol

  • @marcusxsara8896
    @marcusxsara8896 Рік тому +2

    BEaUtiful ❣️💖❤️‍🔥💜

  • @cherietheresa
    @cherietheresa Рік тому

    Love you Telsha and tribe 💞💞

  • @moonglow1158
    @moonglow1158 Рік тому

    That narc was not ready for my discard but I did it .. and yeh that narc was texting and begging me to reply .. bc why? That new supply was hammering for that ring on the finger

  • @Marieke-qq9qf
    @Marieke-qq9qf 5 місяців тому

    The sleeping😂😂😮😮

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 Рік тому

    I have helped, i have loved, i have done it all and it damn near broke me down and I got an apology i believed it he said a lot i believed but his actions never lines up with what he says. So i don't know what to say to that until actions are shown nope.

  • @SharleneRitchieChaneb
    @SharleneRitchieChaneb Рік тому

    You said it sis!

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 Рік тому

    How interesting this topic is 😊

  • @mjathisbestandteachingskil6980

    This video was a epic one thou and since I would not give a chance to meet up or talk she ask at least through texting messages can I at least call an have a discussion. Never/ Ghost forevermore. I would not speak nor see her ever again. I'll keep /stay at ghosting. Move on with your life. Go branch someone else.😂😂😂😂😂 Damn Field monkey.😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Blessedone995
    @Blessedone995 Рік тому

    This is so good!!

  • @tshawn1356
    @tshawn1356 Рік тому

    I call it a demonic recharge

  • @pierredavidstrong5255
    @pierredavidstrong5255 Рік тому

    Preach 😎❤️💫

  • @Luckystarlight1
    @Luckystarlight1 Рік тому +1

    🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️on it 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 Рік тому +2

    💯💯💯

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 Рік тому

    Interesting 😊😊

  • @arielallmond4959
    @arielallmond4959 10 місяців тому

    If there was a time where they juggled the new supply getting to know them, while you were the main supply. Does it switch to the new supply being main supply? She might have became the main supply before I discarded the narcissist 2 months ago.

  • @warrenn.165
    @warrenn.165 11 місяців тому

    If I go "no contact permanently" is that considered a discard? Do flying monkeys get rewarded for their dirty work?

  • @cameogutierrez3466
    @cameogutierrez3466 Рік тому

    🎯

  • @montellhorton748
    @montellhorton748 Рік тому

    💔

  • @aradubyah2213
    @aradubyah2213 Рік тому

    Mmmmm tasty and the word was good too!! 😏

  • @deb2319
    @deb2319 Рік тому

    💚💙💜

  • @leontinewilbon9964
    @leontinewilbon9964 Рік тому

    Idid

  • @SharleneRitchieChaneb
    @SharleneRitchieChaneb Рік тому